Teaching Self-Government Podcast

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the value of Mom and Grandma and the ins and outs of how the world views motherhood. Do you feel like your service to your family is underestimated and underappreciated? Do you think that Mother could be replaced? Listen in for the insights of a mother and grandmother!

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss some of the intricacies of Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), how challenging and frustrating it can be, and how TSG can address behaviors that are common with this diagnosis. Do you feel like your child is oddly distant? Do you wish they desired a better connection with you like you do with them? Listen in for great tips and insights on improving your connection with someone with RAD!

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije go to the comments of Nicholeen's YouTube channel and address a situation posed by a nanny, wondering how to navigate the complexities of “handling” other people's children who don't know the TSG skills. Are you a nanny or a teacher of some sort that spends a bit of time with other people's children and struggle keeping them “in line” while they are in your care? Do you have no idea where to even start in those situations? Listen in for more understanding of your role in those positions!

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces D.D. Black, who shares about her experiences as one of TSG's earliest mentors, her family's growth and increased unity, and her thoughts and insights on freedom from emotional bondage. Listen in to learn from D.D.!

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss seven signs that indicate emotions being stuffed or shoved down. Comments have been made that TSG is all about keeping emotions at bay, but that simply isn't true! Do you sometimes feel like you struggle to process your emotions or don't even realize you're getting stuck in them until it's too late? You're not alone. Listen in for these seven signs and see if you could use some help!

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije have some deeper discussion about pessimism and optimism, what they really mean, and how they affect us. Do you struggle seeing the “silver lining” in your daily situations? Are your children struggling with happiness? Listen in for some great insight and for a plan to become more optimistic!

In this podcast episode, Nicholeen and Paije go to the comments of Nicholeen's YouTube channel and address a situation posed by a worried mother about conflict between her teen son and husband, wanting to know how to mend the relationship. Listen in to hear what Nicholeen and Paije have to say!

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces David Eggertsen, who shares about his experiences as one of the first TSG mentors and Nicholeen's right-hand man in the business, having TSG keep his marriage together, and the skills and principles that have been so beneficial for his family. Listen in to learn from David!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces Shilo Lindstrom, who shares about her family, her experiences as a parent, and her perspective on tone in the home and how important it is to keep calm and stay consistent. Listen in to learn from Shilo! Links for resources recommended on the website page.

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces Natalie Fluckiger, who shares about her family, her experiences as a parent, and her knowledge of roles and how to use them to help us advocate for and analyze with our children. Listen in to learn from Natalie! (blooper on website page)

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces Monica Isaacson, who shares about her self-government journey, the things that have impacted her family and community the most, and how you can set your family up for success with the proper family structure and foundation. Listen in to learn from Monica!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces Sariah Schmickrath, who shares about her family travels and experiences, teaching about keeping families together, even with tension present, and increasing emotional maturity. Listen in to learn from Sariah!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije begin a new mini series! Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces Bryony Wilde, who shares about her experiences with families all over the globe and shares three key principles for successful parenting, no matter where you fall on the success scale. Listen in to learn from Bryony!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss more on the topic of discernment. How do you teach it to children? We've learned how to discern for ourselves in the previous episode, but now we need to teach it. Listen in for steps and tips to teach your children the skill of discernment!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss what it looks like to have discernment and how it impacts the family and the individual. Do you feel that there is something beyond what you're seeing that is contributing to negative behaviors in the home, but just don't quite know what it is or how to figure it out? Listen in for some deep thoughts and helpful suggestions!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss what it looks like when a house is divided and, on the flip side, what a house united looks like and how to become one. Do your family members struggle knowing who they really are? Do they have a hard time doing what they know they should do over what they want to do? Listen in for great tips and advice for healing your home!

In this podcast/class, Nicholeen and Paije discuss six steps to create an environment that is conducive to inspiring a change of heart. Do you struggle getting to the root of behavioral issues? Do you feel like nothing is going in the right direction? Listen in for those six steps and additional thoughts and tips!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss how to help shy children have socialization. Do you have children that are more reserved and introverted? Do you wish that they were more sociable? Listen in for advice and tips for how to support your children in socializing with your family and with others.

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss how to use TSG in the classroom. Are you in charge of your church class? Are you a teacher at a public or private school and need help keeping order in your classroom? Listen in for five helpful steps and tips on how to teach self-government to children that aren't yours outside of your home!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss what to do when you're wanting to implement Self-Government into your family, but you're a single parent (or feel like you're single parenting). Are you the only parent involved in your children's lives right now? Are you struggling to get your spouse on board with a new parenting system? Whether you truly are on your own or just feel like you are, listen in for great insight and advice for how to skillfully navigate your situation!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss how to handle situations where children (and other people in general) just aren't grasping a topic or the environment in general and begin to get stressed. Do you find yourself saying, “Just figure it out!” or “You know exactly what to do! Don't tell me you don't.”? Listen in for personal life experiences and lessons to help you!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss what parents do that is reactive and what parents should be doing that is proactive. Do you find that you try to emotionally control and manipulate a situation when something doesn't go how you want it? Do you wish you knew how to teach your children what you want them to know and do without resorting to emotional reactions? Listen in to learn the difference and the skills needed to do just that!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the eight steps for helping children get and stay calm. Are you struggling to put all of the pieces together and keep them straight? Follow our recipe for help and success!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss skills and tips for getting children to go to bed and stay in bed. Do your children do all they can to stay up and out of bed? Do they have meltdowns before or sneak out after lights out? Listen in for help with those children who just won't go to bed!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss tactics for getting children (and teens!) out of bed in the morning. Do your children struggle getting out of bed? Is it a constant battle to get children up and going? Listen in for tips and skills to help you get your children out of bed!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss guidelines and tips for “parenting” adult children. Do you have adult children and you're just not sure what your relationship should look like now? Listen in for an inside scoop into how adult children view their relationship with their parents, vice versa, and how to navigate the waters of new adult relationships!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss their favorite movies, what they like about them, and why they recommend them. Are you struggling to find movies that are worth watching? Listen in for a great list of “Peck Family Approved” viewing media! To get a pdf download of this list, click HERE.

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the games that the Peck family loves and recommends! Needing some good games for family time? Do you have children of varying ages? Look no further! We've got so many good suggestions! To get a pdf download of this list, click HERE.

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss specific book recommendations by age and why they recommend them. Have you wondered which books would be good to supplement what you're trying to teach your family through Teaching Self-Government? Here you go! Listen in for our list (which is not exhaustive!) and why we love the books we recommend! To get a pdf download of this list, click HERE.

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the difference between mediocre media and good, uplifting media, and why it's important to know the difference and impact each have. Are you struggling to find wholesome entertainment for your family? Do you wonder if there's even a point to being picky with your media? Look no further (right now, anyway)! We've got the “why” behind all the things you'll need for your family to have fun time together!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss tolerances in a new light. Is it possible to be understanding and calm while still keeping tolerances low? The answer is yes! Listen in for some guidance and some great tips!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the importance of partnering tone with parenting and relationship skills. Do you find that you're executing the skills perfectly, but it's still not quite right? Are behaviors and feelings still negative, despite your efforts to master the skills? Listen in to hear how tone and skills are and should be compatible.

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije are joined by Nicholeen's youngest daughter, Londyn Peck, to talk about how to cultivate a healthy, happy, sisterly (or sibling in general) bond. Are there differing personalities between your children? What about you and your own siblings? Listen in to hear Paije and Londyn discuss their relationship growing up and how it has changed and matured, despite very different personalities.

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss how to teach someone to drop the subject and what it might look like in different life situations. Do your children tend to hold a grudge when they don't get their way? Do they have a hard time letting something go? Do you find yourself becoming emotionally invested in something that doesn't really matter? Listen in for some insight on dropping the subject and why it's so important!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the ups and downs of parenting as a single parent. Do you struggle catching a break? Do you feel like a single parent, even though you have a spouse? Do you often feel alone in your parenting efforts? Listen in for some great tips to help you succeed in your parenting journey, no matter if you're by yourself or just feel like you are.

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the nuts and bolts of Teaching Self-Government. Need a refresher? Wondering if you're missing out on a few things that could be helpful for you and your family? Listen in for a crash course in the things we teach and share!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss how important it is to establish an authoritative (Traditional Strict) parenting style as soon as you possibly can for reasons you might not think of or realize. Are your children struggling with grades in school? Do you feel like you keep telling them something, but they're just not getting it? Listen in for a deeper look into the psychology behind parenting styles and the effects they have on all areas of children's lives.

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss how to address children's negative behaviors in public. Do you ever find that your child does something they shouldn't have, but you don't want to embarrass them in front of their friends? Is that something you even consider when it comes to correction? Listen in for some great tips for correcting negative behaviors in public!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the different aspects of mental health and how to help others that struggle with poor mental health. Does someone you love struggle getting out of a mental rut? Are you wondering what the root problem is for poor mental health? Listen in to learn more about what all goes into diagnosing and repairing mental health issues. Book recommendation: The How of Happiness To access Nicholeen's class titled “The Value & Mastery of Emotions,” click HERE.

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije (and Clara!) discuss what to do to make bedtime a smooth success. Do your littles put up a fight about going to bed? Do your older children simply disregard bedtime altogether to do their own thing? Listen in for skills and insights to transform your messy bedtime!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss what happens when there is media addiction in the home. Are your children lazy and unenthusiastic about life? Do they fight with each other all the time? Do they constantly ask to have screen time? Listen in for some great insight about setting some boundaries and helping your family get out of your media addictions!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss some of the reasons behind rude behaviors that teens tend to exhibit and share four tips for dealing with those behaviors. Do you know teens who or openly rebellious and selfish? Are these teenagers your own children? Are you at a loss to what could help them change? Listen in for these great tips to help the teenagers in your life become more respectful and prepared for later life!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss what to do when there are two different types of parenting present in the same home. Does one parent allow children to walk all over them and is known as the push-over? Is the other parent the one that lays down the hammer and strikes fear into the hearts of everyone present? Listen in for some great advice on how to resolve the issue of 2-type parenting and how both kinds of parents can unite in one way!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the one magical ingredient that can have the biggest influence for good on your family! Do your children struggle in social situations? Do you have a hard time truly connecting with your family in general? Going to family therapy and wish you didn't have to? Listen in for the one and only “magic pill” or “quick fix” that Nicholeen shares and recommends!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss three ways to help children understand what it means to be responsible and how to do it. Do your children just not care about taking care of or picking up after themselves? Are you annoyed because they seem to not learn anything you teach them to do? Listen in for these important ways and to be inspired!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss how to deal with disappointing situations. Did your child lose a game and get angry because of it? Did you spend hours on a meal that didn't turn out right and no one liked? Listen in for some great insight and tips on how to help your family!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss what social anxiety is and how it's affecting the family. Do you have social anxiety but don't really know why or how you got it? Do you wish you could help your children overcome their social anxiety? Listen in for some great insight and awesome tips!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss social skills: how and where are they learned? What social skills should be avoided? What if you're anti-social as the parent, but still want to teach your children good social skills? Listen in for great tips and inspiration!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss Nicholeen's weight loss journey. Do you want to shed a few pounds, especially during the holidays? Is there more going on besides struggling to make good health choices? Listen in for Nicholeen's ever unique perspective and for tips to help you reach your health goals!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the secret to perfect parenting! Do you ever find yourself in a situation where you reacted in a way that you wish you hadn't, but feel it's too late to do anything about it? Or do you feel like it's too much effort to go back and fix an interaction? Listen in for some great insight and teaching on this amazing gold nugget of parenting!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the importance of seeking to understand others. Have you ever felt misunderstood and struggled to get your point across? Have you caught yourself spacing out when others were trying to make themselves understood by you? Listen in for some great tips on how to understand others better and help them understand you.