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Come join us every Monday as We discuss all current events. I also share my personal perspective on various topics rather it's news ,sports,entertainment or just every day situations. I will also have personal friends, special guest, and group discussions on the show. This . Is. CAN YOU BLAME ME

Raphael tommie


    • Dec 16, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 36m AVG DURATION
    • 132 EPISODES


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    Gunna Snitched???? SO WHAT!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2022 19:38


    In the episode R.Tommie shares his thoughts about gunna snitching in court and the stigma behind "snitches " --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Bonus Episode: How to work the middle

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2022 24:42


    RTommie shares his experience with navagating through the grey areas on the road to success --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    The time Mase almost took my girl

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2022 22:15


    Cybm host tells story of when mase came across his girl at lenox mall --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    100% track record

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2022 19:23


    Raphael speaks on overcoming challenges, adverisity and never giving up. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Dating with kids/ long distance relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2022 67:28


    Lexxie, Tish, Anita, and Rishard joins the panel to discuss long distance dating and meeting someone with bad Azz kids --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Music Spotlight Feat Jaden Brown

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2022 35:45


    Indie R&b Artist based out of Chicago jaden brown joins the show to discuss her latest single " type of way" overcoming challenges , living in Chicago and more --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    " The Mac Ratchet "

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2022 62:45


    Is it your responsibility to feed and provide to your bm kids that doesn't belong to you??? This episode is in response to the viral clip of a woman furious at her child's father for not bringing her other kids happy meals and only his child. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Ask a perfect black man( bonus episode)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 64:59


    For the 1st time in history we will have 4 of the most Greatest black men to ever join the cybmpodcast.com show to answer ANY,EVERY,and ALL questions and concerns for the ladies regarding the mindset of men Be sure to tune in! U don't wanna miss this one!! EPISODE " ASK A PERFECT BLACK MAN You can find them on ig @...... @rladvising @tipcee87 @jaypitt @yesme_tish @tottie_vision @nicetoyou_2 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Music Spotlight Feat lil Faif

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2022 41:01


    Indie Artist lil Faith discuss living in North Carolina, haters, people not believing in your dream and more... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    BBW'S VS EVERYBODY ( CanYouBlameMe live)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2022 79:43


    Special guest Random joe, Royce, Nia, and Chef Nikki joins the panel to discuss preferences amongst men who dates plus size women. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    HOE PHASE CHRONICLES Feat: Seasons of April podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2022 68:03


    Creator and host of seasons of April podcast joins the show to discuss mental health, her new podcast, spirituality, and the journey of the hoe phase --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    "May the best Man/Woman win(20:1) " Feat Kandace K.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2022 57:20


    Glamspotatl ceo Kandace talks dating in Atl, the shortage of quality men, why good guys finish last, and more!... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    That's Wack! Feat Gin talk podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2022 43:38


    Trav and Mike host of the gintalk podcast joins the show to tlk about the wack 100 hassan campbell beef . We also discuss what is the the price of fame through clout --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    ObumSELLOUT Pack Feat Nice Finesse

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2022 38:38


    Creator and Host of Sum Special podcast Nice Finesse joins the show to discuss the recent events of the murder of Chris Obumseli who was allegedly stabbed by his girlfriend. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT! FEAT CEO JAY ( PIFF RADIO)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2022 70:57


    Founder and ceo of piff radio joins the show to discuss the CanYouBlameMe/Piff radio partnership, dealing with challenges as an independent enterprise, mental health and more..... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Homeboy Appreciation Month / Come to Life.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2022 29:26


    This Episode is dedicated to all my uno's . Shoutout to all my homies who's been there for me over the years --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    1st Annual Slap a nigga awards

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2022 14:37


    In this episode i give my feedback of the incident between will smith and Chris rock at the Oscar's. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    CONSTRUCTIVE CHEATING FEAT Nice Finesse of Something Special podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2022 53:07


    Nice Finesse joins the show to talk cheating constructively and Chicago culture --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    That Ain't it fam(Feat Shay Speaks podcast )

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2022 38:03


    In today's episode shay and I discuss when/ or is it ever time to tell yourself that something isn't working and it's time to walk away from your dream or passion. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    She was crazy crazy (my fatal attractin)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2022 53:51


    In this highly anticipated episode I detail the events of July 2013 when I experienced my 1st fatal attraction --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Back 2 da basics/ Happy L's

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2022 27:38


    It's 2022 and it's time to take back my independent crown. In this episode I discuss going back to square 1 and the power of taking loses and turning them into w's --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    JOE SAYS NO TO WOMEN WITH KIDS PT1 Feat Random joe and Ms Nice.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2021 73:25


    Random joe joins the panel to discuss the pros and cons of dating with kids. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    "Dave Chapelle the Goat" feat Dae Lenton

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2021 53:57


    Kentura aka Dae Lenton joins the show to talk Dave Chapelle, Squid gamyes review, and how do you feel about beggers being choosers?? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Transparency / Where you been Raph??

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2021 17:52


    Took a Mental break from podcasting but now im back to address the breif hiatus. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Clout chasers/ Social media validation

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2021 41:47


    On today's show I discuss social media validation with a live audience tuning in to share support to the show. Special thanks to the Stereo App for the platform. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Can Women handle the truth??

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2021 42:43


    Do women really go for nice guys? can ladies handle the real truth? let's find out with Today's panel --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    F@#K CANCEL CULTURE. IM ROCKING WITH DABABY!! ( Bonus Episode)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2021 18:32


    In this episode I address my feelings regarding the recent controversy surrounding recording Artist dababy, cancel culture, the sensitive climate surrounding our society, and weaponizing our privileges. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Is Dating overated ???

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2021 39:03


    Is Dating overated? Why can't we just get straight to the smash?? Let's find out on today episode --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Music Spotligh Feat BrownBone aka the "SouthSide Steppa"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2021 25:10


    Indie artist BrownBone joins the show to talk about her upbringing in the southside of atlanta, musical inpirations, overcoming adversity, future projects and more --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    "Side piece Chronicles " Feat Debate Bae Podcast and Wakanda Kev

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2021 29:02


    What are the pros and cons to being/having a side piece?? Let's ask the pros. Special guest Tiny, Doll, and Kevin rejoins us to put an end once and for all about this Never Ending conversation . --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    " Debate Party" Feat Debate Bae Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2021 38:49


    Creators and host of the Debate bae podcast introduces their brand to the CYBM platform. we also discuss who are the Cornballs in the music industry, speaking your dreams into existence, what inspired the Debate bae podcast and more.... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    "The Wakanda Touch" Feat Massage Therapist Kevin

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2021 18:13


    Luminous Lounge Ceo and Massage Therapist kev explains the importance of peace, relaxation, and overall body maintenance. He also gives us an update about his Lounge/ Restaurant regarding the re opening coming soon. kev even gave us a few Massage tips for the ladies. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Mental health is wealth feat yokina Williams and dayna wayna

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2021 26:48


    Mental health specialist Kina and Dana joins the panel to discuss the importance of Mental Health as we acknowledge mental health awarness month. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Music Spotlight Feat NC Beeno, NC Stank, and Dj Futuristic

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2021 31:46


    Beeno and Stank joins us to talk about the business side of the music industry, his current project " Beeno hefe" , think different apparel, and whats in store for the NC brand. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    CYBM "Freaky Friday "

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2021 36:53


    Zodiac couple, Pure romance Nikki, and Tish joins the panel for some sex talk and nikki also shares some of her sex products she has for sale. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Zodiac love Feat Zodiac Couple Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2021 30:00


    Founders and creators of the Zodiac Couple Podcast Ced and Shay share the story of how they met, fell in love, the purpose behind the Zodiac Podcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Entrepreneur Spotlight. ( Black male clothing)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2021 26:09


    blackmale.clothing founders E and Maurice share the inspiration behind the brand, logo, and the purpose behind the bmc movement --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    LONG LIVE DMX

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2021 21:24


    Paying respects to Dmx a real hip hop legend. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Everybody hates Derek! Feat Co host Sweetthang. (CYBM TALKSHOW)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2021 69:21


    Chi-towns own, sweet thang joins the show to discuss the social media outrage against relationship guru Derek Jaxon and what is the future for his brand. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    She said yes!! Feat the future Willis's (Bonus Episode)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2021 56:58


    Oscar and Antionette speaks dating,breaking up, recently getting engaged again, after previously calling it off , meeting new people only to get back once and for all to tie the knot. Oscar also speaks on pursuing the person who he felt was genuinely for him even during the separation and knowing it was meant to be for the 2 of them. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Keeping it Real with Speak up Sis Feat Angel Charmaine

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2021 41:07


    Creator and host of the speak up sis podcast joins the show to speak on her journey into podcasting, her purpose, and taking a leap of faith into entrepreneurship. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    THE CREDIT HERO FEAT RONY FRANCOIS ( bonus episode)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2021 37:30


    Rony joins the show to talk credit literacy,tradelines,the importance of credit,and he also discusses his new book now available on Amazon. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    CYBM 1ST ANNUAL BATTLE OF THE SEXES

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2021 43:09


    Special guest Julius, lajay ,Carson,and Sharell joins the panel to discuss what is simping, toxicity, and thirst pic request. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Blame down 5 Feat down 5 podcast ( unreleased audio episode)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2021 25:52


    Gator and rosten mghee joins the show for some vday shenanigans. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    FIRST DAY OUT THE FEDS FEAT UMAR SHEPHERD

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2021 64:32


    My personal friend Umar Shepherd joins the show for this exclusive interview to speak about his trials and tribulations publicly for the 1st time after doing 10 years in the feds, challenges ,future goals, and whats in store for 2021 moving forward --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2021 26:52


    Thjs episode is for all my go gettas and entrepreneurs. I also highlight my top 3 entrepreneurs of 2020 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Relationship values Feat Maurice Ball

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2021 44:11


    Maurice Ball shares game on life values, growth, being comfortable with yourself, business, and marriage. He also gives us the opportunity to meet the man behind BallStarz Ent --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    Smash Session Etiquette Feat Rishard Talley and Mr Neal

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2021 20:45


    Today's topics- Mental health, smash session protocol, and 2020 review. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    "Gin talk: feat Gin Talk podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2021 34:00


    The fellas join us for a discussion about what inspired their podcast, mental health, and what 2020 taught them --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    " The podcast princess " Feat Boss Primadonna (bonus episode)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2021 50:08


    Tyra aka Boss Primadonna shares thoughts on Entrepreneurship, coming up in the industry as a black female, what inspired her to pursue a career in podcasting and more.... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

    INDIE SPOTLIGHT FEAT LA YAYE AND YOUNG LOWE

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2021 21:20


    Recording Artist young lowe and LA yaye joins the show to talk about the meaning behind the road to riches song, mental health, how the 2 formed an alliance, and current/ upcoming projects for 2021. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-tommie/support

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