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Listeners were also treated to Money Mondays with Jini Thornton, who shared practical advice on helping aging parents organize their finances, legal documents, and long-term care plans before a crisis occurs. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Episode 143 - The Cost of Caregiving for Aging Parents with Gerda Maissel, MD, BCPA - Why so many families are caught financially and emotionally unprepared when a parent's health needs suddenly change.Disclaimer: Please note that all information and content on the UK Health Radio Network, all its radio broadcasts and podcasts are provided by the authors, producers, presenters and companies themselves and is only intended as additional information to your general knowledge. As a service to our listeners/readers our programs/content are for general information and entertainment only. The UK Health Radio Network does not recommend, endorse, or object to the views, products or topics expressed or discussed by show hosts or their guests, authors and interviewees. We suggest you always consult with your own professional – personal, medical, financial or legal advisor. So please do not delay or disregard any professional – personal, medical, financial or legal advice received due to something you have heard or read on the UK Health Radio Network.
They are getting it from both ends and no one is noticing. Expect Gen Xer Aaron Brown. Listen to his chat about the current state of affairs from the unbreakable generation with Vineeta on The WCCO Morning News.
They are getting it from both ends and no one is noticing. Expect Gen Xer Aaron Brown. Listen to his chat about the current state of affairs from the unbreakable generation with Vineeta on The WCCO Morning News.
Upgrade to the Ad Free Premium Podcast Experience - https://rachelhollis.supercast.com Get your copy of Rachel's Book Here: Audible, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Books-A-Millon, Bookshop.org, or wherever books are sold! To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices In this edition of Ask Rach on The Rachel Hollis Podcast, Rach answers listener questions about caring for an aging family member without losing yourself, prioritizing personal and professional development as an entrepreneur, and handling friends or family who expect discounts from your business. She encourages listeners to establish emotional boundaries, recognize learning and self-development as valuable investments in future growth, and confidently protect their time, energy, and business without feeling responsible for other people's reactions. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Caring for an aging parent is one of the greatest honours Allah entrusts to a heart, and often one of its greatest tests.Whether you are a caregiver today, carrying the grief of a parent who has returned to Allah, navigating a difficult relationship, or simply praying to honour your parents more beautifully, these duas are for you.May they bring words to your heart, comfort to your caregiving, and hope that no sacrifice made for Allah is ever forgotten.eBooks of dua:www.kindnoteswithhalima.comPhysical books of dua, relational card decks, greeting cards, bookmarks, and more:www.shopkindnotes.comMay Allah reward every act of service you have offered your parents, forgive what you wish you had done differently, and reunite you with them in the highest ranks of Jannah.
Listen to your father, who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old. — Proverbs 23:22 Some years ago, as our nearly adult daughter was on the verge of “leaving the nest,” I mentioned something about the fifth commandment's call for children to obey their parents. She looked me in the eye and asked, “Does the Bible really teach that adult children need to obey their parents?”That was a great question, and I've often thought about it since then. On the one hand, she was right: as children grow into adults, the dynamics of obedience to their parents will change. Yet the instruction for children to honor and respect their parents, regardless of their age, remains at the core of the commandment.In this section of Proverbs we find the helpful advice to “listen to your father”—and this points to the fact that through experience gained from years of life's ups and downs, our parents may well have significant wisdom to offer us. We also find here a wise reminder not to dismiss or neglect our aging parents. In fact, for many of us today, caring for aging parents can be one of the most challenging seasons of our lives. Yet as God placed our early care into the hands of our parents, he also places the care of our elderly parents into our hands.May we strive to do our best to love and honor our parents throughout our entire lives, as God calls us to do. Father, thank you for the gift of parents. Help us to obey them when we are young, and to honor and respect them throughout our lives. Amen.
When Caring Becomes Exhausting: Michelle on Caregiver Fatigue, Aging Parents, and Knowing Your Limits In this episode of Conversations with a Chiropractor, Dr. Stephanie Wautier talks with Michelle about something millions of families quietly struggle with: caregiver fatigue. Michelle moved home to help care for her nearly 90-year-old mother after a series of falls and a stroke changed what independent living looked like. What began as a decision rooted in love and safety gradually became a much larger responsibility, affecting Michelle's work, relationships, sleep, stress levels, freedom, and even the way she experiences her relationship with her mother. Stephanie and Michelle talk openly about the role reversal that happens when an adult child becomes a caregiver, the guilt that can come with setting boundaries, the constant worry about falls and safety, and the emotional difficulty of considering assisted living or higher levels of care when a parent desperately wants to remain at home. They also discuss something caregivers do not always give themselves permission to admit: loving someone deeply does not make caregiving easy. Sometimes the greatest challenge is acknowledging that the responsibility has become too heavy to carry alone. Listener Offer This episode of Conversations with a Chiropractor is supported by Lemongrove Oil. Use code DRSTEPHANIE at checkout for 10% off your order. https://www.lemongroveoil.com/ In This Episode Michelle and Stephanie discuss caregiver burnout, moving home to care for an aging parent, personality and relationship changes after a stroke, the mental strain of constantly worrying about safety, losing independence as both caregiver and parent, setting boundaries, respite care, assisted living, guilt, family dynamics, support groups, and recognizing when caregiving has begun to affect your own physical and emotional health. Caregiver Support & Resources Caregiving can feel isolating, but support is available. Alzheimer's Association Support Groups In-person and virtual groups are available for caregivers, including family caregivers and people supporting someone with dementia or cognitive changes. https://www.alz.org/help-support/community/support-groups Alzheimer's Association Michigan Chapter Michigan caregiver groups, online communities, and local support resources: https://www.alz.org/mglc/support Caregiver Action Network Free education, caregiver resources, peer support, and a Caregiver Help Desk: https://www.caregiveraction.org/ These resources can help caregivers connect with people who understand the emotional, physical, and practical realities of caring for someone they love. Conversations with a Chiropractor YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/@ConversationswithaChiro Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wautierwellness Email: drstephaniewautier@yahoo.com Want to be a guest? Send Stephanie Wautier a message on PodMatch: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/drstephanie Credits Podcast production by Brand|Sound. Start your podcast journey by emailing brandsoundpodcasts@gmail.com. Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:55 Michelle's Caregiving Reality 03:46 Moving Home to Care for Mom 06:05 How a Stroke Changed Their Relationship 09:34 Recognizing Caregiver Burnout 13:38 When Is More Care Necessary? 16:58 The Rollercoaster of Good Days and Bad Days 20:59 Promises, Guilt, and Medical Necessity 24:32 Putting Your Own Life on Hold 25:58 Boundaries, Vacations, and Respite Care 28:31 What We Would Want for Our Own Children 29:37 Finding Support From People Who Understand 33:36 Admitting That Caregiving Is Hard
A husband-and-wife team bought a senior moving company right before COVID and grew it from 6 jobs a month to 420 projects a year with zero paid marketing.Michael and Tammy Bilek, co-owners of Honoring Aging, Inc., share how they survived a pandemic in an industry serving seniors, grew by showing up with cookies instead of AI funnels, and built a business that runs without them.00:00:00 Introduction00:05:40Q: Should you buy an existing business or start from scratch?A: Michael Bilek and Tammy Bilek decided buying made more sense because Tammy had 13 years of knowledge that would have been lost starting over.00:14:21Q: How do you keep a business alive when COVID threatens your clients?A: Michael Bilek and Tammy Bilek partnered with communities and refused to shut down because seniors still needed to move.00:29:05Q: Does showing up in person work better than AI lead generation?A: Tammy Bilek explains that showing up with cookies and asking about clients generates more business than any automated system.00:49:44Q: How do you build a business that runs without you?A: Tammy Bilek describes the moment she felt caught up for the first time, realizing the team could operate without her.00:59:01Q: Is it okay if your business never makes you super rich?A: Michael Bilek shares that losing a friend at 52 reinforced that living well matters more than wealth.Subscribe and share this with a founder who needs a reminder that relationships beat algorithms.
Aging parent health issues can arise suddenly. One health problem can lead to the next, resulting in a downward spiral of worsening health and worry. Caregiving expert Pamela D. Wilson shares strategies for caregivers and older adults to identify layered health problems that can become serious and feel impossible to manage, even when working with physicians and the healthcare system.By taking proactive steps, caregivers and older adults can remain physically strong and active well into their retirement years. Wilson offers professional caregiving guidance by sharing a story illustrating how worsening health conditions among the elderly stem from layered, interconnected problems that often go unnoticed.Family caregivers and older adults can learn to recognize patterns and prevent the domino effect of health conditions that can lead to unnecessary caregiving and family care crises.To find show transcripts and educational links on the topic mentioned in Episode 251 and other The Caring Generation podcasts, click here to visit Pamela's website: https://pameladwilson.com/caregiver-radio-programs-the-caring-generation/For more caregiving, aging, and elder care tips for your caregiving journey, visit Pamela's website at https://www.PamelaDWilson.comLearn about Pamela D Wilson as a caregiving expert, her professional background, and her 25 years of professional caregiving and elder care experience: https://pameladwilson.com/pamela-d-wilson-story/Schedule a 1:1 elder care consultation by telephone or video call with Pamela: https://pameladwilson.com/elder-care-consultant-aging-parent-consultation-managing-senior-care-needs-meet-with-pamela-d-wilson/Schedule a private, confidential, family elder care mediation session with Pamela: https://pameladwilson.com/elder-care-mediator/Learn about Pamela D Wilson as an expert witness in caregiving, guardianship, fiduciary litigation, power of attorney, care management, and non-medical in-home care: https://pameladwilson.com/conservatorship-guardianship-expert-witness/ https://pameladwilson.com/expert-witness-caregiving-home-care-guardianship/Check out Pamela's online course Caring for Aging Parents: https://pameladwilson.com/support-caring-for-elderly-parents-overwhelmed-caregiver-support-online-course/Sign up for Pamela's newsletter here: https://pameladwilson.com/contact/Join Pamela's Online Caregiver Support Group on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/thecaregivingtrapFollow Pamela on Social Media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pameladwilsoncaregivingexpert/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pameladwilsoncaregiverexpert/X: https://www.x.com/CaregivingSpeakPamela D. Wilson is a professional family caregiving and eldercare expert. As a caregiving consultant, expert witness, eldercare mediator and speaker, she provides caregiver advice and tips, individual and family caregiver support, and resources for aging and elder care decision-making. Pamela's 25 years of professional experience inform caregiving discussions, eldercare strategies, and care plans that encompass health, healthcare, financial, and legal aspects, as well as family dynamics. Visit Pamela's website at www.PamelaDWilson.com to access caregiver resources, online courses, her caregiving blog, library, book, videos, and podcast transcripts, offering practical advice and tips for aging adults and family caregivers providing elder care support. ©2018, 2026 Pamela D Wilson. All Rights Reserved
In this episode of Econ 101, we explore the “Gen X Sandwich”—the financial and emotional squeeze many Gen Xers face while simultaneously supporting their children and caring for aging parents.Drawing from personal experience, we discuss why simply having a trust or power of attorney may not be enough. We cover the importance of understanding your parents' financial accounts, establishing the proper authority and access, organizing passwords and digital assets, and having difficult conversations about healthcare, funeral arrangements, and end-of-life wishes before a crisis occurs.The biggest takeaway: don't wait until something happens to start planning.Know where the accounts are. Know who has authority. Know where the passwords and important documents are. Know what your parents actually want.And as you help your parents prepare, don't repeat the same family mistake. Make sure your own spouse and children have that same information about you.(00:01:52) — When the Parent-Child Roles Suddenly Reverse(00:05:21) — Trust vs. Power of Attorney: What Happens at Death?(00:09:24) — The Digital Estate: Passwords, Accounts & Access(00:12:16) — The Conversation Every Family Avoids Until It's Too Late(00:17:00) — Don't Repeat the Same Family MistakeNEWSLETTER (WHAT NOW): https://substack.com/@9icapital?r=2eig6s&utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-page Follow Us: youtube: / @9icap Linkedin: / kevin-thompson-ricp%c2%ae-cfp%c2%ae-74964428 facebook: / mlb2cfp Buy MLB2CFP Here: https://www.amazon.com/MLB-CFP%C2%AE-90-Feet-Counting-ebook/dp/B0BLJPYNS4 Website: http://www.9icapitalgroup.com Hit the subscribe button to get new content notifications. Corrections: Editing by http://SwoleNerdProductions.com Disclosure: https://sites.google.com/view/9idisclosure/disclosure
On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince's conversation is with Gordon Haas of Haas Wealth Strategies, about using financial planning to navigate major life transitions and crises like illness, job changes, and retirement decisions. Gordon shares his own experience with advanced-stage cancer in his early 30s, and a cardiac arrest during COVID, explaining how health events can create urgent financial demands around insurance, income disruption, medical bills, and support systems. Gordon emphasizes proactive planning·life insurance, wills, beneficiaries, disability coverage·and encourages open family conversations, including intergenerational planning and ·generational wealth· as both assets and wisdom. For more, visit haaswealthstrategies.com and check out Gordon·s podcast, Gen Relational Wealth 01:46 Health Crises Change Planning 04:10 From Engineering to Finance 09:37 Planning Under Pressure 13:14 Insurance Lessons Learned 17:55 Caring for Aging Parents 22:12 Starting Hard Money Talks 27:34 Proactive Checkups and Taxes 31:49 Generational Wealth Beyond Money 36:29 Resources and Closing Key Links: Haaswealthstrategies.com GenRelational Wealth Podcast Haas Wealth Strategies (@HaasStrategies) • Facebook Gordon Haas, CFP® - YouTube Gordon Haas, CFP® - Wealth Advisor and CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER® | LinkedIn Contact the Host - vince@thecfoathome.com Want to be a guest on CFO at Home? Send Vince a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1628643039567x840793309030672500
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Caring for ageing parents does not require you to surrender your home, health or future. This episode explores parental guilt, family expectations and sibling conflict over elderly care. You are allowed to love your ageing parents without giving up your home, your health and your life. Many women live under an unspoken contract: a good daughter stays available, accommodates everyone and proves her love through sacrifice. Nobody asks whether she agreed to that contract—or what it will cost her. In this episode, I challenge the belief that caring for an ageing parent requires an adult daughter to disappear. Through a composite coaching example, I explore what happens when a woman has already set a boundary with her elderly parent but continues to punish herself for it. She has said no on the outside, while still believing that a good daughter should have said yes. We discuss: Why feeling guilty does not prove that you are guilty The difference between setting a boundary and emotionally standing behind it Why love does not require unlimited access to your home, energy or life How to deal with a parent who remains disappointed with your decision Why another person's unhappiness is not an instruction to abandon yourself Sibling conflict over caring for elderly parents How distant siblings use criticism to manage the guilt of not being there Why you cannot outsource the labour and retain total control How to replace vague guilt with clear, practical responsibility Why a good daughter is not required to sacrifice the life she has spent decades building A parent's need is real. It does not automatically become your personal assignment. You can acknowledge your parent's disappointment without agreeing to the arrangement they want. You can love them, support them and contribute to their care without surrendering your marriage, health, ambitions, peace or future. Questions to consider Where am I already saying no but still punishing myself for it? What am I genuinely willing to give once guilt is removed from the decision? There may be no solution in which your parent is happy, your sibling agrees, nobody judges you and you feel completely comfortable. Discomfort is not the same as wrongdoing. Disappointing another person is not the same as abandoning them. Being a loving daughter does not require you to surrender your life. Share this episode If you know a woman who is trying to be a good daughter at the expense of her own life, share this episode with her. Send it without advice or criticism. Simply say: “I heard this, and I thought you might need to hear it too.” She may not need another reminder of what she owes everybody else. She may need permission to stop disappearing.
This episode offers a comprehensive guide on medication management, and legal preparations. Hosted by experts, it provides practical tips for families to ensure dignity, independence, and peace of mind.KEY TOPICSTalking to parents about medication safety and managementStart early conversations about aging to build trust.TAKEAWAYSUse routines to help with medication adherence.Keep all medications in one pharmacy to avoid interactions.Prioritize safety over control in caregiving.For any questions or suggestions for future topics on caregiving for aging parents: https://www.marcyllecombs.com/#contact
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It's time to dive deep into one of the most challenging and emotionally charged topics faced by families and caregivers: navigating the conversation around driving with dementia. Our guest, Robin Rountree, Director of Communications and Marketing for the Alzheimer's and Dementia Resource Center and host of the Informed Aging Podcast, shares her personal and professional journey inspired by her mother's battle with Lewy body dementia.We explore why driving is often the last vestige of independence for older adults and discuss the immense skills and mental load required for safe driving—skills often diminished by cognitive changes. Robin and our host unravel the emotional barriers families encounter, such as denial and guilt, and the complex balance between preserving dignity and ensuring safety for everyone on the road.With humor, vulnerability, and firsthand insights, this episode is a must-listen for anyone supporting an aging loved one through difficult decisions about independence and safety. Tune in for guidance on starting the conversation, protecting both your loved one and your peace of mind, and ensuring the well-being of everyone on the road.SeniorLivingGuide.com Podcast sponsored by LivDry & TerraBella Senior Living Join Robin on the Informed Aging Podcast The background music is written, performed and produced exclusively by purple-planet.com.https://www.purple-planet.com/*SeniorLivingGuide.com Webinars and Podcast represents the opinions and expertise of our guests. The content here is for informational and educational purposes. It does not necessarily represent the views, recommendations, opinions or advice of Fairfax Publishing/SeniorLivingGuide.com or its employees
How do you honor a loved one's wish to stay at home while also making sure they are safe, supported, and able to thrive? In this episode, Stacy sits down with gerontologist and care manager Rebecca Lippel to unpack the emotional, practical, and financial realities of caring for an aging family member. They talk about the many care options available, the hidden costs families often overlook, and why the right plan may need to change over time. Rebecca also shares a compassionate approach to difficult care conversations that protects dignity, autonomy, and family relationships. You'll hear them discuss: How to determine whether staying at home is still realistic, safe, and financially sustainable The differences between companionship, part-time home care, live-in support, and overnight care Why finding the right caregiver is about personality and trust, not just qualifications The additional costs families often miss, including groceries, housekeeping, transportation, and medical appointment support What Medicare, Medicaid, health insurance, and long-term care insurance may, or may not, cover When assisted living, memory care, or skilled nursing may offer more than in-home care How to approach difficult conversations without taking away your loved one's dignity, control, or sense of independence Resources Rebecca Lippel on LiveWell Care Management | LinkedIn | Phone: 917-923-1463 Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
Talking to aging parents about money can be uncomfortable, but experts say having those conversations early can help protect their wishes, independence, and financial security. Ed Gjertsen, Certified Financial Planner and Founder of Engage Wealth Group in Chicago, joins Andy Dahn on the WBBM Noon Business Hour with the details.
When aging parents face unexpected health crises, families without a financial safety net experience high stress and relationship challenges. Learn how adults of all ages can learn to develop protective aging and elder care strategies.Caregiving expert Pamela D. Wilson offers professional caregiving guidance and tips to help you learn to self-direct health care, choose a long-term care strategy, and protect yourself from Social Security-related financial risks you may be unaware of.Learn the importance of creating individual and family plans for aging that support financial security, day-to-day stability, and confidence, and that allow you to manage your health and create financial stability for yourself, your elderly parents, and future generations.For professional family caregiver support and advice about health, healthcare, financial, legal, and family dynamics around caregiving and eldercare, including private, family elder care mediation, visit Pamela's website at www.PamelaDWilson.comRequest a professional 1:1 virtual, family caregiver consultation, or private family elder mediation session with Pamela D Wilson: https://pameladwilson.com/elder-care-consultant-aging-parent-consultation-managing-senior-care-needs-meet-with-pamela-d-wilson/Learn how private family elder care mediation can preserve family relationships and create frameworks for problem-solving and decision-making: https://pameladwilson.com/elder-care-mediator/Listen to The Caring Generation podcast on Wilson's website: https://pameladwilson.com/caregiver-radio-programs-the-caring-generation/Learn about Pamela D Wilson, her professional background, and her experience: https://pameladwilson.com/pamela-d-wilson-story/Learn about Pamela D Wilson as an expert witness in caregiving, guardianship, fiduciary litigation, care management, and non-medical in-home care: https://pameladwilson.com/conservatorship-guardianship-expert-witness/ https://pameladwilson.com/expert-witness-caregiving-home-care-guardianship/ https://pameladwilson.com/power-of-attorney-advisor-or-protector/Check out Pamela's online course Caring for Aging Parents: https://pameladwilson.com/support-caring-for-elderly-parents-overwhelmed-caregiver-support-online-course/Sign up for Pamela's caregiver newsletter: https://pameladwilson.com/contact/Invite Pamela to speak to your company or group. Learn more and download a copy of her speaker's kit: https://pameladwilson.com/caregiving-speaker-aging-parents-expert-advocate-keynotes-presentations-digital-caregiver-programs/Follow Pamela on Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pameladwilsoncaregivingexpert/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pameladwilsoncaregiverexpert/ X: https://x.com/CaregivingSpeakPamela D. Wilson is a professional family caregiving and eldercare expert. As a caregiving consultant, expert witness, eldercare mediator and speaker, she provides caregiver advice and tips, individual and family caregiver support, and resources for aging and elder care decision-making. Pamela's 25 years of professional experience inform caregiving discussions, eldercare strategies, and care plans that encompass health, healthcare, financial, and legal aspects, as well as family dynamics. Visit Pamela's website at www.PamelaDWilson.com to access caregiver resources, online courses, her caregiving blog, library, book, videos, and podcast transcripts, offering practical advice and tips for aging adults and family caregivers providing elder care support. ©2018, 2026 Pamela D Wilson. All Rights Reserved
The Mindful Healers Podcast with Dr. Jessie Mahoney and Dr. Ni-Cheng Liang
There is a moment many of us know is coming: a parent's health changes, and our role changes with it. For physicians, caregiving can be especially complicated — our medical knowledge comes with responsibility, worry, and a powerful instinct to fix. We can know what might be medically best and still not be the person who gets to decide. Jessie and Ni-Cheng explore how mindfulness and coaching don't remove the difficulty of caregiving, but can change how we carry it and help us remain present, connected, and buoyant along the way. In This Episode: Why being "the doctor in the family" can complicate caregiving instead of easing it The difference between resilience and buoyancy Walking alongside aging parents versus managing them Letting go of overfunctioning and over-optimizing in caregiving What overwhelm, frustration, and resentment are actually telling us Pearls of Wisdom: Being "the doctor in the family" can make caregiving harder rather than easier. We may recognize every red flag and feel responsible even when the decisions are not ours to make. Buoyancy is different from resilience. Most physicians already know how to endure; buoyancy is about capacity, nervous system steadiness, repletion, and rising again when life pulls us under. Walking alongside our aging parents is different from managing them. We can offer knowledge and be helpful while still respecting their autonomy. Sustainable caregiving requires letting go of overfunctioning and over-optimizing. Doing something most efficiently doesn't automatically mean it's ours to do. Overwhelm, anger, frustration, and resentment aren't evidence that we're failing. They're information that may be asking us to rest, ask for help, regulate, or set a boundary. Reflection Questions: Where has caregiving opened us to a conversation or relationship we didn't expect? Where is caregiving difficult right now in a way that doesn't need to become a lesson? Where might our medical training be making caregiving harder rather than easier? What might change if we used mindfulness or coaching instead of our instinct to fix? Ways to work with Jessie 1:1 Coaching: www.jessiemahoneymd.com CME Wellness Retreats: www.jessiemahoneymd.com/retreats Free Live-Stream Mindful Yoga: www.jessiemahoneymd.com/yoga Jessie's Blog: www.jessiemahoneymd.com/jessies-blog Podcast Page: www.jessiemahoneymd.com/mindful-healers-podcast Nothing shared in the Healing Medicine Podcast is medical advice. The Healing Medicine Podcast was formerly known as the Mindful Healers Podcast.
Last week, my 15-year-old granddaughter came out to our trailer with a friend — and for the first time, I realized she doesn't really need me anymore. It hit harder than I expected.In this video, I'm talking about the quiet, complicated grief of watching grandkids grow up — the kind nobody warns you about in retirement. Nobody has done anything wrong. Nothing bad has happened. It's exactly what's supposed to happen. And it still hurts a little.We talk a lot about retirement finances, staying active, finding hobbies. But nobody tells you retirement is also full of quiet goodbyes — the last board game, the last time they want you to push them on the swing, the last sleepover where they still want Grandma to read a story. You rarely recognize these moments while you're living them.If you've felt this too — with grandkids, or your own kids growing into teenagers — I'd love to hear about it in the comments. I read every one.
Legacy, leadership, aging parents, and compassion. Dave explores how today's choices shape tomorrow's memories and the life people will remember.
As we get older the tables turn: the parents that raised us will often need to be taken care of as they age. Jeremy Bradley talks about serious debates he's had with relatives and friends about the care of elderly parents. Is it the kid's/kids' responsibility to take care of parents in poor health or is it only a moral obligation?
What if the hardest job of midlife isn't the one you planned for? This week, Gina is joined in The Summer Club by Teri Hart, host of the caregiving podcast The Heart of It All. After walking her own dad through vascular dementia and helping her mom navigate widowhood, Teri turned 30 years of broadcasting experience into a resource for the rest of us. She and Gina get real about the conversations we avoid (wills, power of attorney, and the two bank accounts you didn't know your dad had), why boundaries make you a better caregiver, and how to build your own village before you're in crisis. They dig into caregiver guilt and the grief that starts before anyone's gone.Where to Find Teri:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/teriharthttps://www.instagram.com/thehartofitallpod/Podcast: The Hart Of It AllWebsite: thehartofitall.comThis podcast aligns with Day one of our Summer Club, members can find video in our Livy Method app or Summer Club Community Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/livymethodspring2026 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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July 16, 2026 ~ Chris Renwick and Lloyd Jackson consult Dr. Steve Craig on taking keys from an aging parent. They discuss setting firm boundaries to ensure safety during this difficult family transition. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Solve the issue of constantly reacting to elder care emergencies by identifying symptoms and root problems of supporting aging parents' bad habits. Schedule family discussions to identify elder care strategies around caregiving resources and personal time. Identify bad habits that contribute to challenging family dynamics, elderly care needs, and senior health problems that negatively impact caregivers' time, money, physical, mental, and emotional energy, and health. In this first episode of year nine of The Caring Generation podcast, caregiving expert Pamela D. Wilson shares practical steps to raise awareness among all family members, including the elderly parent who needs care, about the cost of responding to unnecessary emergencies that pull caregivers away from their jobs, families, and personal priorities.To find show transcripts and educational links on the topic mentioned in Episode 249 and other The Caring Generation podcasts, click here to visit Pamela's website: https://pameladwilson.com/caregiver-radio-programs-the-caring-generation/For more caregiving, aging, and elder care tips for your caregiving journey, visit Pamela's website at https://www.PamelaDWilson.comLearn about Pamela D Wilson as a caregiving expert, her professional background, and her 25 years of professional caregiving and elder care experience: https://pameladwilson.com/pamela-d-wilson-story/Schedule a 1:1 elder care consultation by telephone or video call with Pamela: https://pameladwilson.com/elder-care-consultant-aging-parent-consultation-managing-senior-care-needs-meet-with-pamela-d-wilson/Learn about Pamela D Wilson as an expert witness in caregiving, guardianship, fiduciary litigation, power of attorney, care management, and non-medical in-home care: https://pameladwilson.com/conservatorship-guardianship-expert-witness/ https://pameladwilson.com/expert-witness-caregiving-home-care-guardianship/ https://pameladwilson.com/power-of-attorney-advisor-or-protector/Check out Pamela's online course Caring for Aging Parents: https://pameladwilson.com/support-caring-for-elderly-parents-overwhelmed-caregiver-support-online-course/Sign up for Pamela's newsletter here: https://pameladwilson.com/contact/Join Pamela's Online Caregiver Support Group on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/thecaregivingtrapFollow Pamela on Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pameladwilsoncaregivingexpert/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pameladwilsoncaregiverexpert/X: https://www.x.com/CaregivingSpeakPamela D. Wilson is a professional family caregiving and eldercare expert. As a caregiving consultant, expert witness, eldercare mediator and speaker, she provides caregiver advice and tips, individual and family caregiver support, and resources for aging and elder care decision-making. Pamela's 25 years of professional experience inform caregiving discussions, eldercare strategies, and care plans that encompass health, healthcare, financial, and legal aspects, as well as family dynamics. Visit Pamela's website at www.PamelaDWilson.com to access caregiver resources, online courses, her caregiving blog, library, book, videos, and podcast transcripts, offering practical advice and tips for aging adults and family caregivers providing elder care support. ©2018, 2026 Pamela D Wilson. All Rights Reserved
As part of the 2026 Developmental Disabilities Conference, moderator Megan Cvitanovic leads a discussion with panelists Zorahida Preciado, Colette Patt, and Mechelle Johnson about resources for people with developmental disabilities who are living with aging parents. Series: "Developmental Disabilities Update" [Health and Medicine] [Show ID: 41460]
As part of the 2026 Developmental Disabilities Conference, moderator Megan Cvitanovic leads a discussion with panelists Zorahida Preciado, Colette Patt, and Mechelle Johnson about resources for people with developmental disabilities who are living with aging parents. Series: "Developmental Disabilities Update" [Health and Medicine] [Show ID: 41460]
As part of the 2026 Developmental Disabilities Conference, moderator Megan Cvitanovic leads a discussion with panelists Zorahida Preciado, Colette Patt, and Mechelle Johnson about resources for people with developmental disabilities who are living with aging parents. Series: "Developmental Disabilities Update" [Health and Medicine] [Show ID: 41460]
Many people in their 40s and 50s feel like they're being pulled in two directions at once. They're helping their children pay for college, first homes, or everyday expenses while also stepping into the role of caregiver for aging parents.Welcome to the Sandwich Generation.In this episode, Ryan Kus and Andrew Hinrichs discuss the financial and emotional challenges of balancing multiple generations that depend on you. They cover how to protect your own retirement while helping loved ones, common planning mistakes families make, and practical strategies for navigating long-term care, estate planning, and family conversations.If you've ever wondered, "How do I help everyone without sacrificing my own future?" this episode is for you.
As parents age, money can get more complicated—bill paying, account access, healthcare decisions, investment management, and eventually the possibility that someone else may need to step in. In this episode, Don and Tom walk through how families can start that conversation before a crisis hits. They cover when to begin talking, what adult children should know about accounts and spending, why durable powers of attorney need to be checked with custodians in advance, and the importance of reviewing wills, beneficiaries, and backup decision-makers. They also talk about the emotional side of these transitions, including independence, trust, and the danger of children projecting their own investing preferences—or financial self-interest—onto aging parents.Then they answer two listener questions: one about whether it's time to fire an evasive advisor charging 1% plus expensive funds, and another about alternative career paths in financial planning beyond the traditional CFP route.0:05 – Intro: the hard conversation families need to have about aging and money1:00 – When parents—or you—reach the point where financial help may be needed1:56 – Tom's family experience and the challenge of stepping in gracefully3:17 – Why families should talk early about money, spending, and where accounts are held5:24 – Account access, passwords, and why digital organization matters more than ever7:38 – Durable power of attorney: why you need one and why custodians should review it in advance9:01 – Backups for everything: POAs, wills, beneficiaries, and successor decision-makers10:02 – Why adult children should meet their parents' financial advisor before a crisis11:07 – When a trusted advisor can help if parents don't want children directly involved11:28 – How to approach the conversation as an adult child without expecting instant control12:28 – Don't project your own investing style onto your parents' retirement portfolio13:28 – The uncomfortable reality of greed and inheritance influencing family decisions13:40 – Why this belongs at the top of the planning checklist for older families14:07 – How to send your own questions to Talking Real Money14:58 – Listener question: Is it time to fire a wealth manager who won't answer basic questions?17:15 – Don and Tom's verdict on an advisor charging 1% while dodging accountability18:48 – Listener question: Are there good financial-planning career paths besides becoming a CFP?20:41 – The regulatory reality of giving investment advice for a fee22:32 – Relationship roles, planning roles, and the growing specialization inside advisory firmsQuestions? Comments? Click!
Welcome back to Dial Emma, and to the last episode of our latest miniseries, The Truth. This week, we're exploring the unsayable truths about family, and the caregiving roles that we never signed up for.Our listener, a woman in her fifties whose parents are now in their seventies, wrote to me about the feeling of losing herself while taking on multiple roles in her parents' lives: administrator, technical support, taxi service, crisis manager. She asks a simple question: am I an awful person, for wanting freedom from the people I love?In this episode, I explore the specific exhaustion that comes from being needed, the feeling of your own middle age being consumed by managing somebody else's later life, and why we can feel grief, resentment, loss and love all at once.Dial Emma is hosted by Emma Reed Turrell, produced by Lauren Brook.---Book my 2027 women's retreat at Bliss House in Crete: https://bliss-house-experience.replit.appBook a place on my Woodland Wellbeing Day Retreat with Alice Crowe: https://www.alicecroweceramics.co.uk/product/woodland-wellbeing-day-retreat-with-emma-reed-turrell-alice-croweSocial media:Emma Reed Turrell @emmareedturrellDial Emma @dialemmapodcastEmail: contact@dial-emma.uk
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Navigating the care of our aging parents is one of the most profound, yet least talked about, transitions we face as adults. This is really common—we rarely sit down to discuss end-of-life wishes or logistics until a sudden medical crisis throws us into an emotional whirlwind. When you are managing this transition from a distance—whether due to life circumstances or the unique demands of military deployment and relocation—the weight can easily ripple into your marriage, leading to invisible strain and emotional disconnection. In this episode, I sit down with gerontologist Janice Goldmintz to explore how couples can navigate these heavy role reversals, manage complex family dynamics, and protect their relationship bond while honoring their parents' autonomy. What this really means is that you don't have to carry this heavy weight alone. You'll walk away with small, practical tools to stay on the same team with your partner, lean on external resources safely, and build your own emotional resilience toolkit so you can thrive, not just survive. >>>Make sure to like, review, and subscribe to get all the future episodes and help the podcast be found by others who would benefit the most. Read the show notes for this episode here. Free Relationship Pattern Assessment Are you having the same conversation over and over? Many couples assume they have a communication problem when they're actually stuck in a relationship pattern that keeps creating the same conflict. Take the free Relationship Pattern Assessment to identify the pattern that may be keeping you disconnected and learn what to focus on next.
This episode focuses on initiating conversations about aging and legal preparations. Hosted by experts, it provides practical tips for families to ensure dignity, independence, and peace of mind.KEY TOPICSTalking to parents about aging and independenceLegal documents and financial planning for eldersTAKEAWAYSStart early conversations about aging to build trust.Regularly review legal and medical documents.Prioritize safety over control in caregiving.For any questions or suggestions for future topics on caregiving for aging parents: https://www.marcyllecombs.com/#contact
Talking with aging parents about memory loss, driving, medications, accepting help, or future care plans can be one of the most difficult challenges families face. In this episode of Aging Starts Now, host Dana Hentschel sits down with Elder Care Coordinator Pati Bedwell to discuss how families can approach these sensitive conversations with compassion, respect, and confidence. Pati shares practical guidance on recognizing when concerns may need to be addressed, avoiding common communication mistakes, and helping aging loved ones maintain their dignity while ensuring their safety and well-being. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why conversations about aging are often emotionally charged • How to approach concerns about memory, health, and independence • Tips for discussing driving and accepting help • Strategies for reducing conflict and preserving family relationships • The benefits of planning ahead before a crisis occurs • How an Elder Care Coordinator can help families navigate difficult decisions Whether you're concerned about a parent today or simply want to be prepared for the future, this episode offers valuable insights for every family. To learn more about Johnson McGinnis Elder Care Law & Estate Planning, visit tn-elderlaw.com.
The “Henssler Money Talks” hosts tackle one of retirement's biggest financial unknowns: long-term care. With care costs capable of disrupting even well-funded retirement plans, we'll discuss the planning options available — from traditional long-term care insurance and hybrid policies to self-insuring — and explain how cash flow projections and scenario analysis can help families make informed decisions before a health event turns into a financial crisis.Original Air Date: June 27, 2026Read the Article: https://www.henssler.com/preparing-for-retirements-most-expensive-what-if
Caregiver advice for aging parents facing surgery goes beyond hospital paperwork. Pamela D. Wilson reveals what surgeons and doctors don't explicitly tell patients and family caregivers—the critical pre- and post-op steps that speed recovery and prevent costly complications.Learn the practical caregiver tips, elder care planning strategies, and healthcare decisions that position your loved one for the best surgical outcomes. Discover what to do, ask, and prepare in the days before surgery and the weeks after to help elderly parents return to physical and emotional independence.To find show transcripts and article links mentioned on the topic of elder care planning in Episode 248 and other The Caring Generation podcasts, visit Pamela's podcast page: https://pameladwilson.com/caregiver-radio-programs-the-caring-generation/If you enjoy this podcast, please comment, follow, like, and share it on your favorite podcast app to grow the audience and support family caregivers seeking trusted, expert caregiving information about health, healthcare, family relationships, and the financial and legal aspects of caring for elderly parents.Visit Pamela's website, a leading source of trusted eldercare information and caregiver support that offers online caregiver education, a caregiver blog and library, The Caregiving Trap book, caregiving videos on YouTube, and family caregiver support services at https://www.PamelaDWilson.comLearn about caregiving expert Pamela D Wilson, her professional elder care background, and caregiving experience: https://pameladwilson.com/pamela-d-wilson-story/Schedule a 1:1 or family virtual elder care consultation or elder care mediation session by telephone or video call with Pamela. https://pameladwilson.com/elder-care-consultant-aging-parent-consultation-managing-senior-care-needs-meet-with-pamela-d-wilson/Sign up for Pamela's caregiving newsletter: https://pameladwilson.com/contact/Join Pamela's Online Caregiver Support Group on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/thecaregivingtrapFollow Pamela on Social Media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pameladwilsoncaregivingexpert/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pameladwilsoncaregiverexpert/X: https://x.com/CaregivingSpeakPamela D. Wilson is a professional family caregiving and eldercare expert. As a caregiving consultant, expert witness, eldercare mediator and speaker, she provides caregiver advice and tips, individual and family caregiver support, and resources for aging and elder care decision-making. Pamela's 25 years of professional experience inform caregiving discussions, eldercare strategies, and care plans that encompass health, healthcare, financial, and legal aspects, as well as family dynamics. Visit Pamela's website at www.PamelaDWilson.com to access caregiver resources, online courses, her caregiving blog, library, book, videos, and podcast transcripts, offering practical advice and tips for aging adults and family caregivers providing elder care support. ©2018, 2026 Pamela D Wilson. All Rights Reserved
Do you owe your toxic aging parent everything... or nothing? Clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Stinson, author of The Obligation Myth: Rethinking What You Owe Your Difficult Aging Parent, joins the show to unpack what happens when a critical, dismissive, or covertly narcissistic parent starts needing care — and why "I do everything" or "I do nothing" was never the real choice. We dig into the specific family roles that get assigned in childhood — the scapegoat, the golden child, the invisible child, and the enmeshed child — and how each one carries a different wound, gets triggered differently, and needs a completely different approach to setting a boundary. Dr. Stinson also breaks down how fear, obligation, and guilt (FOG) get weaponized differently depending on which role you were handed, and why your role can shift as the family system changes around you. If you've ever walked into your parent's house and instantly felt five years old again, this episode will help you understand why — and what to actually do about it. Lisa D. Stinson, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist specializing in complex PTSD, narcissistic abuse recovery, adult children of dysfunctional families, and the psychology of toxic family obligation. Her expertise was forged through extensive experience as an active-duty Navy psychologist, where she predominantly worked with trauma patients. Dr. Stinson holds both a Master's degree and Doctorate from the California School of Professional Psychology at Alliant International University, following her undergraduate studies at the University of Alaska Anchorage. Substack: lisadstinsonphd.substack.com Website: lisadstinsonphd.com The information provided by Renee Swanson, Covert Narcissism Podcast, and CNG Life Coaching is for educational purposes only and is not to be used for diagnosis purposes and not intended to be a substitute for clinical care. Please consult a health care provider for guidance specific to your case. This material discusses narcissism in general. Renee shares stories from her personal experiences as well as from those she has talked with for several years. Her material does not claim that any specific person has narcissism and should not be used to refer to any specific person as having narcissism. Permission is not granted to link to or repost this material to support an allegation or support a claim that any specific person is a narcissist. That would be an unauthorized misuse of the material and information provided. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Are you feeling stretched to your absolute breaking point, caught between the demands of generations pulling you from both sides? In this deeply empathetic and actionable episode, we sit down with renowned psychiatrist Dr. Gail Saltz and Tracy Marucci to unpack the invisible, heavy toll of "living in the middle." This isn't just about a busy schedule—it is a unique seasonal collision where your nest is supposed to be empty, but instead, it is crowded with conflicting emotional, physical, and financial demands. Together, our guests break down the distinct pressures of this life stage: The Caretaking Pivot: The profound emotional grief and physical exhaustion of managing aging parents who are losing their independence. The Boomerang Effect: Navigating the complex dynamics of adult children moving back home after college or dealing with early-career struggles, shifting the boundaries of your relationship. The Midlife Identity Crisis: Finding yourself in a silent mourning period for the "empty nest" freedom you were promised, while simultaneously running on empty. Dr. Saltz provides crucial psychological tools to recognize caregiver burnout, manage boundary-setting guilt, and protect your mental health. Tracy Marucci shares raw, first-hand perspectives on surviving the day-to-day chaos of serving as the family anchor when you feel like you are drifting yourself. Whether you are currently managing doctor appointments for your parents while cooking dinner for your twenty-something, or you see this season on your horizon, this episode is a comforting reminder that you are not alone—and a guide on how to keep from losing yourself in the middle. For more information on Dr. Gail Saltz: drgailsaltz.com Follow Dr. Gail Saltz on Instagram: @drgailsaltz xFollow Dr. Gail Saltz on Facebook: Gail Saltz Or Listen to Dr. Gail's podcast: How Can I Help? Follow us on Instagram: @every.body.talks @jenngiamo @schully Subscribe to our YouTube channel! Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening. Apple Podcasts Spotify Be sure to leave a 5 star rating! It really helps grow the show. If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be amazing!
Squeezed between their young children and aging parents, the 'sandwich generation' needs help! Experts say embracing the role of caregiver can come with support and recognition that can make a difference in mental health.
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Family caregivers experience dementia denial by aging parents or spouses who refuse testing, or a family member who is uncomfortable discussing future elder care needs. Pamela D. Wilson shares why individuals and families deny dementia, the serious risks, and offers actionable elder care strategies to help families move from denial to acceptance and proper care planning for aging parents. Get expert caregiver advice on discussing and navigating the painful reality and logistics of dementia care.To find show transcripts and educational links on the topic mentioned in Episode 247 and other The Caring Generation podcasts, click here to visit Pamela's website: https://pameladwilson.com/caregiver-radio-programs-the-caring-generation/For more caregiving, aging, and elder care tips for your caregiving journey, visit Pamela's website at https://www.PamelaDWilson.comLearn about Pamela D Wilson as a caregiving expert, her professional background, and her 25 years of professional caregiving and elder care experience: https://pameladwilson.com/pamela-d-wilson-story/Schedule a 1:1 elder care consultation by telephone or video call with Pamela: https://pameladwilson.com/elder-care-consultant-aging-parent-consultation-managing-senior-care-needs-meet-with-pamela-d-wilson/Learn about Pamela D Wilson as an expert witness in caregiving, guardianship, fiduciary litigation, power of attorney, care management, and non-medical in-home care: https://pameladwilson.com/conservatorship-guardianship-expert-witness/ https://pameladwilson.com/expert-witness-caregiving-home-care-guardianship/ https://pameladwilson.com/power-of-attorney-advisor-or-protector/Check out Pamela's online course Caring for Aging Parents: https://pameladwilson.com/support-caring-for-elderly-parents-overwhelmed-caregiver-support-online-course/Sign up for Pamela's newsletter here: https://pameladwilson.com/contact/Join Pamela's Online Caregiver Support Group on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/thecaregivingtrapFollow Pamela on Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pameladwilsoncaregivingexpert/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pameladwilsoncaregiverexpert/X: https://www.x.com/CaregivingSpeakPamela D. Wilson is a professional family caregiving and eldercare expert. As a caregiving consultant, expert witness, and speaker, she provides caregiver advice and tips, individual and family caregiver support, and resources for aging and elder care decision-making. Pamela's 25 years of professional experience inform caregiving discussions, eldercare strategies, and care plans that encompass health, healthcare, financial, and legal aspects, as well as family dynamics. Visit Pamela's website at www.PamelaDWilson.com to access caregiver resources, online courses, her caregiving blog, library, book, videos, and podcast transcripts, offering practical advice and tips for aging adults and family caregivers providing elder care support. ©2018, 2026 Pamela D Wilson. All Rights Reserved
Using the Heart Sutra's teaching on the emptiness of the five aggregates as a guide, Jomin weaves together a daughter's struggle to let her mother make her own choices, a charged encounter at a farmers market, and the liberating practice of simply saying "I don't know." ★ Support this podcast ★
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Drop us some Fan Mail. Thanks!Raising kids while caring for aging parents is more common than ever—and often overwhelming. We talk with Robyn Wind, the GRAND Voices Support Coordinator for the National Center on Grandfamilies at Generations United, about the realities of sandwich generation caregiving and practical ways foster, adoptive, and kinship families can find support. In this episode, we discuss:Can we start with a working definition of the term “sandwich generation”?How have you seen that definition evolve in recent years? From your work with the National Center on Grandfamilies and Generations United, what are you seeing right now that suggests this is becoming a bigger issue? What are the most common pressures you hear caregivers talk about?Where do you see caregivers feeling the most “pulled apart” between generations for whom they are caring? What are the moments when they feel like they can't meet everyone's needs at once?Are there differences in how this shows up for: Parents of young children vs. teens? Kinship caregivers or grandparents raising grandchildren? Many of our listeners are already parenting children with trauma or complex needs. How does that layer onto sandwich caregiving? Do you see unique challenges for kinship caregivers who may already be caring for grandchildren and are now also caring for aging spouses or siblings? What are some ways systems unintentionally fail these families? Where do they tend to fall through the cracks? What would better support look like if systems were truly designed for multigenerational families? What are the early signs that a caregiver is stretched too thin and at risk?What does realistic self-care actually look like in this season of life? How do you advise the caregivers you support to balance guilt or feelings of inadequacy, given that there is SO much need on both sides of their sandwich?What supports should caregivers try to put in place early? How can families share this sandwich-caring experience more effectively, instead of having one person carry it all? What resources or programs from Generations United should caregivers know about? What strengths do you see in sandwich generation families that we don't talk about enough? Resources:'Sandwich generation' caregivers caught between two generations in needCaring for Those Who Are Caring for Everyone: The Sandwich Generation Generations UnitedGrandfamilies.orgGKSNetwork.orgGrandfamilies & Kinship University - Generations UnitedSupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:Weekly podcastsWeekly articles/blog postsResource pages on all aspects of family building
This microcast episode focuses on recognizing signs that aging parents need help and how to approach caregiving with respect and sensitivity. It offers practical tips for observing changes, maintaining independence, and planning supportive care.Aging Parents: Signs They Need Help & What To DoRecognizing when aging parents need help is usually aboutpatterns of small changes over time. This guide combines warning signs with practical steps you can take to support independence safely.Common Signs They May Need Help• Decline in ability to manage daily tasks• Changes in memory, thinking, or judgment• Physical health or mobility issues• Emotional withdrawal or isolationHome & Daily Living Warning Signs• House becoming messy or unsafe• Unopened mail or unpaid bills• Expired or spoiled food• Poor hygiene or wearing same clothes repeatedlyMemory & Cognitive Changes• Forgetting appointments or medications• Getting lost in familiar places• Repeating questions frequently• Poor financial or safety judgmentPhysical & Health Warning Signs• Frequent falls or bruises• Difficulty walking or standing• Weight loss or lack of appetite• Skipping medications or doctor visitsEmotional & Social Changes• Withdrawal from hobbies or activities• Depression or anxiety• Avoiding calls or social interaction• Increased irritability or mood swingsWhat You Can Do• Observe patterns before acting• Have respectful conversations focused on independence• Introduce small supports like cleaning or meal help• Address home safety (grab bars, lighting, fall hazards)• Involve medical professionals when needed• Plan ahead for finances and care preferencesUrgent Warning Signs• Repeated falls• Getting lost• Medication misuse• Self-neglect• Major personality or cognitive changesComplete Check-In List• Review home cleanliness and food safety• Monitor memory and bill paying• Check mobility and fall risk• Confirm medication management• Assess mood and social activity• Evaluate driving safety• Review financial behaviorAction Plan• Minor issues: Add light support (cleaning, reminders)• Moderate issues: Attend doctor visits and increaseinvolvement• Major issues: Limit risks and consider in-home care
Before Your Parent's Dementia Diagnosis: 4 Things Every Family Must Do NOW (From a Daughter Who's Lived It) If you have a parent over 70, this episode could save your family $35,000, a year of your life, and the kind of stress that breaks marriages and fractures families. After four years of navigating dementia caregiving for multiple family members — including her mother-in-law with Alzheimer's, her father-in-law with vascular dementia, and now signs in her own family — Shelly Niehaus is sharing the proactive caregiving roadmap she wishes someone had handed her family before "the phone call." This is the episode every adult child with an aging parent needs to hear — before a dementia diagnosis lands in your lap. Most dementia and caregiving resources are built for families already in crisis. This one is different. This one is for the daughter, son, or spouse who has felt the flutter in their stomach but doesn't know where to start. The one quietly watching. The one quietly worrying. The one who doesn't have a plan — yet. In this deeply personal episode, Shelly walks you through the 4 areas of dementia caregiving you cannot avoid — and how to start on every single one of them today, without a diagnosis, without a family meeting, and without anyone in your family agreeing that something is wrong. In this episode, you'll learn: The Sunday phone call that changed everything: "How long do I pack for?" "I have no idea." Why the families who struggle most aren't the ones who don't love enough — they're the ones without a plan AREA 1 — Legal: Why the window to put Power of Attorney documents in place is open RIGHT NOW, and closes the moment your loved one loses capacity (and why a notarized POA is NOT the same as a complete POA) AREA 2 — Medical: Why you have to ask for a cognitive evaluation by name — and why your parent's primary care doctor probably won't bring it up AREA 3 — Financial: The slow unraveling nobody is watching, and the early sign of cognitive decline most families completely miss AREA 4 — Safety & Logistics: The conversations nobody wants to have (driving, firearms, home safety) and why naming a family quarterback BEFORE the crisis matters more than almost anything else The legal mistake that cost Mark and Shelly a year of their lives untangling frozen accounts and inaccessible Social Security The $35,000 air ambulance that could have been avoided with one earlier conversation The Truth About Watching: the 3am wake-ups, the fear, the dread, the grief that starts where the worry starts "I can't do round three. I don't have it in me." — and why Shelly is doing it anyway The one question that determines whether your family walks through this season with peace or chaos
Today, we're giving validation, pep talks and space to vent for listeners struggling with: Aging parents who don't take care of their health Falling out of love with your work and feeling like you're totally ineffective (you aren't!) Being hit by a grief tsunami and losing your ambition Feeling like a horrible mother for being disappointed by a gender reveal (we have THOUGHTS!) The secondhand embarrassment of your boyfriend being bad at his job Being the worst mom in the world (not possible, Nora already is!) ☎️ Give us a call or drop us a text at (612) 568-4441