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America’s #1 Christian Counseling Call-In Radio Program. Since 1985 New Life Live! has been broadcast as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical per

Steve Arterburn

Lake Forest, CA


    • Jun 16, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    Latest episodes from New Life Live! on Oneplace.com

    New Life Live: June 16, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Father Issues, Adult Children, Counseling, Difficult Conversations, Motivation, Employment, Chronic Illness, Depression Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Becky Brown Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses Father's Day and the wounds that can be stirred up. I don't trust my 22yo adopted daughter who is demanding and tried to manipulate me by cosigning a loan. Should The post New Life Live: June 16, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: June 13, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Diversity, Adult Children, Hoarding, Gender Identity, Grandparenting, Counseling, Emotional Growth Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui discusses how the older generation needs to bridge the gap with the younger generation. One of my four adult children struggles with substance abuse and anger; as a Christian The post New Life Live: June 13, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: June 12, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Caregiving, Christian Walk, Borderline, Self-harm, Adult Children, Gender Identity Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how caregiving causes weariness, and you don't need to feel guilty for how you feel. I was raised in a strong Christian family, but a friend asked how I The post New Life Live: June 12, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: June 11, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Communication, Father Issues, Estrangement, Christian Walk, Medical Issues, Fear, Grief, Hoarding, Adult Children, Boundaries Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses the power of our words and the damage they can do. I have distanced myself from my father and my ex-husband because of abuse; what is the The post New Life Live: June 11, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: June 10, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Blame, Dating, Depression, In-laws, Adult Children, Triggers, Anger, Engagement Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses how blame is a defense mechanism that takes away our power to heal, to resolve, to get free. I am a chaplain at a major hospital; after going on four dates, I saw The post New Life Live: June 10, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: June 9, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Encouragement, Anxiety, Criticism, Boundaries, Adult Children, Work Issues, Self Worth, Friendship, Jealousy Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Becky shares how God loves you and how He uses your successes and your failures for His glory.  I don't understand why my anxious husband of 46yrs has two different personalities. He's confident The post New Life Live: June 9, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: June 6, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Adult Children, Estrangement, Disagreements, Christian Walk, Ministry, Reconciliation, Anger, Affairs, Addictions, Young Adults, Grandparenting Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui discusses the warning in the 4th chapter of James not to judge one another.  We moved to be near my 34yo son, but he no longer wants a relationship The post New Life Live: June 6, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: June 5, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Siblings, Estrangement, Disagreements, Christian Walk, Witnessing, Adult Children, Suicide, Hope, Dating Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jim Burns, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim shares how twenty seconds of insane courage plus the willingness to be healed can change your life.  Should I open up communication with my atheist twin brother? He says we can't The post New Life Live: June 5, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: June 4, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2025 48:03


    Topics: Generosity, Adult Children, Bipolar, Homeless, Sexual Integrity, Addictions, Custody, Parenting, Adult Children Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Becky shares that generosity is an anti-depressant, and a scarcity mindset is more about control.  I blame myself for not helping my homeless son with bipolar disorder and psychosis; what can I do now?  How do I curtail my struggle The post New Life Live: June 4, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: June 3, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2025 48:03


    Topics: Hope, Newlyweds, Physical Abuse, Divorce, Adult Children, Estrangement, Aging Parents, Young Adults Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim shares thoughts about peace for the past, joy for today, and hope for the future.  We are newlyweds, but my wife physically assaulted me and filed for divorce. What is my next move?  My son and The post New Life Live: June 3, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Newlyweds, Young Adults, and More Caller Questions from June 3, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Hope, Newlyweds, Physical Abuse, Divorce, Adult Children, Estrangement, Aging Parents, Young Adults Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: Dr. Jim shares thoughts about peace for the past, joy for today, and hope for the future. We are newlyweds, but my wife physically assaulted me and filed for divorce. What is my next move? My son and daughter-in-law don't want connection with me, so I wrote a letter. Should I let it go? I didn't attend my ex-husband's funeral, and my adult children are upset about that. How do I encourage my 17yo son to get a job to prepare for trade school in the fall?The post New Life Live: June 3, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: June 2, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2025 48:03


    Topics: Self Control, Grief, Adult Children, Estrangement, Physical Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Difficult Conversations, Sexual Abuse, Divorce Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice shares about self control and choosing to do the uncomfortable thing that reaps benefits over time.  How do I help my daughter grieve her 3yo son who died in his sleep? They have another child The post New Life Live: June 2, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Difficult Conversations, Divorce, and More Caller Questions from June 2, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Self Control, Grief, Adult Children, Estrangement, Physical Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Difficult Conversations, Sexual Abuse, Divorce Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: Dr. Alice shares about self control and choosing to do the uncomfortable thing that reaps benefits over time. How do I help my daughter grieve her 3yo son who died in his sleep? They have another child who just turned 1yo. I grew up with an abusive father, I was ostracized from my family and had a breakdown. How do I get my family to listen to me? My male friend is a registered sex offender; should I discuss his past with him? After 33yrs my husband wants a divorce; what do I do now? My adult kids live with me.The post New Life Live: June 2, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 30, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Anxiety, Church Life, Young Adults, Grief, Same-Sex Attraction, Teens, Stealing, GrandparentingHosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Denham Keffer, Dr. Jim BurnsCaller Questions & More:Dr. Sheri shares how worship music calms the vagus nerve if anxiety has fallen upon you. How do we handle our church being secretive about their finances and the names of the elders? I've The post New Life Live: May 30, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Same-Sex Attraction, Stealing, and More Caller Questions from May 30, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2025 48:16


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Anxiety, Church Life, Young Adults, Grief, Same-Sex Attraction, Teens, Stealing, Grandparenting Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Denham Keffer, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: Dr. Sheri shares how worship music calms the vagus nerve if anxiety has fallen upon you. How do we handle our church being secretive about their finances and the names of the elders? I've asked them for information, but they haven't shared. My son is in his senior year and has become so irresponsible that he won't even graduate on time. Five years ago my 29yo son passed away in his sleep, and people have come to us and told us that he was gay. My 12yo granddaughter steals things from my home; how do I talk to her about it? Her mother was arrested for shoplifting in a store.The post New Life Live: May 30, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 29, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Anxiety, Procrastination, Siblings, Estrangement, Triggers, Custody, Boundaries Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses planners and procrastinators; your style relates to anxiety.  How can I move forward with my estranged sister? I gave her everything, and all she ever did was take.  I was married almost The post New Life Live: May 29, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Estrangement, Triggers, and More Caller Questions from May 29, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2025 48:16


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Anxiety, Procrastination, Siblings, Estrangement, Triggers, Custody, Boundaries Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: Dr. Jill discusses planners and procrastinators; your style relates to anxiety. How can I move forward with my estranged sister? I gave her everything, and all she ever did was take. I was married almost 40yrs to an abusive man and am still triggered 8 months after his death. My 38yo daughter is in an abusive marriage and I have joint conservatorship of my grandkids; if I drop my conservatorship, will the children go with their father if they get a divorce? Should I tell my husband that I won't go to a party where his daughter and his ex-wife will be?The post New Life Live: May 29, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 28, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Apology, Communication, Dating, Criticism, Affairs, Trust, Sexual Addiction, Polygraphs Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses when "I'm sorry" is not enough.  My girlfriend says I slut-shamed her and broke up with me a week ago; how do I fix my insecurity?  Any suggestions on my The post New Life Live: May 28, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Dating, Sexual Addiction, and More Caller Questions from May 28, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 48:16


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Apology, Communication, Dating, Criticism, Affairs, Trust, Sexual Addiction, Polygraphs Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: Dr. Alice discusses when "I'm sorry" is not enough. My girlfriend says I slut-shamed her and broke up with me a week ago; how do I fix my insecurity? Any suggestions on my next step after I had an inconclusive polygraph test for sex addiction? I was trying to show my wife that my behavior is behind me.The post New Life Live: May 28, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 27, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Christian Walk, Witnessing, Homeless, Demons, Difficult Conversations, Islam, Aging Parents Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Chris shares what having no other gods before Yahweh means to him.  How do I deal with my new apartment manager letting non-Christians move in and not my Christian friends?  I was The post New Life Live: May 27, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Witnessing, Islam, and More Caller Questions from May 27, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2025 48:16


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Christian Walk, Witnessing, Homeless, Demons, Difficult Conversations, Islam, Aging Parents Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: Chris shares what having no other gods before Yahweh means to him. How do I deal with my new apartment manager letting non-Christians move in and not my Christian friends? I was going through a health crisis and my pastor told me he had a vision of a demon being released from me; is there a chance of losing the Holy Spirit? Our 25yo granddaughter is a Christian and is dating a Muslim who is trying to get her to convert; how do I talk to her? Am I making the right decision to have my mom, who is bedridden, come home from the nursing home?The post New Life Live: May 27, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 26, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Sexual Abuse, Engagement, Codependency, People Pleasers, Connection Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses the increase in suicidal thoughts and suicide attempts.  A therapist told me that God was there when my wife was molested as a kid; why couldn't God have intervened?  How The post New Life Live: May 26, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Codependency, People Pleasers, and More Caller Questions from May 26, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 48:16


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Sexual Abuse, Engagement, Codependency, People Pleasers, Connection Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: Dr. Alice discusses the increase in suicidal thoughts and suicide attempts. A therapist told me that God was there when my wife was molested as a kid; why couldn't God have intervened? How do I help my niece who told me her fiancé is a mama's boy? I am a sounding board for everyone else but end up feeling used.The post New Life Live: May 26, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 23, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Transformation, Adult Children, Enabling, Polygraphs, Sexual Integrity, Suicide, Adoption, Adult Children, Guilt, Reactive Attachment Disorder Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Becky Brown Caller Questions & More: Jacqui references the 12th chapter of Romans as a guide for how we should show up in the world, reminding us that God does the transforming.  What can I do The post New Life Live: May 23, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Polygraphs, Sexual Integrity, and More Caller Questions from May 23, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2025 48:16


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Transformation, Adult Children, Enabling, Polygraphs, Sexual Integrity, Suicide, Adoption, Adult Children, Guilt, Reactive Attachment Disorder Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Becky Brown Caller Questions More: Jacqui references the 12th chapter of Romans as a guide for how we should show up in the world, reminding us that God does the transforming. What can I do if my 44yo son thinks I don't support him? I was raped at 12yo and got pregnant at 15yo. I called you before about a family member who struggles with a mental health issue, and you really helped me by telling me not to enable him. Have you suggested polygraphs for couples who are struggling with sexual integrity? My husband went to Every Man's Battle, but he won't get a support person for himself. I attempted suicide last year and had a meltdown on Mother's Day. I feel guilty I am not able to have a relationship with my daughter.The post New Life Live: May 23, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 22, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Guilt, Fear, Depression, Adult Children, Grandparenting, Boundaries, Procrastination Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill shares about guilt, greed, gratitude, girth, and good things.  I've struggled with depression for the last 3yrs from my dad beating my mom, my son being murdered, and being married three times.  The post New Life Live: May 22, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Boundaries, Procrastination, and More Caller Questions from May 22, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Guilt, Fear, Depression, Adult Children, Grandparenting, Boundaries, Procrastination Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: Dr. Jill shares about guilt, greed, gratitude, girth, and good things. I've struggled with depression for the last 3yrs from my dad beating my mom, my son being murdered, and being married three times. My daughter abandoned her kids for drugs and went to prison; now she spoils her grandkids out of guilt. I live in Montana and struggle with people who flag me down and want to talk for two hours; how do I approach this? I'd never call myself lazy, but I put off doing a task and then don't do a good job at it.The post New Life Live: May 22, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 21, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Perspective, Sexual Integrity, Teens, Suicide, Adult Children, Asperger's, Same-Sex Attraction Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jim Burns, Dr. Sheri Denham Keffer Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim talks about how to reframe your mind.  How do I approach my 14yo son about inappropriate material I found on his phone?  My adult son is getting out The post New Life Live: May 21, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Asperger's, Same-Sex Attraction, and More Caller Questions from May 21, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Perspective, Sexual Integrity, Teens, Suicide, Adult Children, Asperger's, Same-Sex Attraction Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jim Burns, Dr. Sheri Denham Keffer Caller Questions More: Dr. Jim talks about how to reframe your mind. How do I approach my 14yo son about inappropriate material I found on his phone? My adult son is getting out of a mental health facility and is planning on committing suicide; what options are there? My 18yo son has a lot of Asperger's symptoms; how can we help him with healthy ways to navigate life? How do I counsel my daughter in grad school who declared she is gay? She told me when she was a teen.The post New Life Live: May 21, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 20, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Grief, Grandparenting, Sexual Abuse, Teens, Medical Issues, Demons, Open Marriage, Boundaries Hosts: Brian Perez, JJ West, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: JJ discusses how grief is like an unexpected guest at our house.  Should I talk to our granddaughter if we suspect something might've happened in the past that was inappropriate? Our son-in-law The post New Life Live: May 20, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Demons, Open Marriage, and More Caller Questions from May 20, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Grief, Grandparenting, Sexual Abuse, Teens, Medical Issues, Demons, Open Marriage, Boundaries Hosts: Brian Perez, JJ West, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: JJ discusses how grief is like an unexpected guest at our house. Should I talk to our granddaughter if we suspect something might've happened in the past that was inappropriate? Our son-in-law is more affectionate with our granddaughter than his own wife. What is the best way to cope with my constant worrying about my health issues? I have had problems since COVID with nerve pain and twitching. Something demonic is attacking me while I sleep. My son says his wife wants an open marriage and has another man living in their house; how do I set boundaries?The post New Life Live: May 20, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 19, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Addictions, Self Awareness, Autism, Church Life, Depression, Feelings, Aging Parents, Loneliness, Grief, Suicide Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses how to overcome what masters you.  Is it better for me to put my 18yo grandson with autism on private Christian insurance or use assistance from the government?  How do The post New Life Live: May 19, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Autism, Loneliness, and More Caller Questions from May 19, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 48:16


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Addictions, Self Awareness, Autism, Church Life, Depression, Feelings, Aging Parents, Loneliness, Grief, Suicide Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: Marc discusses how to overcome what masters you. Is it better for me to put my 18yo grandson with autism on private Christian insurance or use assistance from the government? How do I get plugged into my local church? I just got married and am thinking of starting a church. Is the reason my elderly mom won't cry because she is depressed? Is it okay to collect things to deal with being alone? My first husband committed suicide and my second husband hooked up with men.The post New Life Live: May 19, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 16, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Survival Response, Adult Children, Pornography, Newlyweds, Separation, Siblings, Mother Issues, Grief Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Marc shares the fight, flight or freeze responses, and how these survival responses relate to our attachment styles.  How do I confront my angry adult son who is mesmerized by my toxic The post New Life Live: May 16, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Newlyweds, Grief, and More Caller Questions from May 16, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2025 48:16


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Survival Response, Adult Children, Pornography, Newlyweds, Separation, Siblings, Mother Issues, Grief Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: Marc shares the fight, flight or freeze responses, and how these survival responses relate to our attachment styles. How do I confront my angry adult son who is mesmerized by my toxic brother? My brother is latching onto my son to get back at me. My wife ran away to another state and won't talk to me because of my porn addiction. How do I explain to my siblings that if they keep doing their same behavior, nothing will change? I'm blind, lost my mom in March, and I wanted to encourage those who have lost their moms.The post New Life Live: May 16, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 15, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Parenting, Discipline, Work Issues, Tattoos, Self-harm, Communication, Self Worth, Mental Health Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses disciplining children and how parents need to show a balance of warmth, truth, and consequences.  What do I do about someone lying about me and causing me to get The post New Life Live: May 15, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Work Issues, Tattoos, and More Caller Questions from May 15, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2025 48:16


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Parenting, Discipline, Work Issues, Tattoos, Self-harm, Communication, Self Worth, Mental Health Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: Dr. Alice discusses disciplining children and how parents need to show a balance of warmth, truth, and consequences. What do I do about someone lying about me and causing me to get fired? It's been 6yrs and I still deal with it as a caregiver. Is excessive tattooing and piercing considered to be self-harm? Why does someone I see every day never say “Good Morning” back to me? Did I do something wrong? Why do people seek help for their physical being but not their mental being?The post New Life Live: May 15, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 14, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Negative Thoughts, Self-Talk, Bipolar, Schizophrenia, Fear, Adult Children, Grief, Meditation Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Becky shares different cognitive distortions that can warp the stories we tell ourselves.  What do we do to help my 48yo sister who was diagnosed with bipolar schizophrenia? She has been in and The post New Life Live: May 14, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Schizophrenia, Meditation, and More Caller Questions from May 14, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Negative Thoughts, Self-Talk, Bipolar, Schizophrenia, Fear, Adult Children, Grief, Meditation Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: Becky shares different cognitive distortions that can warp the stories we tell ourselves. What do we do to help my 48yo sister who was diagnosed with bipolar schizophrenia? She has been in and out of the hospital and stopped working. Do you have any strategies to overcome being frozen with fear? I have a 40yo child in recovery from alcoholism, and my mother is in a nursing home with anxiety. I pray for the callers and last week Angie called about losing her mother; I was a caregiver for my parents and lost my mom on Mother's Day weekend. Grieving is a journey. Someone used the word meditate as something to avoid as Christians, and I wanted to share some Scriptures about meditating.The post New Life Live: May 14, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 13, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Laziness, Despair, Caregiving, Grief, Procrastination, Motivation, Anxiety, Bipolar, Adult Children Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses the things that lead us to laziness.  How do I manage being a caregiver for my mom when she is abusive?  When I am mourning, I prefer to be alone; do you encounter The post New Life Live: May 13, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    Caregiving, Procrastination, and More Caller Questions from May 13, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Laziness, Despair, Caregiving, Grief, Procrastination, Motivation, Anxiety, Bipolar, Adult Children Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: Chris discusses the things that lead us to laziness. How do I manage being a caregiver for my mom when she is abusive? When I am mourning, I prefer to be alone; do you encounter this much? Is there any help for me if I buy books but never get around to reading? I always forget what I read. How do I become motivated when I always feel behind? I am a single mom and have struggled with alcohol addiction. How do I get help for my 24yo daughter who suffers from anxiety and is bipolar?The post New Life Live: May 13, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    EMDR, Custody, and More Caller Questions from May 12, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 48:16


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Screens, Parenting, Sexual Abuse, Triggers, EMDR, End of Life, Aging Parents, Custody, Mother Issues Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: Dr. Alice shares the value of joining your kids in their favorite online games to help you bond with them. Will EMDR help me again? My family turned their backs on me after I turned in my brother for sexually abusing me. My mom went to hospice before Mother's Day, and I think I need counseling to deal with it. Can you give me legal help? My abusive ex has defamed my character publicly and deceived the courts to get the kids. What do I tell my 10yo granddaughter who is asking why her mother doesn't want her to live with her?The post New Life Live: May 12, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    Drug Addiction, Gender Identity, and More Caller Questions from May 9, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2025 48:16


    Watch on YouTube. Topics: Christian Walk, Adult Children, Boundaries, Drug Addiction, Counseling, Confession, Affairs, Teens, Sexual Integrity, Gender Identity. Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West. Caller Questions More: Dr. Jill suggests when we feel powerless, reflect on what is our part and what is God's part. Is it appropriate to tell my 34yo son to leave my house? He had a heart attack 3mos ago and smokes meth. The courts sent me to group therapy; how therapeutic is it to have to repeat what I was accused of to every new member of the group? It has been more than 5yrs since my wife cheated on me, and I blame myself for being gone so much for work. How do I help my naïve 16yo daughter who sent inappropriate pictures to a boy? My son is in college and says he's non-binary; do young men move out of this lifestyle?The post New Life Live: May 9, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    Weight Issues, Masturbation, and More Caller Questions from May 8, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2025 48:16


    Watch on YouTube. Topics: Avoiders, Weight Issues, Addictions, Masturbation, Lust, Adult Children, Estrangement, Forgiveness, Sexual Addictions, Sexual Integrity. Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron. Caller Questions More: Becky addresses how to be in relationship with those with a "never complain, never explain" mentality. I beat myself up mentally about turning to food instead of God; what is the root cause? I just went to Every Man's Battle Intensive; is it okay to masturbate? I have a girlfriend. My adult adopted daughter has turned everyone against me, and I struggle with forgiveness. JJ West and Dr. Sam Fraser compare the benefits of Every Man's Battle Intensive vs. individual counseling.The post New Life Live: May 8, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    New Life Live: May 7, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Lying, Teens, Grief, Mother Issues, Isolation, Guilt Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Dr. Sheri discusses different types of lying.  How do I go about finding the right counselor for my 16yo grandson who doesn't relate to any men in his life?  Any suggestions on how to handle Mother's Day? I lost my mom The post New Life Live: May 7, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    Affairs, Weddings, and More Caller Questions from May 6, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Self Worth, Affairs, Depression, Dating, Church Life, Weddings, In-laws, Physical Abuse. Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West. Caller Questions More: JJ discusses why you should challenge yourself without letting the challenge define your worth. What's the next step for me if my husband had a 10yr affair, and I didn't handle it the right way? A man from church says he likes me, but we haven't gone on a date; how do I wait confidently on God? Having trouble finding a church because I only get voicemail, and they never call me back. How do I get over my son's mother-in-law hitting me violently at his wedding reception six months ago? The post New Life Live: May 6, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    Custody, Triggers, and More Caller Questions from May 5, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Communication, Parenting, Custody, Triggers, Anger, Sexual Abuse, PTSD. Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Becky Brown. Caller Questions More: Marc talks about the number one thing couples bicker about and offers tips for when an argument occurs. I get my kids every other weekend, but they treat my place like a hotel; how can I get them to take more ownership? What do I do when my wife gets easily triggered and screams at me? I was shaking over the weekend after she got angry at me. My sisters and I were sexually abused by our brothers for 11yrs until they shot each other; is there anything I can do to minister to my sisters? What should I do if I feel like a slave because I have to be a caregiver for my wife who is obese and has diabetes? The post New Life Live: May 5, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    Suicide, Insomnia, and More Caller Questions from May 2, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Workaholics, Suicide, Adult Children, Alcohol, Grief, Insomnia, Intimacy, Avoiders. Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Becky Brown. Caller Questions More: Dr. Alice shares how forced downtime can be a blessing to a workaholic. I lost a son to a suicide; how do I know what help is good for my 23yo son who struggles with ADHD and alcohol? What is causing my chronic insomnia after losing my 94yo father? I also suffer with lyme disease. Why do I have a hard time with intimacy as a married woman? Did something happen in my past? The post New Life Live: May 2, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    Bipolar, Hoarding, and More Caller Questions from May 1, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Addiction, Narcissists, Depression, Dating, Adult Children, Bipolar, Grief, Hoarding, Communication, Friendship. Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller. Questions More: Dr. Jill discusses the overlap between addiction, trauma, and narcissism. Our son dropped out of college to take care of his fiance with terminal cancer. She had lied about the cancer. Should I stay with my bipolar daughter to make sure she's safe now that she is about to be released from the hospital? My wife struggles with hoarding after having a miscarriage. How do I help my 30yo son who has communication problems and wants to have friends? I was abducted and forced to marry; since my daughter doesn't want to acknowledge it, should I tell my granddaughter what happened to me? The post New Life Live: May 1, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    Narcissists, Satanic Abuse, and More Caller Questions from April 30, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Caregiving, Grief, Narcissists, Adult Children, Satanic Abuse, Parenting Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Becky discusses self-care for caregivers. 2. I go to my daughter's grave, talk to her and pour coffee on her grave to remember her; am I doing anything wrong scripturally? 3. What do I say to my daughter who is married to a narcissist and often calls me crying? 4. Do you know of any support groups for satanic ritual abuse survivors? 5. What can I do if my husband is turning my kids against me? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook for Grief How We Love Forgiving What You'll Never Forget Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

    Eating Disorders, Incarceration, and More Caller Questions from April 29, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 48:16


    Topics: Sexual Addiction, Eating Disorders, Exercise, Retirement, Adult Children, Teens, Sexual Integrity, Pregnancy, Depression, Pornography, Incarceration Hosts: Brian Perez, JJ West, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. JJ shares about the power of the Every Man's Battle weekend that was held in Washington, DC. 2. Since I retired, why have I begun eating from the moment I wake until I go to bed? I've never had a food addiction. 3. My 31yo son has been diagnosed with mental illness, lives at home, hears voices, and is verbally abusive; what can I do? 4. I went to Every Man's Battle last weekend with my son, and it was life-changing! 5. My 15yo son had a sleepover at his girlfriend's, and I don't want him to go the same way I did. Also, my wife is suicidal since she got pregnant. 6. How does God want me to behave toward my adult son who was arrested for downloading child pornography? Suggested Resources: Lose It For Life Boundaries Every Young Man's Battle Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

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