I Love You Too Much to Argue is a podcast that helps you create great relationships with all those in your life, spouses, friends, kids, and even colleagues! Using tools including the Enneagram, Love Languages and Parenting with the Love & Logic method. Join hosts and friends Holly and Bec as they discuss, share, and learn along with you how these tools can help you understand yourself and others better, enrich your relationships and sharpen your parenting skills!
It's been 6 months since our last episode and there has been A LOT that's happened! email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com for questions! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Harmonic Groups are another trio within the Enneagram that help us discover how we respond to loss and disappointment. Holly + Bec discuss each of the Harmonic Groups and each number within those Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
No, no, no! Holly + Bec share some stories and laughs which will inspire you to ask yourself why you are saying no. Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Holly + Bec revisit one of their most downloaded episodes - 5. Game Changer for toddlers, tantrums & toilet training. But don't be fooled, this episode is helpful for everyone, not just those with toddlers. Check out the video here Enter the competition to win an hour with Holly + Bec to chat about anything parenting related. Enter by sending us an email or message to tell us how you experimented with giving choices. Listen for more details. Competition closed 8pm 31st August AEST. Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
I love you too much to argue is ONE, Happy Birthday to us! Enter our 1st Birthday competition by sending us an email or a message which tells us your favourite episode and why! Entries close 8pm August 24th AEST Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Holly + Bec chat to a very special guest, Ruth, about Baby Led Weaning and other food choices. What is it, why would we do it and some helpful tips to get started! Can you find Ruth on Instagram here Solid Starts Kids Eat in Color Tiny Hearts Education Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Life, relationships and parenting is HARD! How can we deal with these harder moments in our parenting journey when things go wrong? Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Have you ever felt like when your loved one apologises for something they have done that hurt you, the apology just doesn't quite hit the mark. Holly + Bec discuss the five Apology Languages. Do the Apology Languages test here Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Communication is an essential part of everyday life. Holly & Bec discuss tips for each Enneagram type Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
What if Holly isn't a 2 & Bec isn't a 6? Have you ever wondered if you are a different Enneagram type? Holly & Bec discuss their possible mistypes Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments, or advice here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Holly and Bec chat with Sandra from Family Personalities about introversion vs extraversion and how to identify it in our kids. Sandra is the owner of Family Personalities and the co-host of the Family Personalities podcast, a show that helps you parent more easily and peacefully, through the use of personality type. Sandra uses her experience and training in Myers-Briggs personality type, to work one on one with families, helping them parent more effectively and compassionately based on their children's unique wiring and needs. Find her on her Website, Instagram or Facebook and listen to her Podcast too! Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Holly and Bec's debut interview on an international podcast
Holly + Bec share a funny story from a listener and follow her up with some questions about her situation. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
The Enneagram is used to help us grow, but growth is hard and uncomfortable. Listen to Holly + Bec chat about what makes growth feel vulnerable for each number. Have you grown recently in a way that was hard? Send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
This is the fifth and final episode in our series that deep dive into Love Languages, Holly & Bec chat to Emma about 'Words of Affirmation'. If your love language is Words of Affirmation or you have a friend or loved one with this as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must! If you don't know your Love Language yet, take the quiz here Share with us your ideas of how to love others with Words of Affirmation. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com find us on Instagram and Facebook too! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
In the last of this week's Lockdown Tips series, Holly + Bec chat about tips for people looking for work. Jump on our Instagram or Facebook and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for people working from home. Jump on our Instagram or Facebook and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for housemates, plus share a meet-cute from Holly's sister and some stories from when Holly and Bec were housemates! Jump on our Instagram or Facebook and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for couples. Jump on our Instagram or Facebook and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for parents with school aged kids. Jump on our Instagram or Facebook and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for singles and those living alone. Jump on Instagram or Facebook and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
This week Victoria, Australia has gone into a 7 day lock down. Lockdown is HARD in so many ways. As a way to help their lovely listeners Holly + Bec decided to do Bonus Episodes a series of Lock down tips. Today's episode talks through tips for parents with babies, toddlers and pre school aged children. Jump on Instagram and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Holly & Bec chat to Parenting expert Mary from Parenting with Logic. Hear how Mary discovered Love & Logic, how she uses it in her home with her teenage children and how it has impacted her relationship with her now adult children. Be encouraged as you listen to the impact of being intentional about your parenting. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com You can contact Mary at https://www.parentingwithlogic.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Holly & Bec answer a listener's question about natural consequences for kids with some stories, ideas and examples. We love receiving your questions and feedback. Leave us a voice message Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Holly chats with very special guest Joel McKerrow 3w4 about his current art/poetry exhibition on the Enneagram called HUMAN. Check out all of Joel's amazing work at www.joelmckerrow.com listen to his podcast The Deep Place - on Creativity & Spirituality and listen to his Enneagram poems on Spotify or on his website. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
This is the fourth episode in our series that deep dive into Love Languages, Holly & Bec chat about 'Physical Touch'. If your love language is Physical Touch or you have a friend or loved one with this as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must! If you don't know your Love Language yet, take the quiz here https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/ Share with us your ideas of how to love others with Physical Touch. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice. https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Holly + Bec answer a listener's question about Empathy. This is a 'must listen' for anyone who has relationships Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Triads or Centre of Intelligence is a grouping within the Enneagram that helps us to understand how we filter or receive information from the world around us. Join Holly + Bec as they discuss the basics of the Triads We'd love to hear if you learnt about yourself from this episode, leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
This is the third episode in our series that deep dive into Love Languages, Holly & Bec chat about 'Quality Time'. If your love language is Quality Time or you have a friend or loved one with this as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must! If you don't know your Love Language yet, take the quiz here https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/ Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Holly & Bec chat about the things that push the buttons of each Enneagram type. Listen to see how you could be pushing the buttons of your loved one and let us know what else pushes your buttons! Thanks to @ninetypesco on Instagram for the inspo for this episode. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
What is the Misbehaviour Cycle? How do adults contribute to the cycle and how can we disrupt it? Let us know your stories, questions or feedback by leaving us a voice message here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Find the Misbehaviour cycle here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Following on from our deep dive into Receiving Gifts, Holly & Bec chat about 'Acts of Service' as a Love Language. If your love language is Act of Service or you have a friend or loved one with this as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must! Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com If you don't know your Love Language yet, take the test here https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Discovering your Enneagram Type is a journey, doing a test is not always helpful. Often it is the unhealthy aspects of our type that we relate to the most. Holly & Bec chat about common unhealthy traits of each type and self care tips for each type. Let us know the tips you have when you find yourself in an unhealthy space. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Following on from the episode about Consequences, Holly & Bec discuss the difference between discomfort and danger when it comes to allowing our kids to experience consequences. Do have a situation that you'd like help with Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
In this episode, Holly & Bec do a deep dive into the 'Receiving Gifts' Love Language. If your love language is gifts or you have a friend or loved one with Gifts as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must! Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Find your Love Language here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Ever wondered why two people who have the same Enneagram type can be so very different? Holly & Bec chat about subtypes or instinctual types. Let us know your thoughts on subtypes, leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Find out more here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
What is the difference between punishment and consequences? Holly & Bec discuss the differences and which one is more effective. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
The Enneagram has so many facets. Holly & Bec discuss the wounding message that each type heard or thought they heard as a child. Have a listen and let us know if you relate to the wounding message of your type. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Check out @enneagramexplained on Instagram too --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Why it is so important to have our kids contribute to the family? Do you pay your kids to do chores? Holly and Bec chat about all things chores. Link to get your copy of our list https://forms.gle/HBCnQngyzZJEnLV76 Share with us what contributions your kids make. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Love Languages is a universal tool to help us speak love the loudest to those we are in relationships with. Holly & Bec talk about how to identify the love languages of teenagers. Share your stories with us or ask us a question by leaving us a voice message at https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Holly & Bec answer an emailed question from a listener and share a success story from another listener. Send us your questions and success stories by leaving us a voice message https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Welcome to the first episode for 2021! Are you having trouble working out which Enneagram number you are? Understanding the Stances of the Enneagram may help to narrow it down. Holly and Bec discuss each of the three stances, the Aggressive, Withdrawn and Dependant stances. Do you have questions about Stances?. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Extra reading https://skyemclain.com/2019/02/how-to-find-your-enneagram-number.html/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Welcome to 2021! Holly and Bec share some thoughts on 2020 and some details on what 2021 will look like! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Relationships take work. Understanding each Enneagram type can help with loving, supporting and encouraging your loved ones. Let us know your type and what your loved ones do that help you feel most loved and supported. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Suzanne Stabile - The Path Between Us https://www.amazon.com/Path-Between-Us-Enneagram-Relationships/dp/0830846425 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
We have a confession....! We love F.r.i.e.n.d.s and we love the Enneagram. Also, Holly shares a controversial and embarrassing secret! Let us know who your favourite Friends character is and why. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Link to read more on Friends and the Enneagram https://mystorysrn.wordpress.com/2018/10/15/friends-enneagram-according-to-me/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
A person's predominant love language is how they hear love the loudest. Holly and Bec discuss things to avoid for each love language to help you show love the loudest to your loved ones. Tell us what your Love Language is and how you 'hear love the loudest' Leave us a voice message with your questions Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
In this episode, Holly and Bec chat to Kathy, a mum of 2 kids who uses Love and Logic techniques in her home. Find out what happened when Kathy's daughter had a problem. Let us know what your favourite Love & Logic technique is. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Kathy's blog post - How to develop our kids super powers If you are interested in Kathy's workshops you can contact her at cultivatelifeworkshops@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
It's the most wonderful time of the year! Is November too early to put up your Christmas Tree? Holly and Bec chat about Holly's favourite time of the year and share some clever Christmas hacks you might want to use yourself! Tell us your favourite Christmas traditions. Leave us a voice message with your questions here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Follow Holly's Christmas Instagram account @hollyjoychristmas --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Each of us has a primary enneagram type. Each type has stereotypical behaviour BUT that doesn't mean we always have that behaviour. We can all still exhibit behaviour from each type. This episode is dedicated to our friend Chris and his gorgeous late wife Amanda, we love you ❤️ We'd love to hear from you, leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
Check out this fun episode where Holly and Bec do an experiment! What happens when they commit to saying 'YES' for a week?? Are you prepared to accept the #yeschallenge too? Share your Yes Challenge moments on Social Media and use #yeschallenge so we can follow along! We love to hear what happened when you took up the #yeschallenge. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Find us on Instagram @iloveyoutoomuchtoarguepodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
What Enneagram Type is Winnie the Pooh? You'll have to listen and find out! Which character do you relate to the most? Perhaps this will help you discover your enneagram type or find out more about yourself! To read more check out this article We loved to hear which character you relate to the most and why at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Make sure you pop over to our Instagram @iloveyoutoomuchtoarguepodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message
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