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Jacque Waller was a 39-year-old, mother of triplets, who tragically disappeared on June 1, 2011, in Jackson, Missouri. She had been in the process of divorcing her estranged husband, Clay Waller, when she vanished after meeting him to finalize paperwork. Her abandoned Honda Pilot was found along Interstate 55, but Jacque was missing. Investigators suspected Clay from the beginning, but it took months before they could charge him. In April 2012, he was officially charged with first-degree murder, and later, as part of a plea deal, he led authorities to Jacque's remains and admitted to killing her. Jacque's case has been featured in multiple true-crime documentaries, highlighting the dangers of domestic violence and the importance of seeking help. If you or someone you know has been a victim of domestic violence please call the The National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 or Text BEGIN to 88788. Domestic Abuse Help in the UK: 0808 2000 247 Australian National Services: 1800 737 732 Click here to join our Patreon. Click here to get your own Inhuman merch. Connect with us on Instagram and join our Facebook group. To submit listener stories or case suggestions, and to see all sources for this episode: https://www.inhumanpodcast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
We have gotten a lot of questions about gaslighting and narcissism, and today Dr. Kim is answering. This topic is layered and one podcast episode cannot take the place of more in-depth interventions, but we can offer helpful and hopeful next steps. In today's episode we're covering how to know what constitutes abuse versus the sin nature we all struggle with. Listen for We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Marriage counseling doesn't work with abusers – So what does? Can a marriage recover after long-term gaslighting? How to diagnose abuse using the power and control wheel Does the “gray rock” strategy work in marriage? Reasons why emotional abuse is often dismissed *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! QUOTES “Narcissism is all about power and control. Neither of those have a place in marriage at all.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “I don't think God expects anyone to live in an abusive situation. In many ways, it's as much a violation of vows as adultery is to not take seriously your vow to love and cherish your spouse.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “You deserve to be safe.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “If you look at the message of the BIble, you can't defend any type of abuse, for any person, ever.” - Lindsay Few “The goal would be repentance and reconciliation.” - Lindsay Few “The reason a lot of people minimize emotional abuse because they haven't seen it.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “I've seen people who gaslight and don't really understand what they've been doing.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Nobody's uplifted or brought closer to Christ through manipulative behaviors.” - Lindsay Few MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The Power and Control Wheel is helpful to understand what constitutes abuse If your marriage is doing okay but could use a jumpstart, then this 5 Week Marriage Refresher Challenge is for you! Past episodes on the topic: Gaslighting in Marriage Accidental Gaslighting When is Enough Enough? With Dr. David E. Clarke Recent series with Kathy's Story Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage: Kathy's Story | Ep. 608 Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage Part 2: Seeking Church Support | Kathy's Story Ep. 609 Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage Part 3: Help to Get Out and Get Safe | Ep. 610
We have gotten a lot of questions about gaslighting and narcissism, and today Dr. Kim is answering. This topic is layered and one podcast episode cannot take the place of more in-depth interventions, but we can offer helpful and hopeful next steps. In today's episode we're covering how to know what constitutes abuse versus the sin nature we all struggle with. Listen for We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Marriage counseling doesn't work with abusers – So what does? Can a marriage recover after long-term gaslighting? How to diagnose abuse using the power and control wheel Does the “gray rock” strategy work in marriage? Reasons why emotional abuse is often dismissed *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! QUOTES “Narcissism is all about power and control. Neither of those have a place in marriage at all.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “I don't think God expects anyone to live in an abusive situation. In many ways, it's as much a violation of vows as adultery is to not take seriously your vow to love and cherish your spouse.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “You deserve to be safe.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “If you look at the message of the BIble, you can't defend any type of abuse, for any person, ever.” - Lindsay Few “The goal would be repentance and reconciliation.” - Lindsay Few “The reason a lot of people minimize emotional abuse because they haven't seen it.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “I've seen people who gaslight and don't really understand what they've been doing.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Nobody's uplifted or brought closer to Christ through manipulative behaviors.” - Lindsay Few MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The Power and Control Wheel is helpful to understand what constitutes abuse If your marriage is doing okay but could use a jumpstart, then this 5 Week Marriage Refresher Challenge is for you! Past episodes on the topic: Gaslighting in Marriage Accidental Gaslighting When is Enough Enough? With Dr. David E. Clarke Recent series with Kathy's Story Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage: Kathy's Story | Ep. 608 Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage Part 2: Seeking Church Support | Kathy's Story Ep. 609 Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage Part 3: Help to Get Out and Get Safe | Ep. 610
Today we are sharing the final episode with Kathy McAtee Young and her story of finding safety after decades in an abusive marriage. In this episode Kathy shares some of the barriers that prevent spouses in abusive marriages from seeking safety and help, ways to begin moving out of the abusive relationship, and the ways healing begins afterward. Don't miss the conclusion to Kathy's story. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Reasons that abused spouse don't trust their own judgment Steps to get out of an abusive marriage Is it ever appropriate to intervene if you believe someone is being abused? What the process of healing looks like after you get safe *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! QUOTES “One of the hallmarks of an unsafe relationship is confusion.” - Kathy McAtee Young “God sees you. He cares. And he is faithful.” - Kathy McAtee Young “We don't want your pity. Compassion, yes. There is a difference.” - Kathy McAtee Young “Healing is a lifestyle, not a finish line.” - Kathy McAtee Young “When you can name it, then you can process it.” - Kathy McAtee Young MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline : 800-799-7233 https://www.thehotline.org/ Visit Kathy's website to learn about the helpful resources and services she offers Kathy can also be reached for coaching on Instagram This previous episode explains a Biblical perspective on abuse Lies That Keep You With Your Abuser with Dr. David E Clarke | Ep. 541
Today we are sharing the final episode with Kathy McAtee Young and her story of finding safety after decades in an abusive marriage. In this episode Kathy shares some of the barriers that prevent spouses in abusive marriages from seeking safety and help, ways to begin moving out of the abusive relationship, and the ways healing begins afterward. Don't miss the conclusion to Kathy's story. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Reasons that abused spouse don't trust their own judgment Steps to get out of an abusive marriage Is it ever appropriate to intervene if you believe someone is being abused? What the process of healing looks like after you get safe *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! QUOTES “One of the hallmarks of an unsafe relationship is confusion.” - Kathy McAtee Young “God sees you. He cares. And he is faithful.” - Kathy McAtee Young “We don't want your pity. Compassion, yes. There is a difference.” - Kathy McAtee Young “Healing is a lifestyle, not a finish line.” - Kathy McAtee Young “When you can name it, then you can process it.” - Kathy McAtee Young MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline : 800-799-7233 https://www.thehotline.org/ Visit Kathy's website to learn about the helpful resources and services she offers Kathy can also be reached for coaching on Instagram This previous episode explains a Biblical perspective on abuse Lies That Keep You With Your Abuser with Dr. David E Clarke | Ep. 541
Today in Part 2 of Kathy's story, Kathy shares the ways she sought support from the church when she realized her marriage was in trouble, the responses she received, and the effects that had on her marriage. In this episode Kathy shares why it's not possible for the abused spouse to end the abuse, and the difference between biblical versus unbiblical advice about abuse. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Interventions the church put in place, and why they were not successful The wake up moment that turned things around for Kathy What is an appropriate response to spousal abuse? The red flags that advice or counsel about abuse is unbiblical *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! Red flags that advice or counsel about abuse is unbiblical They won't call out that abuse is abuse They will not call the abuse sin The safety of the abused spouse is not top priority There is no call for repentance They advise you to stay, regardless Blaming the abused for the abuse QUOTES “There is one person responsible for abuse: It is the abuser.” - Kathy McAtee Young “The Bible definitely commands forgiveness. It does not command reconciliation.” - Kathy McAtee Young MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline : 800-799-7233 https://www.thehotline.org/ Visit Kathy's website to learn about the helpful resources and services she offers Kathy can also be reached for coaching on Instagram This previous episode explains a Biblical perspective on abuse Lies That Keep You With Your Abuser with Dr. David E Clarke | Ep. 541
Today in Part 2 of Kathy's story, Kathy shares the ways she sought support from the church when she realized her marriage was in trouble, the responses she received, and the effects that had on her marriage. In this episode Kathy shares why it's not possible for the abused spouse to end the abuse, and the difference between biblical versus unbiblical advice about abuse. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Interventions the church put in place, and why they were not successful The wake up moment that turned things around for Kathy What is an appropriate response to spousal abuse? The red flags that advice or counsel about abuse is unbiblical *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! Red flags that advice or counsel about abuse is unbiblical They won't call out that abuse is abuse They will not call the abuse sin The safety of the abused spouse is not top priority There is no call for repentance They advise you to stay, regardless Blaming the abused for the abuse QUOTES “There is one person responsible for abuse: It is the abuser.” - Kathy McAtee Young “The Bible definitely commands forgiveness. It does not command reconciliation.” - Kathy McAtee Young MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline : 800-799-7233 https://www.thehotline.org/ Visit Kathy's website to learn about the helpful resources and services she offers Kathy can also be reached for coaching on Instagram This previous episode explains a Biblical perspective on abuse Lies That Keep You With Your Abuser with Dr. David E Clarke | Ep. 541
Darby Strickland counsels and teaches at CCEF. She is a contributor to Becoming a Church That Cares Well for the Abused and author of two booklets, Domestic Abuse: Recognize, Respond, Rescue and Domestic Abuse: Help for the Sufferer. Darby joins us for this episode to discuss her new mini-book, Trauma: Caring For Survivors. Support the work of the BCC by making a donation here. From our sponsors: Learn more about the new Southern Seminary MDiv at sbts.edu/newmdiv.
Jocelyn joins the podcast to talk about her journey to healing. After experiencing childhood trauma, Domestic violence at the hands of her husband and living in her car, Jocelyn shares how important understanding our self worth is and encourages everyone to expect better because you are worth it. IG: healthy_homeschooling_mama https://taplink.cc/healthymama www.thehotline.org - Domestic Abuse Help 24/7 Call: 800-799-7233 Text: 88788 https://www.buckner.org/midland/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/healingtraumamamas/support
She specialise in supporting people currently in or who have been in abusive/controlling relationships. Having been through this herself and supported many women and men in similar situations over the past 13 years through my work as an Independent Domestic Violence Advocate, she is passionate about helping people create a peaceful and positive future.
Alison is CEO of The Dash Charity (domestic abuse stops here), having previously been a Trustee for 12 years. Dash provides refuge accommodation for women from all over the UK as well as critical community outreach services to help keep victims of domestic abuse safe in their own homes.Previously, Alison worked for Associated British Foods (ABF) for 8 years as the Head of Executive Development. During her time with the company she was responsible for designing a worldwide Talent Management Strategy.
This episode gets a little rough as Ashley and Kristin discuss the murders of Donnah Winger, Paul Theoret, Ulla Theoret and Raija Turanen.Please reach out to someone if you need help or if you are in danger.Domestic Abuse Help: https://endingviolencecanada.org/getting-help-2/Crisis Line: https://crisisline.ca/
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What is domestic abuse and why should you care? If you are not a victim, chances are, you know someone who is being abused in their home and no one is talking. If you are being abused, guaranteed, you are not talking. Do you really think this is something to shout to the rooftops and share with your giggly girl friends? Really? Talking to other family members, NOT! Domestic abuse takes on an undercover stealth like a snake in the grass. You run through it and hope it does not get you while denying that it is even there. The holidays seem to increase the potential of abuse in all forms around the holidays. My guest today is Amy Sherman. She has a master's degree in counseling/psychology, the Director of Mental Health Services at the Toby Center for Family Transitions and offers coaching services. Raising of the hand, raising the voice, pushing and shoving, throwing, kicking, and other actions can be forms of abuse that escalate and harm people to their core. Do not participate in performing these actions and ask for help. Do not shelter others so they can be abused, get help. SPEAK UP to someone. Someone will listen. If they don't, keep talking. We will listen. Amy will listen. Contact Amy here. Contact me, Dr. Jeanette Gallagher here.
This is a previously recorded For My Sisters Radio Show with guest Deb Morris
This is a previously recorded For My Sisters Radio Show with guest Deb Morris
This is a previously recorded For My Sisters Radio Show with guest Chyna Mcgarity
This is a previously recorded For My Sisters Radio Show with guest Chyna Mcgarity