New Life Live!

Topics: Depression, Adult Children, Divorce, Finances, Narcissists, Forgiveness Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions: How do I tell our 30yo very depressed son that ne needs to take medication or leave? He quit his job, plays video games, and doesn't even take showers.  Do I need to invite my narcissistic ex-husband to our house for Christmas? I feel obligated The post New Life Live: December 20, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Adoption, Father Issues, Divorce, Grief, Siblings, Mother Issues Hosts: Becky Brown, Milan Yerkovich, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: I got a voicemail from my biological father yesterday whom I've never spoken to; how am I supposed to feel?  A book Milan Yerkovich recommended has really helped me get through my divorce and the death of my mom.  My sister blew through a lot The post New Life Live: December 19, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Wills, Sexual Abuse, Christian Walk, Self Worth, Adult Children Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: How do I write my will if my son has disowned me?  My 22yo son told me about sexual abuse he experienced at 14yo from one of the leaders in our church; what direction do I give him?  Did I do The post New Life Live: December 16, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Confrontation, Forgiveness, Transgender, Christmas, PTSD, Marijuana, Drugs, Boundaries Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: My husband's 95yo aunt told us we have hurt her and that she doesn't want to see us anymore. Should I let it go or write her a letter?  What resources do you recommend for my friend whose sister is transitioning to becoming a man?  The post New Life Live: December 15, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Dating, Adult Children, Drug Addiction, Narcissists, Separation Hosts: Becky Brown, Chris Williams, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: At the Last Supper, did Judas partake in it?  What should I do with the emotions I feel if I think I'm being catfished?  How do we get my 34yo daughter and her kids to move on? She is a recovered drug addict The post New Life Live: December 14, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Coaching, Love Addiction, Scam, Parenting, Anxiety, Newlyweds, Intimacy, Teens Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: Elizabeth Lewis, a New Life Coach, talks about what it's like to coach singles so that they're ready to love again.  How can I help a relative who meets romance scammers online and has sent over a million dollars to them? How do we The post New Life Live: December 13, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Christian Walk, Depression, Divorce, Sexual Integrity, Forgiveness, Sexual Abuse Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: I'm from Ethiopia and like to read from the ESV Bible; how do I refute the teachings at my church that we need to use the KJV Bible?  I haven't celebrated Christmas for 7yrs after my wife told me she didn't love The post New Life Live: December 12, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Parenting, Adult Children, Drug Addiction, Enabling, Narcissists, Schizophrenia, Estrangement Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions: How do I tell my 4yo son he can't be friends with his best friend because their mother is too unstable?  I've given my 45yo son money for drugs; how do I get the strength to evict him from my home?  My The post New Life Live: December 9, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Parenting, Sexual Abuse, Christmas, Weight Loss, Self Worth, Trauma, Father Issues, Grief, Infertility Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Milan Yerkovich, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: What steps do we take for our 5yo son who has been acting out sexually with a younger child?  I started a Christmas tradition with my kids to put Christ first. They had to find where baby Jesus was hiding before we opened The post New Life Live: December 8, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Sexual Abuse, Shame, Anger, Verbal Abuse, Hoarding, Anxiety Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions: My husband doesn't want me to give my testimony at Celebrate Recovery; how should I encourage him to let me do that?  What should I do next if I'm in a wheelchair and my husband is rageful and verbally abusive?  My kids want The post New Life Live: December 7, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Drug Addiction, Bipolar, Enabling, Parenting, Alcohol, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: My 36yo son is bipolar and a drug addict; how can I support him without enabling him?  What help can I get for my 12yr old son who has behavior issues at school?  After weight loss surgery, my diabetic brother-in-law became an alcoholic The post New Life Live: December 6, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Pornography, Affairs, Sexual Integrity, Narcissists, Caregiving, Mother Issues, Aging Parents, Christmas, Christian Walk Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Milan Yerkovich, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: I'm still in love with my ex-husband who was unfaithful for years; is it biblically OK to marry someone else?  Can something good come from something bad? I cared for my narcissist, domineering mom until she passed 6wks ago.  Should I let my The post New Life Live: December 5, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Separation, Verbal Abuse, Adult Children, Avoiders, Sexual Intimacy, Codependency Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: How long should I wait to contact my wife if we've been separated due to my harshness toward her?  I'm 88yo and clash with my kids; how do I stop getting triggered?  How do I respond to a husband who does things out The post New Life Live: December 2, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Affairs, Boundaries, Blended Families, Adult Children, Sexual Abuse, Secrets, Intimacy Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams Caller Questions: What can I do about my husband who is still in contact with the woman he had an affair with 5yrs ago?  How can I be a good Christian wife and not feel left out? My stepdaughter left me out of her The post New Life Live: December 1, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Separation, Affairs, Communication, Evangelism, Engagement, Grief, Pornography, Finances Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Chris Williams Caller Questions: Am I doing the right thing by having no contact with my wife? She left me after I found a picture of her sitting on a coworker's lap.  What's the best way to spread the gospel? I'm in the UK where only half of the The post New Life Live: November 30, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Sexual Integrity, Divorce, Adult Children, Finances, Parenting, Christian Walk Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: My husband is signed up to go to Every Man's Battle this weekend because you guys told me to stand up for myself!  Why are young adults loyal to the parent who does nothing for them, while the parent who does everything doesn't The post New Life Live: November 29, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Pornography, Self Worth, Trust, Sexual Integrity, Sexual Intimacy Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: After recovery from a 20yr porn addiction, how do I move forward? I'm feeling disappointed in my spiritual life and in myself as a father and husband.  If my arrogant husband secretly flirts with my friend on Facebook messenger, is he being unfaithful?  The post New Life Live: November 28, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Divorce, Abandonment, Affairs, Adult Children, Rejection, Father Issues, Self Worth, Separation Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: My ex-husband confessed his affair and abandoned me on Christmas Eve; how do I move forward if I get triggered by putting up a Christmas tree decades later? How do I handle my 52yo son who says he loves me but never The post New Life Live: November 25, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Intimacy, Communication, Bullying, Adult Children, Dating, Siblings, Codependency Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Becky Brown Caller Questions: How do I become a better husband if my wife communicates more intimately with her friends than me?  I can't cope with being bullied and slandered by someone in my neighborhood.  After my divorce and remarriage, how can I help my adult children attract The post New Life Live: November 24, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Grief, Divorce, Remarriage, Childhood Trauma, Sexual Abuse, Shame, Verbal Abuse, Christian Walk  Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: Is it wrong to remarry my first husband, the father of my children, if he came back into the picture after my current husband passed away from COVID?  My uncle raped me when I was an infant. How do I heal The post New Life Live: November 23, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Life Recovery Groups, Boundaries, Affairs, Verbal Abuse, Parenting, Adult Children, Estrangement, Divorce, Confrontation Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: I went from a secular 12-step group to starting a Life Recovery Group because a Life Recovery Group leader encouraged me.  My husband has had affairs and committed adultery throughout our 21yr marriage; do I walk away as the therapists The post New Life Live: November 22, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Church Life, Confrontation, Sexual Intimacy, Sexual Addiction, Emotional Abuse, Salvation Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: How should a church member respond to a pastor who says Jesus didn't die for our sins?  Is there a benefit to abstaining from sex with my wife for a while? I just attended Every Man's Battle.  How do I move forward The post New Life Live: November 21, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Physical Abuse, Childhood Trauma, Finances, Blended Families, Adult Children, Grief Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: I saw the movie I Can Only Imagine; that is my story! My father accepted the Lord and the Lord changed him! I'm a stay-at-home dad. My wife wants me to sign a postnuptial agreement or she will divorce me.  My husband The post New Life Live: November 18, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Childhood Abuse, Sexual Abuse, Anger, Masturbation, Christian Walk, Depression, Adult Children, Marijuana, Boundaries Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: I was sexually abused as a child. How do I get over my anger and hurt when my husband masturbates in front of me?  What do I tell my niece and sister about the Virgin Mary? They believe she was born The post New Life Live: November 17, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Sexual Integrity, Forgiveness, Father Issues, Affairs, Sexual Addiction, Betrayal, Engagement, Trust Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams Caller Questions: How do I curb my lustful desire to look at good-looking women? I stopped using porn 20yrs ago.  How do I forgive my dead father so I can receive and give love well?  My husband has watched porn and had affairs for The post New Life Live: November 16, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Sexual Integrity, Sexual Addiction, Friendship, Anger, Self Worth, Siblings, Father Issues Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: My husband had sex with a prostitute a month ago right before he went to Every Man's Battle workshop; what are my next steps?  How can I stop thinking of the married woman I used to be friends with and The post New Life Live: November 15, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Boundaries, Weight Issues, Parenting, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Depression, Engagement Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: When should I say yes if I struggle with rejection and boundaries and then turn to overeating?  My 6yo stepgrandson wets his pants; do you have any advice for my son who is his stepfather?  Am I doing the right thing to get The post New Life Live: November 14, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: PTSD, Engagement, Divorce, Separation, Drug Addiction Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Amanda Anderson Caller Questions: My fiancée and I both have PTSD. How can I be there to support her when we are both triggered?  I am going through a divorce that I don't want. How do I demonstrate to my wife hope and reconciliation for our marriage?  My The post New Life Live: November 11, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Christian Walk, Priorities, Estrangement, Adult Children, Pornography, Separation, Avoiders Hosts: Zach Matchett, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions: My wife puts her job and kids from her previous marriage before me; what is the biblical perspective?  What can I do if I'm estranged from my 32yo adult son who will only communicate by texting? His dad and I are divorced.  How The post New Life Live: November 10, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Siblings, Narcissists, Church Life, Secrets, Pornography, Christian Walk Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Becky Brown Caller Questions: Should I do more to build relationship with my narcissistic sister who only has superficial conversations with me?  How much should I share with a friend about why I left a church? The pastor's wife thought I was trying to bring a revolt The post New Life Live: November 9, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Dating, Sexual Integrity, Avoiders, Depression, Adult Children, Grief Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: Did I make the right decision to set boundaries with a man who only wants a friends with benefits relationship?  Do you have any words of wisdom as I have stage 3 colon cancer and am staying in a hotel because my husband The post New Life Live: November 8, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Career, Counseling, Drug Addiction, Christian Walk, Dating, Transgender Hosts: Zach Matchett, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions: I want to do what you do! Do you have any advice on what path I should take to be a therapist?  As a recovering alcoholic, what do I tell my adult son when his church friends tell him he only needs The post New Life Live: October 14, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Eating Disorders Relapse, Counseling, Sexual Integrity, Emotional Affairs, Newlyweds Hosts: Zach Matchett, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: After you gave me advice for my food addiction relapse, I met with my therapist and uncovered some reasons why.  My daughter found out her husband talked to other women before their marriage in May. What can she do now The post New Life Live: October 13, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: OCD, Addictions, Anxiety, Isolation Hosts: Zach Matchett, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: What's the difference between an addiction and OCD? I have obsessive thoughts that are very disturbing.  I am 65yo and single; what should I do about my anxiety that is getting worse?  Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Finding Joy In the Empty Nest The post New Life Live: October 12, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Divorce, Teens, Grandparenting, Elder Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Boundaries Hosts: Zach Matchett, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: My son is divorcing after 21yrs and his 13yo daughter refuses to talk to him or us; what can we do?  I'm done with my elder cousin who complains about being abused by her adult granddaughter, but she won't help herself. Adult Protective The post New Life Live: October 11, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Confrontation, Grandparenting, Physical Abuse, Relapse, Eating Disorders Hosts: Zach Matchett, Dr. Alice Benson, Becky Brown Caller Questions: The contractor I hired didn't do the work, and I put a stop payment on his check. How can I be less passive?  How do I help my 10yo great-granddaughter whose mom hit her and is threatening to kick her out?  What's the The post New Life Live: October 10, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Dreams, Same-Sex Attraction, Emotional Abuse, Childhood Trauma, Fear, Parenting, PTSD, Anxiety Hosts: Zach Matchett, Dr. Alice Benton, Becky Brown Caller Questions: Does God use dreams to speak to us?  My friend's wife is abusive to the kids, and she is in a lesbian relationship now. How does he protect his children?  When I was 10yo, we were in a car accident and my The post New Life Live: October 7, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Affairs, Support Group, Communication, Estrangement, Adult Children Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: My wife is showing signs she might have cheated, but I have no proof. What can I do?  I attended the Emotional Freedom Workshop and my PTSD and depression levels are so much lower!  How do I start a women's ministry?  My husband The post New Life Live: October 6, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Affairs, Separation, Drug Addiction, Alcohol, Autism, Adult Children Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Becky Brown, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: After 18yrs of marriage, my wife is denying her affairs and we've been separated for 1yr. Is there hope for our marriage?  My husband is in recovery for cheating and addiction; how do I rebuild trust?  How do I help my 21yo autistic grandson move The post New Life Live: October 5, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Adult Children, Church Life, Narcissists, Divorce, Self Worth, Sexual Intimacy, Affairs, Anger Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: Can counseling help a 20yo procrastinator who won't grow up?  How do I deal with mean church friends?  I feel lost after my divorce from a narcissist; how do I find myself again?  How do I deal with my rage The post New Life Live: October 4, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: 12-step Recovery, Self Worth, Alcohol, Christian Walk, Drug Addiction, Codependency Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions: Is it true my brokenness sets me up for unhappiness?  My husband says I act like I'm better than others; how do I change?  Is it best to avoid going to functions because I get out of control when I drink?  The post New Life Live: October 3, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Separation, Pornography, Spiritual Abuse, Christian Walk, Grandparenting, Incarceration, Mother Issues, Dating Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: When is it acceptable for me to separate from my porn-addicted husband who gets in my face and yells at me to submit?  Was I in error for praying for my husband to be healed from cancer when God knew He wasn't going The post New Life Live: September 30, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Fear, Depression, Alcohol, Addictions, Salvation, Physical Abuse, Lying Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: What can I do about my sadness and fear of falling asleep? I once fell asleep at the wheel and hit a snowplow.  How am I supposed to deal with my husband's alcohol and tobacco addictions? He gets angry and defensive.  I want to challenge The post New Life Live: September 29, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Separation, Affairs, Addictions, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Teens, Masturbation Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions: Should I follow through with a divorce if I have six kids and my husband is on dating apps and uses drugs?  Why is there a stigma of having dissociative identity disorder? I'm 78yo and don't have friends.  How should I respond to The post New Life Live: September 28, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Same-Sex Attraction, Affairs, Christian Walk, Grief, Shame Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: Is it biblical to stop associating with my daughter who is married to a woman?  I had an affair during my first marriage, divorced, and married my affair. Will I still go to heaven?  Comment: You can't say someone who commits adultery is going The post New Life Live: September 27, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Siblings, Same-Sex Attraction, Dating, Alcohol, Adult Children, Introverts Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: Author Nick Harrison shares about the One Year Life Recovery Prayer Devotional he wrote with Steve Arterburn.  How do I navigate with my kids my brother visiting my sister for the weekend with his drag queen boyfriend?  Should I move to a more The post New Life Live: September 26, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Sexual Abuse, Intimacy, Teens, Pornography, ADHD, Grandparenting Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: What's my next thing to do if my wife was sexually abused as a child and thinks counseling doesn't work?  How do we help our 15yo son to stop watching online porn after getting into trouble at school and going to therapy?  Would you The post New Life Live: September 23, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Bipolar, Work Issues, Sexual Integrity, PTSD, Physical Abuse, Teens, Shame Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Becky, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: What should I do if I'm bipolar, and a coworker seems to be watching everything I do?  How much should I get involved with a young female employee who is quitting to sell her sex life online?  My 16yo daughter has PTSD and anxiety from The post New Life Live: September 22, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Boundaries, Emotional Abuse, Adult Children, Parent Issues, Narcissists Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: How do I set a boundary that my emotionally abusive husband will respect?  Our 20yo daughter is in college and lives at home but doesn't help around the house.  How do I become whole again after severing my relationship with a The post New Life Live: September 21, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Dating, Narcissists, Alcohol, Intimacy, Separation, Adult Children, Suicide, Marijuana Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: Do you recommend a book or therapy to get over being terrified of having a relationship with a man? My last boyfriend was a narcissist and alcoholic.  You talked about reinventing yourself as empty nesters, and my wife and I are taking an online The post New Life Live: September 20, 2022 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Adoption, Abortion, Estrangement, Adult Children, Custody, Blended Families Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Becky Brown, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: Interview with Jen Wilkin about our Lumina Women's Event in November.  Do I tell my 13yo daughter, who was adopted at birth, that her birth mom tried to abort her?  After listening to my estranged daughter's hurts, what should I do to reconcile?  I have The post New Life Live: September 19, 2022 appeared first on New Life.