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Hello lovely people, Transcendental kink is taking a much-needed break, to refresh, renew and collect more stories and conversations for your listening pleasure. New episodes of our second season will start airing from the twenty ninth of July and drop every second and fourth Thursday of each month thereafter. In the meantime, please feel free to binge on the first season, consisting of a whooping 28 episodes! Please join us for lively discussions on the newly minted group on Facebook named Transcendental Kink Friends with Benefits special group. This is a private group in which your participation and comments will not be visible to anyone outside it. Alternatively join us on fetlife.com in a group named unsurprisingly Transcendental kink podcast. And as always if you have an idea, a story, a comment or anything else, please get in touch, I’d love to have you on the show! Transcendental Kink is a series of conversations and solo episodes exploring reflection and growth through kink practice.This podcast is for everyone who wants to experience life more fully, see the whole spectrum of colour rather than just shades of grey and actively living instead of just passing time. #bdsm #kink #spirituality #transcendence #subspace #topspace

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    Latest episodes from Transcendental Kink

    Brats

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 27:22


    Hello lovely people and welcome to FETLOSOPHY, This episode is about brats. I have a very personal connection to a brat; I have friends who are brats and I am also a lifelong investigator into brat replants. I have seen many ways of dealing with a brat, some good, some not so much. I tried a few myself. So this topic has been in my consciousness for a while before the conversation I had on this topic, which prompted me to write this episode. 

    Gwendoline - A goddess in shiny latex

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2022 63:26


    Hello lovely people and welcome to FETLOSOPHY, You know how they say that external beauty is less important than the inner one. The lady I am talking to today is blessed with both. Imagine an absolute goddess in shiny latex, heels and sensual lips, not a hair out of place. Now you have the image of Gwendoline. Talking to her has revealed that her elegance originates from within. Such a lovely person to get to know!We talk about all sort of things, concept of femininity and gender in general, latex care and presentation, and we dedicate a huge portion of our conversation to a hobbie we have in common, anal play. I am absolutely certain you are going to enjoy this episode! 

    KinkyDruid - Playing with new submissives

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2022 70:40


    Hello lovely people and welcome to FETLOSOPHY, Today's episode is a bit of a public service one. KinkyDruid whom we met previously and based on your downloads, liked very much, is raising an issue that is all too common and discussed often, but to my knowledge has never been addressed with the intention to offer solutions. That issue is: unwillingness of seasoned dominants to play with new submissives. The only ones, we are led to believe, who seek out new submissives to play with are predatory dominants, who aim at abusing the said newbies, or taking advantage of them in some way. KinkyDruid offers an alternative way of looking at this situation and even offers some practical advice to both new submissives and people who wish to play with them, to bridge the gap of experience and understanding. My apologies, I usually do everything I can to produce excellent sound, however in this episode there are a few instances of passing trains, which were unavoidable when you live close to a trainline. I decided to keep these sections, because the content is definitely worth it.  And finally, if you like this podcast, please give it 5 starts on Apple podcasts and Spotify, and please visit www.fetlosophy.com for all your questions, comments and for an opportunity to share your story. And now, let's jump in and welcome KinkyDruid for another excellent instalment!  

    Honey - award winning porn star on power that matters

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2022 69:46


    Hello lovely people and welcome to FETLOSOPHY, Wow, do I have a treat for you today. Allow me to introduce Honey. She is as multifaceted as they come. She is an BBW adult industry award winning porn star, sex and kink educator, professional dominant and lifestyle switch and she hosts a very popular podcast entitled My mum is a porn star! Here is the blurb: Mother/Daughter team bringing sex education with a humorous bogan twist. The sex talks your parents "should have had" with you. Only thing is -Maz has conservative views and her mum is a PORNSTAR! Discover all the things you didn't realise you didn't know, while Miss Honey shares the stories no one wants to hear about their parents. If you like this podcast, please give it 5 starts on Apple podcasts and Spotify, it really helps with the charts. Thank you! Please visit www.fetlosophy.com for all your questions, comments and for an opportunity to share your story.  And now, please welcome the indefatigable Honey! 

    Miri - an adorable little, a big Joy FM radio personality, and a podcaster.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2022 63:06


    Hello lovely people and welcome to FETLOSOPHY, Just a quick update, you've been asking me for a while now how can you support me and I really do need your support to keep going. So finally FETLOSOPHY joined the rest of the podcasting community and created a patreon page! But it isn't all about me, you will get so many rewards by joining the community there. You will get my book Transcendental kink – Exploration for free, an original episode, at least once a month, with the first one already waiting for you there, about the never-ending conundrum of understanding and dealing with Brats. And last but not least, videos which give the context to creating all this content for you (which may or may not include some bunny onesies)! So go ahead and click on the link  https://www.patreon.com/fetlosophy I promise you won't regret it!  And now let me tell you a bit about my guest today:It's so lovely to make a new connection and immediately feel like you've known that person forever. This is exactly how I felt talking to Miri. Miri is an extraordinary young lady. She is an adorable little, but also a big Joy FM radio personality, and a podcaster. There is even a possibility that she will interview me in the future. Can't wait! We talk about her life and background, challenges and insights and a lot of introspection and acceptance. We talk about her expression as a little and about power in the many forms it takes. If you like this podcast, please give it 5 starts on Apple podcasts and Spotify, it really helps with the charts. Thank you! Please visit www.fetlosophy.com for all your questions, comments and for an opportunity to share your story.  So without further ado, please join me in a conversation with Miri!   

    Welcome to FETLOSOPHY

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2022 12:54


    Hello lovely people and welcome to FETLOSOPHY (formerly known as Transcendental Kink.This is the first episode of season 3 and a new beginning for this podcast. To find out more about me and what I do please visit fetlosophy.com

    Preview of season 3 – All about Power

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 20:02


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink,Now, I know that I said that there will be no break between seasons this time, but alas so much is happening over here in Transcendental Kink land. All very good, but a lot! So I might take a little breather and start the third season properly on the 14 of April. In the meantime, I'd like to present the topic for season 3 and to invite you all to start considering these questions. If you have a few answers, please do reach out, I'd love to have a chat and perhaps record an episode with you. If you have ideas for different questions, please also reach out. This is a big and ambitious topic and I'd like to treat it properly. Your input is invaluable! There is a private and secret group on Facebook called Transcendental Kink – friends with benefits, where we come to think together and plan our future. It is still very young, but I hope more of you will join us so we can have even more interesting discussions. The benefits include special offers, like free TK candles to anyone who can provide photos of them used for my website, and much more. So I am looking forward to seeing you there. https://www.transcendentalkink.com/

    Abaddon - unique and fascinating

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2022 78:46


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, Unexpectedly, but totally delightfully, here's an extra episode that will in fact close season two of Transcendental Kink. It was just too good not to post in this season. This isn't the last time Abaddon will feature on Transcendental Kink. We only managed to tackle one subject in his rich and amazing life, that of polyamory. He is extraordinarily insightful and articulate, and I couldn't find a better person to reflect on this complicated topic, I've been trying to address in this season. Abaddon has graciously agreed to provide us with at least one more chat on the topic of power exchange, which I am eagerly anticipating appearing in season 3. I am absolutely fascinated by his original thought processes, as you will hear throughout our conversation. If you haven't yet, please rate this podcast on apple podcasts and on Spotify. Spotify actually introduced an option of rating recently and I would really appreciate you giving Transcendental Kink a five stars rating. It would really help more people to find it.  So without further ado, please join me a conversation with Abaddon! www.transcendentalkink.com 

    About this and that with KinkyDruid

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2022 75:16


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, I am delighted to share a conversation with the lovely KinkyDruid. This was intended to be the final episode for season two, but I happened to have a great conversation with another person, whom I'll introduce next week, which had to be included in this season. So this isn't the last episode, but it is fantastic, if I may say so myself. This episode is a chat between two friends that live very similar lives. We chat about our experiences and thoughts about multiple partner relationships, as they interweave through our normal lives; you know the lives that have work, shopping, cleaning etc. www.transcendentalkink.com 

    Designing a relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2022 18:02


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, This is the eleventh and the final solo episode of this season. Next week, I will release the last episode for season 2, a conversation with the lovely KinkyDruid, in which we chat about our own experiences and thoughts about multiple partner relationships, as a way to summarise this season and move to season 3. You can find out more about KinkyDruid in episode 14 of season 1, in which he talks about his journey of self-development and growth, entry into the Melbourne scene, his search for a mentor, and much more. Please visit transcendentalkink.com to download a copy of Transcendental Kink - Exploration, grab some wax play candles and to keep up to date with all the latest from Transcendental Kink.

    Hawthorn - magic and body work

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2022 65:24


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink,And now, I am delighted to share a conversation with Hawthorn, whom I met a few years ago and bumped into again in the FB group The Melbourne Salon - Over 50s Ethical Non-Monogamy. Hawthorn practices spiritual work under the umbrella of neo-paganism, or earth ritual and I am totally nerding out on the similarities between their practice with my own shamanic work. In this interview I skipped over the history of their sexual discovery, which is well covered in an interview they did with the sex stories podcast. https://www.sexstoriespodcast.com/podcast/episode/2b4c068f/146-or-dominant-women-are-sexy-hawthorns-sex-stories And here are some books we mention: I had so much fun connecting with Hawthorn and I hope our delight comes across when you listen. So without further ado let's jump in and meet Hawthorn.  https://www.amazon.com/Masturbation-Tantra-Self-Margo-Woods/dp/0917320158Wilhelm Reich https://www.theguardian.com/books/2021/apr/17/wilhelm-reich-the-strange-prescient-sexologist-who-sought-to-set-us-free 

    Q&A

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2022 20:32


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, This is the first episode of the new segment that I have provisionally named Q&A. Your suggestions for naming would be greatly appreciated! Each episode of this segment I will take a listener's question and offer some suggestions. Please send your questions and I'll endeavour to provide my insights. Enjoy :)

    Scott - Polyamory and power exchange

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2022 51:36


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental Kink, I am delighted to share a conversation with Scott, whom I met through a FB group I enjoy very much: The Melbourne Salon - Over 50s Ethical Non-Monogamy. Although this group isn't focused on kink, there are many people there who are interested in and practice kink and also ENM, or Ethical Non-Monogamy. Scott brings an original perspective on a topic I've been pondering for a while. Namely how the desire to possess within a power exchange relationship can coexist with ethical non-monogamy. His original approach to this conundrum, as well as to many other situations, reminds me that it is useful to step out occasionally from our very specialised kink community. We are all thoughtful people but keeping ourselves to ourselves we often recycle the same ideas making very little progress. Seeing other approaches from people who either occupy a different space or combine various interests in a unique way, gives us the opportunity to question our beliefs that we hold perhaps too tightly. I learnt a lot from this conversation and I am delighted to share it with you all.  

    Polyamorous people in power exchange relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2022 19:40


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental Kink,This episode looks at power exchange dynamic in the context of multiple partner relationships. If you haven't visited my brand new and beautiful (if I may say so myself) website, please go ahead and click on the link below:transcendentalkink.com

    TheShadowSelf - shedding light on the shadows

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2022 56:42


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental kink, It is my absolute pleasure to share a conversation with TheShadowSelf in which we talk about hypnosis, among other things. But before we do that, I have some exciting news! Finally, after almost 2 years of podcasting, Transcendental Kink has a website! It's been a long time coming, but finally it's here! So what will you find when you head over to Transcendental Kink.com you ask? Amazing things! First, and most importantly you will find the first book of Transcendental Kink, subtitled – Exploration! Written and narrated by me and available in PDF and EPUB formats for people who like to read and in AUDIO for the ones who prefer listening. This book is for people who are awakening to their full potential, regardless of their level of experience or practice. It is based on the subjects raised in the first season, but it has been developing over my entire life of learning, writing, and teaching. It is about the human condition and how to make the best of it. It is about understanding and loving ourselves as a whole person, with every little part included. It is about developing curiosity, playfulness and joy. And ultimately transcendence from the drudgery of everyday life. Kink is the vehicle that moves the book from chapter to chapter, but it isn't its main subject. There are many resources that address the ‘how to', as in how and where to hit, how and where to bind and how to negotiate a play scene. Transcendental Kink – Exploration looks at larger questions: why do think the way we do, what drives us, why do we want certain things and not others and why do we act in certain patterns. It examines the thought processes that causes our actions and offers ways of looking at ourselves in ways that bring more happiness in the long run.  I am exceptionally proud of this book and want to get it into as many hands as possible, so I chose to publish it myself to keep the price as affordable as possible. So head over to Transcendental Kink.com and grab yourself a copy!  What else will you find on the website? TK wax play candles of course! Apologies to my international listeners, but they are initially only available in Australia. If all goes well it will become available worldwide. There are currently 16 colours available for purchase and there are many more in the planning. TK candles are manufactured in my kitchen from the best materials. They are soft on the skin and not too hot, so anyone can use them. And of course, all the materials used in the pouring process and in the packaging and shipping are sustainable, because our planet maters. There are also all the social links in one place and ‘send a message' button. Please utilise it

    Kink medic - medical adventures

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2022 71:16


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental kink, I am delighted to share a conversation with kink medic who, as the name implies, is predominantly a medical player, but not exclusively. Ever wondered why a pin prick, while being uncomfortable, also creates a ripple of pleasure? Imagine this feeling repeating 20, 50 a hundred times. We talk about what it's like for the bottom and the top. We talk about space and transcendence and also the brain chemistry that creates this wonderful feeling. We talk about the pandemic and how medical players had an advantage in knowing how to protect themselves and others. We talk about relationships, and much much more. Please welcome Kink medic!   

    Attachment theory - part three

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2021 21:09


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season two of Transcendental kink, This is the ninth solo episode of this season and part three of looking at attachment theory, how it manifests in our relationships and most importantly what we can do to change it. 

    Attachment theory - part two

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2021 20:43


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season two of Transcendental kink, This is the eighth solo episode of this season and part two of looking at attachment theory, how it manifests in our relationships and most importantly what we can do to change it. 

    Attachment theory - part one

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2021 22:48


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season two of Transcendental kink, This is the seventh solo episode of this season and part one of looking at attachment theory, how it manifests in our relationships and most importantly how we can use it to improve them. 

    Evie_Peasy - new girl in town

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2021 57:20


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental kink, To continue from the previous interview, please welcome Evie_Peasy, the delightful submissive of Flyguy. This conversation is especially interesting because both Evie and Flyguy are relative newcomers to the community who are still exploring the world around them and have insights which might be helpful to the listeners who are at the same point in their lives. We talk about discovering one's limits, making friends and adjusting to the lifestyle, which is exciting and overwhelming at the same time. Please welcome Evie_Peasy!   

    Choices

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2021 19:27


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season two of Transcendental Kink, This is the sixth solo episode of this season in which I ask why some people arrive at BDSM lifestyle with the ambition for Multiple Partner Relationships. Why some people and not others, what drives this ambition and how it is ameliorated (or not) by the contact with other. 

    Flyguy - big strides in difficult times

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2021 95:44


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental kink, I am delighted to bring a conversation with a relative newcomer. Flyguy joined the community here in Melbourne only a few years ago, with the last two years spent mostly in lockdown. In spite of these difficulties, he managed to make big strides towards finding a community, developing his style and creating and maintaining an amazing relationship with his submissive, whom we'll meet in a later episode. This episode proves that we are all exceptional individuals, doing the best we can in imperfect times and helping each other learn and grow. Please welcome Flyguy! 

    Social consequences of personal development

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2021 20:00


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season two of Transcendental Kink, This is the fifth solo episode of season two in which I reflect on social consequences of personal development. I started thinking about this topic after the conversation with Schism (previous episode). He pointed out that defining oneself too quickly (or too narrowly) can be detrimental to development. As usual, this isn't intended to put you off self-discovery. On the contrary, I am all for self-reflection and growth. In what follows I will offer some additional ways of looking at it that might help in your progress. 

    pup-schism

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2021 47:18


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental kink, I am excited to bring you a delightful chat with pup Scism!  A chair person of VicPAH, which stands for Victoria pups and handlers association. We chat about pups and humans, roles and communication, which assure a pleasant experience for everyone. 

    Lists and planning

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2021 16:47


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season two of Transcendental kink.This is the fourth solo episode of season 2 in which I talk about lists and planning. When people make a decision to start looking for a partner, they usually make a list of requirements.  I am looking at how these lists play out in the actual relationships that form following their creation and how they promote our journeys of self-development. 

    MzSugarSpice from Tea for two Dominas

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2021 85:45


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental kink, Today I present to you an incredible human, warm and thoughtful, and so similar to me in all her beliefs and convictions, that at times I felt as if I was interviewing myself! She is the founder and host of the amazing podcast Tea for two Dominas, where she and Exacting1 discuss everything and anything to with kink in general and Melbrourne's kink community in particular. We talk about her life before awakening and discovery of kink. We talk about a progress of self-development as a dominant woman in the kink sense and we discuss our respective podcasts; our intentions and their reception. She looks at the concept of jealousy from a perspective of the target of that emotion, which is very useful to consider. Please welcome MzSugarSpice!       

    Dani from PM Leather

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2021 59:50


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental kink, It is my absolute pleasure to share a conversation with an amazing woman, A social activist and a strong voice for equality and justice, a confident business woman in a traditionally male dominated space of leather work, and an incredibly sensitive and emotionally intelligent partner in her relationships. Dani runs PM leather, which is famous for its very high quality hobble belts and other leather play equipment. Her products are beautifully crafted and highly desirable all over the globe. Please welcome Dani from PM Leather!      

    The green eyed 'monster'?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2021 25:31


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental kink, This is the third solo episode of season 2, in which I talk about these pesky emotions, that everybody has but no one wants: jealousy and envy. 

    Exacting1 - one of the ladies from Tea for two Dominas

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2021 36:15


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental kink, Today we have a treat, a special kind of polyamory, a story of strength and courage and a spiritual path to be admired. All this and much more from one of the ladies responsible for a podcast Tea for two Dominas. She goes by Exactining1 and the name fits her perfectly. I think this conversation can be an invaluable resource for people attempting to have a multiple partner relationship within a power exchange context. A possible trigger warning at 8 minutes mark where me mention sexual abuse as a topic that was covered by the Tea for two Dominas. It lasts for 3 min, so please skip if you wish to avoid.  And before we jump in I'd like to mention a new-ish FB group I enjoy very much. The Melbourne Salon - Over 50s Ethical Non-Monogamy. If you are in Victoria and wish to enjoy a warm and welcoming group of thoughtful and respectful people please join me. All genders and relationship configurations, including singles, are welcome. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1489329084743245/?multi_permalinks=1525440357798784¬if_id=1629806931952856¬if_t=feedback_reaction_generic&ref=notif And now sit back and join me and Exacting1 for a fantastic interview! (a cup of tea is optional) I hope you enjoy it as much as I did        

    Cam_E_Leon

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2021 69:41


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, I am delighted to share a conversation with Cam_E_Leon, who introduces a new perspective on space. Cam_E_Leon is mainly active in the sex positive community where he practices kink within the framework of ethical non-monogamy. His unique way of conducting negotiations, which is one of the best I'd ever heard of, lends itself beautifully both to single play scenes and ongoing relationships. And if this isn't enough, he has a YouTube channel where he showcases his flogging, which he also teaches in his flogging workshop series: Introduction to Flogging Workshop Tickets: https://events.humanitix.com/introduction-to-flogging-aug Fet: https://fetlife.com/events/1019371 Flogging in a kinky venue workshop Tickets: https://events.humanitix.com/flogging-in-a-kinky-venue-workshop Fet: https://fetlife.com/events/1010824 Florentine flogging workshop Tickets: https://events.humanitix.com/introduction-to-florentine-flogging Fet: https://fetlife.com/events/1010825 YouTube channel Cam E Leon on YouTube covering number of skills and drills to improve your flogging technique. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3FgCKRUq4wCDVEJObN6xhA/featured

    Connection and disconnection

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2021 20:53


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental kink, This is the second solo episode of this season, in which I talk about a healthy framework for disconnection.

    Geminidark - aftercare for the top?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2021 53:56


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental kink, It is my absolute pleasure to introduce Geminidark. He is wise, introspective, articulate and also warm and loving. He is highly emotionally intelligent, ie both understands his emotions and knows how to communicate his needs and desires to his partners and in a dialogue with me. Geminidark recently came back after living overseas for four years, interacting with many European kink communities and teaching at the highest level.  I cannot do justice in my description of this beautiful human, so please listen in. you are going to love this conversation!https://fetlife.com/users/2872362/posts/6910359https://fetlife.com/users/2872362/posts/6917649     

    Welcome to season 2 - polyamory

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2021 27:08


    Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental kink, This is the first solo episode of this season, welcoming you back and setting the intention for season 2 of Transcendental kink. The central topic I'll be looking at in season 2 is polyamory or multiple-partner relationships in the context of kink play. This will be a deep dive into all the considerations of multiple-partner relationships aimed at our thoughtful and wisdom loving community. After a much-needed break, to refresh, renew and collect more stories and ideas for your listening pleasure, I am back and ready to jump in. New episodes will be dropping as usual every second and fourth Thursday, starting today with the lovely Gemini dark, which is coming right after this. And as always if you have an idea, a story, a comment, or anything else, please get in touch, I'd love to have you on the show! 

    Goddess Obsidian - an artist of her own space!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021 61:16


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, Please join me in welcoming a fascinating young lady. Ms Obsidian Jones, also known as goddess Obsidian, is no ordinary dominant. She doesn't limit herself to creating an opportunity for space to occur, but rather actively designing and creating one. She is a performer with an extensive theatre background, who designs her own appearance and physical space in order to manufacture space for herself and her submissives. Our conversation took us as far as astrological and mythical symbols which seem to continuously evolve and rise again and again. I'm sure you are going to enjoy her as much as I did!This is last episode for season one. Transcendental Kink is taking a much needed break until 29.7.21.   

    Burlyman - a different kind of primal

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2021 79:16


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, I am delighted to share a conversation with Burlyman, the sole owner and operator of the Burly hugs. It was a fascinating conversation, because Burlyman experiences a very unique space as primal. Not only does his spatial and sensual awareness increases tenfold but his physical appearance changes. It appears that I have never seen his natural eye colour, because I have only ever seen him in that heightened state of his primal!Join us for a fascinating conversation! 

    Difficult emotions

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2021 23:49


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, This is the twelfth episode of the solo series in which I look at difficult emotions, why we have them, and what can we do with them. 

    My space

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2021 7:18


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, This is a bonus episode, illustrating, or trying to illustrate, my own experience of space. 

    Guilty freedom

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2021 22:44


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, This is the eleventh episode of the solo series in which I look at the limits of responsibility. If you recall in the introduction episode, I mentioned a topic that required a lot more study, i.e. to what extent you are responsible for other people's feelings in general and in reaction to your spiritual growth and self-improvement in particular. It's time to dive in.

    Jacqui - Becoming public

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2021 85:00


    Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, I am delighted to share a conversation with Jacqui, one of the owners of The Club - Melbourne's only dedicated venue for events, alternative lifestyle education and community support. We talk about everything, from her personal journey to her vision for the future of the community, the importance of education and of course about The Club and her partners in crime. Join us for a fascinating conversation!    

    Moonstone - Physical ordeal for connection and growth

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2021 55:29


    Hello lovely people, and welcome to transcendental kink!Today I am talking to Moonstone – who is a beautiful and wise person. She is a very talented tarot reader, a rope bottom, a fetish model and a social justice advocate. We talk about her journey in kink and spirituality and brainstorm the topic of physical ordeal. Listen in as we dissect and explore the meaning of physical suffering for connection and growth.This episode is supported by The Club and an amazing artist who gives me all the inspiration https://www.instagram.com/gloom.kitten/

    Physical Ordeal

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2021 25:08


    Hello lovely people, and welcome to transcendental kink!This is the tenth episode of the solo series in which I talk about the significance of physical ordeal in kink or pleasure practice as well as a way to transcendence. This episode is supported by The Club and an amazing artist who gives me all the inspiration https://www.instagram.com/gloom.kitten/

    Rethinking Transcendental Kink

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2021 15:15


    Hello lovely people and welcome to transcendental kink.This is the ninth episode of the solo series in which I re-examine the concept of Transcendental Kink.This episode is supported by The Club and an amazing artist who gives me all the inspiration https://www.instagram.com/gloom.kitten/

    Jimsta - The one! The only! Unparalleled!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2021 68:47


    Hello lovely people, and welcome to transcendental kink! Today I am talking to Jimsta. His interests are many and no one is stronger than the others. He is very active in the scene and an excellent teacher and presenter in his own right. We touch on topics like latex fetish, alternative kink photography, his unique style of bondage and his amazing partner and dominant lady. It was a very energetic conversation as our conversations usually are. To keep up I have included the links bellow in the order they are mentioned. Enjoy

    Solo exploration

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2021 21:32


    Hello lovely people, and welcome to transcendental kink!This is the eighth episode of the solo series in which I talk about solo exploration; a kind that is very self-focused, that is either experienced alone, or while watching another person doing or wearing something from a distance. This episode is supported by The Club and an amazing artist who gives me all the inspiration https://www.instagram.com/gloom.kitten/

    Pen - Unique space and spider magic

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2021 57:21


    Hello lovely people, and welcome to transcendental kink!Today I am talking to a fascinating human by the name of Pen. Pen's experiences of space echo their experiences of magic. But that magic manifests not only in play, but also in their leather making craft. Pen identifies as disabled, neurodivergent and trans and we touch on all aspects of their being as they present themselves in their experiences in the scene. This conversation really expanded my mind and I hope it'll do the same for you. Let's jump in!  This episode is supported by The Club and an amazing artist who gives me all the inspiration https://www.instagram.com/gloom.kitten/ 

    Ms Ivy - Neurodiversity or loving our difference

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2021 103:29


    Hello lovely people, and welcome to transcendental kink!Today's episode follows and expands on the topics of neurodiversity and mental illness and adds many more besides.  Please welcome Ms Ivy, who declares herself to be an enthusiast with some knowledge, but after our conversation, I see her as an expert that she is. Ms Ivy's knowledge is both personal and academic, or rather her individual perspective is informed and supported by formal education and professional experience. This episode is long and knowledge packed, touching on everything to do with neurodiversity, gender identity, inclusion, body image, and much more, from the social sciences perspective. Treat it as a resource, take what you need and come back for more when you are ready or have more questions. I had an absolute blast and learned so much! Hope you will too!This episode is supported by The Club and an amazing artist who gives me all the inspiration https://www.instagram.com/gloom.kitten/   

    Neurodivergence and mental illness

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2021 23:51


    Hello lovely people, and welcome to transcendental kink!This is the seventh episode of the solo series in which I talk about neurodivergence and mental illness, or rather how their stigmas and misconceptions affect our spiritual growth and journey into transcendence. In this episode I suggest a way of looking at neurodivergence and mental illness and then consider how people who are neurodivergent or living with mental illness can find belonging in the kink communities and why this is important. With special thanks to Ms Ivy, who introduced me to the vocabulary that I will be using here. Full interview with her will be airing next. This episode is supported by The Club and an amazing artist who gives me all the inspiration https://www.instagram.com/gloom.kitten/

    Kinky Druid - Self creation

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2020 100:55


    Hello lovely people, and welcome to transcendental kink!Today I talk to someone who experienced transcendence long before even knowing what kink was. Kinky Druid is connected to the universe in a unique way, which does not follow any known path. He is his own guide in his spiritual development. And just as much as his spiritual journey, he has carved his own place in kink. Kinky Druid is a fascinating human, who lives his life with conscious awareness and makes every decision based on his own understanding and connection to the larger universe, rather than following in the footsteps of his fellow travellers. I am fascinated by his originality and hope you will be too!This episode is supported by The Club and an amazing artist who gives me all the inspiration https://www.instagram.com/gloom.kitten/ 

    MsMynx - Embodiment of spirit in kink B

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2020 52:44


    Hello lovely people, and welcome to transcendental kink!This is the second episode with the lovely Ms Mynx.Ms Mynx is a lifelong student of spirituality and a meditation teacher, a performing artist of movement and dance, and a lifestyle and a professional mistress. She has been consciously developing her embodied spirit throughout her life in all her pursuits. Kink isn't separate from spirituality in her life. She embodies all of it and presents her beautiful soul authentically to the world. Our conversation took us to places of discovery and creative life which spans decades. I have separated our conversation into two episodes, Embodiment of Spirit A, episode 12 and Embodiment of Spirit B, episode 13.Please join us as we dive into a fascinating discussion about embodiment of spirit in kink part B. Ms Mynx is currently available for fitness training sessions. To find out more and to book a session go to Fetlife.com and look for Mistress_Mynx.This episode is supported by The Club and an amazing artist who gives me all the inspiration https://www.instagram.com/gloom.kitten/

    MsMynx - Embodiment of spirit in kink A

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2020 64:21


    Hello lovely people, and welcome to transcendental kink! In the next two episodes we will meet a person who has been living this life for decades. Ms Mynx is a lifelong student of spirituality and a meditation teacher, a performing artist of movement and dance, and a lifestyle and a professional mistress. She has been consciously developing her embodied spirit throughout her life in all her pursuits. Kink isn't separate from spirituality in her life. She embodies all of it and presents her beautiful soul authentically to the world. Our conversation took us to places of discovery and creative life which spans decades. I have separated our conversation into two episodes, Embodiment of Spirit A, episode 12 and Embodiment of Spirit B, episode 13.Please join us as we dive into a fascinating discussion about embodiment of spirit in kink part A. Ms Mynx is currently available for fitness training sessions. To find out more and to book a session go to Fetlife.com and look for Mistress_Mynx.This episode is supported by The Club and an amazing artist who gives me all the inspiration https://www.instagram.com/gloom.kitten/ 

    Embodiment of spirit

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2020 21:28


    Hello lovely people, and welcome to transcendental kink!This is the sixth episode of the solo series in which I talk about the reasons we choose kink as a way of life after practicing other spiritual pathways. This episode is supported by The Club and an amazing artist who gives me all the inspiration https://www.instagram.com/gloom.kitten/

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