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Talking about issues that fat people and their admirers face in relationships, media, and society. Dan and Trevor (chaser/chub) bring expert opinions on the subjects while Don and Michael (chub/chaser) bring anecdotal experience and lots of questions. Two

The Big Fat Gay Podcast


    • Apr 30, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 49m AVG DURATION
    • 251 EPISODES

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    The Big Fat Gay Podcast is an absolute gem in the world of podcasting. From the moment you start listening, you can tell that this show is something special. It offers a unique and much-needed perspective on what it means to be a fat gay man, tackling topics that are rarely discussed in mainstream media. The hosts are engaging and passionate, and their chemistry is evident throughout each episode. Not only do they provide insightful commentary on their own experiences, but they also bring in guest speakers to offer different perspectives, making for a well-rounded and informative listening experience.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is its ability to create a safe space for fat gay men and those who love them. It empowers listeners to embrace their bodies and teaches them that they deserve love, respect, and happiness just like anyone else. The hosts offer invaluable advice on dating, relationships, self-acceptance, and body positivity. They tackle difficult subjects with sensitivity and honesty, creating conversations that are both relatable and thought-provoking.

    Additionally, the production values of this podcast are top-notch. The sound quality is excellent, making it easy to listen to without distractions. The hosts have a knack for storytelling and pacing, keeping listeners engaged from start to finish. The topics covered range from personal anecdotes to discussions on societal expectations, providing a well-rounded listening experience.

    While it's challenging to find any major faults with The Big Fat Gay Podcast, one minor drawback is that the release schedule may not be as frequent as some listeners would prefer. However, this can be easily overlooked due to the high-quality content delivered in each episode.

    In conclusion, The Big Fat Gay Podcast is an absolute must-listen for anyone interested in body positivity or wanting to gain a deeper understanding of life as a fat gay man. It's informative, empowering, and entertaining all at once. With engaging hosts who share personal experiences with genuine vulnerability and humor, this podcast is a treasure trove of insights and perspectives. Whether you're a fat gay man or someone who wants to promote inclusivity and empathy, this podcast has something valuable to offer. Don't miss out on this enlightening journey towards self-acceptance and understanding.



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    Latest episodes from The Big Fat Gay Podcast

    Episode 218: Hairspray (2007)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 46:41


    We highlight Divine, Ricki Lake and Mink Stole—all made famous by John Waters films—and an update on the NAAFA campaign for size-freedom: could Delaware be next? Then we talk about the 2007 film Hairspray staring John Travolta and Nikki Blonsky.

    Episode 217: Sexy Labyrinth Cow Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 47:15


    The boys chat about the preview for the new Indonesian animated movie, Jumbo, and a reminder from Tigress Osborn about politics and internalized fat-phobia. Then we let our imaginations run wild on fat mythological creatures.

    Episode 216: Stories from Our Pants

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025 45:11


    This week the boys talk about an article in the Guardian featuring fat trainers and athletes and TiKToker Jay Salazar dismantling medical fatphobia. Then we unzip to share stories about clothing.

    Episode 215: Stunt Cake

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2025 47:02


    This week the boys talk about a new movie with cowboys & sumos and the “chubby filter” banned from TikTok. Then we discuss our view on birthdays and cake!

    Episode 214: Bagpipe Hokey Pokey

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2025 55:21


    This week the boys talk about a new fat, gay rom-com, Things Like This, and Sebastian Conelli's eloquent Instagram rant against fat-joke politics. Then we discuss the fear and desire of chubs and chasers on the dance floor.

    Episode 213: The Thrall of the Chub

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2025 40:43


    This week, the boys talk about Sumo, a new off-Broadway play, and Brendan Carpenter's inspiring post on Instagram about gaining weight. Then we dive into how we've dealt with being triggered by innocent remarks.

    Episode 212: The 6th Annual Chubbies

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2025 68:37


    Join us for the 6th Annual Chubby Awards, presenting the best of last year's fat representation in business, community, and entertainment.

    Episode 211: Leftover Party Meatballs

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2025 40:49


    This week the boys talk about a male athlete being trolled for supposedly wearing a sports bra and the BBC's interview with a plus-size male model during London Fashion Week. Then we discuss one-night stands.

    Announcement: The Chubbies and BiggerVegas Live

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2025 2:00


    We're out of the studio this week but wanted to share some programing updates. We'll be back with a new episode on March 5th!

    Episode 210: Empire of Chonkin' Fatass Woofers

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2025 42:07


    The boys talk about a German expert accusing Peppa Pig of fat shaming, a Breakfast Club interview with the fat rapper suing Lyft for size discrimination, and the new show “Same Dress Different Bodies.” Then we discuss people fat-shaming their pets.

    Episode 209: Fat Fat Away

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2025 51:42


    Happy Valentine's Day! This week the boys discuss a Wicked plus-sized dancer, Debra DiGiovanni's late nite debut, and 3 tips for navigating medical weight stigma. Then we cozy in the swamp for Shrek 2.

    Episode 208.5: Roman Empires, Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2025 38:25


    This week we continue discussing our personal Roman Empires, and engage in some Roman trivia.

    Episode 208: Roman Empires, Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2025 39:03


    This week we talk about Chris Burney's retirement from Bowling for Soup, Britain's new teenage world dart champ, and a student essay about boys dealing with eating disorders. Then we each talk about our personal “Roman Empires.”

    Episode 207: Comfort Food

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2025 54:39


    This week we talk about Body Positivity on Broadway, Phoria's recommendations for fat-friendly clothing, and Lizzo's meditation on Insta. Then we talk about our favorite comfort foods.

    LA Fires Check-In

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 17:01


    This week we're checking in with an update on the LA Fires and share some resources on how to help those who have been affected.

    Episode 206: In-N-Out

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2025 48:58


    This week, we talk about Britain's new food advertising bans, San Francisco hiring a weight stigma consultant, and RV Mendoza's IG campaign, “Just Do It Fat!.” Then we dig into our own version of in and out for 2025.

    Episode 205: Dear Santa

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2024 63:40


    This week the boys talk about the discovery of Santa's tomb, a UK report raising alarms about Santa's health, and doctors getting trained in empathy when treating fat kids. Then we discuss the Jack Black movie, Dear Santa.

    Episode 204: Threeways Three Ways

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2024 54:06


    This week the boys discuss Big Boys scoring big nominations, Adrianne & The Castle, and Caleb Heron in Teen Vogue. Then we discuss threesomes and dating couples seeking a third.

    Episode 203: Janusz Domagala's Holiday Treats

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2024 69:28


    This week we talk about the next wave of Hot Santas, Ghosts star Danielle Pinnock on adversity and diversity, and improvements for fat students in higher ed. Then we interview Great British Bake Off star Janusz Domagala about his cookbook and improving your recipes.

    Episode 202: Keep Calm and Eat Pie

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2024 48:22


    Happy Thanksgiving! This week the boys discuss Gov. Pritzker standing up for the residents of Illinois, Jennifer Owens & Amber Riley Defying Gravity, and William Hornsby's tips for disarming diet talk at the table. Then we share what we're thankful for this year.

    Episode 201: Wrap You Up In A Hug

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2024 48:22


    This week we feature listeners' letters about the progress they've made, a listener who brought our fat eagle to life, and discuss our self-care tips for dark days and holiday blues.

    Episode 200: To 240 More

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2024 52:33


    For our 200th episode, we feature voicemails and letters from listeners on how things have changed for them since we started doing the podcast almost 5 years ago.

    Episode 199: Chris Grace (as Scarlett Johansson)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2024 78:46


    This week we discuss the disgraced former CEO of A&F, Britain's new plan for fat people receiving assistance, and Guy Branam's take on being “gifted.” Then we interview Superstore's Chris Grace about his new show on Dropout, Chris Grace: As Scarlett Johansson.

    Episode 198: The Stuff

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2024 51:55


    This week we talk about Fat Bear Week's Final Girl, Azealia Banks's fatphobic Twitter tirade, and the Skinnylicious Menu at Cheesecake Factory. Then we dig into the consumer horror movie, “The Stuff.”

    (Week Off)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2024 2:16


    We're scattered around the world this week but wanted to share some reminders about our upcoming episodes..

    Episode 197: Skinny Wario, Famous Glutton

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 54:16


    We talk about how Raven-Symone got CGI'd thinner, Sam Morrison's one-man show, Sugar Daddy, and Sebastian Connelli's take on fat Halloween costumes. Then we discuss navigating Halloween and other holiday parties as a fat person.

    Episode 196: Big Fat Gay Pod-Os

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2024 57:02


    This week we talk about the wave of clothing donations in the wake of Ozempic, using Apple Watch to detect sleep apnea, and a dietician's praise of ultra-processed foods. Then we discuss making friends in (and out of) the chub/chaser community.

    Episode 195: The Pink Scourge of Grover Cleveland

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2024 49:55


    We talk about Latrice Royale starring in Little Shop of Horrors, Colin Farrell's Penguin fat suit, and Tigress Osborne's“unfriendly reminder.” Then we share what we want to go differently this holiday season.

    Episode 194.5: BiggerBash Roundup, Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2024 26:13


    This week we share more conversations with attendees of BiggerBash about their experiences of the event, their personal journeys the chub/chaser world, and their Big Fat Gay lives. (Part 2 of 2)

    Episode 194: BiggerBash Roundup, Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2024 40:52


    This week we share some conversations with attendees of BiggerBash about their experiences of the event, their personal journeys the chub/chaser world, and their Big Fat Gay lives. (Part 1 of 2)

    Post BiggerBash Annoucement

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2024 1:37


    An update about our forthcoming BiggerBash Special coming on Wednesday 9/18.

    Episode 193: Down With The Thiccness

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2024 53:41


    This week the boys talk about Target shafting plus-sized clothing, the new fat-positive movie Empire Waist, and a bald eagle too “fat” to fly. Then we talk about intergenerational dating.

    Episode 192: Spread Eagle

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2024 58:02


    We talk about a bygone Olympic sport favoring fat people, Keely Brosnan's response to body shaming, and a Sojourners article about Christian anti-fatness. Then we talk about our internalized concerns about masculinity and fatness.

    Episode 191: Hat Snatch Riot

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2024 56:46


    We discuss a Chinese weightlifter helping reshape her country's beauty standards, a child star refusing to tell a fat joke, and a Cosmo article examining changing body standards. Then we talk about our love and hate of exercise.

    Episode 190: The MRI Lie

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 67:44


    This week we talk about an upcoming comedy about a lineman turned plus-size model, the Caped Crusader's fat female Penguin, and PopSugar's take on how medical equipment excludes fat people. Then we share stories of family fatphobia.

    Episode 189: Frankenfluencer

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2024 52:45


    This week we talk about fat queer rapper Chris Conde, a new Lego ad featuring a chub-chaser couple, and planned changes at Southwest Airlines. Then we look back at Richard Simmons and discuss a video comparing bodybuilding with ob*sity.

    Episode 188: Hiatus Time, Baby

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2024 66:57


    We look at a Vox article on filming strangers in public, preview a stop-motion film claiming to be body-positive, discuss a play at Edinburgh Fringe that really is! Then we talk about when friends don't get fat-attraction.

    Episode 187: ‘Big Boys' and Corey Sherman

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2024 77:01


    The boys talk about the plus-sized suitor on the Bachelorette, a junk-science study on how chili peppers make you fat, and Jannarie's new song, “Never Been Small.” Then we talk to filmmaker Corey Sherman about his new feature, “Big Boys.”

    Episode 186: The Magic Bullet

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2024 57:29


    This week, the boys discuss a new study paying men to lose weight, Kelly Osborne speaking out on being told she's too fat for TV, and an op-ed about anti-fat micro aggressions. Then we talk about a special episode of Drop Dead Diva.

    Episode 185: Fatpads and Openings

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2024


    The boys discuss Nicola Coughlin's writing this summer's gay anthem, Richard Simmons sharing his broadway dreams, and Lizzo's reaction to South Park. Then we respond to some listener mail about fat pads.

    Episode 184: Good Garbage Today

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2024 62:17


    The boys discuss how GLP-1 drugs offer business opportunities for the weight-loss industry and how medical anti-fat bias hurts thin people too. Then we discuss the responsibility of airports to accommodate disabled fat fliers.

    Episode 183: Skinny Jail

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2024 57:26


    This week the boys discuss Bridgerton's new season of fat/thin romance, Allure's take on Oprah's new stance on diet culture, and Guy Branum's touching tale of plus-size merch. Then we talk about fat innovations we wish for.

    Episode 182: Don't Have A Potamus

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2024 44:50


    This week the boys discuss Delta Burke talking weight-loss amphetamines in Hollywood, TikTok's crack down on diet content, and a Sumo Club in Florida. Then we discuss the state of euphemisms and discomfort around the word fat.

    Episode 181: Red Plaid Bondage Pants

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2024 58:34


    The boys talk about Harry Potter's Aunt Marge floating over London, Aussie football banning skin-fold testing, and NAAFA's Tigress Osborn making Time's top 100. Then we talk about moms, eating, and body image for Mother's Day.

    Episode 180: Fat. It's What's For Breakfast.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 54:23


    This week the boys talk about Looksmaxxing, jellyrolls sent to Jelly Roll, and a NYTimes interview with Virginia Sole-Smith who says let your kids eat everything. Then we talk about our favorite fats.

    Episode 179: Ta-ta For Now

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2024 53:43


    This week the boys talk about the Chris Farley bio pic, fat avatars for Pokemon Go, and Cosmo's piece on fat people in reality shows. Then…Nipples! Tastes, feels, and techniques.

    Episode 178: Return of Storytime

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2024 64:52


    This week we highlight mega food companies pushing anti-diet advice, the oat-zempic craze, and the latest fatphobia in South Korea. Then the boys tell some fat anecdotes.

    Episode 177: Everybody Gets Pets

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2024 59:43


    We feature Jezebel's essay on Travis Kelce's so-called dad bod, a GOP candidate's stand to raise fat people's insurance premiums, and anti-fat bias in the workplace. Then we talk about living in a body you're not attracted to. Vote at: https://www.theffias.com/voting2024

    Announcement & Request: FFIA Voting is Open!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2024 1:09


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    Episode 176: S3 EP14

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2024 58:48


    We talk about a new ob*sity study, Lizzo's swimwear collection, and bigger seats to entice people back to the theatre. Then we dive into an old Golden Girls episode: Picture it: Blanche gets a visit from her fat daughter.

    Episode 175: Nomancing the Stone

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2024 53:07


    This week the boys discuss Eli Lily's new ob*sity ad campaign, Pinterest's roll-out of body-type searches, and NPR's feature on body-positive hikers. Then we talk about the difference between meeting online vs IRL.

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