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A podcast to empower survivors of sexual trauma to know that there is life after sexual abuse, hosted by Stacie Glass, a childhood survivor of sexual trauma, author and coach. A safe place talking all about the healing journey to empower you along your own to release blame, shame and guilt. Time to heal your way and live the life you deserve. Book out now - Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body and Soul. Take care of yourself when listening to this podcast - it may be triggering. Always look after your own wellbeing first.

Stacie Glass


    • Apr 17, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 38m AVG DURATION
    • 55 EPISODES


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    When fear feels safer than healing

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2025 17:34


    This audio is from a recent Substack post - read here. This is an example of a paid post but I made it publicly available as a taster for what you receive for just £5/month. That's healing support for less than the cost of a coffee. This episode walks you through how fear of change can hold us back from moving forward. How meeting the resistance and fear with curiosity instead of dismissal is how we take steps towards the growth we seek:The unknown can feel more dangerous than staying where we are, even if “where we are” is painful. Why? Because it's familiar. And what is familiar feels safe, even if it hurts.This is the paradox so many of us live in:I want to heal…but I'm scared of what that means.I want to take the first step…but I don't know what I need.I want to move forward…but part of me feels frozen.For other supportive healing posts and to subscribe, take a look here at Substack. @survivorsanctuary.Thank you always for taking the time to tell me how helpful you find the podcast - it's what keeps me going with it. It really is a labour of love. If you are interested in knowing more about survivor circles (online and in person - West Sussex RH20), use this form.

    Why You Can't Think Your Way to Healing

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2025 10:18


    Read the full post on Substack here. "Many of us have learned to survive by disconnecting from our emotions, shutting down sensations in our bodies, and keeping our pain locked away in the unconscious corners of our minds. At some point, this numbing may have been necessary. Numbness may keep us safe from pain, but it also keeps us from feeling fully alive. It separates us from the love, joy, and connection we long for. And yet, the idea of “feeling again” can be terrifying—because if we let ourselves feel, what if it's too much? What if we get swallowed whole? What if we can't climb out of the spiral? But over time, that protection can become a prison. It prevents real connection with ourselves and others. I want to tell you this: you are not broken. And you don't have to go from numb to feeling everything all at once. There is a way to gently, safely reconnect with your emotions—without drowning in them. As we step onto the path of healing, we come to realise that true liberation requires us to feel again".Stacie is creating a safe space to share, connect and grow a sense of community on Substack. If you subscribe, you can receive personal insights and reflection in your inbox - that aren't posted publicly. ⁠Subscribe here.⁠Stacie loves hearing your podcast feedback so keep sharing (email below or send a comment/review). And if you want to show some appreciation for the podcast, you can now ⁠buy Stacie a coffee.⁠ This podcast is created as a free resource, accessible to all and therefore this is a small way you can say thank you if you've benefited in any way. 

    Short Story ~ Inner Child Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2025 6:15


    In this short story, you will hear why connecting with our inner child is healing - especially if you felt you didn't have your needs met as a child. During the healing process, it is transformative to learn that we can reparent ourselves and witness what the inner child needed. In the Survivor Sanctuary Membership this month, we are exploring Inner Child Connection for our Healing Theme. There is a detailed PDF guide and a guided meditation included. Stacie is creating a safe space to share, connect and grow a sense of community on Substack. If you subscribe, you can receive personal insights and reflection in your inbox - that aren't posted publicly. ⁠Subscribe here.⁠Stacie loves hearing your podcast feedback so keep sharing (email below or send a comment/review). And if you want to show some appreciation for the podcast, you can now ⁠buy Stacie a coffee.⁠ This podcast is created as a free resource, accessible to all and therefore this is a small way you can say thank you if you've benefited in any way. 

    The Kind of Healing No One Talks About

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2025 10:01


    Healing isn't a straight line. It's a spiral. Sometimes, it's messy, cyclical, and feels like falling apart before we can piece back together.The truth is, healing doesn't look like what the world tells us. It's not about moving on and forgetting. It's about becoming—becoming someone new, someone whole again, through the raw process of transformation.If you've ever felt like your healing doesn't fit into a neat package, like you're doing it “wrong” because you're not “over it,” this space is for you. I believe in the healing that happens when we sit with our pain, our shadows, and embrace the parts of us that have been silenced.This is not about quick fixes or the pressure to be “fixed”. It's about honouring your unique journey, where healing is personal, deep, and unfolds in its own time. At your pace. Read the post on my Substack to explore what this kind of healing looks like and how we can hold space for it together. ⁠Subscribe here.⁠ You can find the written reflection questions here if you want to revisit them.Stacie loves hearing your podcast feedback so keep sharing (email below or send a comment/review). And if you want to show some appreciation for the podcast, you can now ⁠buy Stacie a coffee.⁠ This podcast is created as a free resource, accessible to all and therefore this is a small way you can say thank you if you've benefited in any way. 

    Short Story ~ The day I chose myself (to heal)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2025 7:41


    "Today, I want to share with you the moment that changed everything for me. I find that people easily forget the place I once was, that dark place of not knowing what to do with the mess that lived deeply buried within me. In all honesty, it still amazes me today that here I am sharing with the world. That vow that I made to my 12 year old self to never share to another soul, felt so eternal and binding. And yet, the memory of this vow also reminds me that things do change and that there is a world of possibility; we just have to be open to it. There were many moments when I considered drudging up the deeply hidden and heavily locked box that was my trauma. Times when the weight of it felt unbearable, yet fear always held me back. I would edge closer to admitting it to myself, only to shut it down, convincing myself that it wasn't the right time, that I wasn't ready, that maybe I never would be. Maybe it didn't happen as I remembered it anyway."~~~You can read the full post on Substack ⁠here⁠ that goes with this short story. Stacie is creating a safe space to share, connect and grow a sense of community on Substack. If you subscribe, you can receive personal insights and reflection in your inbox - that aren't posted publicly. ⁠Subscribe here.⁠Stacie loves hearing your podcast feedback so keep sharing (email below or send a comment/review). And if you want to show some appreciation for the podcast, you can now ⁠buy Stacie a coffee.⁠ This podcast is created as a free resource, accessible to all and therefore this is a small way you can say thank you if you've benefited in any way. Stacie is taking a break from recording with guests but you can still reach out to express your interest for coming on the podcast for when she returns to recording. Email: Stacie.m.glass@gmail.com. 

    Short Story ~ The Burden of Shame, Blame & Guilt

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 6:17


    A short story about the burden we may carry of shame, blame and guilt after experiencing trauma. "The Lies We InternaliseSelf-blame whispers, It was my fault.Shame hisses, I am broken.Guilt lingers, I should have done something differently.These voices are not ours. They are echoes of a world that fails to hold survivors with the compassion that is deserved. They are the messages we absorbed from silence, from misunderstanding, from the weight of trauma itself. And the most painful part? When we don't know where else to place the hurt, we turn it inward.I did".You can read the full post on Substack ⁠here⁠ that was written to accompany this short story. Stacie is creating a safe space to share, connect and grow a sense of community on Substack. If you subscribe, you can receive personal insights and reflection in your inbox - that aren't posted publicly. ⁠Subscribe here.⁠Stacie loves hearing your podcast feedback so keep sharing (email below or send a comment/review). And if you want to show some appreciation for the podcast, you can now ⁠buy Stacie a coffee.⁠ This podcast is created as a free resource, accessible to all and therefore this is a small way you can say thank you if you've benefited in any way. Stacie is taking a break from recording with guests but you can still reach out to express your interest for coming on the podcast for when she returns to recording. Email: Stacie.m.glass@gmail.com. 

    Short Story ~ I didn't believe healing was possible

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2025 5:15


    A short story about Stacie's journey to suppression of trauma, to not believing healing was possible to now. "There was a time in my life when I felt completely lost. Trapped on a relentless hamster wheel of self-loathing, shame, and blame, I questioned whether freedom from my past was even possible. I spent years disconnected from myself, carrying the weight of my trauma, and believing that the answers lay somewhere outside of me". You can read the full letter on Substack here that goes with this short story. Stacie is creating a safe space to share, connect and grow a sense of community on Substack. If you subscribe, you can receive personal insights and reflection in your inbox - that aren't posted publicly. Subscribe here. Stacie loves hearing your podcast feedback so keep sharing (email below or send a comment/review). And if you want to show some appreciation for the podcast, you can now buy Stacie a coffee. This podcast is created as a free resource, accessible to all and therefore this is a small way you can say thank you if you've benefited in any way.  Stacie is taking a break from recording with guests but you can still reach out to express your interest for coming on the podcast for when she returns to recording. Email: Stacie.m.glass@gmail.com. 

    An Introduction ~ Short Story Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 12:25


    Welcome to a new series where Stacie will be sharing short 'stories'. She is taking a short break from guest recording and wants to share something different for a little while. They will be short episodes but she hopes to share the power of storytelling. In this introduction, Stacie explains the power and benefit of storytelling both as a therapeutic practice and as creative self-expression. As she shares the stories with you, she invites you to open yourself to the power of storytelling—not just as something to listen to, but as something to feel. Notice how stories land in your body. Notice what emotions they stir. And if you feel called, explore your own self-expression. Whether through writing, speaking, art, or simply reflecting on the stories you carry within you.Stacie is creating a safe space to share, connect and grow a sense of community on Substack. If you subscribe, you can receive personal insights and reflection in your inbox - that aren't posted publicly. Subscribe here.Stacie loves hearing your podcast feedback so keep sharing (email below or send a comment/review). And if you want to show some appreciation for the podcast, you can now buy Stacie a coffee. This podcast is created as a free resource, accessible to all and therefore this is a small way you can say thank you if you've benefited in any way. We are taking a short break from recording with guests but you can still reach out to express your interest for coming on the podcast for when we return to recording. Email: Stacie.m.glass@gmail.com. 

    S3.Ep.10. Survivor Story ~ Jen

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 56:12


    Stacie shares another guest episode today thanks to Jen for sharing your truth, your honesty and vulnerability. We cover a lot in this episode including grooming, "affairs", the grey age of 16 and consent, relationship dynamics/complexities and more. As always, take care when listening. Your wellbeing comes first. Stacie is creating a safe space to share, connect and grow a sense of community on Substack. If you subscribe, you can receive personal insights and reflection in your inbox - that aren't posted publicly. Subscribe here.Stacie loves hearing your podcast feedback so keep sharing! And if you want to show some appreciation for the podcast, you can now buy Stacie a coffee. This podcast is created as a free resource, accessible to all and therefore this is a small way you can say thank you if you've benefited in any way. Stacie is taking a break from recording with guests but you can still reach out to express your interest for coming on the podcast for when she returns to recording. Email: Stacie.m.glass@gmail.com. 

    S3.Ep.9. Survivor Story ~ John

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2025 50:31


    After taking an unintentional break (again), Stacie is back sharing another survivor story with John today. Thank you John for reaching out and wanting to share your truth. John was inspired by listening to others share theirs - thank you for your contribution to the podcast. Stacie loves John's answer to the last question - really powerful words. As always, take care when listening. Your wellbeing is important - come back to this if needed. Stacie is creating a safe space to share, connect and grow a sense of community on Substack. If you subscribe, you can receive personal insights and reflection in your inbox - that aren't posted publicly. Subscribe here.Stacie loves hearing your podcast feedback so keep sharing! And if you want to show some appreciation for the podcast, you can now buy Stacie a coffee. This podcast is created as a free resource, accessible to all and therefore this is a small way you can say thank you if you've benefited in any way. Stacie is taking a break from recording with guests but you can still reach out to express your interest for coming on the podcast for when she returns to recording. Email: Stacie.m.glass@gmail.com.

    S3.Bonus: Creating an Inner Sense of Calm

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2024 5:41


    This is a short bonus episode to help you find your inner calm this December; a month that can be overwhelming and triggering for some. Remember to reach out if you're struggling. You don't have to suffer and struggle alone. This is one of the audios Stacie has created as part of this month's Healing Theme for the Survivor Sanctuary Membership. If you want to know more about it and how you can join, email Stacie.m.Glass@gmail.com.

    S3.Ep.8. Survivor Story ~ Jamie

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 70:56


    Extra warning that this episode contains details of abuse and suicide. Stacie shares another Survivor Story today and is grateful for another male to share his perspective - thank you Jamie. Jamie shares so honestly and vulnerably his experience of grooming, abuse, speaking out and the court process. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready.  Contact Stacie directly: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @_StacieGlass_ if you want to discuss being a guest on the podcast or to access the private Telegram Survivor Support group chats (male and female).

    S3.Ep.7. Survivor Story ~ Mhairi

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2024 61:09


    Welcome to another Survivor Story episode. Stacie is grateful for Mhiari (pronounced Vari) for sharing her experience of childhood sexual trauma. We cover so much in this conversation including speaking up - the complexity of not speaking up at the time of abuse, uncovering memories, guilt, managing other peoples emotions and reactions and the complexity of abuse within families. Thank you so much Mhairi for your time and vulnerability to come onto the podcast. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. Thank you as always to those who take the time to give feedback about the podcast - it means so much to Stacie. Contact Stacie directly: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @_StacieGlass_If you want to know more about joining the Telegram Survivor group chats (female and male) or the monthly membership Survivor Sanctuary then email Stacie for more details.

    S3.Ep.6. Rich Maule

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2024 61:06


    On today's episode, Stacie has the honour of chatting with coach and spiritual teacher Rich Maule who shares his experience of uncovering childhood sexual abuse and how he navigated processing those memories and trauma. Stacie and Rich talk about the mind body connection and how connecting with yourself and your own intuition is powerful with healing from trauma. This is a powerful conversation offering a male perspective of healing after sexual trauma. All experiences are valid and there are commonalities and distinct differences within this. Thank you Rich for sharing so openly and freely your experience with us.As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. You can contact Rich through these ways:- Youtube: watch here.- Instagram: @richardmaule- Website: www.richmaule.com- Insight Timer- The book Rich refers to in this episode is: Healing Back Pain: The Mind Body Connection by John E. Sarno M.D.Stacie holds monthly Online Survivor Circles and Survivor specific journaling sessions: calendly.com/stacie-glass- You can now get both these calls included within the monthly membership ‘The Survivor Sanctuary' plus so much more. For more details, email Stacie: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @_StacieGlass_

    Podcast milestone 10,000 plays

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 16:52


    A bonus episode to say thank you for all those who listen and support this podcast. Stacie wouldn't be doing it if it wasn't for your amazing feedback and support. 
To celebrate this milestone, Stacie is giving away a few gifts: 1:1 sessions and spaces to Online Survivor Circle Calls. To enter, send a screenshot of your review for the podcast or the book (bonus entry if you do both) to Stacie.m.glass@gmail.com. If you've left an Amazon book review before, you don't need to email. Stacie will add you to this giveaway. If you've already reviewed the podcast, send a screenshot of it so you can be entered. 
Winners will be chosen on 1st September (2024) and emailed. Thank you for being here. You are appreciated.

    S3.Ep.5 Lucy Hebberts ~ Working in the SA support sector

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2024 53:31


    On today's episode, Stacie has the privilege of chatting with Lucy Hebberts. Lucy is Head of GINA, a Birmingham-based non-profit supporting individuals subjected to sexual violence & abuse, & she works for GINA's sister charity, RSVP (The Rape & Sexual Violence Project) - Birmingham's rape crisis charity. Lucy has also published research surrounding female sexualisation & objectification, & has recently been a Co-researcher on The PROSPER Study which explores voluntary sector specialist services for individuals subjected to sexual violence & abuse in England. Lucy has been working in the sector to end violence against women & girls since 2019. In this conversation, we have a unique perspective of talking from a service user perspective (Stacie) and from the service provider and advocate (Lucy). Thank you to all those who work relentlessly across the country within this sector - working hard to advocate for change and supporting survivors. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. You can find more information about both these services here:https://www.gina.uk.com/https://rsvporg.co.uk/GINA has a free resources page that you can access here: https://www.gina.uk.com/resourcesIf you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up the mail list here: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH. Contact Stacie directly: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @_StacieGlass_. If you want to come on the podcast as a guest, email Stacie directly.

    S3.Ep.4. James Scade: Men's mental health

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2024 33:53


    On today's episode, Stacie has the honour of welcoming our first male guest onto the podcast James Scade. James shares his experience of severe depression and suicide which led him to Andy's Man Club and is now a facilitator for the men's suicide prevention charity. Andy's Man Club website link: https://andysmanclub.co.uk. Trigger warning for suicide - no specific details are shared but as always, take care of yourself first and foremost. James now has his own podcast ‘Breaking the Stigma' where Stacie was a guest there. If you are a male listener or you have any males in your life, this is for you. Let's break the stigma about talking about mental wellbeing. James has kindly offered his email address for anyone who has any questions about Andy's Man Club: james.scade@andysmanclub.co.uk. Thank you James for sharing your experience with us here and the work to help reduce the mental health stigma and suicide prevention for men. Contact Stacie directly: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @_StacieGlass_ You can join a monthly Survivor Circle call (held on Zoom) to connect with other survivors who ‘just get it'. To know about upcoming dates first, join the community email list here: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH.

    S3.Ep.3 Blame, Shame & Guilt

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2024 31:31


    On today's episode, Stacie talks about what she calls ‘the toxic trio' of blame, shame and guilt. Sexual trauma is a profoundly distressing experience that leaves deep emotional scars. Survivors often grapple with a range of complex feelings, and among the most common are blame, shame, and guilt. To understand these feelings and how to overcome them, we need to delve into the psychology behind them. This is an overview of these but by no means an exhaustive list. Not all survivors will experience all three and may experience them differently. Stacie shares her experience of blame, shame and guilt and how they can develop. More importantly the ways these emotions can be processed and how the internalised beliefs are a result can be challenged. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. Contact Stacie directly: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @_StacieGlass_ You can join a monthly Survivor Circle call (held on Zoom) to connect with other survivors who ‘just get it'. To know about upcoming dates first, join the community email list here: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH.

    S3.Ep.2. Survivor Story ~ Hannah

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2024 68:02


    Stacie shares another Survivor Story on the podcast today. There may be unintentional triggers so as always, take care of yourself when listening. Hannah McLaughlan is a primary school teacher in Scotland and waived her right to anonymity to become an advocate for other survivors and has within the past year, has spoken in Parliament, attended meetings with the Lord Advocate and been part of the Victims, Witness and Justice Reform Bill. Thank you Hannah for your voice in the hopes of driving change for others. Stacie and Hannah cover a lot within this conversation - we hope you find something helpful for where you are at. If you have any feedback about the podcast or you want to share your story too, email Stacie: Stacie.m.glass@gmail.com.

    S3.Ep.1 Why Connection is Key to Your Healing

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2024 32:20


    In this first episode in this season, Stacie shares the importance of connection (with yourself and others) in the healing process after sexual trauma. Stacie shares her personal experience and also trauma research to understand why connection is so important. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready.  If you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up the mail list here: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH.  If you want to share your story on the podcast or request access to the private Telegram group 'Survivor Space', email Stacie: Stacie.M.Glass@gmail.com. Stacie is now back working 1:1 offering coaching and mentoring for survivors. You can enquire by email (as above). Instagram: @_StacieGlass_

    Season 3 Welcome

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2024 14:39


    After a year of maternity leave, Stacie is back and can't wait to get back to bringing more survivor stories and helpful healing topics with you. This short episode is to give you a life update but to mainly share what to expect for this season. Thank you to all those who have reached out with lovely feedback and support for the podcast. It means the world to Stacie and is what motivates her to keep going with this labour of love. We are looking for survivors to share their experience with us here - these are the most appreciated episodes and is the foundation for the podcast itself. You can stay anonymous if you wish and you can share as much or as little as you feel comfortable to. If you want to join us in helping others, email Stacie at: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com. To join one of the monthly online survivor circle's, join Stacie's mailing list where you will find out the dates and offered one of the limited spaces first. Link here. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S2.Ep.14. Season 2 finale ~ Thank You

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2023 39:13


    We made it to the end of season 2...in this episode, Stacie shares her sincere thanks for being part of this community and to each of the guests who have contributed to this season. She also shares some important themes that you might need to hear for yourself. Stacie is taking a break whilst on maternity leave - the best way to keep in touch is via the mailing list which you can join here: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH. She will be back recording and holding Online Survivor Circle's as soon as possible - you will be missed. If you want to share your story on the podcast in the next season, complete this form: https://forms.gle/GQX3JUUwnPoZVyU26 and Stacie will be in touch when she is back recording. Thank you, thank you, thank you to all of you who have reached out and shared how much the podcast is helping you - know that Stacie loves to hear your feedback and it really does keep this podcast going. It would be highly appreciated if you could rate and review (anonymously if you wish) the podcast wherever you listen to yours - this helps others who may need it to find it. Know you are appreciated - take care of you and what you need and know you are never alone. Read Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul: www.Stacie-Glass.com/lifeaftersexualabuse  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S2.Ep.13. Survivor Story ~ Kath

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2023 35:12


    In this Survivor Story episode, Stacie has the honour of speaking with Kath from Ireland giving a different sexual trauma experience that we haven't heard on the podcast before - stranger violence/assault in adulthood. Many of the experiences shared so far have been in childhood and so Kath and her story gives a voice to those who have experienced sexual assault in adulthood. We honour those victims who have lost their lives during violent sexual attacks - those that didn't survive. We hold them in our hearts during this episode. No specific details are given about the incident in this episode, the focus is about raising awareness of the isolation survivors of this type of abuse experience. Kath, although remains anonymous, wishes to offer to be a point of contact if there are any other survivors who have experienced a similar type of trauma and want to be connected to share the healing journey. You can contact Stacie who can then put you in touch with Kath. Thank you Kath for sharing your much needed voice and experience. As always, take care whilst listening - look after yourself first. If you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up the mail list here: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH. We will not bombard you with junk. Be supported by Stacie with a 1:1 mentoring session or other healing offerings: calendly.com/stacie-glass Thank you for sending in your feedback and questions - please do keep doing so to make this podcast as useful as possible. You can via this short form https://forms.gle/GQX3JUUwnPoZVyU26 or as a voice message on Spotify if that's where you listen.  Contact Stacie directly: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @_StacieGlass_ Website: www.Stacie-Glass.com  Facebook: www.facebook.com/CSAblog Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul - www.Stacie-Glass.com/lifeaftersexualabuse  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S2.Ep.12. Navigating sex after trauma ~ with Louise Milne

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2023 53:57


    *Take extra care when listening to this episode* In this guest episode, Stacie and Louise take on the very sensitive topic of navigating sex after sexual trauma. They vulnerably share their own personal journey's which coincidentally have similar themes. Sexual intimacy and relationships can be extremely difficult to navigate when often survivor's are still in the trauma response. As aways, there are many potential varying experiences however, the hope in sharing this conversation is that it is a safe space to reflect upon your own experience and recognise what you need to heal after sexual trauma. We give you permission to be exactly where you are and encourage you to question unserving beliefs you may have about yourself and your sexuality; trauma often has a way of creating limiting beliefs and behaviours. You can connect with Louise on Instagram (@_LouiseMilne). If you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up the mail list here: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH. We will not bombard you with junk. Be supported by Stacie with a 1:1 mentoring session or other healing offerings: calendly.com/stacie-glass Thank you for sending in your feedback and questions - please do keep doing so to make this podcast as useful as possible. You can via this short form https://forms.gle/GQX3JUUwnPoZVyU26 or as a voice message on Spotify if that's where you listen.  Contact Stacie directly: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @_StacieGlass_ Website: www.Stacie-Glass.com  Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook: www.facebook.com/CSAblog Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul - www.Stacie-Glass.com/lifeaftersexualabuse  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S2.Ep.10. To Report or Not to Report - Seeking Justice after SA

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2023 75:15


    Stacie chats with her sister Katherine on this very topical subject of whether to report (or not report) abuse to police to seek justice. This episode is based upon both their experiences of going through the UK justice system. Experiences will vary depending upon the laws of the justice system of a specific country. We caveat this episode that the decision to/or not to report is a very individual one and we do not advocate/advise for or against - there are arguments for both sides of the case (no pun intended) and this is what we discuss in this episode. This episode is to give a real insight into the lived experience but mainly to give you permission to do what feels right for you. Some listeners may find this episode triggering so please do take care and know it will be here if and when you want to come back. If you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up the mail list here: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH. We will not bombard you with junk. Be supported by Stacie with a 1:1 mentoring session or other healing offerings: calendly.com/stacie-glass Thank you for sending in your feedback and questions - please do keep doing so to make this podcast as useful as possible. You can via this short form https://forms.gle/GQX3JUUwnPoZVyU26 or as a voice message on Spotify if that's where you listen. Contact Stacie directly: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @_StacieGlass_ Website: www.Stacie-Glass.com Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook: www.facebook.com/CSAblog Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul - www.Stacie-Glass.com/lifeaftersexualabuse --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S2.Ep.9. Nervous System Safety

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2023 32:24


    In this episode, Stacie talks about this very important topic of nervous system safety, how to bring the nervous system back into it's baseline (parasympathetic) state and the importance of safety and trust when healing after sexual trauma. Feeling unsafe in our bodies and minds is what triggers the trauma/stress response and a big part of the healing journey is regaining a sense of safety and trust again. This episode contains some ideas/tools to help such as mindful breathing, subconscious processing (therapy), journaling and daily 'tune ins' to bring awareness to what you need to feel safe. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. If you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up the mail list here. We will not bombard you with junk. Link: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH. Be supported by Stacie with a 1:1 mentoring session or other healing offerings: calendly.com/stacie-glass Thank you for sending in your feedback and questions - please do keep doing so to make this podcast as useful as possible. You can do that through this form https://forms.gle/GQX3JUUwnPoZVyU26 or as a voice message on Spotify if that's where you listen. Contact Stacie directly: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @_StacieGlass_ Website: www.Stacie-Glass.com Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook: www.facebook.com/CSAblog Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul - www.Stacie-Glass.com/lifeaftersexualabuse --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S2.Ep.8. Having children as survivors of abuse with Dr Kathryn Gutteridge

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2023 54:14


    In this guest episode, Stacie is honoured to have the lovely Dr Kathryn Gutteridge back on the podcast. Kathryn is a very experienced consultant midwife, psychotherapist and is a survivor of sexual abuse herself. As two midwives and survivors, they chat about having children from the perspective of being a survivor of sexual trauma and how healthcare providers could better support survivors in this very important life event. Stacie and Kathryn share both their personal and professional experience - this episode was recorded when Stacie herself was pregnant for the first time. Kathryn has spent her career in service to improving healthcare for survivors including collaboration on many written works such as this online resource: 'Pregnancy, Birth and Parenthood after Childhood Sexual Abuse'. We are so grateful for Kathryn's time and expertise and sharing it with us on the podcast. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. Thank you for sending in your questions - please do keep doing so to make this podcast as useful as possible. You can do that through this form https://forms.gle/GQX3JUUwnPoZVyU26 or as a voice message on Spotify if that's where you listen. You can find out more about Dr Kathryn Gutteridge and her work on Twitter @Sanctummid. If you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up the mail list here. We will not bombard you with junk. Link: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH. Be supported by Stacie with a 1:1 in a mentoring session or other healing offerings: calendly.com/stacie-glass Website: www.Stacie-Glass.com Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook: www.facebook.com/CSAblog Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul - www.Stacie-Glass.com/lifeaftersexualabuse --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S2.Ep.7. Phases of the Healing Cycle

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2023 34:40


    In this episode, Stacie shares her experience of the healing cycle. She shares she is continually going through the process of healing and has broken it down into phases. These phases aren't linear but it's just to illustrate how the process is ongoing and de-layering the onion of trauma. It isn't linear of step 1 leads to step 2 etc. Sometimes we stay at a step longer than the others and sometimes we come back to a particular step several times before we're able to move forward. Healing isn't a logical experience - it is a lived and embodied process and unique for each person. Stacie would love to hear if you resonate with this or if not, reflect upon your own and share these with her. Stacie has written a blog post for those who like to see this sort of info in a visual format here: http://www.stacie-glass.com/feed/phases-of-healing. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. Thank you for sending in your questions - please do keep doing so to make this podcast as useful as possible. You can do that through this form https://forms.gle/GQX3JUUwnPoZVyU26 or as a voice message on Spotify if that's where you listen. If you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up the mail list here. We will not bombard you with junk. Link: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH. Work with Stacie 1:1 in a mentoring session or with other healing offerings: calendly.com/stacie-glass Website: www.Stacie-Glass.com Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook: www.facebook.com/CSAblog Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul - www.Stacie-Glass.com/lifeaftersexualabuse --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S2.Ep.6. Journalling as a therapeutic practice ~ with Sasha Glasgow

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2023 52:25


    In this episode, Stacie is delighted to have a conversation about journalling and the therapeutic benefits as a practice with Sasha Glasgow @FrankandFeel (Instagram) www.frankandfeel.com. Sasha used to class herself as a writer, doubter and doer. More recently though, the only label she's interested in holding onto is ‘woman figuring it out.' She speaks from her heart and writes from her road as she lives it, becoming ever-less afraid of not knowing (or pretending that she does). Sasha is a freelance writer, journalling guide and podcaster under the brand, Frank+Feel. She sees her life as one made up of words, using them to inspire and be inspired. To express, process and connect, and makes space for others to do the same through the journalling spaces she holds. Stacie has used journalling as a healing tool throughout her healing journey and was happy to have Sasha on the podcast to share the benefits and wonders of this practice. Thank you Sasha for your time and your beautiful way with words. Stacie highly recommends you seek out Sasha's Substack 'A life of words' and her journalling sessions. Thank you for sending in your questions - please do keep doing so to make this podcast as useful as possible. You can do that through this form https://forms.gle/GQX3JUUwnPoZVyU26 or as a voice message on Spotify if that's where you listen. If you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up to the mail list here: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH (we will not bombard you with junk). There are several upcoming online Survivor Circles planned, you can view those here: https://calendly.com/stacie-glass/online-survivor-support-2023 Work with Stacie 1:1 in a mentoring session or with other healing offerings: calendly.com/stacie-glass. Contact Stacie directly: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @_StacieGlass_ You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places: Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S2.Ep.5. What my healing looks like now

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2023 45:48


    In this solo episode, Stacie answers a listener question of what her healing looks like now, 12 years on from starting 'conscious' healing. Stacie talks about how her healing is ongoing - it isn't a once and done thing; it is a continual cycle. Healing is like peeling back the layers of an onion to reach that inner peace and no longer being triggered by trauma memories. Patience and self-kindness are key. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. Thank you for sending in your questions and feedback - please do keep doing so to make this podcast as useful as possible. You can do that through this form https://forms.gle/GQX3JUUwnPoZVyU26 or as a voice message on Spotify if that's where you listen. If you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up to the mail list here: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH (we will not bombard you with junk). There are several upcoming online Survivor Circles planned, you can view those here: https://calendly.com/stacie-glass/online-survivor-support-2023 Work with Stacie 1:1 in a mentoring session or with other healing offerings: calendly.com/stacie-glass. Contact Stacie directly: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @_StacieGlass_ Website: www.Stacie-Glass.com Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook: www.facebook.com/CSAblog Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul - www.Stacie-Glass.com/lifeaftersexualabuse --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S2.Ep.4. Survivor Story ~ Myriam

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2023 53:15


    In this episode, Stacie speaks with survivor Myriam about her experience. Miriam is happy to share her work on Instagram @artways2021 - a political art project for survivors of sexual abuse. You can find her blog at www.globalhealingwritenow.com. Stacie is grateful for Myriam's raw honesty about being 'in the thick of it' of her healing journey and talks openly about depression and anger. This episode is the reality of living life with the effects of sexual abuse and not yet being the other side of the 'thick' part of the healing journey. Thank you Myriam for sharing your truth and honesty for the benefit of others for this podcast. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. Please note the sound quality is not good all the way through due to background noise. Thank you to those who have shared their feedback about the podcast. If you are enjoying the podcast, please take a moment to rate and review so that others can find it too. You can also share private feedback directly with Stacie here: https://forms.gle/GQX3JUUwnPoZVyU26 If you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up the mail list here. We will not bombard you with junk. Link: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH Work with Stacie: calendly.com/stacie-glass 1:1 with a Survivor Mentoring session or other healing offerings. Website: www.Stacie-Glass.com Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook: www.facebook.com/CSAblog Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul - www.Stacie-Glass.com/lifeaftersexualabuse --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S2.Ep.3 ~ 2023 update Q&A ~

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2023 33:38


    Stacie shares updates, upcoming online Survivor Circles, 1:1 mentoring and a short Q&A. Thank you for your patience as season 2 has been slower to get started than anticipated but Stacie shares a personal life event which will explain the reason for the delay. Stacie is looking to share more survivor stories on the podcast so do get in touch if you would like to share yours: stacie.m.glass@gmail.com. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. Thank you to those who have shared their feedback about the podcast. If you are enjoying the podcast, please take a moment to rate and review so that others can find it too. You can also share private feedback directly with Stacie here or complete this short anonymous feedback form: https://forms.gle/GQX3JUUwnPoZVyU26. If you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up the mail list here. We will not bombard you with junk. Link: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH More information about online Survivor Support Circles or 1:1 mentoring can be found here: https://calendly.com/stacie-glass Website: www.Stacie-Glass.com Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook: www.facebook.com/CSAblog Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul - www.Stacie-Glass.com/lifeaftersexualabuse --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S2.Ep.2. Survivor Story ~ Rachelle

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2022 55:34


    On this guest episode, Stacie talks with Rachelle Blake, a survivor of childhood sexual abuse who shares her story of what it was like growing up as a child carrying this burden and healing now as an adult - "Freedom to live without fear". Thank you Rachelle for sharing your truth with us here - it is an honour when a survivor bravely shares their voice and truth on the podcast to help others feel less alone. If you wish to connect with Rachelle, you can on Instagram @word_farmacy. Rachelle is at the point in her healing process where she wants to advocate and support others - she has plans in the future to share her story to help others. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. Thank you to those who have shared their feedback about the podcast. If you are enjoying the podcast, please take a moment to rate and review so that others can find it too. You can also share private feedback directly with Stacie here. Link to complete anonymous podcast feedback form: https://forms.gle/GQX3JUUwnPoZVyU26 If you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up the mail list here. We will not bombard you with junk. Link: http://eepurl.com/hvpaoH You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places: Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S2.Ep.1. Relationships with abusers

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2022 30:42


    In the first episode of season 2, Stacie responds to a listener question on the theme of relationships with abusers. Thank you to the Finnish listener who sent a voice note - it was so lovely to hear a human voice of a listener. You can send voice notes through some podcast platforms. Relationships with abusers adds another complexity to abuse because it often brings huge guilt and shame around perceived complicity. Most often, survivors do not recognise abuse because they feel they have consensually been part of the relationship but this in itself does not mean you agreed to sexual assault/abuse - regardless of age. Each person's experience is unique and valid - Stacie shares her own experience and scenarios from other survivors within this episode. There is an important distinction between consenting to being in a relationship and abuse of trust and power. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. Thank you to those who have shared their feedback about the podcast. If you are enjoying the podcast, please take a moment to rate and review so that others can find it too. You can also share private feedback directly with Stacie here. Link to complete anonymous feedback form If you want to find out future dates for online Survivor Circles which are safe supportive spaces to connect with other survivors, sign up the mail list here. We will not bombard you with junk. Link to sign up You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places: Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    Season 2 Preview | Coming Soon

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2022 22:08


    Season 2 is almost here. Thank you for your patience over the summer (winter if you are in the Southern Hemisphere!). A huge thank you to those of you who continue to support the podcast and who have sent in kind feedback. You are appreciated so much. In this season 2 preview, Stacie updates you on her summer break, the importance of inner child work and talks about upcoming episodes. Weekly episodes are likely to recommence in October so stay tuned. Stacie would be so grateful if you could rate and review the podcast where you listen to yours and her book if you have found them useful.  To request topics on the podcast or to feature as a guest - complete this form (https://forms.gle/GQX3JUUwnPoZVyU26) Link to book onto a free group Zoom journaling session: https://calendly.com/stacie-glass/heart-holding-journal You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places:  Website www.Stacie-Glass.com Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    Season 1 Wrap Up (thank you)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2022 22:41


    Season 1 is a wrap…thank you to each of you who have listened and been a part of this growing survivor community. The aim of this podcast is to let each of you know you are not alone and hopefully provide some practical help and support for your own healing journey. Always permission to heal your way and at your pace. Stacie reflects back upon the season and the feedback she has received about it. A massive thank you to all the guests that have been on so far. The offer is there for any survivor who wants to come on and share their truth here in this safe space (anonymously if preferred). Know that you are needed in this world - if you are having emotional/mental difficulties, reach out to someone. Keep going, you're doing better than you realise and it will get easier. Stacie would be grateful if you could complete a short feedback form about the podcast - this is get feedback about what you are finding useful and what you want to hear in season 2. Feedback form is here. All your feedback is welcome. Website: www.Stacie-Glass.com Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook: www.facebook.com/CSAblog Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul Contact Stacie here --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.18. Survivor Story - 'Emily'

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2022 55:26


    In this guest episode, Stacie chats with 'Emily' who shares her story and healing journey anonymously. This is a powerful episode that Stacie hopes will encourage you to share your truth here in this safe space if you feel called, anonymously if you wish. One of the main purposes of this podcast is to give a platform and voice to survivors of sexual abuse; we will not be silenced. It is a liberating experience to share your voice and truth in this way. Full permission to talk about what you feel comfortable to share. This is an invitation only - it's okay if you aren't ready to share your story but know the offer is here if and when you want to take it. Emily shares her healing journey which began a few months ago, the power of therapy and healing your way, at your own pace. This is an inspirational episode (as always) that could specifically help you if you are just beginning your healing journey - so much can shift in a short amount of time if you are willing to heal for you. This episode also discusses the media, the power of belief and triggers within the media of high profile figures. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. Your feedback is always welcome - you can share your feedback with Stacie or request to be a guest on the podcast here. You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places: Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.17. Effects of SA upon Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2022 42:24


    In this solo episode, Stacie shares the demographics of our listening community so that you know who you share this space with. Thank you for being here. The main topic of the episode is the far reaching effects of SA upon relationships. She shares her personal experiences, what we need to have meaningful connections with others and journal prompts for you to use to reflect upon. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. Thank you for sharing your feedback with us - keep it coming. You can share your feedback or request episode topics with Stacie here. Journal Prompts How is my past trauma affecting my current relationships? What do I most need from my current relationships to help me heal from my trauma? What relationships am I finding most challenging right now? What boundaries do I need to put in place to protect myself from these challenging relationships? Which relationships in my life are the most nurturing for me? What action can I take to be more open within these nurturing relationships? You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places: Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.16. Survival to Thrival - with Louise Milne

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2022 47:11


    In this guest episode, Stacie has the pleasure of talking with Louise Milne, a survivor and coach who shares her experience and what has helped her to now describe herself as a 'thriver' following sexual abuse. We talk all things healing and what tools have helped Louise get to where she is today. Thank you Louise for sharing your experience and truth with us here. Louise is a Behaviour Change Expert & Transformation coach. Louise combines and integrates her masters in behaviour analysis and her own spiritual and healing journey to help others transform their lives. You can find out more by following her on Instagram @louise.milne_.  Know that wherever you are in your journey, there is no comparison to anyone else's. You are doing better than you realise. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. If you are enjoying the podcast, please take a moment to rate and review so that others can find it too. You can also share private feedback directly with Stacie here. You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places: Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.15. Honouring your Grief

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 30:59


    In today's episode, Stacie talks about honouring our grief. Yes, grief for what you lost as a result of your experience(s). Grief that you had so much taken away from you against your will. Grief is not often spoken about in relation to sexual trauma but it is real and it is heavy if left unprocessed. Grief is the word that encapsulates all the emotions that Stacie felt during the early stages of healing. She talks about her own experience and the tools that have helped her process it. This is still in progress and that's okay. Included in this episode are journal prompts and suggestions to invite you to explore your own grief. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. Contact Stacie to be a guest on the podcast here. Your exclusive discount for a 1:1 Heart Holding session with Stacie is here. These sessions are a safe nurturing space to be held where you are right now. You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places: Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.14. Music is Healing ~ with Hanna Francis

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2022 65:13


    In this episode, Stacie is joined by the joyful Hanna Francis who is a singer and songwriter to share the healing power of music. This podcast is all about empowering you with tools to help you along your healing journey and where you want to be so this episode is perfect for how music can (and probably is) helping you. This episode is an uplifting one, giving us a break from the heavy stuff that is healing after trauma - a reminder that it is necessary to give ourselves a break from feeling it all, all of the time. Hanna Francis is a singer-songwriter and Balkan folk-dance teacher who is obsessed with self-help and believes you can be a little happier right now with the intentional use of music (both experiencing and creating). Her original music, blog, newsletter, podcast, song sessions and YouTube dance lessons are all rooted in the belief that music is a form of therapy and self-hypnosis. She consciously uses the power of song to, with your permission, elevate you up the emotional ladder. You can find Hanna on Instagram @selfhelpsongwriter and her website www.selfhelpsongwriter.com. You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places: Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul Join a free live journaling session on Zoom here Thank you for being here - you are appreciated more than you know. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.13 Survivor Story ~ Christi-Anne Bela

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 65:41


    In this guest episode, Stacie talks with Christi-Anne Bela of Intimacy Architecture (@intimacy_architect) and host of the Unbuckled podcast. This conversation is raw, vulnerable and honest about healing after incest and the complexities of family dynamics - Christi-Anne vulnerably shares her accountability being the other side of sexual abuse. This conversation includes Christi-Anne's personal experience and her healing journey which led to her wanting to advocate and work with other survivors. Christi-Anne is a sex educator and has achieved so much in her work and advocacy for sex positivity. Thank you to Christi-Anne for sharing so vulnerably and honestly with us here. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready.  You can find Christi-Anne and her work through her website and on Instagram @intimacy_architect. Check out Christi-Anne's podcast 'Unbuckled' wherever you listen to your podcasts.  You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places: Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul Check out future online Survivor Circles dates here Want to join the free online live journaling sessions? Link for dates here --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S.Ep.12. ~ I'm not broken ~

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2022 32:31


    In this solo episode, Stacie talks about how in the beginning of the healing journey how she felt broken and thought she needed fixing. Part of the healing journey is acknowledging what is present - giving it space to be seen, heard and felt. Stacie reads an extract from her book Life after sexual abuse (Chapter 1 'I'm not broken') - a letter to her inner child. Everything you feel now is valid - give it space to be heard. Stacie's wish for you is that you healing journey brings you to a place of knowing that you too, are not broken. It wasn't your fault. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself first and foremost and what you need today. The podcast will be here when you are ready. Thank you for sharing your feedback about the podcast/book - it is always welcome. For more information about upcoming online Survivor Circles - see here. For information about Stacie's 1:1 Heart Holding sessions - see here. You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places: Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.11. Survivor Story ~ Lauren

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2022 77:44


    The pod is back with a guest episode where Stacie chats to business coach and mentor Lauren April (Instagram @Laurenapril.co) who shares her experiences of sexual assault aged 10 and 13. This episode goes into the complexities of abuse within families and how we can struggle with guilt and shame when abuse experiences were not traumatic. This is an important episode about teenage development and how we feel at the time can affect how we view both the experience and how we feel about ourselves. This podcast is a safe space to share your truth - without judgement. All experiences and feelings are valid and welcome. Thank you Lauren for sharing your truth here. You can find Lauren on Instagram @laurenapril.co. As always, take care of yourself when listening - look after yourself and what you need first and foremost. The podcast will be here when you are ready and that's okay if that isn't today. You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places: Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.10. All experiences are valid, especially yours

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2022 39:21


    Welcome back to this solo episode where Stacie shares what's going on for her right now, why all experiences of sexual abuse are valid (including yours!) and info about online survivor circles. Stacie shares some survey feedback for what other survivors are struggling with right now - there are always similar themes which is why Stacie created Survivor Circles - to connect with others and know you are not alone. As always, take care of yourself and what you need. You are important too. You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places: Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul To join an online circle, you can find more information here --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.9. Survivor-Thriver Story ~ Dr. Kathryn Gutteridge

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2022 62:44


    In this special episode, Stacie had the honour of interviewing Dr Kathryn Gutteridge, a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, consultant midwife, psychotherapist, researcher and co-founder of Sanctum Midwives. Kathryn has worked relentlessly during her long and successful career to advocate for women, women's birth experiences and survivors of sexual abuse. Kathryn kindly wrote the foreword to Stacie's book 'Life after sexual abuse'. Sending gratitude to Kathryn for sharing her experience here with us.  Take care of yourself whilst listening to this episode as always - Kathryn shares her experience and that of those of her siblings and daughter of being abuse by her father in early childhood years. This episode shows the resilience and tenacity - endurance to find inner peace. I know this episode will give hope to other survivors that finding inner peace is possible. This episode covers: complexities of abuse within families, references to bereavement and depression, speaking up after abuse, motivation for speaking your truth and more.  You can find Kathryn's work with Sanctum Midwives on Twitter and Facebook. Stacie also shares the details of her Masterclass happening on Saturday 12th March 4pm GMT on Zoom. Early bird pricing an available until Sunday 27th Feb. Info and details to book can be found here. There are new dates for online circles (Women's & Survivor) for March here. Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul Thank you to those who have shared their feedback about the podcast - it has been listened to in 15 different countries so far. If you are enjoying the podcast, please take a moment to rate and review so that others can find it too. You can also share private feedback directly with Stacie here. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.8. Healing in progress

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2022 25:25


    In this short solo episode, Stacie talks about where she is on her healing journey and the reminder that healing is always in progress. Stacie shares her experience of going on retreat recently and what that brought up for her to witness and honour. Stacie also shares the details of her Masterclass happening on Saturday 12th March 4pm GMT on Zoom. Early bird pricing an available until Sunday 27th Feb. Info and details to book can be found here. There are new dates for online circles (Women's & Survivor) for March here. You can find out more about Stacie and her work in these places: Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul Thank you to those who have shared their feedback about the podcast - it has been listened to in 15 different countries so far. If you are enjoying the podcast, please take a moment to rate and review so that others can find it too. You can also share private feedback directly with Stacie here. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.7. PTSD and Healing (guest episode) ~ Tilini Jayaweera

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2022 66:44


    In this guest episode, Stacie is delighted to be joined by Tilini Jayaweera, a yoga teacher and cyclical living advocate who joins the podcast today to talk about how a traumatic event brought on PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder), how she begun to address this, the healing journey and tools that helped her to move forward. This is such an insightful episode with themes that are relatable to any trauma and practical steps to help you along your own journey. Stacie is so grateful for the wisdom Tilini shares in this episode. As always, take care listening to this episode, your wellbeing is paramount so pause if you need to. This is meant to be a supportive space for the healing journey. You can find Tilini and her work on Instagram where you can also find links to her website, classes, her yoga 'on demand' and more. Thank you Tilini for bravely sharing your story and all your wisdom from your own healing journey. As always, Stacie is happy to receive feedback about the podcast - you can email here here. Website Instagram: @_StacieGlass_ Facebook: www.facebook.com/CSAblog --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.6. Five Tips to Begin your Healing Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2022 27:11


    In this solo episode, Stacie gives her 5 top tips to begin your healing journey, your way. This is one of the most asked questions 'how do I start to heal?'/ 'where do I begin?' so in this episode, Stacie gives her top 5 tips for beginning. Beginning is the most important and often the hardest part - it's okay if you're not ready yet. You have to go at your own pace and bring kindness to yourself as much as you can. Stacie is planning a masterclass to expand upon this topic so keep your eyes peeled over on Instagram @_StacieGlass_ and the Website. As always, take care of yourself and what you need today. Facebook: www.facebook.com/CSAblog Stacie's Book: Life after sexual abuse: A Practical Healing Toolkit to Reconnect Mind, Body & Soul Leave feedback here. If you are finding the podcast helpful, please leave a rating and review where you listen to your podcasts. Thank you for being here. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.5. Supporting Survivors (guest episode)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2022 64:27


    In this episode, Stacie has another special guest, one of her dearest friends and Heartbreak Coach, Sarah Benbow. Stacie and Sarah have been friends for over 20 years and Sarah has supported Stacie through her healing journey. They both reflect upon their experiences as both survivor and supporter and give some helpful suggestions for any supporters out there. It's a special conversation where you hear two friends reflect upon their friendship and the healing journey. This is another special guest episode so we hope you enjoy it. For more information about how you can best support a loved one - you can find a whole chapter on 'Supporting Healing' in Stacie's book 'Life after sexual abuse'. You can connect with Sarah and her work via Instagram @secondstorycoaching. As always, take care when listening to this podcast. Pause or rest when you need to. If you're enjoying this podcast, send some love in either a review wherever you listen to yours. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

    S1.Ep.4. Meditation as a healing tool

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2022 32:11


    In this episode, Stacie shares how meditation has become a life changing tool on her healing journey. Also includes - what meditation is, the benefits of meditation, types of meditation and a bespoke guided meditation just for you here. Stacie recently became a meditation teacher to share the benefits in her work as a therapeutic coach. Time stamp for when you want to re-listen to the meditation: 22.00. This meditation was created just for you here, to explore what healing means to you and what you most need today; to be a supportive tool. Feel free to come back to it as often as you need. You can contact Stacie on Instagram @_StacieGlass_ or at the website Your feedback is always welcome. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stacie-glass/message

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