Psychotherapist Tom Stevens

Psychotherapist Tom Stevens will walk you through 3 key tools every parent can hold onto and practice on a regular basis.  These tools will help your children become confident, capable, and independent adults. Raising children is challenging, so if you have a road map and a reason for doing what you do, your children will feel more secure and learn to take responsibility for their own choices. Tune in and share this with someone you think it will help. It's time to make a change!

Psychotherapist Tom Stevens will dive right into parenting and the quick things parents can do to change the environment at home. Parents don't always want to hear what they're doing wrong, but on this show Tom will say exactly what those things are, and how they can fix them. Listen to this show if you have a child of ANY age, because Tom can help you become a stronger, more effective, and more respected parent! Go to www.tomstevens.us to learn more about Tom Stevens

Psychotherapist Tom Stevens will talk about the idea of "going the extra mile".  Parents struggle to get their teenagers motivated and teenagers often times struggle to find purpose and goals in life.  This is your chance to hear great advice to get you out of the rut youre in, or for parents to help their children get "unstuck".

Psychotherapist Tom Stevens talks about the challenges for parents in the 21st century when it comes to socila media.  What is good, what is bad, and what do you need to monitor are just a few of the points Tom will cover.  This is your chance to learn about the crazy and fast paced world of social media and what you can do to keep your children safe and out of trouble.

Psychotherapist Tom Stevens will walk you down the path to bringing peace and calm and structure back into your home now that summer is over. One of the most difficult things for parents, and their children, to adjust to is going from the relaxed summer routine into the stress and structure of school. Tom will give parents direct advice that can help gain back control and give your children a chance to thurive this coming school year. You don't want to miss this show!

A generation ago we didn’t have cell phones, computers, and social media apps to interact with each other.  So, with all of this new technology, has the youth of today lost its “personal touch” or are parents just “out of touch with reality” and blowing it all out of proportion? Are children growing up today with less social skills, less ability to “hold their own” when it comes to interviewing for a job or developing a true friendship?  And are today’s youth more susceptible to developing an “addiction” because of all the social media and gaming? All of these questions will be looked at as psychotherapist Tom Stevens dives into the dilemma of technology and its impact on the social skills of today’s youth.  Featured guest NickStevens and Tony Stevens will share her expertise and insight, as teenagers entering college and high school. They have the perspective of someone who has grown up with social media and can educate parents on what they should and should not be concerned about.  This is your chance to ask questions about your children or where society is going with regard to communication and relationships in a social media filled world.  You don’t want to miss this informative and entertaining show!  You can call (347)838-9737 to listen LIVE, make a comment, or ask your question.  You can also listen online at www.blogtalkradio.com/tomstevenlpc 

A generation ago we didn’t have cell phones, computers, and social media apps to interact with each other.  So, with all of this new technology, has the youth of today lost its “personal touch”? Are children growing up today with less social skills, less ability to “hold their own” when it comes to interviewing for a job or developing a true friendship?  All of these questions will be looked at as psychotherapist Tom Stevens dives into the dilemma of technology and its impact on the social skillsof today’s youth.  Featured guest Nicole Dayton will share her expertise and insight, as a middle and high school speech teacher, and point out what the current generation needs to be effective communicators and successful professionals in this technological age.  This is your chance to ask questions about your children or where society is going with regard to communication and relationships in a social media filled world.  You don’t want to miss this informative and entertaining show!  You can call (347)838-9737 to listen LIVE, make a comment, or ask your question.  You can also listen online at www.blogtalkradio.com/tomstevenlpc

Your child's education means more in today's world than ever before.  There are choices like public school, private school, and homeschool.  Now there is a new type of school, one that focuses on the individual needs of each student and has a Christian theme throughout everythying they do. Psychotherapist Tom Stevens will talk with special guests, Glenn Holzman and Bridget Hughes, about the unique qualities of Elim Christian School and how Elim separates itself from other school models.  Tom will also interview a parent from Elim Christian School, Michele Martinez, and get the real scoop on what parents need to know when choosing an alternative to traditional public or private schools.  You don't want to miss this show!

How many social media apps can you name? And how many of these does your teenager have on their phone? It's not just facebook anymore, and technology has paved the way for newer (and possibly more dangerous) apps that you aren't aware of. Snapchat, twitter, instagram, kik, whisper, tumblr and many more are here today and gone tomorrow.  But what they were created for is not always the reason they are used by many teenagers.  Join psychotherapist Tom Stevens as he interviews actual teenagers and finds out what life is like in the world of social media from a teenagers perspective. Call (347)838-9737 to listen LIVE on your phone or even to make a comment or ask a question.  Parents this is your chance to get up to speed and know what you need to know about the world of social media.

The 5 love languages are usually thought of for adults and couples, but now we know more than ever about the importance of love languages for children.  Join psychotherapist Tom Stevens as he takes your questions and interviews special guest Barbara Huber, LPC-I on "The 5 Love Languages for Children".  Call in to listen LIVE, ask a question, or make a comment at (347)838-9737.  If you are a parent, this is a show you WON'T want to miss.  It's guaranteed to give you a better understanding about how your children think and feel, as well as the tools that will help you communicate in a way that makes them feel more loved.

Join psychotherapist Tom Stevens and his special guest Samantha Ridder, Licensed Marriage and Family Associate, as they talk about the 5 Love Languages and how they can help your marriage or dating relationship. A topic that is great for men and women, love languages help us learn how to communicate with the people we care about the most.  Call in LIVE to (347)838-9737 and ask your question or make a comment!

Ever wanted to know how to make an immediate impact on your child's life? Well now is your chance...psychotherapist Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S shares 3 quick keys to making you a better parent TODAY!  This is your chance to build a foundation of good habits, consitency, and knowledge about "what works best" when it comes to raising children.  You don't want to miss this episode!

Teenage purity is a hot topic these days...why...because teenagers are exposed to more and more when it comes to sex, ography, and a society of social media.  Join psychotherapist Tom Stevens as he interviews teenagers who are on the front lines of this battle.  Call in to (347)838-9737 and ask a question or make a comment on this intense topic.  Sit down with your teenager and listen together, this will be a show you DON'T want to miss!

Parents of teenagers, do you know where your teenagers are...and who they are with...and what they are doing?  You would be surprised at the latest in dangerous trends teenagers are practicing.  Chat Roulette, inhaling nutmeg, and drinking hand sanitizer are just a few of the latest trends, but there are many more that teenagers are trying out without fear of the consequences.  Psychotherapist Tom Stevens, will educate you on all of the latest trends, and what you can do about it.

When should a teenager start dating, what will the ground rules be, how much contact is too much, when do parents need to step in?  These are just some of the questions that come up with teenagers that start dating.  Join psychotherapist Tom Stevens as he speaks with actual parents and teenagers that are in the middle of dating right now.  Call in to (347)838-9737 to ask your question or weigh in with you comment on dating during the teenage years.

Have you ever wondered what counseling is for? Or have you had counseling and it didn't go well? Or what about times where you need just a little advice.  Tune in to this show and hear from real therapists about the good and bad of the mental health field.  Join Psychotherapist Tom Stevens as he discusses counseling and takes your questions and comments about anything and everything in the mental health field.  Discipline, family relationships, parenting, teenagers, adoption and foster care, work stress, grief and loss, and so much more.  Call (347)838-9737 to talk with Tom and his guests.

Do you know what apps your teenager has? And do you know what your teenager can do with those apps?  Well, now is your chance to learn...from an insiders perspective.  Teenagers will be the special guests of this show as psychotherapist Tom Stevens hosts a show NO parent wants to miss...when it comes to social media, teenagers know more than parents, and now is your chance to get up to speed with the latest in social media technology.  Call in LIVE to the show at (347)838-9737 with your question or comment!!

Join psychotherapist Tom Stevens as he interviews real parents who are raising boys.  Call in to (347)838-9737 to ask a question or make a comment on your own experience raising up young men in today's world.  Boys have peer pressure and are growing up in a world where who they are and how successful they are, and how cool they are, and how athletic they are matters more than ever.  Don't miss this show where you will hear from Tom Stevens and the parent's he interviews about tips and advice on raising boys!

Join psychotherapist Tom Stevens as he talks about "Raising Girls in Today's World".  This is your chance to ask any question or make a comment about raising girls.  Tom will also give you his tips on handling the tough times with your daughter, along with ways to stay close and connected with her for the long term.  Call (347)838-9737 to ask a question or give a comment.  Don't miss this show!!

Explaining death to children is never easy, especially when it hits close to home.  In this episode Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S will tell you what TO say and NOT say.  He will also share 3 things you can say when explainng death to your child AND 3 signs your child might not be coping with the loss.  Tune in and call in at (347)838-9737 to ask your very own question about the topic.  Children experience tragedy and trauma in very a different way than adults.  This means we need to talk with them in a specific way, and learn to listen for the signs of concern.  Don't miss this show that can help your child process tragedy in the healthiest way possible.

This week Tom Stevens, LPC-S will interview high school sophomores Emily Fredrickson and Elizabeth Gwyn, to find out what's hardest about high school, and what parents can do to make high school a better experience for their child.  High School can be one of the most stressful times in life, and it can also be one of the most fun.  Don't miss this chance to call in at (347)838-9737 and ask your question or give your comment about high school and how hard it is.

Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S tackles a controversial topic in today's world, "Are parents creating too much stress for their children in sports?"  Children are growing up with more pressure, and parents feel more obligation to help them make it to the next level. Whether it's practice all the time, the risk of injury, being compared to other athletes, the pressure to make it to the next level, or so many other potential stressors, children and parents have to work harder than ever to stay balanced and healthy. This is your chance to weigh in on the topic of children and sports pressure. Call (347)838-9737 with your comment or question.

On one side is a homeschooler named Skye Peck.  On the other side is a private school student named Heather Murrill.  And on still a third side is a public school student named Michael Walther.  If you had to vote on which type of schooling is best, what would your vote be? Now is your chance to weigh in on what type of schooling is best! Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S will dedicate this show to the actual students that attend these different types of schools. Each student will "Battle It Out" to see which type of school is best.  Call in to give your opinion or ask your question about what their daily life is like.  Parents, get your students to listen and get involved in this fun and exciting show. Call (347)838-9737 and listen from your cell phone or talk to our guests.  Don't you miss it and SHARE this with everyone you know!

A topic nobody likes to talk about, but it’s happening more and more in today’s world.  Kate Walker, Ph.D. is a psychologist and will be our featured guest on this special show about “Infidelity”.  Kate specializes in this area and is here to help you know what steps to take to begin the recovery process.  When Infidelity happens it’s important to know where to go and what to do, as soon as possible, so the healing can begin.  .  Call in to (347)838-9737 and listen from your cell phone as Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S gets to the bottom of “What to do when  infidelity happens to you”. 

In a world where we are looking for a label to put on everyone, medication has become prescribed more and more, especially for children.  Robbie Wright, M.D. will be our featured guest to address this controversial topic.  Dr. Wright is a child psychiatrist and will discuss when  to get your child evaluated for medication, as well as the harm medication can bring when not prescribed and monitored correctly.  If you’ve ever wondered about “why” children could benefit from medication, or want to weigh in on your feelings about children taking medication, this is the show for you.  Call in to (347)838-9737 and listen from your cell phone as Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S gets to the bottom of “when children should take medication”. 

"Addiction" is a word people don’t like talking about, but it’s very real in today’s world.  Whether you have been addicted, or you know someone who is currently addicted, this is the show you NEED to listen to. Parents of teenagers, this show will help you understand the WARNING SIGNS for trouble, and what you can to help your child. Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S will have special guests on the show who are currently in recovery from addiction and in a 12 step program.  Don’t miss this chance to call in as ask them a question, or offer a comment.  You can call (347)838-9737 to listen from your cell phone.

Parents of teenagers, do you know where your children are…and who they are with…and what they are doing?  You would be surprised at the latest in dangerous trends teenagers have been practicing.  Chat Roulette, Inhaling Nutmeg, and Drinking Sanitizer are just a few of the latest trends, but there are many more that teenagers are trying out without fear of the consequences. Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S will educate you on many of these trends.

The creator of ADHD says he had no proof that ADHD was for real, so does that mean it doesn't really exist?  Join Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S as he discusses the difference between a "symptom" and a full blown "disorder".  Call in to (347)838-9737 and listen from your phone or ask your question about this topic.

Have you ever lived with a self absorbed person, or someone who feels like life is all about them?  You might be describing someone who is narcissistic and if you grew up with a parent like this, then you know how hard life can be.  Special guest Tina Fuller, author of 'It's My Turn" will be the featured guest on the show to answer your questions, and give you tips on how to live life with a narcissistic person.  You don't want to miss this show so tune in and call in at (347)838-9737.

Psychologist Susana Rosin, Ph.D will be on the show tonight to discuss "When Children Need Psychological Testing", because she spends every day working with families who want to make life better for their children.  Whether it's anxiety, ADHD, depression, poor school performance, or something else that keeps them from reaching their full potential in life...she is the one that can answer the question about whether your child coould benefit from psychological or developmental teting.  Tune in tonight and ask her your questions LIVE!

Should grandparents raise or spoil their grandchildren?  Are grandparents in touch with the modern world in 2013?  Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S will discuss ways grandparents are invaluable in today's world, and also the things grandparents can do to stay current with technology and advances in 2013. Don't miss this chance to call in and give you comment or ask your question at (347)838-9737.

Parents aren't always sure how to talk to their children about dreams, and children aren't always sure about how to describe their dreams.  Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S is excited to welcome authors Kelly Bulkeley and Patricia M Bulkley to the show, to talk about the findings in their book titled "Children's Dreams".  Their book introduces readers to the basic psychology and neuroscience of dreaming, then offers practical advice on understanding dreams from early childhood through adolescence. Don't miss your chance to call in and ask a question about a dream your child has had, and how you can talk with them about their dreams.  Call in at (347)838-9737 or go online to www.blogtalkradio.com/tomstevenslpc

All parents have experienced those moments of frustration, concern, and confusion. "How do I handle this situation?...will this harm my child?...should I make them do this or not?" Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S is here to give you tips to handle even the toughest questions about routines, rituals, and the pushbacks children can give. It's a CAN'T MISS show where you can call in to ask your question and give your advice about what has worked for you. Parents were never given a manual, but now is your chance to get a "cheat sheet" of advice to the parenting situations you aren't sure how to handle. Call in at (347)838-9737 and talk to Tom!

There are more divorces, more single parent homes, and definitely more blended families than ever before.  Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S is going to talk about how difficult it is to make a blended family successful, and how these homes CAN be successful if EVERYONE pulls together.  Tom will go over the statististics of families today, as well as the picture of the modern american family in 2013.  If you are in a blended family or are contemplating starting a blended family, this is a show you don't want to miss.  Call in to give your comment or experience at (347)838-9737.

Special guest Sandra Dupont, MA,MS,MFT will join Tom Stevens, LPC-S,RPT-S on this special show about teenagers.  Sandra has a private practice in Santa Monica, California and specializes in working with teenagers and their parents.  She has a facebook page dedicated to understanding and learning how to raise teenagers (search under "Los Angeles Teen Therapist") and her website is located at  http://www.losangelesteentherapist.com/ Teenagers can be exciting or challenging, depending on the day!  Knowing how to handle those hard to handle situations is the key that every parent is looking for.  Tom Stevens and Sandra Dupont will be LIVE to answer your questions and field your comments about "Teenagers: What To Do When You Don't Know What To Do".  You don't want to miss it!

It's what parents don't like to talk about, and every parent has them.  Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S will address the "Top 5 Fears Parents Have" and will even talk about the difference between the fears of moms and dads. Tom has over 18 years of experience, as a psychotherapist, working with parents and will discuss the Top 5 Fears he has noticed throughout his career. He will also talk about some great ways to reduce your fears, as well as take your LIVE phone calls Now is your chance to ask a question or offer a comment about your greatest fears as a parent, so tune in and call in at (347)838-9737 or www.blogtalkradio.com/tomstevenslpc Monday at 8:30pm.

Join us for a whole new look at life after death, and a possible way to help those grieving the loss of a loved one. Marianne Turner-Marken, owner of White Owl Messaging, will be our special guest as we focus on grief, loss and ways to leave special messages even after we have passed away. White Owl Messaging specializes in deliveries sent to your loved ones, after you have passed from this life, to express love, appreciation, and support.  Tom Stevens, LPC-S, RPT-S will discuss the grief process and ways you can cope with the loss of a loved one. He will also take questions and comments from callers interested in learning more about White Owl Messaging and its purpose. Tune in...you won’t want to miss this!  For more information about White Owl Messaging, click on the following link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gMdGJAX59VU&fb_source=message

This show will help you understand what consistency in the bedtime routine will do for your child.  Whether it seems like a big deal or not, it is.  Sometimes it's hard to see what an impact regular bedtime routines can have, until it's been done for a while. Try this show out and see if it can help you!