Podcasts about Togetherness

Episode 376 For the first time, scientists have mapped Earth's vast underground fungal network - and it's bigger than anyone imagined. Beneath our feet, plants and fungi have a hidden symbiotic relationship, sharing nutrients through fine fungal threads called hyphae. With these new global maps, we're now starting to understand just how important the mycorrhizal network is in keeping the Earth's climate stable - including the extent of the carbon it draws down. But the ecosystems where these networks exist are being stripped back for agriculture and damaged by fungicides - so how can we protect them? To explore this topic, Rowan Hooper is joined by some of the researchers behind the project - Toby Kiers, Tom Shimizu and Merlin Sheldrake. To read more about these stories, visit https://www.newscientist.com/ Find out more about SPUN, the Society for the Protection of Underground Networks: https://www.spun.earth/  See the Mycorrhizal Infrastructure Map: https://a-hidden-infrastructure.spun.earth   Read Rowan's symbiosis book ‘Togetherness': https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/459006/togetherness-by-hooper-rowan/9781911717140 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why do modern men have everything they ever wanted, yet still feel isolated, overworked, and unfulfilled?  In this unfiltered episode of The Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaëton sits down with ultra-endurance athlete, health coach, and Mission 22 advocate Marcus Farris to dissect masculine psychology, extreme physical resilience, and the painful transition from the "Young Warrior" to the "Wise King."  Marcus shares his raw, lived experience of surviving a life-shattering divorce, transitioning out of military team environments, and why voluntary suffering is the ultimate prophylactic against a world that will inevitably punch you in the face. If you are a CEO, entrepreneur, father, or leader trying to break free from the "relevance trap," this clinical, no-BS conversation is your blueprint to rebuild your internal capacity for life.  Chapters: 00:00 - The Shattered Ego: Surviving My Divorce 02:09 - Why Modern Men Avoid Suffering (The Eudaemonia Blueprint) 03:51 - Is Your Life Wound Cynical or Sacred? 05:27 - Strength Is For Service, Not Status (Romans 15 Audit) 07:40 - Muay Thai, Hyrox, and Physical Competence 10:31 - How to Break the Ossified Mind Through Body Movement 13:27 - Pushing Past the Mile 20 Breaking Point (Peaks and Troughs) 19:15 - Escaping the Matrix of Habitual Drinking (My First Sobriety Race) 24:51 - Gen Z Screen Addiction vs. Moving Meditation 28:34 - The Ultimate Ego Audit: Relevance vs. Togetherness 37:00 - The Archetypal Transition: Young Warrior to Wise King 41:25 - How to Properly Validate Yourself (Stopping the Search for Approval) 45:19 - Rebuilding the Paternal Bond: The "Male Mother" Archetype 47:15 - Combating Veteran Suicide: The Mission 22 Movement 48:34 - What Every Man Must Do When Life Gets Heavy   Farris's Links: Website:  Support Mission 22 (Veteran Suicide Prevention): https://mission22.org Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ultrarunfarris/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidcmunson   ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights   

In your Phone Tap, we’re pranking a woman who just wants to add her mom to her cell phone plan. Should be simple enough, but on this show NOTHING is as simple as it seems!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In your Phone Tap, we’re pranking a woman who just wants to add her mom to her cell phone plan. Should be simple enough, but on this show NOTHING is as simple as it seems!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Anthropologist Ashanté Reese's new book explores Black community gatherings—and the nourishment, fellowship, and strength they cultivate. Reese is an anthropologist, author, and Associate Professor of African and African Diaspora Studies at the University of Texas at Austin, where she teaches and writes about food studies and food justice. Her new book is called: Gather: Black Food, Nourishment, and the Art of Togetherness. Reese looks at Black church gardens, family reunions, funerals, and activist spaces—in all of which food plays a powerful role. She shines a light on how food can play a role in everything from nourishing body and soul to building power and food sovereignty. 

One of the great marks of the church of Jesus Christ is unity. Jesus prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane that "we might be one." Paul prays for the church in Corinth the very same things. What does it look like when a church has unity together? Does everyone think and act the same? This week explore how we can heed Jesus' exhortation to be ONE.

Send us Fan MailTogetherness is not a warm slogan, it's the only way we meet the scale of what's in front of us. From the start, we press on a simple question: how do you remember the past honestly without letting it turn into bitterness? In this episode, Bishop Wright has a conversation with Senator Jon Ossoff about faith, leadership, and what it takes to build a better world when the headlines feel like a steady stream of bad news. Ossoff traces his moral education through the legacy of Congressman John Lewis and the civil rights movement in Georgia, including the historic alliance between Black and Jewish communities in the South. He shares the powerful symbolism of being sworn into the US Senate on scripture belonging to Rabbi Jacob Rothschild, the Atlanta rabbi whose temple was bombed in 1958 for supporting Dr. King and the SCLC. They discuss what interfaith coalition building looks like when it's real, not performative, and why serious faith traditions should pull us alongside each other when the stakes are high. Listen in for the full conversation. Born and raised in Georgia, Senator Jon Ossoff serves as our Senior United States Senator. Since his election, Sen. Ossoff has built bipartisanship in the Senate to achieve meaningful legislative results for Georgia — even in a divided Congress. In his first two years in office, Sen. Ossoff passed into law more standalone bills than any other freshman Senator. Sen. Ossoff's legislative achievements include laws to protect children online; to strengthen public safety; to tackle the opioid epidemic and prevent fentanyl trafficking across the Southern Border; to investigate unsolved lynchings and Civil Rights murders; to strengthen mental health care services for veterans; and to fight corruption and improve security in U.S. prisons. Mentored by civil rights legend Congressman John Lewis, Sen. Ossoff previously led a small business that produced investigative journalism exposing war crimes, public corruption, human trafficking, and organized crime. Sen. Ossoff lives with his wife, Dr. Alisha Kramer, and two daughters in Atlanta.Support the show Follow us on IG and FB at Bishop Rob Wright. 

Hi beautiful…Welcome back to the Lashay Johnson Podcast—a space for women over 50 who are healing, growing, and rising into the fullness God intended.Today we're talking about something foundational:Wholeness before togetherness.Because many women aren't struggling to find love…they're trying to find it while still healing.We've been taught that love will complete us…that once the right person comes, everything will feel better.But what happens when love shows up…and you're still carrying pain?In this episode, we gently unpack:✨ Why healing matters before connection✨ What happens when we seek love from unhealed places✨ What true wholeness actually looks like✨ How to stop abandoning yourself to keep a relationshipAnchored in Psalm 147:3, this conversation will remind you that God is committed to your healing—and your participation matters.Wholeness is not perfection.It's awareness, alignment, and healing.Togetherness should be an addition… not a rescue.You don't have to rush love.You don't have to prove your worth.You are becoming whole.If this episode spoke to you, share it with another woman on her Becoming HER journey.Stay connected:Instagram & YouTube: @lashaymjohnsonwebsite: lashayjohnson.com

Fluent Fiction - Swedish: Family Harmony: Overcoming Conflict and Embracing Togetherness Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/sv/episode/2026-05-16-22-34-01-sv Story Transcript:Sv: Vårsolen glittrade ner över den lilla stugan i skogsbrynet.En: The spring sun shimmered down over the little cottage at the edge of the forest.Sv: Det var Kristi himmelsfärd och stämningen var laddad inför familjesammankomsten.En: It was Kristi himmelsfärd (Ascension Day) and the atmosphere was charged in anticipation of the family gathering.Sv: Elin stod vid det lilla köksbordet med ett block fyllt av listor.En: Elin stood at the small kitchen table with a notebook filled with lists.Sv: Hon hade planerat allt in i minsta detalj.En: She had planned everything to the smallest detail.Sv: Det var viktigt för henne att allting blev perfekt.En: It was important for her that everything turned out perfectly.Sv: Lukas, hennes kusin, satt på farstutrappan med en kopp kaffe, funderandes över helgens utmaningar.En: Lukas, her cousin, sat on the porch steps with a cup of coffee, pondering the challenges of the weekend.Sv: "Har vi tillräckligt med stolar?"En: "Do we have enough chairs?"Sv: frågade Elin, oroligt bläddrande i sina anteckningar.En: Elin asked, anxiously flipping through her notes.Sv: "Det har vi," svarade Lukas lugnt.En: "We do," replied Lukas calmly.Sv: "Men har vi tillräckligt med tålamod?"En: "But do we have enough patience?"Sv: tillade han med ett snett leende.En: he added with a wry smile.Sv: Familjens bilkaravan började anlända och med den, ett osynligt moln av gamla konflikter och osagda ord.En: The family caravan started arriving and with it, an invisible cloud of old conflicts and unspoken words.Sv: Farbror Sven och moster Karin, båda kända för sina skarpa tungor, var de första som steg ur bilen.En: Uncle Sven and Aunt Karin, both known for their sharp tongues, were the first to step out of the car.Sv: Redan innan kvällen hade hunnit gry över stugan kände Lukas hur luften började vibrera av undertryckt irritation.En: Even before the evening had settled over the cottage, Lukas felt the air start to vibrate with suppressed irritation.Sv: När eftermiddagen gled mot kväll fylldes stugan med doften av Janssons frestelse och nyfångad lax.En: As the afternoon slid into evening, the cottage filled with the scent of Janssons frestelse and freshly caught salmon.Sv: Vid middagsbordet, där alla hade slagit sig ner, började samtalet påminna om fältet inför ett åskväder.En: At the dinner table, where everyone had settled, the conversation began to resemble the atmosphere before a thunderstorm.Sv: Elin kastade en blick på Lukas – en tyst överenskommelse dem emellan att vara beredda.En: Elin cast a glance at Lukas—a silent agreement between them to be prepared.Sv: Lukas tog ett djupt andetag och reste sig.En: Lukas took a deep breath and stood up.Sv: "Jag tycker vi ska prata om vad som verkligen betyder något," sa han mjukt.En: "I think we should talk about what really matters," he said softly.Sv: "Vi är här för att fira, inte för att bråka."En: "We're here to celebrate, not to argue."Sv: Elin log tacksamt mot sin kusin och fortsatte: "Det är klart att vi har våra meningsskiljaktigheter, men vi är ändå en familj.En: Elin smiled gratefully at her cousin and continued, "Of course, we have our differences, but we are still a family.Sv: Låt oss ha kul och skapa nya minnen istället."En: Let's have fun and create new memories instead."Sv: Till en början sneglade familjemedlemmarna osäkert på varandra.En: Initially, family members glanced at each other uncertainly.Sv: Men snart började samtalen handla om gamla semestrar och gemensamma skratt.En: But soon the conversations turned to old vacations and shared laughter.Sv: Konflikterna gled långsamt bort.En: The conflicts slowly drifted away.Sv: När kvällen lade sig över stugan och ljuslyktorna tändes på verandan, kände både Elin och Lukas en lättnad.En: As night fell over the cottage and lanterns were lit on the porch, both Elin and Lukas felt a sense of relief.Sv: De hade klarat det.En: They had managed it.Sv: Tillsammans.En: Together.Sv: Elin förstod nu att hennes värde inte låg i andras erkännande, medan Lukas insåg styrkan i att möta problemen rättfram.En: Elin now understood that her worth wasn't in the recognition of others, while Lukas realized the strength in facing problems head-on.Sv: Från skogen hördes vårens fågelsång, en lugnande symfoni som påminde familjen om att även de kunde sjunga i harmoni, om de bara gav sig tid att lyssna på varandra.En: From the forest, the spring birdsong could be heard, a calming symphony that reminded the family that they could also sing in harmony, if only they took the time to listen to each other. Vocabulary Words:shimmered: glittradeanticipation: laddadnotebook: blockpondering: funderandes överanxiously: oroligtflipping: bläddrandepatience: tålamodwry: snettcaravan: bilkaravaninvisible: osynligtconflicts: konflikterunspoken: osagdatongues: tungorsuppressed: undertrycktirritation: irritationscent: doftenresemble: påminna omagreement: överenskommelsegratefully: tacksamtdifferences: meningsskiljaktigheterinitially: inledningsvisuncertainly: osäkertvacations: semestrarglanced: sneglandelanterns: ljuslyktornarelief: lättnadrecognition: erkännandefacing: mötahead-on: rättframsymphony: symfoni

Season 7, Episode 5 Guest: Melissa Majors, Inspirer, Storyteller, Author and Coach, Melissa Majors ConsultingMelissa Majors, speaker, author and leadership coach, joins host Courtney Stanley for a conversation about the growing need for human connection in today's world and what it means to lead with empathy, intention and community.Together, they explore the unspoken pressures many women are carrying right now, the importance of rewriting the narrative around how women support one another, and why meaningful connection and belonging matter more than ever in both life and leadership.

Fluent Fiction - Dutch: Blooming Alliances: Tulips and Togetherness Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/nl/episode/2026-05-02-22-34-01-nl Story Transcript:Nl: De zon scheen helder over de Keukenhof-tuinen, en de lucht rook naar verse bloemen.En: The sun shone brightly over the Keukenhof-gardens, and the air smelled of fresh flowers.Nl: Ivo liep rustig langs de paden, zijn ogen glinsterend van opwinding.En: Ivo walked calmly along the paths, his eyes glistening with excitement.Nl: Het was tijd voor het jaarlijkse tulpenfestival, een evenement dat altijd zijn hart sneller deed kloppen.En: It was time for the annual tulip festival, an event that always made his heart beat faster.Nl: Ivo was een botanicus met een passie voor zeldzame tulpen.En: Ivo was a botanist with a passion for rare tulips.Nl: Hij droomde ervan deze prachtige bloemsoorten te behouden voor de toekomst.En: He dreamed of preserving these beautiful species for the future.Nl: Voor hem waren tulpen geen gewone bloemen, maar schatten van de natuur die verzorging nodig hadden.En: For him, tulips were not just ordinary flowers, but treasures of nature that needed care.Nl: Terwijl Ivo door de tuin liep, zag hij de zee van kleuren.En: As Ivo walked through the garden, he saw the sea of colors.Nl: De rode, gele en violette tulpen wiegden zachtjes in de warme lentebries.En: The red, yellow, and purple tulips swayed gently in the warm spring breeze.Nl: Er waren honderden bezoekers, allemaal verwonderd over de schoonheid om hen heen.En: There were hundreds of visitors, all amazed by the beauty around them.Nl: Maar Ivo's gedachten gingen verder.En: But Ivo's thoughts went further.Nl: Hij dacht aan zijn project en het benodigde geld om het te realiseren.En: He thought about his project and the money needed to make it happen.Nl: Plots hoorde hij een bekende stem.En: Suddenly he heard a familiar voice.Nl: Het was Femke, een oude vriendin en nu een concurrent.En: It was Femke, an old friend and now a competitor.Nl: Zij werkte voor een rivaliserende organisatie die ook financiering zocht voor tulpenbehoud.En: She worked for a rival organization also seeking funding for tulip conservation.Nl: "Ivo!"En: "Ivo!"Nl: riep Femke met een glimlach terwijl ze naar hem toeliep.En: called Femke with a smile as she walked up to him.Nl: "Laten we praten."En: "Let's talk."Nl: Ze vonden een rustige plek tussen de bloemen, waar hun discussie begon.En: They found a quiet spot among the flowers, where their discussion began.Nl: Femke stelde voor om samen te werken.En: Femke suggested collaborating.Nl: "Onze doelen zijn hetzelfde," zei ze.En: "Our goals are the same," she said.Nl: "Waarom niet onze krachten bundelen?"En: "Why not combine our strengths?"Nl: Ivo aarzelde.En: Ivo hesitated.Nl: Hij had altijd alleen gewerkt.En: He had always worked alone.Nl: Maar terwijl ze spraken, keek hij om zich heen.En: But as they talked, he looked around.Nl: Hij zag de kinderen die lachten en families die foto's namen tussen de bloemen.En: He saw the children laughing and families taking pictures among the flowers.Nl: De schoonheid om hem heen bracht hem tot inzicht.En: The beauty around him brought him to an insight.Nl: Het ging niet om winnen of verliezen; het ging om de tulpen.En: It wasn't about winning or losing; it was about the tulips.Nl: "Je hebt gelijk," zei Ivo uiteindelijk, met een nieuwe visie in zijn ogen.En: "You're right," said Ivo eventually, with a new vision in his eyes.Nl: "We kunnen meer samen bereiken."En: "We can achieve more together."Nl: Hij besloot zijn project te verenigen met dat van Femke's organisatie.En: He decided to merge his project with Femke's organization.Nl: Het was niet langer een strijd, maar een partnerschap.En: It was no longer a struggle but a partnership.Nl: Samen keerden ze terug naar de festivaldrukte met nieuwe plannen.En: Together, they returned to the festival bustle with new plans.Nl: Met hun gecombineerde hulpbronnen wisten ze dat de zeldzame tulpen in veilige handen waren.En: With their combined resources, they knew the rare tulips were in safe hands.Nl: Ivo voelde zich opgelucht en opgewonden.En: Ivo felt relieved and excited.Nl: Hij had geleerd dat samenwerking sterker was dan competitie.En: He had learned that collaboration was stronger than competition.Nl: In het hart van de Keukenhof-tuinen, bloeiden niet alleen de tulpen, maar ook de vriendschap van Ivo en Femke.En: In the heart of the Keukenhof-gardens, not only the tulips were blooming, but also the friendship of Ivo and Femke.Nl: De lente bracht hen de belofte van een gedeelde toekomst, te midden van een zee van bloemen.En: The spring brought them the promise of a shared future, amidst a sea of flowers. Vocabulary Words:shone: scheenglistening: glinsterendexcitement: opwindingannual: jaarlijksebotanist: botanicusrare: zeldzamespecies: bloemsoortenpreserving: behoudenswayed: wiegdenbreeze: lentebriesamazed: verwonderdfurther: verderfunding: financieringcompetitor: concurrentrival: rivaliserendemerge: verenigenstruggle: strijdcombine: bundelenstrengths: krachtenhesitated: aarzeldeinsight: inzichtwinning: winnenpartnership: partnerschapbustle: drukteresources: hulpbronnenrelieved: opgeluchtblooming: bloeidenpromise: beloftefuture: toekomstamidst: te midden van

Welcome to Part 2 of our conversation with Glenn Cohen, former head of psychology for the Mossad. In Part 1, we explored how resilience is built and how to prepare yourself before the pressure hits. Today, we take it further. Building resilience is one thing. But most leaders struggle to make clear, effective decisions when everything is on the line, and they're facing uncertainty, risk, and real consequences. In this episode, Glen explains how elite performers think and act under pressure, how they navigate uncertainty when there are no clear answers, and what you, as a business owner or leader, need to do differently when the stakes are high. Post-Traumatic Growth Trauma does not have to lead to PTSD. Around 70% of people will encounter a traumatic event, but only about 10–15% develop PTSD. Trauma can shake core beliefs or involve extreme threat, but it can also be an opportunity for growth. Knowing this creates strength and shifts expectations. Resilience vs Growth Resilience is the ability to bounce back. Growth is the ability to bounce forward. Rather than simply recovering from a traumatic event and returning to their previous level of functioning, people can develop new meaning, discover capabilities they did not know they had, and build a stronger sense of self. Real transformation happens when you shift from simply recovering to actually growing. Coping Even in extreme situations like captivity, people demonstrate an inherent ability to cope. Some individuals can survive severe physical and psychological trauma and still move forward. Many prove to themselves that they are capable of far more than they imagined, reinforcing a new sense of strength and resilience. Meaning A clear sense of meaning keeps you moving forward, even when everything else is gone. As Viktor Frankl describes in Man's Search for Meaning, those who hold onto a strong why, or something bigger than themselves, are far more able to endure extreme hardship. That sense of purpose does not remove the suffering, but it gives it direction, and, in many cases, that direction becomes more powerful than the physical conditions themselves. Small Wins Small actions build psychological stability and help individuals function under extreme pressure. Finding small wins in uncontrollable situations restores a sense of control. When business leaders track time, create routines, or follow daily patterns, it anchors their identity and reduces chaos. Belief Is the Foundation Belief in oneself, in others, and in something greater is the most important coping mechanism. It drives action, endurance, and recovery. When belief is strong, other capabilities follow. The Stockdale Paradox Balancing realism with hope is essential. Facing brutal facts while maintaining belief in a positive outcome prevents disillusionment. Leaders must avoid unexamined optimism and instead operate with grounded confidence and openness to uncertainty. EQ Over IQ in Leadership Emotional intelligence consistently outweighs IQ in leadership and performance. High EQ enables connection, trust, and motivation. Leaders who rely only on logic and data tend to create disengaged teams, while those who lead with EQ generate commitment and energy. Togetherness and Trust Build togetherness on trust and psychological safety, a concept popularized by Amy Edmondson. Teams perform best when individuals can show vulnerability, admit mistakes, and rely on each other. That level of trust unlocks creativity, collaboration, and resilience. Facing Reality Life includes joy and suffering at the same time. Accepting this duality prepares individuals to handle adversity without becoming destabilized, allowing them to move forward without denial or false expectations. Collective Strength and Resilience Amplify strength through unity. Facing adversity together builds resilience at both the individual and collective levels. Shared belief and connection enable not just survival, but the ability to continue and thrive. BIO: Glenn Cohen Hostage Debrief team leader and former Mossad Chief Psychologist.  ​Born and raised in NYC, he moved to Israel after high school and served for over 30 years as an air force pilot, Mossad officer, special forces psychologist, and IDF hostage negotiator. ​Since retiring with the equivalent rank of Colonel, Glenn has trained top business and military brass in the five "E.L.I.T.E." keys to resilience and peak performance, which he pioneered during his tenure at Mossad.  Glenn Cohen immigrated to Israel from the United States and, as a college basketball player, gave up a scholarship to enlist in the IDF during the 1982 Lebanon War. Against all odds, he fulfilled his dream, and despite a 90% attrition rate, he graduated from the prestigious Israel Air Force Academy and earned his wings as a pilot. After serving for 7 years as a helicopter pilot in the Lebanon war zone, Glenn was recruited into the Mossad and served for over 25 years in various positions, reaching the equivalent rank of colonel as Chief psychologist. In this capacity, he was responsible for selecting and training the elite operatives to believe that there is no such thing as an impossible mission. Glenn accompanied and advised commanders from the cutting-edge units of the defense establishment – Mossad, Shin Bet, "Yamam" SWAT teams in all matters related to resilience and peak performance under extreme conditions. Based on thousands of hours of mentoring combatants and commanders from the most elite units of the defense establishment, Glenn developed the ELITE method for leadership and team building. ​Since he retired from the Mossad in 2015, Glenn has shared the ELITE method, mentoring and training CEOs and their teams from leading organizations around the world, enabling them to reach their full potential and execute like an ELITE team. Since October 7th, Glenn served for over five months in emergency reserve duty in the IDF Hostage Negotiation Unit, where he was designated to be the first mental health professional to meet the released hostages upon their return to Israel. Subsequently, he wrote the protocol for recovering the returned hostages and led a team of psychologists who debriefed the 168 hostages upon their release. 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On Wednesday's show: From U.S. talks with Iran, to the City Council contemplating police interaction with ICE, to another Trump cabinet departure and beyond, we discuss the latest developments in politics in our weekly roundup.Also this hour: Ahead of a screening Saturday of the documentary Spacewoman, which is followed by a Q&A with the film's subject, retired astronaut Eileen Collins, we revisit a conversation we had with Collins, the first woman to pilot and command an American spacecraft.And author Ashanté Reese considers how gardens, reunions, and everyday meals can create connection, resilience, and care, which is the subject of her book, Gather: Black Food, Nourishment, and the Art of Togetherness.Watch

The most magical time of the year is just around the corner—but what does Christmas truly mean in today's world? In this heartwarming and festive episode, Rhonda H. Davis brings us Christmas is Coming!, a joyful exploration of the spirit, traditions, and deeper meaning behind the holiday season. Drawing from personal reflections and seasonal inspiration, Rhonda shares thoughts on what makes Christmas special—from cherished traditions and family connections to the importance of kindness, generosity, and togetherness. She explores how the holiday can be a time for reflection, renewal, and reconnecting with what matters most. This episode invites listeners to embrace the season with intention and joy. How can we move beyond the hustle and stress to rediscover the heart of Christmas? What traditions bring us closer to loved ones? And how can the spirit of the season inspire us throughout the entire year? Join us for a festive and uplifting conversation that celebrates the beauty of Christmas—where warmth, hope, and joy come together to create moments that truly matter.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-x-zone-radio-tv-show--1078348/support.Please note that all XZBN radio and/or television shows are Copyright © REL-MAR McConnell Meda Company, Niagara, Ontario, Canada – www.rel-mar.com. For more Episodes of this show and all shows produced, broadcasted and syndicated from REL-MAR McConell Media Company and The 'X' Zone Broadcast Network and the 'X' Zone TV Channell, visit www.xzbn.net. For programming, distribution, and syndication inquiries, email programming@xzbn.net.We are proud to announce the we have launched TWATNews.com, launched in August 2025.TWATNews.com is an independent online news platform dedicated to uncovering the truth about Donald Trump and his ongoing influence in politics, business, and society. Unlike mainstream outlets that often sanitize, soften, or ignore stories that challenge Trump and his allies, TWATNews digs deeper to deliver hard-hitting articles, investigative features, and sharp commentary that mainstream media won't touch.These are stories and articles that you will not read anywhere else.Our mission is simple: to expose corruption, lies, and authoritarian tendencies while giving voice to the perspectives and evidence that are often marginalized or buried by corporate-controlled media

In this episode of Talk Nerdy, Cara is joined by writer, anthropologist, and associate professor of African and African diaspora studies at the University of Texas at Austin, Dr. Ashanté M. Reese. They discuss her new book, Gather: Black Food, Nourishment, and the Art of Togetherness. Follow Ashanté: @dramreese

LIFE: Thinking as a Member Romans 12:1-8 Big Idea: The theology of Romans 1-11 spills over into the application of life beginning with thinking as a member! 1. Root Your Thinking in Truth (1-2) 2. Reinforce Your Thinking in Training (3) 3. Reframe Your Thinking in Togetherness (4-5) 4. Rouse Your Thinking in Tending (6-8)

At Redeemer, we take seriously Jesus' call to "Go and make disciples of all nations baptizing them in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you." Apprenticeship to Jesus is not a one time decision, but a lifelong journey of following Jesus as our master-teacher. Since the goal of the Christian life is maturity in Jesus, apprenticeship must be deep and holistic, transforming the spiritual, physical, emotional, social, and vocational parts of men and women. Apprenticeship to Jesus is learning to practice the way of Jesus in our homes, relationships, neighborhoods, and jobs. We believe Christlikeness is cultivated as we implement spiritual practices, live in community with other believers, and submit to the Word and the Spirit. We agree with Dallas Willard who said, "that the gospel is opposed to earning, not effort." As we move towards cultivating a life of loving God and people, we trust Christ will mature us into his likeness. https://redeemerwichita.church/

On this week's episode of That Peter Crouch Podcast, Pete sits down with one of football's most iconic managers… Jurgen Klopp.From arriving in Liverpool to building one of the most exciting teams the Premier League has ever seen, Klopp opens up on EVERYTHING — the highs, the heartbreak, and the moments that defined his legacy.He reflects on falling in love with the city, the reality of “failing big,” and how togetherness became the foundation of Liverpool's success. There's insight into THAT front three, the importance of players like James Milner, and the relentless mentality that drove Mo Salah to world-class levels.Klopp also gives a rare look into life as a manager — dealing with unhappy players, creating belief, and why sometimes… you need to make players angry to make them better.We also ask the big question.. do you miss it all?Plus, we get stuck into World Cup predictions, Harry Kane's evolution, and of course… things take a classic Crouchy turn with shin pads, mobile networks, and some unexpected Giffgaff slander.After the Klopp chat, Pete, Sids and Chris break it all down — from what makes Klopp so special, to just how close Liverpool came to complete domination.This is a MASSIVE episode. Insight, laughs, and one of football's greatest personalities at his very best.Chumbawamba00:00 - Intro: Klopp special announced00:31 - Jurgen Klopp joins the podcast01:35 - First impressions of Liverpool & the city02:56 - Klopp's early days and being recognised instantly04:09 - Falling in love with Liverpool05:28 - Reflecting on success, failure & legacy06:43 - The pressure of winning the Premier League07:09 - Why success takes time in football08:10 - The Coutinho sale & building the squad09:11 - How Liverpool's midfield held everything together10:49 - Squad depth & “big moment” players11:36 - Managing unhappy players & keeping morale high12:47 - Klopp on mentality monsters13:00 - Why James Milner was so important14:29 - The evolution of Salah, Mane & Firmino15:49 - “They all surprised me” – Klopp on his squad16:20 - Togetherness & what made Liverpool special17:04 - Losing the league with 97 points18:01 - Champions League heartbreak & perspective19:00 - Klopp on Mo Salah's greatness20:00 - Salah's insane work ethic revealed21:07 - Managing elite players & tough decisions21:50 - Does Klopp miss management?22:40 - Watching Liverpool Legends & post-career life23:25 - World Cup chat begins24:20 - Favourite teams & tournament predictions25:11 - The global growth of football26:00 - Young German talents to watch27:01 - Klopp on Harry Kane's evolution28:02 - Life as a global football superstar28:59 - Shin pads debate

In Hour 2, Andy and Randy talk about Matt Ryan's comments on the Falcons QB position, Nickeil Alexander-Walker stops by to chat about the Hawks run, and Backpage with Beau.

On this episode, my guest is Hasan Kerim Güç. Kerim graduated from Istanbul High School in 1992 and from Yildiz Technical University in 1996. Between 1997-2004, he completed his master's degree in Information Systems and Business Administration in Baltimore, USA. He returned to Turkey in 2010. Realizing that the treasure he had been looking for for 14 years was right in his own home, he took the position of Chief Editor at Nefes Publishing House in 2014. Kerim nourishes his business life with Sufi studies and is pursuing a doctoral degree from the Usküdar University Institute for Sufi Studies. He has published four books.Show Notes* Rejecting the American Dream* Anatolian and Sufi Hospitality* Sufis and the Ottomans* Tanri misafiri (“God's guest”)* Togetherness, and the roots of Religion* When we welcome suffering, we make honey out of pain* Submission, servants and the prophet Mohammed* The Conference of the Birds / Stories from the Thirty Birds* Limits to hospitality in the Islamic world* Bereket / Baraka* Rumi's Guest HouseHomework* Kerim Vakfı* Stories from the Thirty Birds* Cemalnur Sargut: A Sufi Life of Love, Suffering, and Divine Union* Cemalnur Sargut Books* Kerim Guc - Instagram* Kyoto University Kenan Rifai Center for Sufi Studies* Ken'an Rifâî Chair of Islamic Studies at Peking University* University of North Carolina (UNC) Ken'an Rifâî Chair in Islamic StudiesTranscriptChris: [00:00:00] Welcome to the End of Tourism podcast, Kerim. Hoș geldiniz.Kerim: Thank you very much for having me.Chris: Yeah, it's my pleasure. Thank you for joining me today. Perhaps you could tell our listeners, where you find yourself and what the world looks like there for you.Kerim: Well, first of all, I'm an immigrant also. I was an immigrant. I lived in the US for a while, and then I came back to to my own country. And things are very different here than there, than it is in US. From the perspective of what I did... I was actually an engineer, and I was working in the IT fields, and I was living the American dream, and then I realized that there was some kind of an emptiness, and this whole thing, and I decided to go back to Turkey and [00:01:00] study Sufism, and since my mother was actually a Sufi teacher. She decided to actually move this whole Sufism into academia. So, she basically established an institute in Istanbul - Üsküdar Istanbul - at the University of Üsküdar. The difference between this institute and the other schools, the people like myself, like engineers, coming from different disciplines, including lawyers and whatnot, they were not able to do their masters or PhDs in Sufism, because in other universities, they require for you to actually have theology backgrounds. But with this new establishment, we were able to educate people from all different disciplines and, [00:02:00] so we basically concentrated on ethics rather than the religion itself.So, a lot of people coming from different areas, especially the white-collar people, living this, like - how do I say that? - it's a world of money and materialism and all kind of that stuff. They're coming to our institute and realizing that money or career is not the only goal for life.And we started to concentrating on things like spirituality more than the materialist world.Chris: Thank you. Well, I'm very much looking forward to exploring these themes with you and a little bit of the work that you do with Kerim Vakfı.Kerim: Sure.Chris: And so for the last season of the podcast, I'm very much interested in focusing on different hospitality traditions and practices from around the [00:03:00] world, as I mentioned to you. And, one of the key themes of the podcast is radical hospitality. Now, the word “radical” comes from Latin and it means “rooted,” or we might even say “local” or “living.”And so. I'm curious if there are any radical hospitality practices that you think are unique to your place, to Istanbul, or to the Sufi community that you might be willing to share with us today?Kerim: Well, Istanbul, actually, is a very metropolitan city. So like the other metropolitan cities, we kind of lost that - what we call the hospitality of Anatolia. Anatolia is basically the Eastern part of Istanbul. And in Istanbul, we have, right now, 25 million people in a very small area. And in older days when the population was smaller, [00:04:00] we were able to show our hospitality, because the Turkish hospitality is very famous, actually. In this area the hospitality is very famous, including the, you know, Greek and Arab hospitality. Usually, it's a little bit different than the western countries.For instance, we welcome people - we used to, and probably still, in the countryside - the people coming from other cities or countries or whatnot. The locals actually helped them out as much as possible. They even invite them to their own houses and let them stay for how long they want to stay. And this was kind of like a regular thing in the old days. It's still going on very much in the eastern side of Turkey, pretty much in the countryside. [00:05:00] But Istanbul, like other cosmopolitan cities, we kinda lost that. You know, neighbourly things. We have a lot of neighbours and we we have always good... we used to have a lot of good relationship with them, but nowadays, again, because of this material world, we kind of lost this hospitality.So from the Sufi point of view, hospitality is very important. It's interesting that you mentioned the “radical.” You were talking about where “radical” come from, but you didn't talk about where “hospitality” comes from. See, there is a relationship between the hospital and the hospitality and the way the Sufis look at things is very much like the illnesses in our body are our guests. So, we don't think that they're bad for you. They're actually [00:06:00] the guests of our house for a time being. So we show them the hospitality as much as we can, and then hopefully we say goodbye to them.Chris: Wow. Wow. That's fascinating. I do know that the term “hospitality,” hospital is part of that, and hospital historically came from these notions of hospitality. I mean, in the western world in, and at least in the Christian world, there's a kind of unauthorized history in which a lot of this hospitality, as you mentioned, that was offered to the stranger, was done by the families or the individual houses or homes within a community. A stranger would come and they would ask for hospitality, ask for food and shelter, and the family would have to decide whether to do that and how to do it. [00:07:00] And then at some point, the institution of the Church kind of stepped in and said, “you know what? You don't have to do this anymore. When the stranger comes to the community, when they show up at your door, just send them to us. Just send them to the church and we'll give them what they need.”And so this did a number of things, but the two most obvious ones, I think, are that the family, the individuals in the family and the community on a grassroots level, slowly ended up losing their ability, their unique kind of familial or personal ability to host the stranger. And at the same time, of course, the church used this as a way to try to convert, the stranger.Kerim: Right.Chris: And so I'm curious if there's anything in that realm that you see in the Islamic world, maybe in the Sufi world... you mentioned that, since the [00:08:00] imposition of modernity and the industrial Revolution in the world, we see less and less possibilities for small-scale, grassroots hospitality between people, in part, because there's so much movement, and of course, because the hospital has its brothers and sisters in the sense of the “hotel” and the “hostel.”Kerim: Absolutely.Chris: So, I'm curious if there's anything like that that comes to mind for you in regards to the Islamic world.Kerim: Well, one thing is about like the Ottomans. The Ottomans, when they were coming from the Anatolia and then started conquering all those places in the Balkan area, Greece and Bulgaria, Hungary and all those places, after they actually conquered, they sent Sufis to those places. And, like in Hungary, there is a person, his name is [00:09:00] Gül Baba, which means “Rose Father.” That's what they call him. He actually has his own tekke (tekke is like a church for Sufis). And this place, it's like a school more, more like a school, but it's a religious school.And in this tekke, he actually finds all those people with needs, and he pretty much helped them out with all those needs. And the people coming from different religions, they actually started liking people like from the Turks' point of view, because the Turks were symbolized by these Sufi movements. And instead of, you know, pushing people to convert or demolishing the churches and rebuilding mosques and stuff. Instead of that, they actually [00:10:00] welcomed people from all over the world, or all over the place, basically, to stay in the tekke, to eat and to get education in the tekke. So this was a great strategy of Ottomans. That's how they actually stayed in Europe for almost like 600 years. So that was very much like, you know, their strategy, I think. And in a good way.Chris: Yeah, you know, in my research I found out that there's still Sufi orders in the Balkans a group called the Bektashi.Kerim: Right.Chris: And of course, with the very little historical understanding that I had, I was very surprised. I had no idea. But of course, when I eventually went to visit the regions that my father is from, I saw churches, synagogues, and mosques, all in the same little neighbourhoods.[00:11:00] So, quite an impressive kind of understanding that the major religions in those places could coexist for so long. And that in the context of someone who grew up in North America, who thought it was the opposite (previously) and such things are so difficult.Kerim: Right. Right.Chris: So, Kerim, a mutual friend of ours has told me, that in the Turkish language, there is a phrase (and excuse my pronunciation). The phrase is tanri misafiri.Kerim: Right.Chris: Which translates into English as something like “God's guest.”Kerim: Right.Chris: Or “the guest sent by God.”Kerim: Right. Right.Chris: And so I'm wondering if you could speak about this phrase, maybe what it means to you and where you think it comes from?Kerim: Well, in Anatolia, it's a very famous phrase. And like I said previously, you know anybody coming from somewhere else, who comes into somebody's [00:12:00] house, is allowed to stay in the house as “the guest of God,” because we believe that God has sent that guest to us and we try to... you know, it's more like making that guest happy means making God happy. So, that's the understanding of older generations.In today's metropolitan areas, I don't think it's possible because of the security problems and everything. But like I said, in the countryside, people are very welcoming when it comes to this, because it is very important that knowing that person is actually coming from God, from Allah, so we have to take care of that person as much as possible to please God, actually.So that's how it is. I still see that in many cities in the [00:13:00] more eastern side of Turkey or south side of Turkey, or even north side of Turkey except in the bigger cities. But in the smaller cities, people are much more welcoming, again because of this specific idiom, actually.Chris: From tanri misafiri?Kerim: Right. Tanri means “God” in our language. In the original Turkish language, it's tanri, and, misafiri means “ the guest.”Chris: Yeah. So beautiful. Thank you for sharing that with us.Kerim: Absolutely.Chris: And so when guests arrive in a home, you know, in English, at least in, in the context of the older traditions, it is said that the guest or the potential guest, the stranger, asks for hospitality. They don't necessarily say “ they ask for food,” which we can imagine that surely they [00:14:00] do. They don't necessarily say that “they ask for shelter” or “accommodation,” which we surely we could imagine they do. But the literature often says they ask for hospitality.And so, when we think of hospitality today, we often think about people sitting around a table eating food together. And so I'm curious if there's a shared understanding among Sufis or at least the community that you live among and in, about the importance of both eating food and eating food together.Kerim: Togetherness is probably one of the most important things in the Islamic religion. Because like even our way of worshiping God - Allah - we try to do that in a union as much as possible. It is very interesting, the words that “religion” comes from.[00:15:00] Re- means “again,” and legion means “union.”So it's almost like “religion” itself means “to recreate the union,” “to reshape the union,” “ to have the union back,” because we have the tendency to be alone. And even you can imagine that in the western countries, in the western world, a lot of people want to be alone.Like, there's a lot of individuals rather than a group of people. And in the eastern world, it's a little bit different. We are more like family-oriented people. We try to do things together. I mean, there are advantages and disadvantages obviously, but there is a difference between them.So, we always had this [notion that] “the more is better,” basically. You know, more people is better. So, we help each other, [00:16:00] we understand each other, we talk about our problems. When we try to solve them, it's easier together. And if there's pain, you know, the pain actually, can be eased with more people, easier, I think, compared to have this pain alone. So, again, we're more family-oriented people.And the Sufi are very much like that. The Sufi always pray together, and they think that it creates a n energy, basically. It produces an energy that basically helps all of them at the same time, in a union.Chris: Hmm hmm. And do you find that sitting down for a meal together also creates that kind of union, or recreates as you were saying?Kerim: I think so. Doing any kind of activities, including eating... eating is basically the most common activity [00:17:00] that we do in our daily life and getting together, to talk about our things together, and discuss things together, all those things - togetherness, when it comes to the idea of togetherness - I think, is beautiful.Chris: Hmm, hmm. Amen. Yeah, I very much agree with that, Kerim.And so, when we think about hospitality, and we think about food, we often imagine big banquet tables and as you said, this sense of togetherness and celebration.But there's also, you know, from what little I've read, there's also this important aspect of the religious life in the Islamic world, and perhaps in the Sufi world as well that points to, maybe not the absence of food, but a different way of being fed, and a different way of feeding that doesn't [00:18:00] include the food we're used to, the kind of material food. And we often refer to this as fasting. And so, there's a beautiful video that you sent me, Kerim, of your mother speaking, and she recalls a phrase in that video from her own mother who said that “when we welcome suffering, we make honey out of pain.”And so, this is a question I very much want to ask you because I've fasted myself quite intensely. I'm curious, what is the honey that comes from fasting? Or, what do you think is the honey that comes from fasting?Kerim: Right? First of all, yeah, fasting is in our religion. So, we basically do that one month in the whole year. It's called Ramadan. In some cases, we actually do that because our Prophet Muhammad, when he [00:19:00] lived, he was fasting every Monday and every Thursday. So it was like a common practice for some of the religious people. And at least we do that one month in the whole year.And obviously, that month is a little bit difficult, you know, because we not only stop eating, we also stopped drinking and all that stuff. In theory, we should not be lying, we should not be telling bad things to other people or gossiping and all that stuff, but usually we do during that time. I mean, in theory, we should not be doing that.So it's like a whole discipline thing - the whole fasting. And at the end of the thirty days, you become a really, really different person. And first of all, one thing that [00:20:00] I feel, is that you understand the people who do not have food. We still have people in the world, unfortunately, in Africa, and all those places, the people, having less access to food as we do, and we feel like, oh yeah we don't actually thank God for all those things that he's giving to us. And this is the time that you start thinking about the reality and start thanking God for actually giving us all that food, twenty-four hours, seven days [a week]. And when you are fasting during that time, you are understanding the feeling of these people, who are like poor and who cannot eat.There are people now, in the social media, we are seeing people, who never had [00:21:00] chocolates in their life. The people living in these countries or in the cities or metropolitan cities, we never think about these things.So, we take these things for granted, and during that time of fasting, you start thinking about these stuff and then you become more thankful, and that's basically honey itself, after the suffering. And I wouldn't say “suffering,” because we don't suffer as much as they do, honestly.And we're just telling our egos, “just stop for a day to do bad things and stop eating,” and all that stuff that ego wants to have. And again, it's at the end of the thirty days, you become a new person because now you have a different mentality. Now, in the other eleven months, you still forget about these things, but [00:22:00] again, it comes through. It's like a cycle.Chris: Yeah. Yeah. I totally agree with you that, you know, gratitude is the honey and...Kerim: Absolutely.Chris: ...I remember the fasting that I did over the course of four years, and I don't know if it was as intense as the fasting that happens during Ramadan, but doing that fasting and trying to feed something other than myself for a time imbued a degree of hospitality and gratitude that I don't think I had ever felt before. And it sticks to me. It sticks to my bones to this day. And it's something that, like you said, I also have to constantly remind myself of those moments when I sit down to eat a meal, because it's so easy to forget.Kerim: Absolutely. Absolutely. And one thing is [00:23:00] basically during that time of fasting, you basically stop feeding your ego, and start feeding your spirit, basically. That's what I think.Chris: That's beautiful. Yeah. I absolutely understand that. Thank you, Kerim.So my next question is around the word “ submission.” So, translated into English, the word “Islam” means “submission.” Now I've read that this word can also be translated to mean “servants of God.” Servants of God.Now in English, the word “servant” can be synonymous with “host.” A servant and a host. Now, there's a book by an author named Mona Siddiqui called Hospitality in Islam. And in that book she writes, it's actually a quote, but she writes,“'What is faith?' The Prophet replied, ‘the giving of [00:24:00] food and the exchange of greetings.' He ends on a most dramatic note saying, “a house which is not entered by guests is not entered by angels.”Kerim: Perfect. Yeah.Chris: And it seems that in this phrase, the Prophet is suggesting that the way we are with guests and strangers has something to do with how we are with the divine, which I think you kind of alluded to a little bit earlier.And so I'm curious, is this something that you've seen in your own days or in those of others that you know? Is hospitality a practice that connects us to the divine?Kerim: Absolutely. Because reaching God, you need to reach people first. To be able to reach God... when I say “reach God,” meaning be in communication with Him, is basically being in a communication [00:25:00] with the people he created. So, to serve the people is basically serving him from the Islamic point of view.So, and that's a hadith that you mentioned in the book. It's a hadith of Prophet Mohammed, like you said. And Prophet Mohammed always... it was a common practice that he was hosting maybe, you know, 10-15 people every night. And he was a poor person, by the way. I mean, he doesn't have much money, much food or anything, but they share. There was a time that... there's a story that somebody, actually, one of his apostles rather, asks him to visit him for a dinner. So he invites him to a dinner.But during his conversation, Prophet Mommed said, “can I bring my friends too?”[00:26:00]And the apostle says, “of course you can bring your friends.” And he brings hundreds of people. Now, the host only have some bread, and maybe a little bit meat, and a little bit rice in the cup.So, he was ashamed because he doesn't have any money, and the Prophet Mohammed is going to bring all those guests together, and he didn't know what to do. But he uses submission, basically.He said, well, if Prophet Mohammed is coming, then something is going to happen. And as he was thinking all those things, Prophet Mohammed puts his hand on top of the rice holder. And every time he was putting rice onto the dishes, the rice never ends, the meat never ends. So he served like 200 people during this invitation and the food never ended.[00:27:00]So he was happy for his submission, basically.Chris: Wow. Beautiful. Thank you, Kerim.Kerim: Of course.Chris: You know, you have this beautiful book - that is still in the mail, unfortunately I haven't got my hands on it yet, but I'm very much looking forward to it - called Stories From the Thirty Birds, which I understand is inspired by The Conference of the Birds, this incredible book from I think the 1300s.And I'm curious if you could tell us a little bit about that book and what, if any inspiration or maybe teachings around hospitality that come from both, The Conference of the Birds and how you've employed it in your book.Kerim: Right. The Conference of the Birds is really a beautiful story of Farid ud-Din Attar who lived in Nishapur, which is in Khorasan, in Iran, today. And he was one of the very famous [00:28:00] Sufis at that time. He was the teacher of Rumi. A lot of people know Rumi. And he wrote this book about birds, millions of birds, who are in the process of going to their king, which is the phoenix (or what we call it simurg). And during that time, during that travel, they go through seven valleys, and in each valley some of the birds get lost, because the valleys actually symbolize things.Like, the first valley is the valley of intention. So, a lot of birds actually don't have the intention to reach their king. The king is basically symbolizing Allah (God), and the birds are symbolizing us very much, and we are getting [00:29:00] lost during the time of life. Like, our intention is basically this world. If our intention is staying in this world, then we stay in this world. And that's the valley of intention.And a lot of birds, like half of them, actually, get lost in this stage.And the second valley is the valley of love. And the birds that get lost in this valley are the ones that actually think the beauty is in this world, rather than they don't see the beauty of God himself. So they see the shadow of that beauty in the world, but they're content with that beauty, and they don't really want to move on.And again, the third valley is the value of wisdom. And the birds that get lost in this valley are the ones who think that knowledge, [00:30:00] in this world, is more important than anything else, and they don't realize the source of the knowledge is actually their king.So on and so forth, they go through the seven valleys and at the end of the seventh valley, only thirty birds remain. And the thirty birds, they're ready to see their king, and they go through this mountain called Qaf, where the  simurg, the phoenix lives (behind the mountain). And it's very difficult to get there, basically. When they get there, they can't find the king over there. They only find a mirror. So, they realize the king is themselves, but more specifically, the union of thirty birds. So simurg - the [00:31:00] phoenix - in Iranian, in Persian means “thirty birds,” actually. Si is “thirty.” “Burg” is “bird,” actually.So from what we understand is, the union of ourselves, what we are seeing, is our reflection, because the king is actually a perfect mirror. But we don't see ourselves, only, we see the union of thirty birds together. So there are birds that we don't think live together. For instance, a hawk doesn't live with a smaller bird together, but in this union, they live together. There in one. And they use whatever advantage they have together. So it's almost like being one and using the characteristics of every single bird [00:32:00] itself.Chris: And I imagine that someone growing up in a culture like that, whether back then or more recently, and hearing this story or hearing it multiple times throughout their life or maybe once a year, that that notion also might arise in the way that they are with others, the way they are with strangers.Kerim: Right.Chris: And so, I have one final question for you, if that's all right?Kerim: Absolutely.Chris: So, before we say farewell I'd like to ask you about Istanbul, and I'd like to ask you about the limits to hospitality. So, last year, on a trip I took to the city I met a friend of a mutual friend of ours, and for a couple of hours we walked around the Karakoy neighbourhood and he spoke to me about how the city has changed quite a bit over the last decade.For many people who grew up in Istanbul, the city [00:33:00] might now appear to be very difficult to live in. He said that the cost of living has skyrocketed. The rents, the rent prices or costs have doubled. And much of this is a combination of tourism and gentrification in the city.Now it seems that many religious traditions speak of the importance of welcoming strangers and offering them hospitality, but they also speak of the limits to such hospitality. In one particular, hadith or saying of the Prophet Mohammed, it is said that “hospitality is for three days. Anything more is charity or sadaqah.”Again, excuse my pronunciation.Kerim: No. That's perfect pronunciation.Chris: And so I'm curious, you mentioned a little bit earlier, in the Sufi community and perhaps in the Islamic communities, there is this notion of togetherness, but also that “more is better.” And so I'm [00:34:00] curious in the context of what's happening in Istanbul and what's happening in many places around the world, do you think there should also be limits to the hospitality that is offered to the guest or stranger?Kerim: Well, of course. I mean, of course we have financial issues here, and it's very difficult for us to actually serve other people as much as we want to. But again, when we are together, even if it's very difficult to live in the city, it's still something, you know?What I see: the rent went up, like you said, so the people try to move into their family houses, the houses there of their families and everything. And in western countries, it's difficult. You usually don't do this kind of stuff, but in our community, it's much easier to do these things. And, you know, the families welcome the children [00:35:00] more than other countries. So that's something I think that's a positive thing.But to the strangers. What do we do for strangers? Obviously, we do as much as possible. We may not be able to serve them as much as we used to, obviously, before this inflation. And we have the highest inflation in the world, or probably the second-highest inflation. So again, it's difficult, and Istanbul became probably one of the most expensive cities in the world. But even that, again, we may not be able to take them to dinner every night, but we serve what we have in the house, like in the Prophet Mohammed's story.Whatever we have, we share. And, we call it bereket, as in Arabic baraka, they call it. Baraka is something [00:36:00] like... we use it for money. It's not “more money.” That's not important. How do I say that? I don't even know how to say it in English, but it's more like “the luck of the money, itself.” Basically, you may be able to buy more stuff with less money based on your luck. That's basically what we call it. Bereket. So the bereket is much more important than the amount of the money or the financial thing. And the bereket always goes up when you share it.Chris: Beautiful. Yeah, I love that. I mean, in English, not to reduce it at all, but in English we say, quality over quantity.”Kerim: Yeah, absolutely.Chris: And you said that, in order to offer hospitality or the hospitality that we would like to offer to our guests, sometimes maybe that means not doing it all the time, [00:37:00] because one simply cannot. Right. It's not possible.Kerim: Right.Chris: But yeah, it's a really beautiful point.Kerim: Rumi is a very important Sufi, probably known by many Americans. Even the world knows him. He wrote a poem, which is about the guests. So, if you don't mind, I'm gonna read that, uh, it's called the Guest House and it goes like:This human life is a guest house. Every dawn, a new visitor arrives.A gladness, a sadness, a pettiness, a flash of insights all come knocking, unannounced.Welcome them all. Make room even if a band of sorrows storms inand clears your rooms of comfort.Still honour every guest.[00:38:00] Perhaps they empty you to prepare you for something brighter.The gloomy thought, the shame, the bitterness,greet them at the door with a smile, and lead them inside.Be thankful for whoever comes, for each is sent as a messenger from the beyond.So that's a poem by Rumi, and I think it pretty much explains the whole hospitality thing.Chris: Yeah, that's a gorgeous, gorgeous poem. I love that. I'll make sure that's up on the End of Tourism website when the episode launches.And so finally, Kerim, uh, I'd like to thank you so very much for being willing to join me today, to be willing to speak in a language that is not your first, or mother tongue, and to share with us some of the beauty that has touched your days. Before we say goodbye, [00:39:00] perhaps you could tell our listeners how they can follow and learn more about Kerim Vakfı, Stories from the 30 Birds, your book, and any other projects you might want them to know about.Kerim: We have a Sufi centre in North Carolina, at the University of North Carolina. We have a centre in China, Beijing University, and another center in Kyoto University in Japan. And my mother's book about the commentary of some Quranic verses is the one. For instance, Yasin is available through Amazon and my book Stories from the 30 Birds is available on Barnes and Noble and all that other places in US.Chris: Beautiful. Well, I'll make sure that those links are all available on the End of Tourism website and on my Substack when the episode comes out. [00:40:00] And on behalf of our listeners, tesekkur, tesekkur.Kerim: I thank you. Get full access to Chris Christou at chrischristou.substack.com/subscribe

What are your 'practices for togetherness'?...In this special episode, Abbie shares the recording of a panel she participated in, titled, 'Hope, Agency, and Community: Practices for Togetherness' at the Taos Institute's Co-Creating Social Worlds Symposium. Panel facilitator, Somer Saleh, guides Abbie and her fellow panelists, Chris Hoff and Mario Ismael Espinoza, through a conversation about coalitions, wisdom keepers, interpersonal power, shared precarity, curiosity, story-seeking, imagination, and more. ...Stories Lived. Stories Told. is created, produced & hosted by Abbie VanMeter.Stories Lived. Stories Told. is an initiative of the CMM Institute for Personal and Social Evolution....Music for Stories Lived. Stories Told. is created by Rik Spann....CMM Institute SubstackCMM Institute Events Page…⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Explore all things Stories Lived. Stories Told. here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Explore all things CMM Institute here.

Fluent Fiction - Serbian: Growing Bonds: A Springtime Tale of Market Magic and Unity Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/sr/episode/2026-03-17-22-34-01-sr Story Transcript:Sr: Пролећно сунце обасјавало је Жилибераово тржиште, прелепо место препуно боја, мириса и људи у потрази за најсвежијим производима.En: The spring sun shone over Жилибераово Market, a beautiful place full of colors, scents, and people searching for the freshest produce.Sr: Никола је стајао на почетку дугачке улице, очаран призором око себе.En: Никола stood at the beginning of the long street, captivated by the scene around him.Sr: Његова мисија била је јасна.En: His mission was clear.Sr: Хтео је да припреми најбољу ускршњу гозбу за своју породицу.En: He wanted to prepare the best Easter feast for his family.Sr: Док је корачао међу штандовима, видело се да је тржиште препуно.En: As he walked among the stalls, it was evident that the market was crowded.Sr: Људи су се гурали, сваки у потрази за најбољим намирницама.En: People pushed and jostled, each in search of the best groceries.Sr: Никола је најпре стао крај штанда Јоване, младог и искусног продавца који је увек имао најсвежије зеленило.En: Никола first stopped by Јована's stall, a young and experienced vendor who always had the freshest greens.Sr: Њени мирисни, свежи производи привлачили су многе посетиоце.En: Her fragrant, fresh products attracted many visitors.Sr: "Добар дан, Никола!En: "Good day, Никола!"Sr: " - рече Јована са осмехом.En: Јована said with a smile.Sr: "Како могу да ти помогнем данас?En: "How can I help you today?"Sr: ""Тражим најбоље намирнице за ускрсњу трпезу.En: "I'm looking for the best groceries for the Easter table.Sr: Јел имаш неке препоруке?En: Do you have any recommendations?"Sr: "Јована је размислила кратко, па потом показала на шаренило зове и ренде, младог поврћа које је већ било при крају.En: Јована thought for a moment, then pointed to the colorful elderflower and radish, early vegetables that were already nearly gone.Sr: "Ово ће бити савршено за твој оброк.En: "These will be perfect for your meal.Sr: Само пази, неке ствари се брзо распродају.En: Just be careful, some things sell out quickly."Sr: "Док је разговарао са Јованом, приметио је како веза лука на другом крају реда брзо нестаје.En: While talking with Јована, he noticed a bunch of onions quickly disappearing at the other end of the row.Sr: Брзо се упутио ка месту где га је зрео мирис привукао, али баш када је стигао, старији човек по имену Милан већ је држао последњу везу.En: He quickly made his way to the place where the ripe smell drew him, but just as he arrived, an older man named Милан was already holding the last bunch.Sr: "Изгледа да смо обојица хтели исту ствар," рекао је Никола, трудећи се да звучи неутрално.En: "It seems we both wanted the same thing," Никола said, trying to sound neutral.Sr: Милан је погледао Николу и осетио његову искрену жељу.En: Милан looked at Никола and sensed his sincere desire.Sr: "Видиш, и ја сам хтео овај лук за своју породицу.En: "You see, I wanted these onions for my family too.Sr: Можда можемо наћи компромис?En: Maybe we can find a compromise?"Sr: " предложио је Милан.En: Милан suggested.Sr: Никола се на тренутак замислио, а онда је предложио да поделе ту везу.En: Никола pondered for a moment, then suggested they split the bunch.Sr: Оба су сликала ускршњу гозбу као могућност да славе са својим породицама.En: Both envisioned the Easter feast as an opportunity to celebrate with their families.Sr: Док су се поздрављали, осетили су истинску радост у сарадњи и дељењу.En: As they bid farewell, they felt genuine joy in cooperation and sharing.Sr: Док је Никола прелазио тржиште са осмехом и торбом пуним свежих састојака, осећао је мир и задовољство.En: As Никола crossed the market with a smile and a bag full of fresh ingredients, he felt peace and satisfaction.Sr: Схватио је да је једна кључна саставница за срећу његове породице управо било заједништво, а не само јело.En: He realized that the key ingredient for his family's happiness was indeed togetherness, not just the meal.Sr: Тржиште је било свето место, пуно љубави и духа заједнице, где је свако пронашао своје место у овом лепом пролећном дану.En: The market was a sacred place, full of love and community spirit, where everyone found their place on this beautiful spring day. Vocabulary Words:produce: производимаstalls: штандовимаcrowded: препуноgroceries: намирницамаfragrant: мирисниvendor: продавцаrecommendations: препорукеelderflower: зовеonions: лукаsincere: искренуcompromise: компромисcooperation: сарадњиtogetherness: заједништвоsatisfaction: задовољствоcommunity: заједницеsun: сунцеradiance: обасјавалоenchanted: очаранfeast: гозбуveritable: правиpicturesque: прелепоdesire: жељуcompromise: компромисharmony: хармонијаsacred: светоessence: суштинаenvisioned: замишљенаspirit: духаfarewell: поздрављалиbunch: веза

Feeling overwhelmed by nonstop headlines, collective anxiety, and the wild world of pop culture? In this episode of Culture Changers, I dive into the phenomenon that is The Pitt the cult-favorite HBO medical drama that's suddenly become the most patriotic show on TV (according to a New York Times opinion piece by Frank Bruni). If you're obsessed with medical dramas, hosPittal lore, or just want to know why everyone's talking about nepo baby actors, aging double standards (ahem, Noah Wyle), or the enigma of Nurse Dana's accent, you're in the right place. I break down what sets The Pitt apart, including its gritty, real-time storytelling, behind-the-scenes accuracy with real ER consultants, and its wild Reddit fandom. We'll talk about the show's reflection of America's collective grief, the burnout crisis in healthcare, and why this gritty drama mirrors our chaotic news cycles and cultural divisions better than anything else on TV. I gleefully dissect the fan theories, messier character arcs (is Santos a sociopath or just the ultimate survivor?), and the secret sauce behind why this show is unmissable for culture critics and pop culture junkies alike. No guest today. Just you, me, snarky hot takes, and a big reminder that the stories we obsess over are way deeper than just water cooler gossip.  I talk about: Collective grief reflected in medical dramas Assumptions and embracing human complexity Empathy vs. lack of empathy in healthcare Pop culture's impact on real-world behaviors Nuance in political and social identity Trauma and resilience in modern society Fan culture and community through entertainment Timestamps: 00:00 The Pitt: Season Two Insights 03:31 Realism and Reflection in Drama 07:09 Navigating Grief and Uncertainty 11:51 Dr. Mel: America's favorite Doc 15:59 Light, Funny, and Profound 18:06 The Halo Effect and Trust 21:50 Santos: Polarizing, Resilient, Badass 26:04 Tragedy, Judgment, and Understanding 31:37 The Pitt: Resilience in Crisis 32:49 Resilience, Joy, and Perspectives 38:26 Togetherness and Finding Your Voice —--------------------------------------------------------- Links and Mentions: Watch HBO's The Pitt: https://play.hbomax.com/show/e6e7bad9-d48d-4434-b334-7c651ffc4bdf Frank Bruni's Opinion Piece in the NYT on the Pitt: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/02/23/opinion/pitt-america-tv.html Prestige TV's Podcast Episode Breakdown of the Pitt: https://youtu.be/8sB0lR0nKYk?si=nywnnbKi6CfNPk3N To Connect With Me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allison__hare LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/allisonhare/ Website: https://allisonhare.com Book a free podcast clarity call with Allison: https://allisonhare.com/freecall Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com

In this episode of the JAMODI Podcast, host Matt Sayman sits down with Preston Tabor, the new head men's basketball coach at Paris Junior College. After beginning the season as an assistant coach and being elevated to interim head coach just three games into the year, Tabor quickly embraced the opportunity and was officially named the head coach shortly after.Coach Tabor shares what it was like stepping into the head chair overnight, the leadership challenges that come with it, and how he immediately established the pillars of his program: togetherness and toughness.The conversation dives deep into building a culture where players take pride in doing the hard things that lead to winning — diving for loose balls, rebounding with physicality, communicating during adversity, and embracing a blue-collar identity. Tabor also discusses lessons learned from his time at the University of North Texas under Grant McCaslin and Ross Hodge, where he experienced elite defensive culture and championship-level preparation.Throughout the episode, Coach Tabor explains how intentionality, competitive practices, and player accountability shape the foundation of his program. He shares how small-sided games, constant competition in practice, and a focus on rebounding and defense create a mindset where players thrive in difficult moments rather than avoid them.Whether you're a coach looking to build a culture, a player wanting to understand what winning habits look like, or a leader seeking to develop toughness in your team, this episode is packed with practical insights and real basketball wisdom.Topics covered include:• Transitioning from assistant coach to head coach mid-season• Establishing culture through toughness and togetherness• The difference between playing hard and truly competing• Building a blue-collar team identity• Creating competitive practices that drive improvement• Teaching players to embrace adversity and thrive in tough moments• Defensive mindset and controlling the game without gambling• Developing rebounding habits and winning plays• Coaching with intentionality and clarityThis episode is a must-listen for coaches who want to build a program where players buy in, compete daily, and take pride in doing the hard things that lead to winning.Subscribe to the JAMODI Podcast for more conversations with basketball coaches and leaders about culture, program building, leadership, and player development.

In a world that often feels divided—across families, communities, and workplaces—this week's episode explores a deeper understanding of togetherness. While unity is often associated with unconditional acceptance, the wisdom of Kabbalah teaches that true unity also requires responsibility and alignment. Healthy teams, relationships, and communities are built not only through love and openness, but also through clear boundaries that protect the culture and shared vision.This conversation explores why difficult conversations and courageous boundaries are sometimes necessary for real growth. Avoiding them may feel easier in the moment, but it can ultimately create greater challenges for everyone involved. By approaching these moments with intention, certainty, and a desire for the highest good, we can transform uncomfortable decisions into opportunities for greater clarity, stronger relationships, and space for the right people and opportunities to enter our lives. Join us for the next episode of Weekly Energy Boost with @ElishevaBalas and @EitanYardeni.  Watch LIVE Sundays at 10 am PT / 1 pm ET on The Kabbalah Centre YouTube or catch the latest episode wherever you listen to podcasts.Find out more about our work, dig into our archives, and send us a message at: www.weeklyenergyboost.com.You can also help make Weekly Energy Boost possible by making a tax-deductible contribution at www.weeklyenergyboost.com/donate-today.

Episode 193: Ginger Gonzaga Interview   This is the After Show for Yellow, featuring Andrew's conversation with writer and actor Ginger Gonzaga. Many listeners know Ginger from her roles in Marvel's She-Hulk, CBS's True Lies, Showtime's Kidding, I'm Dying Up Here, HBO's Togetherness, and Room 104. But in this episode, the spotlight shifts to her as a creator as well as a performer.   Andrew and Ginger talk about coming up in the heavily male improv scene of the early 2000s, the delicate (and sometimes not-so-delicate) politics of improvising in auditions and on set, and how her background in high school speech and debate shaped her confidence as a storyteller. She also shares a wild story about pitching a show centered on mental health at a time when that topic wasn't exactly trending in development meetings or even in the national conversation.   It's candid, funny, and full of insight about carving out space as a performer and writer. Most of all, it makes clear just how much Yellow means to her.

In this  conversation, David Bryan speaks with Steve & Rick Simone-Friedland about their recent play, 'Kind Stranger,' which is adapted from Tennessee Williams' memoir. They discuss their creative process, the challenges of performing a one-person show, and the importance of queer narratives in theater. The duo reflects on their personal and professional relationship, the audience's reception of their work, and their plans for future productions.Kind Stranger depicts the poignant journey of Tennessee Williams as the legendary playwright recounts his life, art, and love affairs. Witness his wit and unflinching honesty as he writes his last chapter, revealing how his plays were his life and his life was his plays. Adapted directly from his memoir and using only his words, Kind Stranger could be the last original Tennessee Williams play.Steve and Rick Simone-Friedland, a married couple, went into the project wanting to use the words and humor of one of the greatest American Playwrights as the foundation of this play.Fresh from a successful but all too brief opening in New York, Rick (actor) and Steve (director/writer) are currently actively  working toward bringiing 'Kind Stranger' to audiences in other cities.Steven Simone-Friedland (Adaptation & Direction) is an independent, freelance filmmaker residing in Los Angeles, California. He has directed, written, produced and edited a number of short film and television projects including [sic], Togetherness, and Sunday Cup of Coffee which was awarded the CineEast's. Golden Eagle Award, the Herman Kass Fellowship in Filmmaking, the Rita Morrison Best Director's Award, and the AMPAS Award in Motion Picture Production. As an editor, Steven edited the feature documentary, The Yes Men Are Revolting and Donner Pass, and the television pilots, Group & Techno 3. When not pursuing film & tv projects, Steven serves as series editor on such Bravo shows as Real Housewives of Atlanta, Salt Lake City, Orange County and Dubai, Vanderpump Rules, Below Deck, Family Karma, MTV's Siesta Key and HBO's Queen of Versailles Reigns Again. Steven's Los Angeles theater directing credits include critically acclaimed productions of Ourselves Alone, Oleanna, Betrayal, Scenes of an American Life, and Imagining Rachel, which received its World Premiere at the 2022 Edinburgh Fringe Festival. Steven is a graduate from Northwestern University's theater department and received his MFA in filmmaking at UCLA.Rick Simone_Friedland - Concept & PerformanceEmmy Award© winner, Rick Simone-Friedland, is known to television audiences for his work on, Married People, Just the Ten of Us, A Year in the Life, Life Goes On, KC Undercover, and as Joe Pistone in the Discovery Series Mob Scene. Theatre audiences may know Rick from roles in George C. Wolfe's production of The Me Nobody Knows, Ken Page's production of Elegies for Angels, Punks and Raging Queens, or as Bruno in The Theatre West production of Moose On The Loose. Rick recently completed filming roles in the films How Do You Fall Out of Love With Country Music, Boystown, and Some Sorta' Queerarhttps://www.kindstrangerplay.com/

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Episode 192: Yellow Written by Ginger Gonzaga This month's live episode features Yellow, a pilot written by Ginger Gonzaga. Most people know Ginger from her work in front of the camera—she's appeared in Marvel's She-Hulk, CBS's True Lies, Showtime's Kidding, I'm Dying Up Here, HBO's Togetherness, and Room 104. Yellow showcases her voice as a writer. After being arrested, following a very public hypomanic episode Pepper, A witty visual artist is court ordered to live in a halfway house with an ensemble of lovable misfits that she deems crazier than herself. This soulful and at times surreal dramedy follows pepper as she navigates her artistic career. The tone moves fluidly between grounded emotion and offbeat humor, building a layered ensemble piece that feels both personal and expansive. Ginger leads the cast in the live performance, surrounded by an incredible group of actors including Luke Tennie (Shrinking), Burl Moseley (Crazy Ex-Girlfriend), Kyle Bornheimer (St. Denis Medical), Lauren Potter (Glee), Mel Rodriguez (The Residence, Last Man on Earth), Lucy Parks Urbano (actor/playwright), Bryan Safi (Throwing Shade), Beth Dover (Orange Is the New Black, Nobody Wants This), Jessica Sula (Split, Michael), with stage direction by Andrew Reich. Video of the live table read is available exclusively to Maximum Fun members. Become a member for as little as $5 a month at maximumfun.org/join. And don't forget to check out Andrew's documentary Born Innocent: The Redd Kross Story athttps://www.reddkrossfilm.com/

Discounts of up to 75% on offer by Sharjah Coop for their customers alongside an opportunity to win 5 cars this Ramadan. Faisal Al Naboodah speaks to Pulse 95 Radio about Ramadan deals and savings on offer. Listen to #Pulse95Radio in the UAE by tuning in on your radio (95.00 FM) or online on our website: www.pulse95radio.com ************************ Follow us on Social. www.facebook.com/pulse95radio www.twitter.com/pulse95radio

Nicolle Wallace covers Bad Bunny's electrifying Superbowl halftime performance, a performance that celebrated Puerto Rico, culture, and unity in a time of deep division in the United States.Later, Nicolle covers the inhumane treatment of children in immigration detention centers. Propublica reports that detained children are being treated with poor diets, separation of families, and verbal abuse, with no access to hygiene or proper education.For more, follow us on Instagram @deadlinewhTo listen to this show and other MS NOW podcasts without ads, sign up for MS NOW Premium on Apple Podcasts. For more from Nicolle, follow and download her podcast, “The Best People with Nicolle Wallace,” wherever you get your podcasts.To listen to this show and other MS podcasts without ads, sign up for MS NOW Premium on Apple Podcasts. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

I grew up treating the Bible like a flawless magic book. College shattered that view when I learned about editing, genres, and cultural shaping, and for a time I couldn't read Scripture at all. Healing came when I learned to see the Bible as God intends it: an incarnational work, breathed out by God through real people in real moments. Those human textures aren't flaws. They're how God tells the rescue story until it lands. Read rightly, all of Scripture leads to Jesus and forms us for worship, clarity, and participation in His kingdom.

Fluent Fiction - Norwegian: Winter's Embrace: Crafting Community Amidst the Storm Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/no/episode/2026-02-04-23-34-02-no Story Transcript:No: Kveldsmørket senket seg over hytta, nesten som et teppe av ro.En: The evening darkness settled over the cabin, almost like a blanket of calm.No: Solveig sto ved vinduet og så ut i den snødekte skogen.En: Solveig stood by the window and looked out into the snow-covered forest.No: Trærne, tunge med snø, dannet en beskyttende mur rundt dem.En: The trees, heavy with snow, formed a protective wall around them.No: I kveld skulle de starte forberedelsene til vinterfestivalen.En: Tonight they would start the preparations for the winter festival.No: Det var hennes ansvar, og hun var fast bestemt på å gjøre det til en suksess.En: It was her responsibility, and she was determined to make it a success.No: Ikke bare for festivalens skyld, men for det samholdet det skapte i bygda.En: Not just for the festival's sake, but for the community it created in the village.No: Magnus, med sine røde kinn og solide hender, sto ved peisen.En: Magnus, with his red cheeks and sturdy hands, stood by the fireplace.No: Han stablet ved med presisjon, som om hver vedkubbe hadde sin plass i det store bildet.En: He stacked wood with precision, as if each log had its place in the bigger picture.No: Selv om han drømte om å dra til en større by, var det disse enkle øyeblikkene som knyttet ham hit.En: Even though he dreamt of moving to a larger city, it was these simple moments that bound him here.No: «Hytta har alt vi trenger,» tenkte han.En: "The cabin has everything we need," he thought.No: «Med riktig innsats blir dette bra.En: "With the right effort, this will be great."No: »Ivar satt ved kjøkkenbordet med et drømmende blikk.En: Ivar sat at the kitchen table with a dreamy look.No: Han tenkte ofte på Solveig, hvordan hun ledet an med en slik glede.En: He often thought of Solveig, how she led with such joy.No: Han ville gjøre inntrykk på henne, vise hvor mye han brydde seg om festivalen – og henne.En: He wanted to make an impression on her, to show how much he cared about the festival—and about her.No: Utenfor begynte snøstormen å styrke seg, vindkastene hylte rundt hytta.En: Outside, the snowstorm began to intensify, the gusts of wind howling around the cabin.No: Solveig tittet på sine to venner.En: Solveig glanced at her two friends.No: Dette ville bli en utfordring.En: This would be a challenge.No: Men hun hadde en plan.En: But she had a plan.No: «Vi bruker det vi har her,» sa hun bestemt.En: "We'll use what we have here," she said firmly.No: «Magnus, du er flink med hendene.En: "Magnus, you're good with your hands.No: Kan du lage noen solide oppheng for lysene?En: Can you make some sturdy hangers for the lights?No: Ivar, kan du organisere pynting inne i stua?En: Ivar, can you organize the decorating inside the living room?"No: »Magnus nikket.En: Magnus nodded.No: Han følte seg verdsatt for sine ferdigheter.En: He felt appreciated for his skills.No: Han kjente varmen fra ildstedet i ryggen mens han jobbet.En: He felt the warmth from the hearth on his back as he worked.No: Ivar fant frem fargerike bånd og begynte å dekorere med entusiasme.En: Ivar fetched colorful ribbons and began to decorate enthusiastically.No: Han sang en folketone mens han jobbet, tankefull som alltid.En: He sang a folk tune as he worked, thoughtful as always.No: Da snøstormen var på sitt villeste, ringte Solveig de andre bygdefolkene.En: When the snowstorm was at its wildest, Solveig called the other villagers.No: De kom i en samstemt flokk, som om de også kjente på viktigheten av denne festivalen.En: They came in a united flock, as if they too felt the importance of this festival.No: De vantret sig rundt hytta og arbeidet i takt med snøen som falt.En: They gathered around the cabin and worked in sync with the falling snow.No: Da morgenen kom og stormen stilnet, var festivalen klar.En: When morning came and the storm calmed, the festival was ready.No: Lyskjedene glitret mellom trærne, og inne i hytta var det varmt og innbydende med pyntede granekvister og fargerike lys.En: The light chains glistened between the trees, and inside the cabin, it was warm and inviting with decorated spruce branches and colorful lights.No: Bygda samlet seg, og latter og musikk fylte luften.En: The village gathered, and laughter and music filled the air.No: Solveig så rundt seg og kjente en bølge av tilfredshet.En: Solveig looked around her and felt a wave of satisfaction.No: Magnus, som hadde vurdert å forlate stedet, oppdaget verdien av slike stunder.En: Magnus, who had considered leaving the place, discovered the value of such moments.No: Kanskje var storbyen ikke alt.En: Perhaps the big city was not everything.No: Og Ivar?En: And Ivar?No: Han oppdaget en ny gnist i Solveigs blikk når hun takket ham for hjelp og sangene som fikk alle til å smile.En: He noticed a new spark in Solveig's eyes when she thanked him for his help and the songs that made everyone smile.No: Festivalen var en suksess.En: The festival was a success.No: Solveig følte endelig at hun hørte til, mens Magnus og Ivar fant sin plass i det lille samfunnet.En: Solveig finally felt that she belonged, while Magnus and Ivar found their place in the small community.No: Alt takket være vinterens utfordringer og en følelse av fellesskap sterkere enn kulden.En: All thanks to the winter's challenges and a sense of togetherness stronger than the cold. Vocabulary Words:darkness: kveldsmørketcabin: hyttasettled: senketsnow-covered: snødekteforest: skogenprotective: beskyttendepreparations: forberedelsenecommunity: samholdetstacked: stabletprecision: presisjonbound: knytteteffort: innsatsdreamy: drømmendeintensify: styrkegusts: vindkastenehowling: hyltechallenge: utfordringsturdy: solidehangers: opphenghearth: ildstedetfetched: fant fremribbons: båndenthusiastically: entusiasmedecorated: pyntedespark: gnistsuccess: suksessbelonged: hørte tilchallenges: utfordringertogetherness: fellesskapinviting: innbydende

Fluent Fiction - Swedish: A Midwinter Celebration: Finding Warmth in Togetherness Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/sv/episode/2026-02-04-23-34-02-sv Story Transcript:Sv: På en kall vintermorgon i Dalarna, när skogen verkade viska hemligheter och snön knarrade under fötterna, började Elin sin dag.En: On a cold winter morning in Dalarna, when the forest seemed to whisper secrets and the snow crunched underfoot, Elin began her day.Sv: Hon var i en mysig stuga, omgiven av frostklädda tallar.En: She was in a cozy cabin, surrounded by frost-covered pines.Sv: Det var dags för Midvinterfirande, en tid hon alltid sett fram emot.En: It was time for the Midwinter celebration, a time she always looked forward to.Sv: Men i år kändes det annorlunda.En: But this year felt different.Sv: Hon saknade sin mormor, vars varma skratt alltid fyllde stugan med glädje.En: She missed her grandmother, whose warm laughter always filled the cabin with joy.Sv: Elin gick runt i köket, där doften av nybakade pepparkakor spred sig.En: Elin walked around the kitchen, where the scent of freshly baked gingerbread cookies spread.Sv: Hon ville att allt skulle vara perfekt, men utmaningarna radade upp sig.En: She wanted everything to be perfect, but the challenges were piling up.Sv: Vädret var hårdare än vanligt, och ugnen hade gett upp precis när hon behövde den som mest.En: The weather was harsher than usual, and the oven had given out just when she needed it the most.Sv: Hon kände en klump i magen.En: She felt a lump in her stomach.Sv: Hennes bror Oskar anlände.En: Her brother Oskar arrived.Sv: Han var vanligtvis den avslappnade typen, men Elin märkte något annorlunda.En: He was usually the relaxed type, but Elin noticed something different.Sv: Han verkade tankspridd, nästan bekymrad.En: He seemed distracted, almost worried.Sv: Men när Elin berättade om sina problem, erbjöd han sin hjälp utan att tveka.En: But when Elin told him about her problems, he offered his help without hesitation.Sv: "Syskon hjälper varandra," sa han med ett leende, även om hans tankar tycktes vara någon annanstans.En: "Siblings help each other," he said with a smile, even if his thoughts seemed to be elsewhere.Sv: Tillsammans började de förbereda.En: Together they began to prepare.Sv: De släpade in extra ved för att hålla värmen uppe och diskuterade matlagningen trots den trasiga ugnen.En: They hauled in extra wood to keep the warmth up and discussed cooking despite the broken oven.Sv: Elin kände sig nervös men lättad över att inte vara ensam.En: Elin felt nervous but relieved not to be alone.Sv: Hon insåg att hon behövde mer hjälp och började kontakta andra familjemedlemmar.En: She realized she needed more help and started contacting other family members.Sv: Medan eftermiddagen övergick i kväll, kom fler gäster.En: As the afternoon turned into evening, more guests arrived.Sv: Ljusen i stugan lyste varmt ut mot det kyliga landskapet utanför.En: The lights in the cabin glowed warmly out into the chilly landscape outside.Sv: Stugan fylldes med ljudet av skratt, prat och julmusik.En: The cabin filled with the sound of laughter, conversation, and Christmas music.Sv: Plötsligt blåste en kall vind och strömmen slocknade.En: Suddenly a cold wind blew, and the power went out.Sv: Ett chockat sus hördes från gästerna.En: A shocked murmur was heard from the guests.Sv: Elin stirrade på de släckta lamporna.En: Elin stared at the extinguished lights.Sv: Hjärtat bultade, men hon visste att hon behövde agera snabbt.En: Her heart pounded, but she knew she needed to act quickly.Sv: "Ta fram ljusen," ropade hon.En: "Bring out the candles," she called.Sv: Snart spred sig ett mjukt ljus från levande ljus i varje hörn av stugan.En: Soon, a soft light from candles spread in every corner of the cabin.Sv: Det var som om lugnet återvände.En: It was as if calm returned.Sv: Oskar som hade ställt sig vid brasan, började underhålla barnen med historier om vintern och gamla familjelegender.En: Oskar, who had positioned himself by the fireplace, began entertaining the children with stories of winter and old family legends.Sv: Gästerna drog stolarna närmare varandra, och värmen från deras gemenskap blev starkare än elden.En: The guests pulled their chairs closer to each other, and the warmth from their togetherness became stronger than the fire.Sv: Det var i den stunden, i skenet av fladdrande ljus, som Oskar såg på sin syster med allvarliga ögon.En: It was in that moment, in the glow of flickering light, that Oskar looked at his sister with serious eyes.Sv: "Jag har haft saker på hjärtat," började han.En: "I've had things on my mind," he began.Sv: Elin la en hand på hans axel.En: Elin placed a hand on his shoulder.Sv: "Vi är här för dig," sa hon mjukt.En: "We are here for you," she said softly.Sv: Med familjens samlade styrka började Oskar prata om sina bekymmer, och stugan fylldes av förståelse och stöd.En: With the combined strength of the family, Oskar began to talk about his worries, and the cabin filled with understanding and support.Sv: När natten blev sen och stjärnorna syntes genom molnen, förstod Elin något nytt.En: As the night grew late and the stars appeared through the clouds, Elin understood something new.Sv: Firandet hade blivit minnesvärt inte trots, utan tack vare sina brister.En: The celebration had become memorable not despite, but because of its imperfections.Sv: Det var inte den perfekta matlagningen eller den mest fläckfria dekorationen som gjorde kvällen speciell.En: It wasn't the perfect cooking or the most flawless decorations that made the evening special.Sv: Det var närheten och banden mellan dem.En: It was the closeness and the bonds between them.Sv: Precis vad mormor alltid värdesatt.En: Exactly what Grandma always valued.Sv: Och medan de sista ljusen flämtade innan de slocknade, kände Elin sig lättare.En: And as the last candles flickered before going out, Elin felt lighter.Sv: Hon visste att de skapat minnen av det bästa slaget—tillsammans, oavsett om det var i ljus eller skugga.En: She knew they had created memories of the best kind—together, whether in light or shadow. Vocabulary Words:whisper: viskacrunched: knarradecozy: mysigfrost-covered: frostkläddachallenges: utmaningarnapiling up: radade upp siglump: klumphesitation: tvekahauled: släpadeextinguished: släcktamurmur: suscandles: levande ljusflickering: fladdrandeserious: allvarligaunderstanding: förståelsesupport: stödimperfections: bristerflawless: fläckfriatogetherness: gemenskapbonds: bandenvalued: värdesattmemorable: minnesvärtmyth: legenderentertaining: underhållapositioned: ställtcabin: stugashocked: chockatscattered: sprida sigcoarser: hårdarerelaxed: avslappnade

This week on Togethermess, we talk obscure health remedies, the bears, and dive into your voicemails. It's weird, curious, and exactly what you'd expect from us. Thank you to our partners Nowadays - Visit trynowadays.com/TOGETHERNESS to get 20% off your order. That's trynowadyas.com/TOGETHERNESS or use TOGETHERNESS at checkout. Hungryroot - For a limited time get 40% off yourfirst box PLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to Hungryroot.com/togethermess and use code togethermess. We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. Executive Producers are Riley Peleuses + Ian McNeny for YEA Media Group If you are interested in advertising on this podcast or having Jeff and Jordan as guests on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to podcast@yeamediagroup.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week on Togethermess, we talk obscure health remedies, the bears, and dive into your voicemails. It's weird, curious, and exactly what you'd expect from us. Thank you to our partners Nowadays - Visit trynowadays.com/TOGETHERNESS to get 20% off your order. That's trynowadyas.com/TOGETHERNESS or use TOGETHERNESS at checkout. Hungryroot - For a limited time get 40% off yourfirst box PLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to Hungryroot.com/togethermess and use code togethermess. We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. Executive Producers are Riley Peleuses + Ian McNeny for YEA Media Group If you are interested in advertising on this podcast or having Jeff and Jordan as guests on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to podcast@yeamediagroup.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Togethermess, everyone is unwell. Jordan navigates an illness complete with a mysterious blue mouth, Jeff reflects on his health, and the holidays deliver their annual gift: getting sick at the worst possible time. Thank you to our partners Nowadays - Visit trynowadays.com/TOGETHERNESS to get 20% off your order. That's trynowadyas.com/TOGETHERNESS or use TOGETHERNESS at checkout. Hungryroot - For a limited time get 40% off yourfirst box PLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to Hungryroot.com/togethermess and use code togethermess. We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. Executive Producers are Riley Peleuses + Ian McNeny for YEA Media Group If you are interested in advertising on this podcast or having Jeff and Jordan as guests on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to podcast@yeamediagroup.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week on Togethermess, everyone is unwell. Jordan navigates an illness complete with a mysterious blue mouth, Jeff reflects on his health, and the holidays deliver their annual gift: getting sick at the worst possible time. Thank you to our partners Nowadays - Visit trynowadays.com/TOGETHERNESS to get 20% off your order. That's trynowadyas.com/TOGETHERNESS or use TOGETHERNESS at checkout. Hungryroot - For a limited time get 40% off yourfirst box PLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to Hungryroot.com/togethermess and use code togethermess. We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. Executive Producers are Riley Peleuses + Ian McNeny for YEA Media Group If you are interested in advertising on this podcast or having Jeff and Jordan as guests on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to podcast@yeamediagroup.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this solo episode, Dr. Beth dives into a topic that touches every relationship we have—navigating differences, competing needs, and the tension between togetherness and independence. From dating to long-term marriage, friendships to family life, differences are inevitable—but how we think about them can make all the difference. Using real client conversations, personal reflections, and everyday examples, Dr. Beth explores questions we often avoid but desperately need to ask: How much do you expect your partner to fulfill you? How much independence do you need to feel like yourself? What happens when the traits you once loved start to frustrate you? This episode covers: Competing needs and agendas in relationships Togetherness vs. individuality (and why there's no “right” formula for achieving this) Why expecting one person to meet all your needs can backfire How honeymoon phases shift into real life—and what to do next Practical questions to help couples prepare for inevitable differences This is a realistic, compassionate conversation meant to spark reflection—not perfection. Whether you're dating, married, or simply trying to understand yourself better in relationships, this episode offers food for thought, cognitive shifts to help with processing and accepting divergent needs and agendas , and tips for communicating about these struggles.

My guest today on the Online for Authors podcast is SM Stevens, author of the book Beautiful and Terrible Things. S.M. Stevens began writing fiction during back-to-back health crises: a shattered pelvis and ovarian cancer. She writes contemporary novels designed to make readers laugh, cry, and think. Her most recent novel, Beautiful and Terrible Things, has won seven awards including Indies Today's Best Literary Book of 2024, and an Honorable Mention in the Social Issues category of the 2024 Readers' Favorite International Book Award Contest. Her novella The Wallace House of Pain won the 2023 American Fiction Award for Best Novelette, and First Place in the Short Fiction category of the Chanticleer International Book Awards. A lifelong New Englander other than stints in England and Italy, she lives in Washington, N.H.   In my book review, I stated Beautiful and Terrible Things is a contemporary fiction by SM Stevens. We start by meeting Charley, a 29-year-old who believes she is cursed to lose everyone she loves. To combat this, she lives a very rigid and lonely life - until she meets Xander. He invites her to meet his band of diverse race, gender, and sexually oriented friends Terrance, Sunny, Jessica, and Buwan.   Charley is a social misfit, but from the beginning, I was cheering her on. Her rigid schedule and self-harm made me want to wrap my arms around her and help her see it was going to be okay - when I wasn't stamping my feet because she was being ridiculous! Of course, I felt the same way about each of the friends. At times, they seemed to have their heads on straight - at others? Not so much. And isn't that just like me, you, and everyone we know?   SM doesn't hold back. She brings in social components of our time including race and sexual orientation, but also mental health issues and green initiatives. With characters all along each of these spectrums, we are given the opportunity to see these topics from all sides - from those who live them to those who wonder if they really exist. We also get a glimpse into what we might do when we see something that isn't to our liking - and learn that there isn't just one way that is the right way.   This is a wonderful story about friends and what that can look like despite different life experiences. I really enjoyed this book.   Subscribe to Online for Authors to learn about more great books! https://www.youtube.com/@onlineforauthors?sub_confirmation=1   Join the Novels N Latte Book Club community to discuss this and other books with like-minded readers: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3576519880426290   You can follow Author SM Stevens Website: https://authorsmstevens.com/ IG: @s.m.stevens FB: @ AuthorSMStevens TikTok:@author.smstevens   Purchase Beautiful and Terrible Things on Amazon: Paperback: https://amzn.to/4oDp2UW Ebook: https://amzn.to/4ovRRSW   Teri M Brown, Author and Podcast Host: https://www.terimbrown.com FB: @TeriMBrownAuthor IG: @terimbrown_author X: @terimbrown1   Want to be a guest on Online for Authors? Send Teri M Brown a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/member/onlineforauthors   #smstevens #beautifulandterriblethings #contemporaryfiction #terimbrownauthor #authorpodcast #onlineforauthors #characterdriven #researchjunkie #awardwinningauthor #podcasthost #podcast #readerpodcast #bookpodcast #writerpodcast #author #books #goodreads #bookclub #fiction #writer #bookreview *As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

Fluent Fiction - Hungarian: Epiphany Eve: A Heartwarming Tale of Teamwork and Togetherness Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/hu/episode/2026-01-06-08-38-20-hu Story Transcript:Hu: Budapesten a téli január csípős hidegével takarta be a várost, de a Váci utcai kávézó belsejében meleg és otthonos hangulat uralkodott.En: In Budapest, the chilly cold of January covered the city, but inside the Váci utca café, a warm and cozy atmosphere prevailed.Hu: Réka, Gábor és András egy kis faasztal körül ültek, miközben a vintage lámpák puha fénye táncolt az asztalon elhelyezett papírlapok sarkain.En: Réka, Gábor, and András sat around a small wooden table while the soft light from vintage lamps danced on the corners of the paper sheets placed on the table.Hu: Frissen főtt kávé illata szállt a levegőben, és a forró ital hamarosan mindenki tenyerét átmelegítette.En: The aroma of freshly brewed coffee filled the air, and the hot drink soon warmed everyone's palms.Hu: Aznap különleges nap volt, Vízkereszt előtti este.En: That day was special; it was the evening before Epiphany.Hu: Réka már napok óta erre a pillanatra készült, hogy a családjával otthon ünnepelhessen.En: Réka had been preparing for this moment for days, eager to celebrate at home with her family.Hu: Azonban András, a kedves, bár kissé figyelmetlen főnök, váratlanul egy sürgős projektmunkával lepte meg őket.En: However, András, the kind but somewhat inattentive boss, unexpectedly surprised them with an urgent project task.Hu: Az anyagot másnap reggelre kellett leadni.En: The material had to be submitted by the next morning.Hu: Réka szíve összeszorult a gondolatra.En: Réka's heart sank at the thought.Hu: "Réka, tudom, hogy haza szeretnél menni," kezdte András, miközben elfoglalása egy bocsánatkérő mosollyal párosította.En: "Réka, I know you want to go home," started András, accompanying his statement with an apologetic smile.Hu: "De ez a projekt nagyon fontos.En: "But this project is very important."Hu: "Gábor rápillantott Rékára.En: Gábor glanced at Réka.Hu: Mindig is támogatta kollégáját, még akkor is, amikor a dolgok bonyolulttá váltak.En: He had always supported his colleague, even when things got complicated.Hu: Réka mélyet sóhajtott, majd összeszedte a bátorságát.En: Réka took a deep breath and gathered her courage.Hu: "Gábor, segítenél nekem?En: "Gábor, would you help me?"Hu: " kérdezte alázatosan.En: she asked humbly.Hu: "Ha megosztanánk a munkát, talán mindketten időben végezhetnénk.En: "If we split the work, maybe we could both finish in time."Hu: "Gábor habozás nélkül bólintott.En: Gábor nodded without hesitation.Hu: "Természetesen.En: "Of course.Hu: Osszuk fel a feladatokat, és kezdjünk neki.En: Let's divide the tasks and get started."Hu: "Míg a kinti hóesés fagyos csendjét a kávézó melegsége ellensúlyozta, Réka és Gábor együtt dolgoztak.En: While the freezing silence of the snowfall outside was counterbalanced by the warmth of the café, Réka and Gábor worked together.Hu: Végül, ahogy a kávézó órája késő estére kúszott, Réka befejezte a saját részét.En: Finally, as the café's clock crept into the late evening, Réka finished her part.Hu: Felsóhajtott a megkönnyebbüléstől, hálás pillantást vetve Gáborra.En: She sighed in relief, casting a grateful glance at Gábor.Hu: "András, készen vagyunk," szólt, miközben becsomagolta a laptopját.En: "András, we're done," she said as she packed up her laptop.Hu: "Gábor nélkül nem sikerült volna.En: "I couldn't have done it without Gábor."Hu: "András mosolyogva nézett rájuk.En: András looked at them with a smile.Hu: "Remek munka, mindkettőtöknek.En: "Great work, both of you."Hu: "Réka boldogan köszönt el, és sietett haza.En: Réka happily said goodbye and hurried home.Hu: A lakásba lépve meleg szeretet fogadta.En: When she stepped into the apartment, she was greeted by a warm embrace.Hu: A család már várta, és gyertyák fénye árnyékokat vetített a falra.En: Her family was already waiting, and the flickering candlelight cast shadows on the walls.Hu: Az Epiphany esti ünnepség megkezdődött, és Réka szívét elöntötte a melegség.En: The Epiphany evening celebration had begun, and Réka's heart was filled with warmth.Hu: Ahogy nyugovóra tért az este végén, Rékában különös érzés uralkodott el.En: As she went to bed that night, Réka was overcome with a peculiar feeling.Hu: Megtanulta, hogy nem kell mindent egyedül megkísérelnie.En: She had learned that she didn't have to attempt everything on her own.Hu: Az együttműködés ereje segítette, hogy az élet és a munka között egyensúlyt teremtsen.En: The power of collaboration had helped her balance life and work.Hu: Végül is, a csapatmunka erősebbé tette őt.En: After all, teamwork had made her stronger. Vocabulary Words:chilly: csípőscozy: otthonosatmosphere: hangulatvintage: vintagebrew: főttpalms: tenyerétEpiphany: Vízkeresztprevailed: uralkodottsubmitted: leadniapologetic: bocsánatkérőglance: pillanatcomplicated: bonyolulttácourage: bátorságáthumbly: alázatosanhesitation: habozáscounterbalance: ellensúlyoztacreep: kúszottsigh: felsóhajtottrelief: megkönnyebbüléstőlembrace: szeretetflickering: gyertyákpeculiar: különöscollaboration: együttműködésbalance: egyensúlytteamwork: csapatmunkainattentive: figyelmetlenurgent: sürgőssubmit: leadnisurprise: megleptewarmth: melegség

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What if your homeschool didn't feel like a checklist, but a life-giving journey? In this Best of Homeschool Super Heroes Workshop episode, Julie Ross shares the tools of a Charlotte Mason education and how they can bring peace, beauty, and connection to your home.You'll learn how to apply these tools—atmosphere, discipline, and life—in a way that nourishes both your children and yourself. This gentle philosophy isn't about replicating school at home; it's about building something far more meaningful.Here's what you'll take away:✅ What it really means to create a homeschool “atmosphere”✅ How habits form the foundation of discipline (without nagging)✅ Why ideas are the most powerful food for the mind✅ How to foster solitude, attention, and curiosity✅ The secret to cultivating beauty and truth in your homeThis week only, you can grab my Charlotte Mason Tool Kit for 50% off as a way to put these ideas into practice without overwhelm. Mentioned Resources: Charlotte Mason Tool Kit - SAVE 50% with code: CM50Show Notes: Welcome to the Three Tools of a Life-Giving EducationHey, hello everyone. Welcome to the three tools of a life-giving education. I'm so excited to talk to you today about these amazing tools that we have for free.Charlotte Mason said, "Education is an atmosphere and a discipline and a life more important than the curriculum you're using." That's just one of the tools. Any resource you use can be shaped and guided according to these three tools to give your children a life-giving education.Before we dive into today's talk, I just want to introduce myself. I'm Julie Ross. I'm the creator of the Charlotte Mason curriculum, A Gentle Feast. I'm a homeschool veteran of over 20 years. I have five kiddos—one has graduated recently from college and then the other will be a senior in college in neuroscience next year. And then I have three teenagers that I'm still homeschooling.So I've been homeschooling for a while. Before that, I was a public school educator and I helped start a private Christian school. So I've been in the educational space for about 30 years now. And I'm also a certified Christian life coach. So I'm going to bring in all my experience as a teacher, as a homeschool mom, as a coach, and bring that all in and hopefully give you a really practical look at how these three tools of a Charlotte Mason education can help transform your homeschool.Tool #1: Education Is an AtmosphereSo let's start off with the first one. Education is an atmosphere. What in the world does that even mean? That seems so bizarre. Atmosphere, what does it have to do? How is that a tool to help guide our education?I would say this is in fact one of the most, if not the most important tool. Charlotte Mason said, "Therefore, we are limited to three educational instruments: the atmosphere of environment, the discipline of habit, and the presentation of living ideas." Going back again to the motto, education is an atmosphere, discipline, and a life.So, what are we talking about when we're talking about the atmosphere of your home or the home environment? This is from a Parents' Review article. That's the magazine that Charlotte Mason edited. And this author wrote, "There are many important aspects of home life, from first training to highest education, but there is nothing in the way of direct teaching that will ever have so wide and lasting an effect as the atmosphere of home."And the gravest thought concerning this is that in this instant, there's nothing to learn and nothing to teach. The atmosphere emanates from ourselves as the parents. It literally is ourselves. Our children live in it and breathe it and what we are is thus incorporated into them. There is no pretense here or possibility of evasion. We may deceive ourselves in the long run. We never deceive our children. The spirit of home lives in what is more—home atmosphere is accentuated in them. Atmosphere is much more than teaching and infinitely more than talk.And when I first read this quote, I was unbelievably convicted. Because the atmosphere of my home at the time was not what I wanted. It was not what I wanted my homeschool to be like. I felt like I was a drill sergeant constantly giving out orders, constantly wondering like why is this not done? This was supposed to be done minutes ago. Everybody get in the car. We got to go to this and we were just hurry hurry hurry stress stress stress stress.And I was like, this isn't why I homeschooled. This isn't the atmosphere I want to create. Because Charlotte Mason is saying here, this atmosphere that you might not even realize is what is going on in your home is going to have such a lasting effect on your children.What Atmosphere Do You Want to Create?I wanted my children to feel like school and learning was just part of life and it was this beautiful atmosphere. I wanted us to have deep connections. I wanted my kids to be curious. I wanted them to have time to be creative. And I realized that by me being stressed out all the time, I was actually hurting my children and creating an atmosphere of our home that was not conducive to learning.And so if this quote really convicts you as well, I have some hope. So basically what she's saying is that education is an atmosphere. Our children are breathing it. We can't see it, right? And that these become the ideas which rule their lives. They're getting this from us.So, we are the thermostats of our homes. We're setting the temperature. We are either making it really hot, really stressful, really high pressure environment, or we can make the atmosphere of our home peaceful, joyous. Isn't that what we all want, right?So, what words would you use to describe the current atmosphere of your home? This might be something you've never even thought of before. Because before I read Charlotte Mason's teaching, I never—all I was thinking about was like our to-do list and am I choosing the right curriculum and what does our schedule look like and never considered how I was showing up and how that was affecting the temperature of our home. What word would you describe the atmosphere of your home?Common Homeschool Thoughts That Create StressAnd I want you to think about if you've ever had these thoughts in your homeschool: We are so far behind. My child is so difficult. It shouldn't be this hard. I don't know what I'm doing. I'm going to mess up my child. We are constantly butting heads about school. My child is not working up to their potential. I'm overwhelmed.Have you ever had any of these thoughts? I'm guessing most of us who are listening to this have. I know I have had all of those. That's why I wrote them down.If we want to change the atmosphere of our home, we have to be willing to get really honest with ourselves, be willing to pause and to ask ourselves, what am I thinking about my homeschool on a regular basis?How Your Thoughts Create Your AtmosphereWhen I read these words to you, how does that make you feel? For me, I feel like I have a weight like right here. Like I can't breathe. I feel all shame, guilt. You might feel afraid, discouraged, disappointed.And when we have these feelings, which are coming from what we're continually telling ourselves, our continual thoughts and stories, and we have these feelings, it affects the way that we show up. And we're not showing up as our most calm, peaceful, loving selves. And that's creating an atmosphere that we don't want.So in order to create the atmosphere that we do want, we have to look at taking our thoughts captive and by telling ourselves a different story.Charlotte Mason put it this way: "Let not the nervous, anxious, worried mother think this easy, happy relation with her children is for her. She may be the best mother in the world, but the thing that her children will get from her in these moods is a touch of her nervousness, most catching of complaints. She will find them fractious, rebellious, unmanageable, and will be slow to realize that it is her fault. Not the fault of her act, but of her state."So, not the fault of the actions, even though those do have such a great effect, but it's coming from your state, your thoughts. What are you feeling on a regular basis? And are your children catching that?I used to think my children complain all the time. And then I realized, oh, I'm the one complaining all the time. Why is it taking you so long to do that? That should have been finished already. I can't believe you don't understand that. Why do I always have to come back up after you and clean up? And then I wondered why they had bad attitudes. Right?I had to turn the mirror around and look at myself and say, "What am I producing in this atmosphere? How am I showing up?"Changing Your Thoughts to Change Your AtmosphereAnd like I said, we can focus on our actions and be like, I just need to respond in anger less. I just need to respond with a more gentle voice. Yes, that's all true. But we can't just will ourselves to change our action without changing our state, without changing the thoughts that we're thinking on a regular basis.So change your thoughts and change the atmosphere of your home. It sounds easier, really. It sounds a lot easier than it actually is. But when you get into the practice of it, most of us don't even know what we're thinking ever. We just live our lives on autopilot. So, we're just always in reaction mode.So, taking the time to pause and say, "What do I actually think on a regular basis? What am I telling myself about myself as a homeschool mom or about our homeschool, about my kids, and how is that affecting my mood and then my actions?"So, how do we change our thoughts? So, first of all, be mindful throughout the day. Start to take notice, which means you actually have to have margin in your day to pause. Think on purpose. Tell yourself what you're going to think instead. And I'll give you some hints for that in a second.Training Your Brain to Find the GoodAnd then start to find the good. Our brains are naturally wired to keep us safe. So they will find all the things that are wrong. If I said, "What's not working in your homeschool?" You probably could tell me 10 things. And if I said, "How have you been successful in your homeschool this year?" That might be a little harder for you to think of something because our brains naturally look for what's wrong to keep us safe.And so your brain is doing that all day long. It's looking for all this evidence and all these things that are wrong. We need to train it to start finding the good. That means starting to celebrate the small things. Oh my goodness, my son just shared his pencil with his sister. Oh my goodness, like that read aloud. That was so impactful. Oh my goodness, like we went on our nature walk and nobody got hurt.Start to have gratitude for those small things and it will change the way your brain is seeing things that are already there. You're already doing good things. Your brain's just naturally filtering them out trying to find the things that are wrong.Thoughts to Tell Yourself on PurposeSo let's go back to this telling your brain what to think on purpose. We're going to be intentional here. If we're intentional about the atmosphere that we want to create in our home, we have to be intentional with what thoughts we're telling ourselves.So, telling yourself what to think on purpose. Here are some thoughts you might want to try on and see how they fit and start repeating these to yourself. You can journal about them. You could put them on a post-it note. You can embroider them on a pillow. Whatever works for you to start to train your brain to think differently.So: I am the perfect person to homeschool my children. I am on a journey and progressing at the perfect pace. I respond with patience, trusting that all things are working for good. I am grateful to be homeschooling my children. Good things happen every day in our home. I have control over my thoughts, feelings, and energy. I am present and focused during our homeschooling. Our days are full of beauty, laughter, and rich ideas. I will not fear because I work in cooperation with the divine teacher. Mistakes are an opportunity to learn and grow. I am becoming better each day.So, come up with your own if these don't really resonate with you. What are some truths? It might not always feel true. Do I always feel like I'm the perfect person to homeschool my children? Absolutely not. But is that true? Yes.Write those things down and start to tell yourself these stories instead. Start to change your thoughts and see if that affects the atmosphere of your home and what you are working. Work on yourself. Put on your own oxygen mask. Train your brain to start to think differently so that you can show up as your highest, most loving, most calm, most peaceful, most engaged, most curious, most playful self and see how that changes the atmosphere of your home.Tool #2: Education Is a DisciplineAll right, moving on. Charlotte Mason said, "Education is a discipline." By education as a discipline, we mean the discipline of habits definitely formed and thoughtfully, whether habits of mind or body.So the word discipline, you might think of something else, but what Charlotte Mason is referring to are the habits. We have to discipline ourselves to do things on a regular basis. The more we do something, the more neuropathways it makes in our brains and then it becomes a habit. It's not something we have to think about.The Habit of AttentionOne of the habits that's really important to foster is the habit of attention. Charlotte Mason talks about how important that is. We need to have the habit of attention so that we can be focused and really engaged on what we're learning.So this comes from her work, A Philosophy of Education: "Another misconception we have concerns attention. We think that to capture a child's attention with persuasion, dramatic presentations, pictures and visual models. But the fact is a teacher who succeeds depends on his charismatic personality is merely an actor who belongs on a stage."Okay, so this takes the pressure off you. You don't need a bunch of props, games, videos to make every lesson fun in order to gain your child's attention.We now know that attention is not one faculty of the brain and it's not a definable power of the mind. It's the ability to turn on that power and concentrate. We have that attention there. Can you turn it on when you need to? By capturing a child's attention with gimmicks, we waste our time.The ability to focus the attention is already there in the child as much as he needs. It's like a forceful river just waiting to obey the child's own authority to turn it on. Yes, it's capable of stubbornly resisting attempts to be coerced that are imposed from without.What we need to do is recognize that attention is one of the appetites and then we'll feed it with the best we have in living books and knowledge. But paying attention is something the child has to do on their own. We can't do it for them.Feeding Attention with Living BooksIt's not for us to be the fountain of all knowledge. We don't know enough. We don't speak well enough. We're too vague and random to cope with the capability of creatures who are thirsty for knowledge. Instead of pretending to be the source of their education, we must realize that books, the very best books, are the source. And we must put that resource into their hands and read them for ourselves, too.So, our children have this amazing ability to pay attention. And I'm sure you've seen this in your own kids. When they're so focused that nothing you say to them like they can't even hear you. When does that happen? When they're really engrossed in something that they care about, right?Whether that's they're playing a video game or a TV—and sadly that's really damaged our attention spans. But if your child is like making something with Legos and they're so into it, like they're so focused on it, they don't realize what else is going on in the world.And we want to capture that attention when it comes to our school lessons. But most of what we give kids is so dry and so boring that we're actually training them in the habit of not paying attention. And we want to give them the very best book, Charlotte Mason says, because that captures attention.And I'm sure you've read a really great book, right? And you're like so engrossed in the book and your kids are, "Hey, mom, are we ever like going to get to eat today?" And you're like, "What? It's 5 o'clock already?" Right? You like couldn't put the book down.That was like a living amazing story that captured your imagination, that captured your attention. And we want that for our kids. We don't need to come up with all these games and gimmicks to get their attention. If we give them really good books, they'll be like, "Oh, no, wait. Keep reading." That's what we want. That's how we foster this habit of attention.The Power of Short LessonsAll right. And then we want to build some other habits into our school day. So, a habit of attention is so key because that's going to get them to focus. Charlotte Mason also encouraged short lessons. By having short lessons, it's easier to pay attention.Do you know the average adult attention span now is less than 30 seconds? But we're expecting our children to pay attention for 45 minutes of a grammar lesson. That's so unrealistic.Charlotte Mason had short lessons. They didn't have 45-minute lessons till they were in high school. And that's very few subjects actually. And when they're young, a lesson might only take 5 to 10 minutes. By being able to focus, be interested in it, caring about it, you're able to go through school in a shorter amount of time than having these subjects drag on and on and on and on and on.Okay, so I wanted to mention short lessons as well. Okay, so let's move into some other foundational habits that you might want to consider building into your homeschool.The Habit of Outdoor TimeSo the first one is the habit of outdoor time. Charlotte Mason talks a lot about this, but we need to make it a habit. It's not just something like, oh, I hope when we have extra time, we can go do something outside. It needs to be something that is so vital.Here's what she said. This is from volume one: "It is infinitely well worth the mother's while to take some pains every day to secure in the first place that her children spend hours daily amongst rural and natural objects and in the second place to infuse into them or to rather cherish in them the love of investigation. A love of nature implanted so early that it will seem to them thereafter to have been born in them will enrich their lives with pure interests, absorbing pursuits, health, and good humor."So she says the mom has to take pains to secure outdoor time. So it might not always be easy. It might not always be pleasant. That's the thing about a habit, right? When you first starting to build a habit, like going to the gym, it's hard. The more you do it, the easier it becomes, right? You don't have to think about waking up and brushing your teeth. You just do it. It's habitual.So we want to create this pattern of loving nature, of investigating and being curious and having wonder about God's creation and being outside. And so we build that habit again over time. So at first it might be a little painful, but eventually it will build this love of nature within your children.So looking at how can you make this a habit in your day, in your week so that it's something that starts to happen naturally and it's not so hard to get outside.The Habit of RoutinesAnother habit is having routines. So in the book For the Children's Sake, which if you have not read this and you're interested at all in Charlotte Mason, this is my go-to book. You must try this one. She says routines form habits. So if you want to have good habits, you need to add routines into your homeschool day.She says, "Take the area of human relationships. Routines do not make the relationship, but they are the frame upon which we hang our experiences. Some families do not have a routine of eating meals together anymore. Anytime goes for snacking. People rush about at a thousand activities, any one of which could be good. But what is the sum total? Without the priority of a framework, nothing much happens. Few conversations, little time of togetherness."A family decides to read a book together whenever there's time. But invariably there's no time. It is essential to have these basic routines. Children love routines. It frees their attention again—this habit of attention—for the activity at hand.Later on, other routines help the child along. When planning routines, priority must be given to the most important things. The person matters. Whether it be child, husband, wife or friend, we all need time to talk, read, relax and work together. Our relationship with God matters. Where is the time to be found for that? I am a part of his creation. Where will I have time to get out and enjoy nature? Again, that other habit of being outside.There is too much work to be done and I am finite. I need to accept that reality and plan the time and priorities carefully.So, when you are planning out your school year, think about what are the priorities for you. Do you want to build in these habits of being outside, of reading together, of spending time in God's word? Make it a routine. The more you do something, the stronger that habit will become and the easier it will be to make that happen.So, as you're planning out your school day, what are the routines that can make these habits form more easily into your day? And you're not always having to make a million decisions all day about do we do this next, do we do that, do we decide to go here, do we do this? By having these routines, it eliminates a lot of that decision fatigue, which will be so helpful.The Habit of SolitudeAnd the next one is the habit of solitude, which might be something you have not thought of. And I think it's really interesting. I'm going to have to put my glasses on here because I have this quote on my phone and it's really hard to read. Bear with me one second here.All right. "For the right use of programs"—at Charlotte Mason's programs—"two things are necessary: solitude and independence." Okay. For the right use of the programs, two things are necessary: solitude and independence. Children must have these.Nursery children come off fairly well in these respects. They get time where they can wander and dream alone in the garden. But this happy state ends where schoolroom life begins. Lessons, walk, and lessons again. Always in company, always having something that must be done now.Miss Mason devises the timetables—that's those short lessons I was talking about—which cover such reasonable hours as to leave time over for the solitude. But parents are often very culpable in thinking that tango—isn't that so funny—or some other new thing must be learned as well. The much needed time for solitude is used for plans which necessitate hurried journeys always in the company of a responsible person who feels it's her duty to talk in an instructive way.And the thinking time, the growing time, the time in which the mind is to find food is diminished and the child becomes restless, tiresome, irritable, disobedient. Everything that a child who is reputed to be difficult can be. The parents marvel and say, "But we are giving him the best education that can be procured. We are neglecting no opportunities."Kind, generous parents, you are giving your child every opportunity but one, and that is self-development. By your generous care, you are safeguarding him from ever using his own mind, ever relying upon himself in any way.The child who at first found interference irksome later depends on it so much that he is unable to work without the constant prodding of a mentor. I believe that this is the prime reason of the oft repeated lament of teachers and professors: Little ones are so eager. Older children are less keen. Adults are dull.Wow. If you want to feed your child's mind, you have to build in times of solitude into your day. Time when your children are alone with their imaginations, when you're not hurried from one thing to the next.And there's so many amazing opportunities now for homeschoolers that weren't around when I started. But it can be so easy to pack our day where we're constantly on these hurried journeys. And our children don't have time to think, to be alone with our own thoughts, and to allow these ideas start to form and take root in their mind and to develop their imagination.So, make sure you're leaving time for the habit of solitude in your day.Questions to Consider About HabitsSo, here are some questions to consider when it comes to building good habits into your homeschool: How am I fostering good habits in my own life? So, we have to start with ourselves. If we're not building good habits in our own life, we are not going to be good models for our children on how to stay consistent with something, how to will ourselves to do something that we actually don't really want to do. We need to model that first for our kids.Does my homeschool routine make good habits easy? Again, routines are going to be the tracks that these habits are going to go on and that's going to make everything so much easier in your day.And what's one habit that would bring more ease to our homeschool day? What's one thing you could start maybe even this summer that could be a habit that gets built that's going to make things easier come fall?Tool #3: Education Is a LifeAnd then the last one is education is a life. In saying that education is the life, the need of intellectual and moral as well as a physical sustenance is applied. The mind feeds on ideas. Therefore, children should have a generous curriculum.Education is a life. It is living. We want to give our kids a life-giving education. We're not just feeding their mind, but we're feeding their whole personhood, their physical body, their moral body, them as spiritual beings, right?What Does the Mind Need to Grow?But what does the mind actually need to grow? Are we feeding it the proper food? Charlotte Mason would say a mind can only be fed upon ideas. We can stuff a bunch of information in there, she says, but it's like sawdust in the cogs of a machine.We're just filling our children with a bunch of information. They might look really stuffed and like they know a whole lot, but there's no depth to what they're actually learning. Only ideas can take root and be the proper food that your child's mind needs.So what is what do we mean by that? What's an idea? So she says an idea is more than an image or a picture. It is so to speak a spiritual germ, a little seed endowed with vital force and with power that is to grow and produce after its kind.It's the very nature of an idea to grow. As the vegetable germ secretes that it lives by so fairly implant an idea in the child's mind and it will secrete its own food and it will grow and it will bear fruit and it will inform a succession of like ideas.Charlotte Mason calls this the science of relations. These little ideas that come into our children's mind through the books that we're reading, through the art that we're looking at, through the music, through the being out and investigating out in nature. These little seeds when they have time for solitude to grow, they will grow on their own and they will connect to other ideas.We don't have to put all the connections and make a cute little unit study where everything all goes together for our kids. Their brains are naturally going to make these connections as these ideas are growing. Those synapses are going to start connecting. And it's such a beautiful thing to watch because this is their own brain doing the hard work of digesting all this mind food that we're going to give them.Where Do Ideas Come From?So the proper nourishment of ideas, what does this mean? What does this actually look like? What are we putting in here on a regular basis?So first of all, ideas come from stories or books that are written in a narrative fashion. So even high school chemistry, believe it or not, even high school physics can be written in a narrative fashion where there's an idea, there's something that captures your imagination. It's not just a bunch of facts.She says, "I think we owe it to our children to let them dig their knowledge of whatever subjects for themselves out of the book. What a child digs is his own possession."So, as a teacher, we're not having to learn all the information. We're not the fountain head of all knowledge. We're not having to digest all the material and put it together and then teach it to our kids. We are putting them in touch with real books where the authors are passionate about the subject and those books are the ones that are teaching our children. They're the ones that are feeding their minds with all these amazing ideas.We also—and this is like a common misconception with Charlotte Mason is oh you just read books all day. No, children are also doing things with their hands and ideas can come from these things as well. They have these natural objects. They're outside. They're out in nature. They're investigating. They're exploring. They're learning these gross motor skills. They're working with handicrafts, with wood and leather and clay.They have natural objects. They're seeing the birds and the plants and the trees and these things that are outside. They're observing. They're understanding cause and effect and making conclusions about the way the world works. They're looking at art and using science things. All of these grow ideas in a child's mind. So it's not just books but books and things.Cultivate Your Own MindAnd then you need to cultivate your own mind. If you want to be pouring ideas into your children, you need ideas coming into your own mind. She says we need not say one word about the necessity for living thought in the teacher. It is only so far as he is intellectually alive that he can be effective in the wonderful process which we glibly call education.I love this. Only so far as he is intellectually alive. So you need to make habits of feeding your own mind with these ideas through books or things or trying new things, learning new skills or habits so that you are growing your own mind and then you can pour that forth into your children. That's what makes you a living, growing human and that will inspire them as well to follow this kind of lifelong educational path.The Danger of Education Without IdeasCharlotte Mason said it is possible to pass even the university's local examinations with credit without ever having experienced that vital stir which marks the inception of an idea. And if we have succeeded in escaping this disturbing influence while we have finished our education, when we leave school, we shut up our books and our minds and remain pygmies in the dark forest of our own dim world of thought and feeling.You can check off all the boxes and pass the tests and never have an idea that changes and shapes you as a person. And that is such a scary thought and such a grave defect of our modern industrialized educational system.Charlotte Mason is advocating for something extremely different. By having the atmosphere be one that fosters connection and creativity and curiosity, by having routines and habits that make learning possible, by having living ideas coming through books and things, your children will constantly have these seeds of ideas planted into their minds that will grow and shape them as full people who, as Charlotte Mason uses this word I love so much, become magnanimous citizens.She says, "How large is the room upon which their feet are set?" And you get to have the amazing opportunity to use those three tools of a Charlotte Mason education to provide your child with an amazingly large room full of beautiful, rich, good, and true ideas.Get Started with These ToolsIf you want to get started using these tools and you're like, I have no idea how to even start. And you want to bring some truth, goodness, and beauty into your homeschool day, I have a free morning time packet. All you have to do is scan that QR code. It's called Times of Togetherness. And there's some other fun activities in there as well to help your family develop the habit and the culture of coming together and looking at scripture, listening to hymns, looking at beautiful art and poetry to grow that goodness in your hearts and minds and to fill yourself with these living ideas.So if you want to grab that, you can grab that there. I would also love to connect with you. My curriculum, A Gentle Feast, can be found at gentlefeast.com. I also have a podcast where I encourage modern homeschool moms to create a life and homeschool they love. It's called The Feast Life. You can find it in all the podcast platforms.And then we also have a free Facebook group if you'd like to join. Just learn some more about this philosophy, connect with other like-minded moms. It's a really great, wonderful group of moms in that Facebook community called The Feast Life Community. Just search for them on Facebook and you will find us.So, thank you so much for listening. I hope this is helpful. I hope you'll be able to look at your homeschool for next school year and say, "What kind of atmosphere am I creating? How can I use this tool of habits to make our days smoother and easier? And then what living ideas are coming forth from what I'm choosing to use in our homeschool? And am I feeding my children with the kind of rich ideas that their minds actually need to grow upon?" So, thank you so much for listening. I really appreciate it.

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Blending a family takes grace—and so does blending your finances.When couples merge families, they're also merging priorities, habits, and sometimes, financial baggage. Ron Deal joins us today to show us that with honesty and a shared vision, what begins as a challenge can become a source of strength for blended families navigating both money and marriage.Ron Deal is a bestselling author, licensed marriage & family therapist, podcaster, and popular conference speaker who specializes in marriage enrichment and stepfamily education and is the co-author of The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a Family. Why Honest Money Conversations MatterThere once was a man who, when his girlfriend thought he was about to propose, surprised her by asking for her credit report instead. It's a funny story—but one that reveals a serious truth. Beneath money conversations are usually heart conversations.For couples forming blended families, this truth runs even deeper. Life has already taught them that marriage isn't guaranteed, whether because of death or a divorce. That experience creates an understandable sense of caution: How deeply do I invest again? Can I trust this new relationship?Money becomes the testing ground for those questions. That's why avoiding financial conversations doesn't protect your relationship—it weakens it. Only about one in four dating or engaged couples forming a blended family ever have a serious talk about finances before they marry. The rest often underestimate what needs to be uncovered.Finances are never just about dollars and cents. They're about values, power, and security. Beneath a discussion about budgets might be an unspoken fear: Will your children be treated equally with mine? Beneath a talk about wills might be a hidden worry: Will you care for my kids if I'm gone?There was once a woman who had been remarried for 25 years—two and a half decades of life together—and she still wondered whether her husband would provide equally for her children after she passed away. The question had never been resolved. It lingered from the past, quietly shaping their relationship.When those unspoken fears remain unaddressed, they create invisible walls. Healthy couples have the courage to name them and work through them together.The Challenge of Inheritance and TrustConsider the story of Sandra and Dave, a couple who married later in life. Sandra, a divorced mother of two adult children, was asked by her new husband, Dave, to change her will and make him her sole beneficiary. To Dave, who had no children of his own, the request seemed simple and loving: We're one now—just leave everything to me, and I'll take care of your family.But Sandra hesitated. Her adult children hadn't had time to form a close bond with Dave. For her, the request stirred deep questions: How do I know that what she's set aside for her children will be honored after she's gone?This is where trust, loyalty, and belonging intersect. Financial peace in a blended family isn't achieved through documents—it's achieved through relational clarity. You can't solve financial questions until you've addressed the relational ones.Moving from Prenuptial to TogethernessSo what's the alternative? In the book, The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a Family, Ron Deal, Greg Pettis, and David Edwards, introduce what they call a “Togetherness Agreement.”Think of it as a redeemed version of a prenuptial agreement. A traditional prenup is something you do to your spouse—it outlines what they won't receive if the marriage fails. But a Togetherness Agreement is something you do for your spouse. It outlines how you will lovingly and intentionally provide for one another and your families.In a Togetherness Agreement, couples prayerfully decide together:How do they care for children from prior relationshipsHow inherited or premarital assets will be handledHow responsibilities to other households or parents will be honoredAnd how they'll support one another financially in love and unityIt's not about dividing assets—it's about uniting hearts. This process builds emotional safety, which in turn builds trust. When couples feel safe, they can finally exhale, knowing they are truly invested in each other.Taking Inventory—Emotionally and FinanciallyBefore crafting any agreement, couples need to take inventory. That means both emotional and financial reflection.Ask questions like:What financial baggage or debts are we bringing in?What past wounds or fears still shape the way we view money?What are our goals—for our family, our faith, and our future?Blended families are always born out of loss—whether death, divorce, or something else. That history doesn't have to define the new relationship, but it does need to be acknowledged. Honest reflection helps couples avoid repeating old patterns and build a healthier foundation together.Every couple's situation is different, but here are key topics that should be covered in a Togetherness Agreement:Joint and separate accountsDebt and financial obligations from prior marriagesChild or spousal support payments to other householdsRetirement, insurance, and investmentsCollege, cars, and other child-related expensesCovering these topics doesn't weaken love—it strengthens it. It replaces assumptions with clarity and fear with peace.If all of this feels overwhelming, take heart. You don't have to figure it out alone. Seek wise counsel—a trusted financial planner, pastor, or Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) can help you find creative and God-honoring ways to care for your family.And above all, remember this: God's grace is sufficient for your blended family. Submit your plans to Him. Let Him guide the process. As you do, He will grow you—not only in financial wisdom, but in love, unity, and faith.When couples move from mine and yours to ours, they begin to reflect the very heart of God, who makes two one, and who calls us to love generously, even in the way we handle money.On Today's Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:I've been struggling with $26,000 in credit card debt that I recently disclosed to my husband. A credit consolidation company says they can negotiate it down, so I'd pay $400 every two weeks and be debt-free in four years. It sounds good, but is this a trustworthy option—or are there drawbacks I should watch out for?I have UTMA accounts for my two sons, but I am considering switching to 529 plans. I'm mainly concerned that with the UTMA, they'll gain full control of the money once they come of age. Would a 529 plan be a wiser choice?Resources Mentioned:Faithful Steward: FaithFi's New Quarterly Magazine (Become a FaithFi Partner)The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a Family by Ron L. Deal. Greg S. Pettys and David O. EdwardsChristian Credit CounselorsWisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on MoneyLook At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and AnxietyRich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich FoolFind a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA)FaithFi App Remember, you can call in to ask your questions every workday at (800) 525-7000. Faith & Finance is also available on Moody Radio Network and American Family Radio. You can also visit FaithFi.com to connect with our online community and partner with us as we help more people live as faithful stewards of God's resources. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Have you ever felt alone, even when you're surrounded by people?Loneliness isn't just about being by yourself. It's about feeling disconnected.In this episode, we'll talk about the quiet ache of feeling unseen in relationships. Why being near someone isn't the same as feeling close.And how to start building the kind of connection where you feel truly understood.Listen in as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1.

Can we ever be truly alone? In episode 146 of Overthink, Ellie and David talk with philosopher Dan Zahavi about his book, Being We: Phenomenological Contributions to Social Ontology. They discuss how the increase in communication through screens has shifted what it means to be together, the decline of social bonds in political life, and what phenomenological understandings of empathy tell us about being together. How do dyadic relationships such as romantic love and friendship shape our identities? Does there need to be a conception of the self that precedes sociality? What are the different types of "we"? In the Substack bonus segment, Ellie and David get into some juicy stories about their own experiences of togetherness in the beautiful city of Madrid. Works discussed:Alison Gopnik, The Philosophical Baby: What Children's Minds Tell Us About Truth, Love, and the Meaning of LifeIvan Leudar and Philip Thomas, Voices of Reason, Voices of InsanitySherry Turkle, Alone Together: Why We Expect More from Technology and Less from Each OtherGerda Walther, Toward an Ontology of Social CommunitiesDan Zahavi, Being We: Phenomenological Contributions to Social OntologyEnjoy our work? Support Overthink via tax-deductible donation: https://www.givecampus.com/fj0w3vJoin our Substack for ad-free versions of both audio and video episodes, extended episodes, exclusive live chats, and more: https://overthinkpod.substack.com/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to a new episode of The Way Out Is In: The Zen Art of Living, a podcast series mirroring Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh's deep teachings of Buddhist philosophy: a simple yet profound methodology for dealing with our suffering, and for creating more happiness and joy in our lives. This is the recording of our second live public event, which recently took place in London. Zen Buddhist monk Brother Phap Huu and leadership coach/journalist Jo Confino are joined on stage by special guest Ocean Vuong, Vietnamese American poet, essayist, and novelist. Their conversation explores the themes of joy, togetherness, and cultivating courage in the face of hardship and suffering; the role of language, narrative, and technology in shaping modern experiences of suffering and joy; intergenerational trauma; and more. All three share personal experiences and insights about finding meaning and community amidst individual and collective challenges. Ocean recollects the way that, growing up in a community impacted by the opioid crisis, Buddhism and the teachings of Thich Nhat Hanh provided solace and a path to understanding suffering, while Brother Phap Huu reflects on his journey to become a Zen Buddhist monk, and the role of kindness, fearlessness, and vulnerability in his practice. The discussion culminates with a chant offered by Ocean as a message of hope and resilience in the face of adversity. Co-produced by the Plum Village App:https://plumvillage.app/   And Global Optimism:https://globaloptimism.com/ With support from the Thich Nhat Hanh Foundation:https://thichnhathanhfoundation.org/ List of resources Ocean Vuong https://www.oceanvuong.com Being with Busyness: Zen Ways to Transform Overwhelm and Burnouthttps://www.parallax.org/product/being-with-busyness/ Calm in the Storm: Zen Ways to Cultivate Stability in an Anxious Worldhttps://www.parallax.org/product/calm-in-the-storm/ Interbeinghttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interbeing W. S. Merwinhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/W._S._Merwin Harry Beecher Stowehttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harriet_Beecher_Stowe  Tom Brokawhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tom_Brokaw Duḥkhahttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Du%E1%B8%A5kha Ford Model Thttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ford_Model_T The Dhammapadahttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dhammapada Anaphorahttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anaphora_(rhetoric) Schadenfreudehttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schadenfreude ‘Bright Morning Star'https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bright_Morning_Star ‘The Five Earth Touchings'https://plumvillage.org/key-practice-texts/the-five-earth-touchings Quotes “When drinking water, remember the source.” “On the last day of the world / I would want to plant a tree / what for / not for the fruit […] / I want the tree that stands / in the earth for the first time / with the sun already / going down” – from ‘Place' by W.S. Merwin. “Being a Vietnamese person in the diaspora, for many of us, the temple or the church or what have you is the place where we hear Vietnamese at the longest unbroken duration. Whereas someone native to Vietnam would hear it all the time. So, to this day, the Vietnamese language, to me, elicits this collective desire to heal and understand suffering. And it’s very specific to the immigrant. It’s what I call a third culture: there’s nothing like it in the homeland; there’s nothing like it in the assimilated American ethos. But there’s this special place that displacement and violence created.” “In Plum Village, when I first entered, I was 13 years old, and I touched a kind of kindness that I’d never touched before. And I asked myself whether I could be a kind person. I think I’m good; I think I’m going to have a career of offering smiles.” “I invite us, as a collective, to invoke this peace that we can bring in our hearts and into the world at this moment. Body, speech, and mind in perfect oneness. I send my heart along with the sound of this bell. May the hearers awaken from forgetfulness and transcend the path of anxiety and sorrow.” “Just a smile can save someone’s life.” “Technology was supposed to bring us together. This is the promise of the Enlightenment. But it’s interesting that all technological movements or renaissances are controlled by the wealthy and the elites. So what I’m interested in, as a writer, as a teacher, is that so much of our world is about material resources and narrative. And this is why I tell my students, ‘They shame you for being a poet, for being a writer: “Oh, you’re doing this liberal arts, naval-gazing, decadent thing, dreaming”' – but the politicians and the elites are poets too. The greatest political speech is the anaphora. Walt Whitman used it as a catalog, but you hear it: ‘We will heal the working class, we will heal the great divide, I will solve, we will heal this country’s heart, we will heal the middle class.' And that's why the anaphora is so useful: because it doesn’t have to explain itself.” “All those in power are also poets. They’re manipulating meaning, but for votes, for profit, for power, towards fascism. And no wonder the system is designed to make you ashamed to be an artist. It’s so interesting, isn’t it, that, in the art world, we’re often asked to be humble, to be grateful for a seat at the table; to perform humility. And I think humility is good; as a Buddhist, I believe in it, but there is a discrepancy here: we never tell people on Wall Street to be humble. You never hear someone say, ‘You know what, we killed it last quarter, so let’s tone it down and be grateful that we have a seat at the economic table.'” “Kindness is more difficult now than ever because I think kindness is something that is deeply dependent on our proximity to suffering. It’s harder for us to comprehend suffering, now. Schadenfreude is in our hands and it’s always easier to see. We’ve normalized suffering so much that we’ve been disassociated from it.” “We speak about inclusiveness and equanimity in Buddhism, but we’re not equal. Some of us are born in places where we have more privileges: in a particular race, in a particular situation, in a particular year. But what is equal is, as human beings, we’re all going to grow old, we’re all going to get sick, we’re all going to have to let go of what we think is permanent. And we’re going to learn to live deeply in the present moment.” “Sadness becomes not just a feeling, but knowledge. So think about sadness as knowledge, as potential, and that anger even has an aftermath. And you realize that the aftermath of anger is care.” “The big trouble with masculinity is that we are not given the ability or the permission to feel and be vulnerable – but we are encouraged to have absolute agency. It’s incredible. It’s a perfect storm of violence: ‘Don’t feel, don’t interrogate, and don’t be vulnerable. But, meanwhile, go get ‘em, buddy.'” “Under our greatest fear is our greatest strength.” “Camus says that writing itself is optimism, because it’s suffering shared. Even if you write about the darkest things, it is optimistic because someone else will recognize it. And recognition is a democratic ideal, because it means that one feeling could then be taken and collaborated with.” “It’s really hard to convince people to go to war, historically. You need a lot of text, you need a lot of airwaves, you need a lot of speeches to convince people to go to war – but it's very easy to convince people to stop war. Very easy for people to stop armament. Difficult for folks who are in control to keep it up, but if you ask the general population, ‘Do you want peace?', it’s quick. So that gives me a little hope.” “In fast food is a kind of sinister beauty, because it’s an industrialized promise of absolute replication of fulfillment – and yet it’s a kind of poison as well. It’s like the ultimate democratic ideal, sadly: we can’t have equality, income equality, or healthcare, but we can all eat McDonald’s French fries, and, whether you’re a billionaire or a houseless person, it will taste the same. Likewise with Coca-Cola, etc. In a way it’s the sinister capaciousness of the American dream: you can all feel the same thing while you’re all slowly dying.”

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