Handing the Shame Back

 Meet JeremySurvivor. Content Creator. WriterHe was born with Spina Bifida and his parents were told he would never walk let alone live. He is now in his 40's.He was 5 years old when his female abuser first started grooming, manipulating and then abusing him. This was to go on for over 4 years, until he became hospitalised and eventually home schooled.For more information, resources, or coaching — whether you are a survivor or a supporter, visit: handingtheshameback.orgWe are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids

 Being interviewed by Nick on MoreFM Rodney was empowering. Being able to discuss the book; Keeping Kids Safe which is now in every school in NZ, honouring. It is time for the world to join the campaign to educate and resource our children on how to Keep Safe. So grateful to have been on air for this one. Thanks to Nick and Anna, the cycle has begun.For more on us, go to: handingtheshameback.orgWe are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids

Rest and Recovery are essential for survivors. Though not often discussed it is crucial for survivors to rest deeply when dealing with this. Thinking about or working through your trauma, reignites it and this leads to the exact same trauma responses you experienced as a child. What was unavailable to you then was resting and recovering from it, especially if the abuser was a family member. Don't underestimate the healing resting provides, it can make the world of difference.► Visit our website for more information on our foundation: http://handingtheshameback.org► Donate please, this helps us keep going: http://handingtheshameback.org/donateADDITIONAL RESOURCE► If you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter, visit: http://handingtheshameback.org/coachingWe are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids

Q&A SessionJoin us on this Q&A Session where Gloria answers a range of questions posed by you, the Survivors. One for this month includes: how do you explain the hand sign to younger children. The questions are pertinent, and Gloria, as always provides calm and measured responses that helps restore grace and acceptance to these difficult experiences.For more information, resources, or coaching — whether you are a survivor or a supporter, visit: handingtheshameback.orgWe are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids

Meet CadenceSurvivor. Poet. AdvocateShe was abused by her godmother and her godmother's father. She was heavily manipulated and groomed to the point where, they made her lie and say it was her brother who was abusing her. This eventuated in him being removed from the home and sent to juvenile then foster care. She was 3 when the abuse began.You can reach out to Cadence here: https://www.instagram.com/cadence_p.2025/HELPNZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz. Help Auckland 0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK NAPAK https://napac.org.uk/ Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/ Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHER To get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them.We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids

Having survived this trauma, understand that your body went into the 4 trauma responses, fight, flight, freeze of fawn. Reason: You had a lot of adrenaline cursing through you as you were in survival mode. This affected your central nervous system including mentally, emotionally and physiologically. Now as an adult that is safe, you will became drained when dealing with it, there will feel a natural level of flatness or needing rest. Please give into that.For more information, resources, or coaching — whether you are a survivor or a supporter, visit: handingtheshameback.orgWe are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids

Handing the Shame Back is proud to return for the third year in a row with our GLOBAL AWARENESS DAY (16 June).This day is dedicated to raising awareness of child sexual abuse, honouring adult survivors — including those who didn't make it, and most importantly, shifting the silence.WHEREVER YOU ARE in the world, we invite you to join us for a 30-minute walk at 10am local time. If 16 June falls on a weekday, feel free to do your walk on the closest weekend. Landmarks around the world will be lit in our logo colours — red, white, and black — to honour this cause.If you are in Auckland, New Zealand, we invite you to join our Handing the Shame Back team for the Global Awareness Day Walk! We will be meeting at Cornwall Park (by the Café and the main carpark) at 10am on Sunday 15 June. Bring your family, friends, and even your fur babies — everyone is welcome!❤️ Order your t-shirt/hoodie here: handingtheshameback.org/store❤️ Make a donation here: handingtheshameback.org/donateDon't forget to share your photos and videos with us!Include a caption with your location. For example:"Alex from Rotorua walking for Handing the Shame Back."Make sure to tag us and use our official hashtags:#HandingTheShameBack#HandSign4Kids#LetsSaveSomeKids#HTSBGlobalAwarenessDayWe also invite you to:SWAP YOUR PROFILE PICTURES with our logo to help raise awareness and boost visibility across social media.❤️ Download the HTSB logo here: www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=586398213621309&set=a.105405181720617SHARE THE GLOBAL HAND SIGN with at least one other person. It's a simple yet powerful way to spread the message and raise awareness.❤️ Learn the global hand sign here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CyJKfU69NhkLet's break the silent epidemic and make a global impact, together.We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids

Reg JohnstonSurvivor. Trauma Informed AOD Clinician. Survivor AdvocateReg was abused by his sister 13 years older than him, who groomed him at the age of 12 mainly through the use of pornography. His home life consisted of confused boundaries, with secrets and lies always a feature. He wants people to know that drugs and alcohol don't define you, in most cases they are just symptoms of the abuse that occurred.HELPNZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz. Help Auckland 0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK NAPAK https://napac.org.uk/ Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/ Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHER To get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them.We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids

The known facts about being triggered are these: We don't know when they're going to occur, or how they will occur. What this means is that we cannot prepare for that which we cannot know. These triggers can appear through anything that involves one or any of the five senses; sight, smell, sound, taste, or touch: triggering a memory or experience of the abuse we suffered. There is nothing we can do to stop that, but there is a way to manage it.► Visit our website for more information on our foundation: http://handingtheshameback.org► Donate please, this helps us keep going: http://handingtheshameback.org/donateADDITIONAL RESOURCE► If you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter, visit: http://handingtheshameback.org/coachingWe are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids

 Q&A SessionJoin us on this Q&A Session where Gloria answers questions posed by you, the Survivors. Ranging from how to manage a family who still believe the predator, to is it even possible to go on to have a loving and healthy relationship as an adult. The range of questions is moving, and Gloria, as always provides calm and measured responses that helps restore grace and acceptance to these difficult experiences.For more information, resources, or coaching — whether you are a survivor or a supporter, visit: handingtheshameback.orgWe are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids

 Meet Diane PayneSurvivorDiane was sexually abused by her brother-in-law from age 12 to 16. He was 24 when it started. She told no one for 40 years. Fast forward 4 years, & last year he finally got convicted in NZ. He got home detention for 8 months, due to a plea deal & the laws in the 1980's, when the abuse occurred. Don't miss her story here.You can reach out to Diane here:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ffs.trauma/For more information, resources, or coaching — whether you are a survivor or a supporter, visit: handingtheshameback.orgWe are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids

 Feelings of shame and guilt are common to Survivors. This is especially true if we had siblings we felt we couldn't protect, or that we had to lie to protect the abuser which hurt our siblings even more. There is a process over time of healing, which requires great self compassion and tenderness. Don't rush it and please give yourself some grace. The blame and shame never belonged to you.Watch the full clip here: https://youtu.be/i92FPdCwp8kFor more information, resources, or coaching — whether you are a survivor or a supporter, visit: handingtheshameback.org We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids

 Meet Sue PhilipSurvivorSue was abused from preschool age by her father. She blocked the memories out for many years until she was in her 40's.. Her parents were part of the mormon church, and it was not until she left the church as an adult, that she was able to remember the details of what her father had done to her and her siblings.Watch the full clip here: https://youtu.be/NrhT15r_iqQ For more information, resources, or coaching — whether you are a survivor or a supporter, visit: handingtheshameback.orgWe are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids

 Many people consider that mind games are something that are done to us and that we are being manipulated by others. No one ever considers the bigger truth: that we play mind games with ourselves, more than with any other person, and we do it in a multitude of ways: like testing ourselves, overthinking, questioning ourselves and through sabotaging ourselves! The point being we are constantly undermining who we are by doing this. We need to stop doing this!► Visit our website for more information on our foundation: http://handingtheshameback.org► Donate please, this helps us keep going: http://handingtheshameback.org/donateADDITIONAL RESOURCE► If you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter, visit: http://handingtheshameback.org/coachingWe are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

 On behalf of Handing the Shame Back, I had the privilege of presenting to the Parliamentary Select Committee on Child Sex Trafficking within NZ, (we are wanting increased penalties added to the slavery offences amendment bill). Although the experience was daunting, the submission was well received.Watch the video here: https://youtu.be/GwndoRE3kRIVideo source: New Zealand ParliamentWe are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

 Meet Hanz FrellerSurvivor Advocate. Dad. AuthorHe was abused in care by a St John of God Brother. The abuse was to span several years and was calculated and manipulative in the grooming of him throughout those vulnerable teenage years.You can reach out to Hanz here:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hanz.frellerInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/hanzfrellerFor more information, resources, or coaching — whether you are a survivor or a supporter, visit: handingtheshameback.orgWe are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

 First Q&A SessionJoin us on this, our very first Q&A Session where Gloria answers questions posed by you, ‘yes you', the Survivors. Ranging from what to look for in kids who are being trafficked to coping with seeing your child experience the worst trauma possible, Gloria provides calm and measured responses that help soothe and restore equilibrium to these difficult experiences.For more information, resources, or coaching — whether you are a survivor or a supporter, visit: handingtheshameback.org We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

 Today marks the start of something powerful — 2,700 books are being unboxed, packaged, and prepared for delivery to schools across New Zealand.Every book sent is a step toward a safer future. If you'd like to help us get them into schools, please consider donating: https://donate.stripe.com/aEU4iIfR1b8Pdpu7ss (Reference: ‘Book Distribution').At Handing the Shame Back, we don't see this as just opening boxes. We see it as opening a path to better protecting children, breaking barriers, and giving teachers the tools they need to recognise and respond to child sexual abuse.Let's make a difference together!We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

 Sometimes as survivors we can feel guilty, frozen or just plain wrong about having sex. As adults this has impact beyond what we can imagine. Have a look at this video as it just may help free you up from anything holding you back from enjoying intimacy with a loved one.Watch the full clip here: https://youtu.be/j-hwv9GTetAFor more information, resources, or coaching — whether you are a survivor or a supporter, visit: handingtheshameback.orgWe are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

 Today is the day!We are beyond excited to have received the books, "Keeping Kids Safe", which will be distributed to schools across New Zealand.We are still accepting donations to cover book distribution costs. If you're able to help, please use this direct link: https://donate.stripe.com/aEU4iIfR1b8Pdpu7ss and include the reference "Book Distribution".Our goal is simple but vital: to equip teachers with the knowledge to recognise the signs of child sexual abuse, respond appropriately, and ultimately protect vulnerable children.Thank you. Your support could help save some children.We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

Meet Susan GoldSurvivor, Author and Transformationalist.She was the middle child born in a family where generational abuse was undealt with and therefore continued. She was abused by her brother between 7 to 10 years of age with some flashbacks of both her father and grandfather being abusers as well. She believes that finding kindness for yourself from within is a key part of the healing journey.We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

We have now raised $2,500. If you are able to help, please use this direct link: https://donate.stripe.com/aEU4iIfR1b8Pdpu7ss and include the reference 'Book Distribution' to ensure the funds are allocated to processing and postage. Every $10 means one school receives a copy of the book!Thank you. You may just save some kids!We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

It is entirely natural for you as a survivor of child sexual abuse to struggle with sex as an adult. some survivors have a constant battle with this, preferring to be celibate in the end. For others guilt, fear and dissociation can occur. Wherever you are at is entirely normal, and can be worked with if it is of concern. Don't miss this podcast.We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

As children, we were always dependent on the adults around us to meet our needs. This is common and expected, as we were unable to feed or clothe ourselves. However, guilt does feature because we had to accommodate the adults around us, even when we felt scared and uncomfortable.For more information, resources, or coaching — whether you are a survivor or a supporter, visit: handingtheshameback.orgWe are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

Meet Steven SheltonSurvivor and AuthorWas abused by many males beginning when he was just 4 years old. His mother walked in on the abuse, saw it, and walked back out again. This was the beginning of Steven's nightmare, culminating in him developing Dissociative Identity Disorder or DID. He firmly believes that passage of time, a loving spouse, and talking about it, have helped him recover from this.For further information on Steven, go to: https://stevensheltonauthor.com/author-page/We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

We are thrilled to provide answers to any questions you may have — let's interact! We want to provide information you need, in order to do that, please email us at contactus@handingtheshameback.org and put ‘Question' in the subject line, followed by your main question in the body of the email.Let's customise our content to work with your objectives as closely as possible.We are always thinking of you and finding ways to support the amazing survivors that you are.We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

Meet Elizabeth MelendezAuthor. Advocate. CEO/Founder of the Foundation United Org.She was sexually abused by a family friend at age 11, though saw that physical, emotional and sexual abuse was happening throughout her family from a very young age, she feels this was ‘generational' rather than ‘intentional abuse'.To reach Elizabeth: https://www.thefoundationunited.com/, or on Instagram: @‌thefoundationunitedWe are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

Don't make any new year resolutions, instead reflect on what you have achieved over the last 12 months and honour that. You may consider growing that skillset further or adding to it, but at this time of year, recovering from Xmas and the holiday season is challenging enough. Don't pressure yourself by making impossible goals that are unlikely to be achieved.We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

We are bringing you this update due to the generous and much appreciated response to our video asking for help to get the book ‘Keeping Kids Safe - A Roadmap for Parents, Teachers & Others' into schools. We have the funding to provide the books, just not to post them! So far we have raised over $700, which is an amazing 70 schools. Remember that $10 ensures a book gets into a school of your choice. thank you and what a great legacy for you to have. You may just save some kids!We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

We are seeking sponsors so we can distribute the book 'Keeping Kids Safe' to every school in NZ. We have the books funded, just not the distribution costs.If you are able to help, simply visit http://gloriamasters.com , click the 'Donate' button, or use this direct link: https://buy.stripe.com/8wMg0Y1OqdTc1vG4gh. Please include reference 'Book Distribution' to ensure the funds are allocated to processing and postage. Every $10 means one school receives a copy of the book!By making a donation, you not only help save kids in NZ - You also leave a legacy.Thank you.We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

Meet Avery KearneySurvivor. Advocate. Non-profit worker in the health sector.Avery is a survivor of sexual abuse at the hands of his uncle from the age of 8.The grooming process went on for years prior, and much of his abuse was tied into athletics and masked as massages and stretching to increase his athletic performance. The abuse went on for a few years.To reach Avery, email: kearneywjj@gmail.com, or Instagram: @‌averykearneyHELPNZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz. Help Auckland 0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK NAPAK https://napac.org.uk/ Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/ Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHER To get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them.We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

Welcome back to Louise Nicholas and Ken Clearwater who join me on the this panel, to discuss all things Survivors experience throughout the Xmas season. We need to honour survivors through this time of year, and I couldn't think of anyone better to bring back to share this important messaging with.We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

Here is our Xmas Message from the Board at Handing the Shame Back Foundation, to all the amazing survivors, supporters and sponsors we have. Thank you so much, and from all of us, Merry Xmas to you.#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekidsWe are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/

It's Christmas.Getting through Christmas, can be an overwhelming ask for us as survivors. While many people experience joy and celebration during this time, we can feel the opposite through difficult emotions, painful memories, and feelings of isolation surfacing.Here's some ideas that may just help.Love to all of you.► Visit our website for more information on our foundation: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/► Donate please, this helps us keep going: http://handingtheshameback.org/donateADDITIONAL RESOURCE► If you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter, visit: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/coaching#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekidsWe are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/

This time of year can be difficult when trying to manage end of year events, Xmas interactions and school concerts. Try to find time to ground yourself by remembering to reflect on you, what you have managed to achieve and the incredible survivor you are.It should be about you, not just those you love.We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/

Deb AldrickAuthor. Speaker. AdvocateDeb was abused from 5 - 14 by a family member while another family member did nothing to protect her. Pre-abuse she was happy and confident, and enjoyed life with lots of friends. Post-abuse she became anxious and a worrier.To reach Deb go to: https://dragonflyadvocacy.com.au/or Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dragonflyadvocacy/or Instagram https://www.instagram.com/dragonflyadvocacy3/or LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborah-aldrick-188b4530b/ Link for Deb's book on Amazon https://www.amazon.com.au/Circling-Wagons-hiding-becomes-important-ebook/dp/B0CYN278KZHELPNZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz. Help Auckland 0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK NAPAK https://napac.org.uk/ Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/ Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHER To get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them.We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

Meet Raymond LumSurvivor and Film ProducerAs a young boy, he was sexually abused by their female live in nanny for years. When he eventually told his father the response was ‘Look out for your brother'.To reach Raymond go to: https://www.facebook.com/sting16 or https://www.instagram.com/raymondtlum/HELPNZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz. Help Auckland 0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK NAPAK https://napac.org.uk/ Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/ Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHER To get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them.We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X: https://x.com/HandinShameBackYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshamebackTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshamebackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/#handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #letssavesomekids

As survivors of child sexual abuse, it is widely accepted that we were controlled through grooming simply so the abuser could exploit us. What is less discussed is the coercive control that lay underneath all of it. What that meant (for some of us), is that we weren't just controlled through sexual abuse, there was also the emotional and physical manipulation as well. How that impacted us was we had no opportunity to live or behave in a way that was truly ours. Go to our website (see below) for more information on our foundation Donate please, this helps us keep going. handingtheshameback.org/donateADDITIONAL RESOURCEIf you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/#handingtheshameback#handsign4kids#letssavesomekidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Be aware if you are deciding on how to confront your abuser, your emotions will be running at an all time high, and therefore deciding on something of this importance may not serve you - Yet!It will in time, but maybe just not today. Because this is of such huge significance, please allow yourself further clarity of thought as the last thing you need is to regret your decision later.Go to our website (see below) for more information on our foundation Donate please, this helps us keep going. handingtheshameback.org/donateADDITIONAL RESOURCEIf you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/#childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport#survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids#letssavesomekidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Kel HumphriesSurvivor. Advocate. Speaker. Researcher.She was abused by her Uncle between ages  7 - 8,  and recognises the grooming for what it was. He knew exactly what he was doing, her parents had no idea.For more on her reach out to her at kellyhumphries.comHELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Losing your voiceAs children being abused we couldn't speak, because our brain froze.This is a trauma response,  and just so you know: when your brain is flooded with cortizal there is no way you can speak, as this is a chemical reaction which cannot be controlled.Go to our website for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids#letssavesomekidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Gloria returns to Shaun's platform to discuss the impact of CSA on survivors in light of the current media storm around P Diddy. She shares her story and offers insight and ideas into how to combat this to protect our children. For more on her go to handingtheshameback.org and gloriamasters.com All links to her books can be found there in all versions as well as on amazon.https://gloriamasters.com/shop/https://www.handingtheshameback.org/https://gloriamasters.com/#gloriamastersauthor#letssavesomekids #handsign4kids #handingtheshamebackTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Kel HumphriesSurvivor. Advocate. Speaker. Researcher.She was abused by her Uncle between ages  7 -8, and now realises her parents were the ones being groomed. At age 12 her mother asked her directly if she had been abused, but she couldn't speak. For more on her reach out to her at kellyhumphries.comHELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Negative self talkIt is more common than not for your survivor to put themselves down and talk about themselves negatively. This is part of, or a consequence of the abuse suffered as children. Listen for ways to contradict their self talk. Sometimes simply challenging something can change it.Go to our website for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids#letssavesomekidsFull clip here https://youtu.be/h4lhCTH22nM?si=Nl8g-FGovgqD7_QsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Uipo Tagaloasa Part 2Was born and raised in Samoa without his father, who had passed away before he was born.He has 11 siblings, and was raised by grandparents.He was abused from the age of 9 by a really close family friend. As he was working through his trauma, he considered shooting his abuser and then realised it would really only punish him and his family unnecessarily. To contact him, please use the links below to his Break The Cycle from Past Trauma FB and Instagram pages. https://www.facebook.com/UipoTagaloasa?mibextid=ZbWKwL or on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/breakthecycle_from_past_trauma?igsh=MWl5cHNmc25rMm5oeA==Or find him at Tautoko Tāne Aotearoa. HELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Needing loveAs children being abused we were looking for some love from those tasked with caring for us.We were children, with needs not being met, and yet through the abuser manipulating us and providing comfort , we may have felt we were complicit somehow.They were in charge, we weren't.Love that little child inside.https://www.buzzsprout.com/admin/1907499/episodesGo to our website for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Uipo TagaloasaWas born and raised in Samoa without his father, who had passed away before he was born.He has 11 siblings, and was raised by grandparents.He was abused from the age of 9 by a really close family friend, who was helping his family out with things. He also played rugby with him. To contact him, please use the links below to his Break The Cycle from Past Trauma FB and Instagram pages. https://www.facebook.com/UipoTagaloasa?mibextid=ZbWKwL or on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/breakthecycle_from_past_trauma?igsh=MWl5cHNmc25rMm5oeA==Or find him at Tautoko Tāne Aotearoa. HELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Sometimes it can all feel a bit much when trying to work your way through the trauma the abuse created. Sometimes it feels easier to just give up working on this, and just pretend you are okay with how it is.  Please don't do that. Never give up, the rewards you receive are insurmountable.Go to our website (see below) for more information on our foundation Donate please, this helps us keep going. handingtheshameback.org/donateADDITIONAL RESOURCEIf you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/#childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport#survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids#letssavesomekidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Janet JacobsenGrandmother, wife, mother, football lover and survivor.Janet's story continues. You can reach out to her on Facebook as Janet Jacobsen and on Instagram as https://www.instagram.com/gdadnansjj/HELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Even though you may feel that you should take other's advice on what action you should take regarding the abuse you suffered: like (for example), forgive your abuser, or just move on with your life: The reality is you must do what resonates with you, in other words: You do You.Go to our website for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Janet JacobsenGrandmother, wife, mother, football lover and survivor.Janet was abused by a doctor while her father was dying. she also had a local shopkeeper do the same. Her call to action was on hearing of the death of the doctor. Don't miss this survivors incredible story of courage and overcoming.You can reach out to her on Facebook as Janet Jacobsen and on Instagram as https://www.instagram.com/gdadnansjj/HELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok