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Tenshin Roshi talks about case 53 from The Book of Equanimity, "Obaku's Dregs".
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Purpose is a factor of life that every man knows will improve his quality of life. Unfortunately, we seem to be in an era when purpose is increasingly abysmal in the lives of too many men. Men in all walks and stages of life are floundering around aimlessly, wondering why they're anxious, depressed, and alone. My guest today, Garrett Unclebach, former Navy SEAL, is a man who is intimately familiar with why and how purpose drives men to step up, take charge of their lives, and succeed. We unpack why a man must look beyond himself, how surrendering in certain circumstances could lead you to an incredible place you've never considered, the power of equanimity and how to cultivate it, why being faithful when you have nothing leads to a life of prosperity and abundance, and how to judge what you should be doing and who you should be doing it with. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:35 - Ryan's Recent Event in St. Louis 01:00 - Garrett's Men's Group and Camping Trip 02:40 - Developing Leaders and Train the Trainer 05:00 - Rewarding Leadership Moments 06:27 - Hunting Memories and Mentorship 07:16 - Family and Fatherhood 09:29 - Shared Hunting Experiences in Africa 11:25 - The Impossible Life and Control 12:32 - Mentoring Navy SEAL Tadpoles 14:46 - Finding Peace Beyond Outcomes 16:39 - Balancing Heart and Consequences 19:10 - Joseph's Dream and Purpose 22:35 - Discovering Purpose Through Heart and Hand 25:09 - God's Plan and Personal Growth 26:51 - The Question Every Man Asks 29:31 - The Power of Perspective and Beliefs 32:43 - Faith, Works, and Serving Others 35:57 - Transformation Over Behavioral Change 39:13 - Balancing Service and Personal Fulfillment 42:09- Living and Dying for Purpose 45:01 - Equanimity and Staying Under the Weight 47:35 - Taking Responsibility for Choices 49:32 - The Mindset of Inevitability 52:30 - Resilience vs. Delusion 56:33 - Learning from Scars and Pain 58:09 - Chip on the Shoulder Mentality 01:01:28 - Purpose Over Temporary Identity 01:03:13 - Mission vs. Vision 01:05:22 - Connecting with Garrett and Closing Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
Pyrrho of Elis (c. 360–270 BCE) was an ancient Greek philosopher and founder of Pyrrhonism, a school of philosophical skepticism. He advocated for epoché (suspension of judgment) as a path to ataraxia (peace of mind). Influenced by his travels to India with Alexander the Great, Pyrrho believed that nothing could be definitively known and that by refraining from beliefs, one could achieve tranquility. His teachings laid the foundation for later skeptical thought in philosophy and medicine.
Consider the profound teachings of the Lokavipati sutta. Drawing from the wisdom of the Buddha, Margaret reveals how our responses to the eight worldly conditions—gain and loss, status and disgrace, censure and praise, pleasure and pain—shape our experiences of suffering and peace. As she delves into these vicissitudes, she encourages listeners to reflect on their judgments and reactions to life's inevitable ups and downs. This sutta emphasizes the distinction between the uninstructed person and the well-instructed disciple of the Noble Ones, highlighting the importance of mindfulness and awareness in navigating life's challenges. Margaret encourages us to embrace impermanence, reminding us that our thoughts and feelings about gain or loss, praise or censure, and pleasure or pain are often transient and subject to change. Through engaging discourse and insightful reflections, this episode serves as a powerful reminder that equanimity can be cultivated, allowing us to confront life's dualities with grace and understanding. Join Margaret on this journey of contemplation and self-discovery, as she invites you to consider how embracing impermanence can lead to deeper peace and freedom from suffering. Whether you're new to Buddhist teachings or looking to deepen your understanding of equanimity, this episode promises valuable insights and practical wisdom for living a balanced life. Tune in, reflect, and carry these teachings with you throughout your week.
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Drawing from the insightful article by J. David Cresswell, "Learning to Accept Discomfort Could Help You Thrive," published in Scientific American, Margaret explores the transformative power of embracing discomfort as a pathway to achieving equanimity. In a world that often feels chaotic and beyond our control, this episode serves as a timely reminder that finding balance and peace is not only possible but essential for personal growth. Margaret begins by sharing an anecdote highlighting an extraordinary case where an individual faced a painful dental procedure without anesthesia, instead relying on mindfulness and equanimity to transform his experience. This story sets the stage for a deeper conversation about the benefits of turning toward our discomforts rather than shying away from them. She delves into studies that reveal how accepting negative emotions can lead to greater satisfaction and less anxiety. These findings resonate with the heart of the Dharma, illustrating that when we cultivate a mental attitude of acceptance, we not only improve our personal well-being but also enhance our interactions with others. Join Margaret on this reflective journey as she shares valuable tools and practices to help listeners develop equanimity in the face of life's inevitable challenges.
Can you really protest mindfully? In this podcast, Bhante Sathi explores the role of compassion in activism and discusses how to balance self-protection with altruism in the pursuit of change. Triple Gem of the North is a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing accessibility to those seeking mindfulness and meditation. If you would like to support our efforts, please feel free to click on the link below. Any amount is greatly appreciated. We wouldn't be here without you and your support! https://www.paypal.com/donate?token=REpssFhPJ37UcC02cV0sfgQuThMfKUdgi9J4TvWS-u4SeG3V0KfnW3VQ_nUvIwOAQBu9Ou9kpYfI0tp9
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Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center: dharma talks and meditation instruction
(Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center) In this guided practice period, we explore two aspects of equanimity - non-reactivity towards our moment-to-moment experience and acceptance and non-control towards the experiences of those we love.
Mikey Livid offers a talk on the Third Noble Truth: awakening is possible. He also discusses a Buddhist concept of the saying "Let Go, Let God." Enjoy!Loving Kindness Meditation Retreat July 16th-20th in Sewanee, TN: https://www.floweringlotusmeditation.org/2025-tennesee-summer-loving-kindness-retreat Wild Heart Meditation Center in a non-profit Buddhist community based in Nashville, TN. https://www.wildheartmeditationcenter.orgDONATE: If you feel moved to support WHMC financially please visit:https://www.wildheartmeditationcenter.org/donateFollow Us on Socials!Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WildHeartNashville/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wildheartnashville/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wildheartmeditation
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Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center: dharma talks and meditation instruction
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Listeners will discover how equanimity functions as a stabilizing force in our emotional lives. Margaret emphasizes that it allows us to experience deep compassion, loving-kindness, and joyousness without being overwhelmed by our feelings. By observing our reactions to the roadside scenarios—where a stranger elicits mild compassion, a neighbor stirs more involvement, and a best friend creates profound emotional turbulence—she elucidates the varying shades of our emotional engagement and the importance of a balanced response. Throughout the discussion, Margaret stresses the importance of "not self" (non-attachment) as a foundational practice for cultivating equanimity. This practice encourages us to observe situations with clarity and discernment, freeing us from being engulfed by our emotions. She also highlights that true compassion encompasses both emotional understanding and practical actions, such as offering assistance to those in need. Importantly, equanimity does not imply cold detachment; rather, it invites a mindful approach to life's challenges, providing us with the tools to navigate our emotions with grace.
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What does it mean to lead with calm amidst chaos? Why is equanimity so essential for leaders navigating complexity, conflict, and constant change? And how can leaders cultivate this inner steadiness without becoming detached or indifferent? In this week's episode of The Behaviorist, Kedren Crosby sits down with Jenna Cramer, President & CEO of Green Building Alliance, and Joe McMonagle, Chief Business Development Officer at ATOMIC, to discuss the powerful, yet often elusive, leadership trait of equanimity. To learn more about Work Wisdom, visit our website at www.workwisdomllc.com and follow us on LinkedIn and Instagram (@workwisdom).
(Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge) Equanimity can be a dynamic balancing between the ups and downs of our lives. We also explore working with worry and the joy and wonder of equanimity.
Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge: dharma talks and meditation instruction
(Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge) Equanimity can be a dynamic balancing between the ups and downs of our lives. We also explore working with worry and the joy and wonder of equanimity.
Dharma Seed - dharmaseed.org: dharma talks and meditation instruction
(Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge) Equanimity can be a dynamic balancing between the ups and downs of our lives. We also explore working with worry and the joy and wonder of equanimity.
In this episode, Margaret revisits the concept of equanimity, presenting it not just as a serene state of mind but as an essential practice that helps us respond wisely to life's fluctuations. Life's ups and downs can feel overwhelming, but Margaret offers strategies for maintaining our grounding amidst the emotional tides. She delves into the Buddhist teachings of karma and the idea of “not-self,” encouraging listeners to recognize that our experiences—both joyful and sorrowful—are intertwined with our actions and the actions of others. This understanding can be liberating, allowing us to embrace our life's circumstances without fear. Equanimity, as Margaret explains, is not about indifference or detachment; rather, it is the capacity to engage with both joy and suffering without being swept away by them. Through thoughtful meditation practices and reflective insights, she illustrates how we can nurture this sense of balance, fostering a compassionate heart that remains steady even when faced with turmoil. This season of the podcast invites you to explore your capacity for equanimity, helping you to cultivate a deeper understanding of yourself and your responses to the world around you. Tune in for an enriching conversation that promises to inspire and guide you toward a more balanced and peaceful existence.
Start the day with your mind pointed in a positive direction. No bells or whistles, just bliss.
(Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge) Practice "being equally near" all aspects of our bodies, minds, and emotions.
(Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge) Equanimity and the Brahma-viharas balance each other and bring about their full expression.
Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge: dharma talks and meditation instruction
(Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge) Equanimity and the Brahma-viharas balance each other and bring about their full expression.
Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge: dharma talks and meditation instruction
(Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge) Practice "being equally near" all aspects of our bodies, minds, and emotions.
Dharma Seed - dharmaseed.org: dharma talks and meditation instruction
(Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge) Equanimity and the Brahma-viharas balance each other and bring about their full expression.
Dharma Seed - dharmaseed.org: dharma talks and meditation instruction
(Insight Meditation Society - Forest Refuge) Practice "being equally near" all aspects of our bodies, minds, and emotions.
Juan has moved house and I'm getting ready to go travelling.In Episode #481 of 'Musings', Juan and I discuss: the challenges and transitions of moving homes, the importance of maintaining a balanced state of mind amidst life's chaos, the idea of ataraxia (a state of serene calmness and freedom from emotional disturbance) and the balance between feeling emotions and striving for equanimity.We really appreciate any support you wish to provide to the Mere Mortals :)Timeline:(00:00:00) Intro(00:01:28) Life Updates & Moving Experiences(00:05:16) Exploring Crypto & NFTs(00:09:19) Podcast Consistency/Future Plans(00:13:21) Finding Equanimity(00:20:22) The Concept of Ataraxia(00:27:29) The Role of Forgetting in Life(00:35:49) The Benefits of Equanimity(00:42:11) Challenges and Personal Growth(00:47:17) Concluding Thoughts on Equanimity(00:49:20) Boostagram Lounge Connect with Mere Mortals:Website: https://www.meremortalspodcast.com/Discord: https://discord.gg/jjfq9eGReUTwitter/X: https://twitter.com/meremortalspodsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/meremortalspodcasts/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@meremortalspodcastsValue 4 Value Support:Boostagram: https://www.meremortalspodcast.com/supportPaypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/meremortalspodcast
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the complexities of human relationships? You're not alone. In a world filled with challenges, the Brahmaviharas offer us a lifeline—four divine abodes that can transform our interactions and elevate our spirits. In the latest episode of the Death Dhamma podcast, host Margaret Meloni invites us on a journey through the heart of compassion. She illuminates the path of Metta, Karuna, Mudita, and Upeka—concepts that aren't just philosophical; they're practical tools for navigating the stormy seas of modern life.
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(Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center) Exploration of Equanimity Brahmavihara and guided meditation.
This talk was given by Gil Fronsdal on 2025.04.16 at the Insight Meditation Center in Redwood City, CA. ******* Video of this talk is available at: https://youtube.com/live/rw4FFEWTbo4. ******* For more talks like this, visit AudioDharma.org ******* If you have enjoyed this talk, please consider supporting AudioDharma with a donation at https://www.audiodharma.org/donate/. ******* This talk is licensed by a Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-No Derivative Works 4.0 License
This talk was given by Gil Fronsdal on 2025.04.16 at the Insight Meditation Center in Redwood City, CA. ******* Video of this talk is available at: https://youtube.com/live/rw4FFEWTbo4. ******* For more talks like this, visit AudioDharma.org ******* If you have enjoyed this talk, please consider supporting AudioDharma with a donation at https://www.audiodharma.org/donate/. ******* This talk is licensed by a Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-No Derivative Works 4.0 License
Dan Harris interviews Sam Harris for Dan's podcast, 10% Happier. They discuss how meditation helped Sam after evacuating his home during the LA fires, why Sam owns a gun, the ethics of violence, how to feel compassion for your political opponents, why it doesn't make sense to “hate” anyone, free will and determinism, psychedelics, the importance of training your mind, and other topics. If the Making Sense podcast logo in your player is BLACK, you can SUBSCRIBE to gain access to all full-length episodes at samharris.org/subscribe. Learning how to train your mind is the single greatest investment you can make in life. That's why Sam Harris created the Waking Up app. From rational mindfulness practice to lessons on some of life's most important topics, join Sam as he demystifies the practice of meditation and explores the theory behind it.
An old friend (and my spiritual brother) discusses some of the most important things he's ever learned. Sam Harris is a neuroscientist, author, podcaster and the proprietor of Waking Up, a top-notch meditation app with amazing teachers and a ton of courses for all levels. If you subscribe via this link: wakingup.com/tenpercent, you'll get a 30-day free trial—and you'll be supporting the 10% Happier team, too. Full and partial scholarships are available. In this episode we talk about: How to maintain equanimity in shitty situations How to have compassion – or at least non-hatred – for people you disagree with politically The illusion of free will and its relationship with compassion The difference between dualistic and non-dualistic mindfulness The concept of having no head Why meditating with your eyes open can be super helpful And much more Join Dan's online community here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel Additional Resources: On Having No Head
(Gaia House) The imperfectly perfect teacher: the Buddha's hesitation to teach, a lifelong ambivalence between blissful solitude and human engagement, the human & vs the ideal Buddha. How unconditioned can awakening really be? How perfectionistic are we? Equanimity not as flawless calm but as the ability to hold fluctuations with gentleness.
Maddie Finn offers a talk on equanimity (upekkha) as a part of a talk on the seven factors of awakening. The seven factors are: mindfulness, investigation, energy, joy, tranquility, concentration, and equanimity. Enjoy!Loving Kindness Meditation Retreat July 16th-20th: https://www.floweringlotusmeditation.org/2025-tennesee-summer-loving-kindness-retreat Wild Heart Meditation Center in a non-profit Buddhist community based in Nashville, TN. https://www.wildheartmeditationcenter.orgDONATE: If you feel moved to support WHMC financially please visit:https://www.wildheartmeditationcenter.org/donateFollow Us on Socials!Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WildHeartNashville/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wildheartnashville/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wildheartmeditation
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After tariffs were broadly imposed by the current American regime (including, apparently on uninhabited islands populated mostly by penguins) causing a nearly unprecedented crash of the stock market, and after attending the lovely and unexpectedly massive protest marches that took place on April 5, Ethan ponders how to deal with extreme states of mind with a world on a roller coaster marked by fear and greed. The key, he says, is to be able to differentiate between arising mental emotions and the awareness that contains and welcomes them, and then to continuously generate compassion for all human beings. He offers two simple questions we can each ask ourselves when we encounter intense states of mind as humanity's roller coaster ride become increasingly topsy turvy—and perhaps increasingly hopeful—in the months ahead. Please support the podcast via Substack and subscribe for free or with small monthly contributions. Paid subscribers will receive occasional extras like guided meditations, extra podcast episodes and more! Check out all the cool offerings at our sponsor Dharma Moon. Free video courses, such as The Three Marks of Existence, are also available for download. Notes: To find further explanation of the eight worldly winds, check out Ethan's latest book Confidence: Holding Your Seat Through Life's Eight Worldly Winds or the adapted essay in Lion's Roar Magazine.
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(Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center) Introduction and guided meditation
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center: dharma talks and meditation instruction
(Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center) Introduction and guided meditation
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In this brief reflection, Mary discusses the Buddha's teaching on the Eight Worldly Winds and how appropriate it is for today's world. Equanimity invites us to an appropriate response to whatever experience we have and when we understand the teaching of the winds and how we're driven by them if we don't pay attention, there is a chance for liberation. The roller coaster calms when we see things as they are and don't take it all so personally.Recorded March 22, 2025 in the virtual worldSend me a text with any questions or comments!Visit Mary's website for more info on classes and teachings.
You can have all the success in the world, but if you're not free, what's the point? Too many entrepreneurs build a life that looks great on the outside but feels empty on the inside. If you've ever hit a big milestone and still felt unfulfilled, this episode is for you.Today, I sit down with Keren Eldad, high-performance coach for founders and CEOs, bestselling author of Gilded, and an expert in breaking people out of the toxic cycle of external validation.We dive deep into:What the “gilded cage” is and how it keeps high achievers stuckThe dangerous trap of chasing external validationWhy comparison—even to your past self—is the thief of joyThe three key pillars of personal mastery: self-compassion, authenticity, and equanimityHow to shift from playing “not to lose” to playing to WINThe three most powerful questions that will instantly shift your mindsetIf you've ever felt like you're chasing success but still feel trapped, this episode will help you break free and redefine what winning truly looks like.Key Takeaways✔️Success isn't just about achievements—it's about how free you feel in the process.✔️If you're playing to avoid failure instead of playing to win, you're already losing.✔️Self-compassion is the foundation of success. Stop beating yourself up and start speaking to yourself with kindness.✔️Authenticity means aligning your thoughts, feelings, and actions—without making Faustian bargains.✔️Equanimity (staying calm and unreactive) is your greatest business asset.✔️The three mindset-shifting questions you must ask in any challenge:Is the problem the problem, or is my response the problem?Is there another way to see this?Where is the opportunity in this situation?Timestamps[00:00] – Why success alone won't set you free[02:00] – The Gilded Cage: How high achievers get trapped[06:30] – How to stop chasing external validation and redefine success[10:00] – Why comparison—especially to your past self—steals your joy[14:00] – The 3 pillars of personal mastery: self-compassion, authenticity, equanimity[18:30] – How to stop reacting and start responding with clarity[22:00] – Playing to win vs. playing not to lose—why it matters[30:00] – The 3 questions that will instantly shift your mindset[38:00] – How to implement these shifts in your business and leadership[42:00] – Final thoughts: The key to freedom as an entrepreneurChoose Your Next StepsThis week, I want you to:Pick one of the 3 mindset-shifting questions and use it in your business.Practice self-compassion—notice when you're being too hard on yourself and shift the narrative.DM me or tag me on Instagram @itsGeorgeBryant and let me know which insight from this episode hit you the hardest.Resources Mentioned In This EpisodeSpecial Announcement: Keren's New Book!Want to go deeper into breaking free from the Gilded Cage? Grab Keren Eldad's new book Gilded, a #1 new release in business management and a Forbes top read of the year.
Just like all the water in the ocean can't sink a ship unless the water gets inside the boat, all the negativity and toxicity in the world won't bring you down unless you let it in. Mindfulness doesn't make other people less irritating, it makes us less irritable. So, if you are still irritable, then you still have work to do. Part of that work involves no longer waiting for the world to accommodate your preferences or reacting when things don't go your way.
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Offering deeper insight into equanimity, Joseph Goldstein explains the benefit of maintaining mental equilibrium at all times.The Satipatthana Sutta is one of the most celebrated and widely studied discourses in the Pāli Canon of Theravada Buddhism. This episode is the thirty-fifth part of an in-depth 48-part weekly lecture series from Joseph Goldstein that delves into every aspect of the Satipatthana Sutta. If you are just now jumping into the Satipatthana Sutta series, listen to Insight Hour Ep. 203 to follow along and get the full experience!This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/insighthour and get on your way to being your best self.In this episode, Joseph elucidates:The universal beautiful factors of mindEquanimity as total neutrality of mindMaintaining equilibrium and being unaffected by events and emotionsHow equanimity is born out of concentration and secluding the mind from hindrancesThe ups and downs of life that we all faceTreating others with impartiality whether they praise us or blame usAbiding compassionately for the welfare of all peopleRecognizing the dissolution of all things in realityRelating to all things as if they have already changedDeveloping equanimity through inclining our mind towards neutralityGrab a copy of the book Joseph references throughout this series, Satipaṭṭhāna: The Direct Path to Realization, HEREThis talk was originally published on Dharmaseed“The characteristic of equanimity is evenness of mind. When it is highly developed, it manifests as an unshakable balance. It is a mind that's not moved. It serves to prevent either excess or deficiency of the other factors of awakening.” – Joseph GoldsteinSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Part 4: Equanimity - unfolds as we find a wise balance and spaciousness in the midst of this living, dying world. This series reflects on four primary expressions of an awake, wise heart: lovingkindness, compassion, joy and equanimity. In each talk we explore the habitual patterning that blocks our full realization of these innate capacities, and the understandings and practices that nurture their unfolding. In this talk, Tara explores: A Heart Ready for Anything – Practical reflections and meditations to cultivate equanimity in relationships and daily life. The Wisdom of Equanimity – How balance and spacious awareness free us from reactivity and deepen our capacity for love. Equanimity as the Ground for Compassion – The role of equanimity in keeping love from contracting into attachment and compassion from turning into pity. Navigating Emotional Waves – The metaphor of the ocean and waves to cultivate presence amidst life's inevitable challenges. The Shadow Side of Equanimity – How indifference can masquerade as equanimity and the importance of staying engaged with life.