The Disciple-Making Parent AudioBlog

Ending instruction with "OK?" is a trap that loving parents fall into. Learn why this is not a wise way to do this and a better alternative.To read the full blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/why-ok-is-not-ok/

Often fear is behind our lack of submission. Learn how to love others by speaking peace to those fears.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/speaking-peace-to-our-fears/

It is possilbe to both overthink and underthink parenting at the same time. This episode explains the problem with both.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/overthinking-or-underthinking-parenting/

This popular verse for parents has fallen out of favor with parents. What is it actually teaching and not teaching? This episode takes a look.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/proverbs-226-a-second-look-at-a-discredited-verse/

Do you constantly feel like you have to be doing something? Is your to-do list exhausting you? In this episode we talk about a perspective you might be missing.To read the full blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/greater-than-do/

Holidays present a unique opportunity fo connect the generations. In this post we give you some question to ask to deepen the conversation.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/asking-life-questions-around-the-holidays/

The children of pastors face some special challenges. But it is not just the congregation that bears responsibility in this area. Pastors also need to think and act intentionally. Our actions or inactions are powerful influences.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/how-pastors-can-care-for-their-children/

Churches need to especially pray and care for the children of their pastors so that they flourish. This episode contains some thoughts.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/how-churches-can-care-for-their-pastors-children/

James 4:1-2 is well-known but often not thought of when it comes to the marriage relationship. This verse can provide some special help in understanding your last conflict and moving towards a more positive discussion next time.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/what-causes-fights-and-quarrels-in-my-marriage/

I believe you will find this list of different inhibitors convicting. When we act this way we can confess our sin. We also want to train our children in good communication.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/28-communication-inhibitors/

Comparison with others is a basic fact of life. What exactly would God say to us? What perspective does it take to be wise?To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/three-truths-to-defeat-the-comparison-virus/

I was asked this question by a mom. I answered, "No" and "Yes." Listen to why.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/mom-question-are-we-more-needy-than-previous-generations/

Parenting is like a marathon. Before the race you are fresh and rested. You start with excitement. But this is not a sprint. Listen to learn some encouragment.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/8-ways-to-persevere-in-the-parenting-marathon/

Conflict in marriage is a common issue, but the goal is not to have a conflict-free marriage. The goal is to have healthy conflict.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/preventing-destructive-marital-conflict/

When it comes to parenting, there is much wisdom around us. But why dont we ask others for their input? This audioblog explores that question.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/why-dont-we-invite-input/

There is great power when a husband and wife are praying together regularly. It doesn't have to be long and complicated. Be encouraged to start in this episode.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/are-you-praying-together-regularly/

If you have a large family, you will benefit from a coffee date. After we had our fourth child, this habit helped us tremendously. Learn why and how.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/the-power-of-the-coffee-date/

In this short episode, we talk about these two foundational marriage phrases. A Christian needs to understand how both relate to a godly marriage.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/shes-not-perfect-but-shes-perfect-for-me/

The ultimate goal of my Christian life is to have my children follow the Lord. Would you agree with this statement? Listen in as I examine this myth, and counter it with an important truth.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/are-you-believing-this-myth/

Learn about the importance of this underappreciated ministry to the church: welcoming our guests.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/welcoming-church-guests-as-a-family-ministry/

Listen in as I discuss 12 questions you can use to help draw out others in our evangelistic conversations.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/twelve-questions-to-deepen-your-evangelistic-conversations/

Is it a sin to be overbearing as a parent? Listen in as I examine the meaning of the term.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/are-you-overbearing-or-self-willed/

Would your children describe you as joyful? Learn about the power of joy in a family.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/the-power-of-a-joyful-parent/

When Paul gives us qualities to look for in pastors, he also tells us a portion of what godly parenting looks like.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/hints-on-parenting-from-1-timothy-34-5/

Christians often confuse protection of their spouse and with secrecy. Learn the difference and how to handle the trials that come into any marriage.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/protection-not-secrecy/

Marriage can be difficult. But having these two images in your mind can be helpful.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/two-simple-images-for-your-marriage/

If your family is going through a crisis, you may overlooked an obvious resource - your church elders.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/church-elders-family-crisis/

You can navigate storms in your parenting, if your eye is on the North Star. For Christians, the Great Commission is the North Star of our parenting.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/parents-follow-this-north-star/

How are we to respond to our prodigal child? Listen in as I discuss three main things to focus on in our parenting dynamic.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/one-aspect-of-working-with-a-prodigal/

The purposes of a man's heart are deep waters, but a man of understanding draws them out. (Proverbs 20:5)Here are some questions we can use to draw out our neighbors as we engage them in deeper conversations.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/twelve-questions-to-deepen-your-evangelistic-conversations/

Twelve truths to consider about repentance and why it needs to be recovered by today's millennial who grew up in a Christian home and today's parent who is raising children. Part 2.

Twelve truths to consider about repentance and why it needs to be recovered by today's millennial who grew up in a Christian home and today's parent who is raising children. Part 1.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/repentance-twelve-reasons-to-recover-this-biblical-idea/

Forgiveness is gospel glue that help ensure our children maintain good relationships as adults. Here are some ways we can instill it in them now.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/teaching-our-family-to-forgive/

Its easy to overlook our own blindspots from a position of authority. Here are some ways we can seek help.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/overcome-blind-spots-in-our-parenting-and-leadership/

A number of solid principles to guide couples in unity as they make important decisions.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/guidance-for-couples-in-making-decisions/

Proverbs has a lot to say about our speech. Here is a selection of verses that can help us use it wisely.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/12-proverbs-on-communication/

Proverbs has a lot to say about our speech. Here is a selection of verses that can help us use it wisely.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/12-proverbs-on-communication/

For pastors, our own families can guide us in how we lead our churches. Listen to learn how.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/family-pastor-your-home-is-your-focus-group/

Memorized scripture can be of real benefit to the believer! Listen in to hear about 7 ways this is true.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/7-benefits-of-memorizing-scripture/

In this audioblog, I discuss some practical ideas to make family devotions function more smoothly.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/4-practical-suggestions-on-family-devotions/

There are many ways to engage our family in the Word together. Here are ten ideas that our family has used.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/10-suggestions-on-what-to-do-for-family-devotions/

Listen in as I discuss seven principles that guided our family in our devotions together.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/7-principles-to-guide-family-devotions/

Join me for a brief overview of the importance of the oft-neglected practice of family devotions.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/introduction-to-family-devotions/

Listen in for some principles to help guide Christians in considering college options.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/thoughts-on-choosing-a-college/

The example of Joseph in the Old Testament can teach us how to view temptation, and how to fight it. To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/handling-temptation-like-joseph/

I asked our adult daughter about the ways our family strove for unity. Her answer? “You forced us to be kind to one another.” Listen in as I unpack this.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/forced-to-be-kind/

Did you know that you were made to rule and to reign? Some insights on our biblical authority.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/made-to-rule-and-reign/

At the heart of good parenting is a balance between authority and affection. In this we imitate our heavenly Father's relationship with us. Is your parenting reflecting these two aspects?To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/children-need-affection-authority/

How do we know when to "pull the fire alarm" and enlist help for a conflict in our marriage? Listen to find out.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/pulling-the-fire-alarm/

Wisdom from Proverbs on establishing our households.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/by-wisdom-a-house-is-built/

True hypocrisy is not falling short of the high commands of Christ. So what is it, and why does it matter in our parenting? Listen in to learn more.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/am-i-a-hypocritical-parent/