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Hosted by Kanika Issar, you WHAT?!! is a fun, candid podcast that's rebranding divorce and modern relationships.

Kanika Issar


    • Jul 26, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 29m AVG DURATION
    • 14 EPISODES


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    Functional addiction with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen :E13

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2022 36:48


    Dr. Elizabeth Cohen is a psychologist, author, podcaster and founder of Afterglow- an online course that teaches women to thrive after divorce. She has been featured on Huff Post, NBC, Women's Health, Good Housekeeping and WSJ to name a few. You can find her podcast, book, courses and more at www.drelizabethcohen.com In this episode, she shares: - What it's like to be dating or married to a high functioning addict - Living in a society that glamourizes recreational cocaine, alcohol, and sex addictions - How to control your partner's addiction [hint: you can't] - Understanding why you ended up in a relationship with an addict in the first place www.youwhatpodcast.com hello@youwhatpodcast.com

    Navigating non-monogamy with Nyx Moran: E12

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2022 44:34


    Nyx Moran is a queer and non-binary licensed New York State mental health counselor, clinical supervisor, educator and consultant on anti-oppression, mental health, gender/sexuality, and LGBTQIA+ issues as well as a former sex worker, who practices ENM themself.   In this episode, Nyx shares: - Their personal experience practicing non-monogamy, relational anarchy and if happily ever after always has to be forever   - Boundaries - how to set them up, what happens when they're violated and what the dissolution of non-monogamous relationships look like   - We chat about intimacy, sexuality, jealousy and compersion in non-monogamous relationships   For more about Nyx visit: www.nicholasmoranlmhc.com   www.youwhatpodcast.com hello@youwhatpodcast.com  

    Discussing divorce in India with Mrunalini Deshmukh :E11

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2022 22:42


    Mrunalini Deshmukh is one of India's top divorce lawyers, specializing in matrimonial and family law and practices civil law at Mumbai High Court & the Supreme Court of India. She and her associates have handled some of the most high-profile cases in the country.  She is also the author of Your Guide to Getting A Divorce available on amazon You can listen to her TED talk 5 Ways to Prevent Divorce  on YouTube In this episode, she shares: - Trends over the last 20 years in Indian divorces - Arranged marraiges vs. love marraiges filing for divorce - Broader socio-cultural context in which Indian divorce laws were made For more, visit www.youwhatpodcast.com hello@youwhatpodcast.com

    Releasing trauma through breathwork with Richa Ekka :E10

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2022 30:42


    Richa Ekka is a breathwork facilitator specialising in trauma release. She is also a Love, Sex and Relationship Coach who uses somatic experiencing tools to support her clients in completing stress cycles stored in the body from traumatic events. In this episode, Richa shares: - How trauma is stored in the body - The difference between big 'T' and little 't' trauma and the role our shame plays - Ways of using breathwork and movement to release trauma Learn more about Richa on her website  www.youwhatpodcast.com hello@youwhatpodcast.com    

    Your rights as an immigrant filing for divorce with Aleida Sainz :E9

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2022 28:56


    Aleida Sainz is an immigration attorney, and in this episode she shares: - Resources to help immigrants navigate divorce and common misconceptions about how this affects your status - Things to do before you leave - The various forms of domestic violence and abuse recognized by law For a legal help visit www.lawhelp.org For more information about the power and control wheel click here www.youwhatpodcast.com hello@youwhatpodcast.com

    Let's talk about our money, honey with Amanda Clayman :E8

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 32:43


    Amanda Clayman is a financial therapist and host of the recurring Death, Sex & Money podcast series Financial Therapy with Amanda Clayman. Her work has been featured in several media outlets such as The Atlantic, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, and The TODAY Show, MSNBC, FOX, to name a few. Amanda shares: - Why you and your partner need to be communicating about finances - Whether or not you should have a secret stash if you're in a relationship - Five tenants for a healthy financial dynamic that every couple needs to know Learn more about Amanda at www.amandaclayman.com For more visit www.youwhatpodcast.com Email me at hello@youwhatpodcast.com

    How to spot a narcissist with Vanessa Reiser :E7

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2022 41:02


    Vanessa Reiser is a psychotherapist specializing in narcissistic abuse. She is also a mother, entrepreneur, life coach and domestic violence awareness advocate who ran the entire state of New York in a wedding dress to raise awareness for narcissistic abuse. Vanessa Shares: - What narcissistic abuse is and what a narcissist looks like - Love bombing, trauma bonds, gaslighting and other reasons you might end up dating one - Serious red flags to look out for in relationships with narcissists Learn more about Vanessa at www.tellatherapist.net For more visit www.youwhatpodcast.com  

    Why your sex esteem, shame and sex education matters with Sari Cooper :E6

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2022 33:05


    Sari Cooper is a nationally recognized expert on relationships, sexuality and discussing sexuality with one's partners and children. She's the Director of Center for Love and Sex, a group sex therapy practice in NYC. She is also the Founder of Sex Esteem®, a company devoted to empowering people through sexual coaching, group classes and communication skills. Sari shares: - The consequences of shaming sexuality and pleasure - The difference between men and women's perception of infidelity - The importance of sex esteem and sex education www.youwhatpodcast.com @youwhatpodcast 

    So you don't like your friend's partner...now what with Andrea Roganovic : E5

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2022 26:41


    Andrea shares: - What to do if you don't like your friend's partner - Red flags a friend can notice - How to help a friend through a divorce www.youwhatpodcast.com hello@youwhatpodcast.com

    Non-monogamy and/or marriage with Brian Watson : E4

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2022 33:19


    Brian is a PhD researcher at the University of British Columbia. Brian Watson shares: - How and why marriage was invented - Examples of successful metamours - What we can all learn from non-monogamous relationships   For more visit: www.youwhatpodcast.com Email your stories and questions to hello@youwhatpodcast.com  

    What NOT to do...advice from divorce lawyer James Sexton :E3

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2022 40:04


    James Sexton is a divorce lawyer in New York. He's the author of 'If You're In My Office, It's Already Too Late: A Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Staying Together'. He's a sought after public speaker and has regularly appeared on NBC Sunday Morning, Access Hollywood, The Rachel Ray Show, Nightline, Watch What Happens Live, Good Morning America and been featured in The New York Times, The New York Post, The Guardian UK, Time Magazine, Elle, Glamour, Business Insider and others. James Shares: - The most common reason why people get divorced - How to stay out of his office - What NOT to do if you want to stay in a happy, healthy marriage Access James Sextons's website and book here: www.nycdivorces.com   For more visit: www.youwhatpodcast.com Email your stories and questions to hello@youwhatpodcast.com  

    Signs you might be in a toxic relationship with Angelica Griegel :E2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2022 28:45


    Angelica Shares: - Red flags to watch out for in a new relationship - Why people stay in toxic relationships - Why you might be attracting a toxic relationship and how to break that cycle   Angelica Griegel is a toxic relationship expert and Founder of Break Through- Love Your Life, a coaching program that specializes in helping both men and women break free from dysfunctional and toxic relationships. Access Angelica's website at www.breaththroughloveyourlife.com   For more visit: www.youwhatpodcast.com Email your stories and questions to hello@youwhatpodcast.com

    10 Things to do the day you realize you're getting divorced : E1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2022 15:06


    Kanika gives you tips to survive the day you realize you're getting a divorce. She shares: - Survival strategies - Silver linings to focus on - What to expect in your near future   www.youwhatpodcast.com hello@youwhatpodcast.com

    Divorce gets a rebrand...FINALLY! [Trailer]

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2021 3:34


    you WHAT?!!  is on a mission to let people know that sometimes, divorce needs to be celebrated. Given how common it is, Kanika Issar is rebranding the stigma that surrounds it by bringing informed, positive and relatable voices to an age-old topic as she discuss some of the issues that all relationships face.

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