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Welcome to Episode 276 of Autism Parenting Secrets.Big news recently — Leucovorin was just approved as a treatment for autism. That's encouraging, but parents need to know there's another option that can be simpler and easier to use.It all comes down to folate metabolism — and why the right folinic support can unlock progress that otherwise gets delayed.To dive deeper, I invited back Dr. Jared Skowron, founder of Spectrum Awakening and a leading integrative pediatrician who has spent decades helping families on the spectrum.He created Super Folinic Acid Powder, a clinically studied and parent-friendly way to address folate deficiency.If this issue isn't supported properly, your child's development can stall. But with the right support, you give them what their brain and body need to thrive.The secret this week is… The Right Folinic Support Fuels ProgressYou'll Discover:Why Folate Metabolism Challenges Are So Common In Autism (6:16)The Difference Between Folic Acid, Folinic Acid, And Methylfolate (10:09)How To Know If Your Child May Benefit Without Over-Relying On Tests (18:03)Why Dosage Matters And How To Find The “Goldilocks Zone” (24:11)How Spectrum Awakening's Powder Allows Flexible Dosing And Clean Delivery (26:13)The Most Common Improvements Parents See — And Side Effects To Watch For (30:33)Why Food And Nutrition Remain The Foundation For Lasting Progress (33:58)About Our Guest:Dr. Jared Skowron is an integrative pediatrician and the founder of Spectrum Awakening, a supplement line designed specifically for children on the spectrum. With over 20 years of clinical experience, he lectures internationally, hosts regular live Q&A sessions, and has authored resources for parents worldwide. Learn more at SpectrumAwakening.comReferences In This Episode:Super Folinic Acid PowderAdditional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support, go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What's YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.
How do you discipline your kids without damaging your relationship? Today Karen and Emily are talking about what it looks like to set boundaries, correct behavior, and still be your child's safe place. From toddler tantrums to teenage independence, they share wisdom that will help you the next time you're doling out discipline. Episode Recap:We're afraid to discipline because we worry it will damage our relationship (4:52)My daughter confessed something small to me after YEARS (5:26)My child is hypersensitive to discipline from dad, what can I do? (7:39)My husband is too harsh with our teenage son (12:51)Our son doesn't respect me the way he respects his dad (16:28)God commands us to discipline our children (21:17)Scripture: Proverbs 3:12 (NIV) “Because the Lord disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in.”Discussion Questions: What helps you stay calm when you need to discipline your child?Do you and your spouse have the same discipline style? Do your children respond differently to discipline from different parents? Emily talked about the notes Greg left her, which helped build up a base of connection. What's one way you can affirm and encourage your child this week?What's one tweak you need to make in your home this week to better balance discipline and relationship? Resources:Reach out to https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speak to have Karen come speak in your community!Grab Karen's lunch box notes to encourage your child: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/gifts/products/lunch-box-notesJoin our private FB group, BOAW Moms: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms
Today, my new children's book Any Day Emotions officially releases into the world! I am so excited to share this book with your family!! To celebrate, today I am joined by two of my favorite friends Levi and Jennie Lusko, pastors of Freshlife Church as we talk about family and parenting. They're in a stage of parenting right now with a child in every age and stage – elementary school, middle school, highschool, college — and one child in heaven. Losing a child tragically and unexpectedly at the tender age of 5 years old has taught the Luskos what it means to hold your kids lightly and not with a tight grip. We talk about the concept of releasing our children, as the theme of their parenting journey through the years, and how it plays out in every stage of parenting. You can also watch the full episode on YouTube. Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: Pre-Order Any Day Emotions Today! The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She is the bestselling author of eight books including Choosing Marriage, Are You Really OK?, RESET, and Soul Care. Debra is the host of the popular podcast and nationally syndicated radio show Talk To Me where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions with notable pastors and leaders. You may also recognize her voice from her appearances on national television and radio, including Better Together, The Kirk Cameron Show, Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, and many others. She reaches millions of people each year with the message of mental, emotional, and relational health. Connect with her on Instagram or at DebraFileta.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jacqueline (https://jacquelinejanssen.com/) has turned all she has learned about mental illness from her son's mental health journey into incredible advocacy. Her latest book, Every Homeless Person Has a Mother, chronicles Jacqueline's experience as a parent of an adult child with schizoaffective disorder. Jacqueline's son's battle with mental illness started when he was 19 years old. Jacqueline talks about the myriad of therapies and treatments her son received and how he ultimately ended up homeless as a result of anosognosia (https://www.nami.org/about-mental-illness/common-with-mental-illness/anosognosia/) or the lack of ability to recognize and treat his mental illness. Jacqueline has been a tireless advocate for families through her own work and with NAMI (https://www.nami.org/) and encourages families to get involved in their local NAMI chapters. Jacqueline emphasizes that when a loved one is incapable of making decisions for his or her own good, HIPAA (https://www.cdc.gov/phlp/php/resources/health-insurance-portability-and-accountability-act-of-1996-hipaa.html) allows mental health providers to talk to families. Jacqueline also discusses strategies for reunification of families if there is estrangement due to mental illness. Jacqueline graciously shares many resources with listeners:Family Rights and HIPAA Facts: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1W6DO-beIMgMww0xH1QTUBECiSXd85W8H/view?usp=drive_link; HIPAA Decision Tree: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1DsI-DpSCFrZLfgCknTqjaMqXTavh0AGu/view?usp=drive_link; Family Involvement Accelerates Recovery: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1IoCvWj7H56K-F4qtSL5hiGHriEn6Nk8U/view?usp=drive_link; Every Homeless Person Has A Mother: https://everyhomelesspersonhasamother.substack.com; https://www.nationalshatteringsilencecoalition.org/; What I Wish I'd Known: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1KnkPLJKF7TCNyvTwxgnZIhtAcDOCgoYQ/view?usp=drive_link
What kind of partner do you want to be someday? Do you think privacy is important in a relationship? What do you think pornography leaves out about real relationships? These are just a few of the unusual yet important questions boys are rarely asked. In this episode, Dr. Delaney Ruston continues her conversation with educator Christopher Pepper and journalist Joanna Schroeder, co-authors of the new book Talk To Your Boys. Together, they discuss how to help boys navigate gaming, romantic relationships, and pornography. They explore online sports betting (“the house always wins”), share ways to bring up sensitive topics like pornography, and highlight the particular role dads can play in guiding these conversations. Featured Experts Christopher Pepper Joanna Schroeder Book Talk To Your Boys: 16 Conversations to Help Tweens and Teens Grow Into Confident, Caring Young Men, by Christopher Pepper and Joanna Schroeder Additional Resources Stan Tatkin Screenagers Website Bring Screenagers to your community Time Code 00:00 Breaking Stereotypes: The Importance of Talking to Boys 00:37 The Influence of Online Algorithms on Teenage Boys 01:22 The Allure and Risks of Sports Betting 04:16 Navigating Relationships and Sexuality 07:35 The Impact of Media on Perceptions of Sex 16:03 Addressing Pornography and Sexual Content 26:24 Encouraging Open Conversations and Emotional Awareness 28:06 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
The Dirty 30 brings you the best 30 minutes from Dirty Mo Media every Friday — the funniest, wildest, and most jaw-dropping highlights from your favorite shows. This week, Dale Jr. and TJ Majors debate Denny Hamlin's move on the final lap in Kansas that saw him getting into Bubba Wallace and giving Chase Elliott the win.On Actions Detrimental, Denny explains why he won't apologize for how he raced and the thought process behind everything.On Door Bumper Clear, they also react to the final lap between Denny and Bubba. Freddie Kraft, who is Bubba's spotter, gives his opinion.In the guest show, two legendary NASCAR family names have a riveting discussion as Dale Earnhardt Jr. welcomes Jon Wood, President of Wood Brothers Racing, to the Download. The two go over Jon's entertaining social media posts over the years, and why his first racing memory has to do directly with Dale Earnhardt. And finally, on Bless Your ‘Hardt, Dale and Amy give advice for a father who is having trouble telling who is who between his identical twins. And for more content, check out our YouTube page: https://www.youtube.com/@DirtyMoMediaReal fans wear Dirty Mo. Hit the link and join the crew.
What comes next in your kids' journey to adulthood? It's one of the most important and sometimes overwhelming questions parents face. In this episode, we explore the emotional, social, and practical steps that guide young people from childhood into independence. From learning life skills to discovering their true identity, from building confidence to navigating relationships, we'll break down what really matters most in this transition. You'll also discover how your role as a parent shifts from protector to guide, and how you can empower your kids to thrive in adulthood with resilience, purpose, and confidence.The Be Positive Podcast is your weekly reminder that no matter what you're going through, there's always a reason to stay hopeful, stay focused, and stay positive. And now you'll be able to see me too. What a treat right? lol.
On today's episode of Bless Your ‘Hardt, Amy Earnhardt and Dale Earnhardt Jr. recap what the girls have been up to this past week, Amy's impending excitement regarding a Texas burger chain making its way to the Charlotte area, and reminisce about things we used to be scared of as children. In the new “Fixin's” segment presented by Hellmann's, Amy and Dale help give listeners advice on messy situations they need fixing to get out of. Our first listener keeps forgetting his wedding anniversary, so he suggested a wild alternative. Our second listener gave her husband a curfew, and it totally backfired, and our last listener is having trouble identifying his identical twins. Plus, we've got a hilarious #AskAmy and so much more!Want to design merch that Dale and Amy will wear on Bless Your ‘Hardt? Join our Makin' Mo Merch Design Contest! The Top 10 designs will be featured on the Dirty Mo Media merch website, and the best three sellers will win cash prizes! Enter today at https://bit.ly/BYHmerch Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Welcome to Episode 275 of Autism Parenting Secrets.This week, I'm joined by Emmy-nominated journalist Leland Vittert, host of On Balance on NewsNation.In his powerful new book Born Lucky, Leland shares his deeply personal story: a childhood marked by social challenges, relentless bullying, and an autism diagnosis at a time when the word itself was barely understood.At the heart of his story is his father - a man who refused to accept the limitations imposed by others. Instead, he built trust, modeled resilience, and empowered Leland to rise above every label.The message of Born Lucky couldn't be more aligned with this podcast. It's not about denying differences. It's about NOT letting a diagnosis define or confine your child.The secret this week is… DON'T Fall Into the Diagnosis TRAPYou'll Discover:The “Friendship First” Parenting Move That Changed Everything (5:18)The Two Cornerstones That Lay The Foundation for Growth (8:58)The One Thing To NEVER Show Your Child (12:56)The Real Danger of Over-Accommodation (19:04)How To Stay Fueled By Incremental Changes (24:27)About Our Guest:Leland Vittert is an Emmy-nominated journalist and the host of On Balance on NewsNation. Known for holding leaders accountable and digging for truth, he shares his most personal work yet in Born Lucky, a memoir about his father's fierce love, resilience, and refusal to accept limitations. It's a story that transcends diagnosis and inspires parents everywhere.References In This Episode:Born Lucky: A Dedicated Father, A Grateful Son, and My Journey with Autism by Leland Vittert with Don YaegerOn Balance with Leland Vittert, NewsNationAdditional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support, go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What's YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.
The Canadian Bitcoiners Podcast - Bitcoin News With a Canadian Spin
FRIENDS AND ENEMIESThis week we sit down with Mark Jeftovic, CEO of EasyDNS, author and the man behind Bombthrower.com, a blog documenting the end of modern times and the rise of the decentralized state while dunking on clownworld nonsense.Join us for some QUALITY Bitcoin and economics talk, with a Canadian focus, every Monday at 7 PM EST. From a couple of Canucks who like to talk about how Bitcoin will impact Canada. As always, none of the info is financial advice. Website: www.CanadianBitcoiners.comDiscord: https://discord.com/invite/YgPJVbGCZX A part of the CBP Media Network: www.twitter.com/CBPMediaNetworkThis show is sponsored by: easyDNS - https://easydns.com EasyDNS is the best spot for Anycast DNS, domain name registrations, web and email services. They are fast, reliable and privacy focused. With DomainSure and EasyMail, you'll sleep soundly knowing your domain, email and information are private and protected. You can even pay for your services with Bitcoin! Apply coupon code 'CBPMEDIA' for 50% off initial purchase Bull Bitcoin - https://mission.bullbitcoin.com/cbp The CBP recommends Bull Bitcoin for all your BTC needs. There's never been a quicker, simpler, way to acquire Bitcoin. Use the link above for 25% off fees FOR LIFE, and start stacking today.256Heat - https://256heat.com/ GET PAID TO HEAT YOUR HOUSE with 256 Heat. Whether you're heating your home, garage, office or rental, use a 256Heat unit and get paid MORE BITCOIN than it costs to run the unit. Book a call with a hashrate heating consultant today.The Canadian Bitcoin Conference - https://canadianbitcoinconf.com/The PREMIER Bitcoin Conference, held annually in the great white North, where Bitcoiners come together to share stories, build momentum and have a great time while doing so. Whether your a pleb, business, newcomer or OG, the Canadian Bitcoin Conference wants to see you in Montreal, October 16-18 2025. Don't miss this one!
The Dad Edge Podcast (formerly The Good Dad Project Podcast)
Here are the fully formatted, SEO-optimized show notes for the Dad Edge Podcast episode featuring Ethan Hagner (Oct 1, 2025): EPISODE SUMMARY In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with my son Ethan for another real and reflective conversation about what it means to grow up with intention, confidence, and emotional maturity. We dig into how young men can use challenges to build strength, how mindset shapes everything, and why confidence is earned, not given. You'll hear us explore how to handle life's curveballs, overcome fear of judgment, and cultivate confidence through action. If you're raising sons—or you are a young man on your own journey—this episode is packed with authentic insights and connection-driven takeaways. TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Opening the episode with Ethan: father-son connection and check-in [2:16] - The power of presence and accountability in our weekly sit-downs [4:02] - Ethan reflects on recent wins, challenges, and growth moments [6:15] - Learning to navigate fear of judgment and criticism as a young man [8:40] - Confidence doesn't come from words—it comes from actions repeated over time [10:22] - Why growth often hides behind discomfort and adversity [12:31] - Ethan's personal mindset shifts and what helped him break through [14:45] - Choosing perspective in hard moments: victimhood vs. ownership [17:00] - The power of awareness and reflection in building character [19:12] - What fathers can do to encourage independence while staying supportive [21:40] - The benefits of letting kids experience struggle, not avoid it [24:11] - Ethan's message to young men: why you're more capable than you think [26:03] - Final reflections on growth, confidence, and father-son alignment 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Confidence Is Built, Not Given Confidence isn't about praise or motivation—it's built through repeated action, self-discipline, and the decision to show up even when it's hard. 2. Discomfort Is the Gateway to Growth Adversity isn't the enemy—it's the environment where mental toughness and character are developed. Teaching your kids to face it head-on is a gift. 3. Support Without Saving Builds Stronger Kids The goal isn't to rescue your kids from struggle but to walk beside them as they learn. That's how we raise resilient, independent leaders. 4. Mindset and Perspective Are Everything When young men choose ownership over victimhood, they shift from passive living to powerful leadership. It all starts with perspective. 5. Father-Son Check-Ins Matter More Than You Think Intentional time together—like weekly conversations—can become the anchor for growth, emotional regulation, and lifelong connection. LINKS & RESOURCES • thedadedge.com/legendarybook 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions The Dad Edge Alliance (for high-performing fathers): https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Podcast Website and Resources: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Tools and Downloads for Dads: https://www.thedadedge.com/tools If this episode helped you reflect on connection, confidence, or how to lead your kids more intentionally, please follow, rate, review, and share the podcast. Your support fuels our mission to help fathers lead legendary lives.
If you've ever felt torn between being present and being paid, this one's for you. In this episode, Desiree and Iva break down how uncapped income isn't just a dream, it's a systems-based solution for expat moms craving sovereignty and support. They also reveal why your nervous system is your secret business partner, and how the right model lets you regulate while you rise. This isn't hustle culture with a baby monitor, mama, it's scalable freedom designed for real life. Important Links: Momergy Essentials - Home | Momergy Essentials Iva Perez - The Momergy Movement Desiree Gonzalez - Oily Essentials Follow us on: Facebook Facebook Mom Bosses Abroad Instagram@Mom.bosses.abroad Instagram @MomergyMovement Instagram @desiree_oilyessentials Instagram Resources Alright mamas, we get this question all the time: “What are your go-to products that actually help your family stay well and thrive?” And the truth is, we don't do complicated. We do powerful basics that work with our bodies and our lifestyles. It really comes down to four essentials that have become non-negotiable for us. You can explore all of them at Learn the benefits of KANGEN WATER . And if something in your soul whispers “This could be a business too”—head to MOM BOSSES ABROAD are creating wealth! and let's chat.
Between toddler tantrums, potty training battles, and endless power struggles, the preschool years can feel like the wild west of parenting. Today Karen is answering your preschool questions with her trademark practical tips, reminding us that structure, consistency, and patience go a long way. Above all, your daily walk with the Lord is what will sustain you during these exhausting and beautiful years!Episode Recap:My husband and I are at our wit's end with our strong-willed 4 year old's tantrums (6:11)Take a deep dive into the temperaments to learn how to discipline your child (7:00)My husband's job keeps him away from home often, how can I help my young children cope? (10:30)Help! Potty training is driving me nuts! (14:54)How do I help my 3 year old regulate his emotions? (17:40)Giving in to a tantrum makes it worse 100% of the time (19:00)Everything is an argument with my four year old, any advice? (23:22) Your walk with the Lord truly does make a difference (27:49)Scripture: Galatians 5:22–23“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”Discussion Questions:How do you usually respond when your preschooler throws a tantrum? Is it working? Is there a new strategy you could try this week?Karen shared the importance of structure. What does a typical day look like in your home, and how could a little more routine help your preschooler?When your spouse travels or works long hours (or if you are co-parenting and splitting time between parents), how can you help your kids feel connected to their parent who is away?Potty training can be one of the most frustrating seasons. What's worked (or not worked) in your family, and how do you keep patience in the process?Karen reminded us that we need to lean on the Holy Spirit's fruit to parent well. Which “fruit” do you most need to pray for in this season? Let's pray for one another this week!Resources:We are booking for 2026! Reach out to bring Karen's wisdom to the moms in your community: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speakLearn more about temperaments in our most recent episode with Kathleen Edelman: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/470-why-your-child-s-wiring-mattersSend us your question! Use the Ask Karen function in the BOAW Moms app: App Store: https://apps.apple.com/md/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927 Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.subsplashconsulting.s_JVZ5JB&hl=en_US
In this honest and vulnerable conversation, Adriane shares her extremely difficult journey as a wife who lost her husband to suicide in her late 20s. Adriane talks about her son, Braden, who was only 7 when his dad died by suicide. She also discusses how Braden struggled tremendously with his own suicidal ideation and how he lost his best friend to suicide at the age of 16. Adriane laments the difficulty in finding a good therapy fit for her son, and how she struggled herself to deal with the grief and loss in unhealthy ways along. While she struggled with her own depression, Adriane talks about how she worked to find joy in her life again. In 2018, Braden graduated from high school, and Adriane learned about AFSP (https://afsp.org/). She had felt that she was alone in a boat in the ocean with no one to talk to, and AFSP gave her a place to talk about her experience. Since that time, Adriane has been very involved with AFSP. Adriane strives to be a healing balm for others, which is a critical part of her own healing journey. Adriane now finds joy in helping others in whatever capacity they need. Adriane concludes this episode by emphasizing the importance of talking about mental health, asking questions, and being supportive to someone who is struggling. Adriane encourages listeners to ask the direct question if there are concerns about suicide, and to utilize 988 as a resource for help.
In this episode of The Running Wine Mom, Samantha Cieslinski sits down with Dr. Bethany Bilodeau—a behaviorist, sensory expert, and author of Ease the Pain in the Classroom. Dr. B brings over two decades of experience in education, behavior change, and trauma-informed practices. She opens up about her personal journey as a mom, the child who inspired her career, and the real-life tools she shares with parents and educators to create safe, connected spaces for kids to thrive.From face reading and micro-expressions to practical sensory strategies and why water is the ultimate regulator, Dr. B blends science with empathy in a way that feels doable for every parent and teacher.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeWhy Bethany believes safety is at the root of nearly all behaviorsSimple sensory strategies that help kids (and adults) regulate in the momentThe surprising link between hydration and ADHD-like behaviorsHow to reframe “big behaviors” like biting, meltdowns, and refusal to transitionWhy embracing failure builds resilience in kids (and parents!)The role of empathy, sleep, and structure in building calmer homes and classroomsMemorable Quotes“Most kids don't lose jobs because they can't do the tasks—they lose them because they don't fit into the culture. Behavior matters more than skill.” – Dr. Bethany Bilodeau“Trust your gut as a parent. You know your kid better than anyone else.” – Dr. Bethany Bilodeau“If a child doesn't feel safe, they won't take risks. Safety is where growth begins.” – Dr. Bethany BilodeauResources & Links MentionedDr. Bethany Bilodeau's Book: Ease the Pain in the ClassroomThe Behavior Bootcamp: thebehaviorbootcamp.comCORE Methods: coremethods.wordpress.comNH Business Review Feature: Business Excellence Winner – Dr. Bethany BilodeauConnect with Dr. Bethany Bilodeau
Child & Adolescent Psychotherapist Colman Noctor joins Ray to tackle some listener concerns.
Taking away your child's phone might seem like the quickest way to discipline, but does it actually work? In this episode of Art of Raising Humans, Kyle and Sara Wester dive into the common strategy of removing phones as punishment and explore why it often backfires. They discuss how this approach can damage trust, block communication, and fail to teach the self-regulation kids really need. Instead, you'll hear practical ways to set healthy boundaries around technology, foster intrinsic motivation, and model balanced phone use as a parent. If you've ever felt stuck using your child's phone as leverage, this episode will give you tools to build connection instead of conflict, so your kids can learn to manage their freedom with wisdom. View the full podcast transcript at: https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/rethinking-phone-discipline-in-parenting Visit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey. Resource Website: https://www.artofraisinghumans.comVideo Courses: https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/artofraisinghumansInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/artofraisinghumansPodcast Website: https://www.theartofraisinghumans.comBook List:https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/booklist The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
The Psychology of Self-Injury: Exploring Self-Harm & Mental Health
Two topics are covered in this episode: (1) how parents with lived experience of nonsuicidal self-injury (NSSI) can navigate conversations with their children about their own scarring and wounds, and (2) how parents (with or without lived experience) can navigate conversations about self-injury with their young adult children when they turn 18. Dr. Whitlock is emerita research faculty at Cornell University, a former Associate Director of the Bronfenbrenner Center for Translational Research, and the founder and director of the Self-Injury & Recovery Resources (SIRR) research program, which serves as one of the best and most comprehensive collations of online resources about self-injury: www.selfinjury.bctr.cornell.edu. It is a go-to resource for parents, therapists, friends, family members, schools, other caring adults, the media, and individuals with lived experience of self-injury. Dr. Whitlock is also Senior Advisor for The JED Foundation. To learn more about The JED Foundation, visit https://www.jedfoundation.org/.Below is some of the work referenced in this episode:Whitlock, J., & Lloyd-Richardson, E. E. (2019). Healing self-injury: A compassionate guide for parents and other loved ones. Oxford University Press.Taliaferro, L. A., Jang, S. T., Westers, N. J., Muehlenkamp, J. J., Whitlock, J. L., & McMorris, B. J. (2020). Associations between connections to parents and friends and non-suicidal self-injury among adolescents: The mediating role of developmental assets. Clinical Child Psychology and Psychiatry, 25(2), 359-371.Kibitov, A. A., & Mazo, G. E. (2023). Genetics and epigenetics of nonsuicidal self-injury: A narrative review. Russian Journal of Genetics, 59(12), 1265-1276.Dawkins, J., Hasking, P., & Boyes, M. (2021). Knowledge of parental nonsuicidal self-injury in young people who self-injure: The mediating role of outcome expectancies. Journal of Family Studies, 27(4), 479–490.Want to have a bigger role on the podcast?:Should you or someone you know be interviewed on the podcast? We want to know! Please fill out this Google doc form, and we will be in touch with more details if it's a good fit.Want to hear your question and have it answered on the podcast? Please send an audio clip of your question (60 seconds or less) to @DocWesters on Instagram or Twitter/X, or email us at thepsychologyofselfinjury@gmail.comWant to be involved in research? Send us a message at thepsychologyofselfinjury@gmail.com and we will see if we can match you to an active study.Want to interact with us through comments and polls? You can on Spotify!Follow Dr. Westers on Instagram and Twitter/X (@DocWesters). To join ISSS, visit itriples.org and follow ISSS on Facebook and Twitter/X (@ITripleS).The Psychology of Self-Injury podcast has been rated as one of the "10 Best Self Harm Podcasts" and "20 Best Clinical Psychology Podcasts" by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Psychology Podcasts by Goodpods. It has also been featured in Audible's "Best Mental Health Podcasts to Defy Stigma and Begin to Heal."
Welcome to Episode 274 of Autism Parenting Secrets.This week we're talking about hope, progress, and the breakthroughs that can happen when you uncover and address what's truly holding your child back. My guest is Dr. Darin Ingels, a naturopathic physician, immunologist, and author who has helped countless families dealing with complex chronic illnesses. He shares a remarkable case study of a young man with autism whose language and quality of life transformed dramatically in his twenties through immunotherapy. Parents often wonder if it's “too late” for their child — this conversation makes clear that it's not.The secret this week is…It's NEVER Too Late For BREAKTHROUGHSYou'll Discover:Why IMMUNE Dysfunction Is Often the Hidden Blocker to Language (1:54)How Low-Dose Immunotherapy (LDI) Can Unlock Neuroplasticity (4:54)The Overlooked Role of Mast Cell Activation in Autism (9:28)Why Sublingual Immunotherapy Is Safe, Proven, and Underutilized (15:55)The Hopeful Truth: The Brain Can Change At Any Age (17:49)About Our Guest:Dr. Darin Ingels, ND, FAAEM, FMAPS is a licensed naturopathic doctor, author, and international speaker specializing in Lyme disease, autism, chronic illness, and immune dysfunction. A former Lyme patient himself, he overcame a three-year battle with the illness using diet, lifestyle, and natural therapies — an approach he has since applied in treating more than 8,000 patients, many of whom have gone on to live healthy, symptom-free lives. With over 30 years of clinical experience, Dr. Ingels has helped thousands restore health through immunotherapy and other natural approaches. He is the author of The Lyme Solution: A 5-Part Plan to Fight the Inflammatory Autoimmune Response and Beat Lyme Disease and works with families both in person and virtually worldwide.https://dariningelsnd.com/References In This Episode:The Lyme Solution by Dr. Darin IngelsAPS Episode 240 - Regulate Brain MAST CELLS with Dr. Theoharis TheoharidesAdditional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support, go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What's YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.
What if a better marriage starts not with more work, but with changing the way you think? This week we're sitting down with author and speaker Ted Lowe to talk about his book Us in Mind and the simple things that separate happy couples from struggling ones. From celebrating small wins to practicing empathy and taking thoughts captive, Ted unpacks practical ways to renew your mind and see your spouse differently. Whether your marriage feels stuck or just needs a little spark, we hope this conversation leaves you encouraged and equipped to do the next right thing.Episode Recap:How are great marriages different from struggling marriages? (6:42)Happy couples think in a way that unhappy couples don't (8:42)“Madly in love” couples focus on what they do love about their spouse, not what they don't (12:00)What you think about yourself affects how you interact with your spouse (17:08)Why do celebrations make such a big difference in our marriages? (25:12)Empathy is huge for happy marriages (30:01)Two words that changed Ted's marriage (33:53) For Christians, our marriages are not just about us (38:44)Scripture: Romans 12:2 “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”Philippians 4:8 – “Whatever is true, whatever is noble… think about such things.”Discussion Questions:How does the way you think about your spouse shape the way you act toward them?Ted talked about “seeing the best” in your spouse. What does that look like in your marriage right now?Why is empathy so powerful in marriage? How could you practice “stepping into the puddle” with your spouse this week?How do you typically respond to your spouse's successes or joys? What's one way you can celebrate with them more intentionally?Which of Ted's practical shifts (empathy, celebration, reframing thoughts, writing notes, pausing in conflict) feels most helpful for your current season of marriage?Marriage is meant to reflect the love of Christ. How does remembering this bigger purpose change the way you approach your relationship?Resources:Pick up a copy of Ted's book today: https://amzn.to/4nKdkqDConnect with Ted: https://forusmarriage.com/Check out our Parenting Together curriculum for FREE in the BOAW Moms app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Download the companion study guide in the BOAW store: boaw.mom/parentingtogether
TRIGGER WARNING—this episode contains explicit talk about suicide and methodologyThis episode is the continuation and conclusion of my conversation with Joanne. Joanne discusses the myriad of therapies and therapeutic modalities she has incorporated into her own healing work. She talks about her work on her master's degree in counseling (https://www.agoodlifeworks.com/). Joanne emphasizes how important it is for parents to take care of their own mental health. Joanne says she realized there was a missing piece in her healing, and she has found that by volunteering with ATLAST (http://joinatlast.org). Through ATLAST, Joanne is able to help Latino youth talk about their mental health.
In this episode of The Running Wine Mom, host Samantha Cieslinski sits down with the iconic Carli Lloyd—two-time FIFA World Player of the Year, Olympic gold medalist, World Cup champion, and now, mom to baby Harper.From penalty kicks to parenting shifts, Carli opens up like never before. We talk about:The identity shift from elite athlete to new motherhoodHer IVF journey and the strength she discovered along the wayWhy your emotional energy matters—from pregnancy through postpartumHow she's raising Harper with intention (and without pressure to follow in her cleats)Redefining success, building a village, and embracing vulnerability after a career built on toughnessWhether you're a sports fan, a new parent, or just someone trying to figure it out one step (or sip) at a time—this conversation is full of wisdom, humor, and heart.
The Dad Edge Podcast (formerly The Good Dad Project Podcast)
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner is joined by Oscar “Oz” Aponte—a U.S. Army veteran, StrongFirst kettlebell instructor, and founder of Iron Core—to explore what real strength means as a man, a father, and a leader. Oz brings a powerful blend of physical mastery and spiritual depth, helping men move from brute force to intentional presence. Together, they unpack how posture, breath, nervous system regulation, and movement patterns shape your long-term vitality—not just in the gym, but at the dinner table, in your marriage, and in your legacy. More than a conversation about fitness, this is a deep dive into fatherhood, grief, and building your life with intention. Whether you're a kettlebell junkie or just a dad looking to show up better, this episode will challenge you to redefine strength on every level. TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge mission: changing generations [1:00] - Os' dad: love, legacy, and shaping a son through presence [4:05] - The final moments Os had with his father before he passed [6:42] - The cycle-breaking power of a father who never had one [9:58] - Combining Eastern mindfulness with Western strength [12:21] - Training for longevity vs. ego [14:45] - Redefining masculinity as balance, not burnout [19:23] - Nervous system health: “the threat bucket” metaphor [25:36] - The seasons of fitness (and why to respect them) [28:15] - How posture and gait silently break men down [30:37] - Tissues adapt to dysfunction—unless you intervene [33:33] - Why kettlebells work: simple tools, elite results [38:55] - Busy dads: how to train with limited time and space [40:37] - Core movements every man should master [44:13] - The “Simple & Sinister” training approach [47:13] - Kettlebell workshops, coaching, and learning more 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Strength Is Presence Being strong isn't just about lifting weight—it's about how grounded, aware, and calm you are with your family. 2. Your Nervous System Is Running the Show Stress, posture, sleep, and breath all impact your strength more than ego lifting ever could. Master your internal world first. 3. Movement Is Medicine Poor gait and posture don't just cause pain—they drain your energy and shorten your lifespan. Train smart, not just hard. 4. Simplicity Wins You don't need a fancy gym or complicated gear. One kettlebell and intentional reps can outperform a cluttered workout. 5. Legacy Is Built in the Small Moments Oz's story shows that being a strong father isn't about perfection. It's about showing up, being present, and choosing intentionality every day. LINKS & RESOURCES Os Aponte's Website & Coaching: https://ironcoreway.com Book Mentioned: Simple & Sinister by Pavel Tsatsouline https://www.strongfirst.com/shop/ebooks/simple-sinister-ebook StrongFirst Kettlebell Certifications + Programs: https://www.strongfirst.com Live Workshops in San Diego: Check Oz's site for current event listings Dad Edge Podcast Hub: https://thedadedge.com/podcast Book Preorder: The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood https://thedadedge.com/legendarybook
What if your love could rewire their brain? In this powerful episode, Kyle Wester and Sara Wester talk with renowned parenting expert Tina Payne Bryson about the science of interpersonal neurobiology—and how love, connection, and secure relationships literally shape the developing brain.Together, they explore how parents act as meaning makers for their children, how the brain predicts future interactions based on past experiences, and why co-regulation and emotional attunement are essential for helping kids learn to manage their big feelings. Tina also unpacks the four S's of secure attachment—safe, seen, soothed, and secure—and shows how these simple principles build emotional resilience and well-being in children. Whether you're navigating toddler meltdowns or teen stress, this conversation will help you understand how your presence and regulation can rewire your child's brain for connection, confidence, and growth. What You'll Learn:How relationships literally shape the architecture of the brainWhy emotional regulation and co-regulation are essentialHow secure attachment fuels resilience and emotional healthWhat the four S's are and how to use them dailyHow your calm presence helps your child thrive Where to find Tina: https://www.instagram.com/tinapaynebryson/https://www.tinabryson.com/ https://www.thecenterforconnection.org/ https://playstronginstitute.com/ https://www.amazon.com/shop/tinapaynebryson View the full podcast transcript at: https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/how-love-and-relationships-shape-the-brain Visit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey. Resource Website: https://www.artofraisinghumans.comVideo Courses: https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/artofraisinghumansInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/artofraisinghumansPodcast Website: https://www.theartofraisinghumans.comBook List:https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/booklist The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
PART TWO (S17Ep11) Author Marissa Burt focuses on how distorted theology has affected the raising of children over the past decades. Her book is titled, "The Myth of 'Good Christian Parenting' - How false promises betrayed a generation of Evangelical families." She and her co-author did extensive surveys and researched more than 100 publications as they thought again about parenting advice from Bill Gothard to Douglas Wilson and more. Their book comes out October 14, 2025.Here are relevant links:The Book of Eden, Genesis 2-3 by Bruce C. E.Fleming https://a.co/d/e5QBJvHThe Myth of "Good Christian Parenting" by Marissa Burt and Kelsey McGinnis https://a.co/d/eTx9YgoOther links:Instagram: @mburtwrites | @kelseykmcginnisFacebook: @mburtwrites | @kelsey.kramermcginnisTikTok: @mburtwrites | @kelseykmcgYouTube: @mburtwrites Link to pre-order bonusesLink to download of the introduction and first chapter Find the book on AmazonOrder from Baker for guaranteed release day deliveryMarissa Franks Burt (MA in Theological Studies, Columbia International University) is a novelist, editor, teacher, and cohost of the At Home with the Lectionary and In the Church Library podcasts. She lives in a small town in Washington's Snoqualmie Valley with her husband, six children, and heaps of books.Kelsey Kramer McGinnis (PhD, University of Iowa) is a musicologist, educator, and correspondent for Christianity Today, writing on worship practices and Christian subculture. She is an adjunct professor at Grand View University in Des Moines and previously worked at the University of Iowa Center for Human Rights. The Tru316 Foundation (www.Tru316.com) is the home of The Eden Podcast with Bruce C. E. Fleming where we “true” the verse of Genesis 3:16. The Tru316 Message is that “God didn't curse Eve (or Adam) or limit woman in any way.” Once Genesis 3:16 is made clear the other passages on women and men become clear too. You are encouraged to access the episodes of Seasons 1-11 of The Eden Podcast for teaching on the seven key passages on women and men. Are you a reader? We invite you to get from Amazon the four books by Bruce C. E. Fleming in The Eden Book Series (Tru316.com/trubooks). Would you like to support the work of the Tru316 Foundation? You can become a Tru Partner here: www.Tru316.com/partner
The Dad Edge Podcast (formerly The Good Dad Project Podcast)
In this solo episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, host Larry Hagner opens up about what it means to be the thermostat in your home, not just the thermometer. With economic uncertainty, workplace stress, and daily responsibilities piling up, Larry shares a powerful message: while we can't always control the outside world, we can control the atmosphere inside our homes. Drawing from his own experience as a husband, father of four, entrepreneur, and coach to hundreds of men, Larry offers three simple but game-changing practices to help you lead with presence, peace, and intentionality. You'll learn how to create transition rituals, share stress in age-appropriate ways, and protect one daily “anchor moment” with your family. This isn't just advice—it's a battle plan for fatherhood in today's chaotic world. TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - The Dad Edge movement: raising the next generation of fathers [1:06] - Why “Dad Jones” matters more than Dow Jones [2:30] - From entrepreneurship to emotional presence at home [3:38] - Why dads must become the thermostat, not the thermometer [4:31] - Breaking generational cycles through intentional leadership [5:21] - Tactical Nugget #1: Create a transition ritual [6:02] - From Zoom calls to family time in 60 seconds or less [7:39] - Zoom fatigue, blue-collar exhaustion, and stress overload [8:18] - Real-world examples of transition rituals that work [9:36] - The “warm-up” metaphor: why you can't sprint cold [10:40] - Tactical Nugget #2: Share age-appropriate context [11:48] - Explaining stress to a 9-year-old without oversharing [12:49] - Tactical Nugget #3: Protect one anchor moment daily [13:46] - The dinner table is sacred—don't let sports take it away [14:55] - The Hagner family: 70% dinner consistency even with teens [16:05] - Anchoring doesn't have to be nightly—just intentional [17:09] - What it means to protect your family's emotional economy [18:18] - Action step: Choose one ritual to stabilize your home [19:02] - Want to go deeper? Why Larry created the Dad Edge Alliance [20:14] - Introducing: The Dad Edge Business Brotherhood [21:01] - “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.” 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Be the Thermostat, Not the Thermometer Your mood sets the emotional tone in your home. Don't react to the chaos—lead through it. 2. Create a Transition Ritual Whether it's deep breathing, walking, or reading scripture, take 5–10 minutes to reset before re-entering home life. 3. Speak to Your Kids at Their Level You don't need to dump stress on your children—but you can share what's going on in ways they understand. 4. Protect One Daily Anchor Moment Whether it's a meal, bedtime routine, or morning coffee with your spouse—make it non-negotiable. 5. Your Family Needs a Grounded Leader They don't need a stressed-out provider. They need you—calm, present, and emotionally available. LINKS & RESOURCES Join the Mastermind Paths Dad Edge Alliance: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Business Owner Brotherhood: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Books Mentioned: Building a Non-Anxious Life by Dr. John Delony: https://www.ramseysolutions.com/store/books/building-a-non-anxious-life-by-john-delony Full Episode & Other Resources: Podcast Homepage: https://thedadedge.com/podcast Larry Hagner Instagram: https://instagram.com/thedadedge
Slacker's son texted him about his first exam in college, but Slacker is not pleased with the outcome. Erica and Erin think he is being way too hard on his son, but are they right?
Are you struggling to parent effectively in a culture that often contradicts God's Word? In Part 1 of a powerful two-part series, the Drive Bible Podcast confronts the critical issues facing families today by diving deep into Ephesians 6:1-9.Join Pastor Spencer and Bob Huffman as they identify the four most common pitfalls in modern parenting: attempting to be your child's friend instead of their parent, outsourcing your God-given responsibility to schools and society, looking to worldly examples for guidance, and failing to recognize the cultural indoctrination that undermines the family unit.Discover the biblical cure for these challenges: a return to God's design for authority and leadership within the home. This episode lays the foundation by exploring why a parent's submission to God's authority is the key to their children's obedience and respect.Stay tuned for Part 2, where we will unpack the complete biblical leadership model and provide practical applications for raising children in the "training and admonition of the Lord". Learn the crucial difference between leadership and parenting and how to lead your family with God's heart.Catch the Full sermon Here:https://christianfellowship.subspla.sh/b9ttc2jRead the Full Blog and application steps here:https://christianfellowshiploslunas.org/blog/2025/09/16/living-proof-how-faith-transforms-every-relationshipChristian Fellowship Church is a discipleship-focused community in Los Lunas, New Mexico. Join us Sundays at 10 AM and Wednesdays at 7 PM as we preach through the Bible line by line. For more information, check us out at: https://christianfellowshiploslunas.orgIron Lotus Martial Arts is the world leader in discipleship-focused martial arts. Learn more about Shinja Kempo Karate, a transformative journey of spiritual growth and physical discipline.www.IronLotusMartialArts.com#ChristianParenting#BiblicalLeadership#Ephesians6#DriveBiblePodcast#FamilyDiscipleship#ParentingAdvice#RaisingKidsForChrist#ChristianPodcast#BibleStudy#GodlyParenting#Fathers #AuthorityInChrist
Welcome to Episode 273 of Autism Parenting Secrets.This week's episode comes from the MAPS Fall Conference, where I sat down with Dr. Tom Moorcroft.Dr. Tom treats some of the sickest, most sensitive patients—but this conversation wasn't about lab results or protocols. It was about presence, modeling, and the love that fuels real healing.The truth is simple but often overlooked: your child is always watching, always absorbing. They don't just hear your words—they feel your energy.If you want them to be resilient and open to growth, you have to show them how. The secret this week is…Fill YOUR Cup FirstYou'll Discover:How Filling Your Own Tank First Makes You a Stronger Parent (8:10)Why Modeling Behavior Is More Powerful Than Demanding It (11:29)The Surprising Truth: Your Child Is Always Listening (13:28)How Turning Supplements & Food Changes Into Acts of Love Shifts Everything (17:35)The Unforgettable “I See You In There” Moment That Proves Presence Heals (21:18)Why Acceptance Opens the Door to Action and Growth (37:45)How Course Correction—Not Perfection—Creates Lasting Change (46:28)About Our Guest:Dr. Tom Moorcroft, DO, is one of the most respected voices in complex chronic illness recovery and America's Premier Lyme Disease Educator. He is the founder of the Lyme Disease Practitioner Certification & Mentorship Program and host of The Lyme Insider podcast, where he trains clinicians to master the art and science of treating Lyme disease, tick-borne co-infections, mold illness, and infection-induced autoimmune conditions like PANS/PANDAS.With over 15 years of frontline experience, Dr. Tom blends cutting-edge science with practical, results-driven strategies to solve medical mysteries others often miss. He is a Fellow of the Medical Academy of Pediatric & Special Needs (FMAPS), an ILADS Fellow, and a former acting President, Board Member, and Committee Chair of ILADS.Trusted by patients and practitioners alike—from highly sensitive individuals to children with neuroinflammatory challenges—Dr. Tom's mission is clear: raise the standard of care and empower more healers to deliver lasting results. tommoorcroft.comLearn more:Medical Practice → OriginsOfHealth.comPractitioner Training → LymeTraining.orgYouTube → @TomMoorcroftInstagram → @drtommoorcroftLinkedIn → @tommoorcroftdoFacebook → @OriginsOfHealthThe Lyme Insider PodcastAdditional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support, go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What's YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.
Surrounded by ambitious women building six-figure businesses and beyond, Desiree and Iva were invited to co-facilitate a women's retreat where they sparked powerful breakthroughs. Desiree shared six ways to shift energetics in business for greater alignment and success, while Iva guided participants through her Human Design–based framework for finding their niche, their voice, and their vibe. This episode is a retreat rewind, offering a heart-to-heart recap of those lessons. For women craving more alignment in business or searching for a way to stand out authentically online, these insights land straight in your earbuds. Important Links: Momergy Essentials - Home | Momergy Essentials Iva Perez - The Momergy Movement Desiree Gonzalez - Oily Essentials Follow us on: Facebook Facebook Mom Bosses Abroad Instagram@Mom.bosses.abroad Instagram @MomergyMovement Instagram @desiree_oilyessentials Instagram Resources Hey, Mama!
The Dad Edge Podcast (formerly The Good Dad Project Podcast)
In this heart-to-heart episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with my 19-year-old son, Ethan Hagner, for a raw and honest conversation about growing up, gaining independence, and building strong family bonds in the process. Together, we explore what it means to transition from teenager to young adult while still staying connected to family values, respect, and open communication. We dive into how to respectfully disagree with parents, how to manage emotions in a healthy way, and the importance of creating space without disconnection. Ethan shares his personal experiences—from turning down college parties to navigating long-distance relationships—and how he's developed healthy coping mechanisms like ice baths, workouts, and prayer. This episode isn't just for parents of teens. It's for any father who wants to lead his family with grace, patience, and intention—and raise young men of character in a chaotic world. TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge movement [1:01] - Raising independent, critical-thinking kids [2:12] - Respectful disagreements with parents and communication [3:02] - Pumpkin spice protein ice cream (yes, seriously) [5:03] - The scary truth about a Starbucks PSL's sugar content [6:42] - Why protein-first choices matter for men's health [9:34] - Introducing today's topic: family ties and independence [10:02] - Life after high school: structure vs. freedom [11:52] - Taking initiative as a young adult [13:35] - Visiting college friends and choosing not to party [15:12] - Why making different choices matters to dads [16:13] - Navigating peer pressure and honoring your values [17:02] - “Liquor is poison in a fancy bottle” – a mindset shift [18:01] - Recognizing alcohol for what it is: a toxin [21:03] - Creating safe space for respectful disagreements [23:04] - How to make kids feel seen, heard, and understood [25:21] - All emotions are welcome, not all behaviors are [26:26] - Ethan's favorite stress relief tool: beating up “Bob” [27:37] - Navigating long-distance relationships as a teen [29:13] - Classical music, cards, and healthy distraction [30:23] - Coping mechanisms that actually improve your life [32:05] - Ice plunges and dopamine boosts [34:20] - Why saunas win over cold plunges for dad [36:26] - A reminder: every man needs a list of positive go-to's [37:15] - The highs and fears of new independence [39:17] - What scares Ethan most about his future path [40:02] - Why dad feels the clock ticking at age 50 [42:25] - Book launch: The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood [43:17] - Two free bonus courses for a limited time [44:15] - Why this father-son podcast is one-of-a-kind [46:00] - Temptation and faith: how Ethan calls on God [48:01] - God always provides a way out of temptation 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Independence Comes With Responsibility Growing up means more than freedom—it means taking ownership of your time, habits, and health. 2. All Emotions Are Welcome—Not All Behaviors Are Feeling anger, sadness, or frustration is normal. Acting with intention is what matters. 3. Respectful Disagreements Build Connection When parents create space for respectful pushback, kids learn how to think critically while staying connected. 4. Healthy Coping Mechanisms Are Essential From ice baths and workouts to music and prayer, having go-to tools keeps stress from taking control. 5. Faith and Intention Defeat Temptation Whether it's porn, partying, or self-doubt, Ethan reminds us that calling on God in moments of weakness gives us strength to choose better. LINKS & RESOURCES Order the new book: The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood: https://thedadedge.com/legendarybook Free Courses for a Limited Time: Creating More Patience Creating an Extraordinary Marriage Episode page: https://thedadedge.com/1376 First Phorm Pumpkin Spice Protein: Only available for a limited time — https://1stphorm.com/collections/pumpkin-spice James Swanwick's Alcohol-Free Program: https://www.jamesswanwick.com
Adam Levitan breaks down an explosive Week 2 in NFL DFS, which saw many players put up monster numbers, before tackling some hard-hitting listener questions like how old does your daughter need to be allowed to date?Links mentioned in the episode:Levitan's DFS Cash Lineup Review: Week 2 Week 2 DFS Tournament ReviewTimestamps:0:00 - Introduction0:26 - Adam's Week in Review6:49 - Listener QuestionsWant ETR on your team this season? Our 2025 NFL In-Season has you covered with:NFL In-Season content includes:Silva's Matchups ColumnDFS Top PlaysProjections for Every PlayerOwnership Projections for Every SlateWeekly Premium ShowsSubscribe now at https://subscribe.establishtherun.com/nflinseason/New Customers Play Free for Your Share of Millions in Prizes with First DepositDownload the DraftKings Daily Fantasy app and enter promo code ETR to play FREE for your share of millions in prizes with your first deposit! Sign Up Today Gambling Problem? Call 1-800-GAMBLER or 877-8-HOPENY/text HOPENY (467369) (NY). Help is available for problem gambling. Call (888) 789-7777 or visit ccpg.org (CT).18+ in most eligible states, but age varies by jurisdiction. Eligibility restrictions apply. Void where prohibited. 1 per new customer. Min. $5 deposit req. 1 single-use $3 ticket rewarded. Ticket rewards are site credits valid for use on eligible DraftKings contests. Ticket rewards expire 14 days (336 hours) after being issued. Terms: www.draftkings.com/promotions. Ends 12/31/2025 at 11:59 PM ET. Sponsored by DK.DFS OPTIMIZER: Sign up for THE SOLVER for access to the software we think fantasy players need to win: https://thesolver.com/?ref=etrWE CAN HELP: Tired of attention-seeking hot takes? Get the highest-quality fantasy football analysis in your inbox, FREE: https://bit.ly/establishtherunSPORTSBOOK OFFERS: We've partnered with several major sportsbook outlets to help supply you with the best offers in the industry and ensure you're maximizing your bankroll from the start: https://establishtherun.com/offers/FOLLOW US: Check out our social media channels for FREE fantasy football & DFS videos, analysis, and more: https://linktr.ee/establishtherun
When one mom asks a hard marriage question, we know hundreds more are wondering the same thing. Today, Karen and Emily tackle your vulnerable questions about jealousy, mismatched sex drives, and resentment at home. Karen reminds us that fighting for our marriages is worth it, even when it means doing the hard work like going to counseling, seeing a doctor, or having the tough conversation. We hope this episode will encourage you to keep investing in your marriage no matter the season you are in! Episode Recap:I struggle with jealousy when my husband is around other women, is that normal? (5:11)My husband doesn't initiate sex, what should I do? (8:20)As a SAHM, I'm super frustrated with the home workload (10:34)Communicate when things are calm, not just in the heat of the moment (17:03)My husband and I disagree about SO MUCH - how do we compromise? (18:16)My spouse will NOT apologize. What are my options? (23:39)How do you stay connected when you're outnumbered by kids & have busy schedules? (24:18) Scripture: Colossians 3:13–14 “Bear with each other and forgive one another… And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”Discussion Questions:What expectations do you carry into your marriage that you haven't clearly communicated to your spouse?How do you and your husband currently handle disagreements? What could you do to practice more “active listening” with one another?When it comes to intimacy, how comfortable are you being honest about your needs? What might help you take a step toward open communication?What are some small, practical ways you and your spouse can prioritize your marriage this week?What regular rhythms/routines could you establish to make sure you prioritize your marriage even when life feels overwhelming?Resources:Check out our Parenting Together curriculum for FREE in the BOAW Moms app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Download the companion study guide in the BOAW store: boaw.mom/parentingtogether
TRIGGER WARNING— this episode contains explicit talk about suicide and methodology.Listen as Joanne shares her heart-wrenching story of losing her oldest son, Jacob, to suicide in September 2022. Joanne shares that Jacob was a happy, easy child, and that she started noticing changes in his junior year in high school during Covid. Jacob stopped playing baseball, which he had always loved, and became more isolated in his senior year. He had an online relationship but did not want to socialize with others. When he graduated from high school, Joanne shares that Jacob wasn't sure what he wanted to do with his life. After sharing that he had thought seriously about suicide, Jacob agreed to go to counseling. However, when his online girlfriend broke up with him, he was devastated. Jacob died by suicide on September 25, 2022. Joanne was wracked with grief when Jacob's father died by suicide less than a month after Jacob. Joanne vulnerably and honestly shares the depth of pain and grief she experienced, leading to her own suicide attempt and subsequent hospitalization.
Every day we take a breath from the busy work day to get a breack and hang out with friends to talk about what is going on in the world of Sports, Entertainment and specifically CrossFit. Today we talk about how beautiful some of our country is. What it's like being the parent to an artistic child and whatever you want to talk about.
Few words cut deeper for a parent than hearing your child say, “I hate you.” In the heat of the moment, it's easy to feel hurt, angry, or even tempted to pull away. But what if those words don't actually mean what they sound like? In this episode of The Art of Raising Humans, Kyle and Sara Wester explore the deeper meaning behind those painful outbursts. Drawing on developmental science and research on emotional intelligence, they share how kids often use strong words when they're overwhelmed, disconnected, or lacking the language to express their true feelings. You'll hear:Why kids say “I hate you” — and what's really happening in their brains and heartsCommon parent reactions that can unintentionally add shame or distancePractical ways to stay calm, set boundaries, and respond with connectionHow to reassure your kids that your love is never conditionalEvery “I hate you” moment can become a doorway to deeper trust and connection. Listen in to discover how. View the full podcast transcript at: https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/when-your-child-says-i-hate-you-what-theyre-really-telling-you Visit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey. Resource Website: https://www.artofraisinghumans.comVideo Courses: https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/artofraisinghumansInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/artofraisinghumansPodcast Website: https://www.theartofraisinghumans.comBook List:https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/booklist The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
PART ONE (S17Ep10) Author Marissa Burt focuses on how distorted theology has affected the raising of children over the past decades. Her book is titled, "The Myth of 'Good Christian Parenting' - How false promises betrayed a generation of Evangelical families." She and her co-author did extensive surveys and researched more than 100 publications as they thought again about parenting advice from Bill Gothard to Douglas Wilson and more. Their book comes out October 14, 2025.Here are relevant links:The Book of Eden, Genesis 2-3 by Bruce C. E.Fleming https://a.co/d/e5QBJvHThe Myth of "Good Christian Parenting" by Marissa Burt and Kelsey McGinnis https://a.co/d/eTx9YgoOther links:Instagram: @mburtwrites | @kelseykmcginnisFacebook: @mburtwrites | @kelsey.kramermcginnisTikTok: @mburtwrites | @kelseykmcgYouTube: @mburtwrites Link to pre-order bonusesLink to download of the introduction and first chapter Find the book on AmazonOrder from Baker for guaranteed release day deliveryMarissa Franks Burt (MA in Theological Studies, Columbia International University) is a novelist, editor, teacher, and cohost of the At Home with the Lectionary and In the Church Library podcasts. She lives in a small town in Washington's Snoqualmie Valley with her husband, six children, and heaps of books.Kelsey Kramer McGinnis (PhD, University of Iowa) is a musicologist, educator, and correspondent for Christianity Today, writing on worship practices and Christian subculture. She is an adjunct professor at Grand View University in Des Moines and previously worked at the University of Iowa Center for Human Rights. The Tru316 Foundation (www.Tru316.com) is the home of The Eden Podcast with Bruce C. E. Fleming where we “true” the verse of Genesis 3:16. The Tru316 Message is that “God didn't curse Eve (or Adam) or limit woman in any way.” Once Genesis 3:16 is made clear the other passages on women and men become clear too. You are encouraged to access the episodes of Seasons 1-11 of The Eden Podcast for teaching on the seven key passages on women and men. Are you a reader? We invite you to get from Amazon the four books by Bruce C. E. Fleming in The Eden Book Series (Tru316.com/trubooks). Would you like to support the work of the Tru316 Foundation? You can become a Tru Partner here: www.Tru316.com/partner
In this week's episode, I'm joined by my husband, Zane, for a candid Q&A where we answer your questions! I asked my Instagram followers on my IG Story to submit their biggest questions, and together we're covering it all: faith, marriage, parenting, grandparenting, finances, business, and even menopause. If you've ever wondered what life, marriage, and faith look like behind the scenes for us, this conversation is full of practical wisdom, honest reflections, and even a laugh or two. QUESTIONS ANSWERED IN THIS EPISODE: Why did Zane convert to Catholicism? Do Catholics really believe it's Jesus plus works that save you? What's the pricing on our family's VRBO? Looking back, what would we do differently in our marriage? What did we do well? How did we navigate and nurture our marriage with little kids? What's it like stepping into grandparenthood? How do we handle arguments (and what has changed over the years)? What keeps a husband happy day-to-day? How do you find a trusted financial advisor? What's the best way to retire when you own a business with a partner? How can you encourage strong relationships with adult children? How can a husband support his wife through menopause? What does a “perfect marriage” really look like? LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED: The Retreat at Marble Valley officially launches this weekend! Once it's live, I'll update the show notes with a direct link so you can check it out and book your stay. In the meantime, be sure to follow along on Instagram @retreatatmarblevalley for updates and a first look at all the details. The Spirit of Wealth Preservation by Ken Polk Outfit Details: Necklace: The Pearl Source White Baroque Freshwater Pearl Necklace - Use code JAMIE15 for a special discount! Dress: Brochu Walker's Kate Crepe Belted Dress ZANE'S LIST OF QUESTIONS TO ASK A WEALTH MANAGER 1. How do you get paid, and what is your total compensation structure? 2. Are you a fiduciary at all times, and how do you ensure my interests come first? 3. What is your investment philosophy, and how do you tailor it to someone in my stage of life, goals, and risk tolerance? 4. What does your ideal client look like, and how many clients like me do you currently serve? 5. How do you measure success for clients, and what reporting/communication can I expect? 6. What resources, team members, or specialists will I have access to beyond you? 7. Can you share a story of how you helped a client navigate a major market downturn or significant life transition? WHERE TO LISTEN The SavvyCast is available on all podcasting platforms and YouTube. One of the best ways to support the show is by leaving a rating and review—I so appreciate you sharing your thoughts, my friends! ENJOYED THIS EPISODE? CHECK THESE OUT! My Husband Converted to Catholicism: How We Navigate Faith Differences in Marriage Listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Watch on YouTube Jamie & Zane: Impactful Quotes We Love & Live By Listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Watch on YouTube
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In today's episode, Amy and Sara sit down with Kendy Bowman as she shares her journey of parenting through grief after the passing of her husband, Cameron. She talks about the unexpected ways God prepared her family, the peace that surpasses understanding, and how she has learned to embrace both the hard and the hopeful moments along the way.Kendy also opens up about what it looks like to help kids process something you've never experienced yourself, creating a new life as a family, and finding joy again even as grief remains. Whether you're walking through grief yourself or want to support someone who is, this conversation offers encouragement, practical steps, and the reminder that you are not alone.Book: The Grieving BrainBook: The Grieving BodyBook: My Wynter Season--Question of the Week: What are ways we can care for someone who has lost someone?--Hosts: Amy Lowe & Sara JonesGuests: Kendy BowmanProducers: Emily Alters & Cody Braun--Learn more about WinShape Camps at WinShapeCamps.org!Instagram: @WinShapeCampsTikTok: @WinShapeCampsFacebook: @WinShapeCamps
Marriage doesn't have to feel heavy or complicated, sometimes we just need a gentle nudge to see where we've let things slide. In this conversation with Arlene Pellicane, author of Making Marriage Easier, Karen and Emily unpack the four practical shifts that can strengthen your relationship: play by the rules, speak kindly and listen well, practice gratitude, and take fun seriously. Whether you're in the trenches with little ones or looking ahead to the golden years, this episode will encourage you to invest in your marriage today!Episode Recap:Arlene's background and marriage (5:43)Ask yourself, what can I do to make my marriage easier? (7:59)What does it mean to “play by the rules” in marriage? (9:47)Divorce is highly predictable based on how couples speak to one another (11:05)How does giving thanks make marriage easier? (14:37)The source of our happiness is God, nothing else (17:36)Our phones are essentially a third person in modern marriages (18:15)Don't forget to have FUN together! (21:57)In marriage, you will reap what you sow (26:21)Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 (NIV)“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.”Discussion Questions:What is one small step you could take this week to “make marriage easier”?How do you and your spouse communicate? Do you notice more admiration or criticism in your words?When was the last time you laughed/just had fun with your spouse? How could you plan something simple and enjoyable together soon?In what ways can practicing gratitude shift your perspective in marriage?How has phone or screen usage affected your relationship? What boundary might help protect your connection?What was most encouraging to you about this conversation? Resources:Snag Arlene's book, Making Marriage Easier on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3KbFMD3Grab easy date night ideas (scroll down) at MakingMarriageEasier.comCheck out our Parenting Together curriculum for FREE in the BOAW Moms app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Download the companion study guide in the BOAW store: boaw.mom/parentingtogether
Dr. Curt Thompson (https://curtthompsonmd.com/) is a widely known expert in interpersonal neurobiology, and I could not be more excited for you to hear this episode. Dr. Thompson's genuine love and care for people shines brightly in this conversation where he highlights his unique insights about how the brain affects and processes relationships. Dr. Thompson focuses on what we all as humans want— to be known— and how shame and trauma keep us in hiding. He shares about the non-profit he founded, The Center for Being Known (https://www.thecbk.org/), and the “confessional communities” that are part of the Center. These communities, Dr. Thompson shares, foster an environment where people feel seen, soothed, safe, and secure, which leads to a deeper relationship with God and others. Dr. Thompson not only shares his expertise and wisdom but also some of his personal story of parenting an adult child who struggled with a mental health issue. Dr. Thompson is also the host of The Being Know Podcast (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/being-known-podcast/id1556261828), which helps people discover and explore what it means to be truly known.
PARENT PANEL: You Didn't RSVP So I'm Kicking Your Kid Out full 541 Tue, 09 Sep 2025 14:14:46 +0000 Cs0bTkXQVodVK2XZmWARotZazCWUddQY advice,parenting,parenting advice,rsvp,kramer and jess,parent panel,music,society & culture,news Kramer & Jess On Demand Podcast advice,parenting,parenting advice,rsvp,kramer and jess,parent panel,music,society & culture,news PARENT PANEL: You Didn't RSVP So I'm Kicking Your Kid Out Highlights from the Kramer & Jess Show. 2024 © 2021 Audacy, Inc. Music Society & Culture News False https://player.amperwavepodcasting.
Host Dr. Ruston introduces Screenagers' recently launched Screen-Free Sleep campaign, focused on helping parents keep devices out of kids' bedrooms for sleep time. Ruston explains the campaign's goals, the science behind it, and how you can participate in making screen-free sleep the norm in your child's school and community. This includes resources like iSleep Pro kits and a fun flash mob dance. She also offers practical solutions to some of the common challenges parents face when creating tech-free sleep for their kids and tweens. It all wraps up with lively "Man on the Street" interviews with parents and kids, making it a perfect listen for adults to enjoy together with their children. Resources www.screenfreesleep.org Time Code 00:00 Introduction to Screen-Free Sleep 00:41 About the Screen-Free Sleep Campaign 06:28 Man on the Street Interviews 11:09 Common Pushbacks and Solutions 15:43 Student Sleep Health Week and Resources 17:01 Call to Action and Conclusion
Most parents would say, “Of course I love my child unconditionally.” But what if — without even realizing it — we sometimes make our kids feel like our love depends on their behavior, their grades, or how easy they are to parent? In this episode of The Art of Raising Humans, we (Kyle & Sara Wester) unpack 13 powerful insights from Alfie Kohn's book Unconditional Parenting. As we read and reflect on each one, you may find yourself thinking: “Oh wow, I didn't realize I was doing that.” You'll hear:The hidden ways we accidentally attach conditions to our love.Why these patterns shape how children see themselves and us.13 shifts that help kids grow up knowing our love is steady, even when they struggle. This episode isn't about blame or guilt. It's about uncovering the blind spots we all have and learning how to build a relationship where our children feel truly secure in our love, no matter what. View the full podcast transcript at: https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/are-you-loving-unconditionally-13-surprising-ways-we-put-strings-on-our-love. Visit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey. Resource Website: https://www.artofraisinghumans.comVideo Courses: https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/artofraisinghumansInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/artofraisinghumansPodcast Website: https://www.theartofraisinghumans.comBook List:https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/booklist The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
There's a lot of advice out there for parents, some good and some bad, here's some of the bad. Created by Trevor Poelman Support Belief It Or Not Brought to you By: The Sonar Network https://thesonarnetwork.com/
Welcome to Episode 272 of Autism Parenting Secrets.This week, we're talking about a medicine almost every parent has used. For decades, doctors have recommended it for fevers, ear infections, even after vaccines. It's long been considered safe.But compelling evidence shows it's not nearly as safe as we've been told—especially for babies and young children under stress.My guest is Dr. William Parker. He is distinguished, highly credentialed, and deeply passionate about protecting children. After earning his PhD in Chemistry, he spent nearly 30 years at Duke University studying biochemistry, microbiology, and immunology. He's best known for discovering the function of the human appendix—a safe-house for bacteria—and for the last decade, he's focused on how acetaminophen, when combined with oxidative stress, impacts brain development. He's published more than 150 peer-reviewed papers, and his work points to this drug playing a major role in the rise of autism.This is a conversation parents need to hear. Dr. Parker is substantive, credible, and unwavering in his pursuit of the truth. It's not about fear—it's about clarity and better choices.The secret this week is…AVOID THIS Popular Drug To Protect DevelopmentYou'll Discover:The Hidden Link First Exposed in 2008 (4:51)How Acetaminophen + Oxidative Stress = Trouble For Susceptible Kids (15:29)The Timeline That Matches The Rise of Autism (23:26)The Flawed Assumptions in Many Scientific Studies (26:50)Practical Next Steps Parents Can Take (45:53)The Actual MECHANISM That Harms Brain Cells (51:07)About Our Guest:William Parker earned a PhD in Chemistry in 1992 and studied biochemistry, microbiology, and immunology at Duke University for almost 30 years before starting WPLab, a private, non-profit research and education corporation, in 2021. Best known for the discovery of the function of the human appendix (a safe-house for bacteria), Dr. Parker has spent almost a decade studying the impact of acetaminophen combined with oxidative stress on neurodevelopment. He has published more than 150 peer-reviewed papers, including work in PLoS One, the European Journal of Pediatrics, Minerva Pediatrics, and Clinical and Experimental Pediatrics. WPLab scientists have concluded that many, if not most, cases of autism are a chemically induced injury caused by exposure of susceptible babies and children to acetaminophen.References In This Episode:Learn more about Dr. Parker's work: PreventAutism.org and www.wplaboratory.orgAdditional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support, go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What's YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.
Guess who's back (back, back... you know the rest). After a long hiatus, Jenn and Mike kick off season two of the pod with answers to all your burning questions, including: "Did No Demo Reno get cancelled on HGTV??" Find out now on the premiere episode of You, Me & Mike season two! Whether you've been with us since the beginning or you're just tuning in, season two promises more stories, deeper conversations, and lots of fun with Jenn and Mike!Want to submit an idea for a topic to be discussed on the show? Have a crazy question for the jar of weird questions? Just want to say hi? We'd love to hear from you! Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or send us an email at youmeandmikepodcast@gmail.com.NEW for season two- we're on YouTube! You can still listen on all your favorite podcast platforms, and you can watch the show on our YouTube channel! Season two premieres September 3rd with new episodes each Wednesday.You, Me & Mike is a production of The Rambling Redhead from Thirteen Media.
Moms, you don't want to miss this conversation! Karen and Greg pull back the curtain on nearly four decades of marriage—the good, the hard, the early years, and the season they're in now. Their honesty will inspire you to invest in your own marriage now so you can reap the rewards later. This heartfelt episode will make you smile, and maybe even tear up, as they remind us that we serve a good and faithful God who wants the best for us and our marriages.Episode Recap:How Karen and Greg back met in 1984 (4:00)What Greg thought marriage was going to be like (6:40)What were some of your biggest differences as newlyweds? (7:50)How did you stay connected during the early years of raising kids? (10:09)We always prioritized us over the kids. (13:22)How did serving in the military impact your marriage and family? (14:45)What has been the hardest season of your marriage? (18:48)How did your faith carry you through that season? (22:54)What have you come to love or appreciate about one another more recently? (29:10)How has your relationship changed now that your kids are grown and gone? (31:35)What's one way that you protect your marriage even now? (35:55)What has surprised you about becoming grandparents? (37:19)Lightening round questions (40:12)Scripture: Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV)“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”Discussion Questions:Karen and Greg talked about prioritizing their marriage even while raising young kids. How do you currently make space for your spouse in a busy season of parenting?Greg shared the advice he received from his dad: “Your family is your hobby.” What might it look like for you to protect your margin for your family?Karen described her “needy gal” season where she learned to depend on God to meet her needs. How have you experienced God providing for you in a hard marriage or parenting season?What small rhythms (like a daily debrief, date nights, or intentional quiet time) could you adopt to strengthen your connection with your spouse?Looking ahead, what do you hope your marriage will look like when you reach the “high five” finish line of raising kids together?Resources:Get the Parenting Together curriculum videos FREE in the BOAW Moms app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Grab the discussion guide in our store: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/mom-studies/products/parenting-together-free-in-the-app-copyReach out to https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speak to have Karen come speak in your community!Join our private FB group, BOAW Moms: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms
PART 2 3. Some important quotes stand out! 4. His comments about the ROD are really good in chapter 11 Children are not born morally and ethically neutral If they are they don't need correction, just direction If they are not, then they need correction Our child's problem is that he or she is a sinner! p. 102. Folly is the problem we have to address according to proverbs Folly is not childishness Folly describes the person who does not fear God A fools life is run by his desires and fears The fool lives out of the immediacy of his lusts, cravings, expectations, hopes, and fears The issue is authority Will a child live under the authority of God and his parents? Will he/she live under their own authority? All children choose to live under their own authority: I don't want my diaper changed I don't want to sit quietly at the table during this meal You are going to make me and if you do I will scream and throw a huge fit Leave this to take root and grow, and it produces “a rebellious teenager who will not allow anyone to rule him.” “God has ordained the rod of discipline for this condition.” p. 103 “Confrontation, with the immediate and undeniably tactile sensation of a spanking, renders an implacable child sweet.” (p. 103) The quote on p 103 is massively important The function of the rod It imparts wisdom Pr 29:15, which is tied to the fear of god “It creates an atmosphere in which instruction can be given. The spanking renders the child compliant and ready to receive life-giving words.” (p 104) Tripp deals with the question - don't all children eventually learn to obey? He say NO!! Proverbs 29:15, 17 The rod defined - p. 104 “The rod is a parent, in faith toward God and faithfullness toward his or her children, undertaking the responsibility of careful, timely, measured, and controlled use of physical punishment to underscore the importance of obeying God, thus rescuing the child from continuing in his foolishness unto death.” It is a parental exercise It is an act of faith in God and His Word It is an act of faithfulness - an expression of love and comitment It is an act of responsibility - not a parent determining to punish, but a parent determining to obey It is an act of physical punishment Not venting or parental anger Not frustration Not based on a feeling of my child is bothering me It is always measured and controlled It is a rescue mission Rescues the child from continuing in foolishness To ignore your child's rebellion against God's authority is to ultimately brings God's greater chastisement into their lives. The Rod clarified Not unbridled temper Not the right to hit my child Not venting or frustration not retribution Not payment but restoration Not vindictive The Rod objected I love my child too much too spank You love yourself too much to spank them I am afraid I will hurt them “Biblically-balanced discipline never physically endangers a child” I am afraid it will make him rebellious and angry Proverbs 29:17 teaches the exact opposite I am afraid it will teach them to hit Only if you spank in anger It doesn't work It doesn't when you spank in anger or out-of-control It doesn't when you are inconsistent It doesn't when you fail to be persistent It doesn't when you aren't effective I could be arrested for child abuse Only spank in the privacy of your home and do it right