MasterPlan Marriage

Here we are. Back? As the Lord leads! In the "mean and in between time" be blessed by this message the Lord placed on my heart to share with you all. Oh and by the way, the episode title has more to do with the message BUT if you do have any questions, comments or concerns please feel free to email us at masterplanmarriage@gmail.com! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Join us as we sit down with Wale and Yinka Adegbenle and hear how they manage to create memories with their three children as well as the intentionality required to create lasting memories as a couple. Also take a listen and be encouraged as they share a bit of their testimony! Be sure to check out Yinka's website where she shines as an excellence strategist, author and coach. And while you're at it, check out her book: Joab, King David's Top General which can be purchased on Amazon: viewbook.at/joabamazon and everywhere books are sold online. We discussed the importance of attending marriage conferences and classes regularly. Here are some marriage conferences and classes that come highly recommended: Marriage conference and classes through Grow University at Bethlehem Assembly of God in Valley Stream, New York; Gateway Church's Love Always Marriage Conference 2022 in Southlake, Texas; Check out Focus on the Family for marriage conferences and events near you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Foundation- the very ground on which your life, your marriage, everything about you stands. On where/what/who does your foundation lie? What about in your marriage? In order to have marriages that please God, we ought to have individual genuine relationships with God. Our very foundation must be built on the rock that is Jesus Christ; in Him and Him alone. And it's essential that we test our foundations regularly, especially since storms will come. Scriptural references: Matthew 7:24-27; Luke 6:46-49; 1 Corinthians 3:10-15; ‭‭Psalm‬ ‭145:18; 2 Corinthians 13:5; Psalm 18:2, Matthew 7:11 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

I read a book. It's called Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend and it is a must read! Not only do these mental health experts define and discuss boundaries with real life situations and scriptures to boot, they also discuss boundaries specific to marriage and dating. So, I had to share a bit here with some of my thoughts. Check it out! Scriptural references: Proverbs 4:23; Galatians 6:1-5 Important announcement: The MasterPlanMarriage podcast will be on a 2 week hiatus following the release of this episode. Subscribe so you don't miss when the next episode drops! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Continuing from the previous episode, "Eat to endure.", this week we are encouraging husbands and wives all to stay the course of their marriages. Staying the course requires discipline and intentionality to avoid distractors and distance creators. We want to steward well the gift of marriage that has been placed in our hands, ultimately for the glory of God, our Father. Scriptural references include: 1 Corinthians 9:24-27; Hebrews 12:11-13; Colossians 3:23-24; ‭‭2 Timothy‬ ‭2:4-6‬; John 10:10; Matthew 25: 1-13; Proverbs 4:5-7; Mark 10:9 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Food gives us fuel for our physical bodies. How much more do we need spiritual food to fuel our spirits? Take a listen and be encouraged to get into God's word daily, multiple times a day so that we can be best equipped to be the spouses, parents, brethren, coworkers, etc. that God has called us to be! (In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven. - Matthew 5:16) Scripture references: Matthew 4:4; 2 Timothy 3:16-17; Hebrews 12:1-3; Matthew 11:28-30; 1 Peter 5:7; Isaiah 41:10 Check out Streetlights, the audio bible (with cool background beats!) referenced in this episode on Spotify! This is the article I referenced regarding what Olympic athletes eat in case you were wondering. Contact us anytime at masterplanmarriage@gmail.com. We'd love to hear from you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Continuing the conversation on finances in marriage, we sit down with Leighton and Yemi. Listen in and be prepared to take notes as they share their unique story, including starting young and making financial decisions that have led them to where they are today. They also discuss the impact of the outside "noise" - the loud and distinct opinions of well meaning loved ones on their marriage and provide sound advice for other married folk as well as for our single brothers and sisters. Scriptural reference: Jeremiah 29:11 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Coming out of Luke 4: 14-30, we see how Jesus is taken for granted and overlooked in His own hometown of Nazareth. We can apply this to marriages. Let's be sure not to take our own spouses for granted. See your spouse for who God has called them to be, not who you know them to be! Other scriptures referenced: Ephesians 5:21; 1 Thessalonians 5:11; Romans 12:10 Don't forget you can always reach us at masterplanmarriage@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Money, money, money. Finances are a big deal and even more so within a marriage where transparency, hope, trust in the Lord and each other, as well as ongoing conversations are necessary components. As our guests share, it is important to set yourselves up to win. So, start here by listening to Niyi and Jenn as they walk us through their financial journey, the ups and downs, decisions made and important lessons learned. Scriptural references: Ecclesiastes 10:19; Proverbs 22:7; Luke 14:28; Proverbs 13:22 Resource referenced: Dave Ramsey --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

We are talking about S.E.X. Yes, God created sex. He gets to define it, place limits and boundaries on it. He does it for our good, contrary to popular belief. It behooves us to know and learn from what HE says. For the married, put God's good gift into practice the way it was intended and that brings Him glory (not yourselves!) For the single, embrace the gift of singlehood and be holy and set apart to the glory of God, our Father. Here are scripture references: Genesis 1:28; Genesis 2:24-25; Songs of Solomon 7:7-10; Proverbs 5:15-19; Hebrews 13:4; 1 Corinthians 7:1-5; 1 Thessalonians 4:1-8 Here are additional resources used in this episode: https://bible.org/seriespage/8-foundation-eight-intimacy-marriage https://ca.thegospelcoalition.org/columns/ad-fontes/5-surprising-things-that-the-bible-says-about-sex/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

We are discussing intimacy in a marriage, the different types of intimacy and ways in which we can grow in these particular areas. Types of intimacy include: physical, spiritual and mental & emotional. References: https://bible.org/seriespage/8-foundation-eight-intimacy-marriage https://www.wellandgood.com/types-of-intimacy (disclaimer: not biblically based but provides some examples of each form of intimacy. Note that spiritual intimacy is not described here in a biblical sense.) Genesis 2:24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Genesis 4:1 Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, saying, “I have gotten a man with the help of the Lord.” Genesis 4:25 And Adam knew his wife again, and she bore a son and called his name Seth, for she said, “God has appointed for me another offspring instead of Abel, for Cain killed him.” --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

It's about consistently choosing to, committing to staying connected to your husband or your wife no matter what. We share practical ways in which husbands and wives can remain joined together. (Mark 10:9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.) Scriptural references include: 1 Corinthians 12-14; Luke 18:1-8 The parable of the widow and the judge; Matthew 7:7 Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Coming from Genesis 16, we are here to encourage you today that El Roi- The God who sees, sees YOU in your situation. That's wherever you are, whether married or single, whether while things are going smoothly or not, God sees you, He knows you and what is going on around you. He is with you, He cares for you and He loves you with an everlasting love. Tune in and be encouraged to press on for His glory! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

What are you eating? What are you consuming through your ear gates/eye gates? What are you listening to? Who has your ear? What are you watching? What are you thinking about? What you consume (listen to, watch) impacts your thoughts and behaviors, your marriage, your ministry, your walk with Christ. Pay attention and be intentional about your daily consumption. Scriptures reviewed in episode: Romans 12:2; Philippians 4:8-9; Galatians 5:22-23; 1 Corinthians 9:24-27; Colossians 3; Ephesians 4:17-32; 1 John 3:7, 2 Timothy 2:1; Revelation 12; 1 Peter 1:14-16 and Proverbs 4:23. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

On this episode we sit down to talk about trauma with Jocelyn Hamsher. Jocelyn is a Licensed Professional Counselor. She is trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Post Induction Therapy (PIT). She is also certified in Traumatic Stress Studies (TSS) and a certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT) through IITAP. She knows what she is passionately talking about! Join us as Jocelyn defines trauma, discusses the impact unresolved trauma has on oneself as well as its impact on a marriage, how to recognize unresolved trauma in oneself or spouse as well as steps toward healing. Would you like to hear more from Jocelyn? Follow her on Instagram or Facebook @courageouslivingAZ and check out her website: courageouslivingAZ.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Get ready to take notes from this well-seasoned lovely couple as they talk about their marriage, decades in the making. Steve and Kim are transparent, open and honest as they share the ups and downs but most especially what has kept their marriage going. They also discuss the legacy they hope to leave for their kids as well as for the many they have and continue to impact around them. Book referenced during the interview: The 5 Love Languages® The Secret to Love That Lasts - By Dr. Gary Chapman Don't forget to reach out, send us an email at masterplanmarriage@gmail.com. We'd love to hear from you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Your marriage will come to an end soon... How do you want your marriage to be remembered? What are you doing now to leave the legacy you want to leave for those around you?  Take a look at two married couples in the bible as examples: Ananias and Sapphira in Acts 5:1-11 as well as Aquila and Priscilla in Acts 18:1-26. Here are the questions I pose to you to answer and discuss with your spouse:  How would  the closest people to you describe your marriage right now? What words would they use? Does your marriage stand out in this generation? How do you want your marriage or better yet, you as a couple to be remembered? Are you looking for opportunities to share Christ wherever you go, as individuals, but also as a couple or family? Do those who spend time with you become infected with your love for Christ? How can you improve this area of your life? How could you use your home more effectively to serve the Lord? Are you sharing the Word of God with each other? Participating in bible study together? Are you spurring each other on in growing closer to the Lord? Check out this highly recommended book You and Me Forever: Marriage In Light of Eternity by Francis and Lisa Chan --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

The question of the day: What does it mean to maximize your marriage? To maximize is to (1) make as large or great as possible (God does this!) and (2) make the best use of. (we do this by the grace of God) How: (1) Remembering/reviewing the benefits (2) Being aware of and avoiding the opposite of maximizing (deflate, reduce, play down, diminish, weaken) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Part 3 of our Living Single series stars Monjia Belizaire. Monjia, a young and beautiful woman of God, is open and honest as she shares her experience living life single to the glory of God. She does so with purpose, intentionality and grace. You don't want to miss hearing her story and the advice she has for our single brothers and sisters in Christ! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

As a follow up to our Living Single episode, we have a young single Christian, man of God sitting down with us to discuss singlehood. Steven drops some solid knowledge on us and you don't want to miss it! Here are the specific addresses to scriptures referenced during the interview: Proverbs 1:7 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but the foolish despise wisdom and instruction. Isaiah 56:7 these I will bring to my holy mountain, and make them joyful in my house of prayer; their burnt offerings and their sacrifices will be accepted on my altar; for my house shall be called a house of prayer for all peoples.” 1 Corinthians 15:58 Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vain. Matthew 16:24 Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Yes, a message for those who are single but married or soon to be married folk don't skip over this one. (In fact sometimes well-meaning married folk can make matters worse...) Use this to encourage and support your single friends. Living single is a gift from God, the Ultimate gift giver. In this episode we discuss: single hood, the general response from the Church, taking advantage of single hood, and shifting the perspective. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Is there room for the individual in a marriage? Does oneness equal sameness in a marriage? Today we're talking about the importance of individuality as well as oneness in a marriage. They are both equally important and necessary in a God-focused, God-honoring marriage. We refer to the great example of power couple Aquila and Priscilla. Their story can be found in the following passages:  Acts 18:1-4, 18-21, 24-28 Romans 16:3-4 2 Timothy 4:19 1 Corinthians 16:19 Any questions? Email us at MasterPlanMarriage@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Following up from last week's episode "Baby enters stage right", Dr. Ayomide sits down with new parents, Yemi and Tolu to discuss the expected and unexpected changes that come with becoming father and mother in addition to adjusting as husband and wife. Key Pointers: Communication is all the more necessary Extending grace toward oneself as well as to one's spouse will be beneficial Manage expectations (for self and spouse) Scripture reference in episode: Romans 12:10 Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor. Parenting book recommendation: Shepherding a Child's Heart by Pastor Tedd Tripp. https://www.shepherdpress.com/products/shepherding-a-childs-heart/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

What happens to a marriage when baby enters into the picture? And what can be done to help husband and wife, now father and mother keep the marriage at the forefront? Listen in as my lovely husband Joseph and I discuss the importance of communication, realistic expectations and adaptation as well as keeping Jesus at the center of it all. A couple of scriptures to hold onto: Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Ephesians 4:32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. The parenting book mentioned in the episode is Shepherding a Child's Heart by Pastor Tedd Tripp. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Introducing Mr. Joseph Okelarin to the podcast for the first time! We share a bit about our own marriage and what we've learned thus far. Proverbs 19:20 says “Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.” Joseph and Ayomide each provide advice to our sisters and brothers that are courting, engaged, or newlywed. We're talking prayer, avoiding unmet expectations, communicating and loving well. And as usual feel free to email us at MasterPlanMarriage@gmail.com with your questions. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

When I say "Testimony Time" you say "Blessing Time"! Revelation 12:11 says, "And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony, and they did not love their lives to the death." We are sitting down with a lovely couple, Anthony and Fernelle Davis as they share their testimony: obstacles they've faced in their marriage and how the Lord has and continues to see them through. Oh and don't forget to check out Fernelle's YouTube channel Nurture in Christ www.youtube.com/nurtureinchrist for funny and encouraging videos, parenting tips, recipes and vlogs. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Your marriage is too legit to quit. God has a clear message about divorce and we as believers should take heed. Trust Him in your marriage. And if you have any questions, send them to MasterPlanMarriage@gmail.com. We want to walk you through, pray with you, share our resources, whatever it takes for God's glory! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

We're talking about talking. Effective communication! Take this as your refresher course, a reminder, an opportunity to reset. And communicating effectively is most needed WHEN we find ourselves faced with conflict in our marriages. So go ahead, take a listen! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Knowing who the test is from, the purpose of the test and the way we pass the test will help us when, not if, but when we experience the tests, challenges and obstacles that come our way in our marriages. Do you want to contact us? Feel free to email us at MasterPlanMarriage@gmail.com. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

We're discussing the purpose of marriage and as usual looking to scripture to give us the answers. The short answer? To give God all the glory. Take it deeper and see that it requires a mirroring of the relationship between Christ and the Church. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

Covenantal marriage is a concept you don't hear every day, but it is God's plan and perfect design, so we're talking all about it! And here's the link to the article by Chris and Lisa Cree referenced in this episode: https://newcreeations.org/contracts-vs-covenants-why-the-difference-matters/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

You look to the dictionary to define a word. We look to the Bible (Genesis 2:18-25) to see how the Creator of all including marriage, clearly defines marriage. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

We're introducing our podcast to the world. We're talking about the Master's plan for all marriages according to His word, the B.I.B.L.E! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/masterplanmarriage/message

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