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Dating an elite man—whether he's a CEO, an entrepreneur, or a high-powered professional—comes with its own set of rules. These men operate in a fast-paced, high-stakes world, and their dating lives often reflect that. They have high standards, and busy schedules, and expect a partner who is just as impressive as they are. and In this episode, we're breaking down everything you need to know about dating an elite man—how to hold your own, how to keep him engaged, and most importantly, how to stay true to yourself while navigating this unique dating dynamic. If you're stepping into this world, now is the time to be on your A-game. Website:www.janisspindelmatchmaker.comConnect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindelBooks:- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top MatchmakerPhoto credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Summer is right around the corner, and if you're single, this is your sign to shake things up. If what you've been doing hasn't worked, it's time to step outside your comfort zone and try something different. Whether that means traveling, meeting new people, or simply making small changes to your routine, now is the time to plan ahead so you can make the most of the season. In this episode, we're talking about how to prepare for summer—how to plan trips that put you in the right places with like-minded people, how to freshen up your look, and how to be intentional about making the most of the season. If you're ready to stop waiting for things to happen and start making moves.Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.comConnect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindelBooks:- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top MatchmakerPhoto credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Ghosting isn't new, it's just really bad manners with a new name. One day you're talking, maybe even going on a date, and then suddenly… nothing. No explanation, no goodbye—just radio silence. It's frustrating, confusing, and let's be real, downright rude. In this episode, we're talking about why ghosting is never okay, and how to handle it if it happens to you. Plus, we're flipping the script—because if you're guilty of ghosting, it's time to start handling things with honesty and respect. Website:www.janisspindelmatchmaker.comConnect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindelBooks:- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top MatchmakerPhoto credit: Mike McGregor Photography

The sun is out, the weather is warming up, and there's no reason to stay home binge-watching Netflix. Spring is the season of new beginnings—so why not take advantage of it? This is the perfect time to get outside, try new things, and put yourself in places where you can meet new people (including a potential partner). In this episode, we're talking about how to embrace the energy of spring—where to go, what to do, and how to refresh your mindset, your wardrobe, and your dating life. If you're ready to shake off winter and step into a fresh, exciting season, this one's for you. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.comConnect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindelBooks:- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top MatchmakerPhoto credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Communication is everything in a relationship. It's how you build trust, stay connected, and navigate life together. But what if the guy you're seeing is bad at communicating? Does it mean the relationship is doomed, or is there a way to work through it? In this episode, we're diving into how to handle a partner who struggles with communication. Is he just a bad texter, or does he shut down in person too? Is this something you can live with, or is it a dealbreaker? Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.comConnect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindelBooks:- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top MatchmakerPhoto credit: Mike McGregor Photography

When it comes to relationships, the real challenge isn't just falling in love—it's staying in love. Over time, responsibilities, routines, and the daily grind can take the spark out of a once-exciting connection. But here's the good news: keeping your relationship alive doesn't mean reinventing the wheel. It's about small, intentional actions that keep the love, passion, and connection strong. This episode is all about what keeps the magic alive over the long haul. From creating shared experiences to focusing on gratitude and trying new things together, we're breaking it all down so you can build a relationship that's not just surviving—but thriving.Website:www.janisspindelmatchmaker.comConnect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindelBooks:- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top MatchmakerPhoto credit: Mike McGregor Photography

When it comes to relationships, we hear a lot about what men want. Spoiler alert: it's more than just physical attraction. Respect, trust, laughter, and feeling genuinely appreciated all play a key role. This episode isn't about stereotyping what men want—it's about understanding what helps them feel fulfilled, respected, and connected in a relationship. Whether you're single, newly dating, or in a relationship, we've got you covered!Website:www.janisspindelmatchmaker.comConnect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindelBooks:- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top MatchmakerPhoto credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In today's digital world, it can feel almost second nature to look someone up online before meeting them in person, especially when dating. Social media offers us a glimpse into someone's life, their hobbies, their friends, and even their past. But, is it always a good idea to peek into their online presence before your first date?  Some might argue that it's harmless, just a way to feel more comfortable. Others might say it ruins the mystery, and worse, creates judgments before you've even had a chance to meet them in person. In this episode, we'll dive into the pros and cons of social media stalking before a first date.Website:www.janisspindelmatchmaker.comConnect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindelBooks:- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top MatchmakerPhoto credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Wow—100 episodes! I can't believe we're here already. It feels like just yesterday we were recording our very first episode. It's been such a ride, and we couldn't have done it without all of our listeners who tune in week after week. So, to celebrate this major milestone, we're doing something really special. We're sharing our top advice from the past 100 episodes. These are the lessons we live by, the tips that have stood the test of time, and the pieces of advice that we hope will resonate with you as much as they do with us. So whether you're navigating the dating world, trying to improve communication with a partner, or just working on self-love, we've got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Sometimes life has a funny way of circling back to people we thought we'd left behind. Today, we're diving into a topic that's a little tricky: dating your ex. Is it a mistake to revisit old flames, or could this actually be your second chance at something great? We've all been there, scrolling through our social media or coming across an old photo, and suddenly wondering, “What if?” Timing plays such a big role in relationships, and sometimes it really wasn't the right time back then. But—before you go rushing to send that text, there are a lot of things to consider! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Relationships can sometimes feel heavy with responsibilities and routines, but they don't have to be! Today, we're talking about how to “grow young” with your partner—a mindset that keeps your relationship exciting, light, and full of life. Growing young together is about so much more than just staying physically fit—though that helps. It's about staying curious, trying new things, and maintaining that sense of fun and wonder that makes life together feel like an adventure. Let's explore how couples can embrace youthful energy while growing as individuals and partners. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Let's face it, dating can be exhausting, especially as we get older. You start to wonder—how much time should I give this person before I know if they're right for me? When do I stop giving chances and just cut the cord?  Today, we're going to unpack that tricky balance between giving someone a fair shot and knowing when it's time to walk away. When you're holding onto him, you might be missing out on someone great. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Dealing with a partner who comes off as too needy can be tricky. On one hand, their constant attention and affection might feel reassuring at first, but over time, it can start to feel overwhelming or even suffocating. This raises important questions about compatibility. Is their need for closeness a sign of deeper insecurity, or are they simply more emotionally expressive than you? In this episode, we'll explore when neediness becomes a dealbreaker and when it's something you can work through together. Should you address it head-on and have that tough conversation, or is it better to step back and walk away? We'll talk about how to handle these situations, why they happen, and how to figure out what feels right for you moving forward. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Love it or hate it, Valentine's Day is just around the corner. Whether you're single, newly seeing someone, or in a long-term relationship, it's one of those holidays that can bring a mix of excitement and pressure. The good news is, you can celebrate Valentine's Day in a way that feels authentic to you. In this episode, we're breaking it down: how to make the most of Valentine's Day no matter your relationship status, avoid unnecessary drama, and focus on what's really important—love in all its forms, whether it's for yourself, your friends, or your partner. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

When we think about relationships, there's a lot of talk about what we want in a partner. But let's flip the script today—what do you bring to the relationship? Whether it's dating someone new or building a stronger connection with someone you've been with for years, this question is essential. Are you enhancing their life? Are you contributing to something bigger than just the day-to-day?  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Dating can feel like a job sometimes—one that's repetitive and even a bit exhausting. But here's the thing: dating is all about attitude. How we approach it changes everything. At the end of the day, dating may have ups and downs, but that's just part of the journey to finding someone amazing. Staying inspired comes down to seeing it as an opportunity, even when things don't go perfectly. A positive mindset can truly shift how you experience dating, making the search feel like an adventure rather than a chore. In this episode, we'll help you back that spark, getting creative and adding a touch of excitement back into the process Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Food can be a major bonding experience in relationships, but when two people have different dietary preferences, it can add unexpected stress to dating. Think about it—if you're a vegan and he's ordering steak, or he's a foodie, but you're a picky eater, these differences may feel small at first. Over time, though, they can add up and create real friction, especially if food is something that brings him joy. Food can play a huge role in daily life. Whether it's a romantic dinner, cooking as a couple, or trying new restaurants, food can bring two people closer—or it can drive them apart. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

When it comes to dating, the question of age often comes up—how old is too old? The answer isn't straightforward, as it depends on factors such as your stage in life, what you're looking for in a relationship, and how flexible you're willing to be. Age can play a role in compatibility, but it's far from the only factor.  It's important to recognize that the “right” age range isn't one-size-fits-all—it's something you need to personalize based on your own life circumstances. Whether you're in your 20s, 30s, or beyond, your approach will naturally evolve over time. Expanding your dating pool by adjusting your age range might even open you up to new, exciting possibilities you hadn't considered before. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In today's dating world, it's easy to feel like you're just another face in the crowd. But here's the thing—standing out and becoming someone he genuinely wants to date isn't about playing games or changing who you are. It's about being the best version of yourself, living a full life, and making sure you bring something valuable and unique to the table. In this episode, we'll discuss how to highlight your best qualities, show your true personality, and make a lasting impression that keeps him coming back for more. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

When it comes to dating, we can sometimes find ourselves stuck in a routine, only saying "yes" to people who check off a narrow list of preferences. But what if expanding your horizons could actually bring you closer to finding the right person? In this episode, we're going to explore how to step outside of your comfort zone in dating—whether that's trying different backgrounds, locations, or even rethinking what you're attracted to. By making small changes, you could be giving yourself more opportunities to meet your perfect match. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Sometimes, getting a second date can feel confusing, but it often comes down to a few key areas. From how you present yourself to how engaged you are during the date, these factors play a significant role in whether someone is interested in seeing you again. In this episode, we'll break down the reasons you may not be getting a second date and what you can do to improve your chances. Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠ Books: - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Couples therapy can be a powerful tool for healing and strengthening a relationship, but it also comes with its own set of challenges and considerations. For many couples, the idea of seeking professional help might feel like admitting failure, while for others, it's an essential step toward growth. The decision to pursue therapy isn't always clear-cut, and it often raises questions about commitment, compatibility, and whether both partners are truly willing to put in the work.  In this episode, we'll explore whether couples therapy is the right choice for your relationship. Whether you're hoping to fix a specific issue or simply strengthen your bond, understanding the role of couples therapy can help you make an informed decision. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Making your partner feel special is essential for a healthy, thriving relationship. Often, it's the small gestures and thoughtful actions that speak the loudest, showing him that he's valued, appreciated, and cherished. Whether you're in the early stages of dating or have been together for years, taking the time to make him feel special can deepen your connection and set your relationship apart from the rest. In this episode, we'll explore practical and meaningful ways to make your man feel like he's on top of the world. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Obsessing over an ex is something many of us experience after a breakup, but it's a habit that can keep you stuck in the past and prevent you from moving forward. While men and women often handle breakups differently, it's common for women to replay what went wrong or check up on their ex's social media. Is this behavior really helping, or is it keeping you from healing? In this episode, we'll discuss whether or not it's healthy to stay connected, and how to break free from the cycle of obsessing. We'll cover tips for disconnecting emotionally and digitally, focusing on self-care, and getting back into the dating world. It's time to take control of your healing and move on to better things. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In every strong relationship, shared experiences play a pivotal role in building deeper connections. Engaging in activities together not only brings joy but also strengthens the bond between partners. In this episode, we'll explore why shared hobbies are more than just fun—they're a fundamental part of a thriving relationship. We'll discuss how finding common ground can help you grow closer and keep the spark alive in your relationship. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll dive into the big question: Should couples live together before marriage? Moving in together can be an exciting step, offering a glimpse into what life might be like long-term. However, it also comes with considerations that can significantly impact your relationship. In this episode, we'll explore the pros and cons of living together.  Whether you're looking for a practice run at married life or simply considering the next step in your relationship, we'll help you weigh the factors to decide if sharing a space is the right move for you. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll be discussing gaslighting in dating. Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that can deeply affect your self-worth and sense of reality. By understanding the tactics of gaslighting and learning how to react, you can regain your confidence and maintain healthier relationships. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll discuss how to get out of a bad relationship. It's never easy to leave a relationship, especially when comfort, finances, or fear hold you back. But your happiness and well-being should always come first. Breaking free from a bad relationship can feel overwhelming, but it's essential for your well-being and future happiness. In this episode, we'll guide you through the practical steps needed to find the strength to leave and create a new life filled with support and happiness. If you've been feeling stuck, we've got you covered! Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠ Books: - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In today's episode, we'll discuss the invaluable lessons learned from past relationships. Each relationship, whether it ended in heartbreak or amicably, offers insights that can help us grow and improve our future relationships. In this episode, we'll explore what really matters, what doesn't, and how to prioritize self-love and effective communication. Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Everyone has a unique way of feeling loved and appreciated, and by recognizing these different love languages, you can deepen your connection and foster a more fulfilling relationship. In this episode, we'll discuss the five love languages. Understanding and effectively communicating love in a way that resonates with your partner can significantly strengthen your relationship. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we will discuss the art of balancing work and love. Both are crucial aspects of our lives, but finding the right balance can sometimes feel impossible. We will discuss strategies for prioritizing your relationship while managing a demanding career so you can maintain a healthy work-life balance and ensure both your professional and personal lives flourish. Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll dive into the complexities of modern relationships and offer insights to help you navigate the dating world with confidence. Today, we're tackling a topic that everyone has an opinion on – the worst parts of dating and, more importantly, how to make it better.  Whether you're a seasoned dater or just dipping your toes into the dating pool, we've got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll discuss key qualities that men find attractive and desirable, and how you can embody these traits to create stronger, more fulfilling relationships Whether you're single and looking to understand men, or you're in a relationship and want to deepen your connection, we've got you covered.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In a world where everyone is online, you never know who you're going to meet. Some people are looking for love, others for a fling, and distinguishing between the two can be tricky. In this episode, we will discuss the importance of meeting as many people as you can, while taking your time getting to know someone before rushing into a relationship. Remember to take it all with a grain of salt.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll focus on one of the most essential aspects of any relationship – truly getting to know the person you're with. We've curated a list of thoughtful and engaging questions designed to help you uncover the layers of someone's personality, passions, and quirks. Whether you're on a first date, in a new relationship, or simply want to deepen your understanding of your partner, we've got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll discuss the delicate art of turning a date into a friend. Navigating this transition can be challenging, but it's entirely possible with honest communication, mutual respect, and thoughtful actions.  Whether you've been on a few dates and realized you're better off as friends, or you simply want to maintain a meaningful connection, we'll provide practical tips to help you make this transition smoothly and successfully Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll discuss giving yourself a breakup pep talk. Breaking up is never easy, but it's a crucial step towards finding the happiness and fulfillment you deserve. Whether you're relieved or heartbroken, this episode will guide you through the process of healing and moving on, empowering you to embrace a brighter and more fulfilling future. Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography 

In this episode, we'll discuss finding ultimate satisfaction in the bedroom. From igniting sparks of desire to navigating the complexities of communication, we're here to help you on your journey toward sexual empowerment and fulfillment. Whether you're craving more excitement, seeking to unleash your inner desires, or simply aiming to enhance intimacy with your partner, we'll provide valuable insights and practical tips to help you achieve your goals. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography 

Dating after 50 means stepping into a new dating landscape, one filled with both excitement and challenges. In this episode, we'll discuss navigating the modern dating scene for those in their golden years. Remember, it's never too find love and meaningful connections. Whether you're re-entering the dating world after a divorce, or seeking companionship in your later years, we've got you covered. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography 

In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it's easy for the spark in a marital relationship to dim, but through intentional dating, couples can rediscover the joy of companionship. In this episode, we'll explore the importance of prioritizing quality time together, shifting the focus away from parenthood, and infusing intimacy and excitement back into relationships.  From sharing meaningful conversations to planning romantic surprises, we'll discuss strategies for nurturing a thriving marriage through dating your spouse. Whether you're looking to reignite the passion in a long-term partnership or strengthen the foundation of your relationship, we've got you covered. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography 

In this episode, we'll discuss how to be interesting to men. Picture yourself as the curator of your own narrative, weaving together diverse interests, engaging conversations, and a polished appearance. Remember that charm is about embracing and enhancing your unique characteristics.  Whether you're looking to ignite sparks in a new romantic relationship or simply aiming to leave a lasting impression, we've got you covered. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography 

In this episode, we will discuss how crafting your visual identity can profoundly impact your relationships, opportunities, and self-confidence. From the clothes you wear to the settings you choose, every aspect of your visual presence tells a story—a story that can shape perceptions and open doors to new possibilities. Your photos should do more than capture moments—they should paint a vivid picture of your multifaceted life. From fashion choices to showcasing your passions and hobbies, each image is an opportunity to express your unique personality and interests. Join us as we explore the art of storytelling through imagery. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography 

As the world awakens from its winter slumber, there's a sense of excitement in the air, urging us to step outside, breathe in the fresh scents of blooming flowers, and perhaps, find a connection with someone new. From blossoming romances to exciting rendezvous, this season offers opportunities to meet that special someone while enjoying the great outdoors. Whether you're single and ready to mingle or looking for fun springtime activities, we've got you covered Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll discuss a topic that's sure to resonate – the mistakes men make at the beginning of dating. From oversharing to lacking confidence or disregarding boundaries, we're here to uncover the red flags you might encounter. Join us as we navigate the world of dating and empower you with the knowledge to spot these common mistakes. Whether you're dipping your toes back into the dating pool or seeking reassurance, we've got you covered. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography 

In this episode, we're shaking off the stigma surrounding online dating and rethinking it as a genuine way to meet someone special. Forget the stereotypes – online dating isn't just for the desperate; it's a great way to meet people with endless possibilities for meaningful connections. Dating apps and websites have revolutionized how we meet potential partners. Whether you're a seasoned online dater or just curious about dipping your toes into the virtual dating pool, we've got you covered. Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠ Books: - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography 

In this episode, we're flipping the script on traditional dating and diving into the empowering concept of dating yourself. In a world where romantic relationships often take center stage, it's easy to overlook the most important relationship of all: the one with ourselves.  We're here to shine a spotlight on the transformative power of self-love and self-discovery. We'll explore why it's crucial to prioritize nurturing your relationship with yourself, and how doing so can lead to greater happiness, fulfillment, and personal growth. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography 

In this episode, we'll discuss the Dos and Don'ts of what to talk about on a first date. Filtering what you discuss is important to create a positive impression, avoid controversy, maintain mystery, and focus on genuine connection. You don't want to have what we call diarrhea of the mouth Whether you're a seasoned dater or stepping into the dating scene for the first time, these insights will help you navigate the conversation minefield with ease.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll discuss balancing dating with a hectic travel schedule. Whether you're jetting for work, exploring new destinations, or simply leading a fast-paced life, finding time for budding romance can feel like a challenge.  From setting clear expectations to making the most of the time you have together, we'll explore practical strategies and insights for navigating the early stages of dating with a crazy travel schedule or demanding commitments. If you're trying to find a meaningful connection, but often find yourself juggling a hectic schedule, we've got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Have you ever experienced an intense whirlwind of affection in the early stages of a relationship, only for it to fizzle out just as quickly? What lies beneath the surface of this intense affection? In today's episode, we'll discuss love bombing, which is a manipulative tactic used to gain control over another person in a relationship.  Love bombing involves showering the person with excessive affection, attention, and praise, creating an intense emotional bond that can be hard to break free from. But behind the grand gestures and constant communication lies a calculated strategy to exploit vulnerability and fulfill the love bomber's own needs for power and validation. In this episode, we'll dive into the signs of love bombing, its impact on victims, and how to establish healthy boundaries to protect yourself from manipulation and emotional abuse.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll discuss a scenario that many of us have experienced or even feared: bumping into an ex. Whether it's at the grocery store, a social event, or even unexpectedly on the street, these encounters can stir up a whirlwind of emotions and leave us scrambling for the right response. We will explore the art of gracefully navigating these encounters with maturity and dignity and guide you through the maze of navigating unexpected run-ins with former partners. From maintaining composure and setting boundaries to post-encounter reflections, we've got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll discuss the dynamic world of texting, which is a crucial part of courtship and sets the tone for budding relationships. We'll unravel the intricacies of pre-date communication and post-date etiquette and help you master the art of texting. Whether you're a seasoned texter or new to the dating game, we've got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography