10 mins with TmFAL. @thedecadeafter

Follow 10 mins with TmFAL. @thedecadeafter
Share on
Copy link to clipboard

Naija- American Infectious Diseases physician. Author, The Decade After; Thriving After Divorce. Short podcasts on a variety of topics on personal growth, single and co-parenting, adulting, all things HIV/PrEP/ hepatitis/STIs, menopause, empty nesting and more .. serious topics presented with cando…

Toyin M Falusi MD


    • Jun 5, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 10m AVG DURATION
    • 47 EPISODES


    Search for episodes from 10 mins with TmFAL. @thedecadeafter with a specific topic:

    Latest episodes from 10 mins with TmFAL. @thedecadeafter

    8 wellness tips from our dog

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2022 10:19


    In this episode, I discuss 8 wellness tips from our dog Gage. Just watching her navigate life, we have a lot we can learn from our pets. Hope you Enjoy this episode.

    Breaking up with added sugar

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2021 7:59


    Breaking up is always hard. It's especially hard when you are trying to eliminate added sugar and highly processed foods from your diet. I discuss tips on how to get you over the hump.

    Harnessing the 5C’s on your wellness journey

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2021 9:33


    I discuss the 5C’s we utilize in tfal&chi wellness coaching and we how you can harness them on the journey to a sustainable healthy lifestyle

    COVID 19 vaccines- Its a resounding YES for me !!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2020 7:52


    In this episode, I discuss the efficacy of the COVId-19 mRNA vaccines and address concerns about the development timeline. It’s a YES for me once my name gets on the list.

    Family history- let’s talk about it!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2020 9:34


    Family history is an aspect of history taking for us as physicians. Too often, people have no/little information about their family health history. Discussing health and family history equips the next generation with much needed vital health information.

    The Covey “7 Habits” in COVD-19 times

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2020 17:51


    As we stay home /lock down/shut down in COVID-19 times, adjusting to this new reality can be difficult . Here I discuss how the covey “ 7 habits of highly effective people” can be applied during this time and hopefully make this period one of growth.

    COVID-19 update (part2): how to show appreciation for the healthcare workforce.: social distancing!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2020 15:25


    Discuss what doctors and health care providers are going through these COVID-18 times and how social distancing is the best way to show your appreciation for the healthcare workforce.

    COVID-19 update(part 1):March 19.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2020 20:03


    An update to the March 3 episode. Review stats, transmission, prevention and rx updates

    The ID Doc and COVID-19

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2020 16:46


    Interesting time to be an ID Doc in the era of COVID-19. What am I telling my family and friends?

    C.H.A.N.G.E. It’s gonna happen

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2020 11:40


    “The only constant in life is change”- Heraclitus ( Greek philosopher)- Embracing change broken down by the letters in the word C H A N G E

    Tips for Preparing for your check ups

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2020 13:02


    It’s important to get your annual ( or more frequent) check ups. Here are a few Tips for Preparing for those visits .

    QUICKIE- Speaking with the “five I’s”

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2020 7:53


    Working on being measured in our words- Speaking with The “five I’s”

    Before the #GOALS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2020 10:29


    As we set goals in the new year a reminder that there a few ### before the #GOALS

    knowing Yourself- 5 reasons to do a SWOT analysis on YOU

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2019 11:37


    I discuss the why and how of Knowing yourself. Intention/introspection/inquiry . You don’t need anything but yourself in a quiet space

    Primer on Hepatitis C virus (HCV) infection

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2019 12:04


    HCV overview in 12 minutes. Screening , linkage, treatment and cure.

    9 life lessons from Group fitness classes

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2019 12:36


    Group fitness exercises are fun and teach us a lot about life

    We are NOT in middle school anymore

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2019 10:35


    What are some middle school behaviors that carry into adulthood? How we can spot these Things and Do BETTER

    To D E L E G A T E is to #win

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2019 11:13


    What does it mean to truly delegate? Why don’t we do it? What happens when we don’t? How can we start delegating? Delegating is a win-win that frees up your time and empowers others

    Socially Connected YET Lonely

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2019 12:07


    Is social isolation the same as loneliness? Does being alone =lonely?

    Cleaning out your SPACE- 4 steps

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2019 7:52


    When you decide to take out the garbage /trash in your physical and mental space , you start to find more things that need to GO!!! Stay the course and get the trash OUT!!!

    Boundaries - we all need them

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2019 10:54


    What are boundaries? Healthy boundaries? Why do we need them? This episodes discusses why we all need healthy boundaries

    VOLUNTEERING- good for the soul

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2019 11:16


    What are the Benefits of volunteering? How do I start? This episode highlights the many benefits of being a VOLUNTEER

    REST- what is it good for? Absolutely EVERYTHING

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2019 9:51


    Discusses how taking time to REST- is a sign of strength

    QUICKIE- 5 practical mental exercises that help you embrace and own the awesome YOU!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2019 6:56


    Life can be rough and sometimes we forget how amazing and fabulous we are. These are 5 things you can do to re- discover and own the awesome YOU!!!

    Taking stock of your finances- not a maybe? A definite MUST!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2019 11:32


    Do you take stock of your finances? Have a plan? Know what’s in place?. I discuss how i went from clueless Toyin to the now savvy Toyin after my divorce

    Why don’t we ASK?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2019 12:07


    In this episode I explore the 4 common reasons we don’t ask for what we want/need.

    Life is like SCRABBLE ✅

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2019 13:00


    The game of scrabble is fun! A great time of bonding while learning new words. However over the years, i have come to realize that scrabble teaches many life lessons.... 13 ways life is like scrabble

    Age appropriate Health screenings - A MUST!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2019 12:12


    This episode highlights the common reasons many women avoid screening tests/exams and the importance of keeping up with them.

    P. E.R.S.I.S.T.E.N.C.E

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2019 12:33


    Persistence the 3rd P in getting our goals accomplished. (passion+ purpose + persistence). Why do we let obstacles stop us? How to keep going

    The similarities end there.....

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2019 11:16


    The similarities end with what you see on the outside... when we compare ourselves to others we miss the critical point that there is more we don’t know than we know about people, relationships, financial status etc.

    why single moms are the real CEO’s

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2019 9:04


    12 reasons single moms are the real CEOs/MVPs- Fortune 500 companies are you listening?

    Talk to HER! - A love letter to your (self+20) year old.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2019 11:22


    Look into the future 20 years from now. What do you want for that future self? Where is she? What is she doing? Who is around her? Visualize her and be Kind to her ❤️

    My Book-The Decade After: Thriving after divorce . Cliff notes version

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2019 12:02


    Why did I write the book? Who is my audience? What’s the book about? Listen to this short cliff notes version of the book. Tips on staying positive and getting BETTER not BITTER ❤️

    The “7 habits” and MENOPAUSE

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2019 12:58


    We don’t like to talk about it but hey... Menopause happens! A spin on the Covey 7 habits and Menopause

    The Time Management Circle

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2019 10:59


    Have to do? Don’t have to do? Want to do? Don’t want to do? This episode discusses breaking down tasks into quadrants as a way to getting things done

    FORGIVENESS- A gift to yourself

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2019 10:05


    When you chose to FORGIVE you are giving yourself a gift. In this episode I break down The letters in F.O R .G I .V E to highlight the process and benefits of forgiveness.

    QUICKIE- YOUR Best or THE Best?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2019 6:29


    Do you strive to be your best? Or despair because you want to be The best? Here’s to doing your best- it’s freeing

    Finite resources-QUALITY over QUANTITY

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2019 10:35


    With our finite resources- we should always strive to choose QUALITY over QUANTITY

    QUICKIE- What is your default setting?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2019 4:36


    Gratitude or discontent? What’s your default setting??

    Preventing BURNOUT

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2019 10:54


    Burnout is Real!!! What are the symptoms? How does knowing yourself help prevent burnout?

    P A R E N T I N G

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2019 10:42


    What parenting means to me

    Relationships- quality/time circle

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2019 11:49


    Are your relationships high or low quality? Evaluating the time/quality continuum

    Be Present- It’s where YOU Are

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2019 9:06


    Be present

    The Growth-hardship Circle

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2019 10:31


    Growth during hardship YES! Growth when things are great- Even better!!! Visualize the growth/hardship combo in yet another circle

    7 habits and the empty nester!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2019 10:39


    I’m a soon to be empty nester! YIKES!!!! How to prepare, cope and enjoy the process and beyond

    The Advice- source/quality Circle

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2019 10:36


    What do I do with advice? Who’s giving it? Visualize the advice/source combo in a circle with 4 quadrants

    INTRO to 10mins with TmFAL

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2019 3:01


    Who is TmFAL? What’s this podcast about?

    Claim 10 mins with TmFAL. @thedecadeafter

    In order to claim this podcast we'll send an email to with a verification link. Simply click the link and you will be able to edit tags, request a refresh, and other features to take control of your podcast page!

    Claim Cancel