Stop Playing Diversity with Dr. Monica Cox

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Dr. Monica Cox is an engineer, professor, entrepreneur, and authenticity coach. She talks about what it really means to embrace diversity, equity, and inclusion in the workplace and how to succeed in your career without losing your authentic self. I guide

Dr. Monica Cox


    • Jun 3, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
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    • 90 EPISODES


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    How to Keep Going on This Equity Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2024 6:46


    The workplace equity journey can be daunting and filled with challenges and setbacks. This episode is for those who sometimes feel discouraged in their DEI journey. Allow these words to help you keep pushing boundaries, amplify voices, and drive meaningful change.

    Are You Oppressing or Dismantling

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2024 11:02


    What does it mean to oppress, and how can we dismantle oppressive systems? This episode unpacks the mechanisms that uphold unjust systems and explores practical strategies for dismantling them. Learn actionable tips for effecting slow and methodical change and becoming agents of transformation to work toward a more equitable future one step at a time.

    No One Is Safe in Systems

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2024 6:44


    In the realm of workplace dynamics, it's crucial to recognize that safety isn't universal. From hiring practices to promotion policies, many processes aren't designed with inclusivity in mind, leaving vulnerable communities at risk. This episode sheds light on the systemic flaws that endanger the well-being and advancement of marginalized voices.

    Expectations for Safety at Work

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2024 8:45


    This episode reminds listeners to remain vigilant about remaining safe at work. It also encourages leaders to operate with a spirit of integrity as they oversee the work experiences of those they supervise.

    Push Against DEI Lies

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2024 10:05


    In a climate where the anti-DEI and anti-woke movements gain traction, it's crucial to examine the narratives we're fed. This episode invites you to filter through the noise of diversity, equity, and inclusion initiatives to engage in critical thought and question prevailing DEI assumptions. Tune in to learn how to push against DEI lies and empower listeners to embrace independent thinking in a polarized world.

    You Deserve to Be Seen and Heard at Work

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2024 11:45


    This episode reminds employees of their rights and their values at work. Allow these words to empower you amid workplace storms.

    How to Be Strategic as a Black Woman at Work

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2024 10:48


    Black women are dying and suffering in higher education and across industries. Today's episode presents several strategies for Black women to remain safe in spaces where they aren't always centered as priorities.

    Bravery Basics and Common Sense at Work

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2023 7:42


    Today's episode goes back to basics with ways to demonstrate equity at work. If you've never learned how to work in ways that protect others and demonstrate equity excellence and integrity, this episode is for you.

    Healing Doesn't Have an Expiration Date

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2023 6:19


    Today's episode aims to provide comfort, understanding, and support to those who have faced harm in their pursuit of equity, reminding them that healing is a deeply personal process without a set timeline.

    Are You the DEI Scapegoat?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2023 9:04


    Today's eye-opening episode offers advice about ways to avoid being a scapegoat in the realm of equity work. As you journey toward creating more inclusive and equitable environments, learn how to recognize the complexities and potential pitfalls that come with being an equity accomplice.

    Stop Being a Wishy-Washy Leader

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2023 7:52


    This episode defines what it means to be a wishy-washy leader and why it's dangerous in workplaces. Learn how to challenge the status quo in your decision-making and change inequitable policies and practices. If you want to be a courageous leader who steps out of your comfort zone, leads with conviction, and makes a lasting impact in your organization, this episode is for you.

    How to Be An Authentic Equity Accomplice

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2023 9:41


    This episode is a continuation of practical advice I offered about being more than a diversity, equity, and inclusion ally. Equity accompliceship involves doing the real work that moves people to professional safety and to places where they can thrive at work.

    How Long Can You Grieve a Job?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2023 9:37


    Today's episode addresses the topic of work grief. Although much is known about mourning the loss of a person, what's it like to grieve the potential of your professional dreams and opportunities? Let today's episode guide you on a reflection of the ups and downs of your job.

    The Patriarchy Wants You to Be Silent

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2023 8:53


    Today's episode exposes the tentacles of the patriarchy at work and its harmful impact on organizations. Learn how to push against silence to uplift others, create more inclusive futures, and be on the right side of history.

    The Weaponization of DEI

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2023 8:53


    Sometimes good intentions aren't enough when you engage in DEI efforts. Today's episode offers examples of how DEI can be weaponizing and what it looks like to protect people against attacks that can harm one's career and reputation.

    Your Job Is Not Your Identity

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2023 9:27


    Never be so connected to your job that you can't separate your identity. Today's episode offers guidance about how to remain whole and bold beyond the duration of your employment.

    What If Your Organization Never Changes?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2023 9:59


    Today's episode presents a somber reality about many workplaces that may not ever improve their DEI efforts. Dr. Cox challenges listeners to reflect on their professional experiences as they navigate work and decide what they want their workplace futures to be. Learn more about Dr. Monica and her offerings at www.drmonicacox.com, and follow her on all social media platforms @drmonicacox.

    The Joy of Working in Healthy Spaces

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2023 9:35


    Many people know what it means to work in toxic workplaces, but what is it like to work in a space or with people who bring you joy? Today's episode shares a reflection on moving between healthy and unhealthy environments and ways to move into sustained safe places. Learn more about Dr. Monica and her offerings at www.drmonicacox.com, and follow her on all social media platforms @drmonicacox.

    Back to Basics: Centering Humanity at Work

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2023 6:53


    Today's episode emerges from Dr. Monica's reflection on the loss of her mother and father. She reflects on their core workplace values through storytelling and focuses on practical tips and strategies to foster understanding, empathetic, and human-centered work environments. Tune in to learn how to navigate these nuances and thrive in your workplace effectively. Learn more about Dr. Monica and her offerings at www.drmonicacox.com, and follow her on all social media platforms @drmonicacox.

    The Vulnerability of Storytelling

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2023 8:17


    Humanity is the core of diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) work. Today's episode reminds you about how understanding and sharing stories move diversity, equity, and inclusion forward.

    Beware the Professionalism Police

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2023 9:23


    Professionalism is a social construct that often penalizes people who don't fit a mold. Today's episode offers examples of ways that professionalism is weaponized in oppressive systems and spaces and presents tips to open our minds about differences in the workplace.

    Workplace Valedictorians, Professional Lynchings, & Workplace Streets

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2023 12:17


    Get ready for a thought-provoking, common sense DEI episode that challenges the norms of the workplace and introduces new terms that will revolutionize the way you think about overachieving, remaining silent, and understanding your workplace's norms. Whether you're a seasoned professional or just starting out, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to create positive workplace change. Learn more about Dr. Monica and her offerings at www.drmonicacox.com, and follow her on all social media platforms @drmonicacox.

    Stop Being the Bravest in the Room

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2023 8:50


    In 2023, Dr. Monica said her goal was not to be the bravest person in the rooms where she engaged. Learn what that means and how courage has its boundaries when one is doing DEI work. Visit www.drmonicacox.com to learn more about Dr. Monica Cox and her work. Follow her on all social media platforms @drmonicacox.

    DEI and the Fear of Social Media

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2023 7:06


    Today's episode delves into a fear that many marginalized people have about sharing their thoughts and views on social media. While it may not be the workplace, virtual spaces can be just as unforgiving as brick-and-mortar environments when it comes to penalizing those who express their opinions. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to navigate the often-choppy waters of expressing oneself virtually in today's world.

    Calling Harm What It Is

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2023 8:18


    This episode talks about the importance of being honest and upfront in organizations to create a more diverse and inclusive environment. We need to call out organizations' DEI limitations and have candid conversations about the harm they cause. While it can be uncomfortable, we need to learn how to take feedback without getting defensive. Truthtelling is essential to make real change happen and to create a culture that values authentic diversity and inclusivity.

    It's Not Enough to Sit at the Table

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2023 7:49


    Many organizations say they have advanced their diversity, equity, and inclusion efforts when marginalized people sit at the proverbial table. Even if someone has a seat and a voice at that table, actions are required to enact real DEI change. Learn what that means in today's episode.

    Trust Your Instincts

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2023 9:58


    When an organization doesn't respond to DEI as you expect, believe that organization. Be literal as you notice the policies and how people move. Here's to trusting your DEI instincts as you grow in this work.

    Keep Moving on This DEI Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2023 7:47


    Today's episode offers strategies to stay focused as diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) is being politicized. No anti-DEI law can squash and delay this work. Listen to these encouraging words as you move on a path that ensures all environments are equitable and safe.

    Your Grace Threshold

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2023 6:38


    As diversity, equity, and inclusion wars intensify across the U.S. and world, marginalized people have the option to remain silent or call oppression out. Today's episode shares thoughts about having the option to extend grace toward people who oppress others.

    What Does Real Inclusion Look Like?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2023 7:43


    Today's episode offers practical lessons about inclusion and what it looks like in the workplace. Pick up your notebook and learn how to remove the fear of bringing everyone and their perspective to an organization's table.

    Silence Is Killing Your Organization

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2023 11:03


    Today's episode is an in-your-face lesson about how silence is destroying organizations and the people in it. Learn the consequences of silence and why you can't move forward if you refuse to speak up against injustices and oppression at work.

    Speak to Me Directly

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2023 11:28


    Today I'm sharing a practice that moves people toward authentic diversity efforts. Directness is a key feature in reducing misunderstandings and ensuring that the workplace is healthy for everyone.

    Trust Is a Two Way Street

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2023 9:41


    Trust is expected when you work in an organization. There are times, however, when employees must rely on their instincts despite what people in the organization might say or do. Learn how employees and employers should work to foster trust at work.

    Speaking Out Against Harassment

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2023 12:05


    This is my real story of harassment and how it impacted me. I'm pushing my listeners to use the tools available to them when bad things happen in the workplace. It's not enough to take diversity training. When bad things happen, put your training in place to protect yourself and those around you.

    Moving from Diversity Training to Action

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2023 9:22


    Today's episode offers solid suggestions for moving beyond performative diversity. Like football, you have to get in the game once you've trained. It's time to execute what you know so you can get DEI work done.

    Stop Playing Diversity in Systems

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2023 9:22


    Today's episode pushes against systems and offers Stop Playing Diversity reminders that will make any environment better.

    Own Your DEI Brand

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2023 9:22


    Once you say you're a DEI advocate, it's important to own your DEI brand. That means walking the walk that you talk. Today's episode presents a reflection on what this looks like as you grow in the DEI space.

    The Power of Promotion and Protection

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2022 7:54


    Doing diversity, equity, and inclusion work is more than having good intentions. Sometimes you need someone in your corner promoting and protecting you as you take hits that will come your way. Learn the power of these two P's as you move beyond hopes and wishes for effective DEI outcomes.

    The Diversity Pushback

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2022 7:32


    Anyone who does DEI work is going to experience resistance. Today's episode helps you reflect on ways to move beyond the DEI pushback so you can fulfill your purpose without fear and with no regrets. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Moving from Good to Great in DEI Work

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2022 8:14


    Many people have plans for doing DEI work. All those plans aren't effective. Today's episode offers advice about ways to move from mediocre to extraordinary DEI efforts. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Telling My Trauma Story Where It Happened

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2022 9:17


    Seven years after Dr. Cox entered her organization, she shared her workplace trauma story. This episode reveals the power of owning and sharing your story and the healing that comes with that storytelling. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    About Those Nontraditional Diversity Needs

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2022 9:45


    Sometimes diversity is more than how we traditionally define it. This includes caregiving and working in a pandemic. Today's episode highlights ways diversity isn't so straightforward but is still needed. It's time to think out of the box. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Am I the Diversity Hire?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2022 6:30


    It's hiring season and time for organizations to recruit candidates who will bring diversity to the workplace. Dr. Cox offers a quick reflection about signs that you might be a token hire for an organization. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Practical Advice about Becoming a Diversity Accomplice

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2022 8:58


    Today's episode is about the basics of accompliceship. It takes courage to stand up for diversity, equity, and inclusion principles under pressure. Learn practical steps to begin this journey toward authentic diversity. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Love Yourself First (A Tribute to My Mother)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2022 8:43


    Lessons of Dr. Monica's childhood are front and center in today's episode. She encourages listeners to return to their core as they reflect on how they want and need to be treated in the workplace. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Does Your Organization Have a Daddy Complex?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2022 9:01


    Many people know about the patriarchy and its impact on diversity, equity, and inclusion efforts in organizations. Today's episode discusses the toxic "Daddy Complex," which is prevalent in organizations and hinders true DEI efforts. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Three Real Life Diversity Examples

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2022 10:58


    Stop Playing Diversity School is in session! Today's episodes present three real-world examples of diversity do's and don'ts. Get out your pen and paper, because it's time to reflect and take notes about how to do diversity, equity, and inclusion well. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Are You Ready to Retire?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2022 8:33


    Many people look forward to retirement after working in jobs they love. Unfortunately, many people also suffer in the workplace and can't wait to leave. Today's episode presents reasons why some people are ready to leave the workplace sooner than later and how this connects to diversity. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Moving Forward By Being Receptive

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2022 7:07


    This episode is about being open to diversity opportunities when they overtake you. People want what you have to offer, and it's your responsibility to sown your gifts and talents into people who want what you have to offer. Be open to new possibilities. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    DEI Is Everyone's Responsibility

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2022 8:24


    This episode is your reminder that diversity, equity, and inclusion work shouldn't be delegated only to people most likely to benefit from those efforts. Even if you don't have a title, we owe it to each other to learn more about diversity and step into the unique roles each of us can play. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Getting to the Root of Toxicity

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2022 7:44


    Many organizations focus on the toxicity of people in an organization without realizing an organization's problems are systemic. Today's episode offers practical tips to get to those toxic roots so your organization can stop playing diversity. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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