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Venerable Robina Courtin weaves a tapestry of modern Buddhist commentary as she illuminates this ancient spiritual path with humor, wit and intensity. This Buddhist program aims to give every listener an opportunity to ponder some of life’s deepest questions such as: “Why do bad and good things hap…

Ven. Robina Courtin


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    We conflate physical pain with anger (STTA 211)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2025 1:55


    Something To Think About Series #211 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Lama Tsongkhapa Meditation

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2025 32:56


    Start the day with your mind pointed in positive direction.

    A healthy way to think about death (STTA 210)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2025 0:56


    Something To Think About Series #210 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    The lack of contentment with who we are (STTA 209)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2025 1:00


    Something To Think About Series #209 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Overcoming Clinging (teaching)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2025 86:14


    Women of Wisdom series. According to Buddha, attachment – clinging, grasping, craving – is effectively the main source of our suffering in day-to-day life. Big surprise! We usually confuse it with love, which is necessarily altruistic, and is the source of our own happiness and the capacity to help others. Buddha's view of the mind describes two distinct categories of states of mind: the deluded, disturbing ones – such as attachment, anger, low self-esteem and the rest – and the virtuous, spacious ones – such as love, compassion, patience, and so on. ​ A key function of attachment and the other delusions, and the main reason they cause suffering, is that not only do they cause us pain but they actually cause the things, the events, the people out there to appear back to us, as Lama Zopa puts it, in a distorted way. Attachment causes things to look more delicious than they really are, anger causes things to appear more ugly than they really are. And the problem is we totally believe these appearances. This is what keeps us stuck in our misery. As we learn to doubt the way things appear to us, we are beginning to loosen the grip of ego-grasping, the root delusion, which misrepresents the very nature of self and everything else.  Tse Chen Ling, San Francisco, Thursday 27th March 2025. YouTube

    Impatience (STTA 208)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2025 1:16


    Something To Think About Series #208 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Patience is a brave attitude (STTA 207)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2025 1:19


    Something To Think About Series #207 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    A healthy sense of self (STTA 206)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2025 1:08


    Something To Think About Series #206 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    The feeling of a separate self (STTA 205)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2025 1:27


    Something To Think About Series #205 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    The irony of ego (STTA 204)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2025 0:44


    Something To Think About Series #204 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    How to Apply the Wisdom of Emptiness in Everyday Life (teaching)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2025 107:32


    We spend our lives being seduced by the outside world, believing completely that happiness and suffering come from “out there.” But “everything we experience is our own karmic appearance,” says Lama Zopa Rinpoche. “Everything is made up by our own minds.” By understanding emptiness — that everything occurs in dependence upon causes and conditions (in other words, karma) and that, crucially, there's nothing intrinsic in anything that makes it what it is — we can slowly loosen the grip of ego-grasping and begin to develop our marvelous potential for clarity, contentment, love, and the other qualities that Lord Buddha says are innate within us.

    We can't fix the world but we can do what we can (STTA 203)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2025 1:14


    Something To Think About Series #203 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Why do we suffer so terribly when we see suffering (STTA 202)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2025 1:12


    Something To Think About Series #202 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Changing our viewpoint (STTA 201)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2025 1:21


    Something To Think About Series #201 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Purification Practice (meditation)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2025 37:34


    In this short but powerful practice we apply the for opponent powers to purify our negative Karma. First, we take refuge, we rely on our trustworthy teacher, the Buddha, and the path he showed us. Then we regret all our negative actions, which only create obstacles on our path. And next we apply the remedy, in this practice it is the recitation of the Vajrasattva Mantra. To conclude, we apply the power of restraint; we make a pledge to do our best not to do these negative actions again.

    Try to paint a new picture (STTA 200)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2025 1:21


    Something To Think About Series #200 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    We want to be in charge of our lives (STTA 199)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2025 1:27


    Something To Think About Series #199 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Introduction to Tantra (Part 3 of 3 teaching)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2025 57:22


    Venerable Robina will give us the essence of the tantric path of practice, echoing Lama Yeshe's teachings as discussed in Introduction to Tantra. She will keep her teachings practical and immediately applicable.

    We can reinterpret external events (STTA 198)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2025 1:47


    Something To Think About Series #198 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    The contents of our mind (STTA 197)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2025 1:15


    Something To Think About Series #197 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    We need to focus on what is going on in the mind (STTA 196)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2025 1:22


    Something To Think About Series #196 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Wise compassion (STTA 195)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2025 1:19


    Something To Think About Series #195 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Medicine Buddha Mantra & Practice (Meditation)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2025 19:40


    Ven Robina leads a Medicine Buddha practice for the mother of one of the participants who had died that night. She introduces the visualization and mantra, and the benefits of this practice for those who are sick and dying. Lawudo Trek | March 22, 2019 | Monjo, Solu Khumbu https://www.lawudo-trek.org

    We harm others because we are freaking out (STTA 194)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2025 1:49


    Something To Think About Series #194 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    There are different levels of suffering (STTA 193)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 1:31


    Something To Think About Series #193 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Introduction to Tantra (Part 2 of 3 teaching)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2025 71:13


    Venerable Robina will give us the essence of the tantric path of practice, echoing Lama Yeshe's teachings as discussed in Introduction to Tantra. She will keep her teachings practical and immediately applicable.

    We grasp at things as permanent (STTA 192)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 1:10


    Something To Think About Series #192 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Death is a wake-up call (STTA 191)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2025 1:38


    Something To Think About Series #191 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    We need a spiritual mentor (STTA 190)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2025 0:56


    Something To Think About Series #190 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Controlling our Thoughts Meditation

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2025 30:50


    Start the day with your mind pointed in positive direction.

    The mind has much subtler levels of cognition (STTA 189)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2025 0:55


    Something To Think About Series #189 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Make the most of this precious human life (STTA 188)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2025 1:18


    Something To Think About Series #188 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Introduction to Tantra (Part 1 or 3 teaching)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 178:28


    Venerable Robina will give us the essence of the tantric path of practice, echoing Lama Yeshe's teachings as discussed in Introduction to Tantra. She will keep her teachings practical and immediately applicable.

    Uncontrolled behavior makes us miserable (STTA 187)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 1:50


    Something To Think About Series #187 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Living according to ethics (STTA 186)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2025 1:48


    Something To Think About Series #186 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Our need for approval is so strong (STTA 185)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2025 1:10


    Something To Think About Series #185 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Purifying our Speech Meditation

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2025 32:42


    Start the day with your mind pointed in positive direction.

    Reach out to others (STTA 184)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2025 0:55


    Something To Think About Series #184 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Chanting the Names of Manjushri (teaching)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2025 30:32


    Venerable Robina recites Chanting The Names Of Manjushri for the swift return of Lama Zopa Rinpoche, there are many benefits from reciting this text. A copy of the text can be found here 

    Learn to be fulfilled within ourselves (STTA 183)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 1:04


    Something To Think About Series #183 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Loneliness (STTA 182)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2025 1:37


    Something To Think About Series #182 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Buddha is your best cognitive behavioral therapist (STTA 181)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2025 1:26


    Something To Think About Series #181 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    We should learn to like problems like we like ice cream (Part 2 of 2 teaching)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2025 77:29


    Recognizing our Profound Potential series Learning to distinguish clearly between unhappy states of mind, such as anger, depression, and low self-esteem, and the upbeat states of mind, such as love, compassion, and confidence, that are actually at the core of our being, we are able to recognize and re-discover our profound innate potential. Shantideva Center - FPMT

    Karma is self-creation (STTA 180)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2025 1:26


    Something To Think About Series #180 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Self-confidence and pride (STTA 179)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2025 1:48


    Something To Think About Series #179 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    What is the Antidote to our Delusions? (Part 1 of 2 teaching)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 89:05


    Recognizing our Profound Potential series Learning to distinguish clearly between unhappy states of mind, such as anger, depression, and low self-esteem, and the upbeat states of mind, such as love, compassion, and confidence, that are actually at the core of our being, we are able to recognize and re-discover our profound innate potential. Shantideva Center - FPMT

    We can change our attitude towards physical pain (STTA 178)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 1:45


    Something To Think About Series #178 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    The best seeing is not seeing (STTA 177)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2025 0:58


    Something To Think About Series #177 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Do what you can right here right now (STTA 176)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2025 1:35


    Something To Think About Series #176 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    Why should I change my mind (STTA 175)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2025 1:16


    Something To Think About Series #175 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

    What to do when we hear about terrible suffering (STTA 174)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 1:00


    Something To Think About Series #174 Thought of the day from Venerable Robina Courtin

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