Name To Be Determined

This week, we're branching out into a bit of pop culture fun with a discussion on celebrity worship and delve into the allegations against the singer, Lizzo. We also touch on why it's hard to remain happy with yourself after building a popular social platform and fanbase based on just a small part of your identity.  And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we discuss what it takes to be a responsible adult. Amelia hates paying bills--and delays payment as much as possible; while Amanda sees paying bills as a positive energy exchange. We also weigh in on spending money on experiences that bring you joy, and avoiding paying for things that don't!   And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we discuss the perils of taking on bad advice from outsiders, and how to spot when someone is trying to sabotage your life. We also ponder on any advice we were given in our younger years that helped shaped our present day behaviours for the best--or not! And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we discuss the topic of inevitable ageing and how it affects the way we show up for ourselves within a judgemental society. Is there an age limit for sexy clothing? How old is too old to go clubbing? Should we even f*cking care?! Tune in for our thoughts on ageing and remaining true to yourself! And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

After a very patchy hiatus, we're back b*tches! Yes, we know that we may not have been as consistent as we'd liked but we're back to set the record straight with you...and ourselves.  This week, we delve into whether we feel our podcast has run its course. How do we go about reigniting that fire? And, how do we envision the next half of this year going? We also discuss why confiding in close friends can sometimes backfire! And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we discuss the red flags and signs that lead to the demise of a relationship. When do you know you have to walk away? Well, we turn to good old Reddit for advice! And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we're talking about the fake wealth industry. Yes, that's a thing and it also rakes in over $1 billion a year.  It's the industry that helps influencers appear rich. Wanna show off on a private jet? There's a photographic studio for that. Wanna act like you're in Bora Bora? Don't worry, there's a company that can doctor your likeness and voice into beautiful Bora Bora scenery to make it look like you're on a lavish vacation.  Do we find it all a bit cringe, or aspirational? Tune in to find out!   And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram          

This week, we're wondering if millennials are naturally pessimistic. Did the start of the internet age make us a bit more cautious than Gen Z? Whyyyy are Gen Z more driven than Millennials? So many questions, so many answers... And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram          

Hear ye! Hear ye! Gather round' all serfs and peasants. This week, we fall to our knees and humbly pledge allegiance to......OURSELVES! In honour of all things coronation we discuss if, considering the current state of England, it's a bit tone deaf. Could some of the money be used towards more immediate problems? Or should we be grateful that the British Royal Family help boost our tourism economy? So much too unpack.  On a lighter note, Amelia has a list of historic laws that she orders King Charles to abolish! And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram          

This week, we get to the bottom of why Amelia no longer leaves the house for social events. It gets deep. Like, psychoanalysis deep. Okay, maybe it's not that deep but we still uncover why Amelia has hung up her dancing shoes. Though, this isn't necessarily a good thing and Amanda explains why she wants to see Amelia stepping out into the world more.    And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we discuss the importance of financial responsibility in relationships, and ask whether it's ever really a 50/50 split. Also, can bad money management be a good reason to call off an engagement? Join us as we delve into why a higher earning spouse should support their partner--particularly if they're trying to get a career off the ground. It may be a polarising one this week, but it won't be boring! And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

If ever there was a time for a celebration it would be today! 100 fu*cking episodes...whoop! Can you believe it? Well, we can.  We want to say a big thank you to those of you who have been with us on this ride since day one and, of course, all of the newer members of our tribe. As you've probably guessed, this week we're having a good old reminisce about NTBD, and look to the future for amazing things. Love you all!  And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week is a weird one. Sexually. Okay, in an effort to not discriminate we will describe this episode as being curiously informative. We all have our own kinks but imagine not knowing about the most obscure fetishes--and missing out! So, we have curated a list of rare fetishes that may just tickle your fancy...or at least have you laughing. Can laughter be a fetish? Listen to this week's episode to find out! And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

Brace yourself, the most important day of the year is nearly upon us. Okay, that may be of bit of an overreach but we're still full of love. This week, we discuss our Valentine's Day plans (do we actually have any?). We also have a good laugh with reading romantic wedding vows.....to ourselves??? And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we discuss toxic masculinity and Amelia questions whether some toxic male traits are actually toxic. We also get into unrealistic expectations in dating and the main reason why not everyone is going to get flown out to Fiji by their **insert dating app here** date.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

The month of Aquarius is also known as the month of 'letting go of restrictions'. This week, we discuss the ways we've restricted ourselves in the past(and maybe present!). We also wonder if putting restrictions and limitations on ourselves have any benefit? Or should we just be totally free with our actions?  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, Amelia kicks off the conversation with her cognitive dissonance around ageing. Amanda also realises that she struggles with announcing her age so, of course, a therapy session around dealing with our increasing years begins.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

Happy New Year to all of our listeners! You have officially jumped on the train for a ride through 2023. We kick off the year by discussing our vision for the podcast(to infinity and beyond!) as well as some personal goals that we're committed to this year. Change is good. Challenge equals growth.  What is your personal mantra for 2023? We'd love to know! Send us a message on Instagram... Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we're back with our usual Christmas episode. We read about some terrible times that Christmas has gone horribly wrong. Better yet, Amanda has her own hilarious Christmas Day tale of a family meltdown.  Merry Christmas to all of our listeners and, of course, thank you all for rocking with us this year. We also wish you an amazing New Year's.  We'll be back on January 8th 2023! Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we discuss the possible end of cancel culture. Do we think that we sometimes censor ourselves for fear of being cancelled? And, would we stick by each other if either of us says something utterly heinous? Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we're making a (re)debut with some very thought provoking questions. Okay, some may be more frivolous than Freud but they still allow for you to get to know us, a bit more.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

If you fail to plan, you plan to fail! This week certainly isn't a fail but we are coming to you via Zoom--cause, ya know, life happens.  It's a little bit of this and a little bit of that. We kick off with Amelia sharing that she feels used by the creator of the poignant Reddit post she read in the previous week(if you haven't listened to last week's episode, check it out).  This leads us to question whether a messenger can sometimes ruin a great message.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, Amelia reads a poignant message on how to live life, written by someone whose death is just around the corner. Continuing with the theme of the afterlife, Amelia also explains further plans for her--ever-evolving--mausoleum and wants to make sure that Amanda will ensure her vision is carried out upon her death. Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we discuss why some people(ourselves included!) struggle with saying sorry. Is it ego? Self-worth? Or just straight up asshole behaviour. We also share about Ho'oponopono, the traditional Hawaiian practice of reconciliation and forgiveness, and explain how sorry can be said in many different forms.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

If we're ever given grace for a late podcast it should be this week. As we both celebrate birthdays(are all birthdays a milestone?), it's certainly a whole new chapter. And--if we must say so ourselves--we're feeling good, looking good and are ready to take on the fu*king world! So, join us this week as we discuss goals, birthday surprises and the obligatory birthday sex(or not!). Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we discuss how self-transformation can help with standing up for yourself--and ensuring that people don't take the piss! Fresh off the press...Amanda gets into her personal beef with her personal trainer who has obviously been taking her kindness for weakness.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

**Trigger Warning: This episode touches on themes of mental illness, including suicide** If you're smart, and live in a bubble, you've probably missed the Kanye West online rants this week. Even though his mental illness has been documented, we wonder if mental illness is ever an excuse for bad behaviour? And, should we really be giving people with mental health issues a pass? Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

**Trigger Warning: This episode discusses themes of sexual abuse and grooming** Most of us have had a first time. And, if you haven't you truly are a present day Virgin Mary. This week, we talk about our first sexual experiences and how they impacted our sex lives for years to come.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

We're back and coming at you live this week. Well, not quite live but we are back in our usual setting. Finally! We always hear that women settle. Yes, the biological clock may be ticking a little faster so standards may have to get slightly lower. However, this week we discuss whether men settle. I mean, who hasn't had an old squeeze(now married) come back around. LIKE THE DOGS THEY ARE! We kid, we kid. Yes, both sexes settle and we divulge why they shouldn't. Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram    

**Due to a domestic incident between Amelia and her cat, Milo, we once again had to record via Zoom. The show must go on** This week, we are talking about boundaries in relationships. When is an appropriate time to lay them out? Are boundaries ever-evolving? We also discuss the fallout from women announcing what they can bring to a table when asked by a potential partner.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram    

**Trigger Warning: This week we touch on themes of sexual assault and abuse** Motherhood intervened this week so we apologise for any sound issues as we recorded via Zoom. Don't worry, we still made it a great show. Somehow Amelia's recent dalliance on Tinder(yes, again!) turned into a serious conversation about abusive relationships and...serial killers?! Think of this episode as a cautionary tale around dating.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram    

Mid-year update. Okay, it's a few months late but better late than never! This week, we discuss what's been working for us and whether we feel like our lives are still on the right path. On the subject of paths, we also explore why someone can pivot in life at anytime. Each day really is a new beginning. Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram  

This week we discuss how we'd like to be remembered once our souls have fucked back off into the universe. We talk about funerals and what ours might look like. Amanda will plan a party and Amelia will write her own obituary--of course! On the subject of obituaries, we also read some of the most scathing ones written by loved ones who shall not forget the hurt inflicted on them by the dead. They are horrifically hilarious! Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram  

We are back with a bang! To make up for the lack of love over the past couple of weeks we have decided to pour love into you. And you. And you. And you. You all get some love! This week, we have a special guest, Anais, a love & relationship coach who can guide you to deep self-love through breath work, tarot & meditation.  It's a longer-than-usual episode but full of magic gems. Anais explains why we should follow our intuition in relationships, how to attract the love we want & deserve, and simple, daily tools we can utilise to practice more self-love.  Click here to connect with Anais on Instagram Click here to book your FREE call with Anais to start your self-love journey    Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram  

This week, Amelia breaks down how her quest for a monetary payout from a Native American tribe lead her to her birth father's family. She gives an update on the family members that she's met so far and who's up next on her family tree. And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week. It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram    

This week, we discuss the topic of gaslighting in relationships. Beware...aside from romantic relationships, this behaviour can be found in friendships too. We also look at some of the signs that will prove you are being gaslit by a significant other.  Has either of us ever dealt with gaslighting? Of course! In this episode, you'll learn how we handled this very insidious form of abuse.  And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week. It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

**Trigger Warming. In this episode we discuss the topic of pregnancy termination which may be a bit unsettling for some of our listeners**   Are we f*cking living through The Handmaid's Tale? This week, we discuss Roe vs Wade and discuss how it will affect the human rights and health of millions of women. Amelia also tells her own personal tale of trying to get an abortion in a country where it wasn't legal!  And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week. It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram        

This week, we run down the list of toxic friendship traits. Yes, there's an actual list. Amelia ponders on whether she's ever been a toxic friend. Amanda replies in the affirmative. We fight. Podcast is over bitches!   We kid, we kid. But, we will definitely help you spot any toxic friends in your life and offer you advice on how to deal with them.    Also... Are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram  

This week, we discuss whether people are finally starting to see cancel culture for what it is--political correctness gone mad! We can't say fat. We can sue if someone calls us bald. Where does the madness end?!  Also... Are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram  

**TRIGGER WARNING - This week's episode discusses themes of Bulimia, Anorexia, Addictions and Suicide** This week, we discuss how our relationship with fitness has changed. Gone are the crash diets and hardcore exercise regimes. Now it's all about healthy moderation and doing things because they make us happy--not skinny! We also rundown the weirdest diet's in history! Also... Are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram  

This week, we go back in time as we ponder on how much we've grown as beings over the past ten years. What advice would we give to the Amelia & Amanda from yesteryear? We also discuss how we've evolved in navigating romantic entanglements, and learn the correct definitions of words. Thank f*ck for Google.  Also... Are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram  

Who said you can't find great relationship advice online? I mean, there's literally millions of people who are just dying to chime in on our socials. This week, we do a deep dive into Reddit's popular relationship thread and are kinda surprised at the sound advice.  We also concede that the best advice should also be brutally honest! Also... Are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram  

This week we celebrate Earth Day and Amelia takes it as an opportunity to actually commit to a recycling regime. Will she actually do it though? We also have a list of tips for lazy people that can help save Mother Earth.  Also... Are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram  

This week, we're recording improv style. We would like to say that we're testing a special new format. We're not. Amelia threw in the towel with the show notes this week and decided to wing it.  Don't worry, we still give a good show. Obviously. We ain't fu*cking amateurs. You'll also get to find out what gave Amanda whiplash. And no, it's not what you're thinking! Also... Are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram  

This week, we deep dive into whether relationships are transactional. We don't necessarily mean in a financial sense but if you're upfront about wanting a wealthy partner, is that a bad thing?  Amelia also talks about why the honesty in an escort + client transaction should be a blueprint for all relationships and Amanda explains why you shouldn't switch up your needs once you're already settled down.  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

To our listeners in the UK: Happy Mother's Day! This week, we discuss the annoying trend of celebrities sermonising that everyone has 24 hours in a day to be successful. We identify differences for individuals, such as socio-economic backgrounds and health issues, that may make it easier said than done. Can we all agree that one size doesn't fit all?! Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we're putting our "aunty" hats back on to answer some of your burning questions. We can't promise that we can solve all of your problems, but we will always give you the hard, cold truth. Don't worry, we'll allow for a soft landing.  Tune in for another instalment of Dear Name To Be Determined!   Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

Spare the rod, spoil the child! Or not. This week we're back with another instalment of our Motherhood Diaries. We discuss corporal punishment through the lens of our upbringings in Africa and the Caribbean.  Did it ever work?  We also discuss our individual methods of disciplining our kids.    Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week we're keeping it light and joyful with a game of Would You Rather. Would you rather an empty funeral or a guest-less wedding? Better yet, would you rather never find true love OR never have sex again? Join us for our hilarious answers to these questions and much, much more!   Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, Amanda + Amelia share their thoughts on dating while being single mothers. Does having kids mean that we have to take what we can get? Are we really damaged goods? We also unpack why you shouldn't be on dating sites looking for a babydaddy for your kids, and why settling only leads to resentment...of yourself! Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, Amelia raves about her newly found therapist, and so begins the conversation on why therapy is good for our souls. We also discuss why you probably shouldn't be attending couples therapy, and why it's not always a bad thing to tell your therapist to fu*k off. After all, aren't you supposed to be vocal in therapy?   Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram