Dating While Adulting

In today's episode, we talk about the power that women have to run the world and get whatever they want. 

In today's episode, we're back from our hiatus and we talk about the benefits of the single life, scientifically.The article referenced in the podcast can be found at https://www.insider.com/reasons-youre-better-off-being-single-according-to-science-2019-2

In today's episode, we talk about being weird. While being weird can be celebrated and seen as cool, we wonder if that's the case in relationships.  We also discuss where “weird” comes from.We close by mentioning Canadian Prime Minister, Justin Trudeau's separation from his wife of 18 years.

In today's episode, we try to figure out what women mean when they want slow, casual, friendly relationships.  While guys assume that to mean one thing, sometimes women don't agree. We also end the show by talking about Sinead O'Connor and the divorce of Beyonce's mom, Tina Knowles.

In today's episode, we talk about the reactions to ghosting and how we let the extremes of our thinking give us the wrong assessments about it. 

In today's episode, we talk about lessons that were, and are, taught to little boys and girls, and how those things are plaguing us as men and women. 

In today's episode, we invite our old friend, Garnett, to the show to talk about - stuff.

In today's episode, we bust yet another myth. This one involves women and sex.  And we also talk about the fella's contributions to all of this. 

In today's episode, we talk about how some of the ladies feel like they might have more time than they actually do, when it comes to this love thing.

In today's episodes, we talk about the gender stereotypes that continue to divide us and keep us from having happy, healthy, sustainable relationships.And we end the episode by sending a shout out to Trugoy the Dove, from the group, De la Soul. 

Because turnabout is fair play, in today's episode, we talk to the ladies about how dating has changed from the “Around The Way Girl” days of the 90s, to today. We end by spending a little (very little) time on Kanye West's latest marriage rumor, and get serious by talking about Darius Miles. 

In today's episode, we talk to the fellas about how dating has changed from the “Around The Way Girl” days of the 90s, to today. And of course, we invite the ladies to agree or disagree. 

In today's episode, we talk about Tory Lanez shooting Megan Thee Stallion and the larger impact. And we end by shouting out Anita Pointer, the last original Pointer Sister.

In the spirit of the holidays, we review Netflix's “The Noel Diaries” and reflect on how movies like this, make dating even harder for us all. 

In today's episode, we start by talking about TJ Holmes' and Amy Robach's affairs and what we think might be the issue, not necessarily with them, but with relationships, in general.Then, sadly, we transition to the untimely death of tWitch.

In today's episode, we spend time talking about the love (and divorce) of Rupert Murdoch and Jerry Hall, and how it gives older people hope. And we end the show by talking about Irene Cara and the value of living your life to the fullest. Oh yeah, we had our 2 year anniversary.  Who would have thunk it?

In today's episode, we talk about the importance of having a lot in common in a relationship, instead of trying to force someone to do what you want them to do and like. We also, unfortunately, talk about Kanye and refer to a previous episode where we questioned him the choices by women to date him.  Then we end by congratulating Nick Cannon on baby number 4 - of the year. 

In today's episode, we explore what could be dishonest first date appearance and where the line is between dishonest and “real”And we end by celebrating the love of Robert Kraft and his beautiful, new bride.

In today's episode, we spend time talking about 2022's record year for marriages and what that means in the grand scheme of things. We also talk about the divorces of Mckenzie Scott and Marjorie Taylor Greene. We close with a talk about Coolio's death.

In today's episode, we talk about Rachel Dollard and question what constitutes real love. We also end the show by shouting out Sheryl Underwood.

In today's episode, we talk about the many ways that we limit our own dating options, while blaming society.  And we point out yet another divorce of a couple that's been married for more than 20 years.   

In today's episode, we talk about Michelle Branch's domestic violence arrest and use it to discuss tradition vs new, evolved ways of thinking in relationships.

In today's episode, we discuss several different “relationship” issues involving a variety of people and discuss the criminality and creepiness of each.  What a world we live in.

In today's episode, we analyze forgiveness and, specifically, how much is too much when it comes to dating. 

In today's episode, we cover three topics that prove that traditional relationship thinking is passe.  And to help prove it, we point to Carson Daly, Puffy, and others. 

In today's episode, we talk about the impact of parenting on so many of us being single and how many of us were brought up with unrealistic ideals. 

In today's episode, we finally jump into the Johnny Depp/Amber Heard pool and basically talk about how we don't know what we don't know.

In today's episode, we talk about Casey and Vicky White, a true love story if ever there was one.  But seriously, we talk about loneliness and the power that it possesses. 

In today's episode, we talk about the life and death of Adreian Payne, and the events that led to his untimely passing.  And we end the show by talking about Kevin Samuels, but not from the perspective that you might think.

In today's episode, we openly talk about the impact of family (and friend) input on relationships and the balance that's needed when determining how much input we should take when evaluating relationships. 

In today's episode, we spend some time recapping the purpose of this podcast and then we talk about several couples that are divorcing.  While doing that, we openly wonder why someone who's only relationship responsibility is to be an expert of one other person, fails in marriage.

In today's episode, we talk about the whole Will Smith thing but from a different perspective. The question is, what does protecting your woman/wife mean in this day and age? 

In today's episode, we talk about an article on vice.com that spoke about shorter men needing to make more money to get women.Then we transition to a discussion about Deshaun Watson and the 22 women that are accusing him of sexual misconduct. 

In today's episode, we discuss the options that men and women both have, and how men do a better job of doing more with less.Also, it's Women's Appreciation Month.  We talk about that and acknowledge the rekindling of love between Lisa Bonet and Jason Momoa. 

In today's episode, we talk about the different tiers and how they prevent us from finding our “person” when it comes to relationships and marriage.  Then we transition to MC Lyte and apply her situation to the “tier” discussion.

In today's episode, we talk about another Valentine's Day and how your relationship is doomed if you celebrate it. And since the Superbowl was the day before, we use that as an opportunity to talk about Mary J. Blige and her alimony issues. 

It's as simple as that.  People spend a lot of time talking about communication and so little time talking about being vulnerable and open.  Why is that (or why isn't that)? I don't know that we have an answer but we talk about it.

In today's episode, we talk about how your upbringing affects your relationships and the need to re-wire your thinking when it comes to love.  And we use Jamie Lee Curtis' (of all people) experiences, as an example.

In today's episode, we use Machine Gun Kelly, Megan Fox, and Mick Jagger as examples of the importance in finding your crazy when it comes to love. And we celebrate the life of James Mtume, while not celebrating the breakup of Lisa Bonet and Jason Mamoa.

In today's episode, we talk about actually liking the person that you're with, while evaluating where that fits on everyone's list.We also acknowledge the passing of Max Julien and Sidney Poitier, and discuss their value to this podcast. 

In this episode, we talk about how dating has changed as the years have gone by.  We also review the effects of covid on dating.Happy New Year!

In today's episode, we talk about the 5 Love Languages and talk about what's appropriate and what's not for the holidays.  Or something like that.

Today, in this 100th episode, we reflect on what the last 99 has been like, review the top downloaded episodes, and revisit the 99th episode and some of the topics covered during it. 

In today's extended episode, the fellas open up the show to several guests that joined this 99th show, to celebrate the upcoming 100th show. 

In today's episode, we talk about finding the balance between being comfortable in a relationship, and putting consistent, maximum effort  into a relationship.  While both can have their positives, they both can also have their negatives. Balance is the key.

In today's episode, we spend some time talking about the role that money plays in relationships but not necessarily in the ways that you might think. We also spend a little time talking about Christopher Williams and Thanksgiving.

Today we discuss marriage and why marriage rates are hitting an all time low, year after year.  Is marriage still worth it?  We at the Yahoo! Life article at https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/people-relationships-sharing-why-chose-194602760.html to find out what people are saying about it.

In today's episode, we talk about something that we know absolutely nothing about - perimenopause.  What started out as what we thought would be an innocent article about Tracee Ellis Ross, turned into all of this.  Who knew?

In today's episode, we explore what it means when women list that they're looking for “Casual Relationships” or “Friendship” when they're on an online dating site.  What does it mean?

In today's episode, we spend quite a bit of time talking about Torrei Hart, her new podcast (Breakin' Thru with Torrei), and her unwillingness to give up the Hart name.  And we end by begging for some common, human decency.

In today's episode, we talk about how we contradict ourselves from one episode to the next and how that's more indicative of life than not.  We also talk about the two reasons that have left us feeling encouraged about dating.  Finally, we end by celebrating World Mental Health Day.