Nudes Before Dudes

Hey guys! (PSA Sorry in advance for all the breaths and usage of the word “like” in this episode. Yes that was mostly me!)This episode is going to be an update on all things quintessential and extra special! I have really missed you all and am excited for everything that this year is going to bring with my podcast and in the lives of all my listeners!So for this episode I am going to primarily try to really drive gaslighting into the wall and all of it’s many characteristics so that more people can avoid this horrible form of manipulation! The episode will go into detail with some of the gaslighting I have experienced recently, so follow along as I describe to my friend Dragon exactly what that all entailed. Most of you know I love having guests on the show and Dragon has been really kind to offer his presence and listen in with you all as I drill deep into some dating DON’T’s and how to pick up on what gaslighting will feel like.Dragon also has a few REALLY good examples of some gaslighting he has experienced as well, that I would love to weigh in on with him and am hoping to do that in the next episode as we ran out of time today to continue on longer. This also was his first experience on a podcast so I wanted to let him feel it out and get used to hearing himself talk so that he can really be transparent when telling his own experiences next time! I will say that he really killed it this time though and I am excited to bring him back for more insight!I thought I would have more time to get to a bunch of other stories from friends and others on this topic but I also wanted to provide in detail the many characteristics in my own stories! I am also interested in hearing back from you all in detail about your own personal beliefs and experiences on the topic!I do want to give more tips on other things revolving around healthy relationships and intimacy in the next episode so stay tuned! As always I seriously appreciate the love and support from everyone, and ask that if you find this all to be helpful, that you share it with others to enlighten and encourage them as well! Let me know what you think about the new cover art and intro! I am so excited to change that up a bit! Feel free to contact me on my personal instagram xratedquinn or email me at nudesbeforedudes@icloud.comUntil next time!!! -Quinny Quinn Quinnla

TUNE IN!! This is going to be a good one! Take notes if you may fall under the term fu%kboy & sit back and relax if you have ever had the real thing ;)Dictionary.com has a definition for F%ckboy - a fu%ckboy is that guy...the one who doesn't respect women, but relies on them heavily. He's distant (YUP), doesn't care about other people's time, and won't commit. He's self-absorbed, does stupid things, and f%cks with others' emotions. I went a step further to copy and paste the urban dictionary definition as well. Enjoy all you loverbuddies! Feel free to send this episode to anyone, whether it's a f-girl or boy!!Here it is!A f%ckboy - An As*hole boy who is into strictly sexual relationships; he will lead a girl on and let her down, then apologize only to ask for "pics" once the girl has welcomed him back into her trust. Boys like this will pretend to genuinely care about the girl but always fail to prove the supposed affection. He almost never makes plans because he has to hangout on his terms which could be the most whimsical of times, and if the girl rejects those plans because she has a legitimate reason for not being able to hang out, he will get pissed. However, if plans are made he will bail on them without a second thought. If a girl tries to stand up to this asshole he will most likely deny everything and turn it all around on the girl making it seem as though the conflict at stake is her fault and he has done nothing wrong and hates when girls bitch at him for "no reason." He will always come crawling back because he is a horny prick and can not withstand the dispossession of one of his baes, because he has more than one that's for sure. Texting such a boy will consist of the girl carrying the conversation and the guy responding with short answers 10 or more minutes after the girl's response, but when she asks why he takes so long to answer it will be because he is "busy" but he promises he likes her. Boys like this are egotistical as*holes who can not be trusted and are hard to get rid of because they say all the right things to get the girl back.(and I drop the mic) (hopefully not really)...SIA for any mic taps & drink sips! A LOT of work goes into these episodes and we get parched af!! Share share share!!! Leave us 5 stars if you like what you hear and want to hear more! We have some fun upcoming trips that I am excited to tell you about! Write in with ANY questions, comments, or feedback!! Disclaimer : Anyone can change so the roast at the end is simply a roast, but if you don't start investing in yourself now, and you don't even want it now, that change is going to be REALLY hard the longer you wait! You know where it's at! IG handle is xratedquinn or email me at nudesbeforedudes@icloud.comThanks Loves!!!

Good Morning Nudes & Dudes!First off, one can only edit out SO much chip eating! I am so sorry, next time I will advise on NO snacking during recording (gotta reward them for hanging in there though to put on a great show!).2nd, one of the audio cords was NOT plugged in and it resulted in very spotty audio, so hang tight and catch what you can! Okay, so we are playing raunchy would you rather, and we all came up with these questions and topics straight out of our heads! No google or phones! I am sure you didn’t expect quite so many DISGUSTING questions - Sorry in advance, but it appears us ladies actually enjoy bathroom talk more than we would usually like to admit!!First we have two NEW guests, Anastasia & Jenny, Thank You hellians for being a part of this hell on wheels!!! And towards the end we have House Bunny for some deleted scenes! So have a listen and enjoy the varying perspectives and effort! I think I reused a question or two between my guests, but it made for some funny variations! My next thought is having bunny meet my new guests? Bunny vs Guests for episode 20?Happy Hump Day Everyone,Quinn

Hey guys per usual if you have any questions or comments message me at my email nudesbeforedudes@icloud.comorInstagram is xratedquinnxoxoquinny and her dogs

Hey guys welcome back! I hope you guys have been catching up on missed episodes while I have been working through some of my own life challenges!So to start this episode off, I share some of my feelings on the recent protests etc! This isn’t something I am an expert on but I wanted to at least validate and show m support to BLM & Equality.I am NOT a politician and I don’t have enough time to put the amount of time I would like to, to feel knowledgeable to go into it much beyond the first 15 minutes! If you disagree with me, please do so kindly and tune out if it is too bothersome! But if you like it then share with friends and family etc!! Alright, so in my last episode I talked about how I made my own bumble questions as a vetting process to weed out boundary pushers and no bueno’s for Quinny! I had a recent date that went quickly downhill, he constantly was pressing against my boundaries and owned up to NONE of it. It’s taking me some time to process and I am still doing so, but slowly revealing some of his tendencies and personalities that he carried that were extremely toxic, alarming, as well as unnerving. But some of his manipulations caused me to create some of these detailed questions I ask on Bumble. So, after the first 10-15 minutes, I dive deep into bumbles beeline and read some of my finest messages that I got from a series of heart felt, thought out questions I asked surrounding the topic of physical boundaries!!I want to inform that I did not and do not ask people questions like this for my podcast. I asked the questions I did to bring forth successful dates and help me find people with similar mindsets and rationing! Enjoy!Stay Safe, it’s one going to get better from here!! -Quinnynudesbeforedudes@icloud.comInstagram - xratedquinnhttps://www.instagram.com/xratedquinn/

Hey Everyone Quinn here, first I just want to let you know that this episode does contain some brief questionable sexual content that could cause some discomfort with those types of things. If this is something that will bother you feel free to skip this episode!LoverBuddies!First I find it of quality importance to tell you that on the quinntastic spoon sex move I describe to you towards the end of the episode, the little spoon can arch her back nicely in this position, it almost just happens, which is nice for girls that maybe forget to arch their back or don't realize it feels good. Everyone is different but offering a pillow or even the pressure of your hand on the arch of her back can make the world of difference!Stay healthy and safe out there! Don't get too lonely or anxious! We are going to pull through this and see some sunshine soon! Don't get lonely just sharpen some tools! Or learn how to use NEW ones! Learn a new instrument! get a puppytrain your puppymake your own pair of shortsgo camping Work on a skill set that will give your more confidence out in publicRead a book about YOURSELF, get to know yourself while you're stuck inside with yourself!!Okay I am so exhausted and I probably forgot a million things! Please share with all of your of age friends and write in your thoughts to my instagram at xratedquinn or my email at nudesbeforedudes@icloud.comLove you all!Quinny Quinn Quinnla Squishy and Gil

Ok guys!! (it's late and my eyes are blurry from too much screen time prepping this episode, so just forgive me now for any typos)Haha! Oh boy, I don't even know where to start with this one. Well actually, yes I do. I know that I need to start by telling you that the little ten minute rebuttal is supposed to be a sassy written out Quinn styled response written to "Mr. Johnson" & I am NOT using my normal voice for extra effects. Argument topic : Do generally ALL women need/want to be "Warmed up" before sex?Ok so folks who do we have here and what is going on in this episode!? Has corona gotten to our brains or what!? So Mr.J is a friend who was visiting from out of the area & he & I often clash on some of the social/physical "norms." What caused me to get heated on this topic is, that when sharing stories with each other, Mr.J always makes me feel like I am "too" much work. And that most women don't need the -tease, warm up, foreplay whatever you want to call it. And that mindset RIGHT there, the making me feel like too much work for how my body WORKS...is not fair. And when there is this expectation to NOT be too much work and act fast and BE READY (hot n ready), then we, women....settle for low quality sex and I am not saying it is entirely Mr.J's fault here, as in, these woman are also just as guilty to the crime of participating or giving in to such low quality sex (haha)! No....no I am not so close minded to assume that there isn't anyone who doesn't want the warm up or foreplay, I am sure you're out there! AND lets NOT forget that everyy woman has a different "warm up" time. Some women get lubricated far faster than other women, but whether it takes her 4 minutes or 20, take the f#*king TIME!!Same for the Dudes! This goes for everybody!! I think that we all have a warm up period! And I think finding out what gets each other "warm" is a marvelous idea! Okay well if you can hang through the debate it is followed by a silly styled rebuttal and then some of Quinn's finest foreplay ideas for the slow corona days with your loverbuddie!Guys write in your responses to any of my social media accounts!! Stay tuned to hear about a date gone WRONG and I am going to share the juicy information that went along with these dates! All coming soooo soon!Review me! 5 star rate me! It helps a lot since this is FREE content, the encouragement goes a long way! I love reading your reviews!!! Stay healthy, take LOTS of extra baths!!! haha, you know what I mean ;)-quinnla

What's up guys! Currently watching, or shall I say "rewatching" New Girl while I write out a grade school level summary of my podcast.So first off, we have a male guest with us today! I wanted to get some male perspectives and deep low voices on the show for everyone (haha), so please open your ears and welcome a little robby with us today! Thanks so much for taking your time to hang out and be a part of Nudes Before Dudes!!!Right off, we start the discussion with going over why communicating is so difficult at times but also such a necessary part of any relationship!! Communicating in fact makes EVERYTHING so much better! Especially sex!!!The reason I wanted to do a podcast on communication is because I have often found that communication is a frequently dodged topic and even more so a frequently avoided step in sex and dating! Yet it is the ice cream to the entire sundae and without it, you have nothing but a bunch of little parts. Communication brings everything together! Listen guys as hard as it can be to talk to someone about your needs and boundaries etc, it is not as hard as it is going to be if you DON'T!! Don't let fear of communication, stop you from communicating. Some tips to try this week, state what you are feeling more often! Participate in conversation more often! Start a conversation. Ask someone for their opinions on something so that you can start learning how YOU feel on more topics etc!!Oh And how could I forget, go on some facetime dates during this pandemic! Stay healthy! Write in your questions! Thanks for listening! I don't want to give you too many spoilers, so turn up the volume (or down ha!) and take some notes!xoxo,quinnyInstagram- xratedquinnemail - nudesbeforedudes@icloud.com

Hey guys!It's been too long!In this episode I basically answer a good handful of questions that I have received from our dudes! I start the episode off with some Corona stats state by state, for those of you interested! I think it goes for the first 5-6 minutes, so if you don't want to hear it, then fast-forward!! I hope everyone is staying healthy! I am going to try to get as many episodes out as possible right now since so many of us are home and in need of some entertainment! Please share my show! And write in your questions!!! Follow my Instagram : xratedquinn xoxo,quinny

Hey guys House Bunny and I went clubbing this past weekend, and whenever we go out it never ceases to bring forth entertainment!This episode is a special episode mostly based around building confidence and setting boundaries for yourself.Some things we go over are,-BEFORE I FORGET!!! SUNDAY SCARIES will get brought up on the NEXT episode, I mentioned explaining what that was and I never actually addressed it. (Fruit cake)-Faking it until you make it, and pretending that anxiety that tells you that you can’t do something, isn’t there. Ignore the anxiety guys, don’t invite it in and feed it.-What it looks like to lack confidence vs what it looks like to BE confident. Guys I am VERY new to embracing confidence and living that confidence out. I used to be clingy and confused. I would experience so much anxiety with break up’s & it was hard to navigate dating and really any relationships in life because lacking confidence literally will affect all aspects of your life!-I tell a few embarrassing stories and how I used confidence to recover (ha-ha) (my new rm’s dog found my dildo …)P.s were joking about the amazon wish list, any silly arrogant comments, and we went out dancing and had the time of our lives just dancing our hearts out and not caring who saw! We aren’t bragging about our dancing, we want to encourage other people to just go out CONFIDENTLY and enjoy yourself and know that is the most sexy thing ever! Lets see any other P..s’s….Oh yes, I talked about waiting until marriage, that is not my current stance on sex and dating and I lost my virginity when I was 25, that was just for part of that story I was telling!Guys know your Boundaries before the boundary pushers come! You have to know what your boundaries are to be able to advocate for them! It’s A LOT easier when you know them! Get at me guys! I want your feedback, I want your stories and most of all I want to know what you guys want to hear! So email me at nudesbeforedudes@icloud.com or follow my UP TO DATE private instagram account, xratedquinn ;) Also if you like my podcast and you like what you hear and you want to keep hearing it, then leave a review and a 5 star! Thanks!!!Oh, and the Dictionary app! Get it haha, this isn’t some promo or something, it’s a confidence booster. Learn new words to bring to the table! Xoxoquinny

Editors Notes : The episode picks up about five minutes in, before that I do some ranting. I always rant, but not extra rant-esk this time!!PLEASE PLEASE listen to this podcast while being semi distracted, per say driving or walking your dogs! My podcast is not intended for perfections! And this episode specifically has a lot of flaws I am sure of it because I am recording it so candidly! I made a Patreon page per many requests, and have attached that link for gratuity ;) (I know there is slight background music, lets see if it helps me analyze!! ha-ha! I am really hoping it's not a total mood killer)OH! Also, the typing and click noises were just cracking me the he!! up! So I didn't have them edited out. It's like very border line ASMR and I am sorry, NOT SORRY, because it just made me laugh a little bit picturing some of you wondering what the heck I am typing. Okay so THIS episode, haha! Should be a fun one to listen to, although I don't want to listen to it myself because it's just a tad cheek flushing. Guys, this episode was like a guilty pleasure type B fun! There was some raunchy crap in there that was interesting, but surprisingly it wasn't all raunchy and there WAS parts that I thought helped the flow of my conversations! Ha! It can be tough to think of topics to bring up but recording myself informatively narrating porn, was honestly a blast and a half because I had no idea what was coming!Oh I made a quick note while listening to the episode, that the many "christian" boys that I lived with, also knew that I was off limits, because I was still a virgin, and was very good at giving the off limits vibe off. I think otherwise, it would be hard to trust that they were giving me sound advice, if we thought they may had been interested intimately. There was none of that happening! I was the little sister, most of the time! Also, so while recording my "quinncast" I was able to hear the audio playing in my earphones, you guys can not! So you're just getting my saucy reactions and impulsive responses on the popular most viewed porn these days! Okay give it a listen! Follow me on instagram it's xratedquinnLove you all! I love reading all our messages and hearing from you! I will be responding as I get more time!xoxoQuinnyhttps://c6.patreon.com/becomePatronButton.bundle.js">

Okay guys listen up, I just pulled an all-f*c%$king nighter to drop this episode for you guys today! So you better share my content, get your friends to listen and review, and five star rate me if you like my show and want it to continue! TIA! New Private Instagram https://www.instagram.com/xratedquinn/ email- nudesbeforedudes@icloud.comAlso FYI - The headline WILL make sense once you have listened to the entire episode ha! Hang in there, and hang on tight!Guys, I feel like I finally have reached the point of comfortability to be able to brief you guys on one of the main points to my podcast, which is mastering the art of being REAL!!! I have been trying to think of how I want to explain and define my podcast to people in a sentence and it's so hard to do. What I finally feel sure of, is that I want the point of my podcast to be to find people at their most REAL selves, and ask all the questions, and give you all the answers! I talk about two blow jobs in this episode and the first one being the BJ that takes little knowledge or skill, but more submissive behavior, and the second BJ I talk about is one that is fueled by desire and can't be bought or taught, but that CAN be attracted to you if you approach it in the right way!!!I end off on some fun notes about how I went out dancing! Oka laters, I am exhaustedQuinn

Yes I am doing a special EARLY BIRD drop at 6am! It's Monday, so I figured some of you could use the chuckle and whatever else may have you. Okay Lets run over the episode! Special guest YIPPI (beatrice the one snorting ha!) guys we are just having a good time and saying things left and right so if you are looking for a more put together show, find the door! Beatrice is a lot more experienced than me, she has tried far more than me and I thought she would be an interesting perspective to hear from! We gotta talk about everything! In this episode I really wanted to go over some specific turn on's that I think would work on a lot of woman, and there is even great content for turning on the dudes too! But I want to promote a healthy sex life, and sex talk! Especially for what I have planned for you guys! We're going to go over - kinks, sex toys, dirty talk, porn and getting to know yourself well enough so that you can enjoy sex to the fullest! This is NOT me just ranting about sex, I have so much heart behind the entire mission of my podcast & if you keep following I think it will slowly reveal itself!! Guys add my instagram account! It's private because we keep getting deleted by those who do not want this podcast to air. Sorry Babes! I've got something to say! You can contact me on my instagram account or email me at nudesbeforedudes@icloud.com!! IG - xratedquinnThank You so much for listening! Please share my content, share my podcast, & send in your questions!!-Quinny

Hey guys Quinn Here! So I went on a date recently that by the second date, I was already far from done!! I realized pretty quickly that the guy mostly wanted me to have sex with him! I did not end up sleeping with him. Because there is a lot of content here, I want to kind of summarize my thoughts for youEven though most men can get horny by just hearing the word "horny." for real...it's true most men will get turned on by even hearing talk about sex, woman on the other hand almost always tend to tense up when hearing talk about sex, before they get horny. And usually woman do not get horny just from talk of sex or even seeing it. It usually has to do with the way you finesse the conversation between the two of you.When a woman is not interested, you can easily tell this because she won't reciprocate your moves. If you move in on her down south and she pulls away and doesn't try to initiate with you next, it's a good sign she just isn't interested, and trying to convince ANYONE that they should be interested in you, won't work.If you want them to be interested & they are not, the best way to get their attention is by finding what makes that person the happiest, and bring that up for starts. Like for me it's my dogs. If more men knew to bring up my doggos...there would be a lot of happier men. Even for casual sex, a woman wants more than a sexbot. We want someone who kind of tries to get to know us. So try ... even if I am not dating you...believe me, I can find someone that has more depth & then I will be having the best sex ever.email me with questions! nudesbeforedudes@icloud.com

Link to my new Insta https://www.instagram.com/quinnpresleypodcast/ ! I have gotten so many requests on this topic so I decided to give it a go!!! If you have been following my podcast then you already know I have some weird a$$ views from an interesting background but I also feel like I have a lot of content that I have formed my conclusions off of. I don't just come up with these opinions, I ask, and I ask a lot!!! I will question my best friends on their relationships, and I will ask my own dates etc...for the inside scoop! I don't know how I managed to even talk about this for an hour considering I have NEVER had an open relationship and I also haven't ever been in a threesome!! But I really tried my best to give my full heart here and just give you the crazy little thoughts that TRAVEL in my head and out my mouth onto this podcast! Review me if you like so that I can keep doing this! Thanks loverbuddies!

Hey guys thanks for tuning in! Merry Christmas, I hope Santa got you a vibrator for Christmas or at least a new boyfriend! I have one of my friends on the show today, she goes by the name of "house bunny" for reasons xy&z, but primarily because she leads a Bible study back home and doesn't want to give them the "wrong idea" ;) House Bunny has some really great perspectives on top of my own and I just loved having her!!Subscribe to hear more from my guests and I as we continue to create hella good content. Thanks!!

Happy Friday folks!! Dropping a quick 30 minute episode to start or finish off your Friday with!!! Listen in to catch up with Quinn's dating and work life outside of the podcast, followed by a list of things Quinn found interesting when finally loosing her f*ck card, aka her virginity at a late age of 25!! This episode is one for the books, as the purpose behind the podcast starts to become slowly revealed!

Listen in as Quinn tells us how she navigates her first few times out in the Seattle, WA area!, and her very FIRST time ever going to a club. This x-PK is learning a lot and sharing with you as she goes!

Quinn quickly divulges into why biting the p*ssy is not always a great idea, followed by her own confessions of how she previously judged the non monogamous! Listen in to find out if you are his basic F*ck girl and what some of today's dealbreakers look like in todays dating scene!

Quinn talks about some of the most aggressive tips out there on not loosing interest & being the most irresistible in the room! Listen in to find out how you can keep things spicy as you gaze into his eyes and get on your knees.

Quinn Presley, new to the scene, the dating scene and the podcast scene it appears that is lmf*o, jumps right in with us, bringing up some tips to a really good blow job AND how to find her adventurous side in the bedroom! Quinn gets really real with us as she even goes into depth discussing how..."I had a guy actually acting really weird around date 3/4 and I couldn’t figure out what was bothering him. He would sort of defer being alone to group settings and he was avoiding being alone with me. Finally…being the investigator little fucker I was, I decided that I wanted to explore this mans insecurities and figure out why the hell he was being so weird because I knew for damn sure it wasn’t MUAH…so eventually I said “Do you like what your dick looks like”