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I'm fed up with this man. He's been bullying for years and inciting hatred and violence towards me. I want to put it on record, just in case. Here's the article I refer to: http://dreamandhustle.com/2014/03/the-black-woman-guide-to-dealing-with-radicalized-black-men-hating-black-women-online/
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Information about black women/white men finances: http://www.businessinsider.com/this-is-the-highest-earning-type-of-interracial-couple-2012-2 Information about intermarriage Statistics: (CORRECTION: Black men intermarry at 25%. That's a FULL QUARTER of black men intermarrying: http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2015/06/12/interracial-marriage-who-is-marrying-out/ Who's Interracial Marriage Lasts: http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1741-3729.2008.00491.x/full
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THE QUESTION: Hey Christelyn, My middle name is Rob, you may use that on air if you wish to create a video about this email. I recently found your YouTube web videos and have been watching them steadily to gain insight into the world of interracial dating. I have never dated a black woman, but I would certainly like to. One of the reasons that I have yet to date outside my "race* " is that I live in northern Minnesota and unlike the rest of the country, the demographics of my hometown still overwhelming Caucasian. I plan on moving away when I finish up my degree in IT, so I don't think finding black women will be much of a problem wherever I end up. What I do think may present an obstacle and the reason I am writing to you, is that I am an Atheist. Now I don't want to get into the nuances of religion or philosophy; suffice it to say I am open to religion, but I have yet to be convinced of one. However, from the research I have been doing on the Web it seems that all things being equal, black women tend to be some of the more religious individuals throughout the country. How do you think that I should approach this subject while dating? I am not opposed to talking about religion, quite the contrary, as I love having debates with my friends some of whom are much more religious than I am. I am mostly concerned with not wanting to scare black women off or prematurely ending an otherwise pleasant conversation with one by using the "A-word." I realize that through years hearing misinformation about my subculture, very religious individuals can have detrimental preconceived notions about my beliefs or lack thereof, and become immediately defensive when someone challenges their faith, even with self-labels. Do you think I should bring up the issue of religion at all? What should I do if they bring up the issue? I know that this is a very sensitive issue for many people, and I would appreciate any insights you may offer. Thank you for all the work you do both on YouTube and the blog. You are a very intelligent, well spoken, and attractive woman, and I look forward to viewing more of your work in the future. Your husband is a very lucky man. Best wishes to you and yours, Rob *(an unfortunate construct of the 19th century that disregards the fact we are all human and ultimately originate in Africa) CHECK OUT THE BLOG! http://www.BeyondBlackWhite.com READY TO GET THE GUY OF YOUR DREAMS? http://www.GetTheGuy.co.uk/bbw
Shy to? Check out Matthew Hussey's "Get the Guy" video coaching series http://www.GetTheGuy.co.uk/bbw Visit the blog: http://www.BeyondBlackWhite.com The letters: Dear Christelyn, My name is Aaron Wade and I am a 21 year old college student. About a week ago a co-worker, J, introduced my to her cousin, M, who is black, and J said that M and I should go out. Well at first I thought that J was joking, but now I am not so sure. While I was checking M out, who I am very attracted to by the way, I noticed she was looking at me smiling and waving so I smiled and waved back. As the work night continued J told me a few things about M, like she is shy, and seemed to be encouraging me to ask M out; which I did not do that night because to opportunity never presented itself to me (if it did I could not tell). Two days later, when J worked again, I ask J if M was with her today, unfortunately she had went home. However, J told me that she would bring M by on Friday to see me. J did bring M by to see my on Friday but it was busy, I work in a restaurant, so I did not get a chance to talk to M. When J and M first walked up to me J said, "Aaron, guess who I brought." M kinda of smiled but did not really say anything. So my question is, does she like me? I can never tell if a girl likes me. I have never asked a girl out or been on a date because I am very shy and cannot tell if a girl likes me and is flirting with me. If she does like me, how do I ask her out? If she does say yes what should we do? (M is 19 so I cannot take her to a bar, or ask her if she would like to have a drink with me.) I know that this may seem like a lot of questions but I have never done anything like this before. Any help would be appreciated. And from the young woman... Hi admin am "A" from SA but would love to remain anonymous or you can use any name to replace mine, I admire your work and page before I knew about this page I used to think I was not normal or I was an outcast because I have always loved white men period since I was pre-school till now, I have dated 2 white guys before and things never worked out because their families and friends did not approve, that still has not stopped how I love vanilla guys so I have a situation now there's a guy from work who I love madly but he doesn't know am not even sure if he notices me or if he does like black girls, I can't stop thinking of him, missing him when he is not at work, bam tired of dying inside am tired of acting like I don't notice him, now I have a challenge am too shy to approach him and his best friend is my supervisor , now I would like to ask my supervisor if his friend is single married or committed because I have never seen a ring on his finger, if he is married or taken I will burry my feelings but if he is single I want to ask my supervisor to let him know how I feel about him, am not so brave to face him and am not sure if I can face his rejection in ky face if he does reject me, so I need advice from you and the readers how to best approach this matter and how to let him know how I feel, because I can't carryon bottling up inside I need advice, have a lovely day thank you!
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QOTW 40 and ready to mingle in Miami Letter Hello Christelyn Karazi, I am a 40 year old single mom ready to mingle ( son went to college ). I have not dated in years ( literally at least 8 years!!!) I ran across your blog and youtube. I am sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo happy you have not gone away. I need HELP. I live in Miami and am soooooooooooooooooo scared to attempt to date outside my "race". (not sure is that was proper term but)-- again I am soooo glad you are not gone. Do you have any recommended youtube advice already posted. I am sssssooooooooo tired of worried about what my family will say!!! I am 40!! As I look at other interracial relationships thriving and happy I think to myself....what in the hell am I waiting for? Well truth is im scared as hell and don't know where to begin. I love your blog!!! (is it called a blog? -- well I love what you do!!) Kudos to you!! Respectfully ...
Here's the letter: "My name is Erica I am 23 and my boyfriend's name is Ryan who is 24. We are both finishing up college as a nursing student and him as a petroleum engineer. We have been together for 2 years and 1 month now. We are going through extremely lows with our families, especially mine. My fathers is completely against me dating a Caucasian man. (My father was born back in the time of segregating and riots. He is a black panther). My father met him once and never tried to really get to know him. Ryan has longed to just have a chance to talk and get to know my dad. I never thought it was an issue to consider dating outside my race. We live in a pretty mixed area. My 2 brothers are also married with different ethnicity (Filipino and Hispanic). Long story short, my father disgrace me every time he knows I am with him. On fourth of July, I went to Ryan's house to study for nursing school. My father checked on me and I panicked. My family doesn't let Ryan come over so I have to sacrifice seeing him sometimes. I feel bad for lying of course, but I can't do what makes me happy. I please my parents a lot more than I do for myself. This one time that I find pure happiness, they go against it completely. I love Ryan with every ounce of me. It has been extremely hard being in my first interracial relationship. I do not regret meeting him because he has brought such joy in my life. My parents tend to stress me out more than anyone. I am a nursing student and I have a lot of pressure on me. I have always been pressured by my parents with school. Of course we aren't very expressive because my parents see one way. So it is hard for me to express how I feel with them. My questions is, what should I do? I do not want to say goodbye to Ryan, but how do I stand against this? This has been heavy on my heart and I feel like it is all too much. I just want to be happy with peace. My parents tend to do that opposite of support me. What should I do? Any advice would help us both. Thank you for your time!"
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A race hustler used commentary I made on how interracial couples can communicate their feelings about racially-fueled tragedies without minimizing them or dismissing them. Instead of listening to the content of the video, this person used it as an opportunity to call me vile names and proceed to compare me to "Aunt Jemima" because I wore an Afrocentric headband. He then send legions of hateful black men and women who called me a BED WENCH, BITCH, C*NT, and even suggested I be shot. Yeah. Real mature, huh? Here's my response.
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