Give me your perspective

This is Soul Talk a space where healing meets honesty, and growth starts from within. Life Coach Shafon Miller delivers weekly, spirit-led reflections for the soul that's tired, healing, hopeful, or all three at once. Whether you're navigating transitions, protecting your peace, or reclaiming your worth, you'll find encouragement here. No filters, no fluff just real talk with heart, purpose, and grace. Pull up a seat. Your soul showed up for a reason.

Podcast Description:In this episode, I open my heart and speak from a place of deep reflection—because I've come to understand that I don't want the “perfect” love that looks good on the outside but lacks depth on the inside. I want a love that's perfect for me—one that feels safe, emotionally mature, spiritually aligned, and built on truth.This isn't about flawless people or fairy-tale relationships. It's about the kind of love that allows both people to be human—flawed but committed, imperfect but intentional. I talk about what it means to desire a sacred connection where both partners are capable of communicating through the hard times, standing in vulnerability, and choosing each other with consistency—not out of convenience, but out of alignment.I also share parts of my personal journey—how letting go of past connections, even ones filled with love, was necessary for growth. How sometimes we confuse chemistry for calling. And how the waiting season isn't a punishment, but a preparation. What may feel like silence is often God's way of clearing the path so the right kind of love can step in.This episode is for anyone who's ever questioned, “Is it me?” or felt like they were “too much” for the wrong people. You are not too much—you were just offering your love to people who weren't equipped to receive it.Love doesn't need to be broadcasted to be real. It needs to be felt, honored, and nurtured in quiet spaces where trust is built and authenticity is welcomed. If you're in a season of becoming, of healing, or simply waiting for the kind of connection that sees you and stays—this episode is for you.

There's a difference between a relationship and a purpose partnership. In this episode, I'm sharing why I want my purpose partner to seek God before they ever seek me. If you're not going to the One who wrote my story, how do you know you're meant to be in it? Let's talk spiritual alignment, prayerful pursuit, and why a God-centered connection hits different and lasts longer.

Podcast Description:In this episode of Give Me Your Perspective, I'm sharing a personal and powerful realization: the importance of setting healthy boundaries, protecting your energy, and learning how to receive love — not just give it.For too long, I found myself over-pouring into others without leaving anything for myself. Today, I'm choosing a new path: one rooted in self-respect, balance, and emotional wisdom.Join me as I talk about why it's okay — and necessary — to be “selfishly protective” of your peace, how to recognize when you're giving too much, and how to welcome relationships that pour back into you.We'll also reflect on Proverbs 4:23 and how guarding your heart is an act of love toward yourself and your purpose.This conversation is a reminder: choosing yourself is not selfish — it's sacred.Tune in for some real, heartfelt encouragement.

In this heartfelt episode of Give Me Your Perspective, Shiffon speaks to the soul of anyone walking through a season of waiting, uncertainty, or quiet. Whether you're praying for someone you love, standing in faith for your next step, or learning to love from a distance—this episode is for you.Shiffon shares a powerful affirmation, a grounding Bible verse, and words of encouragement to remind you that even when God is silent, He is still moving. You'll be reminded to keep praying, keep loving, and keep walking in faith—because the silence isn't a sign of absence, it's a signal that something divine is being prepared just for you.

In today's episode of Give Me Your Perspective, we're diving deep into something we don't talk about enough—how unhealed pain can lead us to mistreat the very people who were sent to help us heal. Whether it's abandonment, rejection, or trauma, sometimes we push away the ones who see us, love us, and nurture us because we're scared of being hurt again. But in doing so, we hurt them. Let's talk about how to stop sabotaging healthy connections and start showing up in love, even when it's uncomfortable. This one's for the overthinkers, the guarded hearts, and anyone who's ever been misunderstood—or done the misunderstanding.

In this heartfelt episode of Forgive Me Your Perspective, I share my personal journey from an anxious attachment style to embracing true security and inner peace. Opening up about times filled with uncertainty and self-doubt, I recount the challenges of constantly seeking validation and the transformative process of learning to let go of control. Through self-reflection, therapy, prayer, and the comforting promise of Scripture, particularly Philippians 4:6-7, I discovered that my worth and security are not defined by my anxious thoughts but are rooted in God's unwavering love.This episode is dedicated to anyone who has ever struggled with insecurity and anxious attachment. Whether you're on the verge of healing or still navigating the hard days, let my story serve as a reminder that transformation is possible when you surrender your fears to God. Discover the practical strategies I used and the powerful lessons I learned on the way to becoming secure in my identity. Tune in, be encouraged, and remember: you are not alone on this journey.Shiffon M. Miller M.ALife Empowerment Coach

In this heartfelt episode of Give Me Your Perspective, I get real about the struggles we face when life feels overwhelming and uncertain. It's okay to not be okay—but it's not okay to give up. I talk about the importance of having mustard seed faith even when things don't make sense, and how trusting God during the storm leads to breakthrough. Sometimes the struggle is just the setup for the blessing on the other side. Join me as I share encouragement to keep pressing forward, because God didn't bring you this far to leave you. You are seen. You are loved. And you are covered—even when it doesn't feel like it.

In this episode of Give Me Your Perspective, I reflect on my journey of walking in purpose while remaining humble. I don't brag about my accomplishments because I know they are not my own—everything I have came from God. My mission is to encourage, inspire, and motivate others to live authentically, not for approval, but in alignment with their calling. I also talk about what I hope to build with my future purpose partner—someone who is ready to grow, heal, and walk in faith. Are you staying true to who you are? Let's talk about it.

In this episode of Give Me Your Perspective, we're diving into the power of gratitude and why appreciating God's blessings—big and small—can transform your life. It's easy to focus on what we're waiting for, but what if true peace comes from recognizing what we already have? We'll explore how gratitude strengthens our faith, shifts our mindset, and opens the door for even greater blessings. With scripture, personal reflections, and a heartfelt prayer, this episode will encourage you to embrace thankfulness in every season. Tune in and be reminded: You are already living in a blessing!

In a world filled with chaos, distractions, and uncertainty, it's easy to feel like we're just existing rather than truly living. But I want to remind you of something powerful—you are here for a reason. Your life has purpose, your presence matters, and the world is better because you are in it.In this heartfelt episode of Give Me Your Perspective, I'm speaking directly to your soul. We're going to silence the noise, push past the doubt, and remind ourselves that no matter how hard life gets, we are not forgotten. We are not alone. And even when it feels like the enemy is working overtime to steal our joy, we have the power to stand firm, protect our peace, and walk boldly in our purpose.So take a deep breath, tune in, and let this be the reminder you need: You are loved. You are seen. You are needed. And you are here for a reason.

In this episode, we explore how God is calling us to be still in this season. Join us as we dive into the comforting truth of Psalm 46:10 and discover that being still isn't about inactivity—it's about trusting God, finding inner peace, and allowing His Spirit to guide us. Whether you're overwhelmed by life's noise or feeling burnt out, learn how to embrace stillness as a powerful act of faith and self-care.

In this episode of Give Me Your Perspective, Coach Miller, explores the power of trusting God and embracing His timeline. Discover why relinquishing control and surrendering to God's perfect plan is the key to receiving the blessings He has in store. Learn how to move past the frustration of unanswered questions and the pain of deflection, and instead focus on the transformative process of growth and authentic relationships. Join Coach Chiffon as she encourages you to step out of your comfort zone, trust in God's timing, and prepare for a life filled with abundance and genuine love.

In this episode of Give Me Your Perspective, Shiffon Miller opens up about her journey to healing her anxious attachment style. Through a lot of personal growth and self-reflection, she shares how learning to choose herself, pour into herself, and trust that God had a plan for her helped her overcome the anxiety and insecurity that once held her back. Tune in for an empowering conversation about self-love, healing, and why you should never settle for less than what you deserve.

In this episode of Give Me Your Perspective, we explore the importance of working on yourself before entering a new relationship. Shiffon Miller shares why it's essential to take time to heal, reflect, and seek God's guidance to avoid bringing old wounds and past trauma into a new situation. She emphasizes the value of building a strong spiritual foundation and trusting God's timing before stepping into something new. This episode offers practical reflection questions, a powerful affirmation, and a Bible verse to encourage you to embrace your healing journey and prepare for a healthy, God-centered relationship.Tune in and discover how prioritizing your personal growth can lead to the love you truly deserve.

In this episode of Your Perspective, I'm sharing how my 28-day fast with my church brought me clarity, understanding, and a deeper connection with God. Fasting isn't just about giving something up—it's about making space for God to reveal His truth and direction in your life. I'll also share how you can incorporate fasting into your own spiritual journey to receive clarity and guidance, along with powerful Bible verses to encourage you along the way. If you've been seeking answers or feeling stuck, this episode will inspire you to draw closer to God and trust His process.

In this heartwarming and inspirational episode of *Give Me Your Perspective*, I'm sharing a love letter to my future purpose partner. It's filled with affirmations to encourage him, a prayer to cover him, and affirmations he can speak over himself. This episode is a reminder that love isn't just about finding the right person—it's about becoming the right person while trusting God's perfect timing. Whether you're waiting on your future partner or already in a relationship, let these words inspire you to speak life, love, and purpose over your future. Grab a journal, and maybe even create your own affirmations for the one God is preparing for you.

Love Has No Time Frame” is a podcast dedicated to helping you work on yourself internally before seeking a relationship. Hosted by Shiffon Miller, a life empowerment coach, yoga instructor, and woman of faith, each episode dives into the importance of self-love, self-awareness, and consulting with God while navigating the desire for love. Whether you're waiting on your kingdom spouse or simply focused on becoming the best version of yourself, this podcast offers honest conversations, spiritual wisdom, and practical tools to guide you through the journey—because true love is worth the wait.

Have you ever wondered if you missed the person God sent for you? Maybe fear, past wounds, or uncertainty made you walk away from something that was actually meant to bless you. But what if God is giving you a second chance? In this episode, we dive deep into the reality of fumbling a God-ordained opportunity and what happens when He brings it back around. Through powerful scriptures and real talk, we'll explore how to recognize, trust, and walk boldly in God's plan—without fear. Don't let doubt make you miss out again!

Welcome to “Give Me Your Perspective ,” a podcast dedicated to self-love, spiritual growth, and embracing every season of life with faith and purpose. Whether you're in a season of singleness, preparation, or transformation, this podcast is here to encourage you, uplift you, and remind you that God's timing is perfect.In today's episode, we're diving into a topic many of us have wrestled with—what happens when God doesn't take away your desire for marriage during your single season?Have you ever prayed, “Lord, if marriage isn't for me, take this desire away”—only to find that it's still there? What if instead of removing the longing, God is using it to prepare you? What if the waiting season isn't about changing your heart but about changing you?If you've ever struggled with waiting, trusting God's timing, or feeling like He's forgotten about your prayers, this episode is for you. Let's talk about how to thrive in singleness, grow in faith, and prepare for God's best—without losing peace, joy, or purpose along the way.

This podcast is all about healing, self-growth, and trusting God's timing before entering a relationship. Because the truth is, love is beautiful—but when we don't take time to heal, to grow, and to align with God's will, we can find ourselves in cycles of frustration, heartbreak, and delay.Here, we're going to dive deep into:✔️ Biblical wisdom on waiting, healing, and preparing for love.✔️ Practical self-work—from self-love and boundaries to emotional healing.✔️ Real talk about relationships, past mistakes, and becoming the best version of yourself.✔️ Encouragement and faith-building affirmations to remind you that your waiting season is not a punishment—it's preparation.This podcast is for you if:✨ You desire a God-ordained relationship but want to heal first.✨ You feel like you're in a waiting season and need clarity and encouragement.✨ You want to grow spiritually, emotionally, and mentally before stepping into love.Listen, God isn't withholding blessings from you—He's preparing you for something greater. And when He says “immediately,” we may not know the exact timing, but we do know that it's already in motion. So, let's walk this journey together.Make sure to subscribe, share this podcast with someone who needs it. Get ready—because the doors are opening, and we are stepping into wholeness before love!

This episode is great for those who are in the season of growth. We all know that growth can be uncomfortable Daily we have to learn that growing is needed because it helps us become the better version of ourself. Also I wanted to reference something I said in my podcast before someone says something but when I said that God accepts the imperfect people he accepts all people and never forget that. You were made in the image of God. As always you are loved

Happy New Year. I hope you all are doing amazing. Welcome to season 8 of my podcast. I am excited about this new season. Can't wait to share my journey with you all. Thank you all for listening and following it is much appreciated. Be Blessed

This episoder focuses on my reflection from a 2024 and is dedicated to all the individuals who have supported me and that will continue to follow me on this journey. I love you and I thank you. Be Blessed

This episode is dedicated to those who have supported, encouraged, motivated and inspired me this past year. I have met some amazing people this year as well and I am looking forward for the friendships to continue along the way. I learned this year to be patient, show myself more grace and use more discernment . I am proud where I am at and where God is taking me. Remember you are loved, you are worthy and you are enough.

This episode focuses on gratitude moments that show up in your life at the right time. When you are in the season of growing and learning there are certain things that will come to help you and sometimes you don't know that until you get that confirmation and here recently I received that confirmation that I needed. I hope you enjoy the episode. Be blessed.

Always remember that anything you manifest you have to speak it into existence. Always remember that prayer is powerful and know that in due time God will give you all the desires of your heart. Always remember you are loved, you are loved and you are worthy. Be blessed.

Thisw episode focuses on discovering my anxious attachment style. It took me a while to do my research on this trending topic. Although this episode was hard for me to do I wanted to record this because other people in my life has seen my growth and I wanted to share my journey. Hope you enjoy this episode. Be blessed.

During the earlier stages of my life I was a people pleaser. I thought that if I gave to people , did things for people out to the kindness of my heart that they would be more attracted to me and like me more, but I became more mature and realized my worth. No need in trying to please anyone. People will genuinely like you because you are authentic. Being authentic is more attractive than anything else. Continue to be you each day. Remember you are loved, you are worthy and

This episode focuses on letting go of the past. I understand that letting go of the past can be difficult. But if you take the steps to actually do it, you will see so much peace in your life. I think that once you are able to let go you realize the ones who are really genuine and who care about your thoughts and feeling . Always remember that you matter.

This episode doesn't need a description it speaks for itself. Always pray and have faith. In due timing you will get what you manifested and prayed for. It's already done! Be Blessed.

This episode focuses on loving yourself during your journey and understanding that Love on purpose is the best love. Once you are able to understand what love is and what love looks for you then you will know how to receive it correctly. I talked about my own journey currently and how I am creating that foundation to embrace what love looks like for me in the future because growing up I had examples from my parents who have been married for 41 years show me what love is and what love looks like. Please share and subscribe to my podcast. Always know that you are enough, you are worthy, you are loved.

This episode focuses on things that God has revealed to me during my waiting season. God has a way of getting your full attention in the moment where he needs to hear him the most. At times the waiting season can be hard, frustrating and lonely because of the unknown but we have to trust in God's way not our own. We have to make God the center of our foundation. When God see's that he has our full attention. He will give us the vision that we always dreamed of. I hope that you enjoy this episode. Be you, Be amazing and Be blessed.

This episode was very vulnerable. I hope that you decide to really take your healing journey serious because it all set starts with self. Healing is a time for you to rediscover yourself and see the things that you need to change within yourself. Make sure in the process that you are choosing you.

This episodes focuses on getting out of your comfort zone. I believe that on any journey you have to step out of your comfort zone because it will help you grow. If we continue to stay in the same places and interactions that we are used we will never grow. We are so doctrine into the things that we are used to knowing that it's not getting us anywhere because it feels safe. Once we get out of that mindset we will grow and our perspective will change. Always step out on faith.

This episode focuses on why change is necessary and removing yourself from environments that no longer align with your goals. Sometimes change can be hard but it's much needed on your journey. We have to learn how to get out of our own way. Doing this will lead us to a better way of living. Change can bring so much peace, comfort and happiness in your life. Change starts with self. Remember you are loved, you are worthy and you are enough. Be Blessed.

Thise episode focuses on my journey and even though the discouraging moments and the unknowns in this journey I still put my faith, hope and trust in God. This journey has showed me so much and I have seen my growth along the way. I know my value, my worth and I know that I am enough. The journey is all about finding your inner self and always being yourself and staying true to yourself. You attract what you put forth and make sure that you present yourself truthfully along the way and God will always have your back. Always remember you are the light that shines each day. Be blessed.

This episode focuses on trusting God during you're journey. Sometimes God has to reposition you to see if you can handle the test. Although it may be hard sometimes to understand we must go through it and we must continue to have faith in the journey. It may get hard at times but know that God will not fail you. He is just preparing you for greater things ahead. Be Blessed.

This episode talks about what God revealed to me during my dream. It was what I asked him to do when I was in prayer with him a few nights ago. Now I understand my journey a lot better than I did before. I understand why God is having me wait because he wants to see if I trust him and if I have faith in him. I will continue on with my journey with a different focus while I let God work and in his timing he will reveal even more. Always remember you are loved, you are worthy and you are enough.

This episode focuses on rebuilding your relationship with God during your single season. Once you have established that relationship with God and know that God will find you your purpose partner and if you leave it in Gods hand he will give you all the desires of your heart in due time. You just have to trust his guidance and focus on improving yourself in the different areas of your life. Always remember you are loved, you are enough and you are worth it. Be Blessed.

This episodes focuses on letting God lead in your life. No matter what journey you are on God knows what is best for you. Once we are able to let God take over it will give you a different perspective on life and give you a positive peace of mind. I hope that you enjoy this episode because I am being very authentic about my own journey. Always remember you are loved, you are worthy and you are enough. Be blessed.

This episode focuses on understanding that it's okay to be your true self. We all have emotions, feelings and we all want to be vulnerable in some sort of way. I'm here to tell you with my transparency that even though I am life coach I want to be coached as well in my own life and that's okay. Doesn't mean that I can't pour into other people. I have to continue to keep my cup filled and not letting it run over. I hope that you enjoy this episode of me being vulnerable and transparent. Be blessed. Always remember you are loved, you are enough and you worth it.

This episode focuses on the importance of talking about intentions when dating. It's important to have that discussion in the beginning so you know if this is something that you want to continue. Being friends first is very important because you can get to know one another on a different level. I believe in my opinion is that it's better to be friends so the expectations won't be so high. Just enjoy the journey on the friendship level and down the line if you both don't have any potentials and you want to take that chance and take things to the next level, then go for it! You only get one shot at life. Always remember you are loved, you are worthy and you are enough.

This episode is very short and its just a mental health check in . Hope that you all are doing amazing. I will upload another episode by the end of the week. Thank you for patience and understanding. Have a great week.

It's important that we take time to process our emotions and feelings through positive coping mechanisms. In this episode I am very transparent about ways I learned how to process my emotions and feelings. I learned how to incorporate God into my coping mechanisms and that helped me so much during my journey. Always remember you are worthy, you are loved, you are enough and you are appreciated. Be blessed.

I told yall that season 7 was going to be on

Hey hey everyone thank you for stopping by for another episode of season 7. I won't be talking about dating for a while so I wanted to shift the conversation. So after this episode I am going to shift gears. But I hope that you all enjoy this episode about dating and the journey. Remember you are loved, you are enough and you are worthy. Be blessed

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This episode is the finale for season 6. Season 7 will release June 29th. I am excited about this new season. This episode focused on my growth spiritually and understanding that everything in life is on God's timing. It's helped me rediscover who I am as a woman. I'm excited about this new found confidence, perspective and faith. Remember you are loved, your are worthy and you are enough.

This episode focuses on me returning to life coaching. I took some time away to pour into myself and it was a much needed break. But I am back like I never left and I am excited for what's to come. Self love and self care is essential it can be an amazing journey. What I realized on my journey is that I have to have faith and keep God first and enjoy the process and enjoy the journey. Remember you are loved, you are enough and are worthy.

Managing your emotions can be tricky. Sometimes we make decisions based on our emotions at that moment. Been there and done that plenty of times. I do wish that I would have thought it out first and I did regret it. But now that I am emotionally mature I know that I wont mismanage my emotions and make certain decisions at that moment. I will write down the pros and the cons before making a permanent decision. But anyway always continue to be yourself and know that you are loved, you are kind and you are worthy.