Blah Blah Marry Me

Today's convo lends itself to energies and personalities you can encounter when you're dating and trying to get to know someone. I definitely encountered some different kinds of personalities! What kind of energy are you putting out there? What are you trying to attract? 

Buckle up kids, do I have a great guest for you! My friend Jen is going to talk to us about her journey through her 20's and what growing needed to happen before deciding to get married. 

A very exciting update in Tam's personal life and how the book the 5 Love Languages helped recognize certain emotions in self and others.

One of my favorite Tiktokers is joining me for a conversation around budgeting! Lexa with the Avocado Toast Budget helped pay off 20k of credit card debt once she learned how to budget and is sharing those tips and tricks!

Season 4 opener! Hear about whats been going on with me lately and how in the last few months I have found the acceptance in letting go of certain things and ideas and learned to accept the alternatives. 

Season 3 finale where I talk end of 2020, changes in season 3 and things I am grateful for, despite a crappy year.

Today we're talking to my high school friend Marcia about how Faith plays a role in the relationships we choose to hold, what it's like to work for your Church and how this plays a role in dating.

RAP comes on to give us an update of what's going on with him and his endeavor's. Hear how his job situation is, what he's working on creatively and what, did he actually catch feelings for someone?! Tune in!

Reality ever catching Tam's attention! Hear how a new TLC show spurred a thought process on how families involvement can either make a relationship or make it a whole lot harder.

If you know me, know I love my reality TV shows and 90 day fiance is one of them! Though not part of the show, Tino and Paulie share their real life story of how they met to being engaged and getting married.

Hear Tam's experience with dating apps so far and what she has learned about herself through the process.

Every realtor is bound to have a Haunted House story! Hear Blanca's story about a small cabin on Lake Livingston.

There's probably not one purchase that will be bigger for most people in their life time than buying a house. Blanca the Realtor is coming on to explain to us the beginning processes for anyone who is thinking about purchasing a home.

Join us as we talk to Esme who started her career in admissions and advancement and decided to pivot 20 years later to become a licensed family therapist.

On this episode we're joined by Judith and Ashley who have been in their marriages 15 and 11 years! Hear how they met their husbands, and what there lives are like 10 years into marriage and kids.

Tam's talking dating standards and manifestation in today's episode. Hear how she has become self aware through filling out dating app questionnaires, what lessons she has learned and how a book recommendation helped her visualize things through the concept of manifestation.

First episode of the Tam solo show! Hear how Blah Blah Marry Me is moving on after RAP moved on and what's next.

Well, friends, we tried to make it work. Quarantined had us dedicating time to ourselves and made us realize we were moving in different directions. We still love you, kids, and care about you. Thank you for staying with us through this journey and stay tuned in to see how we are moving forward.

As we wrap up this season 2 of our podcast, we'd like to thank everybody for listening and wish and hope that everybody stays healthy and safe during these trying times. We're always available and you can reach out to us on any of our social media platforms @blahblahmarryme

"whistle sound" Where the hell did she come up with entanglement?! In this episode, Tam and I are discussing the trending couple right now and that's Jada and Will. We're dissecting that Red Table talk of theirs and we ask each other, "what if your bf/gf wanted to have an open relationship"? Mmmmmmmmm... What would you say?

It's a girls show with Tam and her friend Karmella. We go through our friendship where we bonded over pressures of being oldest children, being raised Catholic in a Latino household and how therapy has helped us navigate through some difficult feelings. Stigmas still exist and they shouldn't! We hope that people listening will understand that it's ok not to feel 100% all the time

Well, we're back again with Sean for part 2 of his story. In this part, he tells us what it was like when he finally left home and if those same issues went with him. Sean also gives advice for those with jealousy issues and those that deal with jealous people.

Sean's back and Tam's out! We're having a couple of special edition episodes where it's just the guys and it's just the girls! This week we have Sean back, he was on last season on episode 11 (make sure to check that out if you haven't already) and we're talking about what nobody really likes to talk about: jealousy. But what causes jealousy? What else is related to it? Sean is here to tell us his experiences and struggles and the self awareness that he's learned along the way. Check out this essential oil diffuser: https://amzn.to/2ZakI4T

Do you ever wonder if you'll ever meet your love of your life on a dating app? Well, if you are, we want you to meet Nick and Kathy. They met on Bumble and as they say, the rest is history. Check out their story!

Have you ever wondered why your first dates haven't gone exactly right? Do you have a hard coming up what to talk about on a first date? Have you struggled picking the right spot for your first date? Well, if you said yes to any of the questions above then this is probably the episode you should listen to! In this episode we talk about the first date do's and don'ts.

As another year passes, it's another year we find ourselves saying "we're too old for this shit"! In this episode, Tam and I talk about the things we used to be able to do in our 20's that we just can't or just don't want to deal with anymore. Like staying out all night and having to work the next day! Who has that type of energy anymore?! And where can I get some?!

In this episode we are going through more scenarios in How I met your mother and try to think about what would we do in their shoes.

We hope everybody has been doing well during these recent times. We understand how much of a toll this can take on everybody. In this episode Tam and I talk about how we've been trying to take control of our situation and not let it control us. It starts mentally and ends physically. We're all in this together, we just have to take it one day at a time. Also please remember to check out our website https://www.blahblahmarryme.com/ for blog posts and updates. Thank you!

Remember Becky from last season? She had some crazy scenarios going on in her life and she's back to give us the tea.

Navigating relationships can be hard, add a baby mama/baby daddy to the mix and things can get interesting! Join us for a super honest conversation with DJ, RAP’s high school friend who is living the Baby Daddy life.

As y'all know we like to have fun on this show, but in all seriousness we know this has been such a devastating time for everyone. If you or someone you know has been affected by this terrible virus, you're in our thoughts and prayers. It has to get better in time and as long as everyone does their part it will. Much love to our front line doctors and nurses and hospital staff, those working in labs trying to find a cure, to grocery stores making sure that day after day their shelves are filled, to the truck drivers making deliveries non stop, to the cleaning crews that wipe away all the harmful germs we thank you for all that you do!!! The Real MVPs

What if your boyfriend or girlfriend likes the outdoors and you don't? What if you like a certain sports team and they don't? What if they're artsy type and you couldn't really care less? We're going to dive into the world of hobbies and interests and see how much they can affect relationships.

Alright, kids, it's been a long minute but we are back and we have some updates for y'all! So Tam and I have started to dive into the dating app world and we're going to see where that takes us. I know Tam is a bit more anxious than I am but I'm willing to be patient and see who comes my way!

What up, kids?! It's 2020, new decade, new us, new you, a new year for new experiences! Before we move forward, we can't forget how crazy 2010 to 2019 was. So many ups and downs. Good times and bad. For now as we get settled into 2020 and in this new decade, we're going to reflect back a bit on the moments that shaped our last decade and also what we're most looking forward to.

Alright kids, huddle up! We made it through the season! Never thought we'd make it this far but thanks to all the love and support we made it. It's been an awesome first season, we've been learning along the way, going with the flow, and we're excited to keep this going! We'll be back with a whole new season next year!

Alright kids, so last week's episode turned into a real conversation of a not so favorable situation Tam was unknowingly involved in. Moral of the story, don't be a little bitch!

Alright kids, gather round. We got a doozy of a story for you today. Our friend Sean is with us and he's got something he wants to get off hist chest. You see, he did something back when he was in college and it's plagued him ever since. Breakups are never the easiest things to deal with, but imagine waking up everyday knowing you need to breakup with your gf/bf and just can't do it. Sometimes we end up doing things we're not proud of.

Alright kids, let us be the ones to tell you that life ain't always going to be peachy. You're not always going to get what you want and you're not always going to life is taking you. With life and love, you're going to have to make sacrifices. Some huge and some not so huge. Since we're big fans of HIMYM, we're going to talk about certain events in their lives and try to translate them to real life scenarios.

Alright kids, I want you to listen up. Tam and I messed up. We messed up bad. We could've been living the luxurious lifestyle right now. Not even kidding. So, we're going to talk to you about what we did with our money so that hopefully you won't make the same mistakes that we did. This is the story of our shoulda, woulda, couldas.

Alright kids, gather around, I got a story to tell you. This is a story about Juan and Yvette about how they met, how they fell in love, and how they've stayed together after so many years. It's a "dick in a bear trap" as Juan calls it, referring to marriage. Kids, love is never easy, even for the best couple doing their Lily and Marshall impression. Even they broke up for a while, but Juan and Yvette, they show us how love works. They really show us how love works. Cheers to them.

Alright kids, sit down and let's talk. I don't think we do that anymore, not as much as we used to. How are your friends? When was the last time you talked to them? Work taking up too much of your time? Yeah, tell me about it. I know all about it. As we grew older the harder it is to maintain the closeness you might have had with your family or friends and sometimes that's the way it is. It's a 2 way street. They have also have a phone, they can pick it up and call you too. Don't feel like you're the only one that has to keep this "ship" alive.

Alright kids, let's have a chat. I'm going to tell you a story about how RAP's sister found love in a fairytale and why she left it behind. We're also going to discuss what the divorce rates in the Millennial generation are. Answer might surprise you.

Alright kids, this is the story of how RAP and Tam argued over what real dates are, talked through some rough first dates, and what makes the perfect dating app.

Alright kids, this is the story of how RAP and Tam went all out in the 90's and the early 2000's! Remember passing notes in class??? Remember calling your crush's house phone because we didn't have cell yet and their parents picked up??? I know y'all remember playing Snake on your Nokia! Don't even test me, I got the highest score!

Alright kids, so episode 3 was pretty rough to go through. Rough enough to where we had to have a reaction episode. Talking about the past, reliving old memories, you know the good times and the bad.

Gather round kids, here's the story of how RAP and Tam experienced heartbreak, dealt with the aftermath, and learned how to move on.

Gather round kids! This is the story of how RAP and Tam decided to start a podcast about relationships, millennials and life. While answering the question of can guys and girls be friends. *HINT* They think so.

Alright kids, this is the story of how RAP and Tam talk about all the ways you can be in a relationship without being in a relationship. Hanging out, friends with benefits, situationships...what does it all mean?!