Obsessed With Death

Comedian Anthony DeVito joins Rob and Greg for a hilarious and deeply personal conversation about mortality, family secrets, and their lifelong flirtation with hypochondria. Anthony opens up about learning in adulthood that his father was killed in a mob-related murder, and how a childhood filled with loss shaped his outlook on life and death. They also spiral into absurd territory, debating ethical cloning, and cannibalism, making this episode absolutely unhinged, and weirdly inspiring.

Diagnosed with end-stage heart failure, Sofia walks us through the mysterious early symptoms, her emergency hospitalization, and the rapid decision to receive an LVAD that now keeps her alive. You can follow Sofia on TikTok here.

In this episode, Rob and Greg discuss the decision to deny parole to Yolanda Saldívar, who killed singer Selena Quintanilla-Perez in 1995, and whether a 64-year-old grandma should still be considered a public threat. They also dive into the bizarre case of Dr. Gerhardt Konig, a Maui anesthesiologist accused of trying to kill his wife during a hike by using a rock and a cliff - plus much more!

On this episode of Obsessed with Death, singer-songwriter Kevin Devine joins for a candid and wide-ranging conversation about mortality, grief, and how becoming a parent changed his perspective on purpose and risk. He reflects on early encounters with death, the emotional impact of losing his brother, sobriety, artistic interpretation, and how music about death fosters connection more than explanation.

In this episode, Rob and Greg discuss an Australian man who lived 100 days with a titanium artificial heart before a successful transplant, signaling a potential shift in heart failure treatment. In South Carolina, Brad Sigmon was executed by firing squad, the first in the U.S. in 15 years—raising questions about whether it's more humane than lethal injection. Finally, we unpack the mysterious deaths of Gene Hackman and his wife, Betsy Arakawa, whose timeline of events, hantavirus diagnosis, and tragic pet situation have sparked new intrigue.

On this episode of Obsessed with Death, we dive into the fascinating world of gravestone recipes with Rosie Grant, a TikTok creator and author of an upcoming cookbook that uncovers the stories behind culinary epitaphs. Rosie shares her journey of tracking down families, collecting recipes from headstones, and preserving the legacies of those who left their favorite dishes behind. We explore the intersection of food, memory, and death, and how a simple recipe can tell a lifetime of stories.

In this episode, Rob and Greg discuss an Indiana jump-rope champion who used his double-Dutch ropes to rescue a drowning man and his dog, NASA's concerns over asteroid 2024 YR4 and its small but real chance of hitting Earth—or the moon—and Delta's unexpected $30,000 payout to passengers after a flight flipped on landing in Toronto.

Ömer Sami, the director of Eternal Father, joins the show to talk about his documentary about how a father's attempt to defy death with cryonic preservation affects his family's lives.You can watch the full documentary by clickinghere.

In this episode, Rob and Greg dive into the importance of making that yearly check-up with your doctor a non-negotiable part of your routine and explore the idea of having open text communication with your doctor—should it really be that accessible? They also uncover a startling and often overlooked trend: death rates spike on Christmas Day, the day after Christmas, and New Year's Day, a phenomenon that still leaves scientists puzzled.

Hosts Kendel & Rachel, aren't professionals just professional grievers who started a podcast to help normalize and build community for those dealing with grief and loss.

In this episode, Rob and Greg discuss Anthony “TJ” Hoover, a man declared brain dead who woke up during organ harvesting surgery, raising questions about medical protocols and organ donation. Next, they talk about Barry Griffiths, who tragically stabbed himself while trying to separate frozen burgers, highlighting the risks of living alone. Finally, they explore a new exercise pill, LaKe, which mimics the effects of running a 10K without physical effort, and its potential impact on health and fitness.

Penny Smith, BSN, RN is a (US) nationally certified hospice and palliative care nurse, social media influencer and author of Influencing Death, Reframing Dying for Better Living. 

Comedian and Podcaster Greg Stone joins the final word as guest co-host, and to be honest, we didn't get into one story...but it's a great episode and you'll love it! I promise we'll get back to more stories next episode. Watch Greg's Full Special - Greg Stone Nobody Presents

Grace Wethor is an award-winning actress, director, bestselling author, and leading advocate for brain cancer and pediatric health. Diagnosed with an untreatable brain tumor at 13, she turned her experience into a mission, working with the White House and Capitol Hill to advance legislation securing over $100 million in funding for youth healthcare. Her latest book, Seven Thompson & the Art of Remembering, is a global bestseller and available here.

In this episode, Rob and Gary celebrate one year of The Final Word! Thank you for listening!

Don't miss comedian Benny Blue's debut comedy special, Live From My Mother's Funeral, now streaming on YouTube!

In this episode, Rob and Gary kick things off by exploring the idea that having a lot of possessions is linked to mortality and death, with Rob sharing the strange reactions he gets when people realize he doesn't own much. They then dive into fascinating new research on human aging, revealing that it occurs in two accelerated bursts rather than gradually, impacting cardiovascular health, metabolism, and immune function around ages 44 and 60. The conversation also touches on James Earl Jones' decision to preserve his iconic Darth Vader voice through AI for future Star Wars projects. Finally, they discuss NASA's upcoming rescue mission to the International Space Station and the challenges of safely bringing astronauts back to Earth.

Charley Burlock and Rob explore the tension between traditional private grief and the public nature of online mourning. Should we appreciate how the internet allows for a communal experience of mourning? Read Charley's full article from The Atlantic. My Brother Died. His Facebook Page Lives On.

The Final Word - A Monthly Series from Obsessed with Death! In this episode Rob and Gary discuss some new funeral ideas that Rob would like to take place when he passes, Disney's legal battle to dismiss a wrongful death lawsuit filed by Jeffrey Piccolo, citing a prior arbitration agreement linked to his Disney+ subscription. We also cover the charges brought against two doctors, a personal assistant, and others in connection with the overdose death of actor Matthew Perry, exploring the tragic misuse of ketamine therapy and the exploitation of Perry's struggles with addiction.

Sheldon Solomon is a leading figure in psychology, known for his extensive research on the effects of death awareness on human behavior. His influential studies have not only advanced academic understanding but also reached wider audiences through impactful documentaries and publications.

The Final Word - A Monthly Series from Obsessed with Death! In this episode, Rob and Gary reflect on the one-year anniversary of the passing of actor and comedian Paul Reubens. They discuss the impact of losing beloved musicians and artists to suicide, and delve into the ongoing ordeal of two NASA astronauts who have been stranded in space for over two months due to issues with their Boeing spacecraft.

Alix Strauss is a trend, culture and lifestyle journalist; an award-winning, four-time published author; speaker; and frequent contributor to The New York Times.  You can purchase the 20th Anniversary Edition of The Joy of Funerals, here.

The Final Word - A Monthly Series from Obsessed with Death! In this episode, Rob and Gary delve into the story of a California man who survived ten harrowing days stranded in Big Basin Redwoods State Park, California's oldest state park known for its ancient coast redwoods. They also examine Boeing's ongoing public relations nightmare as their Starliner spacecraft, carrying two astronauts, remains stuck in orbit and the in memoriam segment honoring O.J. Simpson who was credited on screen as "former NFL player."

Doug Stanhope is an American stand-up comedian, author, actor, and podcast host. Doug joined the show to talk all things death, comedy hospice and much more, enjoy!

The Final Word - A Monthly Series from Obsessed with Death! In this episode, Rob and Gary delve into Equinox's new $40,000-per-year program designed to enhance overall health and longevity. They also discuss Jeff Goldblum's recent statements, where he advises his children not to expect financial support from their parents, emphasizing the importance of his eight and six-year-old sons finding their own path to financial independence after his death. Additionally, they cover the closure of a high-profile case involving Boeing whistleblower John Barnett, where investigators concluded he died by suicide after ballistics and autopsy reports confirmed the firearm found in his hand was used in his death

David's profound experiences, including a darkness retreat and caring for his dying grandfather, prompted a career pivot to embrace poetry and become a death doula. Inspired by a "Year to Live" class, he set a symbolic death date for March 7th, 2024. Follow David on Instagram @mor.intune to stay up to date on his debut poetry manuscript and other offerings. Learn more about David's Death Doula's, Tide Beattie and Soyeon Davis here, mesocommunity.com.

The Final Word - A Monthly Series from Obsessed with Death! In this episode, Rob and Gary discuss the news that a second Boeing whistleblower has died after a sudden illness, just two months after another one allegedly shot himself in the head. They also delve into the phasing out of Charged Lemonade, a highly caffeinated beverage blamed for at least two deaths and explore how scientists have discovered the mechanism behind a rare genetic mutation that allows a woman to live her life virtually pain-free.

Save My Ink Forever offers a seamless process for individuals to either plan their own tattoo preservation or for family members to engage in a specialized service upon their passing. The process is designed to be accessible and respectful, ensuring that the beauty of each tattoo is preserved and celebrated. Learn more here.

The Final Word - A Monthly Series from Obsessed with Death! In this episode, Rob and Gary dive into the passing of O.J. Simpson, exploring how his death stirred up memories of the trial that captivated the nation in the 90s. They unpack the public's reactions and the ongoing discourse surrounding the case. They also dissect the events on the set of 'Rust,' and the complexities of the situation, including the sentencing of the weapons armorer to 18 months in jail for involuntary manslaughter.

Ryan Noufer is a filmmaker whose films have premiered in multiple film festivals across the world. Ryan joins the show to discuss his short film The Hereafter, about a product that allows the dead to keep posting to their social media from beyond the grave. You can watch The Hereafter on YouTube.

The Final Word - A Monthly Series from Obsessed with Death! Rob and Gary discuss the Boeing whistleblower who was found dead in his pickup truck in Charleston, South Carolina, if you'd rather know how you were going to die or when you would die and the footage of a scary moment for two Texas zoo keepers after they found themselves in an enclosure with a silverback gorilla.

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The Final Word - A Monthly Series from Obsessed with Death! Rob and Gary discuss AI Death Calculators, the fears of commercial air travel, and why you should never play the movie Titanic on a long flight; enjoy!

⁠Devin Moss spent a year ministering to convicted killer Phillip Hancock. He is an atheist chaplain and hosts The Adventures of Memento Mori Podcast⁠. He joins the show to discuss his time with Phillip and his views on life, death, and much more. 

Rob just spent a week in the hospital, so clearly he had to do a podcast about the entire experience, otherwise what's the point?!

Writer-director Tiger Ji joins the show to talk about life, death and his new short film, Death and Ramen. Watch Death and Ramen here.

We are celebrating the holidays with an episode about Paranormal Research and Investigations. Enjoy! Support our Sponsors! ⁠⁠Lovecoda.com⁠⁠ Everything you need to navigate pet end of life. Pet loss resources, guides, and modern memorialization options.

The Final Word - A Brand New Monthly Series from Obsessed with Death! Rob and Gary discuss a Nebraska funeral worker who was fired after using a sex doll of a dead man he was tasked to collect. P Diddy, blowing up Kid Cudi's car, a deal to kill both Tupac and Suge Knight in the mid-1990s, and Heinz's search for a man who survived nearly a month at sea by eating nothing but ketchup. They also chat about how long they would survive alone at sea, on an island, and what type of sauce besides ketchup would be best. Make sure you rate, review, subscribe, and tell a friend!

Mandy is the co-founder and editor of TalkDeath, and also the founder and President of the online memorial platform, Keeper. Mandy's work has appeared in national and international publications, she has been a featured presenter at professional funeral and cemetery conferences and was recently featured as an industry innovator by American Funeral Director Magazine. Support our Sponsors! ⁠Lovecoda.com⁠ Everything you need to navigate pet end of life . Pet loss resources, guides, and modern memorialization options.

The Final Word - A Brand New Monthly Series from Obsessed with Death! Rob and Gary discuss Tupac's alleged killer, drunken men shooting each other while wearing bulletproof vests, how much time they need before the world ends, and why you shouldn't google anything before committing murder.

Happy Halloween! Do you believe in ghosts? Haunted houses? And how exactly do you bust a ghost? Uncover the spooky and spectral world of ghosts in Chilling with Ghosts by Insha Fitzpatrick! For more go to, ⁠penguinrandomhouse.com

When Leslie's husband died suddenly in 2019 from a freak brain aneurysm and stroke, she only wanted to talk to other widows. Vids for Wids is a place for solidarity for everyone wondering what they "should" be doing after their world blows up. Support our Sponsors! Lovecoda.com Everything you need to navigate pet end of life . Pet loss resources, guides, and modern memorialization options. Widowsfire.com Interested in joining a community of like-minded Wids? If you're ready to meet potential new friends/romantic partners, check out Widows Fire, today!

Losing a pet is a terrible experience. It's a horrible reality that we all face - pet parents also are rarely prepared for it. For more info, resources, guides and help, go to lovecoda.com

Colin Campbell is an Academy Award-nominated writer and director; his one-person show titled "Grief: A One Man ShitShow" premiered at the Hollywood Fringe Festival, where it won a Best of Broadwater Award. He also wrote a book titled, "Finding the Words: Working Through Profound Loss with Hope and Purpose," a powerful account of one father's journey through the loss of his two teenage children that a drunk driver killed. Colin offers readers a new vision of how to more actively and fully mourn a profound loss. 

Interested in joining a community of like-minded Wids? Are you ready to meet potential new friends/romantic partners? Meet other Wids who are interested in exploring new connections with the potential for friendship, companionship or even a romantic relationship! For more, check out WidowsFire.com and connect with like-minded Wids around the world, publicly and privately.

Research editor and contributing writer at Wired Magazine, Meghan Herbst, is back on the show to talk all things death and outer space! Space travel, space tourism, astroids, the sun, its all terrifying, and can kill us within just a few seconds. So we talk all things space and death, enjoy!

Rosie Grant joins the podcast to discuss her time as an intern in the archives of a Washington cemetery and how she finds and cooks gravestone recipes from the last 30+ years. Follow Rosie on Instagram and TikTok - @ghostly.archive

As her father nears the end of his life, filmmaker Kirsten Johnson stages his death in inventive and comical ways to help them both face the inevitable. You can watch Kirsten Johnsons film on Netflix now!

Nick Thune is an American actor, comedian, and musician. He joined the show to discuss his struggles with addiction, near-death in rehab, losing friends to alcoholism and much more. If you'd like to see him perform live check out - nickthune.com

Oaktree was founded after losing beloved family members and experiencing first-hand how difficult it can be to find memorial products that we would be proud to wear or have in our home. Oaktree provides you with a one-of-a-kind collection of urns and memorials. For more info go to, oaktreememorials.com

Meghan Herbst is a research editor and contributing writer at Wired Magazine in San Francisco. She writes about science, culture, technology, and has also covered housing, homelessness, crime, and politics. Check out more of her work at www.meghanherbst.com