Timu Time Podcast

This podcast we talk about faith and how we've navigated our own faith in our religion. Pam talks about how she lost faith in the church and was able to find the right path for her. And we share what you can do if you are questioning your own faith or trying to find a faith. Happy listening

An addicts journey to healthy recovery is bumpy and not easy. Relapses are a part of the process but can also be painful to deal with. If you're struggling with this in your life or marriage, we share ways you can quickly bounce back and get back on track. With over 7 years of experience in dealing with a porn addiction, we share our personal experiences that we hope can help you on your journey to health recovery and lasting sobriety.

This episode is just a life update, talking about the ups and downs of our marriage and what we're looking forward to. Happy Listening

In this podcast we give you an update on our life so far being back in France. How we failed and went broke. We share what went wrong and the lessons we learned. We hope this helps those of you out there who may be struggling or doing it tough. Happy listening!

This episode we talk about a challenge we're doing. 75 hard by Andy Frisella, he created this to change mentally. We talk about how we're travelling and hope to continue updating you as we go. Happy Listening

We talk about being burnt out from life and our businesses, as well as our decision to homeschool our son.

In this weeks episode we talk about the money habits we've developed over our marriage that have helped us be debt free, buy a house, set up our businesses and travel often. We talk about some of the important financial decisions that were pivotal to our success. Happy listening!

This episode we are joined by Jaxon Tippet an addict turned model, influencer, business man and podcaster. We talk about Jaxon's life and how he overcame his steroid addiction and and how he ultimately transformed his life. Happy Listening

In this episode we talk about low esteem, low confidence and how important it is to build yourself up daily. Also, the importance of surrounding yourself with people who good people who help you and not tear your down. We share what we've done to stop hating ourself by having a self care routine and rituals. Enjoy!

This ones an oldie but a cutie. Our kids always showed interest in our podcast equipment and when we would record ourselves and wanted to record one. We totally forgot we had recorded this with them. Family podcasting should be a thing. Anyway happy listening.

In this episode Pam shares what it's like being the spouse of a porn addict. The betrayal trauma she experienced - how she felt when she first found out, how she coped with it, how she protected herself, and also advice for others experiencing betrayal trauma in their marriage. We share how the addiction, which nearly ended our marriage, became one of the biggest strengths of our marriage.

In this episode we talk about what's it's like running our businesses and why we decided to give up the 9-5. We talk about the struggles we face but also the benefits of living life on your own schedule. We also share how we make a living now and the vision we have for our future. We hope you enjoy and feel free to message us on Instagram if you have any questions.

In this episode, Caleb answers questions about his journey to being free from a porn addiction that almost cost him his marriage and family. He answers how his recovery is going today, how his journey started and how his porn addiction has actually blessed his marriage. If you have any questions or feedback share with us at our instagram page @timutimepodcast.

This episode we share why we invest in coaching. We talk about Caleb and his coaching journey and how Pam finally found a perfect match for a coach. Happy Listening ☺️

In this episode we talk about the secret of success - failure! We speak about our own failures in business and sport, and how they have helped us succeed. We hope to help you see the power of trying new things, and stepping out of your comfort zone, so you can fail your way to success in 2022.

In this episode we reflect on our 2021 goals, how we went and what we learned. We then share some of our goals for 2022, how we plan to achieve our goals and some mindset tips to help you with your own goal setting. We hope it helps and happy listening

This podcast we explore what we've done to keep our marriage alive and also what makes us not want to be married to each other lol. Happy Listening

This episode we recorded a few weeks after returning home to Australia from France. We discuss what we've been up to and whether or not it was the right decision. Happy Listening

This episode we give another life update. We're currently in our 12th day of hotel quarantine in Brisbane and we share what we've been up to and what we've got planned for the future. We haven't been as consistent with our podcast but once we've settled we have some good stuff lined up.

In this episode we talk about the evolution of our family and individual routines. Going from no routine for ourselves and our kids, to sleeping earlier and using our mornings to work on ourself. Seeing these benefits for us as parents and in our kids, after making small gradual improvements, made us want to share with you our journey. By no means are we perfect at this, but we try everyday and we've seen it makes a huge difference. Happy listening!

This episode we talk about how becoming a mum changes a woman. Not just physically but mentally and emotionally. We discuss the decision to be a stay at home mum for Pam, getting through post-natal depression and even self esteem issues that came with being a new mum. Pam shares what's helped her be more present at home but also look forward to the future with her own passions and goals.

In this podcast (and in upcoming future ones) we've decided to revisit some of our older podcasts and recap and discuss where we are on it. And also how things are now or if our views have simply changed. This podcast we dive back into one of our older episodes of depression and suicide. Pam shares where she is at now and some of the things that she's learnt to cope and get through it.

This week we talk about our journey with pregnancy life. And by our we mean it lol both from mums and dads both sides as we know both men and women have journeys with bringing a life into the world. We talk about our own mental health battles we've faced during Pam's pregnancies and now awaiting baby number 3 how we're facing this pregnancy. Happy listening

This episode we talk about some of the cultural differences we've faced since being together. Caleb being Samoan and Pam Tongan there has been so much we've learnt from one another. Although their are differences we've also learnt that we can pick and choose how we want to raise our kids and how we will incorporate our cultures into their upbringing.

This week we have a real conversation about how much being honest has helped heal both of us through addiction recovery. Our last pornography episode is still the most listened to and we hope this podcast can help others too. We hope this can serve and uplift someone who may also be going through this.

This episode we discuss how choosing to serve a mission over an NRL contract hasn't been the only faith over the world decision Caleb's had to make. We reflect on Caleb choosing to not play on Sundays, to changing schools for his faith. He shares his advice for others out there who may also be trying to choose what's right for them and having the courage to act in faith.

This episode we talk about and reflect on our 5 year goals we set and achieved. From having 2 kids to having a 6 digit number in our bank account. We love goal setting and planning and we wanted to share and encourage you to get out there and achieve those goals!

This episode we talk about smacking our kids and why we've chosen to stop smacking our kids. We know it's an unpopular opinion but wanted to share why we've decided to do this and how much it's helped us. Happy listening

This week's episode we talk about our decision to go back home. And ultimately the decision to quit rugby. This has been something we've been talking about and praying about for a while. Talking about how we are agents of our own life and we can make our life what we want. Happy Listening

This week on our podcast we talk about 2021 our own goals and also what we're doing to make sure we make 2021 our big year.

In this episode we talk about what is means to invest in your mind and why that is important. We also share some of the things we do or have done to improve our mind and our life. Enjoy!

In this episode we share about our journey and struggle to lose weight and keep it off. We talk about what we did, what worked and what didn't, and some tips that may help you or someone you know. We hope you enjoy

Join us this week as we answer your questions and share about lessons learned during the pandemic and lessons from living in France

We've been MIA for a while so this podcast will share what we've been up to - lockdown 2 in France and what we've been doing to kill our time.

Anthony Tuitavake is an ex All Black player who grew up in South Auckland in a humble Tongan home. He would go on to represent his city with the Auckland Blues, before playing several tests for the All Blacks. His rugby journey would also lead him to Japan and eventually France, where he now lives with his wife and two children, after retiring in 2018. Anthony is also apart of a group of ex All Black players who own the very first Maori and Polynesian professional rugby club in the world. We have a good chat about his journey on and off the field. Enjoy!

Taniela Tupou, also known as the Tongan Thor, is a rugby player for the Queensland Reds and Australian Wallabies. He shares his story from Tonga, New Zealand and eventually Australia, where he would establish himself as one of the best props in the world. Enjoy!

In this podcast I'm joined by Australian Rugby player Scott Higginbotham. We talk about his journey from being pushed to play rugby in his late teens to becoming one of the most prolific try scorers in the game. Enjoy!

Swiss, born Sioeli Sanipepa Manu, is a talented Tongan reggae singer from New Zealand. In this podcast he shares his journey from singing at church to touring around the world and opening for musicians like Fiji and J Boog. Swiss also shares about his faith, clothing brand, record label and also what it's like being married to musician Tree, and how he balances family life. Enjoy!

Harry Wilson is a young talented Australian rugby player who plays for the Queensland Reds. We talk about his journey with rugby, his growth at the Queensland Reds and his goals for the future. Enjoy!

Daniel Cooper is an Australian SAS veteran, elite sports S&C, researcher and elite endurance athlete. We speak about his time in the special forces, resilience and raising kids, his time at the Queensland Reds and his preparation for a 1,000 mile race, along with much more. Enjoy!

Max is 12 years old and has his own podcast MG Talkssport. He's a switched on kid who was kind enough to invite me on his podcast to have a chat about my journey with rugby and podcasting. Hope you enjoy.

Will 'WildBill' Nasio is a professional boxer and former Australian heavyweight champion with an impressive fighting record of 12 wins with 11 KO's. Will shares about his upbringing in South Auckland to making the decision to become a professional boxer later in life and the struggles he has had to overcome to achieve his dreams. Will has also started a business called WildBill Wellness, alongside his wife Kimberly. They offer counselling, mentoring and workshops for those who are experiencing feelings of hopelessness or other difficult challenges. Follow their movement at "Wildbill Wellness" on FaceBook and Instagram.

In this episode I have a chat with a good mate, mullet enthusiast, rugby league gun and all round good bloke - Jai Arrow. We chat about his mullet, and an upcoming fundraiser he's running for "The World's Greatest Shave", as well as footy and what he does away from the pitch. 

Caleb shares the story of how an addiction to porn, that started when he was 10, almost ruined his life and his marriage. Caleb and Pam share what helped them both work through this addiction to eventually become a strength to their relationship. 

Samu Kerevi is one of the best centres in world rugby, but that wasn't always the case. He shares his journey from humble beginnings going back to Fiji to play rugby, set back and injuries to making his mark with the Queensland Reds and Australian Wallabies. He also talks about the Tru3y clothing brand he helps run away from footy. Thanks for listening.

In this episode we talk about depression and suicide. It's a serious health issue close to us as a couple and to many other people experiencing it. We wanted to share our own experience and what has helped us in our own journey with depression and suicide, in the hope of spreading awareness, hope and practical help for those who may be battling this.

In this episode Pam and I share some insights into our marriage, along with some of the lessons we have learned so far. We discuss how marriage counselling, books and our own parents marriages have guided us in our journey to have a strong marriage.

In this episode I sit down with the owner of 6 Pack Boot Camp (6PBC), Caleb Ormsby, who left the security of a high paying personal training job at a gym to start his own business. When he left the gym only 6 of his 40 clients followed him, but now 6`PBC has well over a thousand clients, with a culture and program unmatched in the fitness industry. Listen to learn about his struggle to achieve his success and what has helped him along the way. Head to https://www.6packbootcamp.com.au/ to check out what they are all about.

In this episode I sit down with Tristin Condon, a man diagnosed with Cerebral Palsy and who was told by doctors he would never walk or talk. He would eventually prove the doctors wrong, as he shares his journey from being bullied at school by a teacher for having a disability to finding his wife and excelling in life - completing charity walks, rowing and doing pushups for kids in need, despite still suffering physical pain from his condition. He's a great guy with a big heart who has a story that is inspiring.

In this episode we share our own opinions, experiences with dating and the difference between dating and courting. *Disclaimer: we are not dating professionals* lol

In this episode I sat down with my old team mates Duncan Paia'aua and Reece Hewat. We all made the move from the Queensland Reds in Australia, to France to continue our rugby careers. We talk about why we left Australia, our first impressions of France and the rugby, along with some of the challenges we've faced living in a foreign country.