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Curious Conversations About Sex


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    Ep 89 Re 10 Public Figure in Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 22:35


    I’m still here. I still love you. Since we last spoke, a lot of extraordinary things happened, resulting in me stopping workshops kind of abruptly, and selling The Practice Lab. I will probably say more about all of that in a future episode, but for now, perhaps as a down-payment on some of that, let’s […]

    EP 87: Is your gender identity fixed or flexible? Is it innate, or the product of socialisation, including trauma? …With Avgi Saketopoulou.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2024 67:39


    Today, we’re chatting about gender, and how your identity is influenced by the events you experience in your life. The conversation is especially interested in how minority genders such as non-binary and trans identities are formed, and how there’s healthy and less than healthy ways that plays out. My guest is Avgi Saketopoulou, who along […]

    EP 88: The Death Cult Club, Lomi Lomi, and Integrated Oncology with Alice Peebles

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2024 52:26


    Today, we talking about the Death Cult Club, Lomi Lomi, and Integrated Oncology with Alice Peebles. It includes a couple of side-journeys around consent and trauma-informed practice, and touches on Alice's and Rog's personal Death Cult Club Goals. Oh, and some tips on how you can start your own Death Cult Club! Links: Alice’s Lomi […]

    EP 86 Re 39: When things go wrong, or not as planned

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2023 22:43


    Today, answering the question, of what to do when things go wrong – especially when you’re topping. To answer it, I’m back with Seani Love, an award-winning sex-worker and workshop facilitator. The conversation comes across like you’ve walked in on a couple of kinky therapists having a chat, which is precisely what it is – […]

    EP 85: Lee Harrington on self-care. Also gender, relationships, community.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2023 64:57


    Lee Harrington, who’s been on the show a couple of times previously, has recently written the book “Becoming Your Own Beloved”. It’s a wild investment in yourself, and a radical piece of activism against some modern dilemmas. Lee and Rog talk self-care, gender, lateral violence in minority gender groups, and some good old life philosophy. […]

    Reaction video to Jordan Peterson on birth control and promiscuous sex (minus video)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2023 71:30


    Today, I’m doing a reaction video to a Jordan Peterson interview, except without the video. So I’m just having a reaction, I guess. In the original interview, which I’ll link to in the shownotes, Jordan is speaking about sex, consent, and sex outside of marriage. On top of that, I want to add another couple […]

    Ep 83: Jealous with Joli

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2023 56:41


    Today, we’re chatting with Joli about jealousy – how it’s an awesome thing waiting to happen, what to put in place to avoid unnecessary amounts of it, how it pairs with attachment styles, and how to talk about it. Also, a bunch of thoughts on starting poly, navigating poly, and some relationship ideas that are […]

    EP 82: An Apology to Religions

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2023 29:48


    A revisit of comments Rog made in the last episode, particularly around a criticism of the grass-roots Christian movement. (This is one of those rare times where we strongly recommend you listen to that episode first). Link to two-day workshop ‘Adventurous Touch and Intimacy’: www.curiouscreatures.biz/adventurous-touch-and-intimacy.html Link to the Curious Creatures forum: forum.curiouscreatures.biz/ Link to Consent […]

    Ep 81: Exposing Australia's Biggest Sex Scandal

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2023 61:30


    Today, we’re getting back to our journalistic roots, and exposing one of Australia’s biggest sex scandals. You might be wondering why an otherwise light and accessible sexuality podcast would venture into such territory, however the editorial team here at Curious Conversations About Sex felt that if we’re to explore the positive elements of sex, then […]

    About Your Hardware (bonus episode)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2022 48:17


    Today, I’ve hand-selected a bonus episode for you. It’s from the podcast ‘Come As You Are’, and it’s about your hardware – by which I mean, your genitals, junk, hoo-har, your funky fandangle, whatever it is you call it. More specifically, it’s about how all of our genitals have things in common, and how we […]

    Interview with Fiona Patten (Reason Party, formerly Sex Party)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2022 45:21


    Today, I’m having a fast and exciting conversation with Fiona Patten, who leads the Australian Reason Party. We get into politics, sex, gender equality, and collaboration as an alternative to the adversarial political system. Oh, and we touch on assisted dying, drug legalisation, and a bunch of other stuff. What stands out for me about […]

    EP 78: Re-Ep Jessica Drake re porn, sex-work, sex-education

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2022 57:06


    I’ve been going on a lot lately about the way porn winds up being sex education if there’s no other sex education available, and how that’s sometimes a good thing and sometimes maybe not such a good thing. So I thought it would be great to go back and listen to this episode from 2019 […]

    EP 77: Rog being interviewed by Choose Love Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2022 45:32


    Today, I’m being interviewed by Steve from the Choose Love Podcast. Since he was interviewing me, some of it’s about me and how I came to be doing what I do… Then from there, we launch into what’s going on for most people in the world of sex, how sex education is meeting our needs […]

    EP 76: The Sex Education I Wish I'd Received As A Teen

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2022 27:06


    This is the no-bullshit, all honesty, useful sex education that most teenagers never receive, myself included.

    Blowing Your Mind About Dick-Pics

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2022 60:04


    I would like to see if I can blow your mind, at least a little bit, regarding unsolicited dick-pics. Actually, what’s happening in this episode, is that you get to listen in on a conversation I had with two people, where I set about blowing their minds about dick-pics – about the phenomenal circumstances that […]

    Show Update (We're Back!) and BONUS Episode: Hot Money

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2022 33:54


    I’ve got great news… this podcast is back, baby! I’m looking forward to being back in your ears, starting with a cracker of a conversation in about a week. In the meanwhile, I’m going to pop in a bonus episode from our friends over at Pushkin. It’s the first episode from a podcast of theirs […]

    EP 73 Show Update

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2021 2:09


    Things are busy, as we come out of lockdown. This episode is an update about that. In short, Curious Conversations About Sex is taking a break. We suggest just leaving us subscribed in your feed, and at some stage in the future, we hope to be in your ears again.

    Ep 72 Re-ep 45 Restorative Justice part two

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2021 39:39


    Today, we're looking into Restorative Justice again; this is the second in a two-part series, and I hate to do this to you, but I need you to go back and listen to the previous episode, if you haven't already.  Seriously, a bunch of stuff in the following episode won't make sense, and I'm worried […]

    EP 71 Re-ep 44 Restorative Justice part one

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2021 45:55


    Today, we’re listening back to the first of two episodes from 2019, on Restorative Justice. I’ve chosen these episodes to listen to again because I got a lot of positive feedback from other listeners about these episodes – to which I’d add that they’re two of my faves, too. At the end, I’ll provide a […]

    EP 70 Opening Up To Opening Up

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2021 51:05


    Tess and I created the workshop ‘Opening Up To Opening Up’, as a deep-dive into the world of non-monogamy. We’ve had a think about which bits might be interesting here on the podcast, and would like to share with you the chapters on mythbusting, agreements, and jealousy. A lot of this stuff is relevant to […]

    Ep 69: Playing with the concept of advantage

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2021 48:22


    Okay. Today, we’re angling in the general direction of getting more insight around a very juicy topic. To do that, I’m going to give you some of the theory from one of my workshops, called “Playing with the cards you’ve been dealt”. I promise, this is not a teaser, where you then have to pay […]

    EP 68 Two (poly) Couples with Cancer Walk into a Bar

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2021 89:04


    Sex and cancer. If you think this doesn’t apply to you, you’re almost certainly wrong. About one in two, or maybe one in three of us, will have cancer at some stage in our lives. But almost all of us will have someone close to us get cancer, and so will find ourselves as partners […]

    Ep 67 (Re 25) Consent is Sexy

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2021 21:57


    Today, we’re dropping back in on an episode from 2017, on the question of whether or not consent is sexy. The background, btw, is that in trying to sell the idea of consent, for most of the last 50 years we’ve taken a perspective of using the stick, rather than the carrot; we’ve said “Do […]

    Ep 66 Success For Slackers

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2021 44:59


    I wrote a book, and I’m going to read some of it to you today. It’s got nothing to do with sex, but it’s on a topic I know many of you find interesting. It’s called ‘Success for Slackers’, and it’s about how to come up with a business or a role that’s good for […]

    Ep 65 How to have an ‘altered states’ date

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2020 75:49


    Today, I want to share with you some ideas on how to have an ‘altered states’ date. From a psychological perspective, an altered state is a state of mind that is different from whatever you regard as your normal. It means that the way your mind is working, or the way you’re feeling, is somehow […]

    Ep 64 Kink & BDSM, the scene, safe-words, and lots of laughter

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2020 72:22


    Today, I’m being interviewed by the crew from Off The Cuffs, which is a podcast with a focus on bdsm and the lifestyle around it. These folks are funny – I like them. Their names are Dick-Wound, Minimus Maximus, and Lexual Romance. The conversation covers one of my favorite kinks – bum-drumming, kinky scenes as […]

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    Ep 63 Re-ep 43 Kissing with Isiah McKimmie

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2020 61:05


    Today, we’re listening back to one of our most popular – and adventurous – episodes from early 2019: Kissing. What do you like, and not like, about kissing? How good are you at training a new person in how to kiss you? More importantly, how do you feel about training this person that’s in front […]

    How shame gets inside you and your relationships, and how to get it out – with Georgie Wolf

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2020 57:35


    Today, I’m having a spirited conversation with Georgie Wolf. You’ve heard her on the show before, because she’s 68 different kinds of awesome. When I say, “I’m having a conversation with Georgie”, what I actually mean, is, “Georgie is having a conversation with me”. She recorded this for her podcast, which is called the Art […]

    Ep 61 Relationship Agreements: Tight, or Loose? (Re-Ep 22)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2020 22:31


    We’ve been getting a few questions lately about agreements in polyamory – and since it’s a topic we covered way back in 2017, today we’ll be listening back to that episode. With Rog are two sex educators and polyamory specialists, Anne Hunter and Dossie Easton. You should definitely check out Dossie’s book, ‘The Ethical Slut’, […]

    Ep 60 – Four Sex Educators Walk Into A Bar – Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2020 40:37


    Today, I’m finally doing something I’ve been wanting to do for ages. If you’ve ever been to one of our in-person or online Socials, you’ll already be familiar with what I call Q&A, where one person asks a question, then each person takes turns to answer. We’re about to do that here, with four sex […]

    Ep 59 – Four Sex Educators Walk into a Bar – Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2020 49:51


    Today, I’m finally doing something I’ve been wanting to do for ages. If you’ve ever been to one of our in-person or online Socials, you’ll already be familiar with what I call Q&A, where one person asks a question, then each person takes turns to answer. We’re about to do that here, with four sex […]

    Ep 58 (Re 24): How to become a dom (dominant)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2020 20:47


    Today, we’re listening back to an episode from 2017, where a listener asks for advice on how to become a dom. For those of you not in the kink scene, the word ‘dom’ is short for dominant, which is actually surprisingly hard to define, but you might say: The dominant is the person that’s steering, […]

    Ep 57 Polyamory, working on your stuff, and learning from relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2020 51:57


    Rog and Tess, from Curious Creatures, are interviewed about all sorts of relationship things including – but not limited to – polyamory. Links that were mentioned… Tess, Connectable Therapies:  https://www.connectabletherapies.com/ Joy FM radio station:   https://joy.org.au/ Triple bi-pass show / podcast:   https://joy.org.au/triplebipass/ PolyVic:   https://polyvic.herokuapp.com/ Workshop ‘Opening Up To Opening Up’:   https://www.curiouscreatures.biz/opening-up-to-opening-up.html Curious Creatures mailing list:   https://www.curiouscreatures.biz/contact.html

    Social connection during isolation, The Weekly Service

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2020 70:28


    We start by talking a little about a potential solution to the problem of social isolation. Then, we move into a talk that Rog gave at The Weekly Service, on how Curious Creatures came into being, the Consent Cards, Ethics and advertising, sex and capitalism, deep-dive into consent in practice, faking orgasms, higher and lower […]

    Let’s have fun defining your gender. Plus, an inner-work exercise

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2020 32:53


    Today’s topic, is about gender, and your gender identity. Welcome to one of the most confusing, and consistently misunderstood topics… in the world. We’re going to walk through a structure – a way of thinking about gender identity – that will likely help with your understanding of yourself, and also those around you. Today’s episode […]

    Re-ep: Number One Sex Move

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2020 14:09


    Today, we’re listening again to an episode from early 2017, responding to the question of “What’s your number one sex move?”. To tackle this, I’m chatting with Maureen Matthews, and Cath Carter. Maureen writes a column in the Sunday Age, called ‘About Last Night’. And Cath, up until her death earlier this year, was a […]

    Modern relationship dynamics, sex education, affairs, and football comparisons

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2020 58:03


    Today, we’re chatting with Myola Woods, who’s a sexuality specialist from Sydney, Australia. She’ll be in Melbourne from Feb 26-29, presenting five workshops, all of which you can find at curiouscreatures.biz. Myola can be found at www.eroticcoaching.com.au

    Georgie Wolf: Which gender(s) have it easier in the dating game?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2019 44:00


    Today, I’m going to share with you an episode of Georgie Wolf’s podcast, where she interviews me on the slightly vexed question of who’s got it easier in the pickup game; men, or women. It’s a wide-ranging, interesting, and juicy conversation. Georgie’s podcast is called The Art of the Hookup, which relates to a book […]

    Jessica Drake: Solving the world’s problems, one porno at a time

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2019 57:41


    Today, we’re chatting with Jessica Drake. Jessica’s big in the world of porn and sex-work, which, along with her own life story, has given her some fascinating perspectives on sex and sex education. We get into all sorts of details about the difference between entertainment porn and education porn, and how a lack of proper […]

    What’s it like to host Australia’s daggiest sex-party?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2019 52:04


    You might recall, back at the end of 2018, we did an episode called ‘secrets from inside a sex-party community’. It was all about what it’s like to attend an event I run called Curiosity, which is hard to describe… But essentially, I guess it fits in the category of ‘sex party’. That episode was […]

    Tips for all of us on rebuilding trust and intimacy

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2019 44:59


    This episode is all about how to recover and restore trust, when there’s been some form of relationship abuse in the past.  When we first aired this conversation, in 2017, a number of people asked for specific and practical things that they could do with a partner or client who’s in the process of recovering. […]

    How to get the most out of sex-work, by two sex-workers

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2019 46:50


    Today, come and join Georgie Wolf and Rog (from Curious Creatures) on the couch for an intimate and honest chat about sex-work. Links relevant to the show: Georgie Wolf’s book, The Art of the Hookup, is at https://www.artofthehookup.com/about-the-book/. Their client coaching services are at https://www.georgiewolf.com/escort-client-coaching-sessions/. Tess’s and Rog’s non-monogamy workshop, Opening Up To Opening Up:  […]

    F— you, rapist.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2019 7:16


    Rog, from Curious Creatures https://www.curiouscreatures.biz/, presents a spoken-word piece about the ongoing effects and impacts of things that happened a long time ago.  As well as some more current-day dilemmas.

    Are you addicted to sex? What about footy? (replay)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2019 18:41


    This is one of the great myths about sex – that our sexuality is essentially a wild, out of control beast waiting to consume us whole, the moment we let it off its leash.  We have been taught, from so many places, to keep it locked down and not explore our interests. Which begs a […]

    Hope In An Often Hopeless Realm: Restorative Justice (part two of two)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2019 39:06


    Today, we’re looking into Restorative Justice again; this is the second in a two-part series, and I hate to do this to you, but I need you to go back and listen to the previous episode, if you haven’t already.  Seriously, a bunch of stuff in the following episode won’t make sense, and I’m worried […]

    Hope In An Often Hopeless Realm: Restorative Justice (part one of two)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2019 47:34


    Today, we’re talking about one of the only sources of hope, in an area most of us generally feel pretty hopeless about. When sexual assault occurs, it often changes the lives of the people that are directly involved, and also those around them.  It’s like a pivotal event, a moment in time, that patterns everything […]

    Kissing with Isiah McKimmie (fixed)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2019 60:19


    What do you like, and not like, about kissing? How good are you at training a new person in how to kiss you? More importantly, how do you feel about training this person that’s in front of you, right now, in how to kiss you? They’re the questions Rog (from Curious Creatures) and Isiah McKimmie […]

    How To Have More Interesting Sex (replay)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2019 21:28


    Today, we’re having another listen to a conversation with two of the world’s best sex educators and prioneers, about how to introduce more interesting sex into a relationship. My first guest is Cyndi Darnell, who is an educator and counsellor based in New York.  She’s available for sessions via video conferencing. My second guest is […]

    The Art of the Hookup

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2019 46:18


    Is there an art to the act of the hookup? Is it about more than the right outfit, the right opening line, and a bucket of fuck-luck? And what’s all this talk about self-development, and solutions to the world’s problems? On this episode, Rog (from Curious Creatures) interviews Georgie Wolf, author of a book called […]

    Curiosity – secrets from inside a sex-party community

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2018 32:30


    I get asked a lot of questions about what it’s like to go to a sex-party, and in particular, the one I run, called Curiosity. So to answer your questions, I interviewed four regular Curiosity participants about their experiences, and they offer you a very candid and honest perspective into the little world of sex […]

    What do you wish you were told before entering the sex industry?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2018 18:36


    Today, Seani Love, award winning sex-worker and sex educator, is back with us. The question we’re tackling gets us into all sorts of interesting spots, such as the process of undoing gender conditioning and socialisation, removing the link between being attractive and being sexy, and a few reflections on the nature of the industry. And […]

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