Doggy Style Podcast

Hey guys! We wanted to let you know we've moved. In this episode we talk about what happened to Doggy Style and how you can listen to our new podcast The Not So Perfect Couple Podcast. Make sure to head over there and click subscribe, rate, and review...and lets continue to be the man behind the woman behind the man...as the Not So Perfect Couple! Can't wait to see you there!

Sex Every Other Weekend with Alissa Daire Nelson and Joel Nelson      In this episode, Sam, Pat, Alissa and Joel discuss:   ·        Remarried with children.   ·        How to serve, honor and respect your spouse.   ·        Finding harmony with totally different personalities.  ·        How to decipher anger and irritation.  ·        Just say yes to sex!  Key Takeaways:   ·        Take care of yourself emotionally before getting back in the saddle with dating and remarriage.  ·        You must take responsibility for your actions to be a better spouse, especially after divorce.  ·        Don’t say corrosive things about your spouse to your friends, it’s unproductive and destructive.   ·        Love is unconditional respect and acceptance. Alissa would like to talk to Oprah about love.         "Everyone brings their shit, whether it’s being single for fifteen years or going through a divorce." — Joel Nelson Quote         Connect with Guest:    Twitter: @daire2succeed  Instagram: @alissadairenelson     Website: www.daire2succeed.com     Book: www.daire2succeed.com/the-book-2  Show: www.daire2succeed.com/frickinawesomeentrepreneur     Connect with Sam and Pat:   Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook   Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/    Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life          Show notes by show producer: Laura Gray     Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.   

Make a Love List, Check it Twice with Jim and Jamie Sheils         In this episode, Sam, Pat, Jim and Jamie discuss:    ·        How time management effects the family.   ·        The List of qualities you desire in your future spouse.    ·        Learning together as a couple.  ·        How to deepen your connection with your spouse.     Key Takeaways:    ·        Family time should always be a priority.  ·        Never stop learning about your partner and with your partner.  ·        Love is the cornerstone of a healthy family.  ·        “A genuine desire to be my best self, and for him to be his best self.” -Jamie and “Continuing to grow together.” -Jim              "If you have thirty minutes, you don’t have to have five weeks, you can focus thirty minutes." — Jamie            Connect with Guest:        Instagram: @18summerstribe      Website: 18Summers.com   Email: familyboardmeetings@gmail.com       Connect with Sam and Pat:    Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook    Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/     Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life             Show notes by show producer: Laura Gray        Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.  

Love is Presence with Traci & David Osborn     In this episode, Sam, Pat, Traci and David discuss:  ·         Choosing the relationship first over fights and whatever else may come up.  ·         Meeting your own needs and being responsible for your own happiness.  ·         Tips for maintaining a successful relationship while also shooting for higher levels of success in your professional life.  ·         Finding time to spend with your family and making it count.     Key Takeaways:  ·         Don’t try and make your partner be something other than who they are.  ·         Book in family time and be as present as possible during those times.  ·         Don’t try and escalate a heated situation when you’re in reactionary mode.  ·         Be willing to get help when you need it, there are a lot of resources out there to assist you.  ·         Love is presence – it is being there for someone in the capacity they need you to be.        "A relationship is a hard thing; it’s a beautiful thing. The deeper and longer you go, even though it gets harder, the rewards get better and better." — David Osborn        Connect with David and Traci:  Website:  DavidOsborn.com & TheGoalTemplate.com  Book: Wealth Can’t Wait & Miracle Morning Millionaires     References:  ·         His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof marriage by Willard F. Harley, Jr.  ·         Leadership and Self-Deception: Getting out of the Box by The Arbinger Institute  ·         Moment App     Connect with Sam and Pat:  Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook  Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/  Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life        Show notes by show producer: Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie     Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

Interested in a More Fulfilling Sex Life? With Jaiya   In this episode, Sam and Jaiya discuss: What it means to be a somatic (body based) sexologist and how Jaiya got into the field. The importance of a real, healthy sex conversations and education. Jaiya's Erotic Blueprints which identify your sexual language - like Dr. Chapman's 5 Love Languages but for sex. Questions from Doggy Style Listeners! Key Takeaways: Most people initiate sex in their own, primary blueprint. There are many kinds of orgasms. You are not broken if you don’t have any of them, but anything is possible and you can learn to have all of them! Different sexual challenges can keep things going – 90 days of oral, 40 days of kink, 7 days of sex every day, or even Sam and Paddy's '30-Day Just Say Yes to Sex Challenge.' Give one a try and see what happens. Have a daily pleasure practice, pertaining to your blueprint, and find what turns you on.     "[Love is] keeping my heart open when I want to close it, caring for each other's distress, when you feel like you're home and you create safety for each other rather than triggering each other." — Jaiya     Discover your Blueprint: www.eroticbreakthrough.com/doggystyle   Connect with Jaiya: Twitter:  @JaiyaNWSE Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/JaiyaNWSE/ Instagram: missjaiya     Connect with Sam and Pat: Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life     Show notes by show producer: Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie   Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.   

The Pirate Ship of Love with Jon & Tatyana Vroman     In this episode, Sam, Pat, Jon and Tatyana discuss:  Tatyana's podcast debut!  What Jon and Tatyana have learned about themselves over the course of their 10+ year relationship (patience).  Benefits of afternoon sex and also morning sex.  Being authentic and allowing your partner to be their authentic selves.  Parenting the best you can in the situation now – it’s never too late to be a great parent.  Key Takeaways:  Weekly dates aren't realistic for everyone, but planned time alone together is crucial.  With arguments – it’s timing over topic.  Whoever is the least triggered in an argument is the one responsible for healing the conversation.  Your relationship with your partner needs to be priority #1 if you want to be a great parent.  You can't be everything for your partner and that is not a problem.  At the heart of it, love is patience.        "Anything that happens, it’s worth keeping this marriage going. Even if it’s hard, and difficult, and makes no sense, there is a reason why we are together. And it’s a huge reason." — Tatyana Vroman        Mentions: Hal Elrod, Mike McCarthy, Esther Perel        Connect with Guest:  Twitter:  @jonvroman  Facebook:  Jon Vroman, Tatyana Vroman  Website:  FrontRowDads.com  Book: The Front Row Factor: Transform Your Life with The Art of Moment Making  Show: Front Row Factor, Front Row Dads  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonvroman/     Connect with Sam and Pat:  Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook  Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/  Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life        Show notes by show producer: Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie     Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.    

Quitting is Not an Option: With Nancy & Julio Garcia      In this episode, Sam, Pat, Nancy and Julio discuss:   ·         Loving yourself by standing in your truth about what you need in a relationship  ·         The dangers of falling into a routine in your life and relationship  ·         Finding fun in everything you do – enjoy your life – 80-100 years isn’t that long  ·         Grudges are poison - learn to forgive yourself and then you can forgive others  ·         Find solutions that serve the relationship, not just yourself or your partner    Key Takeaways:   ·         Learn how to communicate with - how to talk to - one another and don’t forget to play.  ·         Give without regret, without limits. Don’t hold back from love.  ·         Love yourself first and don’t be afraid to give because that only cheats yourself.  ·         All couples need to find their own spice and play in the bedroom.  ·         When things get rough, go back to when you fell in love and focus on those things.  ·         If you leave your relationship without working out the issues, you will have those same issues in your next relationship.  ·         Please your partner! Give, give, give.      "I’m going to give you all my love. What you do with it, that’s your decision." — Nancy Garcia      References:   The Ziglar Show – Inspiring Your #TruePerformance  Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch       Connect with Nancy and Julio:    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nmllc/  Website:   www.nmllc.com      Connect with Sam and Pat:   Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook   Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/    Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life        Show notes by show producer: Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie and Sam Cullinane     Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.  

Building Legendary Couples With Lance and Brandy Salazar     In this episode, Sam, Pat, Lance and Brandy discuss:  ·         Casting a vision for your relationship, creating a plan, and taking massive action  ·         ‘Appreciative Inquiry’ and applying it to relationships  ·         Working through major triggers  ·         How to get it on when you live in a 1400 sq ft house and you home school your kids Key Takeaways:  ·         Loving yourself is critical and you cannot rely on anyone ‘to complete you’  ·         If you work on getting to know your partner as if it was your favorite hobby by asking them lots of questions about their childhood, thoughts, and feelings, you’ll build deep connection and intimacy  ·         Get your ‘partnership’ in order – take care of the mechanics and logistics of your household – and this will lead to closer friendship and easier intimacy      “Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.” — Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Wind, Sand, and Stars Special offer for Legendary Couples for Doggy Style listeners: https://legendarycouples.clickfunnels.com/friendsstore?affiliate_id=1261437   Mentions: Rock Thomas, Beverly Steiner, Jon Berghoff & David Cooperrider, Lindsay McCarthy, Esther Perel References: The Minimalist podcast, The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, LOVE by Leo Buscaglia, Happy Together by Suzann Pileggi Pawelski  & James O. Pawelski PhD    Connect with Lance and Brandy Salazar:   Twitter: https://twitter.com/legendcouples Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/legendarycouples/ Website:   https://www.legendarycouples.com/   Connect with Sam and Pat:  Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook  Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/   Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life        Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.   

Leveling Up Relationships Through IMAGO Therapy with Rabbi Shlomo and Rivka Slatkin     In this episode, Sam, Pat, Shlomo and Rivka discuss:   How romantic love (Eros) tricks us into getting married.  Having children (especially the first one) can amplify issues in relationships.  Dealing with the past to push through to the future.  Creating safety in your conversations.  Key Takeaways:  Having and keeping true love is a lot of hard work.  Creating a deeper connection with your partner can happen by going on adventures together.   Issues in a relationship doesn’t mean you chose the wrong partner, it means you need to heal and grow as a couple.   Love means to give to others and become one with them unconditionally.     Rabbi Shlomo & Rivka Slatkin’s Online Marriage School at 50% off to Doggy Style listeners! https://www.totalmarriagetransformation.com/shlomo1        "What we’re trying to reach in IMAGO is to leave the power struggle and enter into a conscious marriage." — Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin      Connect with Sam and Pat:  Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook  Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/   Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life    Connect with Shlomo and Rivka Slatkin:   Twitter:  http://www.twitter.com/shlomoslatkin   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/themarriagerestorationproject   Website:  www.themarriagerestorationproject.com  Email:  info@themarriagerestorationproject.com  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/rabbishlomoslatkin   Pinterest: http://www.pinterest.com/rabbislatkin/   Google +: https://plus.google.com/+RabbiShlomoSlatkinTheMarriageRestorationProject/posts  LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/pub/shlomo-slatkin/87/873/3b6/   Online Marriage School course at 50% off: https://www.totalmarriagetransformation.com/shlomo1   Show notes by show producer: Jessie Taylor    Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Iain and Gabrielle discuss: How to have heaven on earth in your marriage How to use intention in conversation Different personalities in a relationship Sometimes as a spouse you have to let your spouse make their own decisions, even if you don't agree with it Key Takeaways: Explain why you're having a conversation about something to your partner Know where your boundaries are Asking questions exposes the meaning Love comes from the inside and is an energetic vibration, talking to your spouse about love is very fulfilling   "Live by the idea that the greater master always yields." — Iain Grae   Join Evolved Lyfe and get special access to courses that get YOU to overcome major obstacles for the next 28 days for FREE! Special link for Doggy Style listeners: https://www.evolvedlyfe.com/Doggy   Connect with Sam and Pat: Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life   Connect with Iain and Gabrielle Grae: Website:  https://www.evolvedlyfe.com/ https://gabriellegrae.com/ Email:  live@evolvedlyfe.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iaingrae     Show notes by show producer: Jessie Taylor   Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

The Good Times are Worth the Bad Times, Just ask Tim & Tina Rhode   In this episode, Sam, Pat, Tim, and Tina discuss: How Tim and Tina met and fell in love. What it's like to have an ex-wife while taking care of your kids? What do Tim and Tina do when they're fighting? What happens after the "happily ever after"? Tina had to put her marriage on the line to save her own life.  Key Takeaways: Being out in nature helps your soul. You have to honor all three of your identities; your individual self, being a spouse, and being a parent. Don't focus on something that you're angry about. If you don't work on the same things with your partner then you have more to talk about. When you get married, you’re family and you work through stuff, you don’t give it up so easily – it’s sacred and to be revered. Embrace the differences – best thing you can do is recognize your significant other is not you If you married someone just like you, you’d be bored to death – like magnets that repel each other The Rhode superpowers: they are efficient and they have awesome togetherness  “Til death do you part is a long freaking time and you have some ups and downs and things to get through.” – Tim Rhode   Connect with Sam and Pat: Twitter: @biggerlovebook Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ Book: Bigger Love   Connect with Tim & Tina: Twitter:  https://twitter.com/1lifefullylived Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/1lifefullylived Website:  http://1lifefullylived.org/ Email:  tim@timrhode.com     Show notes by show producer: Jessie Taylor   Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

How to Love a Pain in the Ass Unconditionally- With Philip and Pauline Mckernan   In this episode, Sam, Pat, Philip and Pauline discuss: Who are Philip and Pauline?  Why is Philip such a pain in the ass? How did Pauline learn unconditional love? Key Takeaways: Working together as a couple is a make or break moment. Have a strong sense of purpose helps to guide you. Don't put a lot of pressure on your partner to make you happy.  If you are unhappy in your job it will be more difficult to have a meaningful relationship     "I never felt that pressure. I always felt that unwavering belief. That’s something that unfortunately most couples in the world that I experience, don’t have that unconditional belief in each other." — Philip Mckernan     Connect with Sam and Pat:   Twitter: @biggerlovebook Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ Book: Bigger Love       Show notes by show producer: Danielle Taylor   Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.   

Don't Say No With Yoko Kasai and Rick Graves   In this episode, Sam, Pat, Yoko and Rick discuss: How they met..Love at first sight? Uh..No. Teaching kids about sex? Test drive before you buy.     Key Takeaways: Do not keep score. It can be good to change who is in charge of finances until you both truly get it. Playing hard to get can go either way.Before sex or after sex they still go on dates.       "Who doesn't like fun? Fun equals sex." — Yoko Kasai   Connect with Sam and Pat:   Twitter: @biggerlovebook Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ Book: Bigger Love     Show notes by show producer: Danielle Taylor   Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.   

  In this episode, Sam, Pat, Honoree and Byron discuss: From blind date to ten year marriage Fried turkey is sexy Making room in the relationship so both partners can be themselves Different ways to communicate Key Takeaways: Chocolate is the ultimate pacifier Focus on what’s really wrong, not what you think is wrong Sometimes you need a little tough love Don't be a jerk       "He knows the antidote to that particular situation now is a five pound bag of something chocolate that he throws at me through the door." — Honoree Corder     Connect with Sam and Pat:   Twitter: @biggerlovebook Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ Book: Bigger Love   Connect with Honoree and Byron:   Twitter: @Honoree  Facebook:  @Honoree Website: http://www.HonoreeCorder.com Instagram: @Honoree     Show notes by show producer: Danielle Taylor   Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

That’s My Story and I am Sticking To It   In this episode, Sam, Pat, Heather and Derek discuss: Who takes care of the kids and who gets to go golfing. You are not the only crazy one. Strategies to avoid fighting. Don't be a shitty husband. Key Takeaways: Sometimes its best to find a different caddy. Trust and support is vital in relationships. Communicate before the problem happens.     Knowing and learning from your partner is a key part of problem solving.     "Sometimes your greatest strength is also your greatest weakness." — Derek Busby     Connect with Sam and Pat:   Twitter: @biggerlovebook Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ Book: Bigger Love       Show notes by show producer: Danielle Taylor   Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Tucker, and Veronica discuss: Tucker and Veronica's ultimate romantic getaways Having a rewarding relationship based on growth One flight that made it all history Key Takeaways: Tucker and Veronica were set up by Tucker's CrossFit coach! The special moment when Veronica knew that Tucker was the one was when Tucker was flying in from New York just to see her The thing that is the key part to Tucker and Veronica's relationship is honesty Veronica's favorite things about Tucker are his directness (she never has to wonder what he's thinking) and his thoughtfulness   "I don't just love my wife and kids, I actually like my wife and, ya know, my kids a little bit." — Tucker Max    Connect with Tucker Max: Website: http://tuckermax.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TuckerMax Twitter: @TuckerMax LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tuckermax/ Books: http://tuckermax.com/books/     Connect with Sam and Pat: Twitter: @biggerlovebook Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ Book: Bigger Love   Show notes by show producer: Anna Nygren  Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Kim and Pat discuss: The journey of their relationship of 31 years You sure you're in labor? I just have to stop at the office and send a quick fax. Advice to their younger selves A candid discussion of the vital role of sex in a relationship Key Takeaways: Simply being curious about how to make a relationship better is your first step to making your relationship better Support your partner's role in the relationship — allow your partner to own their position as the planner or the investor Advice to young couples starting out: "Hang in there!"Ask yourself, "How helpful to my relationship would it be if we went out on a date just once a week?"   "I've always been very conscious of the fact that most likely [Kim] is right." — Pat Hiban   Connect with Sam and Pat: Twitter: @biggerlovebook Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ Book: Bigger Love   Connect with Pat and Kim Hiban: Digital Marketing: www.HibanDigital.com Instagram: Iampathiban and Kimhib Twitter: https://twitter.com/pathiban?lang=en LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pathiban/ Book: https://www.amazon.com/Pat-Hiban/e/B0055PYHEK Rebus University: www.rebusuniversity.com          https://www.facebook.com/RebusUniversity/ Mastermind: www.Gobundance.com     Show notes by show producer: Anna Nygren   Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

Introduction to Doggy Style from Behind…the Scenes   In this episode, Sam and Paddy discuss: How Paddy and Sam got behind the mic Bringing back a marriage from the edge of divorce The purpose of this podcast and the choice of the title Being in a supportive relationship Key Takeaways: Sam and Paddy's book, Bigger Love, is about how they went from being on the brink of divorce to present day successful marriage, and how to bring a relationship to a higher, deeper, more satisfying level The reason why this podcast is called Doggy Style is because Sam and Paddy want to interview couples that have one partner that's more in the limelight than the other and investigate what makes that couple successful The other reason it is called Doggy Style is because dogs are great givers of unconditional love Cussing will occur and there will be sex talk in future episodes… you've been warned   "I learned [through our break-up, that is] that the only person that I have control over is myself." — Paddy   Connect with Sam and Paddy: Twitter: @biggerlovebook Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ Book: Bigger Love       Show notes by show producer: Anna Nygren   Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.