Friday Night Word Show

There's a small but growing pothole on the N1, right next to the Woodmead on-ramp. It's been there for a year—unrepaired, ignored, and growing. How many cars will suffer damage before someone takes responsibility? Now, think about the pothole in your marriage. The cracks, the neglect, the silent damage—whose job is it to fix it? And more importantly, how long will you wait before it's too late?

Do you ever sit and ask yourself self reflective questions, questions that prompt growth. Questions that demand accountability? If not here are some questions you can ask yourself --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

Join us as we dive into Emotional Intelligence (EI) — the skill of understanding and managing both our own emotions and those of others. From building self-awareness to mastering empathy, we'll explore how EI can transform relationships, boost decision-making, and enhance resilience. Tune in to discover why EI is a powerful asset for personal growth and professional success! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

Welcome to today's episode, where we'll be exploring why so many couples struggle with conflict resolution. Even in the best relationships, arguments can quickly spiral out of control, leaving both partners feeling misunderstood or hurt. We'll dive into the common reasons behind these struggles—like poor communication, emotional triggers, and unresolved issues from the past. Understanding why it's so hard to navigate conflict is the first step toward doing it better. Stick with us as we unpack the key challenges and offer some practical solutions. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

The reality is sometimes one can find themselves discouraged in their marriage. There are a multitude of reasons as to why, in this episode we look at some of the causes and what one can do to deal with that discouragement --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

Apologising is never easy but the book of Genesis 32&33 teaches us how --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

The Comrades Marathon is one of the biggest ultra marathon races in the world. What marital lessons can we learn from it. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

Ungenza njani uku divorce proof umtshado wakho? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

If he struggles to read the Bible , he will struggle to love his wife, why is it important for husbands to read the Bible? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

Marriage has proved that you cannot be good in every subject, here's why. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

Will conditions ever align for your marriage to grow or thrive? Hmmm chances are naaaa!! Then what should you do? List to your favorite podcast to find out what you can do. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

Men and Women have spent generations trying to outdo each other, pointing out the flaws of each gender. Is there a better gender? If both genders were created by God, would God create one gender to be sub-standard? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

Forgiving your spouse, especially after they have offended you, is not easy, rather it is easier said than done even when you want to forgive them.  So how do you forgive them? Listen to the podcast to find out how to forgive them. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

If you are thinking of getting married, here are some tips of what you should prepare yourself for. Next week we will publish part 2 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

Before you get married ponder upon the following!!!!!!!!!!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

The devil has never wanted women to glorify God therefore he set a narrative that numbs and pushes them down using resources and patriarchal gate keepers --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

The story of the rich young ruler in Mark 10 has some interesting marital lessons we can learn. Tune in to findout --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

Some spouses dominate their marriage, stifling their spouse. Oh yes remember excess oil brings about multitude illnesses, does dominating your marriage, are you that spouse? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

One question that has been on my mind is l, why do husbands abuse their wives or man their girlfriends. There are five reasons why! Remember*Whatever you mismanage you will loose* --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

There are 3 things you can do to improve yourself for your marriage, listen to find out what --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

It's simple,free, effective and will go a long way in improving your marriage. Try it out and see --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Once you know why something exists! You will know How to use it --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

For Worse Moments will come in your marriage without fail, thus thinking you will walk away is a poor mindset. For in this world of sin all of us have a for the worse cyclic moments --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

As a man thinketh in his heart so is he. Many marriages died in the mind before they even died physically. Your thinking will with make or kill your marriage --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Selfishness, Self Abuse --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Lust is keeping many Christians Prisoner --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Lies --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Emishado eminengi seyacithwa ngamzwi nje. Singafundani kulenkulumo ka Seka Brian lo NaBrian --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

The internet is filled with monetary reports detailing the cost of gender based violence. But what is the cost? what release are we paying or losing when a woman is abused? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Trash is material no longer fit for purpose!! Did man lose their purpose somewhere? What are they doing to regain their value and purpose? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

As many celebrate fathers day, there are equally many unhappy about their fathers being absent. Absent fathers cause more damage than they will ever know. Crime, Corruption and many vices would reduce if fathers were present in their children's lives --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Not educating your children about sex has massive consequences, and many parents have lived to see their worst nightmare because of this missed step. Educating is equipping, equipping is giving your child a tool to work a situation. Alas many children are ill-equipped in the area of sex because parents find it awkward, embarrassing. Educate your child now before they fulfil the following 21 reasons --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Sex education, including its spiritual aspects, should be part of a broad health and moral education from kindergarten through grade twelve, ideally carried out by parents --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Sex is a beautiful gift given to us by God, however we have over the generations abused it, misused it and many up to now do not enjoy it because of past experiences. This pauses a challenge upon us a parents to educate and equip our children with sex education that we subscribe to, the best being the one that aligns to God's principles. Educate them before, social media, Hollywood and misaligned people do it for you. In this series we are going to explore how we educate our children about sex --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Many people suffer low libido, in the bedroom, but no safe space has been created to talk about this low libido. Some people have high libido and their spouses cannot cope. What then should happen? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Many wives are quietly suffering in marriage is there are married to mean who have not left Mommy, but have gone into Marriage with Mommy. Mommy is so important she is a daily part of the marriage. What then should wives do if they find themselves in such a situation? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Your spouse will at one point in your marriage fail give you what you want. Be warned don't bring in Peninnah as she may bring tears, depression to your Hannah. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Change is Constant, Change is Inevitable in marriage. Change is normally not bad, but many end up in divorce court because they have not capacitated themselves to cope with Change --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Buying a car can be the trickiest purchases of one's life, year in year people buy cars they can't drive, maintain, fuel, service and insure. So it is with many marriages. Many have gone into so many marriages without an understanding themselves and the person they are marrying. what then should people do to maximise the marriage there are in? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Being different in marriage is a blessing because your spouse was sent to sharpen you and you were also to sent to sharpen them too. Imagine if a stone was smooth, how would the knife be sharpened? A rough stone makes a sharp knife, so it is in marriage --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Why are modern families busy? If we are to busy what is that we missing out on? And what is it doing to us mentally, physically and many other ways? Have we become too busy to family, to build and grow families that are loving, strong, God fearing and positively impactful in society? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

It is important to initiate sex and to know how to do it correctly. This is because, without the act of initiating sex, your spouse may feel unwanted or may even reject you. But In marriage who's responsibility to Initiate Sex, well this week we explore the delicate field of initiating sex, without fear and prejudice --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Why is your marriage got to a boring point? What Went wrong? Who is to blame? How can we fix this boredom? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Dating in the Christian church is akin to a walking in a landmine field, why? Instead of the church being a safe place, a place of love and care, it has become a hunting ground, hiding place for uncouth individuals. This calls for wise view on how one chooses who they date --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

We ate a lot more during the pandemic, and some of us are steal eating a lot because of working from. The question is, how do we lose this weight and begin to eat in a controlled and healthy way? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event can of course affect your mental health. It can turn your whole world upside down and it may be difficult to go about your life like you used to. If you have gone through a deeply traumatizing event and are struggling, you are not alone and there is nothing to be ashamed of. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Every year governments reflect on their performance, opening up for debate in parliament. This gives government the opportunity to fine tune and fix their plans to better service their citizens. It would better suit families if we reflect on our performances as a unit, in order to improve or even change the direction of our families. Make it a habit to reflect on the direction on your family --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Let's stop gender based violence --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Most of us want a marriage that has happy, fulfilling, but few of us have put in the work that is needed to get such a marriage. In fact us most us simply hope for a good marriage and are shocked when our marriages end up boring, drear, unfulfilling or in divorce. The question is are we sowing and working towards the kind of marriage we want? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Each child comes with a different gift. Just like fruits each gift is needed for a particular season. If nurtured as defined by God each child will touch humanity at the right time and right season by their God gift --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

Football coaches have been since football became professionalized been fired for one reason and one reason alone. The failure to bring the best out of the players they have in their squad. Each parent is given a gifted child and God requires that we bring the best out of them. The only saving grace we have is that God does not fire parents like football clubs fire coaches. How are you doing with your children? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support