Heather's Detours

Its amazing to learn what is happening in our little community. This episode I sit down with Jill Anderson who is the Executive Director of CAPSA. She has dedicated more than 25 years to helping others.  Its good to be aware and I am grateful for the education program they are implementing in our schools. We need to be aware.  Join me and I promise you wont regret it.If you need help call 435-753-2500If you would like to Donate to Capsa: Capsa.org/donateSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

Hello! I am still here, are you?  Season 3 has begun. Perspective is a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something; a point of view. This can be so important in any relationship. Join me today and can I just say I have missed you all.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

Conflict is a recurring issue in step families and life. I am wrapping up season 2 and we discuss this and more. Thanks for joining me and coming along the ride with Heathers Detours. This week marks 1 year of this podcast. Thanks for all your support and comments and downloads. Please share this podcast and remember I love feedback and questions. Have a good summer and Happy Fathers Day to all the dads out there.I read a quote today, " I am not a step dad, I am a dad who stepped up!" thanks Doug we love you.  And to all the fathers who step up. THANK YOULove,HeatherSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

Creating a parenting plan and sticking to it is tricky at times and Complaints happen. Today we talk about some of them. Do you know the way you handle your parenting plan can effect your kids self esteem?  Details are important. Explaining change is okay and its healthy for all. Consistency is so important especially at the beginning of a separation or divorce. Join me today on Heathers Detours.Choose your Hard-Heather Listen today and check out Instagram for a Giveaway! A free family photo session. Check out Instagram to see detailsSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

This is a subject that is a hard one for me.  It's a detour that I have felt I needed to talk about yet didn't know how? A friend of mine and past guest Kyle called me one day and said he felt like he wanted to talk about this subject and how he has unfortunately dealt with this on many levels. To me it was a sign. I was wanting to talk about it and than he called. Its a sad thing to talk about. Being educated is important though. Join us today and hear some advice and warning signs to look for.   Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

 Ripple Effect (noun) Definition says: the continuing and spreading results of an event or actionDivorce is hard and it effects your life in so many ways. Divorce effects obviously you and if children are involved  it effects them too.  Does it effect others? You bet it does. Today I have two siblings of mine join me as we take a trip down memory lane to discuss and hear their point of view and how my divorce has had ripple effects in their life too. It was emotional in man ways and I am so grateful for my family.Happy Memorial Day.  Grateful for my freedom and those who have and continue to fight for our freedoms.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

When someone has a heart attack, we immediately run to help them.  Some say its a BIG wake up call to things going on in our body.  We quickly  pay attention and seek for help. In our marriages or life we sometimes have "heart attacks"  and we need to be aware and take precaution and necessary steps to heal the issues. Recovering  from any form of "heart attack" isn't easy.  Some say,  people are never the same after a divorce or trial or heart attack. Join me today as we talk with Attorney Peter Olson. He has some advice and has developed a course to help save us from "heart attacks."Show Notes: transformyour.family.comAchieve a Magnificent Marriage*Zoom calls can be tricky with my sound. Sorry for any difficulties you have with the sound. Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

What is Head Space? It's how I describe thoughts in our head that can become our reality. However, is that reality true? Today I talk about this and share some stories. Blending families can create a lot of head space. Its also natural to have opinions just make sure what we think is TRUE! Join me on this episode to understand what I am talking about. I hope this will help you or relate in some aspect of your life.Love,HeatherShow Notes:Loving what is: Byron KatieSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

 First off Happy Mothers Day!Trials come in all forms and today I talk with Val and she shares with us some twist that happened to her as a mother.  We talk about her journey  with her family and husband. Sometimes when trials hit we can take it out on those we love most. Everyone is fighting a battle and I can't stress enough to be kind and give a little more love even when its hard. Enjoy this podcast and search for gratitude this week in your life. Love,HeatherSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

You don't want to miss this episode. Its a good reminder to live like you are dying. Life is a gift. Friends are a gift. Your significant other is a gift. Family is a gift and so on.  How do you comfort those who need comfort. Join us today on Heathers Detours with Marissa.Do something for someone else and pay it forwardSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

Who needs fiction when you have real life stories? We all have a story and today I sit down and talk with JaNae Dyreng.  I appreciate her willingness to open up and share her story. I hope you take the time to listen. Together we can share stories and help each other. Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

Hello Again. Weeks keep flying by. Today I talk with you about Sunshine. What does Sunshine have to do with your relationships? Listen to find out. We also discuss, "feeling invisible."  Do you ever feel that way? I know as a mother, wife,  friend,  human being, at times I don't feel seen.   We talk about it today. Join me and hopefully you feel the rays of hope and SUNSHINEShow Notes: Book/ Keys to Successful Step- FatheringSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

Confession: I am behind on my podcasting. Guess what, " Its okay." Sometimes in life we are our biggest critics.  Expectations come to mind again and we put to much pressure on ourselves. Its ok to let down our guard. Today is a quick short message on this topic. Hope you are all doing ok and hanging in there. Remember to be kind to yourself.LoveHeatherSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

Life throws enough curve balls right?   Time and time again I have learned its better to be safe than sorry. Sometimes what we can do at certain times of our life's ranges. I met Melanie on Instagram and I was drawn to her knowledge on being prepared. She has a simple program and also more detailed ones. Her Instagram stories are full of great knowledge.  She covers a lot on being prepared.  Being prepared brings peace and sometimes we all need to feel that peace in unpredictable times. Take control and help bring peace to your life and your families no matter where you are at.  Little by little you can be better prepared.  Plus Melanie is also in a blended family! We chat for a brief moment about that too.  If you use the code: DETOURS you get a discount on her E-book.Have a great week,HeatherSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

Hello! Have you every heard the rhyme," Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me?"  I remember learning this in grade school. When I think about this now I cant disagree more. Words can hurt, they do hurt. It is also our choice to allow them to hurt us. ( I hate that) Choosing the right words can have an extreme different outlook on many situations. Join me today as I talk about some words and let me know what you think.  Have a great week!Love,HeatherShow Notes: Book- Mom's House Dad's House making two homes for your child. Author: Isolina Ricci, PH.DSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

I have always loved this quote, " Music is the prayer the heart sings"  Does music effect you?  I love music and it can bring out many emotions in me. I got to sit down and talk with one of my good friends Mark Zembal.  He recently released a new country album: Roadkill Rodeo/Rusted Regrets  Mark wrote the lyrics and composed the music. Let me just say he is one talented guy.  We talk about the background of a lot of his songs.  Inspiration from this album came from experiences he has encountered.  He too is in a blended family. I cant wait for you all to listen to them. I also am excited to say at the end of the podcast we uploaded on of his songs. Its one of my favorites from his album- Lean In.  Sit back, listen and enjoy. You can download this album on itunes,  spotify etc. I would love to hear what you think of this episode. Drop me a message on instagram or email me at heathersdetours@gmail.comP.S. I  actually am singing in song # 6 ( cant fix you) we are na-na's on the into and Hey!Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

No one ever plans to get divorced? Sometimes you just want to talk to a lawyer or get some advice? Sometimes you don't know where to turn? I was lucky to meet Stephanie Tang. She is an attorney, mediator, and collaborative law professional. She took some time out of her busy schedule and talked with me about some advice and gave some counsel on what to do? We talk about going to court, mediation and so much more. I also found it interesting what she said is the # 1 thing in her experience what couples fight over? What do you think it is? Join me today and I promise you wont regret it. Have a great weekHeatherSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

After my divorce one of the first things I wanted to do was to take new family pictures. The family I thought I had was no longer and I wanted me and my children to see and feel our new family unit. It was with a lot of mixed emotions I got these pictures taken and hung on the wall. I than stored away old family pictures and scrapbooks for my kids to one day go through and decide what they wanted to do with them. Even though our original family was no more it was still part of there legacy. To this day its all in a box when they are ready to go through it. I also wanted to create new photo albums. I wish Memory My Way was created back than, Today I talk with the owner of Memory My Way. We talk about the cloud and saving photos and so much more. Do you print photos anymore? Her company is a lifesaver and I cant wait to share it with you. Below is a link if you are interested to learning more. https://memorymyway.com/a/38059Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

Today I talk with author Noelle McBride. ( Not Nicole) I called her that once during our podcast. Noelle wrote a book about Divorce and her insight is amazing. Her spiritual knowledge and comparison is uplifting and giving hope to those who find themselves in this trial. She states, " My Story is one of redemption and healing, of beauty for ashes." Join me as we dive deeper into this amazing book.To Purchase Book:Amazon/ Title: Beauty for AshesSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

I see you, I hear you. I know we are not all in the same boat. We each have our own story. Today I talk with Steve. His story is encouraging and he gives some great advice. Hearing peoples stories hopefully makes you feel not alone and second gives HOPE. We all need hope in any situation of life. Enjoy. love,HeatherSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

Today Doug and I talk about Divorce. Not just one divorce but 6? Join us now and if you have a specific question you can email me at heathersdetours@gmail.com or message me on Instagram. Divorce is not fun and remember no one wins. If you are thinking about divorce or you are in the middle of it hang on, there is hope. Have a good week.love,Heathershow notes: Human Intimacy Marriage, the family, and its meaningSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

Have you ever Meditated? Do you know what meditation is? It has so many angles. I wanted to learn more so on this episode I talk with Kiersten Wilson. She is an amazing lady and she opens up and shares her experience with meditation. She opened my eyes and made me realize I knew more than I thought. Sometimes we make things harder than we need to. You don't want to miss this. Let me know what you think. I challenge us all to spend a little time to do something for ourselves. Love,HeatherP.S A Happy Birthday Shoutout to my wonderful Husband!Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/heathersdetours)

Responsibilities change as we go throughout our life. When blending a family new guidelines need to be set. Responsibilities can set the tone for the home and its so important to make sure we are all on board. Our mind is a powerful tool when blending families or with any new relationship. The life you once had is forever changed and you feel over burdened. I remember being a new single mom and I had a lot of responsibilities and even more was added to my plate. Many times it was overwhelming and I felt like I was drowning. Todays episode we talk with, "The Transformed Couple" we talk about responsibilities and get a female and male perspective. They are an amazing couple ( from Canada) and I think you will enjoy this episode. Now lets listen to this podcastlove,Heather

I am back! I have missed recording and talking with all of you. I hope this episode resonates with one of you or better yet ALL of you. At the end of each episode I always worry if I conveyed my words in the right way . It is hard at times to put my thoughts and feelings into the right words. It feels good to be back and I have great things in the works. My last episode taired on November 23, 2020. Ironically, its my 44th birthday today and I found it fitting to start season 2. Happiness sounds so easy, people say its a choice? Maybe it sounds fake? This episode I discuss some things I learned about myself this holiday season. I share examples and some advice on happiness. Hopefully you can relate and this episode can help you in some way. I do love feedback and I would love for you to leave a review on iTunes or whatever app you use. It would be the best birthday gift. Here we are at the beginning of season two. Cant wait to see where this takes us all....love,Heather

Wrapping up season one!!!! THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for all your support and downloads. Please share this podcast on social media and with family or friends. Also please leave a review on Apple podcast or Spotify. Leaving a review helps me grow and helps my podcast pull up for those searching for a podcast on divorce, blending families etc.Today I talk a little about Holidays and give some advice as we are entering the holiday season. I also share something really sweet my new in-laws did to help me feel excepted as we began our blended family during the holiday season. I pray you all have a good Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year. Wherever you are right now be grateful for what you have. I know this can be hard however our attitudes effect a lot of our moods and this is important for the holidays. I would love to hear from you. Please message me tell me your thoughts on season one. Please tell me what you would you like to see in season two? I have some fun ideas. Also please follow Heathers Detours on Instagram or Facebook. I will be posting giveaways and tips on more blending families and releasing information for Season two. I would love to stay in contact. Until season 2..... One more thing Check out www.heathersdetours.com you can leave a message there too.LoveHeather

This topic can be a hard one to talk about. However I know its important and we can all learn from this episode. I was so honored to have Geoff Steurer join me on Heathers Detours. Geoff is a therapist and author. He is an expert on this topic and I enjoyed talking with him about pornography and the effects it has on marriage. Can a marriage survive pornography? Listen to todays episode as we discuss this question and much more. I promise you will learn so much. Make today great-HeatherShow Notes: Fight the New Drug Beauty Redefined

This episode I sat down with our oldest boy. Cole and I talked about things that we have never discussed before. Cole is my step-son. I say that so you know the family connection however to me he is my son. I am so proud of him for being raw and honest with me. I met Cole at age 12. He is now 23 and a husband and father to our sweet granddaughter. You don't want to miss the advice he gives and I truly believe this episode can help anyone whos listens. Please join me today. I love feedback so please drop me a line or message on Instagram/ HeathersDetours or heathersdetours@gmail.com and message me. Thanks for all your support!Love,Heather

Thinking about getting remarried? Thinking you have it all together? So glad that your marriage is safe? In reality nothing is guaranteed. It can be a scary thought and a hopeless feeling. It doesn't matter where we are in out life's or what age we are we all have to work on our relationships. Today we talk about life and when things don't go as planned. I was lucky to have Kylee Ann join me on this podcast. You don't want to miss this episode! Also Happy November

I was excited to interview the author of The Invincible Family by Kimberly Ells. Her book talks about, "Why the Global Campaign To crush Motherhood and Fatherhood can't win." You may be surprised how much the family is under attack? Her book is very insightful. I know there is a war on families I don't think I really realized all the details. Join me today and listen . You may hear some statistic's that are staggering. One thing Kimberly mentioned is the importance of reading to our children from great books that speak and teach the truth.*SHOW NOTESexclaim documentstopcse.org

This podcast hit 4000 downloads this past week. Thank you so much for all of your support. I honestly had no idea what to expect and I still don't not know what to compare it to. However I think 4000 downloads is great, I will take it. So again thank you. Today I talk briefly with you on some little things. Join me today and let me know what you think about these three topics we lightly talk about. I love hearing from you. Here's to another week. Remember you got this!Love,Heather

On episode 8 we had my dear friend Andrea Lindsay join me on this podcast. Today she is back with her husband Kyle. We wanted a guys opinion on some topics and he was awesome to talk to. He is entertaining and real. He sheds a good light on many topics with his wife Andrea. Remember blending a family is a process and it cant be rushed. Join us today. Drop me a message or a comment on what you liked or didn't like? Please share if you feel this podcast has helped you or if you know someone this could help. Spreading the word on social media means a lot to me. So thank you in advance!!! Also Season 1 will be wrapping up soon. If you are just joining us go back and listen to all the episodes. I have many people tell me they love this podcast even if they aren't blending. Have a great weekLove,Heather

Never did I think I would be interviewing my husbands x-wife. Miracles do happen. Her name kept coming to me and I kept pushing it away. I finally talked with my husband and I gave her a call. I think I surprised her too. Join me today as we experience our first calm conversation together as we discuss our roles. I hope this helps someone or gives you hope. THANK YOU Janette for joining me on Heathers Detours. Please share with someone you think could use this. Remember I love hearing from you. Drop me a question or suggestion. Until next Monday..Love,Heather

We have all heard a myth or two about divorce, remarriage, blending a family and many more. Join me today with the one and only Dr. Dave as we discuss some top myths. If you have a question or want some information on a topic please write to heathersdetours@gmail.com I would love to hear from you!Have a great week-Heather

These two words are some of the hardest words I have had to learn. I am not sure why I chose to speak about them? I guess its because I now see the importance these words mean to blending families and life today. Today you all get the pleasure of hearing from my oldest daughter Ashley. I stand in awe to what she has learned and overcome through my divorce, dating and remarriage. I think we can learn alot from kids who experience divorce. Join me and let me know what you think.

Meet Mrs. Karen Stanley. She is Amazons #1 mate seeking, new release author. She was a single mom for 8 years and she talks with me about her journey. She says after attracting the wrong partner time and time again, she realized if you want to manifest a relationship you have always wanted, you must become the person you have always wanted to be. She has written a book about these strategies. Join me today as I chat with Mrs. Karen Stanley.

The journey of blending a family is the search for where each one fits in. This journey has created, "'This is us." Today I share parts of this journey with varied experiences and stories. Please join me as we discuss this topic. You got this, hang in there. Blending a family or raising a family is a roller coaster of good times and challenging times.Until next Monday-HeatherShow Notes: Building LOVE together in Blended families by: Gary Chapman, PhD & Ron Deal, MMFT

Do you know your love language? Sometimes we show love the way we want to be loved when in fact its not their love language. Today we discuss the Myers Briggs Personality types. I spoke with Sandra Etherington who is a Practitioner for personalities for families. If you care about a relationship, learning their language is key to improving or building upon. Today, more than ever, our life is turned a little upside down. Some of you may now be homeschooling, so knowing your kids personality type can be key. Join me now and let me know what you think ? * Also want to hear about a certain topic? Email me @heathersdetours@gmail.com or message me on instagram or facebook.Have a great week-Heather Taylor

This podcast is for everyone! I am not the only person who has had detours in their life. Today we interview Madeline Cheney. Her son has a very rare medical condition. Tune in and see how it relates to relationships and how she copes with detours in her life. Madeline was a joy to interview and she was one of my first zoom interviews. Streaming over the internet effected my sound. I will work on that. Thank you for listening. Until next Monday- HeatherShow Note:Podcast mentioned: The Rare Life

Join me today while I discuss two important topics. I also give one of my best tips on blending families. Don't forget the giveaway ends today at midnight. Check out heathersdetours on instagram for details.

Today we take a detour and talk with my good friend Andrea Lindsay. We met at a gas station. We share similar stories yet her blended family started with the loss of a spouse. Andrea and her husband today both experienced the tragic loss of their first spouse. We talk about her story today on Heathers Detours. Please join me and please if you haven't write a review and give Heathers Detours a rating so others can benefit from this podcast. Thanks so much! Make today a good daylove,Heather*Show notes/ quotes: "The Bravest thing you will ever do is love again." -Madalyn Beck"Everyone comes with baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack"

First off thank you, the listener. Heathers Detours hit 1500 downloads today on July 30, 2020. Thank you for listening and joining me each week. This episode I discuss some situations we faced at the beginning of blending our family and making it "OURS". Please join me and I hope it can help you in one way or another. Love,Heather

Join me as I discuss the cutest marriage proposal, opening my heart again and hearing from my husband too. Also a birthday shout out to my Son Cayden and my son-in-law Brayden. LOVE YOU BOTHShow Notes: Book Title: 300 questions to talk about before marriage Shannon L. Alder - Author

How do you pull yourself out of a funk? Join me as we discuss this along with dating tips and advice and of course more stories.

I had the privilege of sitting and talking with "Dr. Dave." He has a PHD and is an associate professor and family life extension specialist at Utah State University. He has the facts and studies and I have the experience. Together that made a fun conversation. I hope you enjoy this podcast and my only regret was I didn't let him talk more. We will get him back on again soon. Enjoy!

Taking a detour and had an interview with Jenny Black. She is the creator of, The Everything Housewife. She enjoys writing, sewing, cooking, decorating and public speaking. She is an author and illustrator of "Alora, The good witch". Her favorite holiday is Halloween. She has had many detours in her life. Her parents divorced when she was newly married. Everyone has a story and hers is one to listen to.

The moment it hit me I was truly a single parent.

You have to start at the beginning....

An introduction to the Heathers Detours Podcast. Thanks for joining me in life's detours