Podcast appearances and mentions of Matthew Hussey

One of the hardest things about people-pleasing is the fear of what might happen if you stop.What if someone gets upset? What if they pull away? What if the relationship changes?In this episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen explore why so many of us struggle to set boundaries, speak honestly about our needs, and tolerate conflict in our relationships. They discuss how people-pleasing often begins as a way of feeling safe, loved, and accepted, and why it can become such a difficult pattern to break.The conversation explores the hidden costs of constantly keeping the peace, the surprising rewards of disappointing people, and why authenticity tends to attract healthier relationships while exposing the ones that depend on your compliance.At the heart of the episode is a powerful question:Who is in your life because you always please them, and who is in your life because they genuinely love you?If you've ever struggled to say no, worried about letting people down, or felt responsible for everyone else's happiness, this episode is for you.---►► Matthew Hussey's free Three Relationships newsletter isn't just about dating—it's about creating a life you love. Get practical advice and heartfelt wisdom delivered to your inbox every Friday. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com►► Try Matthew AI for 24/7 coaching and advice anytime at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For years, when I signed copies of Get the Guy, I would write the same message: Never settle.I still believe we should never settle for bad behavior, mistreatment, or a relationship that doesn't make us happy. But over time, I've come to see the idea of "settling" a little differently.These days, we're surrounded by endless options. And while that sounds like a good thing, it can make us constantly wonder if there's someone better just around the corner. As a result, we end up overlooking genuinely great people because they don't meet every requirement on our list.In this episode, I explore the difference between settling for someone and settling on someone—and why that distinction may be one of the most important keys to happiness in love.If you've ever wondered whether your standards are helping you or hurting you, or whether you're waiting for a version of love that doesn't actually exist, this episode is for you.---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Red flags get all the attention in dating—but what about the warning signs that aren't dealbreakers?In this episode, Matthew and Stephen break down the difference between red flags and "amber lights" (or yellow flags), and why knowing the difference can save you from making a costly mistake.Some warning signs reveal a serious compatibility issue that shouldn't be ignored. Others may point to challenges that, when handled well, can actually strengthen a relationship.Join Matthew and Stephen as they put common dating scenarios to the test and explore how to tell the difference between a relationship that's worth investing in and one that's likely to cause heartache down the road.If you're dating someone new and trying to separate genuine concerns from normal relationship challenges, this episode is for you.---►► Matthew Hussey's free Three Relationships newsletter isn't just about dating it's about creating a life you love. Get practical advice and heartfelt wisdom delivered to your inbox every Friday. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome back to part 2 of this AMAZING conversation with my brother from another mother, Matthew Hussey!!And if you thought part 1 was good, we were just getting started!! In part 2, Matt and I keep going deeper into how to find and attract the right partner for you without lowering your standards or being inauthentic.We cover:- The 4 levels of importance & why they are leading you to waste time investing on the WRONG guy- How to avoid seeing everything as a red flag after heartbreak- Why getting vulnerable and sharing your insecurities with your partner is SO important- The importance of compassion and understanding in a relationship, but too much empathy can actually be dangerous- The healing powers of the RIGHT relationship- And so much more!! So don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Matthew Hussey. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!Follow Matthew Hussey:Website: https://matthewhussey.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteamFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another AMAAAAAZING episode of Women of Impact to help you stop wasting time with wrong guys (or gals) and break the cycle that has you stuck in the same broken patterns every single time!In today's episode I'm joined again by dating & relationship expert (and my long-time homie), Matthew Hussey. And today Matt is here to call out the bad relationship tips out there and instead give you a blueprint to ACTUALLY find love in your life and STOP doing the destructive things that are sending the WRONG message and keeping you in unhappy, and even toxic, relationships! In this episode, we're diving into:- The toxic dating advice out there that's doing you more harm than good- How your fear of being alone is keeping you trapped in unhealthy relationships- Why what attracts a partner doesn't always attract the RIGHT partner - Why you constantly invite bad people into your life & how you can break out of the cycle- How your mind plays tricks on you when it comes to relationships & safety- How to distinguish between expectations in a partner that will make you happy & those that just feed your egoAnd that's just in part 1 of this 2 part episode!So listen closely guys, this conversion with Matt is filled with SOOOOO many dating insights that you can use right away TODAY to make the small changes in your life that will actually make a big difference in your love life and help you find the right partner for you! Follow Matthew Hussey:Website: https://matthewhussey.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteamFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sometimes attraction fades not because there wasn't chemistry… but because we accidentally kill the tension too early.In this episode, Matthew shares 3 common mistakes that can quietly hurt desire in dating and relationships—and how to avoid them before a connection fizzles out.These are subtle patterns that are easy to miss in the moment, but once you see them, you'll start spotting them everywhere.If you've ever wondered why someone seemed interested at first and then slowly pulled away, this episode will help you understand what may have changed.---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this live conversation, Jay sits down at the AT&T Performing Arts Center in Dallas with Matthew Hussey for an honest and refreshing discussion about modern love, dating, and relationships. Together, they unpack why dating feels so exhausting today, how we confuse chemistry with emotional chaos, and why real connection is often quieter, steadier, and healthier than we expect. Their conversation challenges the idea of “finding the one” and instead reminds us that great relationships are something we build over time through trust, consistency, and emotional maturity. From setting healthy standards to learning how to communicate your needs without fear, this episode is full of relatable insights for anyone navigating love in today’s world. Jay and Matthew also explore the importance of self-worth, emotional safety, and trusting yourself enough to walk away from relationships that no longer serve you. It’s a thoughtful reminder that love shouldn’t make you lose yourself, and that the right relationship should help you feel more like yourself than ever before. In this episode, you'll learn: How to Stop Chasing Chemistry How to Set Healthy Standards How to Communicate Your Needs Clearly How to Trust Yourself Again How to Date Without Losing Yourself How to Break Toxic Dating Patterns How to Create a Strong Relationship The right relationship will never require you to abandon yourself, shrink your needs, or constantly prove your worth. Real love grows through honesty, patience, consistency, and the courage to stay true to who you are. Listen to the Love Life with Matthew Hussey podcast for more modern dating tips. Visit https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-life-with-matthew-hussey/id1064051384 With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty JAY’S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:18 How to Stay Open to Love 05:08 Is Chemistry Actually Misleading? 11:22 Healthy Standards vs Unrealistic Expectations 15:48 Are Your Needs Being Met? 22:14 How Do You Know They’re the One? 26:42 Why Great Relationships Take Discipline 31:13 Should Relationships Feel Hard? 34:29 Why Communication Feels So Difficult 37:59 Chemistry vs Compatibility 39:14 When Should You Meet Friends and Family? 40:13 Keeping Your Relationship Off Social Media 42:37 The Secret to a Lasting Marriage 45:00 It’s Not Your Job to Fix Someone 50:36 The Need to Stay in Control 57:27 What Overgiving Is Really Costing You Episode Resources: Website | https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9HGzFGt7BLmWDqooUbWGBg Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@thematthewhussey X | https://twitter.com/matthewhusseySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Matthew and Stephen Hussey break down the real reasons this happens in dating and relationships—from emotional unavailability and low self-worth to the ways we may unintentionally push someone away ourselves.They talk about:Why some people lose interest once they feel they've “won” youWhy emotionally unavailable people struggle with closenessHow overinvesting too early can change the dynamicAnd how to tell the difference between someone pulling away because of them… or because of unhealthy patterns in the relationshipIf you've ever felt confused, rejected, or anxious when someone suddenly became distant, this episode will help you understand what's really going on. ---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we explore one of the biggest questions we face in love: is finding a meaningful relationship about meeting the right person… or about becoming truly ready for one?I talk about why so many of us unknowingly sabotage relationships while searching for perfection, chasing instant chemistry, or simply trying to avoid loneliness. I share the subtle signs that someone is emotionally ready for commitment, the difference between real connection and projection, and why modern “fast-food dating” culture can leave us feeling more disconnected than ever.We also dive into:Why timing matters so much in relationshipsThe difference between being lonely and being ready for loveHow idealizing people sets us up for disappointmentThe quieter qualities that actually make someone a great partnerWhy real relationships require curiosity, patience, and emotional generosityIf you've ever wondered why dating feels frustrating, why promising connections lose momentum, or whether you're truly ready for love, this episode will give you a completely new perspective on relationships and what it takes to build one that lasts.---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1490DM Matthew Hussey delves into the reasons why relationships sometimes fail. He offers a candid and insightful exploration of common pitfalls and challenges that can hinder romantic connections. Hussey discusses issues such as miscommunication, unmet expectations, and the importance of self-awareness in fostering healthy relationships. His engaging discussion aims to shed light on the dynamics that can contribute to the breakdown of relationships and offers valuable advice for individuals looking to improve their relationship skills and experiences. Sign up for the Greatness newsletter! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What if you were given a human being and that human was in your ‘custody’ would you do everything in your power to take good care of her? In this episode of The Art of Living Big, Betsy emphasizes that loving yourself isn't a feeling but an approach and a job, built through repetitive, practical daily acts. The custody and care of you is up to you, don’t hand that job off. Have a listen and allow the profound message in this podcast really sink in. Transcript:  Welcome to The Art of Living Big, where we explore how to live intentionally and with more joy. I’m Betsy Pake, your host, master, coach, and creator of the Navigate Method. Here to help you listen in to your true desires, elevate your standards, and live life to the fullest. Now, let’s go live big Hi everyone. Welcome to the show Today. I saw something online this week. I saw something and I think it was kind of an old clip. It was something that Drew Barrymore shared. And , I wanna tell you about it and I wanna kind of talk about this. ’cause I’ve been thinking about it and it was like, weirdly not, she had somebody on the show that isn’t somebody that I’m almost embarrassed to say, I don’t even know who this guy is. I guess he’s an actor. I’m gonna say his name and then you’re gonna be like, how does Betsy not know that? But I don’t, , so I saw it and then I thought about it and then it was the kind of thing where I must have, it must have really. Hit something. ’cause I thought about it and woke up in the middle of the night thinking about it. Do you know what I mean? When you’re trying to put something in the appropriate bucket in your brain? So. I was scrolling and I came upon this clip that Drew Barrymoore shared from her show, and it was this guy named Matthew Hussy. . Hussy Hussy, I think. And he said. And I went back to watch the clip and I want, I’m gonna get it as close as I can. But what he said was, imagine that you got handed a human being at the beginning of your life and your one job, like the one job for the rest of your life is to take care of that human. And most of us don’t realize that that’s our job. So we finish being parented. And then we kind of walk out into the world looking for somebody else to show up for us. But the truth is, we are our human. The only person who is here to take care of me is me. And then he said she’s in my custody. The custody word, I think is the part that really stuck with me, you know? I have been thinking recently and , if you’ve been here for a while, you know, I was married for a long time and , decided to leave my marriage, I don’t know, maybe about five years ago. And then after a short period of time, six months or something like that, decided to come back, I had hope that maybe things could change or work out. And then after a couple years I realized that they weren’t, and I had the wisdom to leave. Fully. And one of the things that I have personally been grappling with, I guess you could say, is the idea that I don’t feel, and I bet many of you feel like this too, I don’t feel like any time in my life has there really been somebody that was. Looking out for me or taking care of me. There was, when I was young, when my mom died when I was 16, I think that shifted and I became hyper independent. I know so many of you are that same way. I know we are the same, but hyper independent, which I could go down a whole rabbit hole about why that is really appealing too. , People with different attachment styles really like hyper independence, but I always have been able to do everything on my own. I’ve always been able to, , pay my own bills and do my own thing and make my own decisions and all, all of these things. And I’ve been thinking recently. As I have been packing up a lot of my stuff, I’m gonna get ready to leave to move to the beach in August. So I still have a little bit of time here. , And there’s several really good reasons why I am delaying. I have a retreat that I wanna focus on and some other things I have to give 60 days notice at my apartment. And the timing just worked out really well to, to give it in July and to leave in Midaugust. So when I think about this, as I have been going through old papers and pictures and all of this stuff, I have really been thinking about , is there, is there ever, is there ever a moment where I’m going to meet someone who. I wanna say like wants to, wants, that’s, this is the ideal word, to take care of me. And I don’t think I’m, I know I’m not looking for somebody, I’m absolutely not looking for anybody right now. But I would like to be open to the idea that someday I would meet somebody who could really, truly meet me where I’m at. I’m no longer willing to. Bend or make accommodations for somebody, it has to be right. Okay. So I have been thinking this thought of like, is there gonna be somebody that could take care of me? And then I hear this, the only person who is here to take care of me is me. She is in my custody, and I wanna talk about what that word means because I’ve thought about it a lot. And what it means for women in the kind of decision that so many of you, I think are in, because if you have been following along on my Instagram or, or maybe just been here for a long time, like that decision of trying to figure out whether to stay or leave your marriage might be right, top of mind, right? And so that whole idea of. She is in my custody may land a little bit differently for you and I wanna walk through kind of the why. So, , here’s how I see this. Like the math kind of goes, like goes like this. If he would just see me, I would be okay if he would just do the work. I would be okay if the marriage would heal. Right then I could make this be okay. Or if he became the kind of man that I have been hoping he would become, then I could finally, ah, feel safe. I could finally like rest. Right, and I’m gonna guess that you’re a lot like me, but I don’t feel like I’ve ever really rested. I think when I was in high school, if I took a nap on the couch, somebody would be like, get productive. Do you know what I mean? Like I, is there ever gonna be a place where I can finally rest where my human, the one I’m supposed to be taken care of, would finally get taken care of? And I have been so good at that taking care of myself that even now when I say I wonder if there’s ever a time where I’m going to meet someone who would want, and this is such an important, who would want, this is the important part to take care of me. I don’t need to be taken care of, but I want somebody to want to. And underneath all that math of like, what I could be okay. I could, , I could rest, I could catch my breath underneath all that. I, don’t, I don’t even feel, and even when I look back on my own journey, I don’t feel like there is anger. It’s, maybe not even sadness, but it is exhaustion. It’s like, it feels like a kind of tired. Like where all your blood’s been drained outta your body, like in your bones. People say like bone, I’m bone tired. When you have been waiting for somebody to meet you or to come and pick you up, and they keep not coming or they keep saying, I’m coming, but they never do. And you just , keep adjusting. You keep telling yourself like, okay, maybe today, maybe he’ll hear me. Maybe this will be the time that they will finally understand maybe there’s like this one next conversation that’s gonna make all of this happen. Or a therapy they’re gonna decide to go to. I wanna say they, ’cause it could be a man, it could be a woman they will go to. Maybe it’s a new book. And the reason that you’re tired is not because the marriage is hard. I mean it, it’s likely really hard, but that is not why you’re tired. You’re tired because nobody has been minding you. Nobody’s been minding your shop. Not him, but not you either, because a long time ago. You handed that job over. So you know, when I heard Matthew Hussey say she’s in my custody, the word custody, it’s a legal word, right? It’s a very formal sounding word. It is the word that we use. I think when we’re talking about like deep responsibility. Right when we’re talking about whose responsibility a person actually is, like who’s on the hook? Like who’s gonna feed ’em and get ’em outta bed and keep them safe? And when I heard him say that, my brain went right to lawyers and courthouse. My former husband was an attorney. So like, I immediately was like, we think about. Custody arrangements or language that we use about children in divorce. And then I was kind of like, oh, I didn’t have children with my former husband that was an attorney. I had children with my other former husband because I’m very chic and I’ve had a couple. But that wording made me go, oh, I do have a human in my custody. I have her, like right here. I have me and she has been with me my whole life and I have been pretending that someone else was on the case, right? That someone else was gonna do this like that. If I could be paying attention to them, they would be paying attention to me. And I, I sat with that , for a long time because I was like, well, I don’t know. That feels nice. I would be paying attention to them and they would be paying attention to me. That feels really good to me. But the trick I think is knowing, and I thought about this for a long time and I thought about all the women that I work with, right? Women in this same exact place, maybe a place where you are. And I realized that this. Is what is sitting in the middle of every single clarity decision that I have ever sat with another woman in my program. Right? Is the, is it true that if I’m taking care of him and he’s taking care of me, everything will be okay? And that may be true, but the trick is to be partnered with someone who is doing the other side of that. Or to be able to take care of yourself first and give the overflow to someone else, and that feels a little bit more aligned when I start thinking about it and feeling through what is correct for me. What is correct for me? You decide what is correct for you because the truth is, and when I sit with so many women in this decision, is that they have done that side of it. The side of, I’m gonna take care of you, I’m gonna make sure you’re okay. And the house is okay, and the kids are okay, and the bills are paid and the lawnmower gets done, and the scheduling of the dentist appointments happen and the food is prepared and picked up from the grocery store and planned it. Like, I’m gonna do all of that. But then the other side is never happening. And if you’ve been waiting for him to take custody, maybe not consciously, maybe you would never use that word. I mean, that word stuck out to me, right? ’cause it’s not a word I would have used. But when you trace the thread of what it is that you’ve been hoping for, I think of that. Is actually what’s at the end of that rope, right at the end of that thread. And so if you have been hoping that if he changed you would be okay. You have been hoping that if the marriage got fixed, that your insides would settle down . You would have been hoping that if he just could see you finally the way you wanna be seen, that part of you that has been alone. For a really long time would not be alone anymore. And when I have been thinking about this over the last couple weeks, since I saw that last week or so, is that even if he became the absolute best possible version of himself, even if he did all the work, even if he showed up exactly the way that you have been asking. The job was still always yours. He cannot take custody. Even the best version of him can’t like custody is, yours. He can love you. He can show up, he can witness you, he can be a partner, but none of that is custody. Custody is the day-to-day work of keeping a human alive and well. And nobody can do that for you. Not because they don’t love you enough or love isn’t real or it’s fake or any of those things. Not because partnership is fake, but because that’s just how being a human being works. The job was assigned to you the day that you got here. And the part , that Matthew said that I lingered on. Also, and that I wanna talk about here is the part where I think kind of shift when we’re in pain. And he said, loving yourself is not a feeling. It’s an approach. It’s a job. So you don’t even have to like yourself today to love yourself. And I was like. You don’t have to like yourself today to love yourself today. And when you’re in a season of things, being really, really hard and loving yourself starts to depend on a feeling, then that’s where I think you’re like screwed. Because feelings change every day. They do not cooperate. I would love my feelings to cooperate. But they don’t always cooperate. And so then you’re in a season where you wake up and you don’t feel like the version of you that you used to be, and you wake up and you feel like you don’t like her, and you wake up and you feel like you don’t really recognize her anymore. Well, if loving her, if taking custody of her depends on you liking yourself first, then you’re never. Gonna choose her. You’re gonna wait for the day when you wake up and you feel confident. And that’s still , not how it works. I so wish that it was, I so wish that it was, I posted on Instagram yesterday about my process of cleaning out some bins that were in storage and going through the bins and finding these old pictures, I mean. Pictures from high school, pictures from college, not a lot of pictures from college, pictures from early in my twenties. A lot of those, and there was this version of me that was so hopeful that somebody would love her and pick up the pieces where somebody else had left off. And I think I waited in a lot of ways and I allowed. People that weren’t, well, first of all, they weren’t equipped for the job because that was me that was equipped for the job. But they, were waiting for somebody to take over, and I stepped in and did that, and that just depleted me even more. And so every morning when I woke up, of course I didn’t feel confident, of course, I didn’t feel like I liked me. I was exhausted and depleted. And that’s not. A flaw in me, in her, that version of me. It was just somebody that wanted to be loved. But that again, it’s an inside job and it’s a job you get to do, and it’s a job that requires you not to actually feel anything. I know that sounds weird, but you don’t have to feel like it. You know, we feed our kids even though we don’t feel like it. Right. There were so many days I wanted to be like ketchup packets for everybody, but people need to eat every damn day. I’m like, it’s never ending. You people always need to eat. We have custody. We do the thing that we need to do to take care of them, and you can still show up on a day where you don’t have faith in yourself. And I think that liking yourself. It shows up when you start showing her she’s important. It’s like a result of that job, not like a prerequisite for that job. And so when I was going through my storage bin and I was wondering like, when did this shift happen? I mean the grief I went through over those two weekends of going through those photos and yearbooks. You know, I, I think I, I was trying to figure out was there a moment, and I think it goes like this, right? You’re like a little girl. Your parents take care of you. You grow up, you learn what love looks like by watching them. , And then, you grow up a little more and then you leave home and then. That next chapter where you really step into your life and become an adult and a woman and , you, perhaps you partner. And in that partnering up, like in that marriage, somewhere in there, the job of taking care of you, transfers. And I think it’s baked into how we are culturally shaped. So it’s not something that. I think biologically now there’s maybe a piece of biological of taking care of somebody else, but not abandoning ourselves. It’s not a guidebook. Someone says, okay, so now here’s where you’re gonna abandon yourself. So you could have made the choice. It was just like baked into how we do things. So, you walk outta your parents’ house holding a human in your arms, and that human is yours. And the marriage is not the place where that human of yours gets handed off. The marriage is a place where you bring her with you, where she comes with you, ’cause she is yours. And I think what happens is a lot of times women, by the time they get to me, have been carrying around this, like, hope that someday somebody would notice the human in their arms and, and pick them up. You know that their husband or their partner or their wife, their career even like somebody, somebody finally take her so that they could rest. And that’s, I think, the part that makes clarity so freaking hard. It’s probably why we avoid it because we’re like, oh my God, , I allowed this, I, , and I. I am not taking him off the hook or her off the hook. Trust me, I’m, I’m just saying there is a point where we can stop and if we haven’t stopped it, then there’s something else. part of getting clear is realizing that the someone who is supposed to take care of her was never going to, if it wasn’t you. ’cause the job wasn’t his, the job wasn’t your partner’s, it was yours. Okay, so let’s just assume that we’re all on the same page here. The custody of you is you and you’ve gotta take care of her first, and then the overflow can go to everybody else. And that is not what we’re taught and that is not what we’re modeled. So now here you are with this job on your hands that you’re like, I don’t know how to do this really. , Sometimes I see these posts like on Instagram where it’s like self-care and it’s like someone getting a pedicure or whatever. No shame to that. I do that when I have a in, but it’s not just, , manicures and bubble baths. Like sometimes it has those things for sure. But that is not the work. The work is actually a whole lot more boring than that. The work is these little questions. You know, inside Instagram, when I do those talking reels, I always say, this is your North Star. That’s the work, like that’s the job. And I think it can start out with really small things like, did I feed her well today? Did I let her sleep last night? Did I move her body like even a little bit? Did I take her for a walk? Did I get sunlight and fresh air? Did I let her say the thing that she actually thinks today? Or did I make her jump around and perform? Did I keep her around? People who drained her? Did I tell her not to cry when she needed to? Did I let her say no to something like that’s, the work. That’s the job. It’s small, it’s boring. It’s very, very repetitive. I think it’s very much like taking care of a child that you love and most of taking care of a child that you love is not like the birthday parties and the special things at school. It’s the. 8,000 million peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, or the laundry or the reading, the QuickBook at bedtime, right? It’s just showing up for them. And the job of being your own custodian I think is the same. It’s these small little acts of showing up for the human that’s in your custody. You know, last month I got my teeth cleaned. And I don’t know why our insurance doesn’t cover the bones in our teeth. Those teeth bones are different, but last year I spent probably about $7,000 on my teeth. I’ve mentioned this before. I had to get my teeth cleaned twice. I had to get some x-rays. I needed a crown. I had two cavities that needed to be replaced from my youth and I got Invisalign and then I had to get a retainer and all of that added up. Even as I say it, it was likely more than, it was a lot of money. It was a lot of money. It was, that was my investment in myself last year and when I went to get my teeth cleaned last month, they no longer had like the in-house. Insurance. It was like 350 bucks and that covered two of your cleanings and your x-rays and they didn’t have that. And so when I went to check out, I said, well, I wanna renew my insurance. And they said, oh, we don’t do that anymore. It’s 600 bucks. But they didn’t tell me before. And at first I was like annoyed. I’m still probably a little annoyed. I would have done it anyway. But to have known would have been nice. But the job of being my own custodian would have been the same. I take care of my teeth because that is what she requires, and it is boring and it’s annoying ’cause that costs more money than I wanted. No, pedicures are manicures for me this month. And so I wanna say, this. If you cannot answer yes to a lot of those questions that I just asked. Like, do you let her sleep? Do you let her rest? Do you bring her for a walk? Do you let her get sunlight? I, I want to, to say, if you cannot say yes to those, it’s not a sign that you’re a bad person. It’s just a sign that you need to take the job back. It’s like the moment of recognition that you wake up and you go, oh, that, that job has been mine. And there is the practical side of dentist appointments and mammograms, and there is the other side of the small daily repetitive, boring things that we have to do to take custody of ourselves. And when we do that and we show ourselves that she is valuable, that she is worthy of investment, that she’s worthy of taking care of, then I think it’s easier to start to put her first and give the overflow to everyone else and there will be enough overflow. That may be the question in the back of your mind. If you are such a good custodian, there will be overflow. And then everyone flourishes. Nobody is depleted. And so if you’re sitting in this question of like, do I stay or do I go right? , The question that’s in your head typically is gonna be something like, but he’s a good guy. Is he good? , Is he bad? He’s not bad. I’m like, does he love me? Uh, I don’t,, I don’t know. I is, did I do enough? Is he enough? Is he gonna change? Am I being fair? Am I being too harsh? Am I too hard on him? Maybe I want something more than I need, like maybe I’m asking for too much. Maybe I should just be happy. He’s a good provider, right? I hear this all the time. So the conversation is about him. It’s always about him. So I wanna give you a different question. Take the question away from him. The question is, in the marriage that you currently have, is your human getting taken care of? Not by him, by you? Are you allowing yourself to be your own custodian inside this house? That’s the question. It’s not. Is he a good husband? It’s not. Is he trying? It’s not, does he love you? Those questions can come later, but the question in the room that you currently live in is, can you do the job that is yours? Can you feed her? Let her sleep in, take her out, get her some fresh air and a sunshine on her face. Let her cry. Can you keep her around? People who do not drain her now? In some marriages and I this last month, we’ve had several people come through the Navigate method that their marriage has really been renewed. It’s so awesome to see. And when they shifted to them, the answer was yes. The marriage is not the problem with custody. You can do your job and he can be his own person, and then you both function as humans next to each other in other marriages, the answer is no. When you start taking care of yourself, then you see that the answer is no, not because he’s a bad person, but because the structure of the marriage as it currently is, keeps you from taking care of yourself. So she can’t speak, she can’t rest. She can’t stay, no, she can’t be in the room as herself. And so it’s not necessarily that he’s a villain or you have to decide if he’s a good guy or a bad guy. It’s is the human that you have custody of safe in your custody. That’s the question. So the good news here, I think, is that the job that you have been given of being the custodian has always been doable. You can do it. You can do it even on days where you don’t feel like yourself, even on days where you’re exhausted, even on days where you just don’t feel like it. But you can wake up tomorrow and ask yourself the one question, which is, what would I do today if I was actually taking care of my human? And then do that one thing. And then the next day ask it again, and then the next day and the next day, until the woman that you have been waiting for somebody else to take care of, starts to recognize that she is finally home, that she has been picked up by you. And I think that is how you live a big life. Thanks so much for being here with me. I will see you all next week. i. Thanks for joining me on The Art of Living Big. I hope today’s episode sparked something within you, maybe pushed you to dream a little bit bigger and live a little larger. Don’t forget to subscribe. Leave us a review and share this podcast with someone you know who might need a little inspiration today. You can find me over on Instagram at Betsy Pake and on my YouTube channel. Remember, the world is vast. Your potential is endless, and your life, it’s yours to shape. Until next time, keep reaching, keep exploring, and keep living big.

What if your looks aren't the real reason you're struggling in dating?In this episode, we unpack the belief that you're “not attractive enough” and how that thought turns into a cycle of anxiety that keeps shifting from one insecurity to the next. We talk about why fixing your appearance won't create lasting confidence, how to stop chasing validation, and what actually matters when it comes to finding love.If you've ever felt overlooked or like you don't get the same attention as others, this episode will help you rethink your value and how to date with it.---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com►► Watch the Replay of my FREE event "The Year Of Love". It is not too late to change your year, and this is the place to do it JoinYearOfLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dating apps can make it feel like we're competing with endless options… while somehow no one is actually trying.In this episode, Matthew explores the frustrating reality of modern dating—why people seem flaky, why effort feels one-sided, and how dating apps can distort your perception of rejection and connection. But what if the problem isn't that no one is trying… it's that everyone is waiting? Matthew breaks down how a small shift in your approach can change everything and how to know when it's time to stop investing altogether.If dating apps have been leaving you discouraged or emotionally drained, this episode will help you approach dating with more confidence and intention.---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com►► Sign up for my upcoming FREE "Year Of Love" virtual event happening on April 21. It is not too late to change your year, and this is the place to do it JoinYearOfLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We often tell ourselves we'll focus on love “when things calm down”… when we have more time, more energy, or a fresh start.But what if that moment never comes?In this episode, Matthew shares five powerful mindsets to help you stop waiting and start making progress in your love life now. From understanding how overwhelm quietly keeps us stuck, to letting go of the illusion of the “perfect time,” this conversation is about learning how to take action in the middle of a busy, imperfect life.If you've been putting your love life on hold or feeling like there's never enough time or space to focus on it, this episode will help you start moving forward.---►► Matthew Hussey's free Three Relationships newsletter isn't just about dating—it's about creating a life you love. Get practical advice and heartfelt wisdom delivered to your inbox every Friday. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Many people think commitment is only about timing, but readiness for a relationship is really shaped by feeling truly seen, understood, and safe...In this conversation, Matthew and Audrey explore why so many people feel discouraged about commitment in modern dating. They unpack the belief that no one wants a real relationship anymore, what actually influences someone to become ready for commitment, and how the right dynamic can bring out a more authentic, relationship-ready version of someone.If you've been wondering whether commitment is still possible, or how to tell the difference between real potential and wasted time, this episode will help you better understand what makes someone move from uncertainty to choosing a relationship.---►► Matthew Hussey's free Three Relationships newsletter isn't just about dating—it's about creating a life you love. Get practical advice and heartfelt wisdom delivered to your inbox every Friday. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Whether you're in a relationship, single, or heartbroken, you'll want to hear this juicy conversation with the love guru himself! Renowned relationship coach and author Matthew Hussey sits down with Krista to talk about all things attraction, power dynamics, and modern dating. Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast. With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes. Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday. If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

¿Y si tu “tipo” no fuera una brújula, sino una trampa? Arrancamos con una imagen sencilla: comprar una casa solo por el color de las cortinas. Suena absurdo… hasta que lo aplicas a las relaciones de pareja y te das cuenta de cuántas veces descartamos cimientos (carácter, estabilidad, trabajo en equipo) por detalles anecdóticos que no sostienen un martes por la tarde.Con ideas que Matthew Hussey retoma de un análisis en The Atlantic, nos metemos a la psicología de las citas modernas y las apps de citas: el razonamiento motivado, ese modo “abogado” del cerebro que decide por atracción física y luego arma argumentos para justificarlo. También cuestionamos por qué las listas infinitas de filtros no te protegen, y te proponemos una estructura más limpia: tres filtros que sí importan para elegir pareja. Hablamos de esfuerzo real (consistencia y presencia), madurez emocional (responsabilidad, vulnerabilidad y manejo del conflicto) y atracción base (un sí tranquilo, sin perseguir fuegos artificiales).Luego tocamos lo más difícil: soltar el molde. Muchas veces no defendemos un tipo, defendemos una historia que el ego quiere cumplir, reforzada por presión social y la mirada de redes (sí, hasta el soft launch). Cerramos con una pregunta que se extiende a tu vida entera, y compartimos un recurso gratuito para quien viene de una ruptura: Heal From Heartbreak en heartbreakplan.com. Si esto te movió el piso, suscríbete, comparte el episodio y déjanos una reseña: ¿qué filtro vas a cambiar a partir de hoy?Send a textSupport the showTuSaludMental.net

It's easy to get swept up by chemistry and start investing in someone before they've actually shown they're committed. When that happens, we don't just lose perspective… we start obsessing.In this episode, Matthew breaks down why we spiral in the first few weeks with someone new, and what it really takes to slow down without “playing games.” Matthew shares 3 practical shifts that help you get your power back when it feels like options are limited and this person is a rare opportunity you can't lose—so you don't settle for the wrong one out of urgency.---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever noticed the moment it happens?You meet someone, you're fine… and then suddenly you really like them and you start editing yourself. You become agreeable. Overly available. “Easy.” And it feels like you're being kind… but something about it is quietly costing you.In this episode, Matthew breaks down the switch that flips when someone becomes “important,” and why the urge to be extra nice is often just high-stakes fear in disguise. He explains how people-pleasing doesn't create closeness: it creates blandness, resentment, and relationships where you can't be yourself.If you've ever felt yourself shrinking to keep someone, this episode is your reminder: real love requires you, not your performance. ---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you keep attracting the wrong people or sabotaging good relationships, this masterclass reveals why.Lewis brings together the most powerful insights from Esther Perel, Jillian Turecki, Matthew Hussey, Baya Voce, and Mel Robbins to show you how your unhealed wounds are running your love life.You'll learn why you chase what hurts you, how your nervous system sabotages connection, and what it actually takes to stop repeating the same painful cycles. The path to lasting love starts with understanding yourself first, learning to regulate your emotions, and choosing partners who can help you heal rather than partners who keep you broken.Make Money Easy: Create Financial Freedom and Live a Richer LifeThe Greatness Mindset: Unlock the Power of Your Mind and Live Your Best Life TodayThe Mask of Masculinity: How Men Can Embrace Vulnerability, Create Strong Relationships, and Live Their Fullest LivesThe School of Greatness: A Real-World Guide to Living Bigger, Loving Deeper, and Leaving a LegacyIn this episode you will:Identify what role you played in past relationship failures instead of only blaming your exRecognize when your childhood wounds are triggering fights about cardboard boxes or daily frustrationsUnderstand why depending on your partner for happiness creates catastrophic disappointmentDiscover how play and humor keep relationships alive when everything else feels deadTransform conflict into healing by learning to tolerate uncomfortable emotions in your bodyFor more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1891For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Esther PerelMatthew HusseyMel Robbins Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Welcome back to part 2 of this awesome conversation with dating and confidence coach Matthew Hussey!  The EYE-OPENING insights into dating, cheating, and overall life happiness just DON'T. STOP. COMING!!!!  We're covering:  - 5 reasons WHY you say YES to people that are bad for you - How the EMPOWERING idea of being “happy enough” can help you take your MAGIC back - Why toxic guys are WORSE than a drug addiction  - The HARSH reasons why you're NOT holding him to your standards  Ohhhhh girl, this one is goooooood, you won't want to miss it!!!  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Pre-Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this awesome conversation with dating and confidence coach Matthew Hussey!  The EYE-OPENING insights into dating, cheating, and overall life happiness just DON'T. STOP. COMING!!!!  We're covering:  - 5 reasons WHY you say YES to people that are bad for you - How the EMPOWERING idea of being “happy enough” can help you take your MAGIC back - Why toxic guys are WORSE than a drug addiction  - The HARSH reasons why you're NOT holding him to your standards  Ohhhhh girl, this one is goooooood, you won't want to miss it!!!  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Pre-Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What's up, guys! It's Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is SO DAMN FIRE and alllllllll about dealing with heartbreak and cheating and coming out better on the other side.  Today I'm joined again by my super close homie Matthew Hussey. You may know him as a world-leading dating and confidence coach who shares authentic, insightful, and practical advice to help women not only find love, but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness! This time, we're talking about eeeeevery woman's WORST nightmare - the crushing event of being cheated on.  We dig into…  - The signs in your relationship that they may betray you, and why you might be ignoring them - How to tell the difference between a bad choice vs. a character flaw - Dealing with the SHAME and BLAME of being betrayed    - Why avoiders are worse than liars, and how YOU might be HELPING them - How to escape the “victim” mentality and protect your self-esteem and self-worth if they ARE unfaithful - The REAL reason you're NOT asking the TOUGH questions  LISTEN CLOSE and get ready to have your mind blown! Because I'm telling you homie, this interview had EVEN ME seeing cheating in a completely different way, and that says A LOTTTT coming from me!! Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Pre-Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What's up, guys! It's Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is SO DAMN FIRE and alllllllll about dealing with heartbreak and cheating and coming out better on the other side.  Today I'm joined again by my super close homie Matthew Hussey. You may know him as a world-leading dating and confidence coach who shares authentic, insightful, and practical advice to help women not only find love, but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness! This time, we're talking about eeeeevery woman's WORST nightmare - the crushing event of being cheated on.  We dig into…  - The signs in your relationship that they may betray you, and why you might be ignoring them - How to tell the difference between a bad choice vs. a character flaw - Dealing with the SHAME and BLAME of being betrayed    - Why avoiders are worse than liars, and how YOU might be HELPING them - How to escape the “victim” mentality and protect your self-esteem and self-worth if they ARE unfaithful - The REAL reason you're NOT asking the TOUGH questions  LISTEN CLOSE and get ready to have your mind blown! Because I'm telling you homie, this interview had EVEN ME seeing cheating in a completely different way, and that says A LOTTTT coming from me!! Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Pre-Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Matthew Hussey is the world's #1 dating coach, a YouTuber, public speaker and an author. How do you know if you're with the right person — or just telling yourself you are? If you're questioning the relationship more than enjoying it, Matthew Hussey might have the clarity you need. So what does finding your person actually look like, and what signs should you pay attention to? Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/deals⁠ Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/books⁠ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: ⁠https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom⁠ Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠https://tinyurl.com/43hv6y59⁠ #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠https://tinyurl.com/2rtz7avf⁠ #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠https://tinyurl.com/3ccn5vkp⁠ - Get In Touch: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast⁠ Email: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/contact⁠ - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Everyone wants to stand out on a first date… especially when it feels like the person across from you has endless options. But the real way to become unforgettable isn't performing, impressing, or saying the “right” thing—it's creating genuine connection.In this episode, Matthew shares three powerful techniques that instantly make your conversations feel more memorable. If you've ever walked away from a date wondering “Did I do enough?”… this episode will help you show up with confidence, presence, and real emotional impact.---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever had an insecurity, a jealousy, or something that hurt you or made you feel threatened, but you didn't know the right way to bring it up? Of course you have. We all have. Maybe you're feeling that right now. It can be terrifying, can't it?Well, here's the good news . . . being vulnerable can actually create a deeper bond with someone, as well as reveal if they're the right person for you in the first place. The bad news is that if we're not careful, constructive vulnerability can mutate into what I call “dumping.”This episode will reveal what you can do if you're worried you've fallen into this trap, or are about to . . .---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What's your biggest regret in life? Is it a mistake you continue to dwell on? A path you realize you should've taken? A person you wish you hadn't given so much time to? And if you had the opportunity, would you go back in time and do something differently? Or would you take this Cormac McCarthy quote to heart: “You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from”? Regret is more than a sad, wistful daydream. It can cause us a tremendous amount of pain today and actually prevent us from enjoying our lives. If you're holding on to any kind of regret, you can't miss this episode. ---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Narcissists walk among us . . . but what makes us stay with such people?In the beginning, sadly, many people fail to see the long-term damage a relationship with a narcissist (or narcissistically inclined person) can cause. From confidence to superficial charm or even intensity, it's easy to mistake narcissistic traits as positive ones in the beginning of a relationship. But after quickly sucking you in, they gaslight you, make you forget yourself, and cause you to start justifying all kinds of toxic behavior. All in the name of control disguised as love.If you've been in a relationship that has made you question your sanity, this episode is for you . . .---►► The Year of Love is happening next week on Tuesday, January 20. Discover the simple 4-step action plan for finding your person in 2026. Sign up for this free virtual event in 5 seconds at MHYearOfLove.com►► Matthew Hussey's free Three Relationships newsletter isn't just about dating—it's about creating a life you love. Get practical advice and heartfelt wisdom delivered to your inbox every Friday. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you tired of wasting time on relationships that go nowhere? It's time to arm yourself with the skills and knowledge you need to have a better dating life. So. I'm bringing you the best conversations I've had right here on Women of Impact with relationship expert Matthew Hussey. Join us as we tackle the tough questions and provide real solutions for women who are tired of dating the wrong men and tired of the painful aftermath every time. If we're honest ladies, sometimes it's the men, but sometimes we're the ones causing our own painful demise.  We're digging into the complexities of narcissistic behaviors, toxic traits, and diagnosing relationship problems. Plus, we address the vulnerability dilemma - how to open up without feeling judged, embarrassed, or shamed. Get ready to boost your confidence when it comes to asking the hard questions and addressing uncomfortable topics.  Don't go on another date without equipping yourself with the tools to navigate the dating world successfully. Join us in this eye-opening truth-telling episode that gets a little hard to hear. It's time to take control of your dating life and find the love and happiness you deserve. QUOTES: “You have to assume that what someone is telling you about what they want is the reality.” “Be honest with yourself about how miserable something is making you.” “We often scare people off in relationships not because of our wounds, we scare them off because of our weapons.” “You don't have to trust someone else if you trust yourself.” “If the reaction is hysterical, then it's historical.” “Be kind in your tone and ruthless in your actions.” Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: ⁠https://www.howtogettheguy.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you tired of wasting time on relationships that go nowhere? It's time to arm yourself with the skills and knowledge you need to have a better dating life. So. I'm bringing you the best conversations I've had right here on Women of Impact with relationship expert Matthew Hussey. Join us as we tackle the tough questions and provide real solutions for women who are tired of dating the wrong men and tired of the painful aftermath every time. If we're honest ladies, sometimes it's the men, but sometimes we're the ones causing our own painful demise.  We're digging into the complexities of narcissistic behaviors, toxic traits, and diagnosing relationship problems. Plus, we address the vulnerability dilemma - how to open up without feeling judged, embarrassed, or shamed. Get ready to boost your confidence when it comes to asking the hard questions and addressing uncomfortable topics.  Don't go on another date without equipping yourself with the tools to navigate the dating world successfully. Join us in this eye-opening truth-telling episode that gets a little hard to hear. It's time to take control of your dating life and find the love and happiness you deserve. QUOTES: “You have to assume that what someone is telling you about what they want is the reality.” “Be honest with yourself about how miserable something is making you.” “We often scare people off in relationships not because of our wounds, we scare them off because of our weapons.” “You don't have to trust someone else if you trust yourself.” “If the reaction is hysterical, then it's historical.” “Be kind in your tone and ruthless in your actions.” Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: ⁠https://www.howtogettheguy.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Are you tired of wasting time on relationships that go nowhere? It's time to arm yourself with the skills and knowledge you need to have a better dating life. So. I'm bringing you the best conversations I've had right here on Women of Impact with relationship expert Matthew Hussey. Join us as we tackle the tough questions and provide real solutions for women who are tired of dating the wrong men and tired of the painful aftermath every time. If we're honest ladies, sometimes it's the men, but sometimes we're the ones causing our own painful demise.  We're digging into the complexities of narcissistic behaviors, toxic traits, and diagnosing relationship problems. Plus, we address the vulnerability dilemma - how to open up without feeling judged, embarrassed, or shamed. Get ready to boost your confidence when it comes to asking the hard questions and addressing uncomfortable topics.  Don't go on another date without equipping yourself with the tools to navigate the dating world successfully. Join us in this eye-opening truth-telling episode that gets a little hard to hear. It's time to take control of your dating life and find the love and happiness you deserve. QUOTES: “You have to assume that what someone is telling you about what they want is the reality.” “Be honest with yourself about how miserable something is making you.” “We often scare people off in relationships not because of our wounds, we scare them off because of our weapons.” “You don't have to trust someone else if you trust yourself.” “If the reaction is hysterical, then it's historical.” “Be kind in your tone and ruthless in your actions.” Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: ⁠https://www.howtogettheguy.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Are you tired of wasting time on relationships that go nowhere? It's time to arm yourself with the skills and knowledge you need to have a better dating life. So. I'm bringing you the best conversations I've had right here on Women of Impact with relationship expert Matthew Hussey. Join us as we tackle the tough questions and provide real solutions for women who are tired of dating the wrong men and tired of the painful aftermath every time. If we're honest ladies, sometimes it's the men, but sometimes we're the ones causing our own painful demise.  We're digging into the complexities of narcissistic behaviors, toxic traits, and diagnosing relationship problems. Plus, we address the vulnerability dilemma - how to open up without feeling judged, embarrassed, or shamed. Get ready to boost your confidence when it comes to asking the hard questions and addressing uncomfortable topics.  Don't go on another date without equipping yourself with the tools to navigate the dating world successfully. Join us in this eye-opening truth-telling episode that gets a little hard to hear. It's time to take control of your dating life and find the love and happiness you deserve. QUOTES: “You have to assume that what someone is telling you about what they want is the reality.” “Be honest with yourself about how miserable something is making you.” “We often scare people off in relationships not because of our wounds, we scare them off because of our weapons.” “You don't have to trust someone else if you trust yourself.” “If the reaction is hysterical, then it's historical.” “Be kind in your tone and ruthless in your actions.” Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: ⁠https://www.howtogettheguy.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

EPISODE SUMMARY Dr. Emily sits down with relationship expert Matthew Hussey to decode modern dating, from confusing chemistry with compatibility to knowing when someone's actually emotionally available. Matthew breaks down why we keep choosing the wrong people, how to set boundaries without sabotaging connection, and the texting behaviors that reveal true interest levels. In this episode, you'll learn: • The difference between chemistry and compatibility—and why excitement often masks anxiety • How to identify emotional availability in the first few dates • Why having standards matters more than having a "type" • The art of expressing needs without coming across as needy • Red flags in texting culture and what silence really means • How to break patterns of settling and choose better partners • Why vulnerability creates attraction (and how to practice it) • When to walk away from situationships that aren't serving you • How self-worth directly impacts who you attract and keep • Strategies for building sexual tension while deepening emotional intimacy More Dr. Emily:  • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily's favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply). • Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. • The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website • Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube • Let's text: Sign up here • Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. This episode is sponsored by…  Bellesa  "EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE toy or gift card! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast" Qualia Magnesium, multiplied. 10 forms for total support. Go to https://qualialife.com/SEXWITHEMILY to get 50% off and save an extra 15% with the code SEXWITHEMILY. Timestamps:

When we meet someone we feel excited about, “love bombing” can feel like everything we've ever wanted. Someone we're attracted to showering us with intensity and attention who is also happy to introduce us to their close friends and family . . . let's be honest, it feels really good. Life suddenly transforms into our very own romantic movie. Sure, the pace of it might feel a little rushed and intense . . . but isn't that what happens when you meet “the One”? But then, like clockwork, it happens. The texts stop coming in fast like they used to and we feel them pulling away until eventually, as quickly as they came, they're gone. The harsh contrast between the avalanche of attention they gave us in the beginning and the cold one-line texts we're now receiving can leave us in a state of withdrawal, wondering whether any of it was even real. This might sound familiar to you . . . it's certainly a story I've heard over and over. But why do people do this? This episode will help you automatically sift out the love bombers so you can just focus on enjoying the process of dating people who share a healthy mindset and an open mind to finding a real relationship.---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special end-of-year episode of Married and Connected, Kameran guides you through a "Holiday Reset Ritual."In This Episode, We Cover:The 2025 State of Marriage: A look at the top Google searches for couples this year (hint: it wasn't about money, it was about emotional safety).The "Three-Layer Gratitude" Practice: Why saying "thanks for doing the dishes" isn't enough, and how to use gratitude to reset your nervous system.Lessons from the Experts: The top relationship insights from 2025 featuring wisdom from The Gottman Institute, Esther Perel, Matthew Hussey, Marriage 365 and more.Wounds vs. Patterns: How to recognize if you are acting out of an anxious or avoidant attachment style, and how to heal it next year.The "Name It to Tame It" Ritual: A step-by-step guided conversation to have with your partner tonight to close the chapter on the hard stuff and seal your intentions for 2026.Key Quotes:"Every couple wants to feel like they are on the same team. Not roommates. Not co-parents. But a safe place to land.""Gratitude isn't just manners; it is a biological reset button for your relationship.""You don't drift into a great marriage. You decide your way there."Resources Mentioned:The Gottman Institute (Micro-moments of connection)Esther Perel (Erotic Intelligence and Attention)Topics: Attachment Styles, The Mother/Father Wound, Mental LoadWork With KameranOption 1: For Couples (1:1 Coaching) Are you tired of having the same fight over and over again? Do you want 2026 to be the year you finally break the generational patterns holding your marriage back? Listening to a podcast gives you the what, but coaching gives you the how.I currently have 2 spots open for couples to work with me 1:1 starting in January. This is intimate, deep-dive work where we look at your specific attachment styles, your communication loops, and build a custom roadmap for your connection.Link: Book your Consultation for 1:1 Couples Coaching HereOption 2: For Wives (Edifying Eden Group) Starts January 5th | Limited to 10 WomenIf you are walking into the new year feeling the heavy weight of resentment, or if you are tired of the cycle of yelling to be heard only to feel guilty five minutes later—this is your invitation.Edifying Eden is my exclusive small group for the wife who is ready to turn her home back into a sanctuary. Together, we will:Ditch the Resentment: Clear out the bitterness that keeps you disconnected.Stop the Yelling: Learn to regulate your emotions so you can respond, not react.Be Heard: Learn to speak so your family listens the first time.Biblical Womanhood: Step fully into the grace and wisdom of the Proverbs 31 wife.We begin January 5th. Because this is a high-touch sisterhood, I am only accepting 10 women. Email Kameran at coaching@recognizingpotential.com for more info.Connect with Kameran:Instagram: @married.and.connectedWebsite: www.recognizingpotential.comSubscribe & Review: If this episode helped you reset, please leave a review! It helps other couples find the tools they need to stay married and connected. Happy New Year, friends!Support the show

Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1865"My nervous system does not produce the effect that I call love around people who do not send it into some kind of fight or flight response." - Matthew HusseyYou meet someone. Three days of perfect texts, then radio silence for a week. Your stomach drops. You obsess. And somehow, that anxiety feels like passion, like this must be real love because it hurts so much. Matthew Hussey explains what's actually happening in your nervous system when you say you "don't like nice guys" or can't stop chasing someone who treats you like you're disposable. Your brain got wired early, probably before you could walk or talk, to associate love with having to chase it, earn it, and work for it. When someone is consistent and kind, your nervous system doesn't recognize it. It doesn't produce that fight-or-flight response you learned to call love. So the person who's actually good for you feels boring, while the one who makes you anxious feels like fireworks. And this isn't just women. Think about the guy who's been the friend for years to a woman who picks him up and puts him down whenever it suits her. He can't walk away because something about this painful pattern feels like home.Matthew breaks down why relationships get made in what he calls "the crucible of hard conversations." The reason so many people end up stuck in limbo, in painful dynamics that never become real relationships, is because they're terrified to say the thing they're afraid to say. They can't express a need without fearing something bad will happen. So they stay silent, they accept breadcrumbs, they let things stay casual when they want more. The transformation isn't about finding someone who finally wants you back. It's about recognizing when your nervous system is mistaking familiar pain for passion, having compassion for yourself because this wiring wasn't your choice, and learning to feel safe with someone who's actually available. That means getting comfortable with hard conversations, with saying what you need, and with choosing the person who feels strange at first because they're consistent instead of the one who feels exciting because they're unavailable.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Matthew Hussey reveals the hidden patterns keeping you stuck in unfulfilling relationships. He exposes why trying to impress someone on a first date actually pushes connection away and how most people unknowingly attract partners who mirror their deepest insecurities. You'll discover why being truly vulnerable means something completely different than what you think, and how showing your authentic self, quirks and all, is the only path to being deeply known and loved. Matthew shares the specific moment when you need to stop using your "magic tricks" to attract attention and start revealing the real you, even when it terrifies you. This conversation cuts through surface-level dating advice and gets to the core of what it means to build a relationship where you can finally be yourself.Matthew's book:Get the GuyLove LifeMatthew on YouTubeIn this episode you will:Discover why connecting with someone's humanity matters more than impressing them with your achievementsTransform your approach to vulnerability by understanding the difference between sharing your hero's journey and revealing who you really areUncover the hidden patterns that keep you attracting the wrong people by relying on superficial qualities instead of authentic connectionMaster the art of being truly seen by allowing silence, sharing your needs, and letting go of the fear that honesty will push people awayBreak free from dopamine-driven relationships and rewire your nervous system to appreciate the deeper satisfaction of genuine partnershipFor more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1865For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Esther PerelBaya VoceLewis Howes & Martha Higareda Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

We all know the feeling. We start speaking to or dating someone and we begin to get excited about them . . . but then as soon as we show interest, they start to pull away. This can be painful and demoralizing. But why does this happen? Is it them, or is it us? In this episode, Stephen and I break down a number of “them” and “us” scenarios. For instance: • Some people loathe themselves so much that they devalue anyone who starts to see value in them. • Others might have an obsession with attainment, and once they “get” you, they just move on to their next quest. Thankfully, in these examples, you want to scare off a person like that. But sometimes our actions may inadvertently scare them off. For example: when they see us valuing them more than we should, especially given the stage of the relationship we're currently in.---►► Matthew Hussey's free Three Relationships newsletter isn't just about dating—it's about creating a life you love. Get practical advice and heartfelt wisdom delivered to your inbox every Friday. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I'm a woman trapped in a man's body analysing dating advice for women given by a man. In #505 of 'Meanderings', Juan and I discuss: three dating and relationships books (The New Rules, Get the Guy by Matthew Hussey and Attached), how prescriptive “rules” aimed at women can backfire, why some advice feels outdated (Facebook walls and BBM), how scarcity games tend to attract the very players you might want to avoid, why attachment styles are useful as a lens but less so as a to‑do list, a focus on authenticity over mere effectiveness, watch the influence of your friend circle, understand how strong male sexual drive can shape dating dynamics, apply Pareto principles to health and appearance first, build an interesting life (travel, skills, community) and learning to read yourself so you don't try to fill loneliness with just anyone.No boostagrams this week, very sad puppy.Stan Link: https://stan.store/meremortalsTimeline:(00:00:00) Intro(00:00:47) The books: The New Rules, Get the Guy & Attached(00:04:21) Lot's of Don'ts(00:07:12) Perfectionism and the hunt for Mr Right(00:11:09) Who this attracts: playing games gets game players(00:16:21) What men reportedly dislike(00:20:25) Quick verdict on The New Rules & Switch To Matt Hussey(00:25:48) Practical prompts: compliments, conversations, and friendly vibes(00:30:15) Brief detour to Attached: anxious, avoidant, secure(00:39:24) Boostagram Lounge(00:41:15) Effectiveness vs authenticity: advice for daughters(00:45:00) Masks, faking confidence and why acts won't last(00:48:00) Be interesting: travel, stories and easy conversation openers(00:55:14) Broad advice: the male mind, sex drive, and expectations(01:02:26) Pareto squared: health and appearance(01:07:09) A raw moment: walking through Brisbane and feeling loneliness(01:11:24) Closing reflections Connect with Mere Mortals:Website: https://www.meremortalspodcasts.com/Discord: https://discord.gg/jjfq9eGReUTwitter/X: https://twitter.com/meremortalspodsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/meremortalspodcasts/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@meremortalspodcastsValue 4 Value Support:Boostagram: https://www.meremortalspodcasts.com/supportPaypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/meremortalspodcast

When someone's betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn't see it coming—it's hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship. Is there an antidote to this? Is it possible to regain trust after heartbreak? In this episode, I share 8 rules you'll want to write on sticky notes and keep handy whenever you need a reminder.---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if the first “fight” in a new relationship isn't a red flag at all? Maybe it's your first real chance to see how you both show up when things get real . . . and whether you can grow together on the other side of it. This week on the Love Life Podcast, Matthew breaks down the early conflicts most of us dread, why attachment styles hijack our reactions, and how a moment that feels like the end of chemistry can be the beginning of something deeper.You'll walk away with tools for arguing in ways that build respect and actually bring you closer. If you're dating, in a relationship, or hoping to be one day . . . today's podcast may be your new secret weapon.---►► Last chance to grab our Black Friday special: 14 days of FREE access to Matthew AI, your personal coach for navigating love and relationships (seriously, this is like having Matthew Hussey in your pocket 24/7!) Sign up now at Askmh.com►► Hunker down in your coziest PJs with a warm, snuggly blanket. Treat yourself and your loved ones by going to cozyearth.com and use code LOVELIFE for 40% off before December 12. Your holiday list: complete. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You've been seeing someone for months. They give you attention, consistency, and intimacy—but when it comes to commitment, they always have a reason why “now isn't the right time.” Sound familiar?In this episode, Matthew Hussey coaches a listener through one of the hardest situations in dating: when someone gives you just enough to keep you hooked, but never enough to move things forward. You'll learn how to separate reasons from reality, protect your time and energy, and finally stop waiting for someone who isn't ready to say yes to you.If you've ever felt stuck in a relationship that's “almost” something real, this conversation will give you the clarity—and confidence—to move forward without regret.---►► Unlock the secrets to transforming your dating life with our free "Casual to Committed" training. Discover practical strategies to move from casual encounters to meaningful relationships. Don't wait—start your journey to commitment today at GetCommitment.com ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again. Try Matthew AI for FREE at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you're deep in a relationship, it can be hard to tell if you're fighting for something worth saving—or holding on to something that's slowly breaking you down.In this episode, Matthew shares 3 powerful questions that will help you see your relationship more clearly and know whether it's time to stay or walk away. You'll also learn the “dark pairing” traits that quietly erode your confidence and happiness over time—and how to spot them before it's too late.If you've ever felt stuck in the fog of confusion, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to make the right choice for your peace of mind and self-respect.---►► Matthew Hussey's free Three Relationships newsletter isn't just about dating—it's about creating a life you love. Get practical advice and heartfelt wisdom delivered to your inbox every Friday. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com►► Get access to my Black Friday special TODAY: 14 days of FREE access to Matthew AI, where you can get your specific dating and relationship questions answered 24/7! Sign up now at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Former Secret Service agent Evy Poumpouras spent over 12 years protecting Presidents Obama, Bush, and Clinton while mastering the art of reading people under life or death pressure. Her insight into human behavior goes beyond what most of us will ever need, but the principles she shares apply to every conversation, negotiation, and relationship you have. She reveals why most people fail at reading others because they're looking for cookie cutter signals instead of understanding the individual in front of them. This episode strips away the Hollywood myths about lie detection and replaces them with real strategies you can use today. You'll discover why your biggest advantage in any situation isn't what you say, it's how well you listen and adapt to the person across from you.Buy Evy's book Becoming BulletproofLearn more about EvyIn this episode you will:Discover why asking open-ended questions starting with tell me, explain, and describe gets people to reveal their truth without pressureLearn how to build instant authority and credibility by subtly taking control of small decisions in any interactionUnderstand why conditional trust protects you better than blindly believing everyone or suspecting everyoneMaster the art of not reacting when someone attacks you, because real toughness is self-control under fireBreak free from indecisiveness and self-doubt by making your own choices and failing forward without asking everyone for permissionFor more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1852For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Matthew Hussey – greatness.lnk.to/1782SCEsther Perel  – greatness.lnk.to/1851SCBaya Voce – greatness.lnk.to/1836SC Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on the Love Life Podcast, Matthew Hussey and Producer David dive into some of the most-asked questions about modern relationships. Should you ever chase someone in love, or does persistence risk crossing the line? The conversation also takes a personal turn as Matthew reflects on the strong women in his family who shaped his perspective on relationships and life. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of love and connection today.---►► Ready to go from casual to committed? Join the free training that shows you how to create the relationship you deserve. Watch now at GetCommitment.com►► Love is hard. Sync makes it easier. Join the waitlist now at TalkToSync.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For years, I chased relationships from a wounded place, trying to prove my worth instead of owning it. I made partners my entire world, confused chemistry with compatibility, and stayed in relationships way longer than I should have because I lacked the courage to speak my truth. Everything shifted when I learned these five lessons about magnetism, healing, and what real love actually requires. This isn't theory - this is what worked for me after years of painful patterns, intensive therapy, and finally learning to choose alignment over chemistry. If you've ever felt stuck in the chase, attracted to the wrong people, or unsure why healthy relationships feel unfamiliar, this episode will show you exactly what needs to shift.Make Money Easy: Create Financial Freedom and Live a Richer LifeThe Greatness Mindset: Unlock the Power of Your Mind and Live Your Best Life TodayThe Mask of Masculinity: How Men Can Embrace Vulnerability, Create Strong Relationships, and Live Their Fullest LivesThe School of Greatness: A Real-World Guide to Living Bigger, Loving Deeper, and Leaving a LegacyIn this episode you will:Discover why making someone your entire world pushes them away - and how to build a full life that makes you magnetic instead of clingyTransform your dating criteria by understanding the critical difference between shared interests and shared values (and why only one actually lasts)Break free from the cycle of chasing people who trigger your wounds by learning to recognize when attraction is actually a red flag from your nervous systemMaster the daily choice framework that turns fleeting chemistry into lasting love - because real relationships aren't built on sparks, they're built on consistent characterUnlock true magnetism by shifting from proving your worth to owning it - the one change that makes healthy people finally feel attractive to youFor more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1834For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Matthew Hussey – greatness.lnk.to/1782SCMartha Higareda Howes  – greatness.lnk.to/1797SCJillian Turecki – greatness.lnk.to/1740SC Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Get ready to fall even more in love with your life! In this episode, I sit down with Matthew Hussey, who has spent over 15 years helping millions of people raise their standards, heal from heartbreak, and create meaningful connections. We talk about why marriage feels different (and how it shifted both of our perspectives), the real reason so many of us chase the wrong things, and why being happy enough can free you to choose better partners and healthier relationships. Tune in to rethink love, life, and what's truly possible when you raise your standards. Check out our Sponsors: Airbnb - Start making money by listing your home on Airbnb with an experienced Co-host, find a co-host at airbnb.com/host Quince - Shop everyday luxury goods without the designer price tag. Go to quince.com/happy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Open Phone - Stop running your business from your personal phone. Get 20% off your first 6 months at openphone.com/earn Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Constant Contact - Get all the automation, integration, and reporting tools that get your marketing running seamlessly. Try Constant Contact free for thirty days at constantcontact.com. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Are you loving yourself, others, and life the right way? 04:45 How understanding your love languages will help your relationship thrive. 12:30 The three relationships that determine the quality of your life. 16:30 Do you really need to “fix yourself” before finding love? 21:30 The red flags people miss and how to find love again after heartbreak. 25:30 How to rewrite the stories you tell yourself that make heartbreak harder. 34:30 How to overcome chasing the wrong things in relationships.   40:00 How can you overcome rejection fears to have vulnerable conversations? 48:45 How to have deeper, more genuine connections. 52:00 The Daniel Radcliffe story that changed Matthew's perspective on pain. 57:00 Turn your “baggage” into the thing that makes someone love you more. RESOURCES Get your copy of Matthew's Book “Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)” HERE Join the 30 Day Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci Follow Matthew: @thematthewhussey

If you want to live a long, healthy life, you don't necessarily have to implement the latest biohacking trends to make a difference. In fact, research shows that the number one way to extend your lifespan actually has nothing to do with diets or supplements – it's the quality of your relationships. On this episode of The Model Health Show, you're going to learn about why your relationships play such a powerful role in influencing your lifespan. You'll hear the science behind why healthy, supportive relationships are necessary for human health, how to cultivate healthy relationships, and so much more. You're going to hear tangible takeaways to improve your relationships, from the importance of shared meals to how to incorporate social media in a healthy way. You're going to learn why social isolation is detrimental to human health, how your relationships can help you better deal with stress, and the importance of intentionally investing in the people around you. I hope this episode resonates with you. Enjoy!    In this episode you'll discover:  The link between social isolation and risk for early death. (0:22) How loneliness can act as a form of chronic stress. (2:28) What the #1 contributor to living a longer lifespan is. (2:43) How healthy social bonds increase your healthspan. (3:24) The connection between having healthy relationships and stress resilience. (7:26) What percentage of doctor's office visits are stress related. (8:40) The resources that relationships can provide. (12:42) Three specific ways relationships can help you metabolize stress. (14:06) The importance of having a strong sense of purpose. (23:11) Why social media is a supplement, not a substitute, for in-person interactions. (33:38) The powerful effects of sharing a meal with friends and family. (36:32) How many times per week to eat meals with your children. (43:30) Why getting out of your shell allows you to have richer experiences. (46:07) The power of human touch. (52:24) How to invest in your relationships. (52:57) Why you should make improving your relationships an intention. (53:34)  Items mentioned in this episode include:  Levels.link/model  - Join today and get 2 free months with a one-year membership! The #1 Controller of Human Longevity with Dr. Robert Waldinger:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhXq7t7PCsc Avoid These Red Flags with Matthew Hussey: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nwthZIIT5Xk  The TRUTH About Manifestation with Dr. James Doty: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_oloBtF3fA&t=4s Make Love Last with Jay Shetty: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jnVfuigfqQo Weight Loss After 40 with Chalene Johnson: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IMaC3nqEWQU The BEST Mindset for Amazing Relationships with Christine Hassler: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6VOpaJhfNRg The TRUTH About Building Healthy Relationships with Sheleana Aiyana: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F4m6VRDyBOI  Be sure you are subscribed to this podcast to automatically receive your episodes:   Apple Podcasts Spotify Soundcloud Pandora YouTube   This episode of The Model Health Show is brought to you by Levels. Learn how food affects your health with a continuous glucose monitor (CGM) from Levels. Join today at levels.link/model and get 2 free months with a one-year membership! 

Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Matthew Hussey, the renowned relationship expert and bestselling author, delivers raw truth about modern love that will shake your dating beliefs to the core. In this deeply personal conversation, Matthew opens up about his own journey from being single and questioned by thousands to finding his wife Audrey at a party he didn't want to attend, revealing the vulnerable moments that nearly sabotaged what became his greatest love story. Matthew exposes why we chase the wrong things and sabotage the right ones, telling powerful stories of past relationships where vulnerability was weaponized against him and current insights on how past wounds destroy promising connections. This episode is essential for anyone stuck in dating patterns, afraid to be vulnerable, or wondering if love will ever find them.Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You DeserveIn this episode you will learn:Why vulnerability with the wrong person can traumatize you and how to find someone who receives your authenticity with love instead of judgmentThe hidden reason you sabotage good relationships and chase unavailable people - and how your brain tricks you into thinking rare equals valuableHow to break destructive patterns by becoming an experimenter in your own life and getting curious about doing things differentlyWhy being "behind" in love is an illusion and how comparing your timeline to others keeps you stuck in relationship miseryThe difference between being vulnerable and abdicating responsibility - and how to be a great teammate while still sharing your strugglesFor more information go to https://www.lewishowes.com/1782For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Jillian Turecki – greatness.lnk.to/1740SCStephen Chandler  – greatness.lnk.to/1756SCMel Robbins – greatness.lnk.to/1710SC Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX