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Should a pastor who commits adultery, habitually views pornography, or commits another serious moral failure ever return to ministry?In this episode, I sit down with Justin Peters to discuss one of the most controversial questions facing the evangelical church today. We examine the biblical qualifications for elders, the meaning of being "above reproach," whether sexual sin permanently disqualifies a man from pastoral ministry, and how Christians should think about restoration.We also discuss examples frequently raised in these debates, including Steve Lawson, Mark Driscoll, Tullian Tchividjian, King David, and the Apostle Peter, while examining passages such as 1 Timothy 3, Titus 1, 1 Corinthians 6, Proverbs 6, and 2 Corinthians 7.Whether you agree or disagree, this conversation aims to drive listeners back to Scripture and encourage careful thinking about holiness, church leadership, repentance, and biblical accountability.00:00 Introduction00:57 Why This Conversation Matters02:30 What Is Permanent Disqualification?03:12 Qualifications for Elders and "Above Reproach"05:17 Why Justin Peters Says Sexual Sin Permanently Disqualifies08:12 Are Other Sins Also Permanently Disqualifying?10:11 Mark Driscoll and Public Ministry12:12 Patterns of Anger vs. Isolated Failures13:26 Internal and External Consequences of Sexual Sin15:32 Reputation, Reproach, and Public Ministry17:03 What About David and Peter?19:05 Godly Sorrow vs. Worldly Sorrow20:53 Encouragement for Christians Struggling with Sin22:02 Pornography and Personal Responsibility23:39 Is Permanent Disqualification Explicitly Taught in Scripture?25:00 Final Reflectionsjonharrismedia.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/conversations-that-matter8971/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Nate Larkin and Ken Romero explore the themes of vulnerability, grace, and the transformative power of connection through personal stories and biblical insights. Whether you're facing your own struggles or seeking encouragement to connect more deeply with others, this conversation offers hope and practical wisdom. In addition this episode includes Nate speaking at the Sanctuary Church in Jupiter, Florida where Tullian Tchividjian is the lead pastor Resources & Links Samson Society Pirate Monk Podcast email John Newton's writings on Grace Learn more about addiction and trauma NEW Samson Community App (Apple store) NEW Samson Community App (Google Store) Sacred Impact Men's Retreat August 13-17, 2026 Oct 23-25, 2026 U.S. Samson Summit Send mail to: Pirate Monk Podcast/Samson House PO BOX 1656 Columbia, TN 38402 If you have thoughts or questions and you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. Introduction and closing music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. Transitional music from https://www.fesliyanstudios.com/ For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com. The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.
Coming Back to Life | Tullian Tchividjian"B-Side, Part 12" / Joel 2:25 NLT(Pink Floyd)
What happens when your life falls apart and you're left with only fragments? In this episode of the AVAIL podcast, author and pastor Tullian Tchividjian opens up about his public crash and the deep, uncomfortable work of recovery that followed. Discussing his new multi-sensory book, Fragments of Freedom, Tullian explains how hitting rock bottom transformed his theological understanding of grace into a functional lifeline. This conversation is an invitation to stop pretending, take off the mask of behavior modification, and discover the radical freedom that comes from being brutally honest about our brokenness while standing securely on God's unconditional love.
Comfortably Numb | Tullian Tchividjian"B-Side, Part 11" | Matthew 11:28-30 NLT
Tom Sawyer | Tullian TchividjianB-Side, Part 10 | Psalm 51:1-17 NLT
Every Little Thing She Does is Magic | Tullian Tchividjian"The Police" / B-Side, Part 09 / Matthew 26:31-35; 69-75 NLT
Everybody Wants to Rule the World | Tullian Tchividjian"B-Side, Part 08"Genesis 3:1-7 NLT
I Will Leave a Light On | Tullian TchividjianB-Side, Part 07 / John 1:1-5 NLT
In this heartfelt and wide-ranging conversation, Jason talks with Tullian Tchividjian about his new book, Fragments of Freedom. They dive into radical grace, the beauty of an “unchained life,” and how true freedom in Christ dismantles religious performance, fear, and control. Filled with laughter, vulnerability, and passionate theology, the episode also celebrates music (especially Pink Floyd), recovery community, and the joy of simply enjoying the gift of life. It's a refreshing, no-BS discussion about what happens when grace is allowed to be as disruptive and measureless as it really is. For more on Tullian:https://liveunorthodox.com/shop/fragments-of-freedomJOIN our RGWT Subscriber-Based Community:https://promo.fourriversmedia.com/rethinking-god-with-tacos/JOIN A Family Story's Mailing Listhttps://dashing-field-76805.myflodesk.com/pie4be6wtoJOIN the Rethinking God with Tacos Facebook Group at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/godandtacosFollow Rethinking God with Tacos on Instagram at:https://www.instagram.com/rethinkinggodwithtacos/Follow Jason's personal Facebook page at:https://www.facebook.com/afamilystory.org/Follow Jason on Instagram at:https://www.instagram.com/jasonclarkis/Follow Jason on X at: https://x.com/jasonclarkis SEND A DONATION!!https://app.moonclerk.com/pay/36393kxxeh8
Been Undone | Tullian TchividjianB-Side, Part 06 / Isaiah 6:1-8 NLT
1973 | Tullian Tchividjian | B-Side, Part 04Romans 8:20-24
Judas | Tullian TchividjianB-Side, Part 05 / Psalm 118:8-9 NLT; Jeremiah 17:5-8 NLT
A Forest | Tullian Tchividjian | B-Side, Part 03Ecclesiastes 2:1-11 NLT
Dying Out Loud | Tullian Tchividjian | B-Side, Part 02John 11:1-3, 17, 32-35, 38-39, 43-44
The Final Cut | Tullian Tchividjian | B-Side, Part 01Psalm 139:1-4; 11-12 NLT
Hand in the Dark | Tullian TchividjianLuke 23:32-43 NLT
Out of Control | Tullian Tchividjian "The Undoing", Part 10 / Philippians 4:13 NLT
God Doesn't Need Your Good Works | Tullian Tchividjian "The Undoing", Part 09 / James 2:14-20 NLT
Undoing Conditional Forgiveness | Tullian Tchividjian | "The Undoing" Part 08Matthew 6:14-15
Falling Into Grace | Tullian Tchividjian | "The Undoing", Part 07James 4:8 NLT
Drawn to the Ditch | Tullian Tchividjian"The Undoing", Part 05Luke 10:25-37 NLT
Living From "Well Done" | Tullian Tchividjian | "The Undoing", Part 04 Matthew 25:14-27 NLT
Empathy for Exiles | Tullian Tchividjian | "The Undoing", Part 03 John 15:1-8 NLT
Nothing to Offer | Tullian Tchividjian | "The Undoing", Part 02Hebrews 11:6 NLT
Rest in the Rebellion | Tullian Tchividjian | "The Undoing", Part 01Matthew 7:21-23 NLT
What happens when everything you've built comes crashing down? In this episode of the AVAIL podcast, pastor and author Tullian Tchividjian—grandson of Billy Graham and lead pastor of The Sanctuary in Jupiter, Florida—opens up about the fall that shattered his ministry, his identity, and his life. Through the pain came redemption, and through the wreckage, grace. Drawing from his book Carnage and Grace, Tullian shares how God met him in his lowest moment, how radical transparency became his lifeline, and why he now calls his church “a recovery place masquerading as a church.”
No Respectable Sinners | Tullian Tchividjian | "Lost & Found" Part 2Romans 3:10-12, 23-24 NLT
Mercy Seek | Tullian Tchividjian | "Lost & Found" Part 1Luke 15:1-7 NLT
Bright Horses | Tullian TchividjianJohn 1:1-14 NLT
Becoming Human Again | Tullian Tchividjian"Religionless, Part 7"Luke 19:1-10 NLT
The Laughter of Freedom | Tullian Tchividjian "Religionless, Part 6"Matthew 7:16-20 NIV
Beyond the Wall | Tullian Tchividjian | "Religionless, Part 5"Acts 10:1-16 NLT
Safe Here | Tullian Tchividjian"Religionless, Part 4"
Echoes of a Finished Work | Tullian Tchividjian"Religionless, Part 3"Hebrews 12:1-2; 14
Ever-Enduring Love | Tullian Tchividjian | "Religionless, Part 2"Matthew 26:30-35, 69-75
The God of Monsters | Tullian Tchividjian "Religionless, Part 1"Luke 7:36-47
The Sound of Waiting | Tullian Tchividjian | "Humans Being, Part 06"Luke 15:11-24
One Slip | Tullian Tchividjian | "Humans Being, Part 05"Lamentations 3:22-24
The Freedom of Low Expectations | Tullian Tchividjian | "Humans Being, Part 04"Psalm 34:18
Witness Not War | Tullian Tchividjian, Byron Yawn~ Christianity and Culture in the Wake of Charlie Kirk's Murder
The Room Grace Makes | Tullian Tchividjian | "Humans Being, Part 03"Luke 7:36-50
When Grace Fails | Tullian Tchividjian | "Humans Being, Part 02"Luke 18:9-14
Set Free to Stay Free | Tullian TchividjianGalatians 5:1Tullian at Central City Church in Cookeville, TN.
Grace is Feral | Tullian Tchividjian | "Humans Being, Part 01"John 8:36
"Unlearning the Christian Life: The Truth about Sanctification" w/ Tullian Tchividjian & Byron Yawn
Don't miss this honest and encouraging message from Pastor Tullian Tchividjian about the radical grace of God for everyone in Christ!
The Freedom of Self-Awareness | Tullian Tchividjian | "Vagrants of Grace, Part 03"Luke 5:27-32
In this engaging conversation, Tullian Tchividjian and Jason explore the transformative power of grace and the theological shifts that lead to a deeper understanding of God's love. They discuss personal stories of struggle and redemption, the importance of safe spaces in relationships, and the cultural reflections on grace in society. The conversation also touches on the role of recovery in understanding grace and the challenges faced within religious circles.For more info on Tullian Tchividjian:Website: https://www.tullian.net/For more content like this, go to:https://afamilystory.org/Please rate, review, share, and SUBSCRIBE!Podcast intro and outro music by Wilde AssemblyJoin A Family Story's Mailing Listhttps://landing.mailerlite.com/webforms/landing/e2f4i4Join Rethinking God with Tacos Facebook Group at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/godandtacosFollow Rethinking God with Tacos on Instagram at:https://www.instagram.com/rethinkinggodwithtacos/Follow Jason's personal Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/afamilystory.org/Follow Jason on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/jasonclarkis/ Follow Jason on X at: https://x.com/jasonclarkis Send a donation!! https://app.moonclerk.com/pay/36393kxxeh8
Rehab, not Religion | Tullian Tchividjian | "Vagrants of Grace, Part 02"Luke 5:27-32