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When porn is discovered in a marriage, trust gets shattered. And most couples have no idea how to rebuild it. The check-ins feel like interrogations. The conversations go nowhere. And she still doesn't feel safe — even when he's telling the truth. If you and your spouse are trying to heal after porn addiction, this video gives you a specific way to rebuild trust that actually works. Not through promises. Not through accountability apps. Through a different kind of conversation that lets her see inside your world instead of just hearing about the outcome. In this episode you'll learn: Why the standard porn addiction recovery check-in leaves both of you feeling worse What a husband can share that actually helps his wife feel safer Why trust can't be rebuilt through declarations — only through visibility The answer to the question every wife asks: "How do I know if he's telling the truth?" What to talk about that shows real change is happening beneath the surface How these conversations shift from interrogation to genuine connection Most porn addiction recovery plans focus on helping him quit. This video focuses on something just as important — helping your marriage actually heal. Trust isn't rebuilt when your spouse hears that you're doing better. It's rebuilt when she can see it.
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When your husband says he needs rest, it can sound like one more excuse to check out. Here's how to tell real rest from another escape, without becoming the person who has to police him. If he's disappeared into screens, the game, or his phone before and called it rest, your guard goes up. That's fair. This video is about the difference between rest that actually restores him and avoidance dressed up as rest, and why the difference shows up in how he comes back to you, not in what he did while he was gone. A man who never rests stays agitated, reactive, and on edge, and all of that lands on you and the family. Real rest brings him back more present and easier to be around. Numbing-out sends him back more anxious and quicker to snap at something small. That return is your signal. You don't have to inspect him or quiz him about what he did. You watch how he shows up afterward. This one runs against instinct. Everything in you may say he should be doing more recovery work, more repair, more effort. But a man who never stops, who feels like he's always earning his place, stays stuck in busyness and gets harder to live with. Sometimes the recovery work itself becomes the new escape. Rest is how he refills the tank. A man with nothing left to give you needs it. Letting him take fifteen minutes outside isn't letting him off the hook. We also cover boundaries: rest with a time limit you both agree on, not one more way for him to disappear. And how, over time, rest stops being an activity and becomes a calmer way he carries himself, in traffic, under stress, at home, and when you ask him hard questions. If you're married to a man in recovery and you want him to have this, send him to StormReadyMen.com to take the assessment. It's built for him. Next: the final piece of the framework, physical health. Chapters 00:00 When his "rest" feels like checking out 00:11 Why this one is scary: him doing less 00:36 Real rest vs another escape 00:51 A man who never rests, and how it lands on you 01:06 What rest actually is 02:08 The box Lori asked me to build 02:51 The real sign: how he comes back 03:18 It only takes 15 to 20 minutes 03:50 Why you want him to rest (against instinct) 04:35 When recovery itself becomes the escape 05:07 Rest as conscious contact with God 05:38 Rest as refilling the tank 06:02 How short real rest can be 06:50 Rest as a frame of mind: the vacation story 07:56 What's not rest 08:16 Boundaries without policing him 09:04 Next: physical health Next steps and resources Next Steps & Resources: Explore the C.U.R.E. Method: https://thecouplecure.com Join Storm Ready Men: https://stormreadymen.com The Basics of Rebuilding Trust: https://jayandloripyatt.gumroad.com/l/LzMJm New to the Channel? Start with our 5 seasons of foundational content here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLitabWxO9iDI1-ByymvBpwaiTB0sozSjL We want to hear from you, how can we best support you in this new season? Let us know in the comments. To Say Thanks ("Tip Jar"): https://buy.stripe.com/28EfZh4vJ4yQbbwg6i57W02 Who is This Channel For? If your marriage has been impacted by addiction, whether you're the one struggling or the one carrying the pain, this channel is for you. Our marriage was nearly destroyed by Jay's compulsive pornography use. We found a way through it. Now, as Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, we help couples find the peace, trust, and connection they're looking for. #betrayaltrauma #marriagerecovery #rebuildingtrust #christianmarriage #addictionrecovery
How Do We Create Safety in a Relationship? 10 Keys to Rebuilding Trust and Connection In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore one of the most important questions couples can ask themselves: “How do we create safety in a relationship?” Drawing from attachment theory, betrayal trauma recovery, and clinical experience, they discuss how safety is not simply a thought or belief—it is a physiological experience that occurs when the nervous system feels secure enough to relax, connect, and trust. The conversation examines how unresolved wounds, betrayal, childhood experiences, and past traumas can disrupt a person's sense of safety and create hypervigilance, fear, and emotional distance. Dr. Skinner and MaryAnn explain why repairing safety requires more than good intentions; it requires consistent actions that help both partners feel seen, understood, and protected. The episode outlines 10 practical ways couples can create safety, including accountability, humility, recovery work, emotional openness, compassion, vulnerability, communication skills, and attunement. Listeners are invited to reflect on what safety feels like in their own bodies, identify unresolved experiences that may still be influencing their relationships, and consider the specific behaviors that help foster trust and connection. Whether rebuilding after betrayal or strengthening an existing relationship, this episode offers a framework for understanding safety as the foundation of healing, intimacy, and secure attachment. Key Takeaways Safety is experienced through the nervous system before it is experienced cognitively. Unresolved wounds often create hypervigilance and make trust more difficult. Betrayal recovery requires intentional efforts to rebuild safety through actions, not promises. Couples can strengthen safety by practicing accountability, compassion, vulnerability, and attunement. Understanding what safety feels like physically can help individuals recognize when they are moving toward or away from connection. Creating safety is a skill that both partners can learn and practice over time. Resources Mentioned Books Attached — Amir Levine The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work — John Gottman & Nan Silver Wired for Love — Stan Tatkin The Body Keeps the Score — Bessel van der Kolk The Betrayal Bond — Patrick Carnes Research and Clinical Concepts Attachment Theory Betrayal Trauma Hypervigilance and PTSD Symptoms Nervous System Regulation Attunement and Secure Connection The Zeigarnik Effect Compassion vs. Empathy in Relationship Healing Provisional Perception (Patrick Carnes) Relationship Safety and Co-Regulation Learn More About the Intimacy Repair Method (IRM) The concepts discussed in this episode are foundational principles of the Intimacy Repair Method (IRM)—a structured approach to helping individuals and couples heal from betrayal, rebuild safety, restore trust, and create deeper emotional connection. The IRM focuses on seven core pillars of healing: Stabilization Safety Boundaries Transparency and Integrity Empathy Repairing Reality Connection and Intimacy Through education, practical tools, guided exercises, and relationship-building skills, the Intimacy Repair Method helps couples move from crisis and uncertainty toward healing, security, and lasting connection. Note: If you are recovering from betrayal or working to rebuild trust in your relationship, the principles discussed in this episode are explored in greater depth through the Intimacy Repair Method (IRM), a comprehensive framework designed to help couples create safety, restore trust, and strengthen emotional connection. Learn more about the Intimacy Repair Method: https://intimacyrepairmethod.com
When a marriage is struggling after betrayal, it's easy to reach for labels. Narcissist. Addict. Abuser. Toxic. But what happens when those labels become the lens through which we see ourselves, or our spouse?In this thought-provoking conversation, Brian sits down with licensed marriage and family therapist Tyler Patrick to explore how misdiagnosis and misplaced labels can actually hinder healing. Together, they discuss the difference between understanding behavior and defining a person by it, the role of self-compassion in recovery, and why true healing requires both honesty and empathy.Tyler shares his own personal journey through addiction, secrecy, recovery, and marriage restoration, offering powerful insights into how vulnerability, accountability, and compassion work together to create lasting change. You'll also learn why some of the most commonly used therapeutic terms may be doing more harm than good, and how curiosity can open doors that judgment never will.Whether you're the betrayed spouse, the unfaithful spouse, or simply seeking healthier relationships, this episode will challenge the way you think about healing, labels, forgiveness, and what it really means to see another person with compassion.You can find the Therapy Brothers here: https://therapybrothers.org/beyond-affairsYes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want.www.beyondaffairs.com 360.306.3367
Getting back on track sounds easy…until it's actually time to do it.This week, Jarratt DAMN is joined by returning guest and functional nutritional therapy practitioner Medina “Nia” Henry for a real conversation about starting over on your wellness journey, rebuilding consistency, and why “life be life-in” might be the excuse keeping us stuck.From stress eating and gym anxiety to meal prep, burnout, accountability, and rebuilding self-trust one decision at a time, this episode is less about perfection and more about finally being honest with yourself about what needs to change.Because sometimes the hardest part isn't the workout.It's showing up for yourself again.In this episode, we talk about:Why consistency feels harder the second time aroundThe connection between stress, food, and emotional exhaustion“Life be life-in” vs radical honestyMeal prep and reducing decision fatigueGym intimidation and comparing yourself to othersThe importance of honoring the baby stepsWhy the first 30 days is about rebuilding trust with yourselfAnd yes…Jarratt gets called out several times in this episode. Respectfully.
A mentor can help your husband's recovery grow faster than you can on your own, and that's a relief, not a knock on you. If you've been carrying his accountability, this is the weight you can finally set down. For a long time you've likely been the one holding him accountable, pointing out his blind spots, and managing his progress. It's exhausting, and it doesn't have to be your job. A mentor takes some of that weight off so you can focus on your own healing. A mentor reaches your husband in a way you can't, and that's a good thing. He's a man further down the road who has already taken off his own mask. When your husband watches someone he respects live it out week after week, he starts showing up differently, not because you asked, but because he's absorbing a new way of relating to people. With the right mentor, that growth speeds up. In this video: Why a mentor reaches him in a way you can't, and why that helps How watching someone live it out moves him past box-checking "Terminal uniqueness" and how a mentor breaks that lie The character traits that make someone the right fit How you get healthy input on who that person is How to help your husband find a mentor A mentor isn't a therapist or a replacement for professional help. He's someone a little further down the road who walks with your husband and lightens the load you've been carrying. Next: self-care and rest, and what real restoration looks like. Send him to take the free Storm Ready Assessment: https://stormreadymen.com CHAPTERS: 0:00 - Let his wife meet his mentor 0:05 - You've been carrying this for years 0:27 - That's exhausting 0:31 - A mentor takes the weight off 0:59 - He hears things differently from another man 1:21 - You get a say in who the mentor is 1:41 - The character you wish he already had 2:06 - Privacy vs secrecy 2:25 - Trust your instincts 2:42 - How does he treat people he disagrees with 3:10 - If he won't let you meet the mentor 3:28 - A mentor sits in the mess without flinching 3:49 - Terminal uniqueness 4:08 - Nobody could be as messed up as I am 4:18 - Permission to stop hiding 4:39 - A mentor pushes him deeper 4:52 - What my mentor taught me about journaling 5:14 - Compassion from someone who's been there 5:26 - Watching somebody live it out 5:49 - He starts changing because he's watching 6:09 - Respect without worship 6:30 - He starts applying things without being asked 6:53 - His language changes 7:16 - The trajectory changes 7:29 - He didn't learn it from you 7:39 - He's not a therapist 8:09 - You don't manage it, but you get input 8:35 - Help him find a mentor 8:57 - How I found mine 9:32 - Start with coffee 9:40 - Next episode: self-care and rest 10:00 - Send him to take the assessment #thecouplecure #betrayaltrauma #marriagerecovery #mentoring #partnerrecovery #addictionrecovery #healingafterbetrayal #terminaluniqueness -- Next Steps & Resources: • Explore the C.U.R.E. Method: https://thecouplecure.com • Join Storm Ready Men: https://stormreadymen.com • The Basics of Rebuilding Trust: https://jayandloripyatt.gumroad.com/l/LzMJm • To Say Thanks ("Tip Jar") - https://buy.stripe.com/28EfZh4vJ4yQbbwg6i57W02 • New to the Channel? Start with our 5 seasons of foundational content here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLitabWxO9iDI1-ByymvBpwaiTB0sozSjL We want to hear from you—how can we best support you in this new season? Let us know in the comments. -- Who is This Channel For? If your marriage has been impacted by addiction — whether you're the one struggling or the one carrying the pain — this channel is for you. Our marriage was nearly destroyed by Jay's compulsive pornography use. We found a way through it. Now, as Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, we help couples find the peace, trust, and connection they're looking for.
Today on Uncommon Sense, we're discussing what may be the most consequential political moment of Donald Trump's career. With Trump's approval ratings slipping, the Iran conflict escalating, renewed questions surrounding the Epstein files, and the assassination of Charlie Kirk continuing to reverberate through the conservative movement, many Americans are asking whether these events are isolated, or part of a much larger story.In this episode, I examine the connections I believe may exist between these developments, including my view that the Epstein files may have been used as leverage against powerful political figures and that foreign interests have exerted significant influence over American policy in the Middle East.We'll discuss:Trump's declining support among his baseThe growing controversy surrounding U.S. involvement with IranThe unanswered questions surrounding the Epstein filesThe political impact of Charlie Kirk's assassination and its aftermathWhy I believe these stories intersect in ways the mainstream media refuses to exploreMy goal is not to tell you what to think, but to encourage you to question narratives, follow incentives, and examine who benefits from the decisions being made in Washington.--https://www.bible.com/
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When something feels off with someone we care about, most of us don't blow up. We go quiet. We change the subject. We say "it's fine." We tell ourselves we're being kind, being mature, keeping the peace. But silence is rarely neutral. When we go quiet, we think we're closing the subject — and instead we're leaving it wide open, handing the other person a blank space to fill with their own story. Usually a worse one than the truth. In this episode, Robin Keehn looks at the engine underneath resentment: going quiet. The many polite costumes it wears, the reasons we reach for it, and the real cost — trust that erodes in the unsaid, distance that grows one quiet day at a time. She offers an honest test for telling wise restraint apart from avoidance, and a small place to start: one sentence, beginning with "Here's what I've noticed." This episode builds on Episode 1 (How Resentment Quietly Builds) and pairs with Robin's piece The Apology No One Thinks to Give. In this episode: Why we go quiet instead of saying the hard thing The polite costumes silence wears — "it's fine," the dropped subject, the slow pull-back How to tell wise restraint apart from avoidance What silence actually does: the story the other person invents, the erosion of trust, the growing distance Why "keeping the peace" often means keeping the loop open How to start with one honest sentence — and what to do when the other person is already gone Ready to Close Your Loops? Join the 5 Day Detox Your To-Do List Challenge June 29-July 3rd. Register here. https://pplskillz.com/challenge If this episode resonated with you, you might enjoy our free People Skillz community — a structured space to practice steadier, more intentional communication. We also created a short Communication Patterns Quiz to help you identify how you respond under pressure. You'll find both here.
We sit down with therapist Josh O'Tani to talk about pornography use as a couples issue and why secrecy can wound a relationship as deeply as infidelity. We map the shame and anger cycle that keeps partners stuck, then share practical ways to rebuild trust through curiosity, empathy, and consistent repair. • Reframing pornography use as relational and systemic, not just individual behavior • Pornography as a coping strategy for difficult emotions and how avoidance spills into marriage • The negative interaction cycle after betrayal, including shame, fixing, withdrawal, anger, and distrust • Why empty promises fail and how trust rebuilds through time and consistency • Why secrecy matters more than the content for many couples • Confessing early versus being discovered and the impact on safety and vulnerability • Betrayal trauma responses, including volatility and PTSD-like symptoms • Simple language shifts that validate pain without defensiveness • Clarifying values and agreeing on goals, abstinence versus negotiated boundaries • Tools from emotionally focused therapy, enactments, and impact versus intent • The mindset shift that you don't have to heal alone, and why professional help accelerates progress • Where to find Josh and his resources at Big Valley Therapy Coming June 23: Happy Hacks: 101 Science-Backed Ways to Boost Happiness, Reduce Stress, and Build a More Meaningful Life.Available now for Kindle Pre-Order for 99¢Written by Dr. Dave Schramm, this practical and uplifting new book offers simple, research-based strategies to help you build greater happiness, strengthen resilience, reduce stress, and create a more meaningful life—one small habit at a time.Available June 23 wherever books are sold.The opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this podcast do not necessarily reflect the views of the Utah Marriage Commission.Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org Podcast.stongermarriage.orgYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StrongerMarriageLifeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@strongermarriagelifeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage/Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579Dr. Dave Schramm: http://drdaveschramm.comhttp://drdavespeaks.com Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3025: Phil Cheney reflects on a painful experience of being underpaid after completing a renovation job and explains why one person's dishonesty doesn't have to destroy your faith in others. Through injury, disappointment, and self-reflection, he shares how trust is ultimately a personal choice rooted in self-awareness, boundaries, and resilience rather than the behavior of others. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/you-can-still-trust-even-if-youve-been-deceived/ Quotes to ponder: “You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don't trust enough.” “Don't assume you can't trust anyone because one person was untrustworthy. You can't control what everyone else does, and some people may deceive you, but you can control what you do, who you choose to trust, and what you learn from each experience.” “You see, my behavior in assessing how much to trust is within my control, while how the other person behaves is outside my control.” Episode references: Frank Crane: https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Frank_Crane Johann Wolfgang von Goethe: https://www.britannica.com/biography/Johann-Wolfgang-von-Goethe Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This episode recorded live at the Becker's 16th Annual Meeting features Marsha Sinanan, Vice President, Patient Care Services and Chief Nursing Officer, Mount Sinai Morningside, Mount Sinai West, Mount Sinai Behavioral Health Center. Marsha Sinanan shares insights on post-strike recovery, rebuilding workforce trust, nursing strategy, AI governance, and how transparent leadership and frontline collaboration are shaping care delivery and workforce resilience.In collaboration with Insight Global.
What if your Throat Chakra is not just about speaking — but about truth?In this episode of The Constance Messmer Podcast, I take a soulful and practical deep dive into the Throat Chakra — the chakra of truth, communication, trust, self-expression, and inner knowing.I share how this energy center can reveal where you are silencing yourself, talking yourself into situations that are not right for you, struggling to trust your instincts, or carrying old stories that still affect how you express yourself today. I also explore the connection between the Throat Chakra and the Solar Plexus, the role of intuition in communication, and why your words — spoken or unspoken — carry real energetic weight.
How to Confront a Cheating Spouse Without Pushing Him or Her AwayAnger, fear, and hurt can make confronting a cheating spouse feel impossible. Reacting too quickly, arguing, or offering instant forgiveness can make reconciliation harder, so this episode helps listeners prepare for a confrontation that is calm, clear, loving, and firm.What You'll Learn: How to confront cheating without turning it into a fight or discussion What to say when you want reconciliation but cannot accept ongoing cheating How to avoid threats, blame, and emotional overexplaining Why boundaries matter before forgiveness and reconnection can happen Want to Work With Coach Jack?:For listeners who want help deciding whether to build first, require a choice, or set stronger boundaries after an affair, Coach Jack's Coaching Package for Ending a Spouse's Affair can help them take steadier steps toward either reconciliation or a clear separation path.Key Takeaways: Confrontation should be simple, short, and deliberate. Love and firmness can work together. Instant forgiveness can encourage continued cheating. Boundaries need to be clear and enforceable. Reconciliation requires the affair to end first. Additional Resources: A Christian Guide to Preventing and Ending Men's Affairs, by Jack Ito PhDOne session consultation with Coach Jack Coaching Package for Ending a Spouse's AffairWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.
He can memorize sports stats, master new software, and name every bird in the sky. But he never learned how to treat the person standing next to him. It's not that he can't learn. He just hasn't aimed that ability where your relationship needs it most. Not yet. In this video I share a moment from my own marriage where Lori called me out for learning the name of a bird but never learning how to treat people better. I break down what emotional vocabulary actually is, why he misreads your pain as anger, and what it looks like when the learning starts pointing in the right direction. Send him to take the free Storm Ready Assessment: https://stormreadymen.com Book referenced: Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown CHAPTERS: 0:00 - He can learn anything except this 0:05 - He's not incapable of learning 0:27 - Where his effort isn't going 0:45 - Redirecting that capacity 0:54 - The turkey vulture story 1:10 - Learning how to treat people 1:23 - Nobody taught him where to aim 1:36 - Emotional vocabulary 1:57 - What "fine" actually means 2:08 - When the vocabulary starts expanding 2:48 - A book that helps 3:00 - How you'll know it's happening 3:16 - Empathy: his ability to read you 3:35 - He sees anger when you're scared 3:56 - Empathy can be learned 4:20 - He'll ask instead of assuming 4:25 - Without empathy he stays isolated 4:45 - You're not asking too much 5:00 - What to watch for 5:52 - Is his language changing 6:19 - His learning is his responsibility 6:23 - You do get a say 6:39 - Next episode: mentoring 7:20 - Send him to take the assessment #thecouplecure #betrayaltrauma #marriagerecovery #emotionalvocabulary #empathy #partnerrecovery #addictionrecovery #healingafterbetrayal -- Next Steps & Resources: • Explore the C.U.R.E. Method: https://thecouplecure.com • Join Storm Ready Men: https://stormreadymen.com • The Basics of Rebuilding Trust: https://jayandloripyatt.gumroad.com/l/LzMJm • New to the Channel? Start with our 5 seasons of foundational content here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLitabWxO9iDI1-ByymvBpwaiTB0sozSjL We want to hear from you—how can we best support you in this new season? Let us know in the comments. To Say Thanks ("Tip Jar") - https://buy.stripe.com/8wM6pe74F9LsdkA8ww -- Who is This Channel For? If your marriage has been impacted by addiction — whether you're the one struggling or the one carrying the pain — this channel is for you. Our marriage was nearly destroyed by Jay's compulsive pornography use. We found a way through it. Now, as Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, we help couples find the peace, trust, and connection they're looking for.
How do leaders build trust in ways that strengthen people, teams, and organizational results? In this episode, Kevin talks with Dr. Dennis Reina and Dr. Michelle Reina about why trust cannot be treated as a buzzword but must be practiced every day in the small moments. They share their three dimensions of trust—character, communication, and capability—and explain how trust grows when leaders clarify expectations, honor commitments, communicate truthfully and transparently, and recognize both the current and potential strengths of others. The discussion also highlights that trust is everyone's responsibility, even though leaders set the tone, and that organizations thrive when they intentionally connect the human need for relationships with the business need for results. Listen For 00:00 Why Trust Matters More Than Ever 02:26 Meet Dennis & Michelle Reina 03:24 Why They Wrote The Art of Trust Building 04:12 Trust Is a Daily Practice 04:47 The Big Idea Behind Trust Building 06:05 Trust Is Always Being Built or Broken 07:08 The 3 Dimensions of Trust 08:00 Why Leaders Misunderstand Trust 10:18 Trust of Character 11:27 The Importance of Clear Expectations 13:17 Trust of Communication 15:42 Trust of Capability 17:23 The Hidden Skills Behind Trust 18:28 Trusting Potential, Not Just Performance 19:35 The Trust Assessment Tool 21:15 Building Organizational Trust 23:35 Leaders Set the Tone 24:41 Trust Is Like Oxygen 25:07 Small Moments Build Trust 26:00 What They're Reading 27:59 Where to Learn More 28:33 Kevin's Final Leadership Challenge Their Story: Dr. Dennis Reina and Dr. Michelle Reina are internationally recognized pioneers in the field of organizational trust and bestselling authors of the groundbreaking Trust and Betrayal in the Workplace and their latest book, The Art of Trust Building and its digital companion, The Reina Trust Assessment, a research-backed interactive tool that allows users to identify strengths and opportunities for growth on their trust journey. As co-founders of Reina Trust Building®, they have devoted their lives to understanding, measuring, and strengthening trust in the workplace. Dennis and Michelle's shared passion for trust building emerged from a blend of personal and professional journeys. In 1999, they founded their business, Reina Trust Building®. Their research-based Three Dimensions of Trust® and Rebuilding Trust® processes have been adopted by leaders in Fortune 500 companies, government agencies, healthcare systems, and nonprofits around the globe. https://assessments.reinatrustbuilding.com/its/register http://reinatrustbuilding.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/dennisreina https://www.linkedin.com/in/michellereina/ Turning Leadership Ideas Into Action Leadership development shouldn't stay theoretical. This Action Guide gives you practical tools and prompts to help you apply leadership lessons immediately — so you can lead more effectively, build stronger relationships, and make a bigger difference every day. https://remarkablepodcast.com/actionguide Book Recommendations The Art of Trust Building: Transform Lives, Teams, and Organizations by Dennis Reina and Michelle Reina The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself by Michael A. Singer Trust and Betrayal in the Workplace: Building Effective Relationships in Your Organization by Dennis Reina and Michelle Reina Eat Move Sleep: How Small Choices Lead to Big Changes by Tom Rath Like this? The Laws of Trust with Joel Peterson The Power of Trust with Sandra Sucher How Trust Works with Dr. Peter Kim The Journey to Building Trust and Leading Teams with Scott De Long Why Trust Matters More Now Than Ever with David Horsager Podcast Better! Sign up with Libsyn and get up to 2 months free! Use promo code: RLP Join Our Community If you want to view our live podcast episodes, hear about new releases, or chat with others who enjoy this podcast join one of our communities below. Join the Facebook Group Join the LinkedIn Group Leave a Review If you liked this conversation, we'd be thrilled if you'd let others know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts. Here's a quick guide for posting a review. Review on Apple: https://remarkablepodcast.com/itunes
In this powerful Part 1 conversation, Eve sits down with Dr. Nic and Professor Mike Sebastian from the Trust Your Gut Save Your Ass Podcast to unpack what it really means to be blindsided in a relationship—and how to find your way back to yourself. Through a deeply personal story, Eve shares her experience of financial manipulation within her marriage and the long-term impact it had on her life, credit, and sense of self. What begins as a reflection on a Netflix show quickly unfolds into a much larger conversation about red flags, intuition, trauma responses, and the patterns that keep people stuck in unhealthy relationships. Together, they explore how financial dynamics can quietly erode a partnership, why so many people overlook early warning signs, and how societal pressure—especially for women—can lead to compromising your truth. This episode dives into the importance of emotional awareness, recognizing misalignment early, and understanding the role both partners play in relationship dynamics. Dr. Nic and Professor Mike introduce the concept of “resonance” in relationships—how shared values, habits, and everyday preferences matter more than we often realize—and why ignoring small incompatibilities can lead to major fractures down the line. They also break down one of the most powerful and confronting questions you can ask in any relationship: “Are you willing to work on this?” This episode is an honest, nuanced look at love, accountability, and the journey of rebuilding trust—not just with others, but within yourself. Stay tuned for Part 2, where things get even deeper with a live relationship role-play and communication breakdown. Key Topics Covered Financial manipulation and financial infidelity in relationships Recognizing relationship red flags early How trauma impacts communication and decision-making The psychology of staying in unhealthy relationships Sexless marriage and emotional disconnection Rebuilding self-trust after divorce Dating app culture and dishonesty statistics The myth of “opposites attract” vs. relationship compatibility Understanding “resonance” and alignment in partnerships The role of intuition, gut feelings, and emotional awareness One question that can determine the future of your relationship Connect With the Guests Dr. Nic & Prof Mike | Divine GuidanceExplore their work on relationship alignment, intuition, and consciousness: Divine Guidance Institute Love Vibe® 30-Day Relationship Reset | Consciousness State ShiftA guided program to reset relationship patterns and elevate connection:Love Vibe® 30-Day Relationship Reset | Consciousness State Shift Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack (Articles + Deeper Insights): https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free Episodes + Exclusive Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on the Please Me Podcast Share your story or expertise on relationships, sexual health, and personal growth: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Offers & Resources The Sexual Longevity ProtocolOptimize performance, function, and long-term sexual health: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol-course/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection PracticesReconnect with your body, pleasure, and confidence: https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Affiliate Partners & Exclusive Deals Explore trusted sexual wellness brands and special listener offers: https://pleaseme.online/sexual-wellness-deals/ Featured Partners:• Shameless Care• Parlor Games• SDC.com• Lady Pump Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ignacio Packer's journey is not defined by titles or roles, but by a thread connecting people, places, and moments. From early experiences shaped by the Cold War to a pivotal decision to leave a career in finance for humanitarian work, Ignacio reflects on what it means to live with purpose and passion. A simple but powerful moment—his mother telling him to “free yourself”—set him on a path that would take him across the world, working in some of the most challenging contexts and ultimately leading him to a deeper question: how do we rebuild trust in a fragmented world? In this conversation, Ignacio shares how his thinking evolved from focusing on systems and policies to recognizing the essential role of relationships, inner transformation, and personal responsibility. Drawing from decades in humanitarian work and now leading Initiatives of Change, he explores the courage it takes to listen, to speak respectfully across divides, and to reconnect even when trust has been broken. This episode is a powerful reflection on leadership, humanity, and the quiet work required to heal relationships—within ourselves and with others. Listener Engagement: Discover the songs picked by Ignacio and other guests on our #walktalklisten here. Learn more about Ignacio (via his Linkedin) and his work through the Caux website and/or check Linkedin. Caux's Instagram and Facebook. Share your feedback on this episode through our Walk Talk Listen Feedback link – your thoughts matter! Follow Us: Support the Walk Talk Listen podcast by following us on Facebook and Instagram. Visit 100mile.org or mauricebloem.com for more episodes and information about our work. Check out the special series "Enough for All" and learn more about the work of the Joint Learning Initiative (JLI).
Today on Uncommon Sense, we're talking about “law enforcement” and why so many people no longer feel like laws are actually being enforced equally or consistently, especially when it comes to powerful and well-connected individuals connected to the Epstein scandal.We discuss the growing public frustration surrounding the unreleased and heavily redacted Epstein files, the lack of visible accountability for elite predators, and why so many Americans feel the justice system has failed women, children, and vulnerable people. We also talk about why local police departments, sheriffs, prosecutors, and public officials should be demanding full transparency and supporting the release of the complete unredacted Epstein files so the public can see the truth plainly.This episode also goes into the broader leadership crisis facing America and much of the world: weak leadership, fear of confrontation, and silence in the face of corruption. We discuss the need for stronger moral leadership, stronger families, stronger communities, and men willing to stand up publicly against evil instead of shrinking back from difficult conversations.If laws are not enforced equally, trust in institutions collapses. If justice is selective, people stop believing justice exists at all.It's time for courage, accountability, truth, and leadership again.--https://www.youversion.com/bible-app
How do you know if the change is real? You've seen him try before. He goes to church, reads the right books, says the right things. But nothing actually changes. And you're left wondering if this time is different or if it's just another performance. In this video I break down what real self-awareness looks like from the outside, why he gets so defensive when you bring things up, and 5 specific signs that the work is actually happening. Not because he's performing for you. Because something shifted inside him. Send him to take the free Storm Ready Assessment: https://stormreadymen.com CHAPTERS: 0:00 - How do you know if it's real? 0:07 - His two modes 0:45 - What's been missing 1:05 - The three-legged stool 1:36 - Why he can't hear you 1:48 - What's happening inside him 2:14 - It's not your fault 2:30 - When self-awareness starts 3:02 - When shame holds him hostage 3:34 - Why you feel dangerous to him 3:57 - What real change sounds like 4:05 - 5 signs it's real 4:43 - The performer vs the real thing 4:50 - His work, not yours 5:32 - The stool comes together 6:01 - What to watch for this week 6:19 - Next episode 6:33 - Send him to Storm Ready Men #thecouplecure #betrayaltrauma #marriagerecovery #partnerrecovery #recoveryisreal #selfawareness #addictionrecovery #healingafterbetrayal -- Next Steps & Resources: • Explore the C.U.R.E. Method: https://thecouplecure.com • Join Storm Ready Men: https://stormreadymen.com • The Basics of Rebuilding Trust: https://jayandloripyatt.gumroad.com/l/LzMJm • New to the Channel? Start with our 5 seasons of foundational content here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLitabWxO9iDI1-ByymvBpwaiTB0sozSjL We want to hear from you—how can we best support you in this new season? Let us know in the comments. To Say Thanks ("Tip Jar") - https://buy.stripe.com/8wM6pe74F9LsdkA8ww -- Who is This Channel For? If your marriage has been impacted by addiction — whether you're the one struggling or the one carrying the pain — this channel is for you. Our marriage was nearly destroyed by Jay's compulsive pornography use. We found a way through it. Now, as Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, we help couples find the peace, trust, and connection they're looking for.
Host James-Christian Blockwood talks with Academy Fellow and McGeorge School of Law Professor Clark Kelso and American Enterprise Institute Senior Fellow Adam White about why public agencies struggle and what the executive branch does in response. They discuss how checks and balances slow action and make errors hard to undo, while polarization and congressional dysfunction push presidents toward unilateral action, creating separation-of-powers conflicts and court intervention. The conversation centers on Schedule F and fears it could expand political appointments and erode civil service protections. They conclude trust is rebuilt through tangible, non-rhetorical improvements, suggesting a public-safety focus like FAA modernization.01:14 Why Agencies Fail03:25 Checks Balances and Speed05:22 Congress Gridlock Executive Action09:44 Unitary Executive and Independence12:47 Courts Guardrails and Chevron15:44 Real World Impacts and Trust19:30 Reforming Bureaucracy and DOGE23:45 Schedule F Debate29:31 Rebuilding Trust and OptimismManagement Matters is a presentation of the National Academy of Public Administration produced by Lizzie Alwan and Matt Hampton and edited by Matt Hampton. Support the Podcast Today at: donate@napawash.org or 202-347-3190Episode music: Hope by Mixaund | https://mixaund.bandcamp.comMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comFollow us on YouTube for clips and more: @NAPAWASH_YT
The expectations placed on technology partners are changing, and so is what it takes to earn trust. In this episode, RealPage CEO Dirk Wakeham sits down with host Krista Hurley, RealPage Industry Principal, to discuss how transparency, accountability, and collaboration are reshaping relationships between operators and technology providers. Dirk shares how trust shows up in execution, why it matters more as AI moves deeper into operations, and how strong partnerships create better outcomes across the industry. You’ll hear Dirk’s perspective on: Why trust is increasingly tied to execution How transparency and accountability shape long‑term success What AI’s growing role means for operator–tech relationships How collaboration drives better outcomes across the industry Connect with Krista on LinkedIn for more expert insights!
Chad Edwards, Borough Manager of Breckenridge, PA, joins host Steve Vancore to recount one of the most extraordinary disaster recovery challenges in recent municipal history. Before his current role, Chad served as village manager of East Palestine, Ohio, stepping into the position in the immediate aftermath of the 2023 train derailment that sent toxic chemicals spilling across the community, just outside city limits, with no village manager in place at the time it occurred.Chad reflects on the complex task of rebuilding a community divided between economic recovery and ongoing health concerns, and shares the leadership lessons he took from navigating a crisis not of his making. Steve and Chad also discuss how Pennsylvania's municipal classification system works and what it means to lead through disaster when a community's trust and health hang in the balance.
Buckle in, folks, because Suzanne Mettler brings deep insights on the rural-urban political divide — and it's more about history, economics, and institutions than you might think. If you've ever wondered why rural voters often vote Republican, despite Democratic policies benefiting them, or how to start healing this fractured relationship, this episode is for you. In this episode:Suzanne explains how the rural-urban political split is a recent phenomenon that gained momentum in the 1990s.She breaks down the historical importance of the New Deal in shaping rural loyalty to Democrats, and why that loyalty has eroded.We explore how economic shifts, job losses, and feelings of abandonment have driven rural voters into the arms of the GOP.Heidi, Joel, and Suzanne discuss the role of shared culture, common values, and the lack of trusted institutions in reconciling the divide.Insights on how Democrats can rebuild trust, emphasizing listening, local organizing, and respectful dialogue.Whether you're a curious rural voter, a political junkie,, or just here for the engaging conversation, this episode unravels the complexities of the rural-urban divide with the precision of Suzanne's insightful analysis. Dive into the historical shifts, economic challenges, and the evolving political landscape that have shaped today's divide and the current realities of American politics.Resources & Links:Rural Versus Urban | Princeton University PressSuzanne Mettler's Website The Hot Dish is brought to you by the One Country Project. To learn more, visit OneCountryProject.org, or find us on Substack (Onecountryproject.substack.com), and on YouTube, Bluesky, and Facebook (@onecountryproject). (00:00) - Introduction to the Urban-Rural Divide (01:04) - Suzanne Mettler's Background and Interest (03:04) - The Evolution of Political Polarization (06:18) - Historical Context: The New Deal and Rural Politics (10:04) - Economic Policies and Rural Discontent (12:57) - Cultural Identity and Political Choices (16:47) - The Role of Organizations in Political Engagement (20:00) - Trust and Communication in Rural America (24:00) - Rebuilding Trust and Engagement (30:10) - Opportunities for Democrats in Rural Areas (35:00) - The Confiscation of Appropriated Funds (38:02) - Congress and the Lawless Presidency (40:45) - Shifting Political Dynamics in Rural America (42:28) - OCP-YouTube-EndScreen.mp4
Why are so many large organizations struggling with high attrition, disengaged teams, and eroding trust? In this episode of The Story Engine Podcast, Kyle Gray sits down with Jim Carlough to explore his framework for becoming a more "integrist" leader in today's rapidly evolving corporate landscape. Jim shares his philosophy behind the Six Pillars of Leadership — a practical model designed to strengthen trust, stabilize teams, and reduce costly turnover inside large corporations. Together, they unpack why traditional leadership approaches are breaking down, what employees truly need from leaders in 2025 and beyond, and how trust—not perks or compensation—is the real competitive advantage. Jim reveals how leaders can shift from reactive management to intentional stewardship, creating cultures where people stay, perform, and grow. If you're leading a team, running a division, or responsible for culture inside a growing organization, this episode offers actionable insight into building loyalty, accountability, and long-term success. Episode Highlights & Timestamps 02:30 — The root causes of high attrition: broken trust, misalignment, and leadership blind spots. 05:45 — What it means to be an "integrist" leader in the modern corporate environment. 09:30 — Overview of the Six Pillars of Leadership and how they interconnect. 13:00 — Why trust is the true performance multiplier inside organizations. 17:20 — Practical strategies to reduce turnover and rebuild engagement from the top down. 21:10 — Common leadership mistakes that unintentionally drive high performers away. 24:40 — How culture is shaped daily through decisions, communication, and consistency. 27:30 — Implementing the Six Pillars inside large corporate structures without resistance.
This episode recorded live at the Becker's Spring 2026 Payer Issues Roundtable features Joseph Leach, Market President, Oscar Health. He discusses the growing trust gap in healthcare, how empowering consumers through tools like ICHRA and AI can improve outcomes, and why meeting members where they are is key to balancing cost and experience.In collaboration with Hippocratic AI.
He's built the same wall between himself and God that he's built between himself and you. He goes to church. He prays. He reads the right books. He checks every box. And nothing changes. Not because he's faking it. Because none of it has actually become his. In this video I explain why men in recovery treat God like another item on a to-do list, what an "inherited faith" costs him, and what real spiritual change actually looks like when it starts to happen (it's not what you'd expect). If you're married to a man in recovery, send him to take the free Storm Ready Assessment: https://stormreadymen.com CHAPTERS: 0:00 - The wall he's built 0:17 - Knowledge vs experience 0:43 - The man who feels nothing 1:06 - A God of his understanding 1:40 - What real change looks like 2:36 - The resume for God 3:00 - The loving father 3:58 - The shame raincoat 4:21 - Mountaintop faith fades fast 4:46 - Paying attention 5:25 - You're not his spiritual director 5:43 - The plastic bag story 6:15 - It's not your fault 6:35 - Send him to Storm Ready Men 6:54 - Next episode: self-acceptance #thecouplecure #betrayaltrauma #marriagerecovery #partnerrecovery #faithandrecovery #healingafterbetrayal #shamerecovery #addictionrecovery -- Next Steps & Resources: • Explore the C.U.R.E. Method: https://thecouplecure.com • Join Storm Ready Men: https://stormreadymen.com • The Basics of Rebuilding Trust: https://jayandloripyatt.gumroad.com/l/LzMJm • New to the Channel? Start with our 5 seasons of foundational content here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLitabWxO9iDI1-ByymvBpwaiTB0sozSjL We want to hear from you—how can we best support you in this new season? Let us know in the comments. To Say Thanks ("Tip Jar") - https://buy.stripe.com/8wM6pe74F9LsdkA8ww -- Who is This Channel For? If your marriage has been impacted by addiction — whether you're the one struggling or the one carrying the pain — this channel is for you. Our marriage was nearly destroyed by Jay's compulsive pornography use. We found a way through it. Now, as Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, we help couples find the peace, trust, and connection they're looking for. #TheCoupleCure #BetrayalTrauma #ShameRaincoat #BetrayedWife #MarriageRecovery #BrokenTrust #RecoveryJourney #EmotionalIntimacy #RelationalStorms #StormReadyMen #MensMentalHealth #HusbandRecovery #HealingAfterBetrayal
In this solo episode, I dig into what so many parents of teens wrestle with: rebuilding trust after your kid has hurt or scared you. I explore why hypervigilance is a trauma response and not a character flaw, the difference between earned trust and naive trust, why the body holds on even when our mind wants to move on, and how doing your own healing work matters as much as anything they do. Tender, real, and full of practical tools. Bio: Casey O'Roarty, M.Ed., is a Positive Discipline Lead Trainer, parent coach, speaker, and author of Joyful Courage: Calming the Drama and Taking Control of YOUR Parenting Journey. She's been supporting parents and families for over 20 years and hosts the Joyful Courage Podcast, where she holds space for parents of tweens and teens navigating the messy terrain of adolescence. She's the mom of two young adult kids and the captain of the adolescent ship at Be Sproutable. Find more info and show notes at: https://www.besproutable.com/podcasts/eps-651-rebuilding-trust-with-our-teens/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
What if the future of network marketing doesn’t depend on better strategies, but on rebuilding trust? In this episode of the Direct Selling Accelerator Podcast, Sam sits down with Gordon Hester, a Direct Selling transformation expert and founder of Shapetech Solutions, to explore how the industry is evolving and what it will take to move forward with credibility and confidence. They unpack the roles of storytelling, leadership, and consumer focus in shaping the future of direct selling, and why the industry's narrative needs to change. From the importance of sharing real, positive experiences to understanding the impact of growing competition, this conversation highlights what’s missing and what needs to shift. If you want to build a business that’s sustainable, trusted, and relevant, this episode offers a powerful perspective on what comes next. Here’s the Key Insights from our conversation:➡ 14:33 The Power of Testimonials & Stories➡ 17:33 Skills People Gain from Direct Selling➡ 20:33 Why Trust Is Broken and How to Fix It➡ 25:00 The Danger of Losing Community & Events➡ 25:45 Affiliate vs Network Marketing Debate➡ 32:00 Inside the Florida Direct Selling Coalition➡ 40:00 Why Simplicity Wins for New Distributors➡ 45:27 Changing the Industry Through Content➡ 48:09 Superpower: Mastering AI➡ 52:00 Avoid Toxic Relationships About our guest Gordon Hester: Gordon’s area of expertise is with direct selling businesses that use an independent contractor entrepreneurial model to market products and services to a large global customer base. Today, much of his time is spent helping companies evolve their businesses to ensure they are relevant and competitive in a business environment driven by customers, technology and data. His 30+ years in Direct Selling has uniquely prepared him to be a transformative change agent. He has extensive experience with field leaders and has coached successful Direct Selling entrepreneurs in many global markets. Much of Gordon’s work since 2016 has been focused on modernization initiatives. Today, the speed and magnitude of change is forcing companies to transform all areas of their business. Gordon’s technology company, Shapetech Solutions, LLC, has enabled him to help companies with innovative technology solutions focused on strengthening their business both operationally and with their independent salesforce. Today, that is the core focus of both his consulting and technology business. Connect with Gordon Hester: ➡ Gordon Hester’s email: gordon@hesterconsulting.com ➡ Gordon Hester’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gordonhester ➡ Gordon Hester’s website: https://hesterconsulting.com/ ➡ Gordon Hester’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gordondhester?locale=sr_RS Resources: Looking for more? ➡ On the Podcast: https://youtu.be/gEvZfbSzfdI ➡ Currently Reading: The Science of Scaling https://bit.ly/4m3Igm4 Authentic Happiness https://bit.ly/4sb6w7l ➡ Favourite Quote: “God promises nobody a tomorrow, so make the best out of today” Free Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/socialmediafordirectsellerswithgregandsam/ Are you ready to keep growing? Learn more about joining the Auxano Family - https://go.auxano.global/welcome Connect with Direct Selling Accelerator: ➡ Visit our website: https://www.auxano.global/ ➡ Subscribe to YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/DirectSellingAccelerator ➡ Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/auxanomarketing/ ➡ Sam Hind’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/samhinddigitalcoach ➡ Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/auxanomarketing/ ➡ Email us: community_manager@auxano.global If you have any podcast suggestions or things you’d like to learn about specifically, please send us an email at the address above. And if you liked this episode, please don’t forget to subscribe, tune in, and share this podcast. Are you ready to join the Auxano Family to get live weekly training, support and the latest proven posting strategies to get leads and sales right now - find out more here: https://go.auxano.global/welcomeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Abundant Wellness With Andrea- From Surviving to Thriving in Mind, Body and Spirit
Andrea, a functional health practitioner and RN, interviews Dr. Tony, a chiropractor focused on nervous system healing, about why neurodevelopmental disorders and related issues are exploding. Dr. Tony says the root is not genetics but a “perfect storm” of toxic overload (inhaled, ingested, or injected), high maternal stress during pregnancy that wires sympathetic dominance and suppresses vagal development, and birth interventions/trauma (e.g., forceps, vacuum, C-section, inductions) impacting the brainstem, vagus nerve, and motor-sensory systems. He explains many families come after exhausting conventional routes, and outlines his 3-step process: deep case history (“CSI”), objective nervous system scans/exam, and a personalized plan including pacing and often pausing other interventions so nervous system care can take effect and make therapies like detox, speech, and OT work better. They also discuss grief, validation, parent nervous system regulation, and where to find his podcast and Instagram. 00:00 Welcome and Intro 01:25 Dr Tony Origin Story 03:31 From Pain to Purpose 04:35 Last Resort Families 09:44 Rebuilding Trust 13:10 Three Step Care Plan 18:25 Pacing and PANS 20:29 Personal Crisis Lessons 23:06 Why Disorders Rising 24:34 Patterns In Sick Kids 25:25 Toxic Overload Upstream 26:50 Maternal Stress Wiring 28:34 Birth Interventions Impact 29:58 Perfect Storm Timeline 31:27 Parent Story And PANDAS 33:14 Grief Without Shame 38:54 Nervous System First 40:00 Movement And Proprioception 42:53 Pause To Optimize Healing 45:10 Where To Find Dr Tony Not sure where to start? Schedule a Strong Start Discovery Call with Andrea today!
For this episode, we are joined by Dr Shingisai Chando, a published academic and Research Fellow of the POCHE Indigenous Health Centre at the University of Sydney to unpack the question: what does it mean for healthcare systems to be culturally safe? A big question, but one Shingisai tackles with detail and depth. Dr Chando talks to us about how cultural competence changes in different health contexts and across different communities but emphasises the underlying issues of racism in the workplace, as well as the importance of trust, belonging, and true community engagement to build trust. Produced by: Adubi Plange, Dr Amy McHugh, Sarah Mashman Podcast Artwork: Zein Arif Resources: Below are some of Shingisai's academic works related to this episode of the Cultural Competence Collective: Article: Chando, S., Howell, M., Dickson, M., Jaure, A., Craig, J., Eades, S., Howard, K. (2024). Factors informing funding of health services for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander children: perspectives of decision-makers. Australian Journal of Primary Health, 30(5), PY24054 Article: Chando, S., Dickson, M., Howell, M., Jaure, A., Craig, J., Slater, K., Smith, N., Nixon, J., Eades, S., Howard, K. (2022). Delivering health programs for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander children: Carer and staff views on what's important. Health Promotion Journal of Australia, 33(S1), 222-234. Article: Chando, S., Howell, M., Young, C., Craig, J., Eades, S., Dickson, M., Howard, K. (2021). Outcomes reported in evaluations of programs designed to improve health in Indigenous people. Health Services Research, 56(6), 1114-1125 Mental Health Support Services: For University of Sydney staff: CONVERGE Converge offers multiple dedicated helplines for specialist services: All staff: 1300 687 327 First Nations helpline: 1300 287 432 LGBTQIA+ Helpline: 1300 542 874 Domestic and Family Violence Helpline: 1300 338 465 Aged Care Helpline: 1300 035 337 Disability and Carers Helpline: 1300 243 543 Youth and Student Helpline: 1300 687 399 Spiritual and Pastoral Care Helpline: 1300 772 435 www.convergeinternational.com.au Wellmob – social, emotional and cultural wellbeing resources for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people https://wellmob.org.au/ 24-hour crisis hotlines 13 Yarn Beyond Blue LifeLine: NSW Mental Health Line Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network
For this episode, we are joined by Dr Shingisai Chando, a published academic and Research Fellow of the POCHE Indigenous Health Centre at the University of Sydney to unpack the question: what does it mean for healthcare systems to be culturally safe? A big question, but one Shingisai tackles with detail and depth. Dr Chando talks to us about how cultural competence changes in different health contexts and across different communities but emphasises the underlying issues of racism in the workplace, as well as the importance of trust, belonging, and true community engagement to build trust. Produced by: Adubi Plange, Dr Amy McHugh, Sarah Mashman Podcast Artwork: Zein Arif Resources: Below are some of Shingisai's academic works related to this episode of the Cultural Competence Collective: Article: Chando, S., Howell, M., Dickson, M., Jaure, A., Craig, J., Eades, S., Howard, K. (2024). Factors informing funding of health services for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander children: perspectives of decision-makers. Australian Journal of Primary Health, 30(5), PY24054 Article: Chando, S., Dickson, M., Howell, M., Jaure, A., Craig, J., Slater, K., Smith, N., Nixon, J., Eades, S., Howard, K. (2022). Delivering health programs for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander children: Carer and staff views on what's important. Health Promotion Journal of Australia, 33(S1), 222-234. Article: Chando, S., Howell, M., Young, C., Craig, J., Eades, S., Dickson, M., Howard, K. (2021). Outcomes reported in evaluations of programs designed to improve health in Indigenous people. Health Services Research, 56(6), 1114-1125 Mental Health Support Services: For University of Sydney staff: CONVERGE Converge offers multiple dedicated helplines for specialist services: All staff: 1300 687 327 First Nations helpline: 1300 287 432 LGBTQIA+ Helpline: 1300 542 874 Domestic and Family Violence Helpline: 1300 338 465 Aged Care Helpline: 1300 035 337 Disability and Carers Helpline: 1300 243 543 Youth and Student Helpline: 1300 687 399 Spiritual and Pastoral Care Helpline: 1300 772 435 www.convergeinternational.com.au Wellmob – social, emotional and cultural wellbeing resources for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people https://wellmob.org.au/ 24-hour crisis hotlines 13 Yarn Beyond Blue LifeLine: NSW Mental Health Line Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/medicine
Will SEC guidance stick around if the administration changes? Commissioner Peirce and Sumeera Younis of the Crypto Task Force answer. Thanks to our sponsors! * Citrea — Bitcoin changed how money works. Citrea changes how Bitcoin scales. Trust-minimized BTC on a fully programmable platform with native stablecoin CTUSD. Get started at citrea.xyz/unchained * Ether.fi — 15% cash back on groceries, restaurants, and rideshares. 3% on everything else. Borrow against holdings at 4% or less. Earn up to 8% APY. Go to ether.fi/unchained. * Multichain Advisors — Emerging technology growth firm with $50B+ in enterprise value created for 80+ clients. TGEs, go-to-market, BD, capital markets advisory, and more. Visit multichainadv.com. The SEC's Crypto Task Force has spent over a year rebuilding a relationship the industry feared was broken for good. Commissioner Hester Peirce and task force Chief of Operations Sumeera Younis explain how the SEC prioritizes crypto policy questions, why tokenization leads the agenda, and what happens to this guidance when the administration changes. They tackle the gap between large players shaping policy and small builders who want clear instructions, reveal how the SEC and CFTC coordinate to prevent jurisdictional conflicts, and argue that smart contracts and AI could reinvent securities disclosure. Hosts: Katherine Kirkpatrick Bos, General Counsel at StarkWare. Previously held senior legal roles across DeFi and centralized exchanges. Jessi Brooks, General Counsel at Ribbit Capital TuongVy Le, General Counsel at Veda Guests: Commissioner Hester Peirce, U.S. Securities and Exchange Commission Sumeera Younis, Chief of Operations, SEC Crypto Task Force Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of the Tactical Living Podcast, hosts Coach Ashlie Walton and Sergeant Clint Walton talk about a deeply personal struggle many first responders face but rarely voice: the feeling that faith has shifted, quieted, or grown distant after repeated exposure to trauma, loss, and moral complexity on the job. This episode isn't about losing faith—it's about navigating disillusionment, unanswered questions, and the emotional distance that can develop between belief and lived experience. When the job changes how you see suffering, justice, and humanity, your relationship with God can feel unfamiliar.
In this episode of Breaking the Rules, we explore one of the most frustrating and often misunderstood impacts of OCD - how it interferes with studying, productivity, and performance at work.For many people, OCD hides behind traits that are often praised: diligence, responsibility, perfectionism, and attention to detail. But beneath the surface, what may look like hard work or conscientiousness can actually be hours of painful compulsions, paralysis, and mental exhaustion.We unpack how OCD shows up in school, university, and the workplace — from endlessly rewriting emails and rereading textbooks, to missed deadlines, avoidance, and overwhelming fatigue. We also discuss how these patterns can sometimes be mistaken for ADHD, learning difficulties, or lack of motivation, making accurate assessment and treatment even more important.Most importantly, we share practical strategies clinicians and individuals can use to support functioning while treating the underlying OCD.In this episode we discuss:Why OCD often becomes most visible in study and work environmentsHow compulsions like checking, rereading, researching, and reassurance seeking sabotage productivityThe difference between perfectionism and OCD paralysisWhy OCD is often misinterpreted as ADHD or executive dysfunctionThe emotional toll of feeling “ineffective” despite working incredibly hardStrategies for managing compulsions while studying or workingSetting limits around checking, researching, and rewritingLearning the practice of “good enough”Rebuilding trust in your own judgement after OCDUsing values to guide action when motivation disappears
It's not your fault that your words don't get through. Your husband carries something called a shame raincoat. Every affirmation, every positive thing you say hits that raincoat and washes away. Not because your words are wrong. Because the shame keeps telling him he's broken. That raincoat doesn't come off in contact with you. It comes off when he connects with other men who say "I've been there." Not men who make his behavior okay. Men who call him out and make it okay for him to change. In this video I explain why he's isolated, why your words feel ineffective, and what kind of relationships he actually needs to begin healing. This isn't about giving him permission to hang out with the boys. This is about building something he's probably never learned how to do. Send him to the Storm Ready Men channel: [link] Take the free assessment: https://stormreadymen.com Timestamps 00:00 - It's Not Your Fault 00:10 - The Shame Raincoat 00:43 - Why Your Words Don't Get Through 01:33 - How the Shame Comes Off 02:06 - It's Not Your Fault (His Beliefs Keep Him Stuck) 02:28 - Why He's Isolated 02:53 - Enabling vs Real Accountability 03:16 - He Needs an Inner Circle 03:55 - I Was in a Room Full of People and Felt Alone 04:25 - How to Build Deeper Relationships 05:14 - Polite Distant Conversations 05:53 - Learning to Be Vulnerable 06:16 - What Storm Ready Men Is About 06:58 - What I Want for Your Husband 07:20 - Why I Built Storm Ready 07:45 - This Is Not Permission to Hang Out 08:15 - The Kind of Men I Want Him to Find 08:44 - Take the Assessment -- Next Steps & Resources: • Explore the C.U.R.E. Method: https://thecouplecure.com • Join Storm Ready Men: https://stormreadymen.com • The Basics of Rebuilding Trust: https://jayandloripyatt.gumroad.com/l/LzMJm • New to the Channel? Start with our 5 seasons of foundational content here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLitabWxO9iDI1-ByymvBpwaiTB0sozSjL We want to hear from you—how can we best support you in this new season? Let us know in the comments. To Say Thanks ("Tip Jar") - https://buy.stripe.com/8wM6pe74F9LsdkA8ww -- Who is This Channel For? If your marriage has been impacted by addiction — whether you're the one struggling or the one carrying the pain — this channel is for you. Our marriage was nearly destroyed by Jay's compulsive pornography use. We found a way through it. Now, as Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, we help couples find the peace, trust, and connection they're looking for. #TheCoupleCure #BetrayalTrauma #ShameRaincoat #BetrayedWife #MarriageRecovery #BrokenTrust #RecoveryJourney #EmotionalIntimacy #RelationalStorms #StormReadyMen #MensMentalHealth #HusbandRecovery #HealingAfterBetrayal
Nurturing your relationship with yourself and your body can play a meaningful role in how you move forward from a mental health setback.Nicole Laurent shares a grounded, compassionate perspective on navigating setbacks. She explores how these moments can sometimes disrupt trust in ourselves, creating an internal tension that makes progress feel harder than it needs to be.She explores:Why setbacks can shake trust in your body, and how to rebuild itHow to approach challenges with curiosity instead of self-judgmentCommon triggers that can lead to going off trackHow mindset and framing influence long-term successHow your relationship with food and your body can evolve over timeThe key takeaway: setbacks are part of the learning process. Reconnecting with the idea that your body is working toward balance can help you move forward with more clarity, confidence, and resilience.
Rural Health Today welcomes Dr. Ross Ramsey, president and chief executive officer at Scheurer Health, as this week's guest. In this episode we'll talk about how the trust between physicians, patients and health organizations has been fractured in rural health, and what it will take to repair that trust. Dr. Ramsey will share his perspective on how rural hospitals can build relationships with their communities and how it benefits patients to do so. We'll talk about health literacy, social determinants of health and what it all has to do with rural health. Follow Rural Health Today on social media! https://x.com/RuralHealthPod https://www.youtube.com/@ruralhealthtoday7665 Follow Hillsdale Hospital on social media! https://www.facebook.com/hillsdalehospital/ https://www.twitter.com/hillsdalehosp/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/hillsdale-community-health-center/ https://www.instagram.com/hillsdalehospital/ Follow our guest! https://www.linkedin.com/in/rossramsey/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/scheurerhealth/ https://www.facebook.com/ScheurerHealth
This week, CJ shares a heartbreaking story from his classroom week after losing one of the family cats just before school started, and talks honestly about what it looks like to teach when life feels heavy. He answers questions about becoming a teacher resource, rebuilding trust with disconnected classes, making SEL lessons more meaningful, preparing students for major exams, using AI ethically, gardening, spring behavior shifts, getting into teaching later in life, and the difference between clear expectations and a harsh “no excuses” mindset.Chapters0:00 Episode 343 and a tough week emotionally1:10 New website update and newsletter mention2:05 Losing the family cat and teaching through grief5:20 It is okay to show up without pretending everything is fine6:37 Ernesto's question: how to become a teacher resource9:32 Ruth's question: rebuilding trust with a class trained not to care17:30 Heather's conference update and speaking invite note18:18 Ruth's question: making SEL lessons actually engaging22:10 Geography Teacher's question: reviewing for a national geography test27:08 Mandy's question: is it okay to use AI for evaluation responses?34:18 Mallory's question: beginner gardening tips and where to start41:20 Logos Project's question: why students dip before break46:20 Switching into teaching from engineering50:03 Advice for an 18-year-old future teacher54:12 Mentoring reminder and coaching wins55:42 Sweden question: the “no excuses” approach to education1:03:40 Technology in teaching: tool or crutch?1:06:00 Final encouragement and closing_____________________________________________________
Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.If you're struggling to let your husband lead again… you're not crazy.You're not “too much.”Your body remembers what your mind keeps trying to forgive.In this Marriage Q&A, Nicole shares what happens after trust gets cracked: job loss stress, family crisis, emotional pressure, and the fear that if she's not “enough,” he'll go find someone else.And then the roles flip — he starts doing the work… and she starts spiraling.We break down the TRUTH most couples miss:Intimacy is a ladder. Sex is at the top. Emotional safety is the foundation.If you skip the foundation, you'll use sex to manage insecurity… not to build connection.In this episode, we talk about:How insecurity hijacks your nervous system after betrayalWhy “letting him lead” feels unsafe (even when he's changing)The difference between connection and copingHow sex can mask deeper intimacy issues in marriageHow to stop feeding the “insecurity monster” and start rebuilding trustIf you're in a marriage after betrayal, porn use, emotional disconnection, or a cycle of blowups + honeymoon phases… this one's for you.
Why I Stayed After 15 Years of Infidelity — The Honest Truth About Rebuilding Trust What if staying after betrayal wasn't weakness, denial, or fear — but one of the most conscious, self-respecting decisions a person could make? In this deeply personal episode, Lora answers one of the hardest and most frequently asked questions of her life: Why did you stay? After years of infidelity, heartbreak, and shattered trust, she shares the honest, nuanced truth behind her decision to remain, heal, and rebuild. This is not a story about excusing betrayal, minimizing pain, or pretending the past didn't happen. It's a story about truth, justice, self-respect, and the courage to stay present long enough to see whether something truly new could be built. Lora explores the assumptions people make about women who stay, the difference between blind loyalty and conscious choice, and the emotional, relational, and spiritual work that real reconciliation requires. She also speaks candidly about love, risk, accountability, integration, and why healing is never about replaying the worst moment of your life forever. If you've ever wondered whether someone can love you and still betray you, whether staying means you're weak, or what it actually takes to rebuild trust after infidelity, this episode offers a raw, grounded, and powerfully clarifying perspective. Top 3 Takeaways 1. Staying after betrayal is not the same as accepting anything. Lora did not stay “no matter what.” She stayed present, kept listening to herself, and continued choosing based on what was actually happening in the relationship. 2. Reconciliation only works when truth, accountability, and repair are real. You cannot heal by pretending it didn't happen. Rebuilding trust requires full truth, real change, emotional honesty, and the willingness to create an entirely new relationship. 3. The goal is not just saving the relationship — it's reclaiming yourself. Whether you stay or leave, the deeper work is learning to honor your values, trust your own discernment, and move forward without bitterness. Pull Quotes “Staying isn't blind loyalty. It's conscious participation in whether something new is actually being built.” “I didn't stay because I was afraid to leave. I stayed because I trusted myself to keep choosing based on what was actually happening.” Hashtags About Lora Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt is a former attorney turned betrayal recovery coach, hypnotherapist, and author who helps women rebuild their identity and reclaim their power after infidelity and profound emotional betrayal. Using her signature Life Choreography® approach, she integrates legal insight, nervous system regulation, somatic practices, and deep spiritual support to help clients move from shattered to sovereign. Resources & Links Download the free Betrayal Recovery Guide: https://betrayalrecoveryguide.com Book your $97 Intro Session: https://introductorysession.com Learn more about Rise & Reign: https://loracheadle.com/rise-and-reign Follow on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook @loracheadle LOVE THE SHOW? TAKE THE NEXT STEP Don't just listen—start healing. Download your FREE Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit and take back your power with clarity, confidence, and support that meets you where you are. ✅ Calm the chaos ✅ Rebuild self-trust ✅ Stop the spiral of second-guessing ✅ Reclaim your worth and your future Download Now ➜ www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com (MAKE THIS A BUTTON) You deserve more than survival. You deserve sovereignty, peace, and joy. Books By Lora • International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help 2021 • Tattered Cover Bestseller 2019 Are you tired of living a life dictated by others? If you've felt trapped by expectations and long o be free, FLAUNT! is the key to unlocking who you are, expressing yourself authentically, and choreographing your life your way. Reclaim yourself with this transformative guide that empowers you to strip away societal expectations and reveal your smart, sexy, and spiritual self. Through a unique blend of humor, wisdom, and actionable steps, you can uncover your deepest desires and build the confidence to live a life full of passion and purpose. Buy Now on Amazon, or wherever books are sold. It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive, is the essential guide for burnout and betrayal relief. Packed with insight and practical tools, this book is a must-have for individuals, teams, and leaders alike. Available on Amazon. Learn more at www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Hashtags: #WhyIStayed #InfidelityRecovery #BetrayalRecovery #RebuildingTrust #HealingAfterInfidelity #RelationshipRepair #SelfTrust #ConsciousReconciliation #FLAUNTPodcast #LoraCheadle
In this episode of Uncommon Sense with Ginny Robinson, we're breaking down current events that should have everyone asking deeper questions and not just passively scrolling past them.Why are the Epstein files still not fully released? Why are there still no real Epstein trials? And why does it feel like the conversation keeps shifting right when accountability should be front and center?We're talking about Donald Trump, the ongoing silence surrounding Epstein files-related justice, and the growing tensions that are pushing us closer to global conflict. Is it all coincidence or is distraction the entire point?I'm discussing the idea that war, chaos, and constant petty headlines can be used to redirect public attention away from uncomfortable truths. And more importantly, I challenge the mindset that's keeping people passive:The obsession with “being nice.”Niceness is not a fruit of the Spirit.Kindness is, but kindness does not mean tolerating evil, ignoring corruption, or staying silent when truth is inconvenient for you.Our current culture rewards passivity and punishes boldness, but we have to ask:Are we ignoring evil to protect our image?Have we confused politeness with righteousness?And what happens to a society that refuses to confront what is wrong?Evil doesn't retreat when it's ignored.It advances when good people stay quiet and do nothing.Stop acting like nothing is different when everything has changed.--https://www.youversion.com/bible-app
How to Quit Your Job: A Mom's Guide to Creating a Life and Business You Love
Have you ever felt stuck, like you're spinning your wheels with no clear way forward? As moms, it's easy to feel overwhelmed by all the demands on our time and energy. In this episode, I dive into the journey of rebuilding trust in yourself. I share why feeling stuck doesn't mean you're failing; it's simply a signal that change is needed. I walk you through how to shift this mindset so you can move from feeling stuck to feeling empowered and aligned with your goals. For more information, transcript, and show notes, click here: jenna.coach/97 Join me for a free consultation by clicking here: https://mom.jenna.coach/apply You're invited to join us every 2nd Thursday for my free Mom Entrepreneurs Circle. Sign up here: https://mom.jenna.coach/circle Keep up with me on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenna-rykiel and Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/jrykiel3 If you enjoy the show, please follow, rate, review, and share the podcast! Your support helps the show reach moms just like you who are ready to quit their 9-to-5 in pursuit of a life and business they love. Click here for instructions on how to leave a review: https://jenna.coach/podcast/podcastlaunch
Connor Beaton joins James Smith to reveal the uncomfortable truth about self-sabotage. Far from being a simple lack of discipline, self-sabotage is a sophisticated survival strategy your brain uses to maintain control. Beaton explains why your psyche would rather choose a familiar disaster over an unfamiliar victory, keeping you locked in a cycle of destructive behavior to protect a fragile sense of identity.
Confidence is often seen as something you either have or don't. But what if that's not true at all? Simone Knego has spent years helping women unpack the stories that keep them stuck in self-doubt, overthinking, and the constant pressure to be "more." In this conversation, she shares how confidence isn't built through perfection, achievement, or external validation — it's built by learning to trust yourself exactly as you are. Chuck and Simone dive into the hidden patterns that quietly shape how we see ourselves, why so many high-achieving women still feel "not enough," and what it actually takes to shift from uncertainty to a grounded, unshakeable sense of self. Through personal stories, practical insight, and honest reflection, this episode offers a refreshing and accessible path to confidence that feels real, sustainable, and deeply personal. Guest Bio Simone Knego is an international speaker, award-winning author, and empowerment coach dedicated to helping women rewrite the stories they tell themselves and build lasting confidence from within. She is the bestselling author of The Extraordinary UnOrdinary You and the creator of the REAL Method™, a framework designed to help ambitious women overcome self-doubt, reconnect with their worth, and lead with clarity and courage. Her newest book, REAL Confidence: A Simple Guide to Go from Unsure to Unshakeable (2026), expands on this work by offering a practical and heartfelt roadmap to building confidence without striving for perfection. A two-time TEDx speaker, Simone's work has been featured on major media outlets including ABC, NBC, CBS, Entrepreneur Magazine, and Yahoo News. She is also the co-host of the globally ranked podcast Her Unshakeable Confidence, which she hosts alongside her daughter. You'll hear About Why confidence isn't something you're born with or without The hidden stories that shape how you see yourself How high-achievers can still feel stuck in self-doubt What it means to build confidence from the inside out Simple, practical shifts to move from unsure to unshakeable Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Episode Introduction 02:15 Simone's Journey and Defining Confidence 05:45 The Myth of Confidence and Where It Really Comes From 10:30 The Stories We Tell Ourselves 15:20 Why High-Achieving Women Still Feel "Not Enough" 20:10 Letting Go of Perfection and External Validation 25:00 The REAL Method™ Explained 30:40 Rebuilding Trust in Yourself 35:20 Confidence in Everyday Life and Leadership 40:15 Navigating Doubt, Fear, and Comparison 44:30 Practical Steps to Build Unshakeable Confidence 48:00 Final Reflections and Takeaways Chuck's Challenge This week, notice the story you're telling yourself in moments of doubt. Instead of immediately believing it, pause and ask, "Is this actually true, or is this just a pattern I've learned?" Choose one small moment to respond differently and see what shifts. Connect with Simone Knego Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SpeakerSimoneKnego Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/simoneknego/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/simoneknego YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@her_unshakeable_confidence Connect with Chuck Check out the website: https://www.thecompassionateconnection.com/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chuck-thuss-a9aa044/ Follow on Instagram: @warriorsunmasked Join the Warriors Unmasked community by subscribing to the show. Together, we're breaking stigmas and shining a light on mental health, one story at a time.
How to Reconcile When Your Wife Is Angry and Doesn't Trust You When your wife stays angry and distrustful, it is easy to push harder with logic, apologies, or pressure and end up making the distance worse. This episode helps you understand what may be driving her anger and how to respond in ways that lower defensiveness, rebuild trust over time, and keep you from giving up too soon.What You'll Learn: How to recognize different reasons your wife may be angry or unable to trust you What to do when reassurance, logic, or repeated apologies are making things worse How boundaries can reduce destructive patterns without becoming threats or pressure What rebuilding connection looks like when trust has been deeply damaged Want to Work With Coach Jack? If you want help applying these principles in a steady, practical way, Coach Jack's Re-Connections Coaching Package can help you rebuild connection, improve your responses, and create the consistency needed for trust to grow again.Key Takeaways: Feelings have to be addressed at the emotional level, not argued away with logic. Anger and distrust can come from insecurity, punishment, self-protection, or emotional detachment. Reassurance given on demand can strengthen unhealthy testing patterns. Boundaries work best when they are loving, consistent, and never used as threats. Rebuilding trust usually starts with empathy, validation, connection, and time. Additional Resources: Re-Connections Coaching Package Overcoming Neediness and Get the Love You Want, by Jack Ito PhDFree downloads to help your spouse enjoy talking with you againWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.
In this episode of Healing with Worth, Marquelle and Lauren talk about the difficult space many women face during betrayal trauma recovery—when a husband is working on his recovery and becoming safer, but the fear of being hurt again still lingers. They discuss the challenge of learning to trust again, the courage it takes to even consider rebuilding a relationship, and how protective coping patterns developed during survival can sometimes keep us stuck. They explore how healing, forgiveness, and faith in Jesus Christ can help soften a guarded heart, create space for growth, and move forward with greater peace. Whether you are still in the raw stages of betrayal trauma or beginning to consider repairing your relationship, this conversation offers compassion, perspective, and practical encouragement for taking the next step on the path of healing.
What happens when an allergist steps into the online world and starts breaking down headlines in real time? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Zachary Rubin, board certified allergist and immunologist, content creator, and now author of All About Allergies. We talk about why allergy misinformation spreads so easily, why “allergy” is not a catch all term, and how social media has unexpectedly made him a better clinician. We also get honest about the current state of medicine. Burnout. Insurance barriers. The time crunch in clinic. And why rebuilding trust between families and physicians starts with better communication, humility, and human connection. This is a conversation about nuance in a world that craves certainty, and why meeting families where they are matters more than ever. In this episode, we discuss: • Why “sensitization does not equal allergy” and what that actually means • The difference between allergy, intolerance, and sensitivity • Why food sensitivity tests are often misleading • The truth about local honey and seasonal allergies • Shellfish allergy and contrast dye myths • Egg allergy and flu vaccine misconceptions • Why 90 percent of reported penicillin allergies are not true allergies • How timing and rash characteristics matter when evaluating antibiotic reactions • The explosion of biologic medications and the hidden burden of insurance approvals • How social media can improve doctor patient communication • The role of humility and nuance in rebuilding trust • Humanizing doctors and why connection is powerful medicine To connect with Dr. Zachary Rubin follow him on Instagram @rubin_allergy, check out all his resources at linktr.ee/rubin_allergy and buy his book “All About Allergies!”: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/790561/all-about-allergies-by-zachary-rubin-md 00:00 Allergy Is Not a Catch-All Term 02:37 Why Dr. Rubin Went Online 09:27 Why This Book Had to Exist 12:59 What Parents Are Most Anxious About Today 15:10 Why Food Allergy Testing Is Often Misused 16:38 Allergy vs. Intolerance vs. Sensitivity 22:01 The Obsession With Blood Work 24:57 The Systems Problem in Medicine 34:08 Rebuilding Trust in Medicine 38:51 How Social Media Made Him a Better Doctor 43:53 Allergy Myths That Need to Go 48:57 The Penicillin Allergy Problem 50:55 Rashes, Timing, and True Drug Reactions Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and subscribe to PedsDocTalk. Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. Join the newsletter! And don't forget to follow @pedsdoctalkpodcast on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships page of the website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices