First Off In My Opinion

Welcome to our upcoming show, where we delve into an important and timely topic: "Women Are Tired of Dating and Raising Children Alone." This thought-provoking discussion is not to be missed, and we're excited to have you join us. Our special guest this week is Nena Mindy Lou Abdullah

Season 4 is now available on YouTube @firstoffinmyopinion please head over to view the first seven episodes...

"Join Tom Swoope, host of First Off In My Opinion Podcast, as he sits down with special guests BTTS Podcast and Clarissa to discuss the importance of effective communication and understanding attachment styles while dating. Learn how to navigate the complexities of forming and maintaining healthy relationships through open and honest communication, and how understanding your own attachment style can help you connect with others on a deeper level. Don't miss this enlightening episode on the First Off In My Opinion Podcast!"

Recognizing a good man when dating in 2023 can be challenging, but there are some key characteristics to look for. A good man should be honest, respectful, and kind. He should also be dependable and have a strong sense of integrity. Additionally, a good man should be able to communicate effectively and actively listen to you when you are speaking. It's also important to look for a man who is compatible with you in terms of values, interests and lifestyle. In general, a good man is someone who treats you well, makes you feel good about yourself, and supports your goals and aspirations.

Do women even really desire a goodman or is the idea of their fantasy man the reason they stay single? Let's discuss it tonight with Life Coach Kayla Walkin 

We got TikToker Queenlock1989 Brittany Renee as our guest tonight. Talking everything from relationships, the culture and her future.

When you don't know how to love a man properly, healthy relationships are hard to come by. If all you've learned about love is from toxic behaviors, it might be time for some therapy.

Do you have a one sided relationship? You know, the kind where it's always all about them? If you're ready to end the toxicity and take back your life, listen to this show. I'll share some steps that will help you reclaim your power and happiness. 

What are your thoughts on having a work wife or husband? Is it cheating in 2022 or is it the extra help you need in your relationship? Plus story time when I got catfished by a WNBA player...smh

Are traditional genders roles still a factor in a relationship? Tonight we have the ladies from Wine30 Podcast and friend of the show @thatyayalady on tonight to discuss it... 

How to approach a black woman when dating... We have special guest @Iamkryssmith Krys Smith and friend of the show Tanika Oden @ta_dow also to read my blog post on the topic https://bit.ly/3rp7QXf

The homie Kat @art_n_shyt from TikTok blessed us with her humor and honesty during the show... You don't want to miss it. She had me and Melanie dying...

On last nights TikTok Live we finally got an update on YaYa's date with the traveling nurse... The post she made has received over 10 million views worldwide and she going to give the scoop. Me & Mel will be taking notes...

If you missed my TikTok Live interview with Miss Doing The Most Melanie Washington here is the replay... Follow me on TikTok @firstoffinmyopinion 

TikTok, YouTube and Facebook have taken down accounts belonging to Mr. Tate. Andrew Tate, 35, first gained mainstream media attention after appearing on the reality television show “Big Brother” in 2016. He has since carved out a space online where he claims to know the secrets to wealth and makes hateful misogynistic comments about women. 

After reading a popular Shade Room post I had to ask myself are men more Lonely than women? Tonight we had special Guest Courtney Baggz on the show!   To subscribe to my podcast Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google  https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio  https://bit.ly/3i9drMT Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook  https://bit.ly/3kHTizg Read My Stories On Medium https://bit.ly/3lwO8pG Schedule a relationship coaching call: https://calendly.com/soliddirection/relationship-coaching-call Schedule a business coaching call: https://calendly.com/premiumlifeconsulting/15min To start Saving with Acorns: https://share.acorns.com/tomswoope Buy $50 worth of crypto and get $50: https://etoro.tw/3iRXYBt LEARN ABOUT CRYPTOCURRENCY AND NFTs IN 25 MINUTES https://bit.ly/3FT8LEU

The public narrative of the angry Black women is one of the biggest misconceptions in modern history and Kelis just added to the stigma with childish behavior.... Take a listen. To subscribe to my podcast Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google  https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio  https://bit.ly/3i9drMT Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook  https://bit.ly/3kHTizg Read My Stories On Medium https://bit.ly/3lwO8pG Schedule a relationship coaching call: https://calendly.com/soliddirection/relationship-coaching-call Schedule a business coaching call: https://calendly.com/premiumlifeconsulting/15min To start Saving with Acorns: https://share.acorns.com/tomswoope Buy $50 worth of crypto and get $50: https://etoro.tw/3iRXYBt LEARN ABOUT CRYPTOCURRENCY AND NFTs IN 25 MINUTES https://bit.ly/3FT8LEU

Every circle of friends and or family chat has a complex group of personalities. In tonight's episode of First Off In My Opinion, we will discuss how to spot the narcissist of the group. It might not be who you think it is, or it might be you.

I'M BACK !!! Season 4 EPISODE 1 Have you ever been in a relationship that you were in and you felt like the whole thing was dumb, but somehow you were still in it? This episode is for you.   To subscribe to my podcast Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio https://bit.ly/3i9drMT Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook https://bit.ly/3kHTizg Read My Stories On Medium https://bit.ly/3lwO8pG Schedule a relationship coaching call: https://calendly.com/soliddire.../relationship-coaching-call Schedule a business coaching call: https://calendly.com/premiumlifeconsulting/15min To start Saving with Acorns: https://share.acorns.com/tomswoope Buy $50 worth of crypto and get $50: https://etoro.tw/3iRXYBt

I'm back, With season 3 of First Off In My Opinion... Let's discuss Why Do Good People Always Lose... Is it our choices, programming, logic, parenting etc... How can we change our outcome? To Join My Other YouTube Channel...  Fashion/Unboxing/Reviews/SelfDevelopment GROUP LINK https://www.facebook.com/groups/fedoraloversunited Follow The Movement on Social Media Facebook: https://bit.ly/3r3QUGh Instagram: @supafreshsupaclean     To subscribe to my podcast Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google  https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio  https://bit.ly/3i9drMT   Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook  https://bit.ly/3kHTizg

Tonight we react to a couple of videos and post from some of the country's top (life & Femininity) coaches and matchmakers about their refusal to work with black females and even, in one case leaving the industry altogether.   To subscribe to my podcast   Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio https://bit.ly/3i9drMT Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook https://bit.ly/3kHTizg

Your intuition is a powerful gift has the bombardment of modern-day programming got you second-guessing your decisions or purpose? Let's talk about it tonight with our guest Alecia Nikol to connect with Alecia   Website: alecianikol.com Email: hello@alecianikol.com Instagram: @nikol_alecia Facebook: Alecia Swoope

Everybody wants to be an entrepreneur, but honestly, are you running a business or a hobby? How do I turn my hobby into a real business... Plus, what are my goals for 2022 Special Guest: Pretty Shonny @prettypuffzhookah To subscribe to my podcast Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio https://bit.ly/3i9drMT

How to use a dating apps properly in 2021... Am I doing this wrong because it's terrible for real. To subscribe to my podcast Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio https://bit.ly/3i9drMT Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook https://bit.ly/3kHTizg

Have you been married or in a long-term common-law relationship? Are you struggling on how to readjust back into the world of dating or maybe you just want your significant other back? Let's discuss it tonight with special guest Life Coach Shar'nee Amaris To connect with coach Shar'nee @iam_coachsharnee To subscribe to my podcast Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio https://bit.ly/3i9drMT Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook https://bit.ly/3kHTizg To start Saving with Acorns:  https://share.acorns.com/tomswoope Buy $50 worth of crypto and get $50: https://etoro.tw/3iRXYBt

Self Love vs. Selfish We working on ourselves goes wrong. Let's talk about it… with Special guest Life Coach Retha Louis links to Ms. Louis's published materials are in the description    Keep Calm It's Simply Your Journey https://amzn.to/2YLiQ6A The ABC's of Love: The Grown Folks Edition https://amzn.to/3HgLoX2   To subscribe to my podcast   Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google  https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio  https://bit.ly/3i9drMT   Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook https://bit.ly/3kHTizg

Tonights we tackle “Dating with kids” The single parent epidemic has become the norm and we have to learn how to operate in it… Im breaking it down deep dive !!! To subscribe to my podcast Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio https://bit.ly/3i9drMT Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook https://bit.ly/3kHTizg

So what happens when a published licensed counselor takes over your podcast and makes you the guest...??? Let's find out tomorrow... Our Guest will be Dr. Elle Moore. Dr. Elle Moore is the owner of ‘Evolve Counseling' and ‘BlkPen Publishing. To get a copy of one of her books or to schedule a counseling session visit www.DrEllle.com To subscribe to my podcast Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio https://bit.ly/3i9drMT Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook https://bit.ly/3kHTizg

On Tonight's Episode I'm giving the 3 Keys to Relationship success: 1. F@ck Early 2. Say No Early 3. Start a Gang Fight… = Relationship Bliss   To subscribe to my podcast Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google  https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio  https://bit.ly/3i9drMT Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook  https://bit.ly/3kHTizg To start Saving with Acorns: https://share.acorns.com/tomswoope Buy $50 worth of crypto and get $50: https://etoro.tw/3iRXYBt

  What attracts us to thee most toxic individuals over and over...??? Have you been dating the same guy/girl in different bodies for years? Let's talk about tonight... Tap In!   To subscribe to my podcast Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio https://bit.ly/3i9drMT Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook https://bit.ly/3kHTizg

It's a wildcard show... So Im going to give some quick jewels! Im going to breakdown my 3 reason's why your single and what you need to do about changing it... if you really want to change it. Tap In... #podcast #blackpodcasts #blackpodcasters #blackcomedy #postoftheday #discover #interestingpointofview #interestingpodcast #realationshippodcast #relationshippodcast #relationshipexpert #relationshipadvice #datingin2021 #thedatingpool #singleanddating #blackwomendating #firstoffinmyopinion #tomswoope      To subscribe to my podcast Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google  https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio  https://bit.ly/3i9drMT Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook  https://bit.ly/3kHTizg

Have you ever been D$ckwhipped and or controlled by sex? Have you ever had trouble moving on from toxic situation because of the sex? Does sexual energy create a love attachment? Let talk about Devil D$ck tonight on First Off In My Opinion... Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google  https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio  https://bit.ly/3i9drMT   Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook  https://bit.ly/3kHTizg

Let's talk about how we got here and where are we going... I definitely feel like Dave is a genius and planned all of this including the fallout from it... Oh yeah I went outside this weekend...lol Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio https://bit.ly/3i9drMT Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook https://bit.ly/3kHTizg

Tonight's guest is the beautiful Eva Dior and she's going to be giving out free game and spilling the tea from her inbox… We are going to discuss it all from 23k followers on IG to her OnlyFans pages join her army   Cash App: $evadior777 OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/evangelinadior https://www.instagram.com/Evangelinadior   To subscribe to my podcast   Apple https://apple.co/39zRuSG Google  https://bit.ly/3EVq6Na Spotify https://spoti.fi/3ES7ldH iHeart Radio  https://bit.ly/3i9drMT   Follow us on Instagram at @firstoffinmyopinion Watch Live on Facebook  https://bit.ly/3kHTizg

Why can't you find somebody special? Are looking in the wrong places or are stuck on somebody who won't do right? You tell me tonight...

In this episode, we explore the thought process and aftermath of giving up the goodies too soon. Is there really a time frame for your first sexual encounter with your little new friend? Tap In...

My Stock Pick last week blows up and all people who listen tripled their money… Congressional Democrats unveil sweeping police reform bill

How I made $500 in 7 days with one stock…!!!  VectoIQ or VTIQ The rise of ROBINHOOD/The Independent Autopsy Report Release on the Death of George Floyd… and Much More !!! Link for you to Start trading on Robinhood https://join.robinhood.com/thomass7501 #Robinhood #vtiq #geogrewallace #pandemic #riotsandlooting #policecorruption 

You got to check out this week show... We tackle the Coronavirus and how to make your money double with some safe rebounding stocks. We also discuss how to interview a potential prospect using Jedi mind tricks...lol Special guest Adriana Mattingly.

Tell me any company in 2020 who doesn't have a staffing issue... We get down to the heart of this problem with staffing expert Adriana Mattingly. We go over top staffing trends and a possible shift in the workplace due to the political climate. 

Episode 2 : Diversity in Entrepreneurship. We will take a look at who’s winning and who’s losing and why…

Episode 1 : So you wanna start a business? We will take a look at The Super Half Time controversy and Season 3 Episode 1 of The Masked Singer…