Have you ever wondered why some conversations are better spoken in private, with your BFFs, with your boys, or your spouse? Do you wish you could get others opinions on such issues? Well, welcome home. Ceejay's Take is that platform where we tell it all.
Letting go of toxic people does not mean you hate them. It simply means you care about your own wellbeing as well. And that's OKAY!!!
"Relationships take work!" You've heard this from your parents, friends, couples counsellors and dating gurus. But what if this isn't true? What if this is the biggest lie you've ever been told? What if....the complete opposite of this is true?
If you're literally telling yourself that the person who broke up with you is the love of your life..then you better start changing your definition of 'Love of my life.' The love of your life is actually in your life.
Why is is that the 'nice guy' finishes last? Why is it that if you're respectful and nice, a woman is not interested? If you are one of the guys who finds himself saying or thinking this on a regular basis, then you need a fresh perspective on this. Ceejay's here to help...listen!
Falling in love can be the most euphoric feeling in the world. You feel like you could move heaven and earth and split the sea down in middle just to be with them. However, learning to spot the signs of Fake Love before it's too late can ultimately save you from a lot of heartbreak.
Emotional Intelligence: "The ability to create a balance between knowing what you don't know and that what you do know can be improved."
If a person agrees to go on a date with you, they're not signing a contract that they're gonna keep dating you. This is a risk you take in dating.
When people often take a break, it's because that relationship is often on its last leg. You're not gonna take a break if things are amazing, right? But once you are ok this break, is it healthy to keep in contact with your partner?
If you've ever been in a relationship and you're being honest with yourself, then you'll admit this question has crossed your mind atleast once before. Listen to know what I think about this..
If you wanna change the world...start off by making your bed every morning. - Discipline!
One of the most confusing aspects of dating or being interested in someone is knowing how they feel about you; if they're really interested in you. Because alot of times their words can say one thing, and their behaviour can do somethings else.
Just remember....sometimes the way you think about things, isn't actually the way things are. In today's episode, I want to attempt to answer the question "What is Mindfulness?"
Do not get upset with people or situations. Both are powerless without your reaction.
Micro Cheating falls under the umbrella of Emotional Infidelity. It basically refers to things that a person does that is not full on physical Cheating, but still has Infidelity vibes to it.
The worse thing you can do is marry someone or have kids with someone just because they're the person around you at a particular age.
This never ends well. You're are way better off single than to be in some crappy situation just to be with someone. Okay!
When people break up, things can really get messy. It's never an easy time for anyone. But staying stuck in the toxic situation, and worst still, making excuses for people treating you bad...is wrong.
Figure out what makes you happy and do more. Today, let's talk about the things you MUST stop doing immediately if you want to have a happy life.
Intelligence is the ability to adapt and change. But just how do you increase your Intelligence?
You don't have to perfect to be amazing. Being Amazing in life, starts with simply being yourself.
It's important to remember that missing something and wanting it back is not thesame thing. Today, let's talk about how to get over a breakup...FAST!
Don't ask why someone keeps hurting you. Ask why you keep letting them.
Fake Friends are no different than shadows; they stick around during your brightest moments, then disappear during your darkest hours.
Today, let's talk about how to Stop those Negative thinking patterns that we, most often unconsciously, create for ourselves.
The worst guilt, is to accept an unearned guilt. Today, let's talk about how to deal with Guilt.
The best bridge between despair and hope, is a good night's sleep. A good laugh and a long sleep are the best cures in the doctor's book. Happiness consists of getting enough sleep. How much sleep do you get each day?
Do not stay where you are tolerated. Go to where you are celebrated.
Respect Yourself, and people will Respect you. Sounds like cliché right? Best believe, its true.
Give the gift of your absence, to those who do not appreciate your presence.
Today, let's talk about staying strong when facing adversity.
Word to a wise: Ignore your haters, and remove your takers.
The end of one story is the beginning of another. Today, let's talk about 5 signs that it's Time to End a Relationship
The next time you're feelinf lonely, remember this...it is during a season of loneliness and isolation that a caterpillar gets its wings.
Today, let's talk about motivating yourself to do those things that you would rather not do, but must.
Today, I'm just here to remind you yo love and hug yourself more often. Today, I want to speak directly to you. Straight from the heart. I'm your voice of reason.
When it comes to finding Your Purpose in life..are you a "Jackhammer" or are you a "Hummingbird?" Listen to find out!!
Of this be sure...you don't find a good life, you make it. Today, let's talk about how to master your habits and take control of your life.
Please! Let this sink in..! You have the potential to be anything you want to be.
Don't let the fear of death hold you back. Let the actual feeling of death push you forward and bring the urgency you need to do what needs to be done in your life.
There is a huge amount of freedom that comes when you take nothing..personally.
When you say "Yes" to others, make sure you're not saying "No" to yourself.
Anybody can become angry. That is easy - but to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way...that is not within everybody's power and it is not easy. ~ Aristotle
You will never find time for anything. If you want time, you must make it. The present time has one advantage over every other - it is our own!!!
We're so quick to cut away pieces of ourselves to suit a particular relationship, a job, a circle of friends, incessantly editing who we are until we fit in. Uurrgghh!!!
The Ability to discipline yourself to delay Gratification in the short term in order to enjoy greater rewards in the long term, is the indispensable prerequisite for success.
Worried that things are not moving in your life like you want them to? Worried that you are not where you want to be in life just yet? Here's a trick to move pass that....be happy for where you are right now, and practice Gratitude!! Listen to know more!!
A quick reminder that Life is beautiful! Enjoy it. Be happy for NO REASON!!
It's easy to go through life holding on to things that are weighing us down. Guilt, resentment, doubt, worry. The problem is, when we allow these things in, they're taking up space for the good things that should be there.