Dear Former InLaws

Hi Explores! Welcome to today's episode. In this episode we're going to talk about how often we let unsatisfactory jobs define us. Is your job unfulfilling? Do you feel unseen? How does it affect your life? Let's talk about it!

Let's talk about it! Let's do a deep dive into this conversation. Too many times there is suffering from people talking about hard times they have at the office. Do you find yourself being alienated? Are you the one alienating other people? What does it feel like trying to build relationships with people who seem to have fleeting spirits? Let's talk about it!

My vulnerability is no secret. I had an emotionally, financially, and mentally devastating divorce. In this podcast I talk about some of the things I experienced on my journey, some of the things that broke me and how I am today. Let's talk about it! Don't forget to buy my book on Amazon.

Hey Explorer's! Have there been friendships that you left in the past and thought about revisiting? Is there any reason to leave an old friendship in the past? Is there a reason to open up that door today? Let's talk about it!

These no-grace having Christians are doing the most. Let's talk about it!

I recently had an opportunity to rekindle a friendship and I want to talk about it. What would you do? Let's talk about it!

In this episode, I talk about a few people who showed up and showed out during my rough patch. I'm naming names! Sue me! Let's talk about it!

Let's talk about what the “strong friend”goes through at the beginning of her divorce. How does she navigate this space? Let's talk about it!

There are certain people who stay with women they don't love and treat them in spite. Why do they do that? Let's talk about it!

How do you feel when someone Keeps asking you to justify yourself to them? What do you do when someone keeps questioning your growth? Or your decisions? Let's talk about it!

So many times we over analyze how we feel about this respect. Not every conversation needs to be analyzed. When someone treats you probably there are times when you just have to walk. Let's talk about it!

Hi Explores! In today's episode we're going to talk about moments when something is weird in the space and nobody wants to talk about it! Let's talk about it!

Hello fellow Explores! In today's podcast we're going to talk about red flags and dating. We're gonna do a quick rundown of the list and hopefully some of this information sticks! Let's talk about it!

In this episode we are talking about Simple ways that we can make steps to get to the next level. Most people will be stuck where they are. What does it look like to truly get over a hump or move into the space where you think you belong. Let's talk about it!

In this episode will talk about women who “dump”their friends because of a new dating relationship. Is there a different way to see it? Let's talk about it! Send me a voice memo! https://anchor.fm/dearformerinlaws/message

In this episode we're gonna talk about friendships. There's so much suffering so many people when it comes to this subject. Let's talk about what it means to us and what it means to support the friends we have in our lives and the ones we need to get rid of for that matter… Let's talk about it!

On my journey postdivorce, I saw so many mediocre leaders and decided to talk about that here. When you are on a journey where your self-esteem is being tried, you have to make sure that you're being held up by good leadership, friends, and people

In this episode I briefly share about some of the people who had contempt for me during my divorce. There are some people who did not know how to behave through no fault of their own, they were others who thought I was cursed. They were a bunch of people who thought that my situation was contagious and did not want to be “bothered“. Ultimately I have learned that People are people. How many just do the best they can. Let's talk about it!

Hi Explorers ! In this podcast I am talking about my father and some of the things I feel made him an excellent dad. I am unimpressed with men who torment their daughters with mediocre and unkind parenting. Do better, please. Please share the podcast. Enjoy!

I had a recent experience with someone who gave me the silent treatment. I had no idea that this was a “thing“. Has that happened to you before? Let's talk about it!

Hi Fellow Explorers! In this episode we are talking about selfish people. Why are people selfish? Why should we deal with them? What do we need to know for our own self-esteem and protection. Let's talk about it!

Hi! Explorers! In this podcast we will talk about when or if it is a good idea to reach out to someone you haven't spoken to a while. I'll share my personal stories of three recent scenarios. Let's talk about it!

In this episode I’m sharing my thoughts on vulnerability and why it is important to me. Don’t forget to join me on Instagram “dear former in-laws“

Nothing will challenge your sense of self like a divorce. You will often ask yourself if you have enough education to navigate the rest of your life. Should you go back to school? Let’s talk about it!

One of my friends said many women date or marry down! I made some observations about this. Let’s talk about it!. Don’t forget to find me on Instagram @ former in-laws send me a message

For years I’ve been afraid to speak my truth. It started with a not-so subtle message from an “in-law”not wanting me to speak. I let that shackle go in this podcast. Let’s talk about it!

This is a quick/emergency podcast for anyone who is dealing with stress regarding the election. I give a few tips and I’m curious to know what you do to Manage election anxiety. Let’s talk about it!

This topic will never get old for me. What do you do when someone has contempt for your goals? When people are quick to tell you that what you’re working on is not worth anything., how do you wrap your mind around that? Let’s talk about it!

In this podcast we’re gonna talk about speaking up for yourself, and/or taking responsibility for mental wellness at work. If you know someone that could use this podcast, share it with them. Let’s talk about it!

In this podcast will talk about a few random things I’ve learned about friendships. Let’s talk about it!

There are so many reasons to look forward to your new post divorce journey. Let’s talk about it!

In this topic, I share my opinions on my favorite subject. Let’s talk about people who look down on people who’ve been through a divorce and think divorce can’t happen to them. Does staying in a marriage where you are disempowered mean you are “together“ ? Let’s talk about it !

In this podcast we’re going to talk about whether a woman should beg her significant other to stay. What if the person wants a divorce? What if they threaten you with a divorce? Let’s talk about it!

One of the best advice I got from my sister during my divorce was to document my journey. I was a hot mess and it was important that I be able to look back and understand what was happening. Even when it wasn’t making sense at the time, I put everything in writing. I had reasons. Let’s talk about it

In this episode will talk about future in-laws and some of the things people have shared with me on their journey. I’ll even share some personal stories. Let’s talk about it!

Given all the heaviness that I have been dealing with in the past few years and most recently months, I thought I would be remiss if I don’t share with you some simple things that I am discovering for myself that help with mental health. What tips do you have? Let’s talk about it! #mentalhealth

I’m sorry the Podcast got cut off in mid recording folks! I hope you got the gist. In this podcast we’re talking about learning to rely on yourself to plan for a reliable outcome. Let’s talk about it!

The fact is there is hope. If you’re starting over in life, there is hope if you were alive. Whether you are moving to a new city or from a new state, emotional or otherwise, let’s talk about a few ways to get your mind right. In this podcast I’ll share my personal story with you. Let’s talk about it!

A few years ago, during my divorce, a song provided hope to me. That’s what artists do. They create possibilities. I’m not going to talk about pastors in this episode. LOL. But I definitely will talk about artists and the contribution I feel they are making in this world. Enjoy the short podcast. And share it with any artist you know. Thank you so much for listening!

Shout out to us for choosing better. We’ve all had to make a decision at some point on people that we wanted to avoid. Those that put us down, those that betray us, those that lie, and more! Let’s talk about it! #TheAfricaChannel #ToxicPeople

I had an experience that has me curious! I just want someone to tell me what essential workers do in times like this. Let’s talk about it! #Covid #Essentialworkers

Right after you’ve been blindsided by a break up, and for some time after, you might feel an unforgiving sense of loneliness. That was my story!. Let’s talk about it! #divorce

When it comes to break up, separation or divorce, many people asked me my opinion on how to accept it. It’s not a simple answer to get. Let’s talk about it!

100% of people that I know have complaints about work. It’s either a coworker, the colleague, the office, the boss, the security guard or the printer! Lol. Is it possible that we can get along with people we work with? Let’s talk about it!

In this podcast we talk about being afraid to love especially after divorce or separation. It happens a lot… You’ve been hurt and you don’t want to be hurt again. Let’s talk about it!

My divorce journey taught me that my body needs to move. It’s not just a mind that needs love but your body as well. Here are a few things that we take for granted when it comes to exercise. You can start this today! Let’s talk about it

In today’s podcast we’re going to talk about people who don’t love themselves and our attempts to love them. What does that look like? Is there a reward for it? Let’s talk about it!

A lot of us are walking around in titled when we give apologies. We think “I already said I’m sorry“ or “They need to get over it“. Unwilling to make ourselves vulnerable, we act entitled to forgiveness. Let’s talk about it!

I got a message from someone asking me to post more on breakups and divorce. This is for the one that wants me to talk about breakups during COVID-19.  What do you need to keep in mind? Is it different from a break up outside of a pandemic? Let's talk about it!  If you would like me to talk about court procedures during the pandemic, reach out on Facebook and let me know. " Africa's Ambassador of Possibility" #covid #breakup #breakupduringcovid #dealingwithabreakupduringcovid #covid19breakup #divorceduringcovid 

Let’s talk about criticism that we get from people. How is that criticism delivered? How do we experience it? What do we do when we don’t feel good about ourselves after said critique? Let’s talk about it!

In this podcast we’re going to talk about lies that people tell us and how to confront them. Should we really confront liars? Let’s talk about it!