Different People Same Problems

I found this gem, recorded over 4 years ago. I didn't publish as life became super busy but I believe it is perfect for now. Men stress too!! listening to a mans perspective and having a bit more empathy on them because they don't always want to seem vulnerable and worry their partner that they are not meeting their end of the bargain. Conversations about future and additional income is very important as well as discussing each others feelings. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dreya3/support

Life happens and i wanted to let u know whats up! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

"You dont realize what you lost until its gone" a quote I grew up hearing and yes it is true. I trully appreciate the help my parents gave me when i was raising my two eldest. I see how they too played a role in raising my kids. Fathers are not often recognized for the work they put in caring for their kids and raising them. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

What we see and hear about in mainstream and social media about parenting doesnt always align to how we are dealing with the family we are raising. We need to remember that we are not the perfect families, they are not perfect either. In reality we are doing more than those in the media because they have someone helping them, it could be a housekeeper, nanny, etc. We are doing fine. You are doing fine! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Having been in a relationship where i was the other woman. I was able to move on past that but the ghost from the past came back for a second chance. "What a selfish waste!!" I hope my story helps you, in your sticky relationship woes. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

New baby, managing the changes in my routine. Unable to work and challenging weight gain. I feel like i'm being tested. Giving you an update on my life as it currently is. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Although i started being all over the place. I discussed the importance of setting priorities and not procrastinating, time is of the essence and it does not wait for you. I have also discussed how homeless is affecting our senior community. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

As always, super excited to share what i have learned. Today i discuss why i applied for Food Stamps and what do's and dont's to keep in mind. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Hey guys I discuss how EDD, Unempleoyment Insurance works in my state of California, what to do and what not to do. You cant always tell them whats going on, your certification weeks have to reflect what they want to hear. DONT BE THE REASON YOUR MONEY GETS HELD BACK. Tune in for some informational details. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

As mentioned in my previous episode, not having a gynecologist and being close to delivering my 4th baby has been a struggle (in America) as having government insurance makes it a bit complicated to see a doctor right away and doctor offices have wait time that can cause you to have a baby prior to receiving the care you need. THIS IS AMERICA!! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Giving you guys an update on my current health insurance woes and what the great U.S of A does to keep you from being at ease whether you have government or private insurance. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Being unemployed is just ridiculous and county on the state government to help is the main reason there are a lot of homeless people in CALIFORNIA. I am starting to worry about my situation. Here is my update. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Dealing with the headaches of seeing a doctor and not being insured by private or medical, because the previous employer decided not to submit the list of employees who were no longer with the company. Stressful and irritating. but was able to get it sorted out. Providing an update to you guys and if any of you need any help, (might be going through something similar) send me a message. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Super excited to be back. I shared the unexpected changes in my career, how not enjoying my employment caused me to speak my current situation into existence and where do i go from here. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

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Having a mean sibling while growing up doesn't mean that's their personality. I thought this was so. My older sister was nice at times, and angry and spiteful and mean other times. I never thought it was jealousy. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

So much to learn and retain all at once. Enjoying my financial educational experience with you. Tune in to learn why the rich dont f%%%* with poor and middle class. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Having had family issues and being the one to pull out the rod of tough love. Every family has issues but when I see the story repeating itself in my life through the person I'm in a relationship with, I have a problem. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

I discuss my excuse for being away and also what i learned this month. Just when I think I am learning about how to be financially savy I am nowhere close to having a third of financial knowledge. Tune in to hear what i learned and also leave your comments and suggestion. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Raising kids who don't see the other parent or whose family members from the other side are not present is difficult. Growing up, kids are curious about the other family members and as a result their innocent little minds don't recognize the problems that await them. Kids become victims of rejection from the other members, maybe sexual abuse and emotional trauma. Please always see your child's best interest when allowing them to interact with relatives they don't know. Don't force your kids to mingle with people who might not be safe for them, in exchange for a few hours of free time. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Shared my thoughts on the Ava Duvernay documentary, if you have not watched it, what are you waiting for? If you do, watch it with a clear mind, don't start with negative thoughts such as "this is a video trying to set a negative view of law enforcement" if you do think that way then you are narrow minded. This is not about wild teenagers and their wild hormones. This is racism, coercion, discrimination, and the real life of what Black and brown people live and how they are portrayed in the media. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Homelessness in California has surged since 2016, individuals living on paycheck to paycheck no longer can afford rent and are forced to live in tents in sidewalks. Even though there are organizations that are trying to help, not everyone can be helped when the number of homeless people keep rising. For those home owners fearing the loss of their homes there are resources as well. One particular resource i came across is http://www.saje.net/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Before social media became the trend, we experienced bullying in our homes(siblings) school, work and out on the streets. Now we have another platform to be bullied and its super intense because social media causes more psychological damage aside from what we already experience. We have to be able to recognize and accept ourselves and love ourselves because others ( excluding friend and love ones) wont. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Update on my daughters mental states. Discussing how Therapy and Mental care professionals are in high demand right now but there are not many of them available. We need to get out of the stigma of mental health pertaining to crazy or slow minded people. Everyone needs mental help and I discuss why and give me personal experiences and reactions. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Having had a conversation with "Prince" (his doppelganger) I realize how I've been holding myself from opportunities that could benefit me as it pertains to school, work and life. You might be trying to juggle school, work, kids, home and trying not to have mental break downs. Well let me tell you, I messed up in my school and had major mental break downs. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Todays special guest, Raynard, shared his thoughts on school, money and family. We as women have to juggle the responsibilities but we really dont get to hear a mans perspective of how they deal with it and what their thoughts are about school, money and family. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

I've always wondered when my kids personality traits were developed. If you actually stop to think, it was during your pregnancy. Our personality traits a.k.a HORMONES are not a pregnancy side effect. its a result of a little personality in the making. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Not everyone understand and cares to understand how busy an individual can be. I am a mother of 2 teenagers and an 18 month, I have a full time job, physically training for a mandatory fitness test, school and aside from that chores to take care off and sometimes having breakdowns on how overwhelmed i can be. The least my friends and family can do is UNDERSTAND. But what about those people who despite what you tell them you are going through, keep pushing to the issue and expect you to go out of your way for them? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

What should you share on social media? Do you have a right to privacy once you become a celebrity? Is having two social media accounts in the same platform bad? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

My take on Ayesha Curry discussing her insecurity and what that means to me and what can drive a person to feel that way, Does someone else have to make you feel that way? or could it be a bigger problem that is deeply rooted. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Suicide is a thought behind everyone's mind. Circumstances activate that enemy inside us. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Introduction on my pledge to deliver better content. Discussing the challenges that drive us to drop out of school. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Being a parent is such a challenge, non the less when you have teenagers. When your parents said your kids would behave worst than you, they were passing on life experience. Maybe you were the most behaved child in your family but that doesn't mean your child's father was. I am sharing my challenges with you and i am making it clear that tween/teen challenges are something all parents experience whether its in the early tween or late teens. Lord help us and have mercy on us!! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

I for one didn't jump into conclusions regarding Jordan's affair with Tristan Thompson I believe that there's another side to this story the story has not been heard completely and honestly, while everybody has jumped to conclusions I feel like Jordan was set up but that is just my opinion and I speak on that in this episode. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

When is it the right time to talk to your tween or your teen about sex? Some parents cringe at the thought of having the discussion with their children. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Amid the Thompson and Woods affair. One thing that will never change is who your significant other decides to cheat on you with. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Having met with my daughter's counselor, I was afraid I would find out a different story than what she had mention to me. As parents we have to constantly be involved in our kids lives in school and build a rapport with their teachers because our kids need to understand that they have our support and that we as parents have built a team with the teachers to ensure that they are keeping up with their work. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Did flor mom ever tell you to behave and quit sneaking around otherwise your kids will do it worst? Yes KARMA will get back with your sneakinnes worst. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Trying to keep up with the Jones's and their accomplishments can be your misfortune. We are all wired to do things at our own pace and we should set goal that we can achieve and not because others have. Thats not to say that we shouldnt challenge ourselves. CORRECTION - 1% prodigy as i stated 100% of world was not prodigy. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Getting a job now seem to be a "who you know" in order to obtain that job. Even those who have a job just wish their employer valued their worth. The workforce is a bitter sweet place to be, we work to pay bills, wouldnt it be great to go to work where you were praised for your value and skills instead of constantly being micromanaged and critiqued for how better you could have done things? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

In every grade level you will have a teacher who will encourage you to be better, excel in your talents and you will have those who will discriminate you base on your looks, gender and race. Teachers have a very important role and they should understand that being biased and negative will not only cause our kids to fail in their class but also make our kids to want to give up in school completely. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Why is it okay for certain groups of people to speak about rights and empowering the people and why are celebrities' criticized when they do it? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Are you a horrible parent for allowing DCFS to take your kids? Most cases you can say yes. But what about those kids whose parents had no choice but to let go? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Your children will never understand why the other parent is not in the picture. You wont always be able to fill in the emptiness, but you can definitely be the best parent they have. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

We dont have many hours in the day and trying to squeeze things to do just makes things worst. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

When you want your long term relationship to help help you enforce the rules at home with your children who are not his. What should you expect? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Making decisions out of whim when you find yourself in financial desperation may hurt you instead of benefiting you at the moment. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Getting married young has is its advantages and disadvantages. Considering help before marriage can help you. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

When asked to write down my references I realized my friend circle is really really small and I am such an introvert. Do you relate? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Are you constantly having to go back and forth with your aignificant other because their story just keeps getting longer? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support

Our country is a one sided country, all we learn and celebrate is to compensate and cover up the truth. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dreya3/support