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Ja... ich weiß. Aber keine Angst, es wird nicht ganz so schlimm wie damals in den 80ern, oder den 60ern, von den 40ern gar nicht zu reden."Herr Falschgold hat gesagt, der Holocaust ist nicht mehr so schlimm!"Exakt.In meiner Jugend, in der DDR, liefen am Jahrestag der Befreiung des Konzentrationslagers Auschwitz noch Tausende von ehemaligen Häftlingen in ihren gestreiften Anzügen mit dem gelben Stern oder dem roten Dreieck die Strecke des Todesmarsches ab. Sowas brennt sich ein in ein Kinderhirn.Zwanzig Jahre später, in den Neunzigern, im Kibbuz in Israel als Freiwilliger, freundete ich mich mit einem Bewohner an. Er hieß Bedolf. Bedolf war ein alter Berliner mit Schnauze. Seine Heimat hatte er damals, im Jahr 1998, schon seit fünfundsechzig Jahren nicht mehr gesehen. Er hatte Anfang der Dreißiger, eher als viele andere, die Zeichen der Zeit erkannt und ging nach Palästina. Er hieß da noch Adolf, was ein ganz normaler Jungsname war, und hätte ich in '98 schon gewusst, was ich heute von der Geschichte des Zionismus, Palästinas und der Gründung des Staates Israel weiß, hätten wir ein wirkliches Gesprächsthema gehabt. So habe ich ihn natürlich befragt, ob er wirklich Bedolf heiße (unklar) und über den Holocaust. Bedolf hat mich nur angeschaut, leise und bestimmt gesagt, dass er lange vorher rausgekommen ist und damit war das Thema erledigt.Heute in den 2020ern gibt es nahezu keine Überlebenden der Judenvernichtung mehr. Die Erinnerungen an die Shoa sind von den Opfern auf deren Kinder, Enkel, Großenkel übergegangen, von der Tätergeneration auf die unseren.Die Shoa war ein Verbrechen gegen die Menschlichkeit. So ist sie definiert, haben wir alle gelernt. Das Verbrechen gegen die Menschlichkeit. Aber man kann das "Das" noch so kursiv setzen, man wird ihm nicht gerecht. Gleich gar nicht in Worte zu fassen ist die Innenansicht, die Gefühle der Überlebenden und ihrer Nachfahren (und nur um die wird es in diesem Text gehen). Das muss versucht werden, klar. Wenn man über etwas sprechen will, braucht es Worte. Aber "Shoa" ist zu abstrakt, "Holocaust" zu institutionalisiert. Ok, nennen wir es "Trauma"? Das ist vielleicht zu allgemein, aber hat den Vorteil, dass es die Gefühlswelt der Opfer in den Empfindungsbereich ihrer Mitmenschen bringt. Trauma kennt jeder vom Sport, aus der Liebe, aus dem Leben. Damit ist es vielleicht doch das beste Wort, wenn man über das sprechen möchte, worüber man nicht sprechen kann. Heute nicht mehr, weil fast alle Überlebenden tot sind, damals nicht, weil sie noch gelebt haben. Aber wir müssen über den Holocaust sprechen!Das sagte sich Taffy Brodesser-Akner, nachdem sie mit ihrem Debutroman 2019 "Fleishman is in trouble" einen wirklichen Erfolg gelandet hatte. Die rasante Story um eine New Yorker Middle-Class-Familie (also aus unserer Sicht "f*****g rich"), in der unten, oben, männlich, weiblich, richtig und falsch wild durcheinandergewirbelt wurden, voller Überraschungen und mit genau der richtigen Mischung aus jiddisch/jüdisch/amerikanischer Stereotype und deren Brechen, war der reine fun.In den erzählenden Künsten sind Stereotype meist ein großer Spaß (wenn man auf sowas steht) und haben auch im realen Leben eine Funktion. Sie halten Erinnerungen wach, sie verbinden Gruppen, deren Individuen oft gar nicht so viel gemein haben; da muss man manchmal ein bisschen nachhelfen, passend machen, verallgemeinern. Die Kehrseite des gruppenverbindenden Holzschnittes ist, dass ein Stereotyp abgrenzt, nach und von außen. Auch wenn der erste Gedanke in aufgeklärten Kreisen ein "Nonononono!" ist: "Abgrenzung böse! Pfui! Aus!" sollte man das anthropologisch neutral sehen. Nicht jede Abgrenzung ist eine Ausgrenzung, ein Akt der Gewalt; zumindest geht sie vom Grenzenziehen nicht zwangsläufig aus. Bei Juden ist die Abgrenzung nach ein paar tausend Jahren Verfolgung, mit der bekannten Kulmination vor achtzig Jahren, eher Selbstschutz. Man weiß, was man aneinander hat und damit kein anderer. Leider ist das neben seltsamen Haar- und Bartmoden, einer Sprache voller Rachenlaute und absurden Ideen, wie man einen Fisch FILLT, vor allem eines - ein Trauma.Nun können es nicht nur deutsche Schulkinder nicht mehr hören, wenn ihnen der Holocaust so erklärt wird, wie das noch vor fünfzig Jahren üblich war. Zu abstrakt, zu brutal oft, zu abstumpfend gleichzeitig, wird institutionalisiert erklärt, was nicht zu verstehen ist. Ein anderer Ansatz scheint nötig, das Verbrechen und seine Nachwirkungen auf ein menschlich erfühlbares Niveau zu bringen. Zum Beispiel, indem man die Geschichte der nachfolgenden Generationen erzählt, ohne Holzhammer und Zeigefinger, verpackt in eine absolut packende, moderne Story. Eine Familiengeschichte vielleicht, mit ein bisschen Kriminalität, Drama, Eifersucht. Wir denken "Billions", "Yellowstone" oder "Succession". Inklusive bekommt man bei einem solchen Herangehen aber den zwangsläufigen kollektiven Aufschrei der Aufpasser, vor der "Verharmlosung der unvergleichlichen Shoa" wird gewarnt werden. Das ist so reflexhaft wie unvermeidlich und somit kann nur eine Jüdin eine solche Story schreiben. Exakt das ist es, was Taffy Brodesser-Akner mit "Die Fletchers von Long Island" anging und was ihr, vorab, ziemlich hervorragend gelingt.Hervorragend deshalb (auf das "ziemlich" kommen wir zum Schluss), weil "Long Island Compromise" (so der Originaltitel) zunächst einmal eine ganz normale amerikanische Geschichte ist, in den Fußstapfen eines Franzen, eines Irving oder Updike. Wir schreiben die frühen 1980er und lernen die Fletchers kennen, eine prototypische weiße, reiche Industriellenfamilie aus Long Island, also im Norden aus New York City raus und dann rechts abbiegen. Welchem ethnischen Hintergrund sie entstammt, erfahren wir sofort, wird doch gerade eine Bar Mizwa vorbereitet. Der Familienvater, so um die 40 Jahre alt, Sohn eines aus Deutschland 1943 geflohenen Juden, tritt aus der Tür des stattlichen Anwesens und auf dem Weg zu seinem Auto wird er, Sack überm Kopf, entführt. Bummer.Aber Brodesser-Akner hält uns nur ein Kapitel lang in Atem, dann kehrt der Entführte, äußerlich fast unversehrt, zurück. Das Lösegeld, $250.000, ist weg - aber scheißegal, es sind Peanuts für die Zeit und die finanziellen Umstände, in denen sich die Familie befindet. Ist ja nix passiert. Ok, wirklich? Das fragen wir uns gerade noch, so schnell geht das alles, da macht das Buch einen Cut und wir sind in den Zwanzigern des aktuellen Jahrhunderts und finden uns wieder im ziemlich kranken Schädel des jüngsten Sohns des damals Entführten, Spitzname "Beamer", einem eher erfolglosen Screenwriter mit "Problemen". Vielen. Er hat Frau und Kinder und einen frühen und leider einmaligen Kinohit auf der Haben-Seite und gegenüber so ziemlich jede Droge, die man in L.A. finden kann. Das ist amüsant bis schmerzhaft zu lesen und, wir kommen zum oben genannten "ziemlich": Das ist alles ziemlich lang. Wir fangen an die Seiten mit den endlosen Exzessen und Ausflüchten und lahmen Entschuldigungen des Mittvierzigers zu überfliegen und wollen schon aufgeben, da kommt der Schnitt zu seinem Bruder Nathan, dem ältesten Sohn des Entführten, der das Familienunternehmen weitergeführt hat und nur äußerlich ein stabileres Leben als sein Bruder in Hollywood führt. Während Beamers Drogen "richtige" sind, beruhigt Nathan sein angsterfülltes Hirn mit dem Kauf von Versicherungen oder dem Verschenken von Handbüchern, mit denen er nicht nur seinen Kindern beibringen möchte, wie man sich durch die achso gefährliche Welt sicher bewegt. Er ist ein Kontrollfreak, ein Langweiler. Soweit so überspitzt, aber auch gut lesbar und wieder fast zu lang. Erst als wir auch hier sagen "Wir haben es verstanden, Taffy, er ist auch ein Wrack!" kommen wir zur scheinbar normalsten der drei Geschwister: Jenny von der Gnade der späten Geburt, war sie doch zum Zeitpunkt der Entführung des Vaters noch nicht geboren. Sie stellt sich also exakt die gleiche Frage wie viele Enkel von Überlebenden der Shoa: was sie denn mit der ganzen Scheiße zu tun habe? Nichts! Und warum es ihr trotzdem schlecht geht. Jenny war damals, 1983, noch gar nicht auf der Welt, so wie ihre Eltern 1943 noch nicht geboren waren und dennoch kommt sie, wie diese, in dieser nicht so zurecht, wie sie es sollte. "Survivors Guilt kann doch beim besten Willen nicht vererbt werden?", fragt sie sich.Eben doch! Zumindest laut wissenschaftlichen Forschungen, die schon vor dem Aussterben der direkten Holocaustüberlebenden begannen. Nicht dass mir das einleuchtet, mit dem Wissen um Mendels Chromosomen aus Biounterricht und überhaupt als jemand, der zu lange aus der Schule raus ist. Wie soll das gehen, frage ich mich, das (genetische) Vererben von Traumata? Aber, so gebe ich zu, an der Kreuzung von Nature und Nurture liegt ein großer ausladender Sumpf, namens "Gesellschaft" und in ebendiesem Sumpf gären Meinungen über und untereinander, blubbern, fallen aus und kristallisieren sich über Generationen. Man nennt das dann "Stereotype" und die vererben sich natürlich und zwar sowieso, siehe: Juden, siehe: Deutsche, siehe: "Amis", siehe: die “Anderen".Und so haben wir es nun wirklich begriffen, das Buch ist auch schon sehr lang, dass alle handelnden Personen von einem Ur-Trauma abgefuckt wurden: der Entführung des Vaters im ersten Kapitel, von der jeder weiß und trotzdem niemand spricht, damit das nur noch in sich selbst existierende "Familienoberhaupt" (in dicken Anführungen) nicht getriggert werde. Und, ich muss es nicht aussprechen, sprach Herr Falschgold es aus: Dem Holocaust, das Trauma der Spätgeborenen, das der heutigen dritten und vierten Überlebendengeneration, über das erst recht niemand spricht. Wie geht man damit um? Muss es so abgefuckt enden, wie für die Söhne und Töchter Fletcher? Taffy Brodesser-Akner macht nicht viel Hoffnung: ja es muss. Wie anders? Aber wir, die un- oder kaum Traumatisierten sollten davon erfahren, sollen wissen, dass es sie gibt, die Abgefuckten, die Stummen, auch drei, vier Generationen danach und sicher noch ein paar in der Zukunft und wir müssen mit diesen umgehen und wenn wir es nicht können, müssen wir das eben lernen.Das kann man in wissenschaftlichen Abhandlungen vermitteln, in Vorträgen oder Dokumentarfilmen, alles wichtig. Aber die Abstraktion, welche die Belletristik bietet, das ein, zwei emotionale Schritte entfernt sein von schwarzweißen Filmrollen mit Leichenbergen, hilft, die heutigen Generationen von Mitmenschen der Überlebenden der Shoa zu erreichen. Zu erreichen, dass wir nicht gleich abschalten, wenn wir an den Holocaust erinnert werden, denn es ist nicht nur deren Holocaust, es ist auch unserer.Und natürlich hilft dabei auch Humor, eine stimmige Story, ein Bild vom abgefuckten Amerika mit seinen absurden Unterschieden zwischen Arm und Reich, denen sich Taffy Brodesser-Akner auch stellt. Sie lässt uns da manchmal etwas zu lange warten. Wir stöhnen durchaus manchmal: "S**t, tough luck, rich kid!" wenn einer der handelnden Personen mal wieder fast scheitert und dann doch gerettet wird von den nahezu unendlichen finanziellen Polstern, die so eine Industriellenfamilie nunmal hat.Aber alles Geld der Welt kann das Trauma der Entführung wie das der Shoa, und sei es noch so lange her, nicht wirklich lindern und da kann man dann halt nicht sagen "Tough luck, idiot!", schon gar nicht als Deutscher, aber auch einfach als empathischer Mensch. Ja, reiche Leute haben auch Probleme, so klitzekleine, wie die vergasten Vorfahren, vor 80 Jahren, im Holocaust.Und über den müssen wir sprechen. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit lobundverriss.substack.com
Ever wonder what that feeling is when things are going well for you?This week Katie and Steph unpack the layers of survivor''s guilt and it's implications on growth goals. If you want to help us out big time, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts and maybe even rate us. Thank you to those who have done so already, you are THE BEST!Connect with us!fiigtpodcast@gmail.comInstagramCover art: David Cornejo Music: Gabe & RJ Helguera @drumbeatsonline
Survivor's guilt is a complex and often distressing emotional and psychological response that occurs when an individual feels guilty for surviving a traumatic event or situation when others did not. It is most commonly associated with situations like:Natural Disasters: When people survive earthquakes, hurricanes, or other natural disasters while others perish.Accidents: Surviving a car crash, plane crash, or other accidents where others involved did not survive.Combat: Soldiers who return from war zones where their comrades were killed in action.Illness: Surviving a serious illness or medical condition when others with similar conditions did not make it.Mass Shootings or Acts of Violence: Survivors of mass shootings or violent incidents may experience survivor's guilt if they escaped while others were injured or killed.Survivor's guilt can manifest in various ways, including:Feelings of Guilt: Survivors may question why they lived while others died, leading to feelings of guilt and self-blame.Flashbacks and Intrusive Thoughts: Recurrent, distressing memories of the traumatic event may plague survivors.Depression and Anxiety: Survivors may experience symptoms of depression, anxiety, or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).Social Withdrawal: They may isolate themselves from friends and family, believing they don't deserve happiness or connection.Physical Symptoms: Survivor's guilt can manifest physically, with symptoms like headaches, nausea, and fatigue.Self-Destructive Behavior: In extreme cases, survivors may engage in self-destructive behaviors, such as substance abuse or reckless actions.Understanding survivor's guilt is important because it can have a profound impact on an individual's mental and emotional well-being. It can also affect their relationships and overall quality of life. Treatment typically involves therapy, particularly trauma-focused therapies like Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). Support from friends, family, and support groups can also be beneficial in helping survivors cope with these challenging feelings.In this episode, we hear from a source that both surviving roommates are suffering from survivors guilt and that both have had a very difficult time in the wake of the murders.(commercial at 8:54)to contact me:bobbycapucci@protonmail.comsource:Survivor's Guilt: Definition, Symptoms, Traits, Causes, Treatment (verywellmind.com)
Rapper and actor Bashy talks to Jamz about his song ‘Lost In Dreams' taken from his long-awaited 2024 album ‘Being Poor Is Expensive' They get into why the timing was important for Bashy's return to music and how the album began its existence as poetry after taking some time to reflect on life during the pandemic. Bashy talks about how ‘Lost In Dreams' is a letter to Harlesden, and he tells Jamz how small moments in time could have changed his life entirely as a young Black man, like it has done for others he grew up with.
Survivor's guilt is a complex and often distressing emotional and psychological response that occurs when an individual feels guilty for surviving a traumatic event or situation when others did not. It is most commonly associated with situations like:Natural Disasters: When people survive earthquakes, hurricanes, or other natural disasters while others perish.Accidents: Surviving a car crash, plane crash, or other accidents where others involved did not survive.Combat: Soldiers who return from war zones where their comrades were killed in action.Illness: Surviving a serious illness or medical condition when others with similar conditions did not make it.Mass Shootings or Acts of Violence: Survivors of mass shootings or violent incidents may experience survivor's guilt if they escaped while others were injured or killed.Survivor's guilt can manifest in various ways, including:Feelings of Guilt: Survivors may question why they lived while others died, leading to feelings of guilt and self-blame.Flashbacks and Intrusive Thoughts: Recurrent, distressing memories of the traumatic event may plague survivors.Depression and Anxiety: Survivors may experience symptoms of depression, anxiety, or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).Social Withdrawal: They may isolate themselves from friends and family, believing they don't deserve happiness or connection.Physical Symptoms: Survivor's guilt can manifest physically, with symptoms like headaches, nausea, and fatigue.Self-Destructive Behavior: In extreme cases, survivors may engage in self-destructive behaviors, such as substance abuse or reckless actions.Understanding survivor's guilt is important because it can have a profound impact on an individual's mental and emotional well-being. It can also affect their relationships and overall quality of life. Treatment typically involves therapy, particularly trauma-focused therapies like Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). Support from friends, family, and support groups can also be beneficial in helping survivors cope with these challenging feelings.In this episode, we hear from a source that both surviving roommates are suffering from survivors guilt and that both have had a very difficult time in the wake of the murders.(commercial at 8:54)to contact me:bobbycapucci@protonmail.comsource:Survivor's Guilt: Definition, Symptoms, Traits, Causes, Treatment (verywellmind.com)
On this week's episode of The Smoke Break, we talk with social worker and comedian, Joey Wander as we discuss harm reduction and what it means in our professional and personal lives. After that, we unpack some of the challenges associated with survivors guilt and how to move on if all we have is memories.Lastly, we discuss religious upbringings and the impact tjey can have on our mental well-being and continued self-image.Episodes drop everything Monday at 6pm! Link in comments/ bio…
Survivor's guilt is a complex and often distressing emotional and psychological response that occurs when an individual feels guilty for surviving a traumatic event or situation when others did not. It is most commonly associated with situations like:Natural Disasters: When people survive earthquakes, hurricanes, or other natural disasters while others perish.Accidents: Surviving a car crash, plane crash, or other accidents where others involved did not survive.Combat: Soldiers who return from war zones where their comrades were killed in action.Illness: Surviving a serious illness or medical condition when others with similar conditions did not make it.Mass Shootings or Acts of Violence: Survivors of mass shootings or violent incidents may experience survivor's guilt if they escaped while others were injured or killed.Survivor's guilt can manifest in various ways, including:Feelings of Guilt: Survivors may question why they lived while others died, leading to feelings of guilt and self-blame.Flashbacks and Intrusive Thoughts: Recurrent, distressing memories of the traumatic event may plague survivors.Depression and Anxiety: Survivors may experience symptoms of depression, anxiety, or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).Social Withdrawal: They may isolate themselves from friends and family, believing they don't deserve happiness or connection.Physical Symptoms: Survivor's guilt can manifest physically, with symptoms like headaches, nausea, and fatigue.Self-Destructive Behavior: In extreme cases, survivors may engage in self-destructive behaviors, such as substance abuse or reckless actions.Understanding survivor's guilt is important because it can have a profound impact on an individual's mental and emotional well-being. It can also affect their relationships and overall quality of life. Treatment typically involves therapy, particularly trauma-focused therapies like Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). Support from friends, family, and support groups can also be beneficial in helping survivors cope with these challenging feelings.In this episode, we hear from a source that both surviving roommates are suffering from survivors guilt and that both have had a very difficult time in the wake of the murders.(commercial at 8:54)to contact me:bobbycapucci@protonmail.comsource:Survivor's Guilt: Definition, Symptoms, Traits, Causes, Treatment (verywellmind.com)
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In this episode, Ethan Poetic and I talk about his brush with death after a car accident, with an 18-wheeler tractor-trailer, left him with a 99% chance of death! Waking up was a miracle that led to a long healing journey where he learned patience and resilience. Ethan also shares his experience with survivors' guilt as two people that were in the accident with him did not survive… Ethan A. Poetic is a native of Coatesville, Pa, moving to Lancaster, Pa in the middle of his eighth-grade year. On Saturday March 19th, 2011, He was involved in a serious near-fatal car accident with a tractor-trailer 18-wheeler where he was given a 99% chance of death. Ethan graduated from J.P. McCaskey High School, Harrisburg Area Community College with an associate degree, & Millersville University with a bachelor's degree in Speech Communications minor broadcasting & media. He received two Pennsylvania Commonwealth Citations, a Proclamation declaration Citation from the Lancaster City Mayor & Council Members. Ethan was Featured in several newspaper articles, TV shows, on the Radio & honored with the Award of Excellences at the State Capital Complex of Harrisburg, Pa. Ethan is the CEO & Founder of Ethan A. Poetic, LLC to empower people towards overcoming their adversities & hardships. He's currently a keynote speaker, life coach, walking-living miracle, Two-time college graduate, & a Self-Published Author of his autobiography titled "The Inspirational Story of Ethan A. Poetic: Chronicles of Adversities, Education, Sports, Relationships, & Resiliency.". He's a former member of the International Lions Club and he has helped bridge the gaps to inspire the youth inside the classrooms, cafe, playgrounds, sports, music, after school programs, & in community engagement. He sees himself inside the youth, relating to their struggles of poverty, single-parent households, & needing leadership towards the right direction in life. Ethan does lead by true example for exemplifying in his life the outstanding progress of diversity & inclusion. I am your host, Marci Nettles. I have had a lifetime of opportunities where I had the choice to Breakdown or Breakthrough. It is my hope this Podcast may become your light in the darkness, as you listen to the stories of people I consider “heroes.” Each one had a point where they too had to choose to either Breakdown or Breakthrough! Working from home, with my husband/business partner, helping people around the world find new levels of success in their health and wellness, is part of what makes me tick! If you are open to opportunity, let's connect! Thank you for listening! Please connect with Ethan: Facebook - facebook.com/EthanPoetic23?mibextid=LQQJ4d, Instagram- instagram.com/ethanpoetic23?igsh=bW5tNGVxeXdvNmxq Grab Ethan's book at: MarciNettles.com/books Find Marci at marcinettles.com Don't forget to claim your FREEBIE from Ethan by going to Marcinettles.com/freebies Are YOU a READER? You can now read this episode on my BLOG at marcinettles.com/blog While you are there, make sure to subscribe to receive the YBWN Podcast Newsletter, ‘Making Mondays,' that will give insight to each episode and give you a heads up on what is coming next! You can also WATCH this episode on YouTube here: youtube.com/c/MarciNettles You may also enjoy these YBWN Podcast Episodes: Episode 116: “You're Positively Blind, What Now?” with Kevin Lowe Episode 109: “You're a Cancer Warrior, What Now?” with Terry Tucker
Grief is a complicated emotion to navigate, because no single experience is the same for any two people. On this episode of LETS GET INTO IT, our co-host Sarah explains her journey healing and navigating grief coupled with PTSD and Survivors Guilt. This journey has been 20+ years long. She discusses the different stages of healing she's experienced and the ways it has shaped her adult years. As a disclaimer, we want to remind you all that this is her personal story, others involved and affected may have different experiences, accounts, and journeys of healing. A special thank you to this episode's sponsors, Discover, L., and McDonald's. 00:46 Turkeys Fly, Okay 4:20 Symbolism of Turkeys 06:30 Sarah's story 21:03 A word from Discover 21:33 A word from L. 22:43 A word from McDonalds 23:22 Sarah's story continued 24:27 Healing is different for everyone
Join us for a discussion with Dakota Meyer, Marine veteran, CEO and founder of Own the Dash Gym and Dash Hydrate. Dakota is also the host for You're Human Podcast and has a mindset that will make you double think the way you may be living your life! Follow along: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cameronrhanes Twitter: https://twitter.com/cameronhanes Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/camhanes/ Website: https://www.cameronhanes.com Connect with Dakota: https://www.instagram.com/dakotameyer0317/ Thank you to our sponsors: Montana Knife Company: https://www.montanaknifecompany.com/ Black Rifle Coffee: https://www.blackriflecoffee.com/ Use code KEEPHAMMERING for 20% your first order MUDWTR: https://mudwtr.com/cam use code Cam for 15% off Blokes: https://blokes.com/cam use code CAM for 20% off labs Hoyt: http://bit.ly/3Zdamyv Leupold: https://www.leupold.com/ Timestamps: 0:00:00 Intro: Shot Show & After-Dark Stories 0:04:47 Training for IronMan 0:07:10 Dakot's Running Background 0:08:19 Dakota's Running Goals 0:12:24 Growth Comes From Being Uncomfortable 0:14:57 Lessons From Football 0:16:30 Becoming a Sniper for the Marines 0:22:20 Being a Sniper is All Mental 0:25:16 Construction to Receiving the Medal of Honor 0:32:33 Mental State After the Marines 0:39:12 Survivors Guilt & Helping Others 0:43:47 Submerged Vehicle Rescue 0:50:51 If You Have the Ability to Help People, You Should 0:52:47 Memories That Change Our Lives 0:56:47 The Cost of Being Held Back From a Mission 01:02:01 Being Held to a Standard 01:06:10 Dakota's Upcoming Book Release: Why To What 01:07:25 Dakota's Mentor: Jocko 01:13:16 Iron Sharpens Iron 01:20:40 Controlling How You Spend Your Time 01:26:56 Escaping The Miserable Mindset 01:32: 04 Living Off What You've Done, VS What You're Doing 01:37:26 Past Decisions & the Emotions Connected to Them 01:40:22 Dakota's Current Goals 01:46:26 Outro
Part 2 of this very special 2 parter... I know I said this would be shorter and out in the morning but I went on a magical side quest as you'll hear at the end... I am joined by ADHDAF Events Superstar Nicole Nadler...can anyone remember what her Edinburgh Fringe show is called?! ;) ;) And the LEGEND that saved the day - keeping me going at my lowest ebb; Ally MacDonald for questions, reflections and ridiculousness... followed by a blether with the Big man himself. With a couple of enormous realisations thrown in...WHAT A DIFFERENCE A YEAR MAKES! Seriously! Listen to yesterday's Part 1 HERE If you are struggling, you are not alone. please REACH OUTSELF DIAGNOSIS IS VALID & ADHD IS REAL.TW: Depression, Anxiety, Relationship Struggles, Conflict, Ablesim, Bereavement, Grief, Cancer, Suicidal Ideation, Survivors Guilt, The Pandemic, Lockdown, Mental Health Struggles, Nervous Breakdown, Burnout, With ENORMOUS thanks to Nicole, Big, Ally and all of the LEGENDS that took part in the side quest safari! Thank goodness we now know WHY WE ARE LIKE THIS! :)If you've found this podcast helpful & are able, please help me continue to help others by joining our Community for Peer Support OR leave a tipMASSIVE THANKS TO ALL PATRONS!Gold Tier Patrons Shoutout: RachSlatts Leanne S Clare Wilson Michie Kim Pierpoint Amy Davies Ceci Mary Suzanne Tanser Katy Smtih Jacqueline McGeachie Jennifer Wilson Jo Rachel Stewart Christie Katie Enstone Ani Kemsley Lizee Oliver Michelle Bellyou Olivia Dyer Gurjit Thandi Jody Tracy Wilkes Ruth Lester Kimi Wright Rachel Williams Sahra Lou Kirsty Jackie Allen Lou O'Connell Carly Taylor JenM Claire Protherough Reece English Louise MacDonald Claire Dowling Ally Rathbone Daina Stinnett Rosie Gee Dr Explodo PhD Lindsay Knox Ally Mac Cat Marshall Siobhan Campbell Kara Romana Broughton Anna Byrom Nikkie Wilson Kirsty Witkowska Abbie Whitelaw Rhianne Caitlin Lewis Gillypompom Andie MacInnes Donnie Jackie Whittingham Vanessa Fisher Marianne Kelly Lyndsey Lowdon Claire Robinson Charlotte Lynskey Matilda Wanless Abi Wood Tabitha Buck Fanny Willy Paula Gleeson Kirsten Richardson Louise Kilgannon-Patel Kirsti B Gemma Beauchamp Jenni Bell Jaime Kerns Sarah Spurgeon Sara Jill Toni Morgan Ian Hepworth Louise Townend Amy Holliday Dawn Farmer HTMLQueen (Bonnie) Jill Saunders Milly Withers Meg Jennie King Elaine Koczubik Victoria Galbraith Abi Holland Elizabeth Wilson Vickie Hill Vicky Parker Clare Hunter Annabel Isabelle Paquette Fern Keeley BEE Kate Smith Carley Fischer Gemma Schneide & Rachael Morrice Lou Talbot Beirne Zena Spiers Liberty & Elena Davis. who helped make this episode possible; raising ADHD awareness and providing validation & information to those who desperately need it.Jingle originally by Dawn remixed by Sessionz Support the show
In January 2022 at the age of 38 I got diagnosed with severe combined type ADHD. In this two part episode I'm attempting to use my own late diagnosis 'safari' as a case study by 'interviewing' different people in my life to hear their reflections of the difference a year can make. Whilst some share childhood memories, others are behind the scenes ADHDAF team members... all are chosen family that have helped me in my darkest hours. From playground politics, to raving , to grieving, to activism. It has been a challenge putting all of this out there (and I don't just mean the editing! LOL) My hope is that some might find validation and comfort in hearing these blethers. I can't wait to share the second (MUCH SHORTER) instalment TOMORROW! If you'd like to hear the ENORMOUS difference a year can truly make listen to my 1 year since diagnosis episode HERESELF DIAGNOSIS IS VALID & ADHD IS REAL.TW: Depression, Anxiety, Relationship Struggles, Conflict, Ablesim, Bereavement, Grief, Cancer, Suicidal Ideation, Survivors Guilt, The Pandemic, Lockdown, Mental Health Struggles, Nervous Breakdown, BurnoutIf you are struggling, you are not alone. please REACH OUTENORMOUS THANKS TO: Steph of All The Discos, Sohayla, Aishley & Cat! LEOPARD PRINT ARMY!If you've found this podcast helpful & are able, please help me continue to help others by joining our Community for Peer Support OR leave a tipMASSIVE THANKS TO ALL PATRONS!Gold Tier Patrons Shoutout: RachSlatts Leanne S Clare Wilson Michie Kim Pierpoint Amy Davies Ceci Mary Suzanne Tanser Katy Smtih Jacqueline McGeachie Jennifer Wilson Jo Rachel Stewart Christie Katie Enstone Ani Kemsley Lizee Oliver Michelle Bellyou Olivia Dyer Gurjit Thandi Jody Tracy Wilkes Ruth Lester Kimi Wright Rachel Williams Sahra Lou Kirsty Jackie Allen Lou O'Connell Carly Taylor JenM Claire Protherough Reece English Louise MacDonald Claire Dowling Ally Rathbone Daina Stinnett Rosie Gee Dr Explodo PhD Lindsay Knox Ally Mac Cat Marshall Siobhan Campbell Kara Romana Broughton Anna Byrom Nikkie Wilson Kirsty Witkowska Abbie Whitelaw Rhianne Caitlin Lewis Gillypompom Andie MacInnes Donnie Jackie Whittingham Vanessa Fisher Marianne Kelly Lyndsey Lowdon Claire Robinson Charlotte Lynskey Matilda Wanless Abi Wood Tabitha Buck Fanny Willy Paula Gleeson Kirsten Richardson Louise Kilgannon-Patel Kirsti B Gemma Beauchamp Jenni Bell Jaime Kerns Sarah Spurgeon Sara Jill Toni Morgan Ian Hepworth Louise Townend Amy Holliday Dawn Farmer HTMLQueen (Bonnie) Jill Saunders Milly Withers Meg Jennie King Elaine Koczubik Victoria Galbraith Abi Holland Elizabeth Wilson Vickie Hill Vicky Parker Clare Hunter Annabel Isabelle Paquette Fern Keeley BEE Kate Smith Carley Fischer Gemma Schneide & Rachael Morrice Lou Talbot Beirne Zena Spiers Liberty & Elena Davis. who helped make this episode possible; raising ADHD awareness and providing validation & information to those who desperately need it.Jingle originally by Dawn remixed by Sessionz Support the show
Survivor's guilt is a complex and often distressing emotional and psychological response that occurs when an individual feels guilty for surviving a traumatic event or situation when others did not. It is most commonly associated with situations like:Natural Disasters: When people survive earthquakes, hurricanes, or other natural disasters while others perish.Accidents: Surviving a car crash, plane crash, or other accidents where others involved did not survive.Combat: Soldiers who return from war zones where their comrades were killed in action.Illness: Surviving a serious illness or medical condition when others with similar conditions did not make it.Mass Shootings or Acts of Violence: Survivors of mass shootings or violent incidents may experience survivor's guilt if they escaped while others were injured or killed.Survivor's guilt can manifest in various ways, including:Feelings of Guilt: Survivors may question why they lived while others died, leading to feelings of guilt and self-blame.Flashbacks and Intrusive Thoughts: Recurrent, distressing memories of the traumatic event may plague survivors.Depression and Anxiety: Survivors may experience symptoms of depression, anxiety, or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).Social Withdrawal: They may isolate themselves from friends and family, believing they don't deserve happiness or connection.Physical Symptoms: Survivor's guilt can manifest physically, with symptoms like headaches, nausea, and fatigue.Self-Destructive Behavior: In extreme cases, survivors may engage in self-destructive behaviors, such as substance abuse or reckless actions.Understanding survivor's guilt is important because it can have a profound impact on an individual's mental and emotional well-being. It can also affect their relationships and overall quality of life. Treatment typically involves therapy, particularly trauma-focused therapies like Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). Support from friends, family, and support groups can also be beneficial in helping survivors cope with these challenging feelings.In this episode, we hear from a source that both surviving roommates are suffering from survivors guilt and that both have had a very difficult time in the wake of the murders.(commercial at 8:54)to contact me:bobbycapucci@protonmail.comsource:Survivor's Guilt: Definition, Symptoms, Traits, Causes, Treatment (verywellmind.com)
In this Surviving Podcast episode, we hear an emotional conversation about trauma, gender identity, military service, and survival. Join our guest, Azarea as they courageously share their personal journey of trauma which began with sexual abuse at eight years old followed by internal conflicts within their gender identity. Azareal also discusses their struggles with survivor guilt from their military service under the era of 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell'. In the end, find hope as Azareashares their healing process through self-care, music, and their presence on social platforms like TikTok.Eye-Opening Moments PodcastEye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show
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After breaking the news to David Dearlove, Toby continues the investigation. The leads are all a bit cold, until he finds out that Anthea has headed out on a boat with the bullying teenagers from the beach. Why would she have lied to him? Trying to get to the bottom of the whether Levi Levarne will be in town and what that might have to do with the New Years threat, he tries to find out more from the teenagers in town and social media posts after HungryHungry70 implies there will be a bomb on New Years Eve. By the end of the night though, his focus moves onto another generation – is the threat to Ruatuna coming from the retirees who want their quiet town back? An 8-part mockumentary true-crime podcast parodying the podcasts like Serial, Teachers Pet and Drop Out. All voiced by one actor - Tom Sainsbury. Facebook: Tom Sainsbury - Comedian and Snapchat Dude | Facebook Instagram: @thomassainsbury / @iheartradionz Terms and Conditions for the TalkBack Competition: https://bit.ly/3tb3hEb See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What is up y'all... Welcome back to #MelanatedMonday We are back for another season of raw realness. During the off season, so much has changed. Nothing about my life is as it was the last time we spoke. It's only right that I bring the tibe (you guys) up to speed before we jump into our first discussion. Out of all of the things I've been going through and growing through these last six months, the one thing I have been feeling the most? Survivor's guilt! "I hope y'all are ready... cause this gunna be one hell of a ride!" Join the TRIBE: IG: @tyanne.watson Twitter: @tyannewatson TikTok: @tyannewatson YouTube: @tyannewatson
Please join us at patreon.com/tortoiseshack My sister is in Gaza: Ireland-Palestine Solidarity with Fatin Al Tamimi In this Reboot Republic podcast, Rory talks with Fatin Al Tamimi, who is a Palestinian/Irish human rights activist and a director of the Ireland Palestine Solidarity Campaign. Fatin talks about her worry for her sister and family who are in Gaza and had to leave their home and are now in a shelter with no water. Fatin also talks about the de-humanisation of the Palestinian people, the racism and complicity in the mainstream media and the need for the Irish Government to do more to support Palestine, and the importance of public action like protest and the Boycott Divest Sanction campaigns. You can find out more at www.ipsc.ie
Hour 3 of The Drew Mariani Show on 9-11-23 Allison Ricciardi takes a look at traumatic events like Sept. 11th, and how those who survive can deal with a kind of guilt -- when looked through the eyes of faith, we can see that we were spared for a special reason Dr. Thomas McGovern takes questions about skin cancers and melanomas, in light of Jimmy Buffett's passing from it
What if a seemingly small decision could change your life forever? In this gripping podcast, Charlie shares his journey from a successful Wall Street professional to a filmmaker, exploring the profound impact of his choices along the way. September 11th, 2001, and the attacks on the World Trade Center is a day Charlie will never forget. He shares the "survivor guilt" many felt and continue to feel today. He is raw and honest in his account of what happened and how it impacted his decisions moving forward. Information about Charlie:https://www.jgalt.io/ccomparetto/https://www.cellardoorfilms.netGhost in The Graveyard and other short stories:https://www.amazon.com/Ghost-Graveyard-other-short-stories-ebook/dp/B0C9YH4B14/ref=sr_1_1?crid=XDFF6I9HZT6T&keywords=ghost+in+the+graveyard+and+other+short+stories&qid=1691423955&s=books&sprefix=ghost+in+the+graveyard+and+other+short+stories%2Cstripbooks%2C101&sr=1-1Ghost in the Graveyard movie:https://www.amazon.com/Ghost-Graveyard-Major-Motion-Picture/dp/1700745883/ref=sr_1_3?crid=2JQRLGMQP7PHG&keywords=ghost+in+the+graveyard&qid=1691424015&s=books&sprefix=ghost+in+the+graveyard+%2Cstripbooks%2C115&sr=1-3Rub movie:https://www.amazon.com/RUB-Micah-Spayer/dp/B0C9WBSZ9S/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=rub+movie&qid=1691423660&sr=8-1Connect with Jen: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ineedbluepodcast/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/needbluepodcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp1q8SfA_hEXRJ4EaizlW8QWebsite: https://ineedblue.net/Support the show
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In this episode, Navy SEAL Mike Sarraille and Air Force Veteran Brian Reese dive into the leadership insights, strategies to win the game of life, and personal stories that will empower you to navigate your best life as a veteran post active duty military service. Are you ready to thrive beyond the uniform? Whether you're seeking inspiration, guidance, or actionable steps, this podcast is packed with valuable content that can make a real difference. Don't miss out on their tried-and-true methods for success, all shared with authenticity and a deep understanding of the painful military to civilian transition.
On this episode, Will & Berto speak with Adrian McLean, the only survivor of a plane crash that killed 4 people. He shares his story of survival and the mental health challenges he faced in the aftermath of the crash. Adrian talks about the guilt he felt for surviving when others did not, the anxiety he experienced, and the survivor's guilt that set in and through him into a downward spiral of depression. He also talks about the coping mechanisms he used to deal with his trauma, including therapy, exercise, and spending time with loved ones. This episode is a powerful reminder of the importance of mental health, even in the face of tragedy. It is also a story of resilience and hope. Adrian is an inspiration to us all, and his story shows that it is possible to overcome even the most difficult challenges. Call to action: If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health challenges, please reach out for help. There are many resources available, including therapy, medication, and support groups. You are not alone. "Man up" is not the answer. Here are some resources that can help: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 The Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386 The Jed Foundation: https://www.jedfoundation.org/ The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention: https://afsp.org/ FOLLOW ADRIAN MCLEAN ON INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/diamondkut_fitness/ FOLLOW PROLIFIC PODCAST ON INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/prolificpodcast/ FOLLOW PROLIFIC PODCAST ON TIKTOK | https://www.tiktok.com/@prolificpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc SUBSCRIBE HERE | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRByqFxF4C7bopwNrySTlLw FOLLOW WILL ON INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/will_manzano/ FOLLOW BERTO ON INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/norbertocabrera_/ LISTEN ON SPOTIFY | https://open.spotify.com/show/6JFBzhOLVeIvIdHoZGsfGk LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTS | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/prolific-podcast/id1546819864
Whenever someone lives through a traumatic situation, it undoubtedly changes them forever. A lot of times, we want to think we would react a certain way, but the truth is, none of us know until we are in a position like that. In this episode, we hear from a woman named Alanna Zabel who was in a very similar situation to the one Dylan Mortensen was in and she has a few things to say about some of the criticism being directed at the surving roommates.(commercial at 13:27)to contact me:bobbycapucci@protonmail.comsource:The Idaho murders bear chilling similarities to a 1992 attack in Buffalo. They both teach a key lesson | The IndependentThis show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5080327/advertisement
Whenever someone lives through a traumatic situation, it undoubtedly changes them forever. A lot of times, we want to think we would react a certain way, but the truth is, none of us know until we are in a position like that. In this episode, we hear from a woman named Alanna Zabel who was in a very similar situation to the one Dylan Mortensen was in and she has a few things to say about some of the criticism being directed at the surving roommates.(commercial at 13:27)to contact me:bobbycapucci@protonmail.comsource:The Idaho murders bear chilling similarities to a 1992 attack in Buffalo. They both teach a key lesson | The IndependentThis show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5003294/advertisement
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She's here! I am thrilled to have Dr. Leigh Erin Connealy on the show today! I share a bit of my journey as a patient of Dr. Connealy's at the Cancer Center for Healing and we dive deep into the immense impact EVOX Therapy had in my healing journey.Interview LinksWeb: What is EVOX Therapy?Web: EVOX Therapy TestimonialsPodcast: Ep. 7 Recent Cancer Concern, Testing and Protocols w/Dr. Leigh Erin ConnealyPodcast: Ep. 15 Cancer UpdatePodcast: Ep. 116 How Cancer Led Me to EVOX & Founding The AccrescentPodcast: Ep. 107 Diana Mendoza - Breast Cancer, Survivors Guilt & Emotional WellBeing After CancerPodcast: Ep. 128 Dr. Juli Kramer - The Physiology of Repressed Emotions & CancerBook: Power vs. ForceBook: The Body Keeps the ScoreWhere to Find My GuestDr. Leigh Erin Connealy: WebsiteDr. Leigh Erin Connealy: InstagramConnect w/Me & Learn MoreWebsiteInstagramTiktokYoutube
1 in 4 Medicare hospice patients is a military veteran. Frederick Health Hospice is going the extra mile to meet the unique needs of veterans at the end of life. While Frederick focuses on care, comfort, and hope, they also focus on the needs of U.S. veterans in their community. Executive director Carlos Graveran, an Army veteran himself, created a Hospice Veteran Liaison position to provide more robust care for military veterans in the Maryland community. Navy Veteran Eric Jorgensen serves in the Hospice Liaison position. As veterans, Carlos and Eric understand the importance of recognizing the patients' experiences and their caregivers' needs. According to the Frederick Health Hospice website, the agency provides: Providing information about state and VA benefits such as Aid and Attendance, pensions, cemeteries, monuments, and military honors Assistance in obtaining discharge documents, records, medals, and awards Recognition ceremony that includes presentation of a certificate of appreciation and veteran pin Visits from veteran volunteers The Veteran Liaison is critical in educating the hospice interdisciplinary team about the specific issues a veteran might be dealing with, including guilt, anger, PTSD, regret, and survivor's guilt. With 25% of all Medicare hospice patients being military veterans, knowing how to provide compassionate and respectful care should be a top priority for all hospice agencies in the U.S. Connect with Frederick Health Hospice at frederickhealthhospice.org. Learn more about the We Honor Veterans program from NHPCO at wehonorveterans.org. Book podcast host Helen Bauer to speak at your event or conference by sending an email to helen@theheartofhospice.com. Follow The Heart of Hospice on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn. Connect with The Heart of Hospice podcast on The Whole Care Network, along with a host of other caregiving podcasts by clicking here. Find more podcast episodes from The Heart of Hospice at The Heart of Hospice Podcast (theheartofhospice.com)
Pamela McColloch is a mom to a United States Marine and a grandma to a beautiful 10-month-old baby boy. She is blessed to be a colon cancer and liver cancer survivor! Pamela is also a real estate broker, author of "Midlife Cancer Crisis", host of the Cfree Cancer free podcast, and also manufactures her own organic towels. Pamela lives in Florida and travels a lot. She loves yoga, Jesus, and good conversation. ✨A few highlights from the show: 1. Pamela shared that she experienced survivor's guilt because she survived two cancers and many others did not make it. Survivor's guilt is common among people who have survived cancer. Learn nore: https://www.roswellpark.org/cancertalk/202303/what-survivors-guilt 2. Hot yoga refers to different yoga styles that take plac e in warm and heated studios for a more intense workout. Similar to traditional yoga, hot yoga offers a range of benefits to mental and physical health, flexibility, and overall well-being. Learn more: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/what-is-hot-yoga 3. Squeeze a lemon into a glass of water in the morning. It helps to cleanse your body and remove toxins. Learn more: https://www.thehealthy.com/hydration/lemon-water-health-benefits/
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Whenever someone lives through a traumatic situation, it undoubtedly changes them forever. A lot of times, we want to think we would react a certain way, but the truth is, none of us know until we are in a position like that. In this episode, we hear from a woman named Alanna Zabel who was in a very similar situation to the one Dylan Mortensen was in and she has a few things to say about some of the criticism being directed at the surving roommates.(commercial at 8:11)to contact me:bobbycapucci@protonmail.comsource:The Idaho murders bear chilling similarities to a 1992 attack in Buffalo. They both teach a key lesson | The Independent
Whenever someone lives through a traumatic situation, it undoubtedly changes them forever. A lot of times, we want to think we would react a certain way, but the truth is, none of us know until we are in a position like that. In this episode, we hear from a woman named Alanna Zabel who was in a very similar situation to the one Dylan Mortensen was in and she has a few things to say about some of the criticism being directed at the surving roommates.(commercial at 8:11)to contact me:bobbycapucci@protonmail.comsource:The Idaho murders bear chilling similarities to a 1992 attack in Buffalo. They both teach a key lesson | The Independent
A smaller installment where Devin talks about one of his many, many brain children. What happens when a Changeling is raised by Lizard folk? SURVIVORS GUILT if you'd like to know why them check out the episode
Survivor's guilt is a psychological condition that occurs when a person has survived a traumatic or life-threatening event and experiences feelings of guilt, shame, or remorse for having survived while others did not. It is often associated with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and can occur after experiencing a wide range of traumatic events, such as natural disasters, combat, accidents, or incidents of violence.In this episode, we hear from a source that both surviving roommates are suffering from survivors guilt and that both have had a very difficult time in the wake of the murders. (commercial at 8:54)to contact me:bobbycapucci@protonmail.comsource:Survivor's Guilt: Definition, Symptoms, Traits, Causes, Treatment (verywellmind.com)source:Roommates of Idaho Students 'Feel Survivor's Guilt' About Murders (people.com)
Survivor's guilt is a psychological condition that occurs when a person has survived a traumatic or life-threatening event and experiences feelings of guilt, shame, or remorse for having survived while others did not. It is often associated with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and can occur after experiencing a wide range of traumatic events, such as natural disasters, combat, accidents, or incidents of violence.In this episode, we hear from a source that both surviving roommates are suffering from survivors guilt and that both have had a very difficult time in the wake of the murders. (commercial at 8:54)to contact me:bobbycapucci@protonmail.comsource:Survivor's Guilt: Definition, Symptoms, Traits, Causes, Treatment (verywellmind.com)source:Roommates of Idaho Students 'Feel Survivor's Guilt' About Murders (people.com)
Welcome to the Five Song Mixtape! This week we discuss the mixtape titled “Devin Loves Violence To Women” by Devin. You can find the playlist by following our account on Spotify @FiveSongMixtape or you can find us on Instagram @FiveSongMixtape. We would love to hear your thoughts on the playlist and please give us a rating via iTunes to help spread the word!“Devin Loves Violence To Women” by Devin1. “Always Already” by La Luna2. “New Refused” by Closer3. “18 Years and Counting” by Amygdala4. “Survivors Guilt” by Roman Candle5. “An Endless Cycle // I Was More Than the Weight of My Work” by Massa Nera Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In today's episode, I'm sharing some common themes/topics that were coming up with my EVOX clients over the last month. I talk about stubborn weight loss and the emotional connections to repressed anger. I look at the PTSD that can occur after a life-threatening illness and the health hypervigilance that tends to follow. Lastly, I point out a common pattern I see of treating ourselves the same way our caretakers treated us and share some of the subconscious processes around this.Interview LinksRemote EVOX: Remote EVOX Requirements + Hand Cradle RentalBook: The Encyclopedia of Ailments and Diseases by Jacques Martel Podcast: Ep. 107 Diana Mendoza - Breast Cancer, Survivors Guilt, and Emotional Wellbeing in RemissionArticle: What is EVOX?EVOX: Read EVOX TestimonialsSchedule: Book an In-Person or Remote EVOXConnect w/Me & Learn MoreWebsiteInstagramTiktokYoutube
Chapter 35 - VeritaserumHarry let go of the cup, but he clutched Cedric to him even more tightly. He raised his free hand and seized Dumbledore's wrist, while Dumbledore's face swam in and out of focus. "He's back," Harry whispered. "He's back. Voldemort."Q1 - Why did Fudge want to tell Amos his son died before he got to his son? Meta Question…"Karkaroff's gone? He ran away? But then - he didn't put my name in the goblet?" "No," said Moody slowly. "No, he didn't. It was I who did that." Harry heard, but didn't believe. "No, you didn't," he said. "You didn't do that...you can't have done..."Q2 - What were you thinking when he was saying all this?Decent people are so easy to manipulate, Potter. I was sure Cedric would want to repay you for telling him about the dragons, and so he did.Q3 - Do you still suspect Krum?At that moment, Harry fully understood for the first time why people said Dumbledore was the only wizard Voldemort had ever feared. The look upon Dumbledore's face as he stared down at the unconscious form of Mad-Eye Moody was more terrible than Harry could have ever imagined. There was no benign smile upon Dumbledore's face, no twinkle in the eyes behind the spectacles. There was cold fury in every line of the ancient face; a sense of power radiated from Dumbledore as though he were giving off burning heat.Q4 - Is this cool, or terrifying?Q5 - If Crouch had to take it every hour, did he become crouch when he slept?Q6 - What do you think of Crouch Jr's whole story?Q7 - Are there any unanswered questions?Chapter 36 - The Parting of the Ways"If I thought I could help you," Dumbledore said gently, "by putting you into an enchanted sleep and allowing you to postpone the moment when you would have to think about what has happened tonight, I would do it. But I know better. Numbing the pain for a while will make it worse when you finally feel it. You have shown bravery beyond anything I could have expected of you. I ask you to demonstrate your courage one more time. I ask you to tell us what happened."Q1 - Is Sirius right, to want to let Harry sleep, or Dumbledore?"He said my blood would make him stronger than if he'd used someone else's," Harry told Dumbledore. "He said the protection my - my mother left in me - he'd have it too. And he was right - he could touch me without hurting himself, he touched my face." For a fleeting instant, Harry thought he saw a gleam of something like triumph in Dumbledore's eyes. But next second. Harry was sure he had imagined it, for when Dumbledore had returned to his seat behind the desk, he looked as old and weary as Harry had ever seen him.Q2 - What is this gleam of triumph?"No spell can reawaken the dead," said Dumbledore heavily. "All that would have happened is a kind of reverse echo. A shadow of the living Cedric would have emerged from the wand...am I correct, Harry?"Q3 - Do you understand what happened here?Q4 - Is Fudge a coward?"You are blinded," said Dumbledore, his voice rising now, the aura of power around him palpable, his eyes blazing once more, "by the love of the office you hold, Cornelius! You place too much importance, and you always have done, on the so-called purity of blood! You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be! Your dementor has just destroyed the last remaining member of a pure-blood family as old as any - and see what that man chose to make of his life! I tell you now- take the steps I have suggested, and you will be remembered, in office or out, as one of the bravest and greatest Ministers of Magic we have ever known. Fail to act - and history will remember you as the man who stepped aside and allowed Voldemort a second chance to destroy the world we have tried to rebuild!"Q5 - Why doesn't Fudge believe this?Q6 - What do you think of Dumbledore here?Time is short, and unless the few of us who know the truth do not stand united, there is no hope for any us."Severus," said Dumbledore, turning to Snape, "you know what I must ask you to do. If you are ready...if you are prepared..." "I am," said Snape. He looked slightly paler than usual, and his cold, black eyes glittered strangely. "Then good luck," said Dumbledore, and he watched, with a trace of apprehension on his face, as Snape swept wordlessly after Sirius.Q7 - What is happening here?Q8 - How do you think Harry is going to deal with his survivors' guilt?There was a loud slamming noise, and Mrs. Weasley and Harry broke apart. Hermione was standing by the window. She was holding something tight in her hand.Q9 - What is she holding?Q10 - Does all this make sense?Chapter 37 - The BeginningThey did not blame him for what had happened; on the contrary, both thanked him for returning Cedric's body to them. Mr. Diggory sobbed through most of the interview. Mrs. Diggory's grief seemed to be beyond tears.Q1 - What are your thoughts on the Diggory's?"She went to ask him if you could come straight to us this summer," he said. "But he wants you to go back to the Dursleys, at least at first."Q2 - Why does Dumbledore want Harry to go back?"No good sittin' worryin' abou' it," he said. "What's comin' will come, an we'll meet it when it does. Dumbledore told me wha' you did. Harry."Harry caught a glimpse of Cho through the crowd. There were tears pouring silently down her face. He looked down at the table as they all sat down again.Q3 - What kind of crier are you guys?"Remember Cedric. Remember, if the time should come when you have to make a choice between what is right and what is easy, remember what happened to a boy who was good, and kind, and brave, because he strayed across the path of Lord Voldemort. Remember Cedric Diggory."Q4 - Do you think people will believe Dumbledore, or not?Q5 - What do you think about Hermione keep Rita in a jar with a few twigs?Q6 - What questions do you still have?
The reality of family dynamics can be tough, and trying to facilitate healing and reconciliation can be tougher when it feels like it's you doing the heavy lifting. In today's episode, the sisters speak about the practical ramifications of trying to put yourself first and completely reshaping your relationships as an eldest daughter Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com For affordable and accessible online therapy visit www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters
The Day That All Cops Hope Will Never Happen. Shots Fired, The Murder Of His Partner And The Aftermath. His partner was shot and killed while he was on scene. He returned fire and although he did everything right, the negative effects on him were huge. Imagine if you were one of the first on Social Media, or on Social Audio apps. Here's your chance to be one of the first on the free Breakout app, that combines the best of social audio and social media. Get it at www.LetBreak.com, there is a free version for iPhone and Android devices. Be sure to follow John J Wiley of the Law Enforcement Today Radio Show and Podcast, use the profile @LetRadioShow. Get it for free at LetBreak.com or at the App Store and Google Play. Retired Phoenix Police Officer Chris Hoyer is our guest. He talks about the gunfight and ambush, where his partner Police Officer David Glasser was shot and killed. Chris engaged the suspect in a gunfight and the suspect was struck and killed. He tells us the details of what happened during and after the murder of Officer Glasser. The trauma, combined with Survivor's Guilt took a toll on Chris and his overall mental health. Chris discusses what happened to him, his recovery and how the process inspired him to write the book "When That Day Comes: Training for the Fight". Plus, he shares how he uses his experience to help others recover and prepare for trauma. If you enjoy the Law Enforcement Today Radio Show and Podcast, please tell a friend or two, or three about it. Be sure to Like and Follow us on Facebook. Interested in being a guest, sponsorship or advertising opportunities send an email to the host and producer of the show jay@lawenforcementtoday.com. Background song Hurricane is used with permission from the band Dark Horse Flyer. Follow us on MeWe, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook. Never miss out on an episode of the Law Enforcement Today Podcast subscribe to our free email newsletter, never more than 2 issues a week sent out. Click here and scroll down about halfway. Check out the Clubhouse: Drop In Audio Chat App for free. It is social audio, think of truly interactive talk radio. Be sure to become a member of our club for free, LET Radio and Podcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Did you know that 40% of Americans have been laid off or terminated from a job at least once in their careers, and 28% of Americans have been laid off in the past two years alone?For this second part of our layoff special, we discuss what the experts suggest you do to better cope with being let go and how to successfully move on to your next professional chapter. While things may seem quite gloomy at the time (and you might find yourself binging heart-wrenching Adele and Radiohead playlists), there is light at the end of the tunnel. We also tackle what happens to the employees that don't get cut –– those employees considered “the lucky ones,” who are left picking up the pieces of downsizing. We all know that with a layoff, we lose people we admire and respect: colleagues, work BFFs, mentors, (and sometimes even bosses), yet many times we're expected to turn the page immediately, take on additional work, and be grateful we still have a job.Meanwhile, managers don't have it easy either: they're in charge of corporate cheerleading, doing their best to motivate and reassure a team that is emotionally distressed, sad, and anxious about the future.The emotional aftermath of a layoff affects everyone, so the more all the involved parties know about how to best cope with this difficult situation, the better prepared we are for a positive outcome. HIGHLIGHTS1:50 Facing the difficult moment of being laid off3:17 What experts say are the best things you can do to move forward after being laid off23:55 Dealing with the after math of a layoff when you're the employee left behind picking up the pieces. 38:25 Tips for management to handle employee morale after a layoff. SOURCESHow to Bounce Back After Being Laid Off - HBRCoping with Layoff Survivor Sickness - MonsterHow to Cope When Your Close Coworker is Laid Off (And Your Still Employed) - Fast CompanyHow to Support Your Remaining Employees After a Layoff - HBRHow to Help Your Employees Overcome Survivor Guilt After a Layoff - ForbesRemember to fill out our survey here and get the chance to win a Surfing Corporate swag bag.
Marci Warhaft - “The Resiliency Rebel” - is a Resiliency coach and founder of The Fit vs Fiction Body Image workshops. She was named one of Canada's Top 100 Health influencers for 2018, 2019, 2020 and 2021 by Optimyz fitness magazine. Marci is the author of The Good Stripper: A Soccer Mom's Memoir of Lies, Loss and Lap Dances, where she shares in raw, honest and intimate detail her eye-popping journey to self discovery. By turning a life of turmoil into an example of tenacity and survival, Marci uses her experiences to help others release themselves of the shame, guilt and insecurities that keep them from living their lives with the joy they deserve.Sometimes, we listen to someone's life story and we think, “OMG, that's nuts!” or “How can all this happen to one person?” While Hersh's interview Marci does have that quality, this episode is about ALL our lives. It comes down to fortitude, and what it takes to push through to the life we're really meant to have, and the work we need to do to survive and to thrive in this world. Speaking of survival, Marci's survivor guilt after losing her older brother to illness as a teenager is central to the challenges she's faced and combated. Loss may be in the back or at the forefront of our struggle to keep it together, but it's there, in the mix, and we must learn how to grieve in order to grow. Key Takeaways:A new mother with a great mother is likely to be a great mother, even if she thinks she can lever live up to the standards set by her own mother, and believes she's a terrible mother.A "family doctor" who tells a 17 year old patient that she should lose 10 lbs before putting on a bathing suit is not fit to be a doctor or near your family.Our problems aren't always based on reasonability, so we need to find another way to address them. But we CAN address them, and it's worth it.Find Marci:https://www.marciwarhaft.comhttps://www.thegoodstripper.comhttps://www.facebook.com/fitvsfiction/https://www.instagram.com/marciwarhaft/
Lyndsey's story is one that you won't want to miss! Whit and I know that we will be sharing her story with all of our family and friends for many reasons. Lyndsey's story is about her son who was speeding while driving with his best friend. Her storing is heartbreaking, but she is courageous for telling it. She talks about survivor's guilt, and how that has impacted her family. She talks about changes that she wish she could make and gives advice to us parents who have teen drivers now, and in the future. I personally learned so much from her and her words. As hard as it is for her to tell her story, I know it will impact someone else for the better. Link for Lyndsey's Zero Fatalities Campaignhttps://youtu.be/BECn80uRnRQFit, Healthy & Happy Podcast Welcome to the Fit, Healthy and Happy Podcast hosted by Josh and Kyle from Colossus...Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify
Musician Joey Bada$$ joins us today! With the release of his new album, “2000”, we discuss the evolution of his songwriting (5:07), the direction of the new record (8:59), and how Grand Puba influenced the opening track, The Baddest (10:28). Then, to better understand Joey's present, we sit with his past: the first verse he performed (13:31), writing Waves, featured in “1999”, in his mother's bedroom (19:15), forming Pro Era as a teenager (23:42), and the day The New York Times interviewed him in high school (33:52). On the back-half, Joey reflects on the legacy of the late Capital Steez (37:28), how writing Survivors Guilt helped him process loss (47:34), the joys of fatherhood (56:49), the redemptive quality of Head High (1:01:22), and what, at age 27, he hopes for in the chapter ahead (1:05:03).See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
On this episode! The fellas get nostalgic, discussing Joey Bada$$ new album "2000," and some of our favorite memories from High School. We have a loaded What Have We Listened To, B listens to "The Blueprint," and we break down CMG artist Mozzy's album "Survivors Guilt." We give you a few quick hitters and another discussion about youth sports. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @2HipHopSenseis.a.casual and be sure to subscribe to our new YouTube page! We Love any and all feedback! If you REALLY loyal, be sure to tell a friend to tell a friend to listen to the Podcast!
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What Up Crew! You already know we back with a new drop and we got Tazz's Dumb Ass Clips Of The Week one of which includes a very......"Special" POV on MLK from B.Simone and her "Know For Sure" Podcast..Then The Crew answers a question in relation to being a parent in the midst of all these mass shootings which leads to a funny comparison of their childhood vs today. WE BROUGHT BACK MUSIC BREAKS!!!!! We got 3 songs from Outta Town Short's newest project Survivors Guilt which is available on all music streaming platforms NOW!!!! Tune In We Do This For Ya'll!!!!