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What's your stress language—and how is it secretly shaping your thoughts, reactions, and health? In this transformative episode of The Dr. Leaf Show, Dr. Caroline Leaf breaks down the six main “stress languages”—the hidden emotional patterns that kick in when life gets overwhelming: the Fighter, Freezer, Fixer, Fleer, Suppressor, and Pleaser.Unlike love languages, stress languages reveal how your brain and body respond to pressure, conflict, and fear. Are you shutting down? Fixing everyone's problems but your own? Or smiling while silently screaming inside?Dr. Leaf explains the neuroscience behind stress, how to tell the difference between positive and toxic stress, and how to retrain your brain using the proven 5-step Neurocycle method. You'll walk away with powerful insights and practical tools to decode your own stress responses—and reclaim peace and clarity in the middle of chaos.✨ BONUS: Pre-order Dr. Leaf's new book Help in a Hurry at www.helpinahurrybook.com to unlock exclusive content and free 1:1 coaching opportunities!SPONSORS MAKING THIS SHOW POSSIBLE:Fay Nutrition: Having a personalized nutritionist used to cost big bucks, but not anymore with Fay. Listeners of The Dr. Leaf Show can qualify to see a registered dietitian for as little as $0 by visiting FayNutrition.com/DRLEAF. BiOptimizers Magnesium Breakthrough: Nourish your brain and body with Magnesium Breakthrough now. For an exclusive offer go to bioptimizers.com/drleaf and use promo code DRLEAF10 during checkout to save 10%.
Empowered & Unfiltered: A 3-Part Series on Healing, Empowerment, and Real Connection Guest: Shane Adamson, LCSW, CSAT, CCPSWhat happens when a people pleaser finally decides she's worthy of more?In this honest and unfiltered conversation, I'm joined by therapist and relationship trauma specialist Shane Adamson, LCSW, , CSAT, CCPS to explore what really lies beneath the urge to overgive, over-accommodate, and lose yourself in relationships that never loved you back.Together, we peel back the layers of people pleasing as a trauma response, the invisible weight of betrayal, and the impact of emotional neglect that keeps women stuck in cycles of unworthiness. Shane brings clinical insight and deep compassion to the conversation—and even shares his own healing journey and how it shaped his work with couples and betrayed partners.This is the first episode in a powerful 3-part series where we explore what it means to come home to yourself after years of giving yourself away.In this episode, you'll learn:Why people pleasers are drawn to emotionally unavailable or narcissistic partnersThe signs of betrayal trauma and how it hijacks your nervous systemWhat “duty sex” reveals about emotional disconnectionHow guilt, family roles, and cultural expectations keep women stuckWhat the first signs of healing really look like—and how to get there
Pleaser hit Subscribe/Follow. And leave a 5-Star review. Click here to go to Jens Book. https://a.co/d/9C4XVyP Click here to go to our Patreon Page. https://www.patreon.com/222ParanormalPodcast Click here for our website. https://www.222paranormal.com/ Click here for Joes book. https://a.co/d/6fTiN2w Be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with your fellow paranormal enthusiasts. Got your own ghost town story or local legend? We'd love to feature it in an upcoming show—reach out to us through our website or social media. Welcome back, all you ghost hunters, history lovers, and seekers of the strange! On this episode of the 222 Paranormal Podcast, we're exploring a lesser-known but deeply haunted side of Ohio—its ghost towns. You may not think of Ohio when you think of eerie abandoned places, but the Buckeye State is filled with long-forgotten towns where whispers of the past still echo through the woods, fields, and empty buildings. These aren't just abandoned communities—they're home to some of the most chilling ghost stories in the Midwest. Ohio's ghost towns were once thriving villages, mining outposts, or utopian communities, now reduced to little more than crumbling foundations, moss-covered cemeteries, and overgrown roads. But in many of these towns, the dead didn't leave when the living moved out. First, we take you deep into the heart of Moonville, a remote 19th-century coal mining town hidden in the forests of Vinton County. Today, only a few foundations and the iconic Moonville Tunnel remain, but paranormal activity is rampant. The most famous spirit is that of a lantern-carrying ghost said to have been struck by a train—many visitors report seeing a glowing light bobbing in the distance and hearing disembodied footsteps echo through the tunnel at night. Is it the spirit of a railroad worker, or something more sinister? Next, we turn to Boston Mills, better known in urban legend circles as Helltown. Located in Summit County, this area was partially evacuated in the 1970s when the government acquired the land for the Cuyahoga Valley National Recreation Area. But the lack of public explanation left a vacuum that filled quickly with rumors: tales of Satanic cults, mutant creatures, ghostly children, and cursed roads. Is it just a case of folklore run wild, or are the spirits of the displaced still making their presence known? Then there's Utopia, Ohio, a riverside community in Clermont County founded by spiritualists in the 1800s. Designed to be a utopian society, the town's dreams were washed away—literally—by a tragic flood that killed dozens. Today, the few remaining structures and nearby riverbanks are said to be haunted by spirits who perished in that disaster, still searching for peace that eluded them in life. We'll also touch on lesser-known but equally spooky spots like Mineral, San Toy, and Tadmor, ghost towns with rich histories and reports of unexplained noises, shadowy figures, and strange lights. From the whispers of miners who never clocked out to the children heard laughing in the ruins of old schools, these towns may have lost their populations—but gained eternal residents. In this episode, we dive into: The true history behind Ohio's ghost towns and their rise and fall Eyewitness accounts from paranormal investigators and visitors Common threads between these locations that may explain their hauntings Why abandoned places seem to attract and hold spiritual energy If you're into legends, forgotten history, and spine-chilling stories that will have you double-checking your rearview mirror on the way home, this episode is for you. Ohio may seem quiet on the surface, but it has a haunted heart that beats beneath the soil. So light some sage, grab your gear, and join us on a journey through the haunted ghost towns of Ohio. You'll learn, you'll shiver—and you might just want to visit these places yourself… if you're brave enough. Welcome to the 222 Paranormal Podcast, your gateway to the captivating world of the supernatural. Immerse yourself in our expertly crafted episodes, where we delve deep into a wide range of paranormal phenomena, including ghostly hauntings, cryptid sightings, and unexplained mysteries that defy logic. Each episode is meticulously researched and features engaging discussions with leading experts, seasoned ghost hunters, and renowned paranormal investigators. We cover the latest advancements in ghost hunting technology, offer practical tips for both amateur and experienced investigators, and review essential equipment for your paranormal adventures. Our podcast also explores the rich history of haunted locations, sharing true stories and firsthand accounts that will send chills down your spine. Whether you're a die-hard fan of the paranormal or just curious about the unknown, our content is designed to entertain, inform, and ignite your imagination. Stay tuned as we uncover secrets from the most haunted places around the world and analyze the most intriguing supernatural events. We also provide in-depth interviews with notable figures in the field and explore theories that challenge conventional understanding of reality. By subscribing to our Paranormal Podcast, you'll stay updated with the latest episodes, allowing you to join a community of like-minded individuals who share your fascination with the unexplained. Don't miss out on our exclusive content and special features, which bring you closer to the mysteries that lie beyond our everyday experiences. 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Understand what fuels and drains your energy with a free energy audit. Download yours: https://www.brendawinkle.com/audit In this episode of Your Yes Filled Life, Kris Driskill—transformational coach, business consultant, and former opera singer—joins Brenda to explore the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways self-sabotage shows up, especially for high-achieving, intuitive women. Kris unpacks the ten saboteur archetypes from the Positive Intelligence framework and helps us understand how our need for approval, perfectionism, or control can quietly undermine our joy and success. Together, Brenda and Kris reflect on their own performance-driven pasts, and share what it looks like to move from hyper-achievement to authentic alignment. This episode is packed with real talk, healing insights, and practical shifts that will support you in honoring your energy and reclaiming your intuitive power.
Join my upcoming Positive Intelligence© Program: https://www.vickibaird.com/positive-intelligence-purchase-vicki-bairdJoin my upcoming In this episode, I'm sharing some personal stories and lessons about love, friendship, and how often we override our own intuition in relationships. If you've ever stayed in a friendship too long, ignored red flags, or made excuses because you didn't want to rock the boat—you're not alone. I've been there too. We'll talk about the role our internal saboteurs play (hello, Pleaser and Hyper-Rational), how to spot them, and how to use their gifts instead of letting them run the show. I'll also offer ways to read the energy of your relationships, tune into your body's signals, and build a vocabulary around your intuitive hits—so you can make clearer, kinder choices in your connections. Whether you're evaluating a romantic partner or a friend group, this episode is your reminder to ground in your wisdom and honor what feels right for you. Tune in, reflect, and if it resonates—come join me in the Mindset Breakthrough program for even deeper transformation. Chapters: 00:00 - Intro 00:58 - Exploring Intuition in Relationships 01:32 - Personal Experiences and Ignoring Intuition 06:33 - Understanding Saboteurs in Relationships 12:36 - Developing Self-Awareness and Intuition 15:09 - Practical Exercises for Intuition 26:39 - Final Thoughts
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Text Monique directly! Share thoughts, feels or feedback! Is the pursuit of success weighing you down? In this episode, Monique uncovers how ambition can sometimes come at the cost of our deepest dreams.Listen in as she shares compelling stories of women balancing leadership, motherhood, and personal fulfillment. Through the lens of the 'Giver,' the 'Grinder,' and the 'Pleaser,' she reveals how these identities shape our paths—both fueling and restricting us.Tune in to learn how to break free from outdated roles, redefine success on your terms, and step into a future of authentic fulfillment.
Podcast 12 in de reeks van 28.Je beschikt misschien over de kenmerken van een pleaser, maar dít is wat er echt aan de hand is…Mail me je vragen, ervaringen etc., zou ik super leuk vinden: danielle@daniellehermeler.com>> Volg me op Instagram
Topics: Evil, PTSD, Depression, Divorce, Guilt, Worry, Anxiety, Alcohol, Self Worth, Pleaser, Dating, Dementia Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses suicidal empathy, when we refuse to acknowledge that evil exists in the world. 2. Do I have PTSD or depression? I've been struggling for 14yrs after my wife cheated and we divorced. 3. I give rides to students for appointments and feel prompted to pray for the people in the waiting room but never do. I feel guilty; is my guilt misdirected? 4. What can I do about constantly worrying? I give it to God but pick it right up. 5. I have been sober for 10yrs from alcohol, but I still struggle with insecurities and trying to please. 6. The woman I am dating has forgotten her keys, and I am afraid this is a sign of dementia. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Every Believer's Thought Life Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Living Strong, Finishing Well To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
What does it truly mean to emerge as a middle leader? In this episode of Aspire to Lead, Gavin Grift, author of Emerge: Overcoming Common Challenges Associated with Middle Leadership, joins us to reimagine leadership in today's educational landscape. We explore the profound concept that "Clarity Precedes Competence," reframing hardships as stepping stones to growth, and the role self-awareness plays in transformative leadership. Gavin unpacks how busyness has become the modern-day "I'm fine" and reveals how leaders can reclaim their time for what truly matters. Dive into Gavin's fascinating Leadership Archetypes—the Pleaser, Ostrich, Imposter, Dynamo, and the Judge & Juror—and learn practical ways to recognize and grow beyond these tendencies. Whether you're navigating the complexities of middle leadership or looking to refine your approach, this episode delivers a fresh perspective and powerful strategies to help you emerge stronger and more focused than ever. Don't miss this engaging conversation with one of education's most inspiring voices! About Gavin Grift: Gavin Grift's career in education began in 1992 as a primary school teacher, where he spent 15 years fostering student agency and empowering students to take ownership of their learning. His innovative practices and dedication to improving teaching led him to roles beyond the classroom, including serving as a cluster educator, where he supported eight schools in developing instructional strategies to enhance student outcomes. This pivotal role marked Gavin's transition from classroom teaching to educational leadership, focusing on systemic improvements in teaching and learning. In 2007, Gavin co-authored Assessing the Whole Child with Jane Satchwell, emphasizing student-led portfolios and conferences to empower students in their assessment processes. The book's success sparked invitations to present their work nationally, leading to partnerships with Hawker Brownlow Education to expand their reach. Around this time, Gavin's interest in cognitive development deepened after attending a Cognitive Coaching seminar with Thinking Collaborative. This experience shaped his approach to education and leadership, ultimately prompting him to transition into full-time consultancy, working with schools to strengthen teaching practices. Gavin's career reached new heights as he became Executive Director of a professional development venture created by Hawker Brownlow Education and Solution Tree. Under the mentorship of Richard and Rebecca DuFour, Gavin helped schools across Australia implement Professional Learning Communities, fostering collaboration and transforming teaching practices. During this period, he co-authored Teachers as Architects of Learning and deepened his international influence as a Cognitive Coaching training associate, supporting educators globally in reflective practices and leadership development. His widely praised books, including Emerge, Transformative Collaboration,
In this episode of Promoted: Stop Doubting, Start Leading, host Karen Gombault dives into the hidden patterns of self-sabotage that hinder your leadership potential. Drawing from Positive Intelligence® and her coaching expertise, Karen unpacks the 10 saboteurs that hold leaders back and offers insights to help you recognize and overcome these behaviors. Whether it's procrastination, perfectionism, or people-pleasing, this episode will deepen your self awareness.Key Takeaways:Self-sabotage often stems from ingrained mental patterns called saboteurs, rooted in survival mechanisms developed during childhood.The master saboteur, "The Judge," criticizes you, others, and circumstances, often working alongside accomplice saboteurs to amplify self-doubt and unproductive behaviors.The 9 accomplice saboteurs include The Controller, Avoider, Hyper-Achiever, Pleaser, Stickler, Hyper-Rational, Hyper-Vigilant, Restless, and Victim, each with distinct behaviors and impacts.Awareness of your saboteurs is the first step toward breaking these patterns and shifting toward more empowering behaviors.Tools like the free saboteur assessment can provide clarity on which saboteurs dominate your thinking and how to address them effectively."Your saboteurs are not a reflection of your value—they're simply patterns you've developed over time, and with awareness, they can be changed."- Karen GombaultSelf-sabotage may feel like an unavoidable part of leadership, but it doesn't have to be. By recognizing the saboteurs at play and taking intentional steps to address them, you can lead with greater confidence, clarity, and purpose. Start today by building awareness and taking the free saboteur assessment linked in the show notes. Every step you take toward understanding these patterns is a step toward transforming your leadership journey.Karen is a leadership coach and mentor, working with recently promoted women to help them stop doubting and start leading.Further resources :Ready to uncover your saboteurs and take the first step toward deeper awareness? Take the free saboteur assessment here: https://www.karengombault.com/saboteur-test-opt-inFollow along on LinkedIn: (13) Karen Gombault | LinkedInEmail me at Karen@karengombault.comDisclaimer:As a Positive Intelligence Coach, I am committed to upholding the standards and trademarks of Positive Intelligence, LLC, including but not limited to the following copyright notice and disclaimers.© 2024 Positive Intelligence, LLC. All rights reserved. No reproduction, alteration, translation, publication or distribution, in any form, printed or electronic, is permitted without the express prior written consent of Positive Intelligence, LLC. POSITIVE INTELLIGENCE®, PQ®, PQ COACH™, CERTIFIED PQ COACH™, and P+ logo™ are trademarks of Positive Intelligence, LLC.
Topics: Holiday, Pleaser, Guilt, Grandparenting, Discipline, In-laws, Estrangement, Father Issues Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill encourages us to take time to reflect on the places Jesus showed up in our lives this Christmas season. I have two cars and let people borrow them; why do I feel guilty for taking my car back if The post New Life Live: December 26, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Download Gary's 13 Keys to Creating a Multi-Million Dollar Business from https://www.DitchDiggerCEO.com/ Meet Joe Kahn, founder of Condado Tacos, who turned his passion for the restaurant industry into a thriving 51-store chain. In this episode, Joe shares his journey from busboy to CEO, focusing on explosive growth, maintaining a strong company culture, and innovative strategies that set Condado Tacos apart. Discover his secrets to success and learn from his experiences and insights. In this episode, Gary and Joe discuss: 1. Joe's Inspirational Journey and Entrepreneurial Challenges 2. Building a Unique Restaurant Concept and Brand 3. Maintaining High Standards for Food Quality and Customer Experience 4. Culture and Inclusion in the Workplace 5. Lessons Learned from Industry Peers and Scaling Success LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joe-kahn-47052b8a/ Company LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/condadotacos/ Website: https://condadotacos.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/condadotacos/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/condado.tacos/ Connect with Gary Rabine and DDCEO on: Website: https://www.DitchDiggerCEO.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/DitchDiggerCEO TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ditchdiggerceopodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DitchDiggerCEO Twitter: https://twitter.com/DitchDiggerCEO YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ditchdiggerceo
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Camila Cabello's "CXOXO" album kicked off with a hyper pop-tinged lead single, immediately causing comparisons to Charli XCX. This episode discusses how goalposts in pop music are changing as music becomes more conversational online and less about Top 40 appeal. We explore how Camila's artistic pivot isn't about chasing another Señorita or Havana, but about carving a niche within online music stans. Despite high-profile features with Drake and Lil Nas X, slick production from Jasper Harris, and tabloid buzz surrounding Sabrina Carpenter and Shawn Mendes, the album struggles to stick the landing. Is the issue tied to the music itself, the crowded year, albums like "BRAT" in similar lanes, or is something else at play? Tune in as we dissect CXOXO, uncover key moments, and leave you with the tools to form your own verdict.
In this episode of Destination on the Left, I talk with Jill Peterson, Founder and Chief Growth Strategist at Clover Insights LLC. We discuss how to improve your mental fitness and build positive intelligence, and she explains the differences between your “survival brain” and your “sage brain.” Jill shares why improving your mental fitness leads to greater happiness, increased productivity, and improved mental resilience. What You Will Learn in This Episode: How Jill uses the concept of “sage brain” to enhance happiness and productivity in personal and professional settings Why understanding and managing mental habits, particularly saboteurs, is crucial for overcoming internal barriers What the Positive Intelligence program entails, including practical techniques like PQ reps and how they help develop mental fitness Why integrating positive intelligence practices into daily routines can effectively boost mental resilience without requiring additional time What the role of the “Judge” is in one's mental framework, and how recognizing its influence can prevent it from sabotaging growth and happiness Understanding Mental Fitness This week, we've got a real treat on the #DOTL podcast, as Jill Peterson Founder and Chief Growth Strategist at Clover Insights LLC. explains how to handle life's challenges positively. Jill describes how we can be the best version of ourselves and influence those around us positively. This episode is all about offering you practical strategies to improve your mental fitness for a fresh start as we prepare for a busy holiday season. The Sage Brain vs. The Survival Brain Jill introduces the concept of the “sage brain” and the “survival brain.” The “sage brain” encompasses positive emotions, creativity, empathy, and curiosity, which are so important for addressing life's challenges constructively. On the other hand, the survival brain operates on negativity and judgment, housing nine saboteurs that seriously hinder our potential. Recognizing and managing these two brain modes increases happiness and productivity. By understanding our mental habits and overcoming internal barriers, we can unlock our true potential personally and professionally. One of our key discussions centered around the concept of “saboteurs.” These negative mental patterns or behaviors act alongside an internal judge, sabotaging our growth and happiness. Jill identifies nine types of saboteurs: Controller, Restless, Stickler, Hyper-vigilant, Hyper-achiever, Pleaser, Victim, Avoider, and Hyper-rational. Each saboteur represents a strength overused. For example, the Controller needs to manage every outcome, while the Hyper-rational dismisses emotions, focusing solely on logical analysis. Building Mental Muscles Jill advocates for working out our mental muscles to combat these saboteurs. This involves recognizing saboteurs, using physical sensations to switch brain modes, and tapping into the “sage brain.” Physical sensations act like smaller moments of meditation, helping transition to a more positive mindset. Jill describes the five tools in the sage brain toolbox: Empathy, Explore, Innovate, Navigate, and Activate. Regularly practicing Positive Intelligence repetitions (PQ reps) can strengthen these mental muscles, making it easier to manage life's challenges without falling into negative patterns. Resources: Website: www.findyourclover.com Facebook Personal: https://www.facebook.com/jill.hendersonpeterson/?_rdr Facebook Business: https://www.facebook.com/cloverinsightsllc LinkedIn Personal: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jill-peterson/ LinkedIn Business:https://www.linkedin.com/company/clover-insights-llc/ Instagram Business: https://www.instagram.com/clover.insights/?hl=en We value your thoughts and feedback and would love to hear from you. Leave us a review on your favorite streaming platform to let us know what you want to hear more of. Here is a quick tutorial on how to leave us a rating and review on iTunes!
Send us a textHello, hello! I'm Dimple Thakrar, and welcome back to Beyond the Words! Today, we're diving into the powerful journey of learning to trust yourself. If you've ever struggled with self-doubt or ignoring that little inner voice, this episode is for you. I'll share my own experiences with trusting—and not trusting—my instincts, and the important lessons that came from it. Let's explore what it means to align with your truth and find peace in being your authentic self.Episode Summary:In this episode, Dimple Thakrar takes listeners on a personal journey exploring the essence of self-trust and the transformative impact it has on life decisions and relationships. Through candid stories, she reflects on times when she went against her intuition, leading to challenging outcomes. Dimple describes how trusting oneself—being in alignment with one's true nature—attracts more fulfilling experiences and genuine connections.Listeners are introduced to three archetypes that represent different ways of relating to oneself and others: the Pleaser, the Rebel, and the Sovereign. Dimple explains the tendencies of each archetype, from sacrificing one's needs to please others to reclaiming one's power by embodying the Sovereign, who can navigate chaos with inner calm. This framework helps listeners identify where they may be holding themselves back or blaming others for their unhappiness. Dimple shares insights on how moving through these archetypes can lead to self-awareness, peace, and resilience.The episode is a deep dive into self-reflection and growth, encouraging listeners to tune into their intuition and let go of responsibility for others' reactions. Dimple's message is one of empowerment, showing that true self-trust is about embracing discomfort and evolving beyond old patterns.Key Takeaways:Trust Begins Within: Genuine trust in others starts with self-trust. Trusting your intuition brings alignment and clarity.Recognize and Honor Your Archetype: Knowing if you're in the Pleaser, Rebel, or Sovereign mode helps you understand your responses and make empowered choices.Learn From Repeated Patterns: Life sends lessons repeatedly until we learn from them. Embracing these lessons helps shift towards greater self-awareness.Embrace Discomfort as a Growth Tool: Discomfort signals growth; rather than avoiding it, lean in to uncover deeper self-understanding.Choose Peace Over Control: The Sovereign archetype exemplifies self-responsibility, choosing calm and clarity even in challenging situations.Thank you so much for tuning in and joining me on this journey of trust and transformation. If this episode spoke to you, please leave a review or share it with someone who might need a reminder to trust their own instincts. Let's keep growing together—connect with me on social media to share your thoughts or ask any questions. Until next time, keep trusting, keep growing, and stay aligned with your truth. God bless! Dimple Thakrar Resource Links: Website: https://dimpleglobal.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dimple.thakrarInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dimplethakrar/
Are you losing yourself while supporting a loved one's addiction? Feeling overwhelmed, confused, and unsure of who you are anymore? In this powerful episode, addiction and relationship expert Heidi Rain helps you understand how addiction impacts both partners, revealing common roles like "The Fixer," "The Controller," and "The Pleaser" [01:59], that many fall into. Heidi shares how these roles lead to losing your identity and offers strategies for reclaiming your self-worth and setting healthy boundaries [04:41]. Discover the addictive attachment patterns and learn how to move from enduring problems to resolving them [04:33]. Stop the cycle and start living a life of joy and freedom. Take the first step towards healing and empowerment! Visit www.FamilyEmpowermentWarrior.com and www.HeidiRain.com for resources and support. Join addiction and relationship expert Heidi Rain as she helps you uncover how you lost yourself and how to get yourself back. ►For courses and to take Heidi Rain's attachment personality pattern test go here...
Pumpkin Pleasers are the bo diggity! Welcome to our post Hallow's Eve sexy podcast. We got a multiple orgasm guy. LIke in about 10 minutes. Crazy! Bravo! Triple split cock rings. No pee pee!! Oh goodness, we talk proper booty hygiene. How long is your tongue. Next time we measure, lol! Mitch tries some new Primal rings! We have come up with some new SDC webinars! We need to find more sexy party hotel takeovers in the area. Our schedule is freeing up! hehe! Happy Holiday Humpitations! Sally & Mitch sjerotica.com “We put the WHAT? in WTF?” Spotify- Youtube-
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The teasers have been hot for Cash the Ticket this season, will that continue? Download the latest episode of Cash the Ticket today. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Find out who Mike and Jim used in their teaser pleaser for week 4 of the NFL. Download and subscribe today. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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The teaser pleaser for week four of college football is here and this time Mike hit Jim with the Bully Corner. Download the latest episode of Cash the Ticket today. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Nick Pollard, Born in April of 1980, is a world-renowned coach and speaker specializing in People Pleasing, Codependency, and Addiction. With over 50 million views on his social media channels, Nick has become a thought leader in personal growth and change. He ranks in the top 10% of coaches worldwide. Nick had a (in his own words) less-than-ideal childhood. His father was an alcoholic, workaholic, se* abuser. The latter would later push Nick to his psychological end, which landed him in a hospital in 2009. After that, Nick struggled mightily to hold his life together but could not (or so he felt) battle the mounting demons and turned to drugs and alcohol to solve the problem. It did not solve the problem, and roughly 9 years later, a change had to be made. Nick willingly checked himself into rehab, and the PeopleDisPleaser was born. Since then, Nick has traveled the world, learning and helping others and communicating his journey. His love for seeing people grow and the "light bulb go on and then explode" is what he credits, his drive. Nick has been very successful in business, forming and selling many companies. His first entrepreneurial venture, at age ten, was door sales for his car wash company that would later net him enough money to buy fireworks for the Fourth of July. "My parents said we did not have any money. I knew that was a lie, but I went anyway. I have made my own money since." If you ask Nick what he feels the key to success is, he would say, "Do the work. It is not fashionable or even slightly pretty. Just do the work." He enjoys walking on the beach, working out, and traveling. When he is not on the road, he spends time with his two cats, Azula and Zuko, reading, and working. https://www.instagram.com/thepeopledispleaser/ To connect with Jason click the link below! https://stan.store/Jbirdfit Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary. https://988lifeline.org/
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The Cash the Ticket Teaser Pleaser is back for week 1 of college football. Find out what that play is on this episode of Cash the Ticket. Download and subscribe today. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Jenn may be a BaaaBaaaBadass but most of her remaining men are a bunch of sheep that need to be herded. And to help me scream into the void about it I'm joined by Claudia from The Rose Noire Podcast. Together we discuss how Jenn's vulnerability, The Devon Situation, and how Jesse Palmer shines. Huge thank you to Claudia and make sure you check out @rosenoire Follow us on insta @datecardpod Twitter @datecardpodcast Tiktok @datecardpodcast @jennawithasmile Art: Olivia Zakes Green https://www.oliviazakesgreen.com/ Music: Jed Overly @jeddyboyjames https://www.flowcode.com/page/jeddyjames Proud podcast of So Below Media
Ever wonder why some people seem to get walked all over while others stand strong? It all comes down to the boundaries we set—or fail to set. In this episode, we delve into the art of boundary-setting, exploring how psychological archetypes influence our ability to protect our personal space. Imagine a life where you’re crystal clear about how you want to be treated, taking consistent steps to ensure your needs are met without apology. Whether you resonate with the Caregiver, Pleaser, Hero, or Orphan archetype, understanding these patterns is the first step to mastering your boundaries and living a life aligned with your true self. We’ll explore practical strategies to identify your needs, communicate them assertively, and maintain your boundaries without guilt. This isn’t just about keeping negative influences at bay—it’s about defining who you are and standing firm in your truth. So, which archetype resonates with you? Join us as we unpack these insights and offer tools to help you navigate your relationships clearly and confidently. You can watch the video of the episode on YouTube Master AstroCoaching: The Comprehensive Toolkit for Foundational Success Workshop – https://bit.ly/44ZuGHE Grab a Copy of Catherine's Book: Shifts Only Happen Once You Own Your Sh!t Newsletter: https://catherineplano.com for transformation. Instagram: @catherineplano for inspiration.
Does your life please God? Join us this week as we take a look at why pleasing God is not just a good goal, it's our reason for living. Thanks for stopping by!
Have you ever gone all out to plan a perfect vacation only to be met with ungratefulness and rude behavior from your teens? Do you find yourself constantly trying to make your teens happy, often at the expense of your own needs and desires? In this episode, Colleen O'Grady explores the phenomenon of being a "teen" pleaser—a mom who seeks to satisfy her children, often neglecting her own well-being in the process. Colleen shares stories from several moms who faced disappointment after their efforts to please their teens were met with ingratitude. She discusses the inherent beauty in a mom's desire to please but warns of the pitfalls when this drive goes unchecked. The episode delves into the concept of "The Great Exchange," where moms expect their efforts to be met with gratitude and good behavior and what happens when that doesn't happen. Colleen identifies four key beliefs that can turn a mom into a pleaser: wanting to give their kids what they never had, feeling guilty, fearing their teen's anger, and believing it's selfish to prioritize themselves. The negative impacts of being a pleaser are highlighted, including feeling like a bad mom, disempowerment in parenting, and fostering entitlement in teens. Takeaways: Recognize and Reclaim Balance: Moms need to acknowledge where they are out of balance and start turning their attention back to themselves. This includes understanding their emotions, setting clear boundaries, and practicing self-care. Say No and Mean It: Learning to say no, even in small situations, helps strengthen the ability to set limits and regain control in the parent-child relationship. Seek Support: Finding a trusted confidant or engaging in coaching can provide the necessary support to break the cycle of being a pleaser and foster healthier family dynamics. By following these steps, moms can create a more balanced and empowered approach to parenting, ultimately benefiting both themselves and their teens. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
John is in the flesh and doing it live in the basement. We are excited for this episode because one of our producers, Sir John of the St. Clair Lowlands, has graciously donated what we hope is delicious whiskies and beers. Trust me we get very giddy when producers talk to us. John and Wes also discuss propaganda and how to not be affected by it. Cheers! Thank you to our producers! Sir John of the St. Clair Lowlands for the whiskies and beer and wonderful note! Kyrin of Mere Mortals Podcast - 230 sats Remember we are a Value 4 Value podcast! We need your support with your Time, Talents and Treasure! TREASURE: It's easy to financially support us and a few dollars help with hosting services and equipment depreciation. If you found any value in listening to this podcast, give some value back! Donate here: PayPal and Get Alby YOUR TIME: Tell others about us or reach out to us and leave comments!balderdashboys@protonmail.com We would love hearing from you! YOUR TALENT: We love our producers and if you have any special talent's that you think would help this podcast you enjoy be better, please share them with us!Our current needs: Jingles for some segments Any help with website or computer-technical stuff and such
On this day, the 13 anniversary of my first breast cancer diagnosis, I am reflecting on all the lessons I've learned about caring for myself and prioritizing my healing. I can't help but think about how often I've witnessed myself and my clients feel compelled to please others at the expense of their well-being. This tendency can lead to mistreatment or overextending yourself, even hindering your recovery and overall quality of life. The central message of this podcast is clear: true kindness towards oneself isn't solely about accommodating others at all costs, but rather about asserting boundaries with compassion and self-respect. I want to encourage you to recognize that setting boundaries is not selfish—it's a vital component of self-care and healing. You can cultivate resilience and foster a healthier, more sustainable recovery process by prioritizing your needs and limits. Listen now to gain insights into the transformative power of boundaries, and learn how these principles can empower you to advocate for yourself effectively. Let's talk about the journey from being a people-pleaser to becoming a protector of one's well-being. Your healing journey requires nurturing and self-respect. Referred to in this episode: Work with Laura Follow me on Social Media: Facebook Instagram Pinterest YouTube
Ever wrestled with the inner critics that seem to sabotage your success? Join me as I sit down with coaches Kiri and Francesca to explore this topic.We peel back the layers on three specific saboteurs—the Restless, Pleaser, and Hypervigilant—and share personal stories and strategies on how to recognize and manage these patterns. Throughout our conversation, Kiri, Francesca, and I open up about our unique journeys with our respective saboteurs, offering you tangible takeaways to apply in your own life. From the importance of focus and discipline in tackling the Restless saboteur, to setting boundaries and practicing self-care with the Pleaser, and repurposing the Hypervigilant into an unexpected strength—this episode is packed with wisdom to help you grow personally and professionally. Connect with us join our monthly LinkedIn Live events " Paths to Pleasant Places"Francesca Oduoza: https://www.linkedin.com/in/francesca-oduoza/Kiri McRae: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kiri-mcrae4coaching/Carol Clegg: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolclegg/I am your host Carol Clegg. As a coach, I help women in business explore fresh ways to focus on their projects, find the right tools for accountability and learn how to build a positive mindset which in turn allows for more empathy, for self and others.With my personalized accountability and progress coaching combined with the powerful Positive Intelligence program, you'll find ways to shift into an overall happy space. If you would like to take the complimentary Saboteur assessment, I offer a complimentary coaching session to explore your results. Take your assessment here or visit carolclegg.com BOOK your ✅ 30 minute complimentary exploration call HERE Connect on LinkedIn and Instagram or join my Facebook group "Mindset, Tips & Tools for Women in Business"
The Bible says that Jesus wasn't physically attractive, yet we know that many, many people flocked to Him in His earthly ministry. Why? Obviously, we could point to His powerful teaching and miracles. But, could it be that Jesus was the freest person to ever walk planet Earth? In this episode, Pastor Chris Kipp delivers a message entitled "Freedom In Action" based on a miraculous story found in Luke 13:10-17. Chris challenges us to consider how Jesus embodied freedom from the fear of man, freedom from the fear of death, and freedom from the fear of evil. Jesus invites us into His freedom. Renaissance Church - Richmond, Texas ren-church.org #alloflifealltheearth
Welcome to a brand-new Family Edition of The Tony Robbins Podcast! Join Tony Robbins, his wife Sage Robbins, and their dear friend and podcast host turned surrogate, Mary B., for an intimate, at-home conversation on the topic of CONSCIOUS PARENTING. In honor of Mother's Day 2024, Tony takes the interviewer's seat and talks to both Sage and Mary about the principles, strategies, tools, and learnings derived from their own journey as mothers. This enlightening conversation transcends traditional notions of parenting, as the trio explores the complexities of modern family dynamics. From blended families, stepparents, same-sex relationships, and co-parenting arrangements, Tony, Sage, and Mary discuss tips for how to make it work on the evolving landscape that is parenthood today. One of the highlights of this conversation is their working definition of MODERN CONSCIOUS PARENTING -- the shift from stress and fear-based parenting to an empowering and integrative awareness-based parenting. The family discuss the helpfulness of evolving from high-resistance parenting towards a more mindful, self-reflecting, and self-aware approach. By prioritizing both presence and connection, they explain how parents can create an environment that nurtures the growth of beautiful little human beings – an inside out job. The three also emphasize the significance of our language choices around children, advocating for curiosity over fury and mindfulness over fear. They also share personal anecdotes from their own experiences as parents, highlighting the impact of screen and other stimulus on children's emotional development, creativity, imagination and worldview. This episode offers invaluable insights for parents, prospective parents, and anyone interested in creating meaningful connections within their families. By embracing conscious parenting practices, Tony, Sage, and Mary invite listeners to embark on a journey of personal growth, self-discovery, and lasting harmony. Join us as we explore the transformative power of intentional parenting and discover how a slight shift in our focus can lead to profound changes with children and within ourselves! To watch this episode, you can go to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-mZ6I6OU-8 SHOW NOTES: 3:58 What is “Conscious Parenting” 6:52 Most parents are in survival 8:16 Genomic imprinting and intention for parents-to-be 11:23 Sage explains their modern family arrangement 13:44 Library Story - the impact of language on kids 17:44 Fiji happiness we can all model 17:49 Who's afraid of the dark? (And why) 22:43 Kids want to watch movies over and over and… 24:05 Rudolph Steiner, Waldorf dolls, passive toys/active kids 25:56 Mary B's galloping on straws story 27:09 Children's autonomy and decision making 31:05 Magda Gerber's respectful parenting 31:40 How to handle kids' big waves of emotion 33:14 Mary B's Parenting Hack: Broccoli or Mac-N-Cheese Game 35:47 Esther Perel's 7 Verbs that shape Intimacy 37:44 A wave has a beginning and an end 38:28 Dadda Tony Story: Context is everything 41:15 Read the Room 44:18 Disneyland Dads and dynamics of parenting partners 46:55 Card of the Week: Don't cave to her demands! 49:20 Becoming parents later in life 52:44 Daddy/Father and Mommy/Mother 57:41 Tony's disappearing thumb 59:40 Profound Knowledge: Set each other up to win 1:00:48 Mary B on The Terrible Twos 1:02:48 Sage on How To Apologize (after I trip her, or bump her, or…) 1:05:15 Captain and Co-Captain 1:06:44 Dial-in affection aggression (because they're so cute!) 1:08:25 Giving hierarchy to elders and combatting The Pleaser 1:12:12 Tony's Summary: Conscious Parenting Principles 1:15:20 Sage's Summary: The Dance of Parenting DELETED SCENES AND OUTTAKES: 1:21:20 #1 Story of Tony's 64th Birthday dinner, The Super Silly Tango on the potty, Polaroid pictures, and our ancestors 1:25:09 #2 Center yourself first. Especially when “stuff came out of her mouth” 1:32:03 #3 More on last night 1:33:26 #4 Led Zepplin and becoming our parents 1:33:55 #5 Babytalk, bright lights and big screens 1:34:44 #6 The Noticing Game 1:35:52 #7 “Dadda's a nakey baby!”
Aspirational Model Shifting MindsetEmotional Connection - Research in MESSY started at the beginning of the pandemic. There will always be the next crisis. Expectation of leaders - what's important? Professional veneer - leave our personal outside our workplace.Establishing themselves as larger than life.Authenticity - personal and professional are more blurred. Heart, Head, and Hands - Dr. Marvin BerkowitzPresence triangle - think about the other person and how you're delivering your message. Self-other-outsideTaking a deep breath, thinking about the relationship, moving to the perspective of the other individual. You matter, you're not alone. Schools need you. Coaching creates a confidential space. Challenges: courage, empowering and coaching others, taken servant leadership too far, influence others to change their practice, lack of confidence, slowing down and not reacting all the time. Pleaser and MartyrDe-implementationLeaders get things done through influence.This is a Choose Your Own Adventure style of book. Two voices in our heads - Judge and PessimistHow to be a transformative principal? Carve out time to reflect. • Meaning Making: Create a shared vision and engage others by collaborating more effectively.• Emotional Connection: Build deeper, more trusting relationships to give feedback and hold difficult conversations.• Sensing the Future: Think creatively and tackle entrenched school improvement problems through experimentation and innovation.• Seizing Momentum: Be proactive, gain control of how you prioritize your time, and embrace new ways of working.• Your Presence: Build confidence by identifying the barriers that hold you back and learning how to overcome them.About Alyssa GallagherAlyssa Gallagher is the author of the book Embracing MESSY Leadership: How the Experience of 20,000 School Leaders Can Transform You and Your School. She is also the Co-Head of BTS Spark, North America, for BTS Spark, a not-for profit practice focused on bringing executive level coaching to every school leader. She has extensive experience leading schools and districts to revolutionize learning for students. Under Alyssa's guidance Los Altos School District became a nationally recognized leader in education innovation with her work featured in Forbes, Wired, The Economist magazine and on CNN and CBS' 60 Minutes. After two decades working within k12 education, Alyssa led the global leadership practice for The Wiseman Group, co-designing executive development strategies to enable leaders to become better ‘multipliers' of their people's talent. Alyssa has worked with a wide spectrum of leaders, ranging from early career professionals in her local school district to seasoned executives in Fortune 500 Companies. Alyssa enjoys working with leaders to design strategies that leverage the capability, creativity and intelligence of everyone on their team. We're thrilled to be sponsored by IXL. IXL's comprehensive teaching and learning platform for math, language arts, science, and social studies is accelerating achievement in 95 of the top 100 U.S. school districts. Loved by teachers and backed by independent research from Johns Hopkins University, IXL can help you do the following and more:Simplify and streamline technologySave teachers' timeReliably meet Tier 1 standardsImprove student performance on state assessments
Join BOSS Anne Ganguzza, alongside guest co-host, Lau Lapides, as they explore the landscape of female entrepreneurship, including in the voiceover industry. Listen in as they discuss the historical and contemporary hurdles women have faced, from the 1950s through modern times. Lau shares her experiences in juggling motherhood and a professional career, providing a real-life perspective on the intricate dance of working from home with children. Anne discusses her non-traditional path to business success in the tech and VO industries. This conversation celebrates the resilience and creativity of women who are redefining success in their entrepreneurial journeys. 00:01 - Intro (Announcement) It's time to take your business to the next level, the boss level. These are the premier business owner strategies and successes being utilized by the industry's top talent today. Rock your business like a boss, a V-O boss. Now let's welcome your host, Anne Ganguzza. 00:20 - Anne (Host) Hey everyone, welcome to the V-O Boss podcast and the Boss Superpower series. I'm your host, Anne Ganguzza, and I'm here with my special, awfully lovely boss guest, co-host Law Lapides. 00:32 - Lau (Co-host) Oh, thank you, Annie, hey Lau. Thank you, hey. I'm excited about our topic today. 00:38 - Anne (Host) Well, yeah, so Law, I've been watching Lessons in Chemistry and that is on Apple Plus for those of you who have not seen it. But basically it takes place in the 1950s and the main character who is Elizabeth Zott? She has a dream of being a scientist and works in a lab, but she is constantly challenged by a society that says women belong in the domestic sphere. And I just watched the episode and I don't want to give away too many spoilers, but I'm going to give away one spoiler here. So, guys, if you want to watch it and you don't want to have a spoiler, just turn this down right now for sure. 01:14 So basically, she gets fired because she's pregnant. So now that I'm going to date myself. But I said to my husband, jerry, that doesn't make sense, they can't fire her for being pregnant. And he goes oh my gosh, back in that day they absolutely could. And I was like whoa, that just blew my mind and I thought, gosh, I think women have it hard now these days. And that's what I want to talk to you about Law, because I just want to talk about what it's like to be a female entrepreneur. And I want to talk to you because you're one of the best entrepreneurs I know. I mean, you run a studio, you're a talent agent, I'm a demo producer things that aren't typically prevalent, I guess, even now in today's day, for women to do so I thought we should talk about that today. 01:58 - Lau (Co-host) I love the leading lady subject. I just think it's one of my favorites Absolutely. And you're right about that Jerry's right about that Because I remember my mom talking a lot about that that even into the 80s, 90s and 2000s in corporate America there was something called the mommy track. So anyone who was training for financial advisor, accountant and such was very careful about what they said about getting married or having children, because they didn't want to be rerouted into the mommy track, meaning they're capped in every way. 02:33 - Anne (Host) They're capped on promotion, they're capped on salary, they're capped on all of this, they won't get their job when they come back. And it's funny because, now that you mentioned that, I do remember that in the 2000s and it's incredible to me. So here we are entrepreneurs, bosses, out there, you're entrepreneurs as well, and I don't think that this needs to be. This is certainly not a discussion where we're just going to be bitter and complaining. 02:55 However, I think we need to talk about some of the hardships of being an entrepreneur. First of all, being an entrepreneur is a hard thing. What sort of hardships have you encountered yourself, Law, and how have you overcome them? Because I think that we can learn a lot from that, from your story. 03:12 - Lau (Co-host) Such a great question, that's such a huge, open-ended question and the first vision Annie that came to my mind was a client that I work with, a coach on Zoom, and she's a mom and she has a couple younger ones, meaning under the age of like 12, a couple young kids, and when I'm coaching her as a voice over talent, the kids are running in and out of her studio, in and out of her booth, in and out of her curtain and one side of it she's a great mom, like she's really patient, she never yells, she's just great. But one side of me I have to be honest with you. I'm going to be honest with your people because they deserve it. One side of me thinks it's awesome because she can work from home, she can multitask, she can save money, she can still be a mom and be a good role model to them so they can see her working and being impassioned. The other side of me is irked, irked to death, because I'm thinking to myself you're not going to do that with a client, right? You're not going to do that if I represent you and send you out, and then your little kid is pulling down the curtain in the booth right, and I lose trust in that situation. I'm going to be honest. Maybe it's a non-PC thing to say, but that's how people think when it comes to running something. So is a fine line, I think, and I was one of those. 04:35 I raised two children. I was one of those moms where I raised them out of my studio. I actually homeschooled them as crazy as that sound. We had a whole village of people working with them and it was out of my studio and I was constantly multitasking the noise level. I'm killing each other, legos everywhere, them under the desk, and there was a beauty to the whole thing that there was this bonding that you could go through with them. And then there was a horror show as well, because it was embarrassing and there were clients there and some clients love the kids and others hate kids. 05:10 So it's like there are all these levels and layers to that kind of parental mindset, at least from my perspective, that you have to go through step by step, year by year, age by age, and it changes, and it changes often dramatically. It never stays the same Absolutely. And women, no matter how progressive the male is, whether they're a husband, a partner, a friend, whoever maybe they're working from home, maybe they're whatever I find more often than not with all my friends, all my female colleagues, it falls on them, the heavy falls on them. There is still this mindset in 2024, that I got to go to work, I got things to do, I got priority tasks, but because you're a female, you're so good, you can handle it all, you can do it. You take the reins while you're trying to run your business. 06:05 - Anne (Host) Sure, that's the thing, and I think that also there are many, I would say, women pioneers of many different things, and I am of the belief that, yes, women sometimes have to work three or four times harder in order to get any type of credit, and a lot of times there are women who pioneer things who never get credit and ultimately that is very frustrating and I find it even today, as progressive as we've become, I mean, there's still a long way to go, I think. 06:34 For number one, just to be an entrepreneur, I think it's looked upon in terms of, like gosh, when I was trying to get a loan when I worked for myself full time, I felt like I suffered a little bit of, I don't know, discrimination. It was very difficult to assure things like loans, where I feel as though a male counterpart would be able to get a loan a heck of a lot easier if they were an entrepreneur. Also, just getting ahead, I'm going to say that right now there's not a ton of demo producers that are females out there in the industry and I feel like it's tough trying to get noticed out there because there's not many of us out there, and then ultimately, it would be nice if there was recognition, maybe more recognition for the female demo producers out there and I'm just talking about demo producers, but just female, any entrepreneur out there and it wasn't that long ago, really, that women couldn't even get loans. 07:30 - Lau (Co-host) They couldn't even open a bank account without permission from their husband. It wasn't that long ago. So, when you think about just the freedom of being able to have credit go into debt, who would call that a freedom? But I mean the point is, it's like it's an independence as a business owner to be able to say, okay, here's what I'm investing in, here's what I'm incurring for debt, here are the accounts I'm going to do, here's my investments for retirement. And, as a woman, there's a tremendous freedom in independence, in being able to do that. It's not to say that you shouldn't have a team or a partner people helping you and working with you. It is to say, though, that you should take that right, and you should run with that ball and enjoy the right of being able to do these things that we could not do even 30 years ago some of those. 08:24 - Anne (Host) Well, I've spoken to people about this. We even had a podcast episode where we talked about what we did prior to our businesses today, and I was a female engineer in the late 1980s. That was kind of a tough road. And then I went into technology as a female and that was also a tough road, and so being a female entrepreneur is even tougher. Sometimes I'm finding certain things are difficult difficult for us to achieve, difficult for us to get recognition, difficult and, like you said, with the loans and all of that, it's just so interesting. So, la, what do you do to progress and move your business forward as a female? 09:04 - Lau (Co-host) entrepreneur. Yeah, it's a hard thing to answer. I mean, there's one technique that I found myself doing just kind of like, in an autonomic kind of way. It wasn't a planned thing, but I noticed there have been situations where I've been with many men or all male like. Let's say, I'm in a conference room or I'm online and I'm in a meeting and there happens to be very male heavy, which I adore, and I have, like you do, many, many male colleagues which I absolutely love working with. 09:30 But I find there's a different dynamic that happens in the way I communicate versus the way this kind of energy communicates, and oftentimes I find that I start to role play, or I'm either seen in a certain light or I start to role play, and usually it's like the role play of the mother, the wife, the sister, the whatever that I know. To some degree they're seeing me in just because of the qualities that I exude, sure, and I kind of role play with that meaning. You know, I don't play a character, but I role play in the sense that I know that they're looking at these qualities and I also know that there are times where they just bulldoze right over me like they literally won't hear what I'm saying because they're in the middle of their communication and I let that happen. I let that ride. I feel actually empowered by that because I know I have no problem. 10:24 This is a technique we always taught live presenters. I've no problem interrupting them culturally, doesn't matter to me whether it's appropriate or not. I have no problem talking right over them. And I found that in order to redirect energy, sometimes you have to be culturally rude as a woman, because you have to have your voice heard Absolutely. And you have to have that without and here's the thing we were talking about in the last podcast without ruining or stomping on their spirit, without making them feel like I'm at them or I'm hurting them or a threat. I think that there's a fine line, there's a strategy in that, like how you strategize, like being heard, inserting what you need to insert into listening attentively, but making sure you're not the daisy on the wall. You're not forgotten Absolutely. 11:15 And that's on us. I mean, it really is, that's on us. I could easily sit back and get really angry at that and say I can't even get a word in edgewise. Are they not listening to what I just said? Or whatever. Instead, I go in and I correct it. I go in and I redirect it. I go in and I do whatever action verb I can come up with, because I always view it as a teaching moment. Sure, it's a teaching moment where I can teach my audience how to communicate with me. 11:40 - Anne (Host) I love the redirection of it. Yeah, like you said, rather than getting angry or stomping on someone's ego, which it really is a lot of ego anyways, I know in the corporate world that's really what it played out to be. It was a lot of ego and a lot of times, if I was in the boardroom and I was the only female, or maybe one of two females first of all, they always wanted me to take notes or be the secretary. People would always say, well, yeah, you can be the secretary. 12:06 You can be the secretary of the board and I'm like actually I'll be the president. 12:10 - Lau (Co-host) I like that. 12:11 - Anne (Host) Right, and that's really how it worked. I was the president of a board and ultimately, they wanted me initially to be the secretary, and I said, well, yeah, no, no, I'm actually not a really good note taker, so I redirected the energy to say, you know, I'm just no. 12:26 I'm not fast. I'd love to be fast, but I'm not. I'm not fast at all. I type with four fingers. That's great, I love that and that's basically what happened. And so I love how you say to redirect it, because, yeah, I mean I don't necessarily want to stomp on anybody because, again, you take that risk of being looked upon as being the difficult one, the difficult one, the angry one, the witchy one, and honestly, you're darned if you do and you're darned if you don't. 12:50 Sometimes with that, that's right. But I like how you say you don't have any problems interrupting and redirecting. I think that's a great tactic. It's a good thing. 12:57 - Lau (Co-host) It's a good thing to learn how to do that. I also think another option for you and again I try to look at it take a step back and look at a strategy, a choice redefine the role. If someone says I want you to play this role in this moment and I'm like I don't want to play that role, or that's a typical role that they'd ask their mother to play, right, I might say yes to that, and the reason I'd say that yes to that is because I can do it. It's not a difficult thing for me to do. I want to be helpful. But then I'm going to redefine what the role is so the role does not become a passive role of like, in your case, a no-take or a stereotypical role, or get me a coffee, or I don't know whatever 13:34 that stereotypical thing is. I would want to play it as many of the female leaders political female leaders in the world, where they don't mind cooking for their colleagues, or maybe they'd get them a coffee, but then they're going to tell them exactly what the strategy is for the company or for the war or for the whatever. So if you do become that omnidynamic kind of person I don't know if you saw a Barbie you know the billion-dollar Barbie movie, right? But Barbie was always known as, at least in our time, was like. Barbie kept re-envisioning and redefining what a woman could be and evolving. 14:12 And evolving, and that's why we really liked Barbie or loved Barbie, because it wasn't just this one thing that you were in. 14:18 - Intro (Announcement) Absolutely. 14:19 - Lau (Co-host) It was really kept going and still today even keeps going, and I see it as that. I see it as I can make the choice to keep redefining the role that others see me in. 14:30 - Anne (Host) Yeah, and I love that. I love that so much, actually, and I think that, as entrepreneurs, right, take on the role and then create your own definition, or redefine the stereotypical definition Now, in terms of being seen right, being seen as a leader, right, being seen as an entrepreneurial leader. What sort of tips do you have for that? Because I like to say, when you redefine the role, you don't necessarily have to lead everyone, but you have to be seen as competent, as being as competent as everyone else within your role, right? Yes, so I am just as competent, if not more competent, as the role of a demo producer or the role of my Angangusa voice production company, as any other person, yes, I mean play to an audience at all times, even if it's an imaginary audience yes, the imaginary jury, so to speak, that I'm always a leader, whether someone is there or not, and I'm alone. 15:29 - Lau (Co-host) Love that I'm still a leader, or at least I perceive myself to be a leader. Sure, I don't want to lose the qualities of the leadership and the leader. I want to continue that role. I want to play it every day, I want to manifest that role. So, in essence, it feels at home to me, but it also keeps me practicing the role. It practices how I would react, how I would behave, how I would make problem-solving choices, how I would do all of these things. Because I know and this is what keeps us up at night, right as entrepreneurs is I know there's going to be difficulties and they're never going to end, and so I have to be able to face with courage and just say listen, I just am not always going to want that or like it or feel comfortable with it, and sometimes I'm going to be scared to death. Oh, yes, I have to feel the fear and do it anyway. I have to practice it. 16:20 - Anne (Host) Well, yeah, that's so wonderful, I mean, and that's just great advice for entrepreneurship in general is face the fear. And I think that, no matter what you're doing and just saying this, and having been in the industry a long time and mostly being in roles that were traditionally not female oriented, I had to, I think, work extra hard to educate myself so that I could prove to myself, first of all, that I could do it. And when I was able to do that, I gained the confidence in order to be able to manifest further progression and advancement. And again, like you said, you're the leader, whether people are looking or not. And so and it is scary my gosh I face fears every day, just as an entrepreneur, and sometimes even more as a female, because I don't know necessarily what I'm doing, when I'm defining a new role. 17:12 And so, therefore, I'm defining a new role. I'm going to educate myself as much as I possibly can about everything that surrounds that role. And if it's a role that hasn't been defined, then I need to educate myself on everything that is around that role that can help me to define it. And, of course, sometimes you just have to manifest it and you just have to take a leap of faith and say here it is, here is how I define it. And there you go and be confident in that, and that's scary as sh**t. 17:44 - Lau (Co-host) Law, and not only that, and as women, at least women from our you're like the fifth friend of mine, colleague of mine that we literally said the same exact thing over and over again the last week. That is, we are from a generation of really hard work ethic. We get up, we work, we do it, keep doing it. Forget about yourself, just do it do it. 18:05 Please, please others, be likable, be amenable. You know all these things which in essence is good. From a spiritual perspective it is good, but from a business perspective it can be very harmful, because when you do that, I want everybody to like me, law, I need your thing. It then becomes about you rather than about them, about the client. So I have to keep check of that all the time. 18:30 That's a fight I have too Pleaser, a very much a host type, and I don't want to lose that quality, but I don't want it to take the place of true grit and leadership and leadership of making sure that what I'm saying and what I'm doing is not being done for the wrong reason. 18:47 - Anne (Host) Yeah, I totally agree with you. There's a lot to be said about leadership and leadership qualities, and what does it take to be a good leader? Yes, to define roles that haven't previously existed. I think it takes definitely a lot of courage, and I think having people on your team, no matter who they are, can be super helpful in this, because it's a scary road, especially when you're doing things for the first time and they've not been done. And so having somebody to bounce off an idea to say, well, what do you think about this, do you think? 19:17 And not worrying, that's tough. Not necessarily worrying so much about what people will think will people like me? Especially because, yeah, I think you and I I'm people pleasers and, of course, I want people to like me and it really upsets me when people don't, and that's just an ingrained part of my personality. But I realized that if I want to be a leader and I want to break new ground and sometimes I will do that and not get any credit for it, and you know what that's okay, I have to figure out. Do I try to spend all my energy trying to get credit for it? Not necessarily, because for me, it's more about the education and the challenge to myself and then, ultimately, I believe, or I want to believe, that at some point people will recognize it, just because I've proven things over and, over and over again. Absolutely. 20:08 - Lau (Co-host) And I think many of us, in many fields, can concur with that, that feeling of like. I just said that, wait, I did that years ago. I actually did that. And this person is, you know, they're acting as if it's a first yes, and so I think that that is a generational thing as well, because it's like it reminds me of the joke of like when a younger generation gets married or they have children, they oftentimes feel like they're the first generation raising children, they're the first ones who understand how to be a good parent, they're the first ones that. And then the joke is always like, you know, by the third child, you can watch them. Yeah, it's fine, I don't even know what I'm doing, it's just so the idea of like, okay, I'll humor you, I'll allow you to think that you're the first one because maybe that's the phase you're in, but the reality is is we know it's never the first. 21:03 There's always so many people going through it in so many different ways. It's just who's discovering it, who's observing it and who's reporting on it. 21:12 - Anne (Host) Oh, that's so true, isn't it Like right? It's so funny because you're absolutely right, like we're all just trying to, we all just want to be loved, don't I always say? 21:21 - Intro (Announcement) that, like we all just want to be loved All of us. 21:23 - Anne (Host) As people, we all want to be given the credit that we feel is due to us, and sometimes it's not worth the effort If you've already been there, done that kind of thing. It's not necessarily the effort to bring it up, because sometimes that will look different to different people. Right, it could look catty, and so for me I try to just again. That's one of those it's mental games where you try just to like okay, you know what. I've done, that educated myself on this, and being angry or being bitter certainly doesn't allow me the energy to progress forward from this point on, and so it doesn't make sense to spend the energy on being bitter or being angry but, simply just using that energy to educate myself and move forward Yet again, to make myself the very best version of myself and my business that I can be. 22:17 Yeah time. 22:18 - Lau (Co-host) I really trust time. Time will teach all, time will definitely teach all. And I think that it's hard to generalize because we're also different in different cultures, different generations. But there is one thing I do believe many females have in common, and that's powerful, powerful instinct. And how we treat instinct. Is it real for us? Do we pay attention to it? Do we listen to it? Whether you think of it as a survival mechanism or you think of it as a spiritual guide, I really do feel strongly. It's a compass for us. Oh, gut instinct. 22:51 - Anne (Host) Absolutely. I love my life. I've got instinct, I know. 22:54 - Lau (Co-host) Yes, to know that something is right, something's wrong, something doesn't feel good, something is unsafe. I do believe a lot of female colleagues I have go very wrong when they don't listen to their instinct or they no longer hear the voice. 23:08 - Anne (Host) I think anybody. If they don't listen to their instinct, they don't trust it. Yeah, I mean anybody, certainly Anybody certainly you know what I mean. 23:15 - Lau (Co-host) But there is that built in thing with women. I totally agree. They're always looking out for the cubs. Even if they don't have cubs, you know, your cub may be your client, yeah. 23:25 - Anne (Host) Yeah, absolutely, Absolutely. That's so interesting that you say that because I think I've always in my lifetime I've always run my business and run my personal life by my instincts. I've always trusted it and it's never failed me so over and over again. And I think if you just trust it, just try it. If you're not used to that, try it and see what happens. And ultimately it's kind of like the first time you say no to a client who wants to not pay you what you're worth, right, and you just learn that negotiation tactic where you're like, yeah, that's great, I'm going to pass on this, and you find that you'll have the time to get a client that will pay you what you're worth and so that first no can be so powerful. Very similar to just having that power as an entrepreneur. 24:07 - Lau (Co-host) And isn't it ironic too that we want people to hire us for our voice, for our vocal delivery, but oftentimes we're not willing to listen to our own voice. 24:19 - Anne (Host) Yeah, so true. 24:20 - Lau (Co-host) Isn't that ironic when you think about that. So true. 24:23 - Anne (Host) So wise, very sage law, ooh, we like it Absolutely. 24:29 Good stuff, wow. So yeah, entrepreneurs, bosses, you've got this and we've got you. So, guys, really reach out to us, let us know what your struggles have been and how you've overcome them. We'd really love to hear that Also. Simple mission, big impact 100 voices one hour, $10,000. Guess what? Four times a year, visit 100voiceswhocareorg to learn more and to join us. Big shout out to our sponsor, ipdtl. You too can connect and network, like bosses and strong, powerful female entrepreneurs such as Law and myself. You guys have an amazing week and we'll see you next week. See you next week. 25:12 Awesome Bye. 25:15 - Intro (Announcement) Join us next week for another edition of VO Boss with your host, ann Gangusa, and take your business to the next level. Sign up for our mailing list at vobosscom and receive exclusive content, industry revolutionizing tips and strategies and new ways to rock your business like a boss. Redistribution with permission. Coast to coast connectivity via IPDTL hey Law. 25:43 - Anne (Host) Guess what time of year it is. 25:46 - Lau (Co-host) What time of year is it Ann? 25:48 - Anne (Host) Time for the audition demolition holiday Holiday. We're very jolly, so I can't wait for this edition of the holiday edition of the audition demolition Guys get your auditions in Live shows on December 14th and we've got some great scripts. Of course, they are holiday themes, so you guys are going to have a ton of fun. There is cash, there is swag, there are prizes. You guys get in on the fun, get in on the learning. It's only seven. How much is it? Law Shit? It's only oh. You don't need to say the price, do you? Well, I want to say that it's like. It's like it's the best gift. All right, let's try that again.
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