If you go on a date and thought it was great, but then it gets weird… we’ll call the other person and find out what’s up. Warning: It could get awkward! Subscribe to hear Marcus & Sandy's Second Date Update everyday on the iHeartRadio app.
Rosa called us about Miguel. They matched on Hinge and went out for dinner in Walnut Creek. Rosa said they split calamari, ordered pasta, and lingered over dessert because the conversation was going so well. She thought Miguel was funny and attentive, and she couldn't figure out why he ghosted.
Monica called us about Julian. They matched on Bumble and went to dinner in Burlingame. Monica said they ordered a bottle of wine, split an appetizer, and even lingered over dessert because the conversation was flowing so well. She thought he was engaged, asking about her job and her family, and she left the date thinking Julian was genuinely interested in seeing her again. But she never heard back.
Javier called us about Brooke. They matched on Hinge and decided on brunch in Pleasanton. Javier said they shared pancakes, swapped stories about college, and even went for a walk afterward to keep the conversation going. He thought Brooke was easy to talk to and genuinely seemed interested in him. But she never responded after.
Eric called us about Paloma. They met on Match. They both have and love dogs. They agreed to meet at a dog park in San Mateo. Eric said it was playful, fun, and Paloma's dog seemed to love him. But after that, she ghosted.
Vanessa contacted us about Omar. They matched on Tinder and met for happy hour in Lafayette. Vanessa said they shared small plates, talked about music, and ended up staying longer than expected because the conversation was good. She told us Omar even walked her to her car and gave her a hug, so she thought a second date was basically guaranteed. But Omar never replied to her messages.
Carlos called us about Heather. They met on Hinge and grabbed dinner in Mountain View. Carlos thought it was fun. They had a lot in common. She had a great sense of humor. He can't stand boring. He swore Heather seemed like she was enjoying herself. But after that, she cut him off.
Sean got in touch about Rachel. They met on Hinge and went to a late-night diner in Oakland. Sean said they clicked right away, were laughing over milkshakes and fries, and he left thinking the chemistry was strong. But Rachel ghosted him afterward, so he called us for help.
Amanda called us about Gabe. They matched on Bumble and met for coffee in Redwood City. Amanda said the conversation was fun, she was smiling the whole time, and she really thought there was chemistry. But Gabe never reached out again.
Samantha called us about Luis. They met on Tinder and agreed to hit a karaoke bar in San Mateo. Samantha said she thought the date went great — they were laughing, drinking, and she really believed Luis was into her. But after that night, she never heard from him again.
Victor called us about Camila. They connected on Match and decided to go bowling in Daly City. Victor thought the night was playful and flirty, and he swore Camila was smiling the whole time. But after that night, she completely disappeared on him.
Diego calls us about Marco. They matched on Grindr and decided on tacos in the Mission. Diego thought things got pretty spicy...so to speak. but Marco ghosted.
Brynn calls us about Patrick. They met on Hinge. Brynn thought they clicked — but Patrick ghosted. They went for coffee for their first date. Nothing sticks out in her mind that went wrong on the date. They had a lot in common. She was attracted to him. She was sure there would be a second date.
Camila calls us about Jordan. They met on Match and went to brunch in Burlingame. Camila thought the date was smooth. She and Jordan "totally vibed." Plus, there were plenty of brunch cocktails and that really loosened up the conversation. They ended with a hug and he promised to call. But Jordan ghosted.
Carlos calls us about Jasmine. They matched on Bumble and met up at a coffee shop in Daly City. Carlos really enjoyed how easy the whole thing was. He wasn't nervous or uncomfortable. She was easy to talk to. Now, she has ghosted.
Anthony and Marisol met on Tinder. He likes that she rollerblades. They had a great first date, according to Anthony. But now she is ghosting.
Trevor and Aly met on Hinge and they both love trivia. They hit up a trivia night for their first date. Has she ghosted after Trevor exhibited "teacher energy?"
Declan calls us about Soraya. They met on Bumble and decided to walk through Golden Gate Park together. They even grabbed some dumplings afterward at one of his favorite hole-in-the-wall places. It was simple, but he thought it was romantic. Soraya has disappeared and he needs our help to figure out what happened.
May met Brent on Hinge. They both live in Pacifica, which is geographically desirable. They did dinner and a movie. Now he is ghosting.
Andre calls about Nicole. They met at a dance class in Redwood City. They went for Tapas and now she has ghosted. What happened during dinner?
Taylor met Harper met on Tinder. They went to dinner; food was good, the drinks were good. After one follow-up text, she has ghosted.
Damon met Bridget online. They both games of any kind from cards to cornhole. They picked a board game cafe to have their first date. Now, she has ghosted.
Valerie and Damian met online. They are both into wine, so they go wine-tasting in Petaluma for their first date. Why is Damian ghosting?
Armie seemed like a genuine vibe and Melinda decides she is comfortable having take out at his place for their first date. They decided on Thai and now he has ghosted.
Caleb and Roxanne met on Tinder. They went out for cocktails ins Berkeley. He is really surprised she is ghosting.
Crystal met Yvette on Bumble. After hitting it off on their messaging, they go for sushi in Berkeley. Now, Yvette is ghosting.
Amy met Matt on Hinge. She thought they were really vibing and had a great connection. They went for Pho in San Mateo. Now, he has ghosted.
Russ met Kelly on Hinge. They hit it off and went to dinner in San Jose. Now, she has ghosted.
Steven and Allison met online and had their first date in Fremont. They started with coffee, ended up at a dive bar...they even made out.
Ryan met Megan on Bumble. They decide to go to rbunch for their first date. They sat outside at a restaurant in Sausalito. Now, she has ghosted.
Felicis calls about Nolan. They met on Hinge. They decided to go for burgers in Alameda After the date, Nolan ghosted.
Dean and Ariel met on Hinge, and after a fun back-and-forth over messaging, they decided to meet in person. Their first date was sushi and sake bombs in Fremont. She has pulled a Casper.
Heather calls us about Lorenzo. They met on Coffee Meets Bagel and did Italian food on Castro Street in Mountain View. What could possibly go wrong?
Maya met Eric online. They are both into fitness and health, so take a yoga class for their first date. They even enjoyed smoothies afterwards. Why would he ghost?
Amanda calls us about Eli. They went out for drinks in Mountain View after meeting online. She thought he was attractive and smart, and they had a few hours of great conversation. Now nothing.
Jake and Vanessa met online and went to a play at a community theater for their first date. He says they had a great dinner that night as well. Why would she ghost?
Declan and Taylor got coffee in Sausalito, then took a drive through the Marin Headlands. What could have caused her to ghost?
Brad and Trina go for a nice dinner. He is a true gentleman, not really a fan of dating apps. However, now she has ghosted.
Marco and Chelsea had a great first date. They met for coffee in Fremont. It went so well they decided to have dinner as well. Now, she's disappeared.
Leo and Priya went for Ethiopian food for their first date. He thought their connection was spiritual. She has ghosted.
Alejandra met Chris on Tinder. They started messaging and really hit it off. They decided to go for a walk around Lake Merced as the first date followed by some Ramen on 19th avenue. They both go to SF State and neither one of them have a car so they decided to keep it in the neighborhood. Now, she has disappeared.
Derek mat Kayla at a mutual friend's game night. They bonded over their distaste for Monopoly. They met for sushi in S San Francisco. He can't think of anything that would make her ghost.
Liam met Jess on Bumble. They had dinner in South City. He said it was a fantastic date and he shared a lot of helpful investment advice with her, but she has ghosted.
Second Date Update: Jonah and Lila went for Thai food in Albany. He thought things went really well. They are both avid readers, into poetry nights and open mic. Now, she's Casper.
Tori and Evan went for Mediterranean food in Jack London Square. Tori said Evan was sweet, artsy, and “had poet energy.” It really matched her vibe. She thought the date was very sweet and was sure there would be a second date, but Evan has disappeared.
Reed met Sophie on Hinge. What stood out was their similar lifestyle choices. They were both into fitness and eating healthily. They went out for Vegan sushi. Why is she ghosting?
Nate and Brianna met on Hinge. They went for tapas in Noe Valley. What made Brianna ghost after their eventful meal?
Jordan and Elise met at a birthday party. They discover they love puzzles, so they go to an Escape Room for their first date. They did it in under an hour, but now she has ghosted.
Jonah met Talia at an outdoor salsa class in Golden Gate Park. They met in Berkeley for Mediterranean food. Now she has blocked him.
Lucas and Kendra met in real life and decide to go get sushi a few days later. Now, she is ghosting.
Devon and Marissa met in real life waiting in line at a food truck. They exchange numbers and plan a first date at a bar hosting a trivia night. What could have gone wrong?
Jacob & Maggie went for drinks and appetizers in Walnut Creek. They were only supposed to have drinks, but things were going so well...they ordered food. But now she has ghosted.