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Welcome to Unclench Beloved! This is a podcast about learning about life, as I experience it. I talk about ways I'm learning to heal and let go of the things I cannot control. This is an opportunity for us to all learn, grow, and heal.

Ebony QT


    • Feb 26, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 26m AVG DURATION
    • 47 EPISODES
    • 6 SEASONS

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    The Unclench Beloved podcast is an absolute gem that came into my life at just the right time. It has been a transformative journey, guiding me from my inner colonizer to my spiritual awakening and ultimately leading me to find inner peace. Hosted by an incredible woman whose wisdom and insight shine through in every episode, this podcast is truly worth every minute of your time.

    One of the best aspects of The Unclench Beloved podcast is its ability to wake you up and challenge your perspective. The host fearlessly tackles difficult topics and isn't afraid to delve into uncomfortable territory, forcing listeners to confront their own biases and shortcomings. She speaks with a level of authenticity that is both refreshing and inspiring, making it feel like you're having a conversation with a trusted friend who genuinely cares about your growth. Her ability to tell it like it is while still validating your feelings sets this podcast apart from others in the genre.

    Another standout aspect of this podcast is the way it offers guidance for personal growth and self-reflection. Each episode feels like a deep dive into our own psyche, gently encouraging us to examine our beliefs, actions, and thought patterns. The host provides practical tools and advice for navigating life's challenges, offering valuable insights that can be applied to various aspects of our lives. I have found myself taking notes during episodes and revisiting them later when I need a pick-me-up or some guidance.

    While The Unclench Beloved podcast may have many amazing qualities, there are a few aspects that could be improved upon. One such area is the frequency of new episodes. As someone who has quickly fallen in love with this podcast, I eagerly await new content each week. However, there have been periods where episodes were less consistent or even absent altogether. It would be wonderful if the host could maintain a more regular release schedule to keep fans engaged and satisfied.

    In conclusion, I cannot recommend The Unclench Beloved podcast enough. It is a transformative and thought-provoking journey that will challenge you, validate you, and ultimately guide you towards inner peace. The host's authenticity and wisdom make this podcast feel like a priceless gift, and her ability to tackle difficult topics with grace sets it apart from others in the genre. Despite the occasional inconsistency in episode releases, this podcast remains an invaluable resource for personal growth and self-reflection. Give it a listen - you won't be disappointed.



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    Latest episodes from Unclench Beloved

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT REESA TEESA?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2024 18:14


    ❗️SURPRISE❗️ I am back with a new episode and a new season! Ms. Reesa Teesa took social media by storm and I HAD to give my two cents!! What was your interpretation of her story?      Follow me on my Socials for more!  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir  

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT LIFE AFTER MOVING?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2023 18:18


    And we are back with another episode! This week we are getting into the lessons I'm learning with life in my new apartment! Tune into a lesson about healing your worthiness wound and going for what you deserve! Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir  

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT HOW I MOVED?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2023 45:46


    Hello everyone! I am back with another episode! This one is a storytime of where I've been the past month and what's been going on! I have moved into my DREAM dream apartment! If you want a story on self-belief, determination, and taking a huge leap of faith then tune into this new episode!      Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir  IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT THE BRICK ATTACK?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2023 34:33


    DONATE TO RHO'S GOFUNDME HERE: https://gofund.me/b24c580f We are back with a video that is very emotional and triggering, so please proceed with caution.  This video is a safe space for Black Women to feel the feelings we often have to suppress to survive ❤️   Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir  IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir  

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT THE RANDOM MAN IN ATLANTA?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2023 25:56


    And we are BACK WITH A BRAND NEW EPISODE! Can we talk about The random man in Atlanta?! Because this is QUITE the story!! I'm not here to discuss the facts, I am solely here to discuss the OPINIONS! So buckle up!!  If you want the full story or to know what's going on, follow @morganbaiiley on Tiktok! Listen to "Can We Talk About It?!" on the go too!! Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir  

    ASK CINDY: HOW DO I END MY CELIBACY?!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2023 27:39


    GATHER AROUND FOR A NEW EPISODE OF ASK CINDY! Today we are talking about how to end your celibacy and you don't want to miss it! Tune in to see how I answer!   IF YOU WANT TO SUBMIT A QUESTION FOR THE SHOW: submit your questions to the email: AskCindy@thecindynoir.com  QUESTIONS ARE SELECTED FOR THIS SHOW FROM THIS EMAIL ONLY!   Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir  

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT MY NEW SEGMENT: ASKCINDY?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2023 16:48


    Introducing my new advice segment- AskCindy!!! A new advice segment of my show where I will be answering questions from you, the viewers!! Do you have a question you think I could help you out with? Send your questions here: AskCindy@thecindynoir.com ❗️I AM NOT A LICENSED MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL❗️ So depending on the question, if I do not feel equipped to assist you properly, I will redirect you to a seek out the assistance of a mental health professional!   Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir  

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT SEX AND THE CITY SEASON ONE?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2023 59:12


    And we are BACK! This time with a new series for us to talk about! Y'all asked for it, and it's finally here! What are your thoughts on the first season?? TIME STAMPS: 2:35- Pilot episode "Sex And The City" 9:39- Ep.2 "Models and Mortals" 12:45-Ep.3 "Bay of Married Pigs" 16:00-Ep.4 "The Valley of the 20 Somethings"  20:00- Ep.6 "Secret Sex" 27:36-Ep.7 "The Monogamists"  37:54-Ep.8 "Three's A Crowd" 42:52-Ep.9 "The Turtle and The Hare" 44:56-Ep.11 "The Drought" 51.08:-Ep.12 "Oh Come All Ye Faithful" Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir  IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir  

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT BEING DELUSIONAL?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2023 17:25


    I'm sure we've all heard about the power of "being delusional" about the things you're wanting in life. But is "being delusional" that easy to do in practice?! Can We Talk About It?!?!   Check out my show on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPTfa6ZFYpetKmTlSRuI4Bg   Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir  

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT GIVING UP?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2023 15:37


    I am back with a new episode!!! I know it's been awhile, but I am back with more and I'm here to stay!! We are here to talk about a topic that has been hitting close to home for me, giving up. It's something I'm sure a lot of us can relate to. So let's talk about it!! What are your thoughts??

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT THE GIFT OF GIVING?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2023 28:14


    HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE! In honor of the New Year, and coming back from the holiday season, I thought it would be a great idea to talk about the Gift of Giving, with a twist! I enjoyed interviewing  @talktotash4605 , A Celebrity Intuitive Coach Prophet with QUITE the gift!! Enjoy!!! Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir  

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT SKINCARE?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2022 29:30


    HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVERYONE! In honor of the holiday season, I felt like there was no better time than now to share one of the most highly recommended videos yet!! My skincare Regimen!! I also spoke to Dr. Ingleton of Rose Ingleton MD Skincare and got all the juicy details of not just her journey as a Dermatologist, but also how to have a quality skincare regimen! Enjoy!!   Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir  

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT DATING?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2022 25:51


    We're back with another episode!! Let's talk about a podcast cliche: Dating! However over here, we talk about it a little bit differently! I hope you all enjoy this week's episode and tell me what you think!   Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir  

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT GOING HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2022 31:37


    Okay no but can we talk about the REALITY of the holiday season?! As fun as heading home for the holidays is for some, it can be a very triggering and difficult for others. Tune into this week's episode to see how to prepare, cope, and decompress with the experience of being home for the holidays! I hope you enjoy!! If you like this Durag, shop for more and bonnets here: https://ebonieessentials.com/ Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir  

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT CELIBACY?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2022 34:55


    Buckle up b/c this week we are talking about celibacy!! Let's get into why I started, what my experience of it was, and how I feel about it now!! I hope you enjoy!! This Bonnet is available for Preorder now as well as others!! Shop here: https://ebonieessentials.com/   Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT THE "UGLY" FRIEND?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2022 36:23


    We are back with a SPECIAL Episode! I recently had a CRAZY twitter experience and I want yall to hear all about it! Let me know what your thoughts are on this topic! This Bonnet is available for Preorder now as well as others!! Shop here: https://ebonieessentials.com/ Follow me on my Socials for more! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecindynoir IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecindynoir/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecindynoir  

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT HONK FOR JESUS?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2022 56:27


    Welcome to my first movie review!! Honk For Jesus was a movie worth talking about in depth and that's what we're doing today!! What were you thoughts about the movie? What did you take away from it??? TIME STAMPS: 2:20 black jesus 2:50 first lady trinity 5:03 the churches true shallowness 5:57 the scandal is revealed 8:04 the sumpters 10:18 loyal congregation members 11:44 sapphire and aria 12:35 pro black kensington 16:05 wednesday church service 18:32 the baptism 20:39 knuck if you buck 21:30 sex scene 27:59 bathshebas bonnets 28:38 husbands victims 32:05 lee curtis gives his side of story 34:53 convo between lawyers & curtis cpl 36:15 basketball scene 38:39 honk for jesus 41:55 breakfast scene 46:14 khalil 51:21 church opening

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT THE INTRO?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2022 32:04


    Hey y'all!! It's ya girl Cindy Noir and I am BACK!! This time with a new and improved show! I'd like to officially welcome you to "Can We Talk About It" and the "It" being LIFE! Enjoy the pilot episode where I explain how "Cindy Noir" came to be!! 

    Journey To 1000 Orders Ep1: The Intro!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2022 13:57


    Hey Family! I know it's been awhile but I am back with a new journey to embark on! Come along with me as I learn and share the lessons through shipping 1,000 orders to my customers! You don't want to miss it!

    TikTok Explained: The Reality of Life Post-Grad!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2021 19:31


    *There's a glitch in sound quality from 11:46-16:00* This is a long awaited episode of the Show! This week we are talking about life Post-Grad in depth! This is my perspective of life Post-Grad when success is NOT right around the corner. Enjoy!!   If you are interested in my line of Bonnets: https://ebonieessentials.com/ Follow me on my other Social Media Pages: Tiktok: https://t.co/LBw12LKkpS?amp=1 Twitter: https://twitter.com/Ebonie_QT Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ebonie_qt/  

    Update: Do I Still Hate Working a 9-5???

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2021 11:07


    It's time to update you all on an older episode of mine! Last time I discussed a 9-5, I was speaking on how much I hated the experience. So do I still hate it? Tune in to find out!!

    TikTok Explained: Emotional Unavailability in Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2021 19:36


    This episode is in response to a tiktok I did about realizing that I was emotionally unavailable in my healing journey! I think it is important to discuss emotional unavailability in Women b/c it is very common, yet not commonly addressed. Are you a Woman who thinks they may be emotionally unavailable? Tune in to find out!

    Let's Chat: Give Yourself Grace!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2021 18:46


    Hello all!! This week we are discussing the topic of giving yourself grace! With the current way of the world, the act of giving yourself grace and being kind to yourself is in demand now more than ever! I hope you all enjoy this episode and learn to be kinder to you, you deserve that!

    B*tch, I'm Gay?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2021 20:55


    The closet door has been flung wide open! Hear me speak on my coming out story as a late bloomer and how I came to this beautiful conclusion!! TIME MARKS: Childhood: 0:52 Highschool: 1:53 College: 4:18 Celibacy: 6:56 2021: 9:22 The Shift: 12:14 The Revelation: 16:27 Conclusion: 18:23

    STORYTIME: HOW I MOVED TO TEXAS!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2021 19:02


    Hear about the crazy journey that was my move to another state! I hope this story shows you the power of believing in yourself! Enjoy!   Follow me on Social Media! TikTok: Ebonie_QT Twitter: Ebonie_QT Instagram: Ebonie_QT  

    The Return of Unclench Beloved!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2021 5:55


    Hello all!! I am back with a new and improved Show! A lot has happened since you all last heard from me and I am excited to catch you all up and move forward with this show! Stay tuned you all, it's about to be a ride!

    Truth Moment: Where Have I Been? And We're Jumping Scared Again!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2021 15:49


    Hello all! I hope you all have been doing well and staying safe! I am back with some lessons learned and I can't wait to share them with you! Subscribe to our email list to learn more about what EbonieEssentials is all about! https://fierce-artist-623.ck.page/9f44386802

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    I Denounce the "Strong Black Woman" Title!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2020 24:49


    Hello all! I am back, I know it has been a while but I am back with new content, new lessons, and new mindsets I can't wait to share with you all! For now, enjoy!

    Truth is I'm Tired: What they DON'T Tell You About Weight Loss

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2020 27:43


    This is a very candid video about some of the frustrations of weight loss in the midst of my weight loss. I feel like a lot of times, this part of weight loss isn't shown, and I want to display this so people know the real experiences that come with this, or any, journey of self improvement. Enjoy.

    Story Time: My Graduate School Acceptance Story!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2020 33:11


    I was recently accepted into Graduate school and wanted to share my Acceptance story because it is a story of Divine Placement! I hope you all enjoy!  

    An Ode to The Early 20 Somethings: The Do's and Dont's of your Early 20's!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2020 31:08


    Hello all! This episode is dedicated to all the Early 20 somethings trying to figure this thing called life out. I hope you all enjoy it!

    I'm Sick of Being Fat

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2020 21:05


    This episode is a rant session about my truth of being fat. It hasn't been a great experience and I want to detail that here. Hope you enjoy!

    When You Don't Want To Work A 9-5, But You HAVE To: A Vent Session

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2020 29:17


    We are here to discuss the frustrations that come with working a 9-5! It's hard to work a 9-5 when your dream career lies elsewhere, but those bills are due. Let's talk about it! I detail my frustrations with the concept of a 9-5 altogether, as well as how I think you're able to push past that frustration!

    Generational Patterns: 4 Tips on How to Help Break Them

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2020 21:17


    Hey y'all! Today we are getting into generational patterns and talking about what they are, how they can impact your life and how to begin the work to deconstruct them! Hope you enjoy!

    Real, Raw, and Uncut: 3 Ways I Overcame my Depression

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2020 27:17


    Hello all, in lieu of this recent pandemic and how social isolation can take a toll on people's mental health, I would like to offer how I was able to overcome my post-grad depression in the hopes that it can help others. DISCLAIMER: I am not a licensed professional! These are tips that helped me! These tips may not suffice for more severe forms of depression. Don't hesitate to seek other ways to help you such as therapy or antidepressants! Enjoy! Follow me on my socials! Twitter: Ebony_QT IG: Unclenchbeloved_ Apple Podcast and Spotify: Unclench Beloved

    How To: Three Tips to be Single AND Happy!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2020 12:52


    Here is a quick episode on a few things I did to help myself become happy and content with being single! I hope these tips find you well! 

    Story Time: Post-Grad Life!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2020 38:37


    This is the welcome back episode and first episode of season 2! I decided to share my post-grad story and how my life has been since I graduated in Fall 2018. I hope you all enjoy!

    Real, Raw, and Uncut: Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2020 30:47


    This is a very raw and vulnerable episode detailing my recent experiences with dating and trying to put myself out there romantically. I hope it inspires someone out there and lets them know that they are not alone!

    Getting Back To You: Finding Yourself Again

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2020 20:21


    Life will always throw curveballs at you that can result in you getting away from who you are. So here is an episode on how to get back to you and find yourself again!

    Wake Up: They're Just Not That Into You

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2020 26:33


    This episode details the reality of romantic interest not being mutual and how to avoid this situation altogether!

    Love Languages: A Survival Guide

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2019 41:29


    We're getting into everything about the 5 Love Languages and how learning these can help improve your experiences with love and loving those around you! 

    Real, Raw, and Uncut: Self Confidence

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2019 44:43


    We're talking about self confidence and how I got it as well as how to acquire it! 

    Take Time to Find the Collateral Beauty...

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2019 24:30


    This episode speaks on how noticing the Collateral Beauty when life gets hard, can help push you to get you through the tough times. 

    Real, Raw, and Uncut: "She's such a Pick Me"

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2019 26:30


    This episode is an explanation of my content, why I post the content I do, and what I do it for. 

    Real, Raw, and Uncut: Celibacy

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2019 31:24


    This episode details my experience with abstaining, as well as Do's and Don'ts for those considering embarking on this journey!

    Jump Scared: Just Do It

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2019 19:20


    This episode speaks on not letting fear hold you back from reaching your goals and doing what makes you happy!

    They Ask Me What I Do And Who I Do It For...

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2019 6:43


    This episode is an introduction to what this podcast is for, and what is to come! Subscribe to my channel and stay tuned!!

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