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A quote from a book called The Shack says, “Being always transcends appearance-that which only seems to be. Once you begin to know the being behind the very pretty or very ugly face, as determined by your bias, the surface appearances fade away until they simple no longer matter.” That’s what this…

Ayobola Deborah


    • Mar 22, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
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    EP 45: Making Decisions

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2022 28:33


    Making decisions can be tricky, there's not set formula. But, there are some things that could be extremely useful in helping you navigate your way towards making good, healthy decisions. I talk about it. Apologies for any sound interference, I might need a new mixer! Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: thebeingpod@gmail.com Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod Instagram: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod Website: www.ayoboladeborah.com

    EP 44: Disappointment and ENIJM

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2022 64:31


    On the first episode of 2022 and after almost 5 months, our hostess shares with us her thoughts on disappointment. This was inspired by her last Instagram post of 2021. Taking an objective and unusual stance on disappointment, she talks through how it can actually be beneficial if approached and responded to in a different way. She also graciously shares audio from her December show “Eyi Ni Ijosin Mi”. Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: thebeingpod@gmail.com Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod Instagram: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod

    EP 43.5: Checking in and Saying Goodbye?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2021 29:18


    It's been a minute but your fave is back for a quick one! On this episode, our hostess Ayobola Deborah catches us up on the last couple of months seeing as it's been radio silence for a while. Every day hustling, living and breathing and maybe saying goodbye? It's all here! Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: thebeingpod@gmail.com Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod Instagram: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod

    EP 43: On Navigating: Life with Contentment and Fulfilment

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2021 41:05


    Now ya'll know, our hostess don't be chatting her personal romantic business but on this episode.....! On this episode, our hostess gives us a little insight into a certain romantic situation and how reflecting on that journey, led her to the realisation that a life of contentment and fulfilment is the ultimate goal and dream. If you're nosey, you might like this one! Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: thebeingpod@gmail.com Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod Instagram: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod

    EP 42: On Navigating: A Life of Faith with Ben Andoh

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2021 84:45


    This episode features one of our hostess' oldest friends, Ben Andoh. As they catch up on life, they discuss navigating life as a person of faith and what that looks like when dealing with challenges, like maintaining your integrity in the face of difficult circumstances or navigating your way through grief. It's a good one! Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: thebeingpod@gmail.com Facebook: Ayobola Deborah / Ben Andoh / Ahava Experience Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod / @mrbenandoh / @ahavaexperience Instagram: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod / @mrbenandoh / @ahava_experience

    EP 41: On Navigating Purpose in Romantic Relationships with The Cokers

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2021 80:20


    On today's episode of the podcast, our hostess Ayobola Deborah sits down with one of her favourite couples, Olrick and Siobhan Coker. They discuss their journey as a couple and how purpose has helped them navigate their relationship over the last 13 years. Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: thebeingpod@gmail.com Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah / instagram.com/thebeingpod / instagram.com/wearethecokers /instagram.com/2lovecollective GMIX Juice: https://gmixjuice.com

    EP 40: On Navigating: Black Women in the Workplace

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2021 81:45


    On today's episode, our hostess has a conversation with her good friend Dr Melody Obeng PhD to discuss navigating the workplace as a black woman; particularly in a niche sector. They discuss Melody's journey through academia and how she has been able to navigate her way through various workplaces as a black woman. Get ready, this is a good one! Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: thebeingpod@gmail.com Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod / @drmelodyobeng Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah / instagram.com/thebeingpod / instagram.com/drmelodyobeng Tiktok: drmelodyobeng

    EP 39: On Navigating Transitions with Debra Chosen

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2021 75:44


    On today's episode, we continue on with the Navigation series and take a second look at transitions. We're joined by a hosting queen and personal fave, Debra Chosen. Pull out your pen and notepad, it's time to take some notes! Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: thebeingpod@gmail.com Facebook: Ayobola Deborah / Debra Chosen Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod / @debrachosen Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah / instagram.com/thebeingpod / instagram.com/debrachosen

    EP 38: On Navigating - Questions to Ask

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2021 37:28


    Following on from the last episode, our hostess Ayobola Deborah takes us through a number of questions that we can ask ourselves in a season of transition. Protocols of Transitions - Pastor Toure Roberts: https://youtu.be/kSLyK4h4Rrk Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: thebeingpod@gmail.com Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah / instagram.com/thebeingpod

    EP 37: The Navigating Series: Intro

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2021 23:25


    Guess who's back?! After a long hiatus, our hostess Ayobola Deborah is back and back with an exciting new series. Updating us on what's been happening for the last few months, our hostess first brings us up to speed and then introduces a brand new feature of the Being podcast; a short series. Get ready - it's gonna be a good one! Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: thebeingpod@gmail.com Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah / instagram.com/thebeingpod

    EP 36: On the Journey to Healing

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2021 33:12


    We've only been in 2021 for about 6 or 7 weeks and already, it's been a rocky road! On today's episode, our hostess shares her experience this year, particularly the physical challenges she's faced and the lessons they've taught her about healing. As usual, expect an episode of honesty, transparency and vulnerability. This is the last episode for a while, so soak it all in. Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: thebeingpod@gmail.com Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah / instagram.com/thebeingpod

    EP 35: Open the Door

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2021 25:53


    In the first episode of the new year, our hostess catches us up on what's been happening and how she's been doing. She also discusses a question that has been following her for the past few weeks; a question that was validated and authenticated after watching an Instagram live session. Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: thebeingpod@gmail.com Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah / instagram.com/thebeingpod

    EP 34: 2020; The Year We Never Expected

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2020 35:17


    On the last episode of the year 2020, our hostess shares some of the things she's learnt this year; lessons which she hopes to take forward into 2021 and into the next season of her life. Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @thebeingpod Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah / instagram.com/thebeingpod

    EP 33: Guilt as a Compass

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2020 25:29


    Guilt gets a bad rep, and for the most part, it's understandable. But what if guilt was never supposed to be a bad, condemnatory thing? What if it was supposed to be a compass, guiding you to truth? On today's episode, our hostess Ayobola Deborah briefly shares how she's used the feeling of 'guilt' to navigate her way to truth; not the truth given to her by others, but her own truth. Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 32: God is Good - The Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2020 28:23


    On this episode, our hostess shares the story behind her first official single, God is Good which was released a few weeks ago. Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 31: Show Up and Lean In

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2020 29:04


    On today's episode, hostess Ayobola Deborah talks about being the representation you want to see and finding ways to lean all the way into joy. It's hard out here y'all, on all fronts. But what we do in this season matters. Let's get it! Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 30: Ẹjẹ n Sọkun

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2020 11:44


    On today's episode of Being, our hostess Ayobola Deborah shares a piece she wrote in response to the Lekki Tollgate Massacre, in Lagos Nigeria, on 20.10.2020. Protestors part of the End Sars movement across Nigeria and the diaspora, were shot indiscriminately by the Nigerian military. As a proud Nigerian, the events of the last two weeks, in particularly 20.10.2020, have been felt keenly and personally. As a way of processing the shock and the grief, this piece speaks to the bloodshed of her beloved country in both English and her mother tongue of Yoruba. Translation of Yoruba parts: Ẹjẹ n sọkun - Blood is crying On sọkun gbolaaaa - It weeps On ke ke ke - It cries On sọkun pe e gbọ - It cries 'listen!' On sọkun pe e dahun - It cries 'answer!' Ẹjẹ ni ori-ilede Nigeria - Blood in the land of Nigeria Ẹjẹ ni orile-ede Naijiria n sunkun - Bood in the land of Nigeria is crying Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 29: Starting Again: Igbaju Oloyi

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2020 66:21


    On today's episode, our hostess is joined by none other than her mother, Mama Ayobola. The mother and daughter duo discuss everything from taking drugs, getting slapped dizzy (igbaju oloyi) and starting again. Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah / instagram.com/singleandcomplete Youtube: Single and Complete

    EP 28: The First Daughters Club Pt 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2020 49:03


    On the second half of their discussion on being the firstborn girl child in a Nigerian household, our hostess and her guests Simi and Titi, get a bit more reflective. They touch on communication, boundaries and how we hope to do things differently when the time comes for us to be mothers. Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @simiallsmiles / @tee_timexo Instagram: @ayoboladeborah / @simiallsmiles / @iamteetime Youtube: Simiallsmiles / TeeTime

    EP 27: The First Daughters Club Pt 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2020 61:27


    As you know, our hostess Ayobola Deborah is the oldest sibling. But, did y'all know that being the oldest FEMALE child in an African, specifically Nigerian household, is a different kind of different? Well, joining our hostess on this episode are two fellow firstborn (Nigerian) females. The ladies discuss some of the trauma's and difficulties that come with the position and how they are trying to navigate their way through lives as the oldest female sibling. Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah / @simiallsmiles / @tee_timexo Instagram: @ayoboladeborah / @simiallsmiles / @iamteetime Youtube: Simiallsmiles / TeeTime

    EP 26: Dear Me

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2020 20:54


    Our hostess turns 30 in a couple of weeks. Now y’all know she likes to do a fair bit of writing and in true Ayobola Deborah fashion, she wrote a letter to herself. Pay close attention though, you just might catch a gem or two! Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 25: New Beginnings: The Prologue

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2020 19:47


    On the final episode of Season 2 of the Being...with Ayobola Deborah podcast, our hostess shares something personal that she's starting anew. It's a short one but it's the closing of a chapter and the beginning of a new one. Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 24: Hindsight is 2020

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2020 26:10


    Finding something out after the fact is super annoying right? Especially if knowing beforehand could have possibly changed the entire trajectory of your life. But that's hindsight for you! In the penultimate episode of season 2 (we know!), our hostess shares how the demise of an intimate relationship was, in hindsight, a necessary pain required for her to grow. Opening up on her feelings of loss but ultimately of growth and development, she shares how she's learnt that sometimes, things have to happen they way they did so that we can become all we are supposed to be. Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 23: Overwhelmed: Finding My Place and Space

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2020 34:25


    On today's episode, our hostess Ayobola Deborah gets a bit vulnerable and shares with listeners how she's been feeling over the last few weeks. Opening up about feeling overwhelmed as a result of grief, exhaustion and multiple disappointments, she shares some of the things she wrote down as a 'note-to-self', to help her process her thoughts and re-centre herself. Make sure you share this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 22: The Halfway Point

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2020 35:26


    We're now in the second half of what has been a really heavy and eventful year. With so much going on, it can be hard to reflect and process things in a way that is healthy and conducive to mental wellbeing. On this episode, our hostess shares some of the things she has learnt so far this year and some of the things she is actively working on implementing in her own life, as we journey on through the second half of 2020. Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 21: Black Women and the Tree

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2020 61:49


    This is a very heavy period in modern history. So much is happening and so much has already happened. Each new day seems to bring its own host of issues, trauma and pain. On this episode, our hostess Ayobola Deborah sits down with her brother Emmanuel or 'Eman' as his fans call him to discuss the toxic, dangerous and often fatal attitude and behaviour of black men, towards black women. Seeking to find balance in their conversation, they also address the complicity of black women in encouraging this culture. TRIGGER WARNING: THIS EPISODE ADDRESSES MURDER, SEXUAL ASSAULT / VIOLENCE, RAPE, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah Twitter: @EDOkeowo Instagram: @mr.okeowo Podcast: Bible, Babes and Banter

    EP 20: Conversations with a Creative Pt 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2020 55:28


    In the second half of her conversation with artist Eniola Alakija, otherwise known as Eni, Ayobola Deborah delves in a little further into the world of creativity. Touching on success, failure, comparison and contentment, this conversation is full of gems that will inspire you whether you are a 'creative' or not. Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/eniolaalakija, instagram.com/enismonochrome, instagram.com/by.eniolaalakija Website: eniolaalakija.com

    EP 19: Conversations with a Creative Pt 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2020 49:36


    On this episode, our hostess Ayobola Deborah is joined by another good friend, Eniola Alakija. Eni, as he's affectionately known is a visual artist based in the UK. His creative outlets are mainly art (painting) and wedding /street / documentary photography. During this episode, Deborah and Eni begin a conversation about creativity; what it means to be a creative and what creativity looks like in a world that constantly tries to tell you who or what you should be. Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/eniolaalakija, instagram.com/enismonochrome, instagram.com/by.eniolaalakija Website: eniolaalakija.com

    EP 18: Lessons in Friendship Pt 2

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2020 92:20


    On the second part of the conversation between our hostess and her good friend Tiwa King, they expand further on entitlement and expectations in relationships. They dig deep into the idea of truth, labels and even purpose in relationships. The conversation takes an interesting but solemnly beautiful turn and ends wonderfully. Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah / Tiwa King Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah instagram.com/tiwaking

    BONUS: I Don't Feel Protected

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2020 16:26


    AHMAUD ARBERY. BREONNA TAYLOR. GEORGE FLOYD. TRAYVON MARTIN. TAMIR RICE. ERIC GARNER. SANDRA BLAND. PHILANDO CASTILLE. MIKE BROWN JR. BELLY MUJINGA. MARK DUGGAN. JUSTIN COLE. Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    Ep 17: Lessons in Friendship Pt 1

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2020 61:16


    On today's episode of the podcast, our hostess Ayobola Deborah is joined by her good friend, Tiwa King. Tiwa, pronounced 'ti-wa', is an artist born and bred in south London and has been friends with our hostess for about 6-7 years. During this episode, after breaking the ice and discussing random things, the ladies talk about friendship and the lessons they have learnt over the years; particularly the breakdown of a friendship and how that has subsequently shaped their views and outlook on their relationships. Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah / Tiwa King Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah instagram.com/tiwaking

    EP 16: Loving Me; A Journey to Self-Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2020 38:59


    “I’m a big big big girl in a big big world...” On today’s episode, Ayobola Deborah bares all in a very open, honest, raw conversation around weight and body positivity. Sharing some of her own experiences, our hostess shares how this lockdown period has given her the opportunity to begin a journey of self-love. It’s a journey she hopes we all will begin so that we can eventually reach a place where we each love ourselves, truly, wholly and deeply. Apologies for the sound disturbances, I was using a new microphone and had some teething issues! Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 15: Life in a Pandemic

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2020 27:32


    2020 has only been here for 4 months but it feels like a decade in itself! So much has happened in such a short space of time and as of the date of this episode, there is a global health pandemic and thousands have died. Today, our hostess Ayobola Deborah shared 5 things that we can do in this season to keep us going and get us through this troubled season. Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 14: My Wedding Aso Ebi Colours Pt 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 29, 2020 34:50


    If you're single and surrounded by folks who are in relationships or married, the chances are you've been asked several times when you're joining the club. Questions like this are often inconsiderate, invasive and sometimes, downright rude! Today our hostess Ayobola Deborah speaks on it by sharing her thoughts on how culture, society and even faith / religion, have an impact on our view of singleness, relationships and marriage.  Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 13: My Wedding Aso Ebi Colours Pt 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2020 32:44


    If you're single and surrounded by folks who are in relationships or married, the chances are you've been asked several times when you're joining the club. Questions like this are often inconsiderate, invasive and sometimes, downright rude! Today our hostess Ayobola Deborah speaks on it by sharing 5 things that she considered problems with the way single people are spoken to when it comes to relationships. She has A LOT to say, so fasten your seatbelts and get ready!! Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 12: Courage and Loss

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2020 36:11


    We're only a few weeks into 2020 and already so much has happened! In the second episode of the season, our hostess gives us a glimpse into some of the things that she's experienced in the early days of the year. Far from a pity party, Ayobola Deborah shares how courage and loss, can come together to create something special, something great. Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 11: 3x20/20

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2020 12:45


    Welcome to 2020! It's a new year, the start of a new decade and it's the beginning of Season 2 of Being...with Ayobola Deborah!!!!!! After having recapped the year 2019 in the previous episode, on this episode, our hostess shares a quick 3 things that she will be doing this year. Tune in and don't forget to share this on all platforms! Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 10: The Year in Review

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2019 29:41


    We're heading for the heading of 2019 pretty fast and before you blink twice, it'll be 2020! On this episode, our hostess Ayobola Deborah reflects on how her year has gone. We go from talking about feeling weird and like you're on the precipice of something incredible right at the beginning of the year, to the present day; feeling hopeful and bringing to manifestation, the power of writing down your visions. Tune in, it's a sweet one! Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 9: Reflective Exhaustion

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2019 13:44


    Have you ever felt so tired you could sleep for 3 days straight, no interruptions? Our hostess Ayobola Deborah talks a bit about how she's dealt with exhaustion in 2019, particularly in the last few months. On this episode, we also talk briefly about coming to the end of the year and how people deal with the emotions and the pressure associated with it. Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 8: The Year Twenty Eight

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2019 39:45


    30th September is our hostess's birthday!!! Turning 29 doesn't seem like that much of a big deal but it's a culmination of so many things. But regardless of age, birthdays generally make people re-evaluate and ask questions. On this episode, our hostess shares 5 lessons from the year 28. With characteristic openness and wit, this episode will have you feeling both reflective and invigorated. Make sure you share your this podcast on social media, with friends and with family. Let's get everyone feeling free to be. Oh and don't forget to leave a rating! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 7: Work, Resilience and a Live Show

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2019 26:40


    On today's episode, our hostess shares a snippet of her work story and how the last few months have developed a sense of resilience within her. Resilience is a great characteristic to have, it develops within you a strength of character that propels you towards greatness. With typical frankness and honesty, our hostess opens up on the impact work stress had on her life and how a simple conversation changed her perspective and began her journey towards building character and resilience. There's also a VERY important and VERY exciting announcement that we can't wait to share and for you to be part of!!! Make sure you share your thoughts on all platforms, @ayoboladeborah on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. Don't forget, spread the word and leave a rating!!! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Tickets to A Night Being...with Ayobola Deborah: https://bit.ly/2L9shBP Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah

    EP 6: The Sibling Chronicles Pt 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2019 53:49


    In part 2 of The Sibling Chronicles, our hostess Ayobola Deborah and her brother Emmanuel discuss dating in 2019, from a male and female perspective. They go back and forth on what it's like trying to get to know someone when there are so many barriers in the way. Have a listen and find out if you agree or disagree with anything they discussed. Emmanuel has some pretty strong views on it and apparently, he could write a dissertation on it! Make sure you share your thoughts on all platforms, @ayoboladeborah on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. Don't forget, spread the word and leave a rating!!! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah Follow: instagram.com/mr.okeowo Follow: instagram.com/edophotography_

    EP 5: The Sibling Chronicles Pt 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2019 42:28


    On this episode of Being... with Ayobola Deborah, our hostess introduces us to actor, photographer and most importantly her brother Emmanuel. An all round talented young man with a bright and promising future, Emmanuel joins us and they take us on a trip down memory lane, Sure to make you laugh, cringe and maybe even go 'awwww', Ayobola Deborah and Emmanuel give you an insight into how a relationship between siblings can very much be a great friendship, shaped by life's experiences and even their differences. Make sure you share your thoughts on all platforms, @ayoboladeborah on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. Don't forget, spread the word and leave a rating!!! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk Facebook: Ayobola Deborah Twitter: @ayoboladeborah Instagram: instagram.com/ayoboladeborah Follow: instagram.com/mr.okeowo Follow: instagram.com/edophotography_

    EP 4: Dearest Daddy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2019 24:43


    Sunday 16th June 2019 is Father’s Day. This day, for many people is one that is bittersweet, painful and a celebration of love. For our hostess Ayobola Deborah, Father’s Day has always been a difficult day.  On this episode, rather than join in on what is often a negative perspective and view on a day designed to celebrate fatherhood and fathers, Ayobola Deborah shares a part of her story that has contributed greatly to who she has become as a woman. Focusing instead on the process of healing and growth, she shares aspects of her story and passionately encourages listeners to do the same.  Make sure you share your thoughts on all platforms, @ayoboladeborah on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. Don't forget, spread the word and leave a rating!!! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk

    EP 3: Ask Me Anything!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2019 32:09


    The first couple of episodes have been super serious and uber deep. So on this episode, our hostess Ayobola Deborah answers some questions she received from Instagram, giving listeners the opportunity to get to know her a bit better.  Make sure you share your thoughts on all platforms, @ayoboladeborah on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. Don't forget, spread the word and leave a rating!!! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk

    EP 2: I Ain’t No Hater!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2019 29:04


    Have you ever felt jealous of someone? The type of jealousy that twists your stomach into a knot and makes you dizzy? Everything about that person upsets you and before you know it, you’re a fully fledged hater, hating on what you have absolutely no business hating on!  On this episode, our hostess Ayobola Deborah shares her experience with jealousy and how she overcame it. She also offers some encouragement and challenges the you to look at and celebrate your uniqueness so you can transform into everything that you’re supposed to be. Make sure you share your thoughts on all platforms, @ayoboladeborah on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. Don't forget, spread the word and leave a rating!!! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk

    EP 1: The Journey to Being

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2019 34:15


    On the premiere episode of Being...with Ayobola Deborah, our hostess shares the journey of how we got here and the things she had to go through to reach the point in her life where she is taking risks. Risks such as publishing content like this and leaving herself open to opinions and the like.  There’s so much to be excited about and we're thrilled you’re joining her on the journey to being!!! Make sure you share your thoughts on all platforms, @ayoboladeborah on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. Don't forget, spread the word and leave a rating!!! Got questions? Interested in a collaboration or want to discuss sponsorships? Send an email to: ayoboladeborah@hotmail.co.uk

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