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Click to Text Thoughts on Today's EpisodeToday on the podcast Becky Fields shares her extensive personal experience caring for aging parents and in-laws, emphasizing that proactive planning makes transitions significantly easier than waiting for a crisis. Becky is writing a workbook with practical checklists and a book called "Daughters of Naomi" addressing the emotional aspects of caregiving. She also runs a service buying homes from families who need to transition parents quickly. Her core message: maintain open communication, start planning early, build a support community, and trust God through the process. Main points discussed: 1. Early Planning is Critical 2. Warning Signs to Watch For 3. Communication Strategies 4. Emotional Considerations 5. Practical Resources Links:Purchase Becky's Book, Guiding Them Home, hereConnect with Becky:https://grandmahousebuyer.com/https://daughtersofnaomi.org/Instagram: @grandmahousebuyerYouTube: @grandmahousebuyer My latest recommended ways to nourish and move your body, mind and spirit: Nourished Notes Bi-Weekly Newsletter Be Strong and Vibrant! Online Strength Training Course for Christian Women in Perimenopause and Beyond 30+ Non-Gym Ways to Improve Your Health (free download)Connect with Amy: GracedHealth.com Instagram: @GracedHealthYouTube: @AmyConnell
Drop us a line or two . . .In this raw, hilarious, and brutally honest episode, Queenie & TT tackle the emotional whiplash of midlife caregiving, the chaos of aging parents, and the rage-inducing reality that patience doesn't age like fine wine.Queenie shares what it's really like managing her mom's late-night panic calls, behavioral struggles at her adult day program, and the impossible task of correcting someone who no longer processes feedback the same way. The conversation dives into compassion fatigue, caregiver burnout, role reversal, guilt, and the dark humor that becomes a survival skill when you're the default adult in the room.Then the episode swerves—hard—into:A viral therapist list on “Are you married to a boy or a man?”The federal government's attempt to quietly ban hemp-derived THC productsThe infamous Michigan cannabis recall after pre-rolled joints were licked during productionAnd a flawlessly unhinged game segment that proves real life is stranger than satireFinally, the women add a crowd-sourced nuclear entry to the Midlife Fuck-It List:Retiring from obligatory blowjobs.No guilt. No obligation. Just choice, autonomy, and TMJ.This episode is caregiving reality, cannabis chaos, marriage truth-telling, sexual autonomy, and midlife liberation—served with profanity, empathy, and zero performative enlightenment.midlife caregivingaging parent challengescaregiver burnoutcompassion fatiguesandwich generation stressadult children caring for parentscaregiving humor podcastemotional labor in marriagesigns your husband is immatureman child marriagemidlife women podcastTHC hemp ban newsMichigan cannabis recallweed industry scandalmidlife sexual autonomyfuck it list after 60women aging unapologetically“Why is caregiving for my mom so hard”“Caregiver burnout and anger”“When your parent acts like a child”“Signs you're married to The Closet Disco Queen Pot-Cast is produced by Humble Pond Productions, LLC. If you are interested in being a guest, email us at closetdiscoqueenpotcast@gmail.com Visit Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen and leave us your five star review and comments. Thanks!Welcome to the Closet Disco Queen Pot-Cast, a comedy podcast with music and pop culture references that keeps you laughing and engaged. Join our hosts, Queenie & TT as they share humorous anecdotes about daily life, offering women's perspectives on lifestyle and wellness. We dive into funny cannabis conversations and stories, creating an entertaining space where nothing is off-limits. Each episode features entertaining discussions on pop culture trends, as we discuss music, culture, and cannabis in a light-hearted and inclusive manner. Tune in for a delightful blend of humor, insight, and relatable stories that celebrate life's quirks and pleasures. Our Closet Disco Queen Pot-Cast deals with legal adult cannabis use and is intended for entertainment purposes only for those 21 and older Visit our Closet Disco Queen Pot-Cast merch store!Find us on Facebook and Green Coast RadioSound from Zapsplat.com, https://quicksounds.com, 101soundboards.com #ToneTransfer
In this heartfelt episode of Healthy Waves, gerontologist and caregiver expert Janice Goldmintz joins host Avik to unpack the unspoken emotional weight of caring for aging parents—especially when dementia or serious illness flips the parent-child dynamic. Drawing from her master's in gerontology and her own decade-long journey caring for both parents with Alzheimer's, Janice offers raw, practical wisdom: how to hold grief and love at the same time, why asking for help isn't weakness, how to make big care decisions without tearing the family apart, and simple self-care habits that actually work when you're running on empty. This conversation is for every adult child who feels guilty, overwhelmed, or terrified they're “parenting their parents” wrong. Key Takeaways The hardest shift isn't the logistics—it's emotionally moving from “child” to “care advocate” while still feeling like a kid inside. Acknowledge the emotions (guilt, resentment, grief) instead of suppressing them—pretending you're “fine” only makes burnout worse. No one does this perfectly—even trained gerontologists make mistakes. Progress, not perfection, is the goal. Top 3 family mistakes: (1) Assuming everyone will contribute equally, (2) Waiting until crisis to plan, (3) Refusing to adapt when the original plan stops working. Mindset shift that changes everything: Stop expecting fairness; assign tasks by strength, not equality—someone's great at finances, someone else at emotional support. Self-care isn't selfish—it's self-centered (centering yourself so you can keep showing up). Put your oxygen mask on first. Sustainable caregiver habits: 10-minute walks (even in a mall), scheduled dog walks, quick breathing breaks, reading for knowledge/power, respite stays at retirement homes. With dementia: “Go where they are.” If Dad thinks he's on the farm, ask about the animals—enter their reality to create moments of joy and deeper connection. Final truth: This journey is messy, exhausting, heartbreaking… and one of the most rewarding acts of love you'll ever give. Connect with Guest:Janice Goldmintz – Gerontologist & Caregiver Support ExpertLinkedIn: Janice GoldmintzFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/JanicecanhelpEmail: janice@talkaboutaging.comWebsite & Resources: http://www.talkaboutaging.com/ Offers workshops, Lunch & Learns for organizations, and one-on-one support Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life?DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatchDM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik DisclaimerThis video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. About Healthy Mind By AvikHealthy Mind By Avik is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it has become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, this channel brings you powerful podcasts and grounded conversations across mental health, emotional well-being, mindfulness, holistic healing, trauma recovery, and self-empowerment. With over 4,400 episodes and 168.4K global listeners, we are committed to amplifying stories and breaking stigma worldwide.Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. 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Gen X is officially in the retirement danger zone — and many are worried about outliving their savings. In this episode of Friends Talk Money, Richard Eisenberg, Terry Savage, and I sit down with author and workplace/retirement expert Kerry Hannon to dig into the findings from her new book, Retirement Bites: A Gen X Guide to Securing Your Financial Future. We explore: Why more than half of Gen X fears they won't be financially ready How DIY retirement planning, disappearing pensions & late savings habits created a perfect storm The crushing impact of student loans, credit card debt & supporting both kids and aging parents Why so few Gen Xers work with a financial advisor — and how to find the right kind of help The truth about Social Security's future for Gen X Health costs, layoffs, age discrimination — and how to stay employable into your 50s and 60s The new definition of "retirement" and why working longer can be a superpower Plus: What Gen Xers can control right now to course-correct Kerry also breaks down the huge differences between older Gen Xers nearing 60 and younger Gen Xers in their late 40s, including who may benefit from the next major wealth transfer.Whether you're a lifelong DIY investor or navigating retirement planning for the first time, this episode is a must-listen for the most overlooked generation in personal finance. Links: Retirement Bites: A Gen X Guide to Securing Your Financial Future (Amazon) Reality Bites: Gen X is Nearing Retirement and More than Half Don't Believe They'll be Financially Ready When the Time Comes (Northwestern Mutual) Portfolio Perspectives: Gen X Isn't Ready for Retirement – How Financial Advisors Can Help and Harness SECURE 2.0 (Dynamic Advisor Solutions) Gen X Nearing Retirement With Worries About Limited Savings, Allianz Life Study Finds (Allianz) Gen X's Retirement Shock: The Truth About Healthcare Costs (Friends Talk Money)
This week's Ask Farnoosh pulls together some of the most revealing financial stories of the week, grom pandemic-era homebuyers now feeling “locked in” by their ultra-low mortgage rates, to Gen Z putting marriage, kids, and career plans on hold until they can afford a home. Farnoosh also breaks down an under-the-radar proposal from the CFPB that could weaken anti-discrimination protections in lending, a shift that could impact mortgages, auto loans, credit cards, and small-business financing.Then, she heads to the mailbag to answer listener questions:Should you borrow more on a home-equity loan to protect your savings during a renovation?How can a self-employed spouse take full advantage of a healthcare FSA?What exactly is the IRS “contract” that lets you withdraw from retirement accounts early? (Hint: SEPP/72(t) and the Rule of 55.)And if you've bought a home for your parents, are you putting your own retirement at risk? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this festive holiday episode of the Focused Healthy Family podcast, Gina and Don share practical, real-life tips to support both the youngest and oldest members of your family during the busy season. Whether you're navigating holiday meals with picky eaters, planning safe and stress-free travel with aging parents, or creating a warm and accessible home for visiting grandparents and energetic kids, this episode offers helpful strategies to make your celebrations smoother and more joyful. Gina and Don discuss healthy holiday eating for kids and seniors, smart family travel tips for the holidays, simple ways to reduce stress, and ideas for maintaining comfort, safety, and connection across generations. From managing routines to planning gatherings, this conversation is full of guidance families can use to enjoy the holidays with more ease and intention. If your holidays include everything from toddlers to grandparents—or anything in between—this episode will help you feel more prepared, more confident, and more connected this season. #FocusedHealthyFamily #HolidayWellness #HolidayFamilyTips #HealthyHolidays #FamilyTravel #SeniorCare #HealthyEating #MultigenerationalLiving #AgingParents #FamilyConnection #HolidayStressRelief #FamilyWellness
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In this episode, we sit down with Chandler Burckbuchler, Senior Division Manager and Marketing Manager for Terra Bella Senior Living, to discuss the critical warning signs families should watch for when visiting aging loved ones during the holidays. Chandler explains why the weeks following Thanksgiving and Christmas are traditionally the busiest times for senior living inquiries, as extended family time reveals changes that might go unnoticed during brief visits. She shares practical guidance on identifying concerns ranging from cognitive decline and medication management to nutrition, hygiene, and driving safety.We also explore the emotional aspects of aging, including loneliness and depression in seniors, and hear touching stories about the importance of listening to our elders' experiences. Chandler emphasizes that caregivers need care too, and offers actionable advice on conducting home safety checks—from testing smoke alarms to removing fall risks. She stresses the value of having conversations about care preferences before emergencies arise and encourages families to visit senior living communities during the holidays to understand their options.Tune in to discover invaluable insights that can help you support your aging loved ones while navigating these sensitive conversations with compassion and preparation. Whether you're noticing subtle changes or planning ahead, this episode offers the practical tools and emotional support families need during the holiday season and beyond.SeniorLivingGuide.com Podcast sponsored by TerraBella Senior Living and Tom Marks, Best Selling Author on RetirementThe background music is written, performed, and produced exclusively by purple-planet.com.https://www.purple-planet.com/*SeniorLivingGuide.com Webinars and Podcast represents the opinions and expertise of our guests. The content here is for informational and educational purposes. It does not necessarily represent the views, recommendations, opinions or advice of Fairfax Publishing/SeniorLivingGuide.com or its employees
In a new, very special Death, Sex & Money and Slate Money crossover, Felix Salmon and Anna Sale are once again joined by Felix's financial advisor Adrianna Adams from Domain Money to talk about…parents. They dig into the emotions of trying to take care of your aging parents while also growing your own wealth, the importance of setting goals, and how to deal with aging children AND aging parents at the same time. For a visual experience, you can watch this episode on YouTube. Podcast production by Cheyna Roth. Video production by Micah Phillips. Get more Death, Sex & Money with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of DSM and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the Death, Sex & Money show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/dsmplus to get access wherever you listen. If you're new to the show, welcome. We're so glad you're here. Find us and follow us on Instagram and you can find Anna's newsletter at annasale.substack.com. Our email address, where you can reach us with voice memos, pep talks, questions, critiques, is deathsexmoney@slate.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In a new, very special Death, Sex & Money and Slate Money crossover, Felix Salmon and Anna Sale are once again joined by Felix's financial advisor Adrianna Adams from Domain Money to talk about…parents. They dig into the emotions of trying to take care of your aging parents while also growing your own wealth, the importance of setting goals, and how to deal with aging children AND aging parents at the same time. For a visual experience, you can watch this episode on YouTube. Podcast production by Cheyna Roth. Video production by Micah Phillips. Get more Death, Sex & Money with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of DSM and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the Death, Sex & Money show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/dsmplus to get access wherever you listen. If you're new to the show, welcome. We're so glad you're here. Find us and follow us on Instagram and you can find Anna's newsletter at annasale.substack.com. Our email address, where you can reach us with voice memos, pep talks, questions, critiques, is deathsexmoney@slate.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
#ThisMorning | Were there #Warning #signs when you saw Your #Aging #Parents Over the #Holidays? - Part II | Kim and Mike Barnes, Parenting Aging Parents | #Tunein: broadcastretirementnetwork.com #Aging, #Finance, #Lifestyle, #Privacy, #Retirement, #Wellness
#ThisMorning | Were there #Warning #signs when you saw Your #Aging #Parents Over the #Holidays? | Kim and Mike Barnes, Parenting Aging Parents | #Tunein: broadcastretirementnetwork.com #Aging, #Finance, #Lifestyle, #Privacy, #Retirement, #Wellness
Caregiving is not an easy thing. It's paperwork, passwords, POAs, and the courage to say the hard things before the crisis hits. In this episode, we get real about the emotional and financial marathon of caring for aging parents, why women disproportionately shoulder the load, and exactly what to do now so your future self isn't rage-crying in probate court. Our guest, Beth Pinsker—MarketWatch financial-planning columnist, CFP®, and author of My Mother's Money: A Guide to Financial Caregiving—walks us through the must-have documents, the family conversations that actually prevent sibling warfare, and how to set boundaries when love meets logistics. (Yes, you can be loving and say “nope, that won't work.”) We cover: The caregiving reality check: why daughters so often become default CFOs of aging parents (and what to do about it). The legal minimums: power of attorney, healthcare proxy, will vs. trust, and when each one matters. Costly myths to ditch: “We'll figure it out later,” “It'll be obvious who does what,” and “We don't need it in writing.” Crisis-proofing your finances: automation, a single “pay-from” account, and creating a breadcrumb trail someone else can actually follow. End-of-life wishes: how to handle DNR/DNI and hospice decisions without guilt (clarity > chaos). If you're the money person: how to leave a map your family can use (and if you're not the money person, how to get up to speed—without becoming the household bookkeeper). Because love isn't just casseroles and hand-holding; sometimes it's signatures, spreadsheets, and setting your people up to survive the hardest days with clarity and dignity. Thank you to our sponsors! Get 20% off your first order at curehydration.com/WOMANSWORK with code WOMANSWORK — and if you get a post-purchase survey, mention you heard about Cure here to help support the show! Connect with Beth: Website: https://bethpinsker.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/bethpinsker_ny LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bpinsker Related Podcast Episodes: How To Have A Good Death with Suzanne B. O'Brien, RN | 292 You Only Die Once with Jodi Wellman | 262 060 / Caring For An Aging Parent with Rayna Neises Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform!
#ThisMorning | Were there #Warning #signs when you saw Your #Aging #Parents Over the #Holidays? | Kim and Mike Barnes, Parenting Aging Parents | #Tunein: broadcastretirementnetwork.com #Aging, #Finance, #Lifestyle, #Privacy, #Retirement, #Wellness
What happens when raising parents becomes life’s toughest challenge? Brandon Bowen explores the realities of caregiving for aging loved ones, from unexpected expenses and emotional stress to the impact on your own retirement plans. Hear real stories, practical strategies, and why putting your financial mask on first is essential for supporting those you love without sacrificing your future. Like what you hear? Get a second opinion today: bowenwealth.com Follow us on social media: YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Episode 614: Learn from Zach and Justin how savvy investors use tax-loss harvesting to offset taxes today and build wealth for tomorrow. Then, discover five key money conversations that can help families prepare for aging parents with clarity, confidence, and peace of mind.
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'Eldercare The Rules: Navigating the legal, Financial, Medical, Housing and Care Maze' is a new book from elder law attorney Paula Almgren. She joins Chris and Amy.
Chris and Amy discuss languages with a neuroscientist; explore the Zombie Road in Wildwood; talk about a new book on helping aging parents with an elder law attorney; tell us about your ghost stories on Friday.
Maybe you're the responsible one, the one running their finances, dealing with illness, or trying to figure out what their future will look like. It's no wonder you're exhausted. You've added yet another thing to manage, handle, and worry about. The things we're dealing with when it comes to our parents are completely new territory. The roles have reversed. They need us more than we need them in many ways. A lot of you worry about your parents and feel responsible for helping or being there more than you realistically can or even want to. Then the guilt sets in. Maybe you don't see your parents as often as you'd like. Maybe you're always the one handling everything while your siblings are a no-show. Or maybe you don't have much of a relationship with them at all and you've realized that the next time you see them, it might not be under good circumstances. So today, let's unpack all of it, because this is something so many of us are dealing with and one that we need help navigating, whether it's the guilt, worry, stress, fear, or resentment. For more information visit: www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/StephanieLynCoaching LTK: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/StephanieLynStyle Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach/ TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeg1m9pu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching Thank you for your love and support! Stephanie
Today on the podcast, I talk to Schuyler Copple, a Social Worker in the field of hospice. We discuss the importance of facing our own emotions and relationship with death. How to best approach the conversations of death and planning for death with aging loved ones as well as getting educated about the various ways we can take control of the last chapter of our lives. Take a listen to this episode and share it with someone you care about. Learn more about the Winter Mindfulness Retreat (Jan 16-18th, 2026). 20 % off early bird discount ends October 31st. Website: Retreat.CenteredintheCity.org Check out all of the end of life resources here : www.wadebrill.com/blog/before-goodbye-a-mindful-approach-to-preparing-for-a-parents-death
Human beings require care on both ends of the life spectrum. Caring for aging parents can be a uniquely challenging and beautiful season that often requires the cultivation of a new kind of love, rooted in The Way of Jesus.
Send us a textWhat happens when the caregiver becomes overwhelmed? How do you comfort someone facing infertility, grief, or catastrophic illness without saying the wrong thing? In this inspiring episode, Joey Pinz sits down with award-winning author and medical social worker Iris Waichler, who shares more than 40 years of wisdom on caregiving, resilience, and self-care.Iris has helped families navigate everything from strokes and amputations to infertility and end-of-life care. She opens up about her own experiences with loss, the lessons she learned caring for aging parents, and how her writing empowers people around the world to feel less alone. From practical tips on avoiding burnout to deeply moving stories about love, death, and legacy, Iris offers guidance that every caregiver — and every family — needs to hear.Whether you're supporting an aging parent, walking with a friend through infertility, or preparing for your own later years, this conversation will leave you enlightened and encouraged.
This week, the sisters invite Big Fish René on for what was supposed to be a conversation about navigating life in the Sandwich Generation — that delicate space between caring for aging parents and still showing up for your kids — but like most family chats, it takes a turn.What unfolds is a heartfelt, funny, and sometimes raw discussion about how to navigate tough conversations with the people you love most. From aging and independence to communication, boundaries, and grace, the Fishes and their mom open up about what it really takes to stay connected through life's transitions.Along the way, Lynne and Little Fish Sarah share their background acting debut on 9-1-1 Nashville (assuming they don't end up on the cutting room floor — stream the series premiere and see for yourself!), there's a brief but hilarious detour into Travis Kelce's anatomy courtesy of Taylor Swift's new song “Wood,” and the sisters raise a glass to Kathy's birthday.In What's For Dinner, René brings back one of her classic favorites — Steak Diane — the perfect dish for a night of family stories, laughter, and saying what needs to be said.Because sometimes the hardest part of loving your family… is finding the courage to say it anyway.
Welcome to the Heal and Restore Podcast with Randy and Cathy Boyd—where we dive into real conversations that help you heal, grow, and strengthen your relationships.In today's heartfelt and timely episode, we're exploring a season of life that touches every family at some point: When Roles Shift—Navigating Aging Parents with Grace and Compassion.Watching our parents age can stir up complex emotions—grief, frustration, love, and sometimes guilt. The roles we once knew begin to reverse, and suddenly we find ourselves stepping into the shoes of caregiver, guide, and advocate.But here's the truth: this season doesn't have to be marked only by stress or sorrow. With grace and compassion, it can become a sacred opportunity to honor our parents, deepen relationships, and create lasting memories.We'll talk about the real challenges—role confusion, family dynamics, and burnout—and share practical ways to honor dignity, communicate with love, and care for yourself along the way.By the end of today's episode, you'll walk away with tools to navigate these changes with hope, patience, and strength—knowing you are not alone in this journey.And if this conversation encourages you, we'd love for you to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who is walking a similar path. Because with grace and compassion, even the hardest transitions can be filled with love.
In this episode, Lawrence and Alainta dive into the often difficult yet essential conversations around aging parents and planning for a healthy, fulfilling retirement. We discuss Alainta's TikTok video on supporting aging loved ones, addressing financial and emotional concerns, and preparing both parents and their children for the changes that lie ahead. We discuss how to create a roadmap for a smoother transition, ensuring peace of mind and well-being for everyone involved. Wait, what's a Financial Griot?The Financial Griot is a play on two words (Finance + Griot) that hold significance in closing the wealth gap while embracing our differences. Alainta Alcin, Lovely Merdelus, and Lawrence Delva-Gonzalez share their perspectives on current events that impact your personal finances and wealth mindset. In the New York Times, Bankrate, and other publications, the hosts share the stories that others don't. Stories about growth, opportunity, and even Wars. Beyond that, we tie it back to how it reflects on your finances. Specifically, we teach you how to become financially literate, incorporate actionable steps, and ultimately build generational wealth.Can you imagine being a Millionaire in 20 years or less?Yeah, it's possible. Eighty percent of millionaires are first-generation, meaning they didn't inherit wealth. We teach you how. Join a community of subscribers who welcome a fresh take on money.So there you have it, The Financial Griot, or TFG for short. The hosts amassed over $3 million in wealth in about eight years and are on track to retire early. We will gladly share the secrets if you want them, since the opportunity is abundant and a Win-Win.Find the TFG Crew Hosts on Instagram: Alainta Alcin - Blogger, Travel and Money Enthusiast https://www.linkedin.com/in/alaintaalcinLawrence Delva-Gonzalez, Financial Foodie and Travel Blogger @theneighborhoodfinanceguyLovely Merdelus - Entrepreneur and Small Business Growth Specialist @lovelymerdelus
Caregiving doesn't just happen in the current moment - it brings old family roles that we've been playing out since childhood back to life. The "responsible one" burns out, and the "favorite" expects everyone to defer to them. The "ghost" fades into the background, and the "rebel" resists every decision. In this episode Dr. Delia Chiaramonte explores the hidden scripts that siblings carry into caregiving, why they cause so much conflict, and how you can step out of those roles instead of letting them cause stress and chaos.Once you see your "script" you can start to write a new one.What role do you play?www.integrativepalliative.comCoping Courageously: A Heart-Centered Guide for Navigating a Loved One's Illness Without Losing Yourself is available here: www.copingcourageously.com Please review this podcast wherever you listen and forward your favorite episode to a friend! And be sure to subscribe!Sign up to stay connected and learn about upcoming programs:https://trainings.integrativepalliative.com/IPI-stay-in-touchI'm thrilled to be listed in Feedspot's top 15 palliative podcasts!https://blog.feedspot.com/palliative_care_podcasts/
What does it mean to honor your parents as they age?
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As our parents get older, many of us are faced with a new kind of grief- the quiet, ongoing loss that comes not from death, but from watching the people who once raised us begin to slow down and need us in ways they never did before. In this deeply personal episode, we open up about the emotional complexity of witnessing our parents age. From role reversals and unresolved wounds, to meaningful moments and surprising lessons, we reflect on how our relationships with our parents evolve, and how it stirs up questions of our own mortality. We explore: The quiet grief of losing parts of who they were The guilt, tenderness, and sometimes resentment of becoming the caretaker How aging parents trigger our own fears about time, mortality, and purpose Ways to heal, connect, and make meaningful memories before it's too late This is an episode for anyone navigating that in-between space—where love, loss, and legacy all live at once. Today's Hosts: Michael DiIorio Matt Landsiedel Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes - CONNECT WITH US - Watch podcast episodes on YouTube Join the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook community Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls Follow us on Instagram | TikTok Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com - LEARN WITH US - Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others. Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame. Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series. Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.
Ingrid Hansen-Popp is very familiar with the patience it takes to adjust to a parents' declining mobility. Given the combination of family dynamics, health concerns, and current life responsibilities, it should be of little surprise that there is no “one-size-fits-all” answer. Helping your parents as they age is a constant learning curve; and while the self-imposed expectation to care for them perfectly isn't realistic, having compassion for both them and yourself as you adjust to new dynamics and become a caretaker for the ones who nurtured you is essential.Purchase Ingrid's newest book, Becoming an Orphan: Lovingly Letting Our Parents Go here. SUPPORT His Heartbeat through Crown of Beauty Internationalhttps://www.crownofbeautyinternational.com/donateCONNECT with His Heartbeat and Crown of Beauty InternationalWebsite// Facebook//InstagramEmail: crownofbeautyinternational@gmail.comConnect with Sue Corl's Instagram//Facebook// WebsitePurchase Sue's Transformational Bible Studies and Devotionals on Amazon!Sue Corl's best-selling books: Crown of Beauty Bible Study, Broken But UndefeatedCrown of Beauty International: EMPOWERING WOMEN AROUND THE WORLD WITH GOD'S TRUTH!
Navigating the challenges in caregiving for aging parents can be daunting, especially when an elderly mother or father wants to move into your home. Pamela D Wilson, caregiving expert, offers caregiver advice on eldercare dilemmas by highlighting the importance of establishing boundaries while also considering the dynamics of family relationships. Caregivers can fail to recognize the significant impact the decision to live with an elderly parent or family member can have on their life, career, and personal relationships. Join Pamela to receive valuable caregiver tips, insights, and caregiving strategies. To find show transcripts and links mentioned in Episode 227 and other The Caring Generation podcasts, click here to visit Pamela's website: https://pameladwilson.com/caregiver-radio-programs-the-caring-generation/If you enjoy this podcast, please take a moment to comment, follow, like, and share it. Check out show transcripts of The Caring Generation podcast on Pamela's Website https://pameladwilson.com/caregiver-radio-programs-the-caring-generation/ For more caregiving, aging, and elder care tips, visit Pamela's website at www.PamelaDWilson.comLearn about Pamela D Wilson, her professional background, and her experience: https://pameladwilson.com/pamela-d-wilson-story/Are you interested in a 1:1 elder care consultation by telephone or video call with Pamela? Schedule time and learn more here: https://pameladwilson.com/elder-care-consultant-aging-parent-consultation-managing-senior-care-needs-meet-with-pamela-d-wilson/Sign up for Pamela's newsletter here: https://pameladwilson.com/contact/Follow Pamela on Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pameladwilsoncaregivingexpert/Linked n: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pameladwilsoncaregiverexpert/Twitter: https://x.com/CaregivingSpeakPamela D Wilson | Caregiving Expert provides caregiver tips, support for caregivers, and resources for aging and elder care. Caregiving and aging for parents doesn't have to be challenging with expert caregiver advice, solutions, and strategies based on Pamela's 25 years of experience in care management, dementia care, and as an expert witness. Visit Pamela's website www.PamelaDWilson.com to access online caregiver programs, advice and tips to support caregivers and aging adults.©2018, 2025 Pamela D Wilson. All Rights Reserved
Financial journalist Beth Pinsker joins with a sneak preview of her forthcoming book My Mother's Money: A Guide to Financial Caregiving (out this November). We dive into the realities of stepping in to manage a parent's finances—what to do first, the documents you must have in place, the pitfalls of long-term care, and how to navigate banks, insurers, and even cable companies when they put up barriers. Essential listening for anyone with aging parents—or kids of their own. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
What happens when aging parents need financial help—but no one’s talking about it? In this episode of The Retirement Key, Justin Dobak shares how to navigate tough conversations around long-term care, estate planning, and financial red flags. Learn how to approach sensitive topics with compassion and clarity. Schedule your complimentary appointment today: TheRetirementKey.com Get a free copy of Abe’s book: The Retirement Mountain: The 7 Steps To A Long-Lasting Retirement Follow us on social media: YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | LinkedInSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Howard Miller is the author of Burdens & Blessings: A Lighter-Hearted Approach for Middle-Aged Folks Dealing with Aging Parents. Through humor and heartfelt storytelling, Howard shares how levity helped him navigate the challenges of caregiving and loss. He inspires audiences to embrace humor as a powerful tool for resilience—whether at home or in the workplace. As an entrepreneur and sought-after speaker, Howard connects deeply with listeners through relatable stories and practical wisdom. FulcrumPointPartners.comhttps://www.seniorcareauthority.com/resources/boomers-today/
What happens when you're caring for small children and aging parents at the same time? This is the reality for millions of women, now called the “sandwich generation.” In this heartfelt episode of the Working Mumma podcast, Carina O'Brien speaks with author, health journalist, and carer Casey Beros about the emotional, physical, and financial toll of caregiving, and the unexpected personal growth that can come with it. Casey opens up about her journey caring for her dad while raising two young children, the lessons she learned about navigating the healthcare system, and how to advocate for those you love. She shares the honest truth about burnout, guilt, grief, and why self-care often feels impossible, but is vital. Whether you're already in the thick of caregiving or want to prepare for the road ahead, this episode will leave you with practical strategies and heartfelt wisdom. What you'll learn in this episode: What it really means to be part of the “sandwich generation” The two essential skills for caregiving: advocacy & system navigation How to juggle emotional, physical, and financial pressures of care Ways to look after yourself when you feel there's nothing left to give How to support friends and family going through the caring role Why preparation before a crisis is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself Connect with Casey Instagram @caseyberos Check out her new book 'Next of Kind' nextofkinbook Connect with Carina and Working Mumma Instagram: @workingmummacommunity LinkedIn: Working Mumma or Carina O'Brien Sign up to the Working Mumma newsletter
Julie Dickerson joins co-host Carol Zernial and host Ron Aaron to talk about grief and supporting aging parents personally and professionally on this edition of Caregiver SOS.
BA Fam, this week’s BA QA Mandi is joined by her girl, Yanely Espinal aka Miss Be Helpful and author of Mind Your Money — to answer a listener question that so many of us can relate to: How do you financially support aging parents when there’s little to no retirement savings in place? Yanely shares the systems she and her eight siblings built to cover their parents’ expenses, including: Setting up a joint family fund to automate bill payments. Creating a fair way for siblings to contribute different amounts without judgment. Why a high-yield savings account beats investment accounts for immediate needs. Balancing financial support with maintaining their parents’ dignity and independence. How to set allowance boundaries when one parent struggles with gambling. Tips for protecting elderly parents from scams and keeping finances transparent among siblings. Let’s Connect:IG: @brownambitionpodcast | @mandimoneyEmail: brownambitionpodcast@gmail.com We launched a Patreon!
Are you in the middle of raising your teen daughter and caring for your aging parents? That constant juggling act? One minute you're trying to figure out how to get your teenage daughter to talk to you about her day, and the next you're on the phone with your mom, trying to navigate her doctor's appointments. It's the "sandwich" stage, and let's be real, it can feel like you're being pulled in a million different directions. The pressure to find balance is intense, and the guilt—that nagging feeling that you're not doing enough for either of them—is a heavy weight to carry. Today, we're going to talk about letting go of that myth of doing it all and finding some simple, heartfelt ways to get through this season. Are you looking for ways to communicate with your girl so she can start opening up to you? Do you want to understand why is it so hard to approach your girl? Are you stuck on how to approach your teenage daughter in conversation without her freaking out? SIGN UP FOR TALK TO YOUR TEEN GIRL FRAMEWORK!! A 6-WEEK JOURNEY TO SHIFT HOW YOU COMMUNICATE SO SHE CAN COME TO YOU! You'll walk away with a deeper understanding the changes happening to your girl, Equipped in your new role as COACH in this teen stage, and establish better communication pathways to connect and grow closer with your daughter Imagine if you and your daughter can finally have conversations at a level where she doesn't need to hide anything from you! Plus, you'll get to meet other mamas who are all in the same boat.... SIGN UP HERE! You can find me here: Work with me: www.talktyourteengirl.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisingherconfidently Free mom support community: www.raisingherconfidently.com
In this week's episode of the Rich Habits Podcast, Robert Croak and Austin Hankwitz answer your questions!---
Caring for a parent who is aging or who has dementia, debility, or serious illness such as cancer can be absolutely exhausting. It can feel like you're hanging on by your fingernails. This week on The Integrative Palliative Podcast we're talking about 15 ways to help you care for yourself as you care for your aging parent.Your wellbeing matters too.- Dr. Deliawww.integrativepalliative.comJoin our Facebook Group, CareWell for CaregiversCoping Courageously: A Heart-Centered Guide for Navigating a Loved One's Illness Without Losing Yourself is available here: www.copingcourageously.com Please review this podcast wherever you listen and forward your favorite episode to a friend! And be sure to subscribe!Sign up to stay connected and learn about upcoming programs:https://trainings.integrativepalliative.com/IPI-stay-in-touchI'm thrilled to be listed in Feedspot's top 15 palliative podcasts!https://blog.feedspot.com/palliative_care_podcasts/
What does it truly mean to care for aging parents while preserving their dignity, independence, and joy? This conversation explores the emotional and practical realities of caregiving, from the strain of daily responsibilities to the deep rewards of being present and actively listening. Through personal stories, the speakers highlight the need for open communication about end-of-life planning, the emotional weight of anticipatory grief, and the delicate balance between prolonging life and ensuring its quality. They emphasize shifting expectations, finding joy in shared moments, and cherishing family gatherings as a way to strengthen bonds and create lasting memories—reminding us that, in the end, family connections are what matter most.Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction02:46 - Navigating the Challenges of Aging Parents05:58 - Being Present and Actively Listening 08:54 - Shifting Perspectives on Aging11:32 - Finding Joy in Shared Moments14:53 - The Emotional Strain of Caregiving 17:45 - Maintaining Dignity and Independence20:56 - Practical Support for Aging Parents23:55 - Conversations About End-of-Life Planning 26:39 - The Role of Communication in Caregiving29:50 - Anticipatory Grief and Emotional Challenges32:40 - Quality of Life vs. Prolonging Life35:47 - Lessons Learned from Aging Parents38:57 - The Value of Family Gatherings41:49 - Preparing for Our Own Aging44:52 - Closing Reflections and TakeawaysHosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
In this episode, caregiver expert Pamela D. Wilson explores vital strategies for elderly care to protect aging parents and loved ones from family caregiver manipulation. Caregiver manipulation can occur in both directions—where elderly parents manipulate caregivers and vice versa. By recognizing the warning signs of manipulation that result in elder abuse, caregivers can take crucial steps to halt potential control and power imbalances. Discover comprehensive family caregiving strategies that not only tackle the complexities of elderly care but also empower caregivers to effectively manage challenging family dynamics. Tune in for invaluable support for caregivers navigating these critical care experiences and learn actionable advice for safeguarding your loved ones from manipulative family members. To find show transcripts and links mentioned in Episode 225 and other The Caring Generation podcasts, click here to visit Pamela's website: https://pameladwilson.com/caregiver-radio-programs-the-caring-generation/If you enjoy this podcast, please comment, follow, like, and share it to help grow our audience and extend support to listeners seeking information about health, aging, caregiving, and navigating complicated family relationships.For more caregiving, aging, and elder care tips, visit Pamela's website at www.PamelaDWilson.comLearn about Pamela D Wilson, her professional background, and her experience: https://pameladwilson.com/pamela-d-wilson-story/Are you interested in a 1:1 elder care consultation by telephone or video call with Pamela? Schedule time and learn more here: https://pameladwilson.com/elder-care-consultant-aging-parent-consultation-managing-senior-care-needs-meet-with-pamela-d-wilson/Sign up for Pamela's newsletter here: https://pameladwilson.com/contact/Join Pamela's Online Caregiver Support Group on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/thecaregivingtrapFollow Pamela on Social Media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pameladwilsoncaregivingexpert/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pameladwilsoncaregiverexpert/X: https://x.com/CaregivingSpeak
In this episode of Perimenopause Simplified, Claudia opens up about a side of midlife that rarely gets discussed: what it's really like to care for aging parents, while navigating your own hormone shifts, emotions, and identity. She shares a personal story about supporting her mom after hip surgery, how losing her dad shaped her perspective on forgiveness, and why so many women in their 70s are now facing serious health issues, due to the fallout of the WHI study and lack of hormone therapy access. Claudia also talks about the hard (but necessary) conversation she had with her mom about end-of-life planning…and why getting clear now can prevent stress and heartache later. A raw, reflective episode that will hit home for any woman feeling the weight of midlife caregiving and a powerful reminder to take care of your health now. In this episode, Claudia discusses: The emotional and physical demands of midlife caregiving Why she chose to forgive her father before he passed and what that taught her The ripple effects of the WHI study on women's health and quality of life Stats on bone loss, dementia, sleep issues & metabolic decline in women over 40 The evolving relationship with her mom: from frustration to compassion How planning ahead for death can make space for grieving, instead of chaos Sources: Alzheimer's Facts Osteoporosis Stats Prevalence of Obesity Musculoskeletal Syndrome of Menopause Sleep During Menopause Menopause and Cardiovascular Disease Risk CONNECT WITH CLAUDIA: Website YouTube Instagram Facebook FREE RESOURCES: Peri-What?! The Must-Have Guide for Women 40+ Navigating Hormone Changes Perimenopause Daily Checklist HRT 3-Day Crash Course GET SUPPORT: Perimenopause Clarity Session The Perimenopause Method Program Perimenopause HRT Roadmap Course QUESTIONS? Email: claudia@claudiapetrilli.com LOVE THE SHOW? Please subscribe, leave a 5-star rating, review, and share, so that other women can find this podcast for guidance and support through perimenopause!
Have you ever thought about what it would cost to take care of your parents as they get older, or are you in the midst of it now? That's exactly what Dr. Jimmy Turner and Dr. Rebecca Tapia discuss on this episode of Money Meets Medicine. On this show, the hosts dive into the cost of aging parents, potential burdens that may be faced (both those that are obvious and those you may not think about), and how to mitigate the financial impact of caring for those we love.If you are just getting started on your financial journey, download a free copy of Dr. Turner's best-selling book The Physician Philosopher's Guide to Personal Finance at https://moneymeetsmedicine.com/freebookIf you need to get disability insurance (from someone you can actually trust), get a quote at https://moneymeetsmedicine.com/disability
While we take a season break, we're bringing back this conversation with Rus Devora Wallen, who shares her own experience with a stroke, and lessons from her clients on how the greatest descents in our lives are often a preparation and a catalyst for unparalleled ascent. Find more of Rus Devorah's work on toratherapeutics.com ||* * * * * * *To inquire about sponsorship & advertising opportunities, please email us at info@humanandholy.comTo support our work, visit humanandholy.com/sponsor.Find us on Instagram @humanandholy & subscribe to our channel to stay up to date on all our upcoming conversations ✨Human & Holy podcast is available on all podcast streaming platforms. New episodes every Sunday & Wednesday on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Google Podcasts.* * * * * * *TIMESTAMPS0:00 - Introduction 1:55 - Meet Devora Wallen: Licensed Clinical Social Worker3:25 - Understanding Yerida L'Tzorech Aliyah (Descent for Ascent)5:46 - The Stroke Story: Shavuos Morning Crisis7:26 - Emergency Signs: When Something Goes Wrong9:50 - Hospital Experience & Spiritual Tools12:15 - The Turning Point: Gratitude & Second Life13:44 - Physical Transformation: Better Than Age 2515:26 - Managing High Energy Positively18:11 - Client Story: Postpartum Psychosis Recovery21:07 - Mirror Neurons & Relationship Dynamics23:41 - Unexpected Healing: Tourette's Syndrome Improvement24:44 - The Three-Legged Stool: Mind, Body, Soul26:36 - Depression 29:02 - Caring for Aging Parents & Life Changes30:43 - The Bike Ride Breakthrough31:41 - Moving Creates Motivation34:14 - Mitzvah Leads to Mitzvah35:20 - Three-Legged Stool Method Explained37:35 - Bedtime Breathing Contest Technique39:45 - Basic Breathing for Beginners41:12 - Live Meditation Demonstration Begins45:01 - Post-Meditation Discussion & Benefits46:54 - Mental Muscle Training & Daily Practice48:14 - Meditation as Mental Exercise, Not Relaxation49:30 - Closing Thoughts
Watch on YouTube Topics: Parenting, Guilt, Aging Parents, Adult Children, Intimacy, Depression, Medication Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice shares a few ways that she and her husband manage their children's squabbling. I feel guilty for wanting to put my elderly mom with dementia in a nursing home so that The post New Life Live: July 16, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
We conclude this series this week with Part 3. To make it easier for you to remember the outline for the last two weeks we've included all three weeks below. Part 1 It is hard. Life is busy all by itself, but caring for aging parents doubles or triples the load. Some parents are pretty much on their own all the way through life, but others need lots of help and care. As much as possible, plan ahead before care is needed. Talk with all the family who is involved or who will be. If possible, purchase insurance plans that will help. Perhaps pay for them as a family. Secure wills and power of attorneys and bank accounts and all that while it can be done easily. Have a plan as to who is in charge and who will help and how it will be done. Be prepared for misunderstanding and difficult responses Remember truth when accusations are made Remember truth when challenges occur Part 2 It needs to be a WE affair and not a ME affair Get everyone involved Brothers and sisters Typically best to give someone power of attorney Typically best to give someone the power of the money Aunts and uncles They can spend nights They can transport to appointments Sons and daughters If you parents live with you, the kids can help with them Spouse Communicate Prioritize On both sides The one who is care-giving needs love and understanding as they give to their parent The one who is married to the care-giver needs the same as they give to their spouse Everyone should get involved One person likely cannot do it by themselves Each person must shoulder some responsibility Make it a practical matter Prepare wisely Think ahead while the decision is easy Decide ahead of time as many things as possible Have a will Have a living will Have all information and important papers located and available Plan carefully Sit down with as many people as possible to make a plan Someone should be designated as the one who “takes-charge” Talk continually Keep everyone in the loop Keep everyone organized Perhaps use a group text morning and evening Part 3 4. Schedule specific responsibilities Living arrangements Driving arrangements Appointments Events Financial arrangements Know your limitations Some things can be done Some things cannot be done Some times you need a break Never allow yourself to feel guilty for taking a break when it is needed Some questions How do you handle difficult parents? Do the right thing The right thing is to keep caring The right thing may be to allow someone else to do the caring Do the hard thing You may have to choose a nursing home You many have to choose assisted living Allow someone to have veto power over your decisions? By that I mean limited veto power Limited by time (they can override for a set amount of time) How do you handle parents with whom you have little or no relationship? Prayerfully Pray about it Seek counsel as you pray Wisely If you have no relationship, you do not have to carry the burden of responsibility If you have a damaged relationship, seek to make things right If you cannot make things right, you may need to allow others to serve as the care-giver and you serve as a helper . . .
Part 2 Caring for aging parents is hard! Dave and Bethlie discuss practical ways you navigate these difficult times. If you are in this season, or will be in this season, we trust this content will be a help. If you know of someone who could use this, please share it. 4. It needs to be a WE affair and not a ME affair Get everyone involved Brothers and sisters a Aunts and uncles Sons and daughters Spouse Everyone get involved One person likely cannot do it by themselves Each person must shoulder some responsibility 5. Make it a practical matter Prepare wisely Plan carefully Talk continually Keep everyone in the loop Keep everyone organized Schedule specific responsibilities Living arrangements Driving arrangements Appointments Events Links: Want to hear Pastor Dave Young preach? Westwood Baptist Church Westwood Baptist Church Podcast
DOWNLOAD the RISK PARITY PORTFOLIO CHEAT SHEET at affordanything.com/riskparity ______________ #618: Frank Vasquez watched his parents, ages 91 and 96, struggle financially in retirement. They were immigrants. His dad was a physician. They raised five kids. They retired in the early 1990's. But by 2009, they ran out of money. When Frank was 45, in 2009, his parents would call asking for money to help make ends meet. This reality hit Frank hard and sparked a decade-long quest to crack the code on sustainable retirement withdrawals. At age 45, Frank set an ambitious goal: retire in his early 50's while still supporting his parents financially. The problem? Most financial experts simply told people to spend less rather than optimize their portfolios for higher withdrawal rates. Frank wasn't satisfied with that answer. You'll hear how Frank discovered that many retirees leave money on the table by holding too much cash or following overly conservative allocation models. Through extensive research, he found a sweet spot for stock allocation that maximizes safe withdrawal rates — something most traditional advisors miss entirely. Frank walks us through his approach to portfolio construction, explaining why he believes in balancing growth and value stocks while keeping bonds limited to US treasuries for recession protection. He breaks down the math behind safe withdrawal rates and reveals why property taxes pose a hidden threat to retirement security as home values climb. You'll learn about risk parity strategies, macro allocation principles, and why diversification across uncorrelated assets creates more stability than traditional 60/40 portfolios. The conversation covers Frank's Golden Ratio Portfolio, a structured approach to asset allocation designed specifically for the retirement drawdown phase. Frank figured out how to fix what went wrong with his parents' retirement. His approach could help you avoid the same mistakes. Timestamps: Note: Timestamps will vary on individual listening devices based on dynamic advertising run times. The provided timestamps are approximate and may be several minutes off due to changing ad lengths. (00:00) Introduction (01:04) Frank's parents' financial struggles (05:21) Finding a sustainable retirement portfolio (10:19) Learning from market crashes (13:25) Different types of investments (25:10) Building the perfect portfolio (32:25) Frank's real-world example (39:24) Property taxes and retirement goals (44:21) Safe withdrawal rate basics (45:22) How much to put in stocks (51:03) Why bonds matter (54:23) Adding alternative investments (1:00:14) The Golden Ratio Portfolio (1:12:11) Investment strategies for retirement (1:15:44) Taking money out of your portfolio (1:18:31) Taxes on withdrawals (1:21:14) Where to put your investments (1:23:35) Keeping it simple (1:26:07) How much cash to hold (1:28:20) Market timing risks (1:34:38) Giving back in retirement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices