Podcasts about parenting adult children

In this episode of Everyone Dies, we explore the rising "epidemic" of family estrangement. We begin with a high-profile case study: Brooklyn Beckham's recent public declaration of "no contact" with his parents, David and Victoria Beckham. Using this as a jumping-off point, we examine the modern language of therapeutic boundaries and why more adult children are choosing to walk away. https://bit.ly/3P6DlUQIn this episode, we discuss:(02:09) The Reality of Rupture: A first-person account of a parent "shrinking" themselves and walking on eggshells for years before the final break.(10:08) Defining Ambiguous Loss: Understanding the psychological trauma of an ongoing loss that has no funeral and no clear closure.(17:37) Supporting the Estranged: Practical guidance for friends and family on what to say—and what not to say—to a parent living through this silence.(26:18) The Path Forward: Learn the importance of space, respecting boundaries, and the mindset required for potential long-term reconciliation.Whether you are a parent navigating the pain of a "no contact" request or a friend looking for the right way to offer support, this episode provides a compassionate, editorial look at one of the most difficult relational challenges of our time.Featured Resources:S6E45: When Closure Isn't Possible: How to Find a Way Forward Through Grief - Learn More about Ambiguous LossIf You Know an Estranged Parent, Please Read This by Rachel Haack (Thank you Rachel for letting us feature your work in this podcast)#AmbiguousLoss #FamilyEstrangement #GriefWithoutDeath #NoContact #EstrangedParents #EveryoneDiesPodcast #UnspokenGrief #ComplexGrief #MentalHealthAwarenessSupport the showGet show notes, images and resources at our website: every1dies.org. Facebook | Instagram | YouTube | mail@every1dies.org

Send a textKeywordsparenting, young adults, life transitions, mental health, financial literacy, college readiness, therapeutic consulting, adulting skills, boundaries, independenceSummaryIn this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, James Moffitt speaks with Joanna Lilly, a therapeutic consultant, about the challenges parents face in supporting their young adult children during significant life transitions. They discuss the importance of financial literacy, the difference between being college capable and college ready, and the necessity of teaching essential life skills. Joanna emphasizes the need for parents to set boundaries and create plans when their children face setbacks, such as dropping out of college. The conversation highlights the complexities of parenting in today's world and offers practical strategies for fostering independence and resilience in young adults.TakeawaysJoanna Lilly is a therapeutic consultant working with young adults.Parents need to support their children during life transitions.Financial literacy is crucial for young adults.There is a difference between being college capable and college ready.Teaching life skills is essential for independence.Setting boundaries is important for parents.Young adults need to contribute to household responsibilities.A gap year can be beneficial for mental wellness.Parents should have a plan if their child drops out of college.Resilience is key to navigating life's challenges.Sound bites"We need to be a little more positive.""It's important to have a plan.""Life is hard, it's difficult."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Parenting Adult Children03:16 The Role of a Therapeutic Consultant05:58 Navigating Life Transitions for Young Adults08:46 Understanding Financial Literacy11:26 Signs of Young Adults Needing Support14:30 Building Life Skills for Independence17:17 The Importance of Communication and Support20:11 Humor in Parenting Challenges26:13 Navigating Daily Responsibilities26:38 Understanding College Capable vs. College Ready32:04 The Role of Gap Years in Mental Wellness33:43 Rethinking the Necessity of a Four-Year Degree41:17 Addressing College Dropouts and Setting Expectations48:21Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here !Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes.Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode. If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.mePlease share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest interviSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Send a textIn this episode, James Moffitt and Robert Hunt discuss the complexities of parenting adult children, emphasizing the importance of accountability, modeling behavior, and transitioning from a parent-child relationship to a mentoring role. They explore how parents can foster healthy communication, navigate differences in perspectives, and encourage personal growth in their children while maintaining their own accountability. The conversation highlights the significance of being present, understanding, and supportive as children navigate their own paths in adulthood.Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here !Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes.Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode. If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.mePlease share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest interviSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Let us know what you think about the podcast!Episode 207 - Family Reactivity and Anxiety: Why Your Relationship Feels Stuck Do you feel stuck in painful cycles of family conflict and emotional reactions? Maybe you feel like you are walking on eggshells around your child. Or maybe your emotions take over, and you say things you later wish you had handled differently.In this episode of the Coaching Your Family Relationships Podcast, Tina Gosney, family conflict coach and family life educator, teaches you why reactivity is one of the biggest reasons family relationships stay tense, distant, or stuck, especially in parenting adult children relationships.You will learn:What family reactivity really looks like and why it is not always yelling or angerHow anxiety quietly fuels emotional distance from adult childrenWhy patterns from your family of origin get repeated unless you interrupt themHow one reactive person can set the emotional tone for the entire familyThe difference between reacting from anxiety and responding with emotional maturityThis conversation will help you understand why your adult child may be pulling away and what you can begin doing differently if you want to rebuild trust and create connection without control.This episode is your guide to creating emotional freedom—even if your family feels stuck in chaos right now. Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She works with parents who have families in conflict to help them become the grounded, confident leaders their family needs. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tinagosneycoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tinagosneycoaching ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Tina is certified in family relationships and a trauma informed coach. Visit tinagosney.com for more information on coaching services.

Send Jay comments via textWhat if true closeness with your adult children has little to do with how far apart you are? This thought-provoking episode features writer and parent-mentor Joanne McHugh, creator of the insightful newsletter Things Your Mom Should Have Told You. Together, we explore the emotional journey of launching kids into the world—whether to veterinary school in London or chasing dreams amidst a pandemic in Manhattan—and uncover why intimacy thrives when we prioritize honesty over perfection.Joanne shares practical strategies for staying connected despite distance, emphasizing the power of small, consistent check-ins, voice notes, and photos that provide context and meaning. We discuss the transformative shift from “fixing” to adopting a peer-style mentor approach that respects your children's autonomy. Through relatable stories—like the significance of a spilled salad dressing or a cake-in-the-face wedding photo—Joanne illustrates how candid narratives can model resilience and invite your adult children to open up in return.Highlights & Key Takeaways:Redefining closeness: intimacy over proximity.Navigating parenting across cities and time zones.How storytelling teaches better than lecturing.Transitioning from a parental voice to a peer mentor role.Joanne McHugh's Bio: Joanne McHugh is on a mission to share all the things we should tell our kids about young adulthood. She created the weekly online newsletter "Things Your Mom Should Have Told You" to help 20-somethings navigate young adulthood. By speaking candidly about the ordinary struggles of adulthood, offering common-sense wisdom, and throwing in a few laughs, she hopes to help reduce anxiety about becoming a grown-up. Joanne also supports parents by offering insights on coping with the empty nest and finding renewed purpose by serving as on-call experts for their kids about “What to Expect While Adulting.”Find Joanne Online: Instagram, Facebook, WebsiteSupport the showBECOME A VIP SUBSCRIBER (Join Today!) Bonus Content for Subscribers Only Episode Shoutouts Thank You Emails Private Meet & Greets via Zoom + More ENJOY THE SHOW?Don't miss an episode, subscribe via Apple Podcasts or follow on Spotify and many more. Review us on Love the Podcast, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify -- reviews and ratings help others find us and we'd appreciate your support greatly. LOVE THE SHOW?Get THIS EMPTY NEST LIFE swagCONNECT WITH JAYEmail, LinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok

Send a textKeywordsADHD, parenting, executive functioning, mindfulness, neurodiversity, family dynamics, young adults, parenting strategies, support systems, personal obligationsSummaryIn this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with ADHD coach Corie  Wightlin about the challenges and strategies for parenting young adults with ADHD. They discuss the importance of connection in parenting, the impact of executive dysfunction, and the role of mindfulness in managing ADHD. Corie shares her personal experiences as a parent of neurodiverse children and offers practical tools for creating supportive family dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the need for understanding, patience, and effective communication in navigating the complexities of ADHD within family settings.TakeawaysConnection is the primary goal in parenting.ADHD can create significant challenges in executive functioning.Mindfulness practices can enhance awareness and emotional regulation.Parents must set boundaries to maintain their well-being.Neurodiversity impacts family dynamics and relationships.Resources like CHADD can provide valuable support for parents.Creating a visual calendar can help ADHD individuals stay organized.Communication styles should be adapted for ADHD family members.Flexible routines can reduce resistance in ADHD children.Sticky notes are a practical tool for reminders and organization.TitlesNavigating ADHD in ParentingMindfulness and ADHD: A Family ApproachSound bites"Connection before everything else.""You can't pour from an empty cup.""ADHD affects the entire family."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Parenting Challenges02:41 Understanding ADHD and Parenting Dynamics05:38 Navigating Executive Functioning in Young Adults08:30 Daily Life with ADHD11:09 The Role of Mindfulness in Managing ADHD14:15 Balancing Parenting with Personal Obligations18:17 Navigating Parenting Challenges with ADHD23:29 Understanding Neurodiversity in Family Dynamics28:40 Resources and Support for ADHD Families33:49 Creating Sustainable Family Systems for ADHDRichard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here !Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes.Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode. If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.mePlease share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest interviSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Parenting doesn't end when your child turns 18—it simply changes.In this deeply honest and heartfelt episode of Female Voices: Life & Loss, hosts Wayna Berry and Teresa Reiniger unpack the emotional, often unspoken realities of parenting adult children—from college drop-offs and strained communication to breaking generational patterns, letting go, and learning how to stay connected without controlling.Through personal stories, laughter, and vulnerable reflection, this episode explores how parenting evolves through every season: college years, adulthood, marriage, grandchildren,blended families, and the ongoing work of healing what was modeled before us. If you've ever wondered “Am I doing this right?”—this conversation is for you.Wayna Berry, licensed professional counselor and co-host of Female Voices: Life & Loss, brings clinical insight, humor, and real-life experience as a single mother navigating the evolvingrelationship with her adult son.Teresa Reiniger, grief coach, speaker, and co-host, shares her lived experience raising three daughters through every life stage—from college transitions to marriage and motherhood—while intentionally breaking generational cycles and modeling healthier emotional patterns.Together, they create a space where honesty meets compassion—and where growth is alwayspossible.Topics Discussed ● Parenting through the emotional shift from high school to college● How adult children pull away—and why it's often necessary● Breaking generational patterns (yelling, emotional distance, lack of support)● Letting go while still offering guidance and support● Navigating pride, embarrassment, and celebration as parents● Parenting adult children who are now parenting their own kids● Communication vs. control in adult parent-child relationships● Blended family dynamics and co-parenting challenges✨ Key Takeaways● Parenting never stops, but the role must evolve● Awareness is the first step to breaking generational cycles● Yelling may release stress—but it can shrink a child's spirit● Communication builds bridges where control creates distance● You can parent differently than how you were raised● Grace—for yourself and your children—is essential in every season

Let us know what you think about the podcast!Episode 206: Parenting Adult Children Today with Catherine HickemAre you parenting your adult children with the same mindset you had when they were little? It might be time for a shift.In this powerful episode, I'm joined by Catherine Hickem, a licensed therapist and founder of Parenting Adult Children Today. We talk about the emotional journey of parenting grown kids and why so many families are experiencing estrangement and emotional disconnection.Catherine brings decades of experience, both professional and personal, to this conversation. She shares her own heartfelt story of healing with her father, the powerful restoration that took place between them, and why she believes it's never too late to repair a family relationship.We cover:Why parenting adult children requires a different mindset than parenting younger kidsHow unconscious expectations can damage connectionThe role of fear, disappointment, and emotional reactivity in estrangementWhat it really means to “do your own work” as a parentHow emotional maturity and self-awareness create safety for adult childrenPractical first steps for shifting how you show up in your relationshipsThis episode is packed with wisdom and hope. If you've ever felt like you “did your best, but your child still won't talk to you,” or you're asking, “why won't my adult child talk to me?” this conversation will speak directly to your heart.MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODECatherine's work at Parenting Adult Children TodayThe importance of emotional healing and growing self-awarenessThe idea that our success as parents isn't how our children turn out, it's how we show upThis is how you know if you need help with this…You're walking on eggshells around your adult childYou're carrying guilt, fear, or confusion about what went wrongYou feel like your adult child is pulling away and you don't know whyYou want to reconnect but don't know where to startYou find yourself stuck in anxiety, reactivity, or resentment Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She works with parents who have families in conflict to help them become the grounded, confident leaders their family needs. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tinagosneycoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tinagosneycoaching ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Tina is certified in family relationships and a trauma informed coach. Visit tinagosney.com for more information on coaching services.

Parenting doesn't end when your kids turn 18. In many ways, it gets more complicated! Today Karen and Erin are joined by longtime parenting expert Jim Burns for a wise and honest conversation about parenting adult children. They talk about releasing control, shifting your role, navigating boundaries, resisting unsolicited advice, and discerning the difference between helping and enabling. Whether your kids are still at home, newly launched, or already raising families of their own, this episode will help you parent with clarity, peace, and long-term perspective.Episode Recap:Jim is the founder of Homeward Ministries (3:06)When our children become adults, we have to give up control (4:43)What does it look like to embrace a new “job description” as moms? (7:00)How can we offer wisdom to our adult children or do we just bite our tongues? (11:37)Resist the urge to become a “one topic” parent (13:15)What's the difference between helping your kids and enabling them? (15:45)How do we place good boundaries when adult kids move back in? (19:10)What does it mean to, “wear beige and keep your mouth shut?” (24:00)Can you cast vision for the grandparent years? (28:00)Continue this conversation on WT+ at the link below (32:00)Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1 (ESV) –  “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.”Discussion Questions: What part of parenting adult children feels most difficult for you right now? If you don't have adult children yet, what fears or worries do you have about that season of life?How can you shift from giving advice to asking permission before speaking?Is there an area where helping may have crossed into enabling dependency?What expectations need to be clearly communicated in your family right now?How can you focus on relationship building rather than behavior correcting?Resources:Listen to the rest of our conversation with Jim over on WT+: boaw.mom/insiderGrab a copy of Jim's new book, Doing Life With Your Adult ChildrenConnect with HomeWord Ministries onlineCheck out Jim's podcast and his recent episode on Long Distance GrandparentingCheck out our BRAND NEW Bible study: How To Teach Your Kids the BibleWant More of This Conversation?Wire Talk+ listeners get extended conversations every week! Today we go deeper into parenting wayward adult children, setting boundaries, and navigating complicated family dynamics.To become a Wire Talk+ Insider, head HERE and join us for the full conversation.

What is the first semester of college really like—from a freshman's point of view?In today's Community Conversation, I'm joined by my son, Aiden, as he reflects on his first semester of college. We talk honestly about the chaos, the growth, and the lessons learned during this big transition—for him and for us as parents.As moms, we often focus on how this season feels for us. This episode offers a rare look at what it feels like from the other side, and a reminder that growth is happening even when things feel messy or uncertain.Key Takeaways:The realities of the first few weeks of collegeWhy accountability is harder than expected—and what helpedMaking friends and finding your peopleLearning independence and self-advocacyHow faith provided grounding during overwhelming momentsWhat support from home helped most (and what didn't)Practical advice for parents navigating this seasonThis conversation is a reminder that letting go doesn't mean disconnecting. It's about learning when to step back, how to stay connected without controlling, and how to trust God with what we can no longer manage.If today's episode encouraged you, join my Simple Shifts newsletter for gentle encouragement, practical tools, and episode resources.

Send a textKeywordsparenting, adult children, transition to adulthood, parent-child dynamics, emotional intelligence, self-care, clarity, perspective, expectations, personal growthSummaryIn this episode of the ABCs of Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt and guest Lindy Van Heerden discuss the complexities of parenting adult children, the transition to adulthood, and the importance of understanding both perspectives in parent-child dynamics. They explore the challenges faced by young adults in finding clarity in their lives and the role of parents in supporting them through this journey. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication, emotional intelligence, and self-care for both parents and children as they navigate this evolving relationship.TakeawaysParenting adult children requires a shift in roles.The transition to adulthood is challenging for both parents and children.Understanding each other's perspectives is crucial for effective communication.Clarity is often a myth; taking action leads to clarity.Parents' fears can influence their children's decisions.Self-care is essential for parents navigating this transition.Mistakes are valuable learning experiences for both sides.Emotional intelligence plays a key role in parent-child relationships.Encouraging independence in children can be difficult for parents.Open conversations can bridge the gap between generations.TitlesNavigating the Challenges of Parenting Adult ChildrenUnderstanding the Transition to AdulthoodSound bites"Parenting doesn't end at 18.""Life teaches some valuable lessons.""Clarity keeps young adults stuck."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Parenting Adult Children02:30 The Transition to Adulthood05:32 Understanding Parent-Child Dynamics08:36 The Importance of Perspective11:47 Navigating Expectations and Reality14:31 The Role of Clarity in Young Adults' Lives17:36 Learning from Mistakes and Experiences20:38 The Journey of Self-Discovery23:21 Closing Thoughts and Future ConversationsRichard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here !Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes.Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode. If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.mePlease share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest interviSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Send us a textWhat happens when the kids you raised in church no longer want anything to do with church as adults?In this episode of The FORGE Truth Podcast, Pete Alwinson and Jayson Quiñones tackle one of the most painful and common questions fathers face today. Why do so many adult children drift from faith, and what responsibility do dads still carry once their children are grown?This honest and pastoral conversation explores the role of fathers as spiritual leaders, the danger of outsourcing discipleship to the church, and the long game of parenting that does not end at eighteen. Pete and Jayson talk about consistency, humility, repentance, prayer, and how to engage adult children without guilt or control.If you are a dad wrestling with regret, fear, or confusion about how to lead your family spiritually, this episode offers wisdom, clarity, and hope rooted in the gospel.

Send a textKey wordsLGBTQ+, parenting, grief, relationships, storytelling, empathy, personal growth, creativity, emotional intelligence, family dynamics, LGBTQ+, parenting, acceptance, emotional intelligence, family dynamics, identity, relationships, advice for parents, societal norms, validationsummaryIn this episode of the Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Paul Cramm about the intersection of creativity, empathy, and LGBTQ+ representation. The conversation delves into personal stories of loss, the complexities of parental relationships, and the importance of understanding and accepting diverse identities. Paul shares his experiences growing up in a fundamentalist environment and the challenges he faced in coming out, while James reflects on his relationship with his late son, Jeremy, who identified as LGBTQ+. Together, they explore the significance of open communication and the need for inclusive spaces for discussions about identity and family dynamics. In this conversation, Paul Cram and James Moffitt explore the complexities of growing up gay, the dynamics of family acceptance, and the importance of emotional intelligence in parenting. They reflect on their personal experiences, the societal changes regarding LGBTQ+ acceptance, and offer advice for parents on how to foster healthy relationships with their children. The discussion emphasizes the need for validation, understanding, and the freedom to pursue one's dreams and aspirations without the constraints of societal expectations.IRichard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here !Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes.Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode. If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.mePlease share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest interviSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Send us a textTalia is the CEO and Founder of Newport Counseling Center, Inc. and Coaching with Talia, Inc. She holds a Master's Degree in Clinical Psychology with an Emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy. Talia has completed post-graduate certification in Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Psychoanalytic Couples Therapy and Infant, Child, and Adolescent Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy. Her work centers on uncovering the unconscious material within a client's psyche to relieve psychic tension—inner conflict that often originates in early childhood and arises during times of intense stress or emotional turmoil. In other words, it all goes back to childhood. Once this is understood and tended to, we can reclaim our adult selves and be more authentic.  Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Send us a textKeywordsparenting, autism, neurodivergent, homeschooling, adaptive strategies, mindset shifts, self-regulation, empowerment, collaboration, Andrea PollackTakeawaysAndrea transitioned from law to homeschooling her autistic son, gaining insights into adaptive parenting.Understanding and collaboration are more effective than punishment in parenting.Parents should focus on self-regulation to better support their children.Mindset shifts are crucial for managing parenting stress.Parents are the best advocates for their children, knowing their needs intimately.Andrea's program emphasizes starting with the parent's self-regulation.Parenting strategies should be tailored to each child's unique needs.Parents can provide significant value beyond professional help.Andrea encourages parents to trust their instincts and embrace new parenting approaches.The podcast offers hope and empowerment for parents of neurodivergent children.Sound bites"Understanding over punishment." "Parents are the best advocates." "Mindset shifts manage stress." "Trust your parenting instincts." "Empowerment through self-regulation." "Collaboration, not punishment." "Hope for neurodivergent parenting." "Andrea's journey from law to homeschooling." "Value beyond professional help." "Embrace new parenting approaches."Chapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:00 Andrea's Transition from Law to Homeschooling00:00:00 Adaptive Parenting Strategies00:00:00 Mindset Shifts and Self-Regulation00:00:01 Empowerment and Collaboration in ParentingWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren Listen here for our sponsors list. Many thanks to them for helping to underwrite the costs of producing this podcast. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Send us a textShow NotesIn this episode of the ABC's of Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes Robert C. Delena to discuss the transformative journey of his son, Ryan. The conversation delves into the challenges Ryan faced in therapeutic schools, the impact of skiing on his development, and the importance of finding passion in unconventional paths. Robert shares insights on parenting, challenging traditional methods, and the power of nature in emotional growth.Keywordsparenting, adult children, unconventional paths, skiing, emotional growth, therapeutic schools, passion, nature, Robert C. Delena, Ryan DelenaTakeawaysRobert Delena shares his son's journey through therapeutic schools.Skiing played a pivotal role in Ryan's emotional development.The importance of finding passion in unconventional paths.Challenging traditional parenting methods can lead to growth.The power of nature in emotional healing.Ryan's transformation from a troubled child to a thriving outdoorsman.The role of adventure in personal development.Insights into embracing creativity and resilience in parenting.The impact of skiing on Ryan's life and family.Encouragement for parents to explore unique paths for their children.Sound bitesTransformative power of skiing Challenging traditional parenting Nature's role in healing Ryan's journey to success Passion in unconventional paths Embracing creativity in parenting Skiing changed our lives Adventure and emotional growth Parenting with resilience Exploring unique pathsChapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:00 Robert Delena's Background00:00:00 The Boston Marathon Incident00:00:00 Ryan's Challenges and Therapeutic Schools00:00:01 The Impact of Skiing00:00:01 Ryan's Transformation and Current Life00:00:01 Parenting Insights and AdviceWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

In Part 2 of this heartfelt and practical series, Shelly continues her conversation with parent coach Diana Davidson — and this time, they're moving beyond the emotions of drop-off and diving into what actually happens next.Once the dorm room is set up and the goodbye tears dry, a brand-new season of parenting begins. The rhythms change, communication shifts, and the “How often should I check in?” questions start rolling in. And if you've ever struggled with things like Life360, texting boundaries, or knowing how to support your college student without hovering — you're not alone.Diana offers real-life strategies for navigating this new dynamic with confidence, peace, and connection. From communication rhythms to practical boundaries to fun creative ways to stay close across the miles, this episode gives you tools you can use today.Whether your student calls every day or hasn't texted you back all week, this conversation will help you build trust, stay grounded, and embrace this next chapter with intention.Key TakeawaysParenting from a distance requires a shift from manager to guide on the side.Every child has different communication rhythms — honor their personality, not someone else's.Before setting expectations, have a simple conversation: “What kind of communication feels good for you?”Boundaries create trust — and reduce anxiety on both sides.If Life360 causes stress or control, ask: Is this for my child or for me?Simple connection points (photos, pets, plants, playlists) can keep relationships warm without pressure.Your child grows when you give them space — and your confidence grows too.Links and ResourcesConnect with Diana: https://dianadavidsoncoaching.comDiana's free parent care package“They're in College… Now What?” free webinarJoin the Simple Shifts newsletter: https://midlifemadesimplepodcast.com Resources:Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/shellyniehaus/Simple Shifts Newsletter: https://midlifemadesimplepodcast.com/tipsWomen Entrepreneurs In Prayer Call - https://midlifemadesimplepodcast.com/prayer

Send us a textIn this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes back Dr. David Marcus, a clinical psychologist specializing in families under stress. Dr. Marcus discusses the concept of a 'soothing presence' and the process of 'emptying out' emotions, emphasizing the importance of understanding emotional communication with children. He explains the three levels of emotional intensity: the logical here-and-now, the history level, and the tapped-into level, and how these need to be addressed for effective communication. The conversation also touches on the cultural and familial influences on emotional intelligence and the importance of validating feelings in relationships.Keywordsparenting, emotional communication, soothing presence, emptying out, emotional intelligence, family stress, Dr. David Marcus, James Moffitt, podcast, relationshipsTakeawaysA soothing presence is someone who is okay when you're not.Emotional communication involves understanding three levels: logical, history, and tapped-into.Emptying out emotions requires addressing all three levels for effective communication.Cultural and familial influences shape emotional intelligence.Validating feelings is crucial in relationships.Men often struggle with emotional expression due to cultural norms.Parents should avoid trying to 'make' children feel better, instead allowing them to express emotions.Children learn emotional resilience by observing adult interactions.Opposites attract in relationships, allowing partners to soothe each other.Effective communication involves both partners feeling heard and understood.Sound bitesA soothing presence is key.Emptying out emotions is essential.Validate feelings for better relationships.Men struggle with emotional expression.Children learn from adult interactions.Opposites attract in soothing relationships.Cultural norms shape emotional intelligence.Effective communication needs understanding.Parents shouldn't force emotions.Emotional resilience starts young.Chapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:00 Understanding Soothing Presence00:00:00 Emptying Out Process00:00:00 Cultural and Familial Influences00:00:01 Validating Feelings in Relationships00:00:01 Conclusion and Book PromotionWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren Listen here for our sponsors list. Many thanks to them for helping to underwrite the costs of producing this podcast. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Send us a textIn this episode of ABC's Apparenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt talks with John Hankins, a certified financial therapist and licensed social worker. They discuss the importance of financial literacy for young adults, the emotional connections to money, and the challenges parents face when supporting adult children financially. John shares insights on budgeting, saving, and managing credit, while James reflects on his own financial journey and the lessons learned from his parents.Keywordsfinancial literacy, adult children, budgeting, saving, credit management, financial therapy, emotional connections, retirement planning, financial stress, financial educationTakeawaysFinancial literacy is crucial for young adults to manage their future effectively.Parents should lead by example in teaching financial management to their children.Understanding emotional connections to money can improve financial decision-making.Budgeting and saving are foundational skills for financial stability.Credit management is essential to avoid long-term debt issues.Parents often face challenges when financially supporting adult children.Retirement planning requires careful consideration of long-term financial needs.Financial therapy can help individuals and couples manage financial stress.The financial markets' volatility requires a balanced and informed approach.Open communication about money can strengthen family relationships.Sound bites"Financial literacy is crucial for young adults.""Lead by example in financial management.""Emotional connections to money matter.""Budgeting is a foundational skill.""Credit management is essential.""Supporting adult children is challenging.""Plan carefully for retirement needs.""Financial therapy can ease stress.""Market volatility requires balance.""Communication strengthens family ties."Chapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:00 Understanding Financial Therapy00:00:00 Financial Literacy for Young Adults00:00:00 Challenges of Supporting Adult Children00:00:01 Retirement Planning and Market Volatility00:00:01 Emotional Connections to MoneyWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren Listen here for our sponsors list. Many thanks to them for helping to underwrite the costs of producing this podcast. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Send us a textKeywordsparenting, adult children, special needs, educational strategies, advocacy, learning disabilities, multi-sensory learning, success stories, self-care, diagnosisSummaryIn this episode of the ABCs of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Dr. Emily Levy about the unique challenges and strategies involved in parenting adult children with special needs. They discuss the evolution of educational strategies, the importance of advocacy, and the role of multi-sensory learning techniques. Dr. Levy shares success stories and emphasizes the importance of self-care for parents, as well as the need for proper diagnosis and support for children with learning disabilities.TakeawaysParents are their child's best advocates.Educational strategies for special needs have evolved positively.Multi-sensory learning techniques can significantly aid learning.It's crucial for parents to empower their children towards independence.Success stories can provide hope for parents of special needs children.Self-care is essential for parents of children with special needs.Understanding specific learning disabilities is key to providing support.Advocacy in higher education settings is vital for student success.Parents should seek available resources both in and out of school.Every child has the potential to thrive with the right support.Sound bites"Every child has gifts and strengths.""Taking care of oneself is so important.""Don't just sit back, take action!"Chapters00:00 Introduction to Parenting Adult Children02:53 Understanding Special Needs and Educational Strategies05:45 Advocacy in Higher Education for Special Needs08:40 Multi-Sensory Learning Techniques11:42 Navigating Challenges and Success Stories14:53 Identifying Learning Disabilities17:33 Final Thoughts and ResourcesWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

One of the most challenging stages of parenting is transitioning to the empty-nest season, especially when our adult children make decisions we disagree with. Mary DeMuth guides us on this journey of finding joy regardless of our wayward adult kids, sharing practical and spiritual tips on how to stay connected with children who have left the Christian faith. Receive a copy of Love, Pray, Listen and an audio download of "Parenting Adult Children When They Walk Away from God" for your donation of any amount! Your Gift DOUBLES to Help Deliver Hope and Joy! Save 2X the marriages and families this Christmas with your life-changing gift today! Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.

One of the most challenging stages of parenting is transitioning to the empty-nest season, especially when our adult children make decisions we disagree with. Mary DeMuth guides us on this journey of finding joy regardless of our wayward adult kids, sharing practical and spiritual tips on how to stay connected with children who have left the Christian faith. Receive a copy of Love, Pray, Listen and an audio download of "Parenting Adult Children When They Walk Away from God" for your donation of any amount! Your Gift DOUBLES to Help Deliver Hope and Joy! Save 2X the marriages and families this Christmas with your life-changing gift today! Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.

Send us a textIn this episode of ADC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt is joined by John Fela and Katy Moffitt to discuss the challenges and experiences of parenting children with disabilities. John shares his journey as a parent of a nonverbal autistic son, highlighting the fears and realities of finding suitable care and community for his child. Katy, with her extensive experience in special education, adds insights into the educational needs and social dynamics of children with disabilities. The conversation delves into the importance of community support, the role of churches in disability ministry, and the need for awareness and acceptance in society.Keywordsparenting, disability advocacy, autism, special education, community support, church ministry, awareness, acceptance, nonverbal communication, special needsTakeawaysJohn Fela describes himself as the 'Swiss Army knife of disability advocacy.'John's son, Chris, is nonverbal and autistic, requiring specialized care.Katy has over 25 years of experience in special education.The importance of finding a supportive community for families with disabilities.Challenges in finding suitable educational and living environments for children with disabilities.The role of churches in providing support and inclusion for families with disabilities.John emphasizes the need for awareness and acceptance in society.The fear of the future and loneliness as a parent of a child with disabilities.The significance of communication tools like TouchChat for nonverbal individuals.John's advocacy work includes writing, speaking, and creating support groups for fathers.Title OptionsNavigating Disability Advocacy with John FelaParenting Challenges: A Journey with John and KatyBuilding Community Support for Special Needs FamiliesThe Role of Churches in Disability MinistryJohn Fela: A Voice for Disability AdvocacyUnderstanding Autism: Insights from John FelaSpecial Education and Parenting: Katy's PerspectiveCreating Inclusive Communities for DisabilitiesJohn Fela's Advocacy JourneySupporting Nonverbal Communication in AutismSound bitesSwiss Army knife of disability advocacyFear of the future and lonelinessImportance of community supportRole of churches in inclusionAwareness and acceptance in societyNonverbal communication toolsChallenges in special educationBuilding support groups for fathersNavigating disability advocacyCreating inclusive communitiesChapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introductions00:00:00 John Fela's Advocacy Journey00:00:00 Parenting a Nonverbal Autistic Child00:00:01 Educational and Living Challenges Listen here for our sponsors list. Many thanks to them for helping to underwrite the costs of producing this podcast. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Send us a textIn this episode of the Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes guest Angie Mizzell, an author and former television journalist. They discuss Angie's journey from a successful career in TV journalism to becoming a storyteller and podcaster, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and personal growth. The conversation touches on parenting challenges, the need for self-care, and the evolving dynamics of parent-child relationships. Angie shares insights from her memoir, "Girl in the Spotlight," and the lessons learned from her own parenting experiences.KeywordsParenting, Adult Children, Authenticity, Personal Growth, Self-Care, Memoir, Storytelling, TV Journalism, Angie Mizzell, James MoffittTakeawaysAuthenticity is key to personal growth.Parenting requires constant adaptation.Self-care is essential for parents.Storytelling can inspire and connect people.External validation should not define self-worth.Parent-child relationships evolve over time.Leaving a career can lead to new opportunities.Personal experiences shape our parenting style.Listening is crucial in relationships.Safe spaces foster open conversations.Title OptionsNavigating Parenthood with Angie MizzellFrom TV Journalist to StorytellerThe Journey of Authentic ParentingBalancing Career and Family LifeLessons from 'Girl in the Spotlight'Embracing Change and GrowthThe Power of Storytelling in ParentingFinding Your True SelfCreating Safe Spaces for DialogueThe Evolving Parent-Child DynamicSound bites"Authenticity is key to growth." "Parenting requires adaptation." "Self-care is essential for parents." "Storytelling inspires and connects." "Validation shouldn't define self-worth." "Relationships evolve over time." "Leaving a career opens doors." "Experiences shape parenting style." "Listening is crucial in relationships." "Safe spaces foster open conversations."Chapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:00:00 Angie's Career Transition00:00:00 Parenting Challenges and Insights00:00:01 The Role of Storytelling00:00:01 Memoir and Personal Growth00:00:01 Conclusion and ReflectionsWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren Listen here for our sponsors list. Many thanks to them for helping to underwrite the costs of producing this podcast. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

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Send us a textIn this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes clinician Brady Daniel to discuss the complexities of parenting adult children. They explore the importance of emotional and spiritual healing, the mind-body connection, and how these elements can foster better family relationships. Brady shares insights from his 19 years of experience, emphasizing the significance of validation, active listening, and self-awareness in parenting. The conversation also touches on the impact of unresolved church wounds and the role of therapy in family growth.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Send us a textIn this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, Dr. David Marcus, a clinical psychologist with 40 years of experience, shares insights on effective communication strategies for maintaining healthy relationships with young adult children. He discusses the importance of developing a common emotional language and the concept of 'emptying out' to foster emotional connections. Dr. Marcus also touches on the challenges parents face, such as dealing with adult children's individuation and the need for parents to be a 'soothing presence.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Send us a textIn this episode of Midlife with Courage™, Kim welcomes guest Bernadette Catalana, a New York City attorney and mother of two daughters. Bernadette shares her early experiences of overcoming fear and building courage, recounting a significant moment from her childhood when she challenged a misplacement in a reading group. The conversation shifts to her experiences and challenges as a mother, and later as a grandmother, emphasizing the importance of respecting and trusting adult children. Bernadette also discusses her journey to becoming a lawyer later in life, inspired by her daughters, and her work mentoring young lawyers. Bernadette's book, 'Daughter Lessons,' and her insights on motherhood, career, and life are highlighted, providing listeners with inspiring lessons on courage and personal growth.00:00 Welcome to Midlife with Courage00:15 Meet Our Guest: Bernadette Catalana01:07 A Childhood Story of Courage05:18 Raising Daughters: Bernadette's Experience09:34 Parenting Adult Children14:00 Maintaining Family Connections16:29 A Mother's Journey: Finding Purpose and Courage17:49 Balancing Career and Motherhood19:26 Embracing Grandmotherhood21:35 Writing 'Daughter Lessons'25:38 Reflections on Life and Writing29:23 The Future and Final ThoughtsTo learn more about Bernadette and her daughters and more, go to her website daughterlessons.com. Get your free ebook called Daily Habits for Hormonal Harmony by going to my website. This free guide will help you balance your hormones through some easy daily activities. Just add your email to the popup and your guide will be on its way to your inbox.From morning until bedtime, you can help yourself feel better! Reserve your spot today to get in on the very first Courage & Confidence Hour!Support the showKim Benoy is a retired RN, Certified Aromatherapist, wife and mom who is passionate about inspiring and encouraging women over 40. She wants you to see your own beauty, value and worth through sharing stories of other women just like you. My Courage & Confidence Circle is now open! Join a supportive group of other midlife women who are ready to live with courage and stop waiting for someday! This 3-month program starts in November and I would love to see you there! REGISTER HERE Want to be a guest on Midlife with Courage™-Flourishing After Forty with Kim Benoy? Send Kim Benoy a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1646938231742x613487048806393700 Would you like to get each episode delivered right to your inbox a day early? Subscribe to my website to get my weekly inspirational message and a link to that week's podcast episode. Just click the link below to get on the list! SUBSCRIBE WEBSITEFACEBOOK

Send one way text to Rev Rachel When we've spent years managing, fixing, or worrying about everyone else, it can feel impossible to stop. But real peace begins the moment we let go of control and turn the attention to ourselves.In this heartfelt episode, Rev. Rachel shares how a week camping with her family became a powerful lesson in loving detachment, boundaries, and spiritual sovereignty. Through laughter, worry, and grace, she discovered once again that control is an illusion—and that our peace is ours to reclaim.You'll learn how to use Steps Two and Three of the Recover Your Soul Process to shift from fear to faith: Step Two – Recognize powerlessness over others and release the illusion of control.Step Three – Notice the stories and beliefs that keep you stuck in worry or over-functioning.Whether you're a parent of adult children or simply someone learning to let go, this episode invites you to allow rather than manage, to stay curious instead of controlling, and to choose presence over perfection.Because your serenity doesn't depend on anyone else being okay—your serenity is your spiritual power. This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not allied or representative of any organizations or religions, but is based on the opinions and experience of Rev. Rachel Harrison or guests. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein. Take what you need and leave the rest.Support the show Rev. Rachel Harrison and Recover Your Soul www.recoveryoursoul.net FREE Support Group on Zoom 6-7PM MT on the 1st Monday of the Month Work the Soul Recovery Process with Rev Rachel TRYASESSION for 40% off 1st session Working the Steps Mods WORKSTEPS%50 Instagram, Insight Timer, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook private Facebook group RYS Bonus Podcast Patreon Member or subscribing on Apple Podcasts. Transcripts

Send us a textIn this episode of the ABC's of Parenting Adult Children podcast, James Moffitt hosts Amanda West, who shares her journey of overcoming long COVID and fatigue through dopamine management. Amanda discusses her book, Dopamine Mountain, and offers insights into how parents can support their adult children by harnessing neuroplasticity and dopamine management to address mental health challenges. The conversation covers the importance of structured routines, the impact of instant gratification, and practical strategies for fostering resilience and productivity.Keywordsdopamine management, neuroplasticity, mental health, parenting, resilienceTakeawaysDopamine is crucial for motivation and mood regulation.Structured routines can enhance mental well-being.Instant gratification can lead to dopamine decline.Parents can model positive behaviors for their children.Neuroplasticity involves learning through effort and reward.Exercise and challenging tasks boost dopamine levels.Avoiding negative media can improve mental health.Amanda West's book offers strategies for dopamine management.Morning routines can set a positive tone for the day.Optimism and self-care are vital for overall well-being.Sound bites"Dopamine is our motivation." "Structured routines boost well-being." "Instant gratification harms dopamine." "Model positive behavior for kids." "Effort and reward drive learning." "Exercise boosts dopamine naturally." "Avoid negative media for mental health." "Morning routines set the day's tone." "Optimism is a wise choice." "Self-care is essential for balance."Chapters00:00:00 Introduction to Amanda West00:00:00 Understanding Dopamine00:00:00 Impact of Instant Gratification00:00:00 Structured Routines and Mental Health00:00:01 Amanda's Journey with Long COVID00:00:01 Practical Strategies for Parents00:00:01 The Role of Optimism and Self-careSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Even adult children need their parents. But when things get rocky, how can you improve relationships with adult children? In the evolving world of parenthood, maintaining a strong bond with adult children presents unique challenges. As children transition into adulthood, the dynamics shift, often leading to confusion for parents. However, with understanding and a strategic approach, it's possible to improve relationships with adult children and cultivate a healthy, fulfilling family connection. Understanding the Shift in Dynamics Once children turn 18, they are legally considered adults. This milestone often surprises parents who feel uncertain about their new role. As children grow into their independence, they become increasingly determined to make their own choices, sometimes clashing with their parents' ideals. This can lead to emotional chaos and strained relationships. However, understanding these dynamics is the first step to improving relationships with adult children. The Importance of Self-Connection For mothers, connecting with themselves is paramount. As the cornerstone of the family, maintaining inner peace is essential. By prioritizing self-awareness, moms can better navigate the emotional upheavals that come with parenting adult children. Self-care and inner reflection act as the glue that binds the family, providing stability during times of change. Listening and Validating Emotions Open communication is essential for improving relationships with adult children. It is necessary to engage in active listening, validate the emotions of your children, and initiate a dialogue about their feelings and experiences. By acknowledging their perspectives, parents can build a stronger, more respectful relationship. The Role of Faith-Based Strategies For those who treasure faith, integrating it into your parenting approach can help mend and strengthen familial ties. By relying on spiritual guidance, parents can find peace in surrendering their worries and trusting a higher power with their children's paths. This can lead to healing and transformation within the family unit. Read the full show notes and access all links. Website for Kim Damon  Additional Resources Reset Your Nervous System and Become the YOU you want to be - Episode 394 - https://therobyngraham.com/reset-your-nervous-system/ You Need to Start Avoiding the Victim Mentality. Period. - Episode 391 - https://therobyngraham.com/victim-mentality/ Purchase You, Me, and Anxiety: Take Action Over Anxiety to Enjoy Being You Teen edition Parent edition  

Send us a textEpisode 195 – 3 Shifts to Begin Solving Family Conflict – Even if You're the Only One Trying Is your relationship with your adult child strained, tense, or completely shut down? You're not alone—and you're not powerless. In this episode, I'm giving you the three foundational shifts that begin to heal family conflict, even when the other person isn't willing to engage. If you've been trying to fix the relationship by focusing on them, this episode is your invitation to turn inward and start creating change that lasts.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why looking at your own role in the conflict is a powerful first stepHow to manage your emotional reactions in the heat of the momentThe impact of unspoken expectations on family dynamicsWhy discomfort is a sign you're on the right path—and how to handle it with strengthThe ONE shift that opens the door to real healing in your relationshipDownload the Free Guide: “The 3-Step Solution to Keeping Your Cool Around Family Holiday Drama” Holidays can stir up old patterns and emotions—this guide will help you stay grounded and respond with grace.Grab your copy here: DOWNLOAD THE GUIDE Ready to learn how to manage your emotional reactions? Calm Core is your guide:Being able to manage your emotional reactions to others is a vital step in repairing family relationshipsCLICK HERE TO SEE CALM CORE  Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She works with parents who have families in conflict to help them become the grounded, confident leaders their family needs. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tinagosneycoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tinagosneycoaching ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Tina is certified in family relationships and a trauma informed coach. Visit tinagosney.com for more information on coaching services.

Send one way text to Rev Rachel What if the bravest act of love is stepping back?Parenting an adult child who's struggling with addiction can feel like walking a tightrope between love and heartbreak. In this episode, we explore what it means to Recover Your Soul while learning to let go with grace.Rev Rachel Harrison offers heartfelt guidance on how to hold firm boundaries without withdrawing your love, how to separate behavior from identity, and how to let consequences become the teachers we cannot be. Through honest reflection and spiritual insight, she shares what loving detachment really looks like and why it's not indifference, but a higher form of compassion.If you're a parent standing at the crossroads of love and limits, this conversation offers hope and clarity. You'll learn how to stay grounded in your own healing, find emotional balance, and see the light of the soul beneath the cloak of addiction.Listen for encouragement, spiritual truth, and language you can use today as you navigate your own path toward peace. Together, we are remembering that healing begins within — and that when we recover our souls, we help others find their way home too.Join us on the 1st Monday of every month for the FREE Soul Recovery Support Group on Zoom from 6-7PM Mountain Time. Register on the website, and if you have registered in the past, look for your reminder email in your promotions folder. This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not allied or representative of any organizations or religions, but is based on the opinions and experience of Rev. Rachel Harrison or guests. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein. Take what you need and leave the rest.Support the show Rev. Rachel Harrison and Recover Your Soul www.recoveryoursoul.net FREE Support Group on Zoom 6-7PM MT on the 1st Monday of the Month Work the Soul Recovery Process with Rev Rachel TRYASESSION for 40% off 1st session Working the Steps Mods WORKSTEPS%50 Instagram, Insight Timer, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook private Facebook group RYS Bonus Podcast Patreon Member or subscribing on Apple Podcasts. Transcripts

Psychological boundaries are internal boundaries that we set with ourselves, inside of our own heads. They allow us to decide what ideas, thoughts, or beliefs we want to accept and which ones we don't.  We will receive a lot of messaging about who we are and how we are and we get to decide which of those messages is okay and which are not okay. Having good psychological boundaries with ourselves is a precursor to being able to set clear and concise external boundaries with others. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #7 Boundaries Part 1 on Apple on Spotify #8 Boundaries Part 2 on Apple on Spotify #9 Boundaries Part 3 on Apple on Spotify #174 Better Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #272 Stay In Your Lane on Apple on Spotify  #274 When We Behave Badly on Apple on Spotify #314 When Setting Boundaries Is Hard on Apple on Spotify #318 The Challenge of Parenting Adult Children on Apple on Spotify #331 Sense of Self on Apple on Spotify #332 Sense of Self – It's All In Your Head on Apple on Spotify #378 What Can Happen When We Don't Set Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #380 Boundary Guilt on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoachin Interested in a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

Send us a textIn this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt welcomes guest Zorina Pritchett to discuss her journey from caregiving to game creation. Zorina shares her experiences as a disabled veteran and caregiver, and how these roles inspired her to create non-digital games that promote family bonding and digital balance. The conversation explores the challenges of caregiving, the impact of digital devices on attention spans, and the importance of creating meaningful family memories.Keywordsparenting, adult children, caregiving, non-digital games, digital balance, family bonding, Zorina Pritchett, James Moffitt, resilience, empowermentTakeawaysZorina Pritchett shares her journey from caregiving to game creation.The importance of digital balance in today's tech-driven world.Creating non-digital games to promote family bonding.Zorina's experience as a disabled veteran and caregiver.The impact of digital devices on attention spans and family time.How Zorina's games help with cognitive skills and emotional regulation.The role of patience and creativity in caregiving and game design.Zorina's games are available on Walmart online.The significance of creating meaningful family memories.Encouraging children to develop social skills through interactive play.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Setting boundaries in our most cherished relationships can be hard not just because we're often doing something that may be new and requires courage, but because many of us feel so much guilt when our boundary is not received with glowing accolades but rather with pushback and frustration and even anger. And that guilt comes from two places – ourselves and others. Learning to manage our thoughts to create self-respect and courage rather than guilt is an important part of developing healthy relationships with those we love. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #7 Boundaries Part 1 on Apple on Spotify #8 Boundaries Part 2 on Apple on Spotify #9 Boundaries Part 3 on Apple on Spotify #174 Better Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #272 Stay In Your Lane on Apple on Spotify  #314 When Setting Boundaries Is Hard on Apple on Spotify #318 The Challenge of Parenting Adult Children on Apple on Spotify #331 Sense of Self on Apple on Spotify #332 Sense of Self – It's All In Your Head on Apple on Spotify #378 What Can Happen When We Don't Set Boundaries on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

Send us a textIn this insightful episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes Jessica Setnick, a renowned dietitian and educator, to explore practical strategies for fostering healthy eating habits at home. Discover how parents can positively influence their children's relationship with food by addressing learned behaviors and promoting a balanced diet. Jessica shares her expertise on the importance of variety, the role of self-care in nutrition, and how to create a supportive environment that encourages healthy choices. Tune in to learn how small changes can lead to lasting impacts on family dynamics and well-being.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Send us a textEpisode 192 -  From Triggered to Centered: Tools to Rewire Your Reactions and Restore Family PeaceAre you constantly walking on eggshells with your adult child? Do you find yourself reacting instead of responding—and then beating yourself up later?You're not alone.In this episode, I'm joined by growth coach Emily Layton, and we're diving deep into how to move from survival mode to soulful connection. We explore what it means to operate from your “low brain” vs. your “high brain,” how fear hijacks your reactions, and the exact steps to regulate your nervous system so you can show up grounded, calm, and connected—even in the most emotionally charged moments.If you've ever wondered: “Why do I keep reacting this way?” or “How do I stop the spiral and show up better in my family?” —this episode will give you the framework you've been searching for.Meet My Guest: Emily LaytonEmily Layton has a Master's degree in Marriage, Family, and Human Development from BYU. She is a certified life coach who focuses on identity integration and personal restoration, centered in the gospel of Jesus Christ and informed by interpersonal neurobiology.Download Emily's FREE graphic: Steps Up to the High BrainLearn more about Emily's work at: www.GrowintheLight.comSchedule a free 30-minute discovery call: Email Emily directly at emily@growinthelight.comReady to stop the cycle of disconnection in your family?Join me for my next free workshop:End Family Disconnection and Rebuild Relationships that Last Date: October 9, 2025 Sign up here: https://www.courageous-connections.com/end-family-disconnection-event_oct-2025You'll walk away with a clear roadmap to begin repairing and rebuilding the relationships that matter most.  Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She works with parents who have families in conflict to help them become the grounded, confident leaders their family needs. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tinagosneycoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tinagosneycoaching ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Tina is certified in family relationships and a trauma informed coach. Visit tinagosney.com for more information on coaching services.

Send us a textToday we celebrate the storytellers who speak from the margins, the creators who build community from scratch, and the podcasters who dare to lead with vulnerability. On this special episode of Father's Refuge, we honor Independent Podcasters Day by reflecting on the power of personal narrative, faith-driven storytelling, and the courage it takes to hit “record” when the world feels silent.James shares how independent podcasting became a lifeline through grief, a platform for healing, and a movement to support fathers navigating loss. Whether you're a seasoned podcaster or just dreaming of your first episode, this tribute is for you—the truth-tellers, the bridge-builders, the ones who keep showing up.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenSupport the showSocial Media Links parentingadultchildrenpodcast.locals.com https://rumble.com/user/JamesMoffitt https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Aileen Miziolek hosts an in-depth conversation with Alyson Schafer, an acclaimed author and Adlerian family counsellor. In this thoughtful 30-minute episode, they touch on issues around over- and under-functioning children, why the notion of fair vs. equal in childhood can impact long-term family business dynamics, and how tackling the unique challenges of enterprising families requires maturity, open-mindedness and an understanding that sometimes personal responsibility is the only path forward.   All views, information, and opinions expressed during this podcast are solely those of the individuals involved and do not necessarily represent those of Family Enterprise Canada.   Guest bio Alyson Schafer is one of Canada's leading parenting experts. She promotes a firm but friendly “democratic parenting” style and offers practical solutions backed by extensive evidence-based research. Alyson is an Adlerian family counsellor, author, and internationally acclaimed expert who empowers families by sharing her principles, rules, and tools for raising co-operative and resilient kids.   You can learn more about Alyson Schafer on her website and LinkedIn.   Key Takeaways [0:26] Aileen Miziolek welcomes Alyson Schafer and asks her to share about her experience with family business dynamics.   [3:01] Understanding the notion of fair vs. equal is a large part of how a family orients itself. Alyson explains how the abundance and scarcity models may influence how this manifests.   [6:48] While intergenerational patterns are real, there is always hope for change when there is maturity and open-mindedness.   [10:36] Family businesses do not have the freedom of relative anonymity in the workplace: family tensions can easily translate into business tensions.   [12:52] Personal responsibility is required for change. Alyson offers a dance metaphor to illustrate that the “other” doesn't always need to start the process.   [15:15] Children differentiate to stop competition. Alyson warns against bean-counting to prevent under-functioning.   [20:46] Alyson shares tips to manage over- and under-functioning in any given system.   [23:34] Co-leading siblings is possible, but will require strong buy-in, well-defined roles and responsibilities, and generational support.   [26:15] Solving problems at the parent level is usually the fastest way to power change.   [27:29] North America is singular in its propensity to cut off family members!   [29:43] Links to Alyson Schafer's contact, podcast, and books can be found in the links below.   [31:11] Aileen thanks Alyson Schafer for sharing so much of her knowledge, and closes this episode by reminding listeners to rate and subscribe.   If you enjoyed today's episode, you can subscribe to Let's Talk Family Enterprise on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and other podcast apps. Please remember to share this episode with family, friends, and colleagues. Share your thoughts with us at fea@familyenterprise.ca.   Mentioned in this episode Alyson Schafer's Podcast: Parenting The Adlerian Way   Ain't Misbehavin': Tactics for Tantrums, Meltdowns, Bedtime Blues and Other Perfectly Normal Kid Behaviors, by Alyson Schafer   Honey, I Wrecked the Kids: When Yelling, Screaming, Threats, Bribes, Time-outs, Sticker Charts and Removing Privileges All Don't Work, by Alyson Schafer   Breaking The Good Mom Myth, by Alyson Schafer   More about Family Enterprise Canada Family Enterprise Canada FEC on Facebook FEC on Twitter FEC on LinkedIn

Send us a textIn this episode of the ABC's of Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes guest Debra McNinch to discuss the challenges and triumphs of parenting adult children, particularly when faced with unexpected family dynamics. Debra shares her personal journey of navigating faith and family unity amidst transformative changes, including her child's announcement of being transgender. The conversation delves into the complexities of balancing faith, love, and acceptance, while offering hope and practical strategies for building supportive communities around shared values and experiences.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenSupport the showSocial Media Links parentingadultchildrenpodcast.locals.com https://rumble.com/user/JamesMoffitt https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Send us a textEpisode 191 - When Conflict or Silence Feels Like Love: What Fighting and Avoidance Say About Your FamilyIs your family stuck in conflict—either yelling and arguing or avoiding everything in silence? In this episode, family relationship coach Tina Gosney explains how conflict styles shape marriage, parenting, and your relationship with adult children—and how to move from destructive patterns to constructive conflict and emotional safety. In this episode of Coaching Your Family Relationships, Tina Gosney, Family Life Educator and Family Relationship Coach, breaks down the hidden conflict styles that shape your marriage, your parenting, and your relationship with your family.You'll discover:Why yelling, arguing, or “unfiltered honesty” can feel like love and connection in some familiesWhy silence, sweeping things under the rug, or avoiding tough conversations can feel like safety in othersHow destructive conflict, conflict avoidance, and constructive conflict each shape your family relationshipsWhat happens when highly religious families label conflict as “sinful” and shut it downHow parents—whether raising kids or relating to adult children—set the emotional tone for the whole familyWhy fighting doesn't always mean connection, and silence doesn't always mean peacePractical steps to create emotional safety, better communication, and genuine connection at homeWhether your home has been marked by explosive arguments or cold silences, this episode will help you understand your conflict style and begin practicing constructive conflict that leads to healing, intimacy, and lasting connection.Join Tina Gosney's live workshop on October 9th: End Family Disconnection and Rebuild Relationships that Last. Learn how to change the emotional climate of your family—even if no one else changes first. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She works with parents who have families in conflict to help them become the grounded, confident leaders their family needs. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tinagosneycoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tinagosneycoaching ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Tina is certified in family relationships and a trauma informed coach. Visit tinagosney.com for more information on coaching services.

Send us a textSo as you said, my name's Rob Finley. I am a father of four young adults, but my other day job is I'm also an entrepreneur. run commercial real estate technology and other businesses.Yeah, the book is actually Hey Dad. Okay. And it's everything you should have learned but didn't as you start your adulting life. It was actually started and the idea came because imagine this middle of the night, you get a call. And for me as an adult and having a parent of four kids, getting a call in the midnight and in middle of the night is always something that's terrifying. And so I get this call, pick up the phone, my heart's panicked.freaking out. What's wrong? And it's Hey, dad, I'm at the gas station. Can I put the green gas in my Jeep? I'm like, what? First of all, have to, I have to, have to decompress quite a bit. Right. And I'm like, what do mean? Great. Right. She was asking if she could put diesel in her her gasoline vehicle. And at that point, I was like, Oh, my gosh, did I not teach my kids anything?And then talking to other adults, they came up with the same thing and they said, yeah, you know what, my kid's doing this. I get calls like this. And then my wife finally said, you know what, you're getting bombarded with these calls. And we talked to other parents. said, you enjoy writing books. Why don't you write a book on all the stuff that they should have learned? And so that's what became the subject matter. And so I spent the last year or so writing the book, but more importantly, it wasn't just me. I actually went out.and sought the expertise of 30 experts in everything from people who run the JP Morgan Chase Bank for family banking, tax experts, clinical psychologists, cleaning experts. interviewed a NASCAR race car driver and his crew chief on how to maintain a car. So everything in between to give young adults the foundation that they need, sort of a guideline and a guidebook.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenSupport the showSocial Media Links parentingadultchildrenpodcast.locals.com https://rumble.com/user/JamesMoffitt https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Today's guest is author, speaker, and podcast host Laine Lawson Craft. This episode is a little longer because Laine's personal experience as the mother of three - yes three! - prodigal children and the strategies she's learned along the way are just too helpful and powerful to edit down to the length of most of my episodes. Our children mean so much to us but parenting them isn't for the faint of heart. The terrible twos were indeed terrible. And no one prepared us for the turbulent teen years. Today's interview is about parenting an adult child who is making destructive decisions or who is walking down a dark path or who has turned his/her back on their faith. Parenting a wayward or prodigal child impacts a parent in significantly different ways.Laine poured her experiences with her three prodigal children and the wisdom she gained into her book, The Parent's Battle Plan: Warfare Strategies to Win Back Your Prodigal Child and her devotional, Warfare Parenting: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child. Both are available on Amazon.Laine and I discussed the journey with each of her three children, content from her book, and her desire to have Warfare Parenting Small Groups across the country to support parents of wayward and prodigal children.Notable quotes:* "Hope to me is waiting expectantly on God's turnaround."* "Today's struggle is tomorrow's testimony.”* "Like a relentless rescue team, God is tirelessly working to bring your lost one home. God is in the rescue business, and He's really good at it.”* "I'm going to love you so that you see something different in me that makes you yearn to be more like that.""They were just in a chapter of their story, and God gets all the glory. And now they are messengers of hope to their generation."Bible verses:* John 10:10* Matthew 20:1-16* Isaiah 54:17* 1 John 4:4* Exodus 14:14* John 8:32* Luke 19:10* Laine's fight verse is Ephesians 3:20.Learn more about Laine ather website: lainelawsoncraft.comher Facebook page: facebook.com/momlaine.lawsoncrafther Instagram page: instagram.com/lainelawsoncraftSend me a COMMENT or QUESTION!THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Have a comment about this episode? Click HERE and complete the form.

Send us a textIn this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Geneica McCoy, a parent advocate for families with children who have developmental disabilities. Janice shares her journey as a parent and advocate, discussing the importance of empowering parents to navigate the IEP process, build confidence, and engage with their communities. The conversation highlights societal attitudes towards developmental disabilities, the role of churches in supporting families, and the need for visibility and acceptance in society. Janice encourages parents to get involved, overcome shame, and recognize their purpose in advocating for their children.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenSupport the showSocial Media Links parentingadultchildrenpodcast.locals.com https://rumble.com/user/JamesMoffitt https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

Send us a textEpisode 189: Why Strategies Aren't Enough to Heal Family Disconnection (And What Actually Works)Have you tried everything to fix your family—but nothing seems to work?You've read the books. You've followed the scripts. You've apologized, stayed calm, set boundaries… And you're still walking on eggshells.In this episode, Tina Gosney, Family Relationship Coach and expert in Bowen Family Systems Theory, explains why strategies and tools—while helpful—are not enough to heal deep family disconnection. And more importantly, she reveals what actually creates lasting transformation.You'll learn:The emotional and cultural trends affecting today's families (and why it's not just you)The real reason communication tips and parenting tools fall shortWhat inner transformation looks and feels like (and how others will experience it in you)Why differentiation of self is the missing key to restoring connectionHow to become the calm, grounded, emotionally mature leader your family needsThis is an eye-opening conversation for every mother who's tried to “fix” things but feels stuck in guilt, grief, or confusion. If you're ready to stop reacting and start leading—with compassion, confidence, and courage—this episode is your starting point.  Related Episodes:179 - Break the Cycle and Lead Your Family with Calm, Loving Energy and Personal Integrity187 – Stress – What Happens in Your Brain and Body and How to Stay Grounded180 – How Your Nervous System Shapes Reactions, Relationships, and Resilience. Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She works with parents who have families in conflict to help them become the grounded, confident leaders their family needs. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tinagosneycoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tinagosneycoaching ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Tina is certified in family relationships and a trauma informed coach. Visit tinagosney.com for more information on coaching services.

What do you think of this episode? Do you have any topics you'd like me to cover?Do you ever worry about losing touch with your kids as they grow up? In this episode of Teenagers Untangled I'm joined by Catherine Hickem, a licensed clinical social worker, psychotherapist, and founder of Parenting Adult Children Today to explore the growing issue of family estrangement.Catherine is leading a conversation around one of the most overlooked family dynamics: the relationship between parents and their adult children. Despite how common this phase of life is, few resources exist to help parents navigate the transition from authority figure to trusted ally.  *Research shows that about one in four American adults—27%—report estrangement from a family member. Notably, 26% of adult children have experienced estrangement from a father, compared to only 6% from a mother—and many of these rifts eventually heal.We discuss why adult children might cut ties with parents, and what we can do now—while our kids are tweens or teens—to build a strong, lasting relationship.We cover:The most common reasons adult children become estranged from their parentsThe key mistakes parents make (and how to avoid them)How to adapt your parenting style as your children grow into adulthoodThe impact of parental expectations, grief, and cultural pressures on family bondsPractical strategies for fostering trust, open communication, and unconditional loveReal-life stories of reconciliation and hopeCatherine Hickem brings decades of experience working with thousands of families, offering actionable advice and heartfelt encouragement.CATHERINE HICKEM:https://www.parentingadultchildrentoday.com/https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildrentoday/Research sources:A longitudinal U.S. study (Reczek et al.), Cornell's Fault Lines project, and the YouGov poll conducted in 2022. OtoZen — a new driving safety appAre you worried about your teenager getting distracted behind the wheel? The OtoZen app helps in real time — not just after something's gone wrong. It has voice alerts, drive scores, and even safe driving challenges you can set together, it's the kind of tech that actually helps your teen build better habits. OtoZen — a new driving safety app OtoZen helps build better habits in real time with voice alerts, drive scores, and safey challenges.Support the showThis episode is sponsored by OtoZen: The brilliant new driving safety app https://www.otozen.com Please hit the follow button if you like the podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star then you can leave your message. I don't have medical training so please seek the advice of a specialist if you're not coping. My email is teenagersuntangled@gmail.com And my website has a blog, searchable episodes, and ways to contact me:www.teenagersuntangled.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/teenagersuntangled/Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/teenagersuntangled/You can reach Susie at www.amindful-life.co.uk

So many of us feel blindsided when it comes to the relationships with our adult children. We heard a lot about the struggles of being a parent to babies, toddlers, tots, pre-teens, and teenagers, but not a lot about our role and relationship with adult children. The reason it can be so challenging is because so many of us struggle to let go of our parenting role and we can often feel that their decisions (which we can often judge as poor) reflect badly on our parenting. In this podcast I'm speaking with Coach Brooke Oniki about how we can show up better in the relationships with our adult children. You can find Brooke at www.brookeoniki.com Here's her Women's Conference talk: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/byu-womens-conference-may-2025-keeping-a-strong/id1819510541?i=1000712108423 Brooke's podcast: Midlife with Brooke Thanks for listening! Want to learn more about this concept? Check out these podcasts: #99 Parenting Adult Children  #129 Parenting Discomfort  #157 Friend-Zoning Your Adult Children  #180 Better Relationships With Our Adult Children  #182 How Our 'Wayward' Children Bless Our Lives  #202 Pain, Peace, and Parenting Disengaged Adult Children  #237 You'll Never Be Enough For Your Children #314 When Boundaries Are Hard #318 The Challenge of Parenting Adult Children #335 Sense of Self and Parenting Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

Send us a textYou're Not Broken - You're Becoming (Season 5 Trailer)Welcome to a brand-new season of Coaching Your Family Relationships! In this kickoff episode, Tina shares a vulnerable personal story about spiraling after a difficult conversation with a loved one—and what it taught her about emotional resilience, identity, and the power of curiosity. You'll learn what to expect this season, including expert guests and real conversations that go deeper than relationship “tips” and tackle the true root of family conflict: how you see yourself. If you've ever felt stuck in a pattern with your family… if you've been trying to “fix” the relationship without feeling any better… or if you're exhausted from trying harder and getting nowhere—this season will meet you right where you are. In this episode, you'll hear: A true story about spiraling after a tough family moment—and what helped Tina come out of itWhy relationship change doesn't start with the other person—it starts with youThe most common stories your brain tells you in conflict (and how wrong they usually are)What's coming this season: guests, topics, and transformational insightsWhy identity—not strategy—is the secret to healing your hardest relationshipsHow to get support through Tina's free 2-day eventComing Soon!  Free 2-Day Event: "End Family Disconnection and Rebuild Relationships That Last" This live, immersive experience will give you tools, clarity, and hope to transform how you show up in your family—starting with YOU. Registration link coming soon! Don't miss an episode! Be sure to follow the show and set your app to automatically download new episodes.  Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She works with parents who have families in conflict to help them become the grounded, confident leaders their family needs. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tinagosneycoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tinagosneycoaching ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Tina is certified in family relationships and a trauma informed coach. Visit tinagosney.com for more information on coaching services.