Podcasts about emotional awareness

Most chronic pain care ignores one of the most powerful drivers of symptoms: our emotions.In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Mark Lumley, a leading researcher in Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy (EAET), to explore how unprocessed emotions, trauma, and life stressors can directly influence pain — and what to do about it.We break down:-The differences and overlaps between EAET and Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT)-How to help patients shift from body-focused to brain-focused views of pain-Cultural and healthcare system barriers to addressing emotions in           pain care-Practical, evidence-based strategies for clinicians and patients-Where the research is heading — and what it means for the future of pain treatmentResources Mentioned: • Dr. Mark Lumley's University Page • Howard Schubiner's Unlearn Your Pain • Association for the Treatment of Neuroplastic Symptoms (ATNS)

Kgomotso Modise, standing in for Gugs Mhlungu, speaks to Dr Khosi Jiyane, Resident Clinical Psychology, to explore the emotional significance of blocking or unblocking someone on social media. These actions can have a profound impact on our relationships and emotional well-being. 702 Weekend Breakfast with Gugs Mhlungu is broadcast on 702, a Johannesburg based talk radio station, on Saturdays and Sundays Gugs Mhlungu gets you ready for the weekend each Saturday and Sunday morning on 702. She is your weekend wake-up companion, with all you need to know for your weekend. The topics Gugs covers range from lifestyle, family, health, and fitness to books, motoring, cooking, culture, and what is happening on the weekend in 702land. Thank you for listening to a podcast from 702 Weekend Breakfast with Gugs Mhlungu. Listen live on Primedia+ on Saturdays and Sundays from 06:00 and 10:00 (SA Time) to Weekend Breakfast with Gugs Mhlungu broadcast on 702 https://buff.ly/gk3y0Kj For more from the show go to https://buff.ly/u3Sf7Zy or find all the catch-up podcasts here https://buff.ly/BIXS7AL Subscribe to the 702 daily and weekly newsletters https://buff.ly/v5mfetc Follow us on social media: 702 on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TalkRadio702 702 on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talkradio702 702 on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkradio702/ 702 on X: https://x.com/Radio702 702 on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radio702 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this heart-opening episode, H. Lee Shapiro—a true renaissance man and long-time relationship counselor—shares his personal and professional journey into the art of resolving conflict with compassion. With 45 years of experience helping people heal and grow through relationship struggles, Lee offers practical tools for navigating tough conversations, setting boundaries, and embracing the power of “do-overs.” We explore the difference between requests and demands, and how creating emotional safety can turn pain into connection.Lee's background is as inspiring as his insights—he's also an engineer, former hospital administrator, artist, author, and nationally recognized watercolorist, best known for illustrating the beloved children's classic There's No Such Place as Far Away by Richard Bach. He now leads seminars and recently released his new book, The Art of Melting Conflict in All Relationships. This episode is full of wisdom for anyone walking through change, longing for deeper connection, or ready to shift from conflict into clarity.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Lee and His Journey04:15 Understanding Conflict and Communication07:06 Emotional Awareness and Self-Reflection10:28 The Dynamics of Control in Relationships13:18 Navigating Power Struggles16:10 Techniques for Effective Communication19:04 The Importance of Active Listening22:28 The Power of Do-Overs in Relationships25:23 Setting Boundaries and Recognizing Abuse28:07 Finding Clarity and Connection31:26 Compassion and Conflict Resolution34:17 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsConnect with Leehleeshapiro.comConnect With Live Free Wellness⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠linktr.ee/lvfree⁠⁠

In this episode, Roane and Ben sit down for an honest update on Ben's recent health challenges. Ben shares the journey from his 1997 cancer diagnosis to the long-term effects he's facing today, including the discovery that most of his pancreas has shut down and the upcoming surgery to address it. They discuss how faith, community, and emotional awareness are shaping the way he navigates this season, and why honesty in the midst of hardship matters. It's a candid conversation about fear, trust, control, and living with purpose when the future is uncertain. To learn more about the Sex, God, & Chaos team, click the link below: www.sexgodchaos.com Looking for help? Book an appointment with LifeWorks Counseling today: www.lifeworks.ms You can purchase your copy of Sex, God, & Chaos here: www.amazon.com

Are your stress habits helping—or hurting—your relationship? Let's talk real-life coping skills that build connection.In this episode, we dive deep into healthy ways to deal with stress—without taking it out on your spouse, kids, or friends. Whether it's decompressing in your car, taking alone time, or praying through the pressure, we unpack tools that keep you grounded and grace-filled. You'll hear practical tips, honest struggles, and how we've learned (the hard way) to be self-aware and spirit-led in high-stress moments. Let's grow in emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity—so we can show up whole, not harsh.

Host Randy Goruk's guest on this episode is Randy Lyman, an entrepreneur, emotional mastery expert and author. Mr. Lyman discusses his journey from a left-brain, business-focused background to incorporating emotional intelligence into his leadership style. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, emotional regulation, and building long-term relationships. He highlights the need for leaders to be vulnerable, ask for input, and create a respectful, cohesive team environment. He shares practical tips, such as using body language awareness and encouraging team members to express their ideas. Lyman also stresses the significance of values and morals in business, which can provide a competitive advantage and foster a positive company culture. In this episode you will learn: How emotional intelligence has changed the way leaders approach their teams and their business. The role of self-awareness in building long-term customer relationships. How leaders can improve their ability to read non-verbal cues from their teams. The biggest mistakes leaders of sales teams make. What gives a sales team the edge in a competitive distribution landscape. Advice for a new sales manager trying to develop a high-performing team. What it looks like when an emotionally intelligent sales culture is thriving within a company. The trends that will shape the future of sales in distribution over the next 5 years. The value in investing in listening and coaching. Website: https://randylyman.com/

This week on the Do Good to Lead Well podcast I am joined by Martin Dubin, a seasoned clinical psychologist and business coach. We discuss his recently released book, "Blindspotting: How to See What's Holding You Back as a Leader." Martin's rich experience with 360-degree feedback highlights how a leader's strengths can sometimes inadvertently become weaknesses and why a heightened self-awareness is key in maintaining a balanced approach.We also tackle the complex web of unconscious biases and leadership blind spots, identifying six specific types that can impact our effectiveness. This engaging discussion anchors itself in a psychological model focused on the core motives driving behavior, with special attention to the needs for power, affiliation, and achievement. Martin touches on identity blind spots, where a disconnect between one's role and self-perception can create challenges, especially during transitions from individual contributor roles to managerial positions. He emphasizes the necessity of adapting one's identity to align with evolving roles and responsibilities.Finally, we tackle the emotional aspects of leadership, addressing the significance of emotional awareness for leadership success. A key skill is learning how to accurately identify and label a wide range of emotions. Martin and I also discuss the SBI (Situation, Behavior, Impact) framework, a powerful approach for promoting a culture of feedback and personal growth. The episode wraps up with an important discussion on the importance of authenticity and storytelling in leadership, providing valuable reflections and insights for leaders seeking to foster connections and drive positive change.What You'll Learn- The delicate balance of strengths and weaknesses- Unconscious biases and six types of leadership blind spots- Identity transitions and redefining roles- Raising our emotional awareness and regulation- The interplay between imposter syndrome and authenticity- The power of the SBI frameworkPodcast Timestamps(00:00) – A Deep Exploration of Leadership Blind Spots(10:36) – The Six Types of Leadership Blind Spots(22:04) - Recognizing and Regulating Emotions in Leadership(29:00) - Navigating Imposter Syndrome and Authenticity(35:18) – The Importance of Identity Alignment(45:22) – Entrepreneurial Blind SpotsKEYWORDSPositive Leadership, Blind Spots, Self-Awareness, Leveraging Strengths, Managing Weaknesses, Unconscious Bias, Emotional Intelligence, Identity, Imposter Syndrome, Authenticity, Emotional Awareness, Culture of Feedback, Instilling Trust, Entrepreneurship, The Power of Storytelling, CEO Success

Ever feel your thoughts getting hijacked by tension in a tough conversation? In this transformative episode of the Leadership Sandbox, Tammy J. Bond explores the profound impact of simply taking a moment to pause in communication. Discover how this seemingly simple action can unlock clarity, deepen understanding, and lead to significantly more effective conversations, even in high-stakes situations. Tammy delves into how emotional awareness allows you to apply the power of pause to avoid being reactive and move toward solutions. Learn how a well-timed pause gives you the space to regulate your brain, reevaluate your perspective, and ensure you're leading with intent, not just impulse. This episode emphasizes that you are responsible for your behavior, even when triggered, and that slowing things down prevents others from feeling "confused, bruised, and misused." Equip yourself with this essential tool for navigating team meetings, bold conversations, and tense moments with newfound ease and grace. Key Takeaways for Leaders: Clarity & Focus: Learn how pausing provides crucial moments to gain clarity and focus amidst tension. Improved Understanding & Empathy: Discover how well-timed pauses enhance understanding and foster empathy in difficult discussions. Regulate Your Brain: Understand that a pause gives you vital time to take a breath and regulate your brain when emotions are high, preventing reactivity. Reevaluate Perspective: Utilize pauses to step back, ask questions, and reevaluate your perspective, often finding common ground. Responsible Behavior: Recognize your responsibility for your behavior even when triggered, ensuring your interactions are constructive, not destructive. Avoid Hijacked Thinking: Apply emotional awareness through pausing to prevent your thinking from being hijacked by frustration or irritation. Impact on Others: Realize how rushing can leave others feeling confused or misused, while slowing down promotes healthier interactions. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Practical tips for implementing the power of pause in various communication scenarios, including negotiation and conflict resolution. How simple actions, like a pause, can be the most powerful tools in your leadership toolkit. The direct correlation between emotional awareness and effective application of communication strategies. Strategies to move toward solutions by using pauses to ask insightful questions. How slowing down leads to more productive and respectful bold conversations. Resources: Visit bondgroupenterprises.com/podcast for your action plan and additional resources for this episode. Download the exclusive "pause button card" to use as a visual reminder in meetings. Call to Action: Ready to transform your communication and lead with greater intention? Share this episode with your team and start implementing the power of pause in your daily interactions! Have questions on how to effectively use the pause in your specific leadership challenges? DM Tammy! She's here to help you refine your communication and elevate your leadership. #Leadership #CommunicationSkills #PowerOfPause #EmotionalAwareness #ConflictResolution #SelfRegulation #TeamMeetings #BoldConversations #CommunicationStrategies #Clarity #Empathy #TammyJBond #LeadershipSandbox  

Raising Resilient Kids: Parenting with Emotional AwarenessHow do we raise emotionally strong, resilient kids? It starts with us.In this episode, Kevin McNulty sits down with clinical psychologist and author Dr. Kahlila Robinson to explore the heart of emotional awareness in parenting. From tantrums to teen tension, we unpack how parents can regulate themselves first — and why that's the real game-changer.Topics include:✅What co-regulation is (why it matters more than calm-down strategies)✅How your emotional habits shape your child's nervous system✅Repairing after you lose it and how that models emotional accountability✅Tools for staying calm when your kid isn't✅Why it's never too late to change your parenting styleThis is not a lecture — it's a raw, real talk about parenting with intention, self-awareness, and grace.Watch on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTH1LKivyk0

On today's episode, Tim speaks with psychologists Liz Hall (Ph.D.) and Erin Smith (Ph.D.) on how emotions shape perspectives on science, including new scientific technologies. Hall and Smith point to research that indicates emotions are some of the main features causing problems in dialogues between science and religious beliefs and values, and gaining understanding around emotions might help to address some of the uneasy tensions Christian experience between faith and controversial scientific topics. They also suggest practices to cultivate healthy and appropriate emotions when engaging in scientific technologies. Show notes and a full transcript are available.

Randy Lyman, The Purpose-Driven Leader, combines decades of business experience with a deep commitment to fostering emotional intelligence, spiritual grounding, and transformational leadership. His area of expertise is leading from a place of strength through vulnerability, creating cultures where authenticity and emotional connection drive high performance.I had such a wonderful time interviewing Randy and hope you enjoy listening to this interview as much as I enjoyed hosting it!His book, The Third Element, which was released on March 19, 2025, makes these complex concepts accessible and actionable. It reveals the missing piece in manifestation that most people overlook—emotions. Randy teaches how unhealed emotional patterns can secretly shape our reality and how to transform them into a powerful tool for attracting abundance and fulfillment.His own pivotal moment came after achieving material success but recognizing the emotional disconnection and stress that limited both his potential and his team's. This awakening led him to focus on emotional awareness and belonging, which became the catalyst for dramatic business growth and renewed purpose.Today, Randy shares his principles with individuals and organizations seeking clarity, connection, and authentic transformation. His teachings equip others to harness emotional intelligence, build meaningful relationships, and turn inner healing into outward success.https://www.instagram.com/iamrandylyman/https://randylyman.com/https://www.facebook.com/people/Randy-Lyman/61566555115024/https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamrandylymanDon't miss a blog post or a podcast episode, subscribe to my newsletter on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ENGRingSuccess.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Support the on podcast on Patreon: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/ENGRingSuccess⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Top tier supporters - shout out each episode of the month for $10 monthly donation.Follow along on all social medias: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://engringsuccess.com/link-in-bio/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠To submit your question, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠daniel@ENGRingSuccess.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe on YouTube to watch short excerpts of podcast episodes addressing specific topics: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCj86alc3a7_A_PibgYpkWFg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Daniel is a Mechanical Engineering graduate of Trinity University's B.S. in Engineering Science and currently works in Commercial Management in the Engineering and Construction Consulting Industry.All views expressed on this podcast are his own and do not reflect the opinions or views of his employer.Music by Maxgotthetracks: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/artist/0Pclog68AY1⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Send us a text“Remember that your feelings aren't facts. That should give you some solace when they feel so strong. Say to yourself, “Oh wait, maybe this isn't right. It's a prediction of my brain based on the past, not the written future.” “ ~ Kim KorteEpisode Overview:In this powerful episode of The Remarkable People Podcast, host David Pasqualone sits down with Kim Korte to delve into her incredible life story. From her traumatic childhood experiences with molestation and growing up with alcoholic parents to overcoming a devastating marriage and finding real self-love, Kim's journey is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. Despite battling through significant emotional turmoil, Kim discovered the transformational power of self-awareness and emotional understanding. She shares her insights on building a balanced life, the importance of interoception, and offers practical steps for listeners to connect more deeply with themselves. Don't miss this compelling episode as Kim reveals the strategies that helped her reclaim her life and how these concepts can empower you too.• 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview• 01:57 Meet Kim Korte• 04:22 Kim's Early Life and Challenges• 05:49 The Impact of Childhood Trauma• 07:14 Journey to Self-Awareness• 08:12 Understanding Emotions and Interoception• 17:46 Steps to Overcoming Trauma• 21:27 The Importance of Interoceptive Awareness• 37:51 Reflecting on Life and Relationships• 38:47 Meeting the First Husband• 42:01 Struggles and Realizations• 45:17 The Turning Point• 48:09 Steps to Healing and Self-Care• 52:39 Emotional Awareness and Growth• 01:08:02 Current State and Future Plans• 01:14:04 Closing Thoughts and Advice REMARKABLE SPECIAL OFFER(S):REMARKABLE OFFER 1: Save 30% to 80% on EVERYTHING you order at MyPillow.com with Free Promo Code, “REMARKABLE“. Yes, that's right! Use the best My Pillow promo code out there to save a TON of money on all 200+ quality, comfortable, cozy home goods at MyPillow.com/Remarkable, or by calling 1-800-644-6612. From sheets, to blankets, to pillows, to mattress toppers, be ready to sleep better and live more comfortably than you ever have before!REMARKABLE OFFER 2: Enjoy 20% off coaching with Kim when you mention you heard her on the Remarkable People Podcast between now and December 31, Support the showWant Even More?

What does the superyachting industry have to do with your leadership style?  Turns out, a whole lot. In this episode, I'm joined by Karine Rayson, an expert in leadership and mental health within the superyacht industry – where teams are required to live and work together 24/7 out at sea. And in that intense environment… leadership matters. And it's no different for your business. These leadership and communication skills are foundational for any business, even if you're on dry land. Here's What You'll Discover in This Episode:  The metric that sets high-performing teams apart from the rest, and why authoritative leadership is a recipe for ego issues and disengagement. The parallels between life on a superyacht and running a small business – and why it all boils down to leadership and strong team communication. The (so often overlooked!) layers of communication that build trust. How to spot the small, physical signs that signal something's wrong before it's too late. Why slipping work, a lack of eye contact, or mismatched energy might actually be a silent plea for support from your team (and what you can do to turn things around). Karine's psychology-backed tips to make your team feel seen and valued – and why success all starts at onboarding. What emotional literacy really means (and what it DOESN'T!), and why self-awareness is the foundation of leading others well. The most uncomfortable, but essential, thing you can do as a leader to grow your emotional intelligence and improve your team's ability to work well together. Why shifting from an authoritative leader to a facilitator actually creates a more connected, motivated, and purpose-driven team. Karine's leadership non-negotiables to create a psychologically safe space, lead people in the same direction towards your ultimate goal, And so, so much more… Mentioned in This Episode: The HerBusiness Network Flung Ceramics with Michelle Cox Michelle Cox's Podcast - One Question

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If you're curious as to if you have any stored emotions or trauma that might be causing your illness, preventing you from achieving your goals, or even just showing up as the best, authentic version of yourself, I invite you to take my free Stored Emotions and Trauma Quiz.In this episode, I talk about how losing a “perfect” client exposed something much deeper.Scarcity has shown up in my life in so many ways, and in this conversation, I share exactly how I've worked through it and how I help my clients do the same. I get into the beliefs that quietly block abundance, like not wanting to seem salesy or charging “too much.” I walk through how your energy can attract the wrong people, how trauma wires us to play small, and what it actually takes to shift into clarity and alignment. If you've ever felt stuck, this episode will help you figure out why.Timestamps:[00:00] Introduction[04:14] Why unpacking your baggage attracts your ideal clients[07:27] Don't let fear narratives control your mindset[14:43] Shifting from “I'm not good enough” to abundance[19:45] Stop pouring into fear and start choosing safety[23:01] Why challenges are really opportunities to grow[25:59] Time abundance starts with intentionalityFind More From Dr. Stephanie Davis:Dr. Stephanie Davis | WebsiteQuantum Rx | InstagramQuantum Rx | Skool

We are running it back to this fun conversation from 2023....We all know social media sparks a lot of conversations these days. So Codie, Ashley, and Melanie are giving their opinions about a post shared on Instagram that listed 5 things parents should do if they want to have a secure relationship with their children. The Mamas also talk about holding space for their children's emotions and reflect on their relationships with their own mothers.Mama's Den Village, do you agree with the 5 steps of having a secure relationship with your child? Do you have another step you would add to the conversation? Let us know your point of view over at podcasts@blacklove.com. PLUS you can always hit us up over on Instagram at @themamasdenpodcastMake sure you connect with our Mamas:Ashley - @watermeloneggrollsCodie - @codiecoMelanie - @melaniefiona

Send us a textWhat if your emotional state, NOT your to-do list, is what's holding you back?In this episode of The Hormone Helper Podcast, I sit down with behavior expert Tree Ryde for a raw and eye-opening convo about why we sabotage our own goals and how to reclaim emotional control, presence, and purpose.Tree blends years of experience in marketing, yoga, NLP, and hypnosis to help people release old patterns, shift limiting beliefs, and live more aligned, on-purpose lives.Here's what we unpack in this powerful conversation:Why “just be present” isn't helpful advice, and what actually worksThe real reason people stay stuck in self-sabotage loopsHow emotional states and nervous system responses (like fawning) shape behaviorHow to clean up your social media to support your mental health & goalsA simple “belief rewrite” exercise that anyone can use to reset their inner programmingWhether you're navigating stress, lack of motivation, or just feel like you're not living in your lane, this episode gives you tangible mindset tools to shift your emotional state, and your life from the inside out.Connect with Tree Ryde:Behavior Expert at Burlington Hypnosis CenterInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/treerydeTree works with individuals and groups, and offers two donated hours a month to speak with youth groups, men's groups, and women's groups.Don't forget to Subscribe, leave a review, and keep tuning in to The Hormone Helper Podcast to keep growing into the fullest version of YOU. Support the showget support with coach andrew here: https://ovou.me/fit4allfitnessincDont forget to listen to coach andrew on instagram and facebook FB: https://www.facebook.com/andrew.costa.56INST: https://www.instagram.com/coachandrewcosta

Superintelligence is coming faster than anyone predicted. In this episode, you'll learn how to upgrade your biology, brain, and consciousness before AI and transhumanism reshape the future of health. Host Dave Asprey sits down with Soren Gordhamer, founder of Wisdom 2.0, to explore what superintelligence in 2027 means for your mind, body, and soul. Watch this episode on YouTube for the full video experience: https://www.youtube.com/@DaveAspreyBPR Soren has spent decades at the intersection of mindfulness, technology, and human development. He advises leaders at OpenAI, Google, and top wellness companies, and he leads global conversations around AI and consciousness. His work bridges ancient wisdom with biohacking, modern neuroscience, and the urgent need to stay human in a machine-dominated world. This episode gives you a tactical roadmap to build resilience before the world tilts. You'll gain practical tools for brain optimization, functional medicine, and biohacking strategies that sharpen cognitive health, reinforce emotional stability, and unlock peak human performance in a digital-first reality. From supplements and nootropics to neuroplasticity techniques, Dave and Soren show you how to protect your biology as AI accelerates beyond human speed. They break down how AI and human health intersect, explain why you need emotional strength to face the future, and offer guidance for raising kids in a world ruled by code. If you're preparing for 2027 superintelligence, navigating AI-driven parenting, or staying ahead of transhumanist health tech, this episode equips you for the coming wave. You'll Learn: • How AI is reshaping human connection, presence, and identity • Why emotional resilience and conscious awareness matter more than ever in an AI-driven world • How to raise connected, grounded children in a hyper-digital environment • What human flourishing looks like when technology outpaces biology • Why investing in presence, purpose, and inner development may be the ultimate upgrade • How leaders in wellness and tech are rethinking personal growth, governance, and ethics in 2027 • What it means to stay truly human—and fully alive—during the rise of superintelligence Dave Asprey is a four-time New York Times bestselling author, founder of Bulletproof Coffee, and the father of biohacking. With over 1,000 interviews and 1 million monthly listeners, The Human Upgrade is the top podcast for people who want to take control of their biology, extend their longevity, and optimize every system in the body and mind. Each episode features cutting-edge insights in health, performance, neuroscience, supplements, nutrition, hacking, emotional intelligence, and conscious living. Episodes drop every Tuesday and Thursday, where Dave asks the questions no one else dares and gives you real tools to become more resilient, aware, and high performing. SPONSORS: - LMNT | Free LMNT Sample Pack with any drink mix purchase by going to https://drinklmnt.com/DAVE. - ARMRA | Go to https://tryarmra.com/ and use the code DAVE to get 15% off your first order. Resources: • Dave Asprey's New Book - Heavily Meditated: https://daveasprey.com/heavily-meditated/ • Soren's New Book - The Essential: https://a.co/d/dALv7OS • Soren's Website: www.sorengordhamer.net • Soren's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wisdom2events/ • Danger Coffee: https://dangercoffee.com • Dave Asprey's Website: https://daveasprey.com • Dave Asprey's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/daveasprey • Upgrade Labs: https://upgradelabs.com • Upgrade Collective – Join The Human Upgrade Podcast Live: https://www.ourupgradecollective.com • Own an Upgrade Labs: https://ownanupgradelabs.com • 40 Years of Zen – Neurofeedback Training for Advanced Cognitive Enhancement: https://40yearsofzen.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this engaging conversation, Amir Zoghi and Christina Tindale go behind the scenes to share the latest happenings at AZ & Co., the significance of men's retreats, and the pressing issue of men's mental health. They discuss the importance of emotional awareness in leadership and the transformative power of community support. Amir shares his personal experiences with loss and the motivation behind creating safe spaces for men to express themselves and their emotions. The conversation also teases a future episode that will take us behind the scenes of Amir's Training Leadership and Coaching Program (TLC).

In this episode of 'Don't Cut Your Own Bangs,' Danielle Ireland interviews adventurer and SDM Diving owner Eli Martinez. They discuss his unique career leading land and ocean safaris, dispelling myths about predators, and the connection between exploring the wild and self-discovery. Eli shares his journey from aspiring bull rider to renowned wildlife guide and photographer, emphasizing the therapeutic and transformative power of nature. Together, they explore how experiencing the wild fosters understanding, empathy, and personal growth. RATE, REVIEW, SUBSCRIBE TO “DON'T CUT YOUR OWN BANGS”  Like your favorite recipe or song, the best things in life are shared. When you rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast, your engagement helps me connect  with other listeners just like you. Plus, subscriptions just make life easier for everybody. It's one less thing for you to think about and you can easily keep up to date on everything that's new. So, please rate, review, and subscribe today. 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Connect with Eli: Book an adventure HERE - https://sdmdiving.com/ Instagram Connect with Danielle: Watch the show on YouTube Instagram The Treasured Journal Wrestling a Walrus 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest 00:13 Eli Martinez: The Adventurer's Journey 01:21 Connecting with Nature and Overcoming Fear 02:18 Building a Dream Career 05:59 Diving into the World of Sharks 12:16 The Power of Social Media and Storytelling 17:59 The Importance of Conservation and Ecotourism 21:40 Personal Growth Through Wildlife Experiences 28:40 Connecting with Nature and Self 29:07 The Lion Tracker's Guide to Life 29:38 Struggles with Anxiety and Self-Doubt 31:04 Emotional Awareness and Growth 32:00 Transformative Experiences in the Wild 35:03 Launching Shark Diver Magazine 35:55 Shifting from Magazine to Excursions 40:49 Dispelling the Predator Myth 48:28 Curiosity and Career Pivots 53:30 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Transcript Eli Martinez Podcast Interview [00:00:00] Danielle: Hello. Hello. This is Danielle Ireland and you are listening to Don't Cut Your Own Banks and Today's Guest. this has been a long time coming for me. I am so excited beyond excited to introduce Eli Martinez. Eli is an adventurer. [00:00:14] He's an explorer, he's an operator and owner of SDM Adventures. It's a group that leads land and ocean safaris. If you have ever seen these wild otherworldly images of people swimming with humpback whales, swimming with orca whales, swimming with crocodiles, swimming with anacondas. There's a good chance that you've stumbled across his images because he is one of the few, right? [00:00:42] It's a pretty small pool of people who make a living doing what he does, Images, they grab your attention, they hook your imagination. But it being on a screen, it's easy to think, well, that's so far removed from my life. what value is there in that for me? Like that's a cool image. But the internet has lots of cool images. [00:01:00] There's a couple of important distinctions and what I think makes this episode so special. What we talk about is dispelling the predator myth and my work as a therapist and his work as a safari guide. They don't seem too related, but there was one common thread that came out of this episode that it's gonna stick with me for a long time. [00:01:21] He's guiding people into the natural world to feel connected to the natural world in a deep and profound way. And when anybody sits with their emotional space. With their feelings. Feelings of discomfort, fear, terror, trauma. That's really hard to do and hard to hold. But when you do and access curiosity, you begin to tap into your true nature. [00:01:49] Your intuition, and so Eli might be talking about sharks and the deep ocean, and I might be talking about feelings, but there is a common thread in language here that makes this episode already one of my favorites. I can't wait for you to hear his story because not only is the work itself that we spent a lot of time talking about, fascinating. [00:02:10] He leads people on wildlife safaris in the ocean, on land. I mean, it's just. What a cool, amazing job. But he built that job. There wasn't an application for him to fill out. He built this from the ground up and there were stumbling blocks, missteps and pivots along the way, and he shares those with us. [00:02:30] So not only can we learn about how could I build a dream that I didn't know was possible, you also have the benefit of. Really getting a sense of what is it like, what is the value, what is the purpose? And I would argue where is the healing in connecting with the natural world, whether that's through a hike or through looking out your window. [00:02:53] And as he states a couple of times, just watch a sunset. Really watch a sunset. So I'm gonna save that. I'm gonna leave that for you there. Thank you for being here. You're gonna love this episode. Welcome, Eli Martinez. [00:03:08] [00:04:18] Danielle: Eli Martinez, thank you so much for being here with Don't cut your own bangs. [00:04:23] This is not the first time we've met, but this is the first time we've done a podcast together and I am like the little kid in me who wanted to be a marine biologist when she first knew what dolphins were. [00:04:34] This feels like just she feels so greedy with excitement to talk to someone who has made a living, being an adventure traveler and swimming with animals and interacting with animals all over the world. So I'm very excited to talk to you. [00:04:47] Eli: Actually, I was a little self-conscious about it because of, because of your background in psychology. [00:04:52] I'm like, okay, all right. where do I start? [00:04:55] Danielle: You know what? Yes. your family actually told me to schedule this podcast interview so that we could really get into what makes Eli tick. No, no, no, no, no., This is a celebration what I'm curious about personally, not just professionally working as a therapist, but I love understanding what leads people down, whatever path they end on. [00:05:16] And probably a lot of that is because I mistakenly thought during my twenties that you went through the school system. You graduate with a degree, you start working in that career, and you follow all of the steps to be a good. Citizen and that was not my path, and it was a lot more twisty and turny and there were a lot of pivots and I can see that now as of value. [00:05:43] But, in those moments where I thought I knew what I was going to be doing and life took me in a different direction, it. Knocked me down pretty hard I think there were a lot of moments where I felt like I was failing or wasn't doing it right, using air quotes of whatever it is. [00:05:59] And so someone like you who, are a storyteller, explorer, wildlife photographer, and have spent your life chasing the wild. you lead ocean and land wildlife, safaris. I love that distinction. Ocean and land, wildlife safaris. [00:06:15] There is not, you can't go to high school and then college and then just start doing what you're doing. There's no Reddit, there's no LinkedIn interview that you can fulfill to make that a career. You had to chisel that together. And so I really wanna understand that more. how you built this dream. [00:06:36] What seems from afar, like a dream life? And I'm sure it is many days, but I wanna know how you did it. [00:06:43] Eli: animals have always been like my first love, as a child, I can remember my first toys were animals. my dream as a child was to become a wildlife veterinarian. that was the only way I knew that I could actually physically be around animals that, 'cause I had no idea about wildlife guiding or photography or storytelling [00:07:05] So veterinarian was the only way I could get close to a zebra or a giraffe. And I said, that's what I want to do. So as a child, that was like that one dream that I had. And of course, life gets in the way and I went to a completely different route. I actually went to school to be a motorcycle mechanic. [00:07:23] So what? [00:07:24] Danielle: Yeah. [00:07:24] Eli: That's [00:07:25] Danielle: definitely a different route. [00:07:26] Eli: Yeah. No, it was, I fell in love with race bikes and I wanted to travel the world. look, me being a mechanic for race teams, that was my thing. I love motorcycles, but I like wrenching them. I like working on them more than I like writing them for, it's just my DNA, just how I like to be. [00:07:43] Fast forward a bunch of years, I fell in love with shark diving. I went scuba diving and on my very first. Dive. I saw a shark and it terrified me. It excited me. filled me with everything that I enjoyed about wildlife to begin with. [00:08:00] And it was coming out of the water that I realized I knew absolutely nothing about sharks. Everything I thought I knew was wrong. [00:08:09] Mm-hmm. , [00:08:10] So I, came outta the water that day and I was just completely fascinated, really obsessed with learning more about sharks. So I, I bought every book I could find. [00:08:20] I read as much as I could about them, and I just was like, I gotta get in the water with them some more. And it was on my very first, travel. I went to The Bahamas and it was on that experience is. What got me on this path that I'm on today was just like, I want to dive with sharks. I want to travel to exotic places. [00:08:41] I want to meet amazing people, [00:08:43] Danielle: How do you wait? Do okay? I, okay, so we're gonna get to the how. So you fell in love, and now it's the how, but I wanna go back. Do you remember the first shark, like in your, can you access that memory and do you know the shark? [00:08:55] I can. What was it? It was a bull shark. Oh, whoa. Okay. Yeah. that's gnarly. Yeah, that is. okay. The first shark you ever swam with was a bull shark. I don't know why that's like the one that scares me. I, I can relate. So not to put on the therapy hat for, for anything other than just, I find this so interesting that the things that scared me, I wanted to learn more about, I found endlessly interesting. [00:09:21] And when I was young it was the ocean, the deep ocean, And I really became, in the way that a suburban kid could really curious about sharks and very interested in sharks. And I would always talk about them and just rattle off a bunch of shark facts. [00:09:36] And I, as you were talking, you reminded me of the fork in the road moment where I thought. What I thought was I wanted to work with animals. What I realized was, oh, I just kinda like you love turning wrenches more than you love racing. I love learning about animals more than I want to. I'll just tell the story. [00:09:57] When I was, 13 or 14, I applied for a summer job at our Indianapolis Zoo. that really burst my bubble of what that was gonna mean. I wanted to work with animals. But I realized, I just wanted to play with the elephants. I didn't wanna do the dipping dots concession stand. [00:10:14] So there's this sense of you, you were afraid you shared that. I dove with sharks. I swam with a bull shark. I came outta the water. I was afraid and then fascinated. is that something there, is that like a theme for you that you feel a jolt or a rush and then you wanna understand that rush more? [00:10:31] Possibly, [00:10:32] Eli: it was just more of like, when I saw the shark, I had two primal instincts, which was, one was to follow it. And the other was to get outta the water. That was just like those two conflicting feelings that was going through me. [00:10:46] And the, when I was, I ran out of air really quick 'cause it was actually my very first ocean dive. [00:10:51] Okay. So I was sitting on the surface, the dive master sent me up to the surface by myself, which is crazy. And when I think about it, man, I didn't know anything I was doing. I'm just looking down. [00:11:01] I'm just like, really worried the shark is gonna come up and get me 'cause I'm on the surface. And that's all I knew. I always knew. I knew the jaw story. I knew a little, just very small snippets of information on sharks and Yeah. And it was completely opposite of what was happening. the shark wanted nothing to do with us. [00:11:17] It tried to avoid us completely. [00:11:18] Danielle: Yeah. [00:11:19] Eli: Got out of the water and then the whole way back to port, I was just like, okay. He didn't come after us. He didn't want anything to do with this. [00:11:28] Like, why? and it was that moment that was just like, after that I got out of the water, I'm like, okay. I gotta know. I gotta know. yeah. [00:11:36] Danielle: what you thought you knew, conflicted with what you experienced, and you were trying to understand that more. [00:11:42] Eli: Right. [00:11:43] Danielle: That's really interesting. I can relate to that. I honestly think that's a big thread of what led me to therapy. I wanted to understand my internal experience more. And I think there's, steps of you're introduced to a concept and then you embody the concept. [00:11:57] you're no longer having to consciously think about it, but really mastery when you're able to teach. And so I think in many ways I wanted to understand that enough to help others, but it began through my own experience and my own curiosity. so I feel like I should mention, How I got connected with you. [00:12:16] I think social media gets a bad rap. it gets a lot of bad press, but thank God for social media. it was in 2012 or 13 and I was watching Shark Week because you always gotta be watching Shark Week. [00:12:27] I was watching Shark Week and the whole episode I was watching was, they were trying to see could large species sharks experience the same temporary paralysis as smaller or baby sharks when they're flipped upside down for study? And I was, of course they're doing all of these great cuts, is it gonna work? [00:12:43] Who knows? Is it gonna work? And of course, they're gonna end it with it working, you're on the edge of your seat. what are they gonna do? What are they gonna do? And they showed a clip of you with a tiger shark in The Bahamas and you were like hand feeding it. And then you stimulated the and you correct me with all the science terms, but you were like stimulating the sout and it just put it in this little trance and then you just tipped it upright. [00:13:06] You just, it stood vertical and you held it just, a shark, a tiger shark. Yeah. I don't know. Was like 16 feet, 15 feet, something like that. [00:13:15] Eli: Possibly. yeah. Anyway, it [00:13:17] Danielle: blew my mind and I think I just made a post about it. I took a picture of my tv. I was like, my mind is blown. [00:13:24] And then some weeks later you commented, thanks so much for the shout out. And that was one of those first moments. That really connected with oh, you can actually connect with the people who were doing things that you think is cool. it just, it really bridged this gap. And then once, of course, I found out what you and your family, 'cause it's a family band, it's like a whole, it's the whole family involved on these excursions. [00:13:46] But as soon as I made that connection, my husband and I signed up to, swim with Whale Sharks with you and your wife, and your son and your daughter. So that's just, I feel like I gotta give credit to, the algorithm and the innerwebs for making that possible. 'cause I don't know if I would've even thought that was a possibility. [00:14:05] Eli: Oh, that's, thanks for sharing that. I, man, that story just,, [00:14:09] Danielle: mm-hmm. [00:14:10] Eli: Wow. Just flooded with memory with that little piece. [00:14:13] Danielle: Yeah, it was, [00:14:14] When I set out to write a book, I only knew two things. One was I wanted to make big feelings, feel less scary and more approachable, and I wanted to bring some lightness to the feelings themselves. What I know to be true as a therapist is that emotions are energy in motion. They have information to tell you to inform the next right step to take and self-doubt, fear, anxiety, live in that space between knowing and not knowing. [00:14:38] The second thing I knew was that I wanted to have fun in the process of making. This thing. The result is this wrestling a walrus for little people with big feelings, beautifully illustrated children's book that has a glossary at the end for some of the bigger feeling words. What this story does in a light and loving way is create context for those relationships. [00:14:58] You can't change those people that you wish would treat you different. The things in life that we cannot control and yet we face that are hard. This book, it's a conversation starter for any littles in your life. Who want to create more safety and love and patience for some of those experiences. So hop one over to the show notes. [00:15:16] You can pick it up@amazon.com, barge de noble.com or my website. I hope that you do because I believe in this little book. I freaking love this little book, and I cannot wait to hear your experience with it. Thanks so much for listening and get back to the episode. [00:15:29] Eli: those are fun, fun shows to do. and there's definitely a lot of benefits to social media, I think. I think it's a great tool. It's a great servant, A terrible master. [00:15:41] That's the best way I can describe it. said. yeah, it is just, there's so many benefits to, connecting with people on the other side of the world to learning about unique places, to learning unique things. it's been one of my most important tools when finding new places for wildlife. [00:15:58] but on the flip side, there's sometimes there's just too much information out there and too much because of it. it's made life difficult for wildlife, difficult for kids, difficult for, it's just. It can be too much. And that's the only downside [00:16:14] Danielle: it's like, how we engage with it. It's an extension of how we are showing up with it, what we're looking for, what interests us. [00:16:21] what I love about how you show up there and how your family shows up there with images is it really, I think, highlights How we operate. we look first and then we listen second. And so you'll capture these images or these videos that seem other worldly and it catches your attention enough. [00:16:43] And if you can hold that attention enough, and it probably helps that your message is consistent of conservation, understanding, connecting with nature. when you can capture someone's attention with an image, just what happened with me? [00:16:56] And then you can maybe engage in a dialogue . And it actually leads me to something, that you mentioned. Something I caught from your website that I really liked this language, that when people experience the wild, they understand and when they understand they care. [00:17:12] And that sounds much like the experience you had swimming with the bull shark. But I wanna know more about that because you, not only through, your media outlets and the content you put out, but you are handholding, you're guiding people into the water or in, ocean and land safaris. [00:17:31] And I wanna understand more about this concept 'cause I think it's true of emotions too. If you can't articulate what you're feeling, then when people don't have language for what they're experiencing, they usually shut down and collapse or they explode with rage. it's gotta go somewhere. [00:17:46] And so when you can create context and language, you also create safety. it seems like with what you're guiding people through, you want them to understand and so that they care. yeah, tell me more. [00:17:59] Eli: Yeah, that has a lot to do with just experiences being out in nature. [00:18:04] I think nature is probably one of the best doctors on the planet. first and foremost, I think that people being around wildlife, people being in the ocean, people being in the wilderness, it replenishes your soul. It recharges your batteries. I think it just makes you a better person. [00:18:21] it's through these connections and meeting wildlife and having people go out there in the wild and see these places and see these animals and they come back and they tell stories, they tell their friends. [00:18:31] And hopefully it's through those kind of connections that, [00:18:36] Conservation comes out of, like at the end of the day, the animals win. That's what you're hoping for is for the animals to win because these are voiceless souls on our planet that share this world with us. and without these people, without these experiences, they're completely vulnerable for lack of better words, to bigger business, to sadly going away, for lack of better words. [00:18:56] Danielle: I think one of the biggest problems that animals have is that they are second class citizens on our planet that we share. And unfortunately, we're seeing our wild places disappear. alarmingly fast, and it's, I think that conservation ecotourism are probably the only tools left that are going to save, what's left of our wild places, what's left of our wildlife, Let's try to get some people on your wildlife safaris. What would be, so if someone's listening who has maybe like me, just from a television screen or from a social media account, wondered, that would be cool, but that could never work for me. I could never do something like that. [00:19:40] That it just, when you're. Physical reality or even your mental reality feels so removed from the wild world. we live in boxed rooms and we're so connected with screens and, my wildlife outside my window is squirrels, cardinals. [00:19:58] Eli: That's perfect. [00:19:58] Danielle: So how would you speak life into someone saying yes to an adventure and where do they begin? [00:20:07] Eli: Oh man. I think it really, first and foremost, it all comes down to your comfort level. I think that there's so many ways for people to reconnect with nature, whether it's hiking, whether it's biking, whether it's going to the beach for the day, watching a sunset. [00:20:23] Just watching a sunset is so powerful. I think it's so important. I don't think we do it enough. I think that is probably the simplest way to remember that you are a part of something bigger and as simple as it sounds, it is so important. now watching a sunset in an amazing place is even 10 times better. [00:20:42] It's that much more powerful. just, trying to reconnect with nature, I think the important part to remind people that yes. The earth is here. She is alive and she breathes and she's got a heartbeat every day. And I think that sunset is her heartbeat. [00:20:55] and it's a great way to see it. [00:20:57] Danielle: I just saw, I think it was nasa, release some footage of a particular, some type of lens on a satellite that was able to actually detect a pulse on the earth. [00:21:08] Like the earth has a heartbeat, but I'm sure the more sciencey people have another way of explaining it. but that it caught my attention. And that feels just right on par with what you're saying when the heart space and the head space connect, I think that's where magic happens. [00:21:22] Like when you can believe it in your mind, but then you experience it in your body, that is, powerful. I think everybody needs to have an experience like getting into the deep ocean or going out into the wild nature. I really think everybody should have that in their life at least once. [00:21:40] But I wanna share a little bit about what my experience was like , with, um, you and your wife swimming with winter parks, because it was there was so much momentum for me built up into what I thought that experience was gonna be because from the time I understood. Little mermaid, Disney to the time I, could name the dolphin body parts and thought that's what I wanted to be like this, there was so much emotional charge and I'm gonna go in the water and I'm gonna swim and it's gonna be great. [00:22:11] And I just had this idea that I'm gonna connect with this shark. We're gonna make eye contact and it's gonna, we're gonna just be on the same vibe. so many expectations that I never expressed, but they were all there. I was, probably trying to keep it cool. But, no,the reality it, the i'll, I will just to skip to the end, the reality far exceeds whatever I imagine. [00:22:31] the first day was me reconciling what I thought it would be and what it really was. Getting on a little charter boat going way out in the middle of the gulf and. Then, I think sturgeon were spawning and that was what was drawing the sharks. And so it made visibility like all of these little eggs were refracting light. [00:22:51] So it was this very sparkly, but also sometimes visibility was funky. And the thing that I couldn't wrap my head around was from the boat. You could look out at the water and see, I don't know, a dozen whale sharks at any given time, but then you get in the water and adrenaline hits and I don't know where they are. [00:23:13] I can't see them. It's just having very little to no experience in the deep water. That was such a jolt and a shock to my system. and then being in the water with an animal, 20 feet, 25 feet, 30 feet long, My nervous system just didn't know how to compute. it was so much, I don't think I'd ever been that tired, ever. [00:23:37] Just, it took so much outta me. And then, day 2, 3, 4, each day got a little easier 'cause I had a better idea of what to expect. And also I didn't, you're covered in fish eggs, you're culvert in fish eggs. So the, the imagination that I would become this mermaid this other worldly creature and have this like soul bond with a whale shark, it wasn't that. [00:23:59] But the real life experience was incredible too. But I just, I don't, and I guess I don't really know where I'm leading with the question, but how do you see when having guided so many people through these moments? Like for somebody who's thinking about. Possibly planning an experience like that? [00:24:20] Like what, how do you prepare what would be good for someone to prepare for what that is like? [00:24:26] Eli: Wow, man. it's so different for everybody. it's just, valid. [00:24:30] Danielle: Valid. Then everybody maybe wants to be [00:24:32] Eli: Yeah. there's a few that want to be mermaids for sure on our trips. I'm not gonna lie. [00:24:38] but yeah, it's just really these animals the whale shark is a great, I call 'em, they're like gateway animals into a bigger world because, when it comes to seeing orcas and whales and of all different species and sharks, a whale shark is possibly, [00:24:55] It's a great ambassador for the species because they're a harmless species. They're just like big giant catfish floating on the surface. and it's a wonderful animal for someone of all ages to experience. it really is, [00:25:10] the whale shark, and I don't know if you had man rays on your trip as well, because Sometimes they show up every other year. The man ray is another, ocean angel. they're just, they're just, the perfect animal for people, for if you wanna. [00:25:24] Experience the ocean. If you wanna experience what life is like in the ocean, in a Disney way, that is the perfect animal to do it with. It's just very safe. it's a phenomenal, way to decide if, you know what? I would like to do more of things like this, or, this was perfect, this was enough. [00:25:43] You know, [00:25:45] Danielle: I wanna go back to something, something that you wrote that I really liked. that reminded me. [00:25:50] Even though we are talking about safari, we're talking about adventure, we're talking about animals, I think the more specific we become in a way, the more universal it becomes. And this quote made me think about a lot of the stuff that you write, it's a Mark Twain quote that travel is fatal to prejudice. [00:26:09] once you see something, you can't unsee something. I wanna speak to the, Why beyond conservation? if I'm not connected to nature, if I'm not connected to animals and I've got enough going on in my life, that conservation, cool, I'm glad someone's taking care of it, but that's not my focus. [00:26:29] What would be a personal selfish reason that would be maybe a call to action that you like? What would be the invitation for somebody individually, not globally, not, for any other reason, like why it could change your life to jump into the deep or get in a Jeep with no top and go drive out to a pride of lions. [00:26:55] what is the reason that you could articulate why somebody should do that? [00:27:00] Eli: I think the wildlife is, they're reminders of where we all came from. we were all of us in our DNA, if you look at the generations of people that have lived on this planet, at some point we were all part of that. We were all out there. [00:27:18] there wasn't this separation between us and our wild places. whether it was the ocean, whether it was a jungle. some of our ancestors had to deal with bears in their front porch. some of our ancestors had to deal with lions walking through camp. [00:27:34] that's something that we have either. Blocked out or forgotten. Obviously we've forgotten just because of generations of separation from it. But we are all part of that. We are all part of this world. beyond our cars and our homes and our clothes, we are part of nature a hundred percent. [00:27:55] We've forgotten this. And I think these are great reminders to remind us, Hey, this is where we all come from. This is, we're not separated from these things. we are very much a part of these things. And if anything, there are so many species that, although they're no longer, relevant in our world, they're so important for our world, not only as reminders, but as part of this giant balance, because we're all connected in some way, in some form. [00:28:23] we're all for lack of better, we're all one. And I think it's important. To remind people that, like we, we need to stay connected. We need to protect these animals because, they're much a part of this earth as we are. and we have to remind people that they're there yeah, that, that's, [00:28:44] This is our home. This is their home. This is our home. [00:28:47] Danielle: And I also, what I'm hearing too, it's they, when you're in communion with nature, you become more in touch with, or in tune with your own natural rhythm, your own self. There's, you might actually, know him or, 'cause I would imagine the community, like the pool you're in terms of career is probably small, I'm just guessing. [00:29:07] But, Boyd Verdi, he's from South Africa, he wrote The Lion Tracker's Guide to Life He has a property in South Africa called Alose. It was a game preserved. Okay. Yeah. Yes, I, and but his work in that book is basically teaching people to track wild animals, helps them become more in touch with the rhythms of nature. [00:29:29] And by, not by default, but through becoming more in tune with tracking nature, you, your track, like your path. So I think so many of the clients I attract are struggling with anxiety, depression, and burnout. And I think a lot of the confusion and self doubt and, head trash is also rooted in, I don't know what I'm supposed to do. [00:29:54] It's that maybe they don't articulate it like that, but it's experienced that way of just, I don't know what I'm supposed to do. As opposed to, I wanna know what I'm called to do. I wanna know what I'm meant to do or what I want to do. my dog never questions when she's hungry, when she's tired, like she is completely embodied because she doesn't have this giant brain getting in her way of everything. [00:30:19] And I love hearing you talk about the more in tune you are with nature, you are reminded that you are nature too. [00:30:27] Eli: it's it's so important for people to stay connected to nature and it's getting worse. I think it's just part of I. [00:30:35] Part of what I feel is that they're completely pulling us away from it. I think that unhealthy feeling, I remember having it as a growing up. I remember there was many times where I didn't know what I wanted to do. I didn't know, what my calling was but I always just, I remember standing there and just looking around saying, something's wrong. [00:31:00] I don't belong here. [00:31:01] Danielle: that's something's wrong. the language I like to use. with clients is, that's usually what gets people into an appointment with me first. It's when I say it's like your smoke detector's going off. 'cause your smoke detector can't tell the difference between burning toast or bacon and a fire in some part of your house, but it's just beeping 'cause it senses smoke, something's wrong. [00:31:20] And so I think a lot of times getting that emotional awareness or that clarity starts with something's wrong and then you sit with that. But then the discomfort, it's like I think about that story with you and the bull shark the first time it's, I either need to chase it and funnel down with it or I need to run away from it. [00:31:40] And I think that tension is what happens every time we hit a big emotion or a fork in the road or we're at a growth edge, we're about to change. but I think that is the. Following the path of curiosity is almost always what leads you down to some new sense of understanding, about yourself or the world. [00:32:00] I wanna, do you have, of all of the experiences you've led other people through, do you have It could be one, it could be more than one, it might even be with a member of your family, but have you seen, like shifts happen in people that just observed? 'cause I have over the years seen many powerful shifts happen in sessions, but it's such an intimate thing, but where you're out in the wild with someone, are there any moments that stand out to you of just being like, whoa, this person is different, or this person is really having an experience here? [00:32:35] Eli: Yeah. I have this one gentleman who. would do adventures. he would do travel on his own, and then he went on one of our trips a very successful, businessman. and I could see that this was just something he was doing for like, and that's interesting. [00:32:54] [00:32:54] Danielle: on [00:32:54] Eli: That's so interesting. Yeah. He was, he was on the trip And he was there to experience the animal, but it was almost like a science project, it wasn't like it was super into the animal. Like he was intellectualizing it. he was, it was like, it wasn't like [00:33:11] a bucket list. It was like, okay, I'm on this journey of I'm gonna photograph wildlife. Now, I've been photographing these other things and I'm gonna photograph wildlife now. we went out there, he had the experience and it was almost like this. [00:33:25] Yeah. You could feel the shift of just now I get it. oh, I got a goosebump thinking about it. Yeah. it was like now. Okay, okay. You know, it was, it was, [00:33:35] Danielle: it was like his body, like it kicked on. [00:33:38] Eli: Yeah. something inside him came alive [00:33:41] And it was just like more. And it was a completely different, more than when he first started and it was something [00:33:47] Danielle: beside him came alive. That gave me chills. I almost wonder if it's the distinction of when you were describing a sunset, like the difference between driving in your car and you're getting somewhere as the sun happens to be going down and you're doing a million other things versus watching a sunset and taking it in. [00:34:08] So not being just a passive observer, but being a present participant in the moment. [00:34:14] Eli: Yeah. Purposely trying to watch, I'm going to this spot because I want to see the sunset, or I'm gonna, I'm gonna stop to put my phone down and I'm gonna watch the sunset. Even if you take your phone, you know you're watching it through your phone as you wanna record it, because that's what we do now. [00:34:31] just that act alone of purposely trying to do that is significant. It is life changing to sometimes for some people. [00:34:38] Danielle: That's awesome. that was a really good answer. I wanna hear a little bit more. So I was circling back, you were starting to connect how that first dive, you were scuba diving, you saw the bull shark, you were swimming up to the surface, and then you almost started to shift to how that led you down this path. [00:34:57] I wanna go back to that and maybe if I could jump forward a little bit more in your story. You created Shark Diver Magazine in 2003, and you said you had 25 publications and then it really, the business model really shifted to your excursions. I wanna know more about, deciding to launch a magazine that sounds so ambitious, 25. [00:35:21] me trying to put a blog out sometimes feels like a real effort. but 25 publications is no small thing. And then you shifted it to excursions. it's one thing to do something yourself as a hobbyist or as an enthusiast, but you're leading people with all varying degrees of experience. [00:35:40] Some people that wanna be, mermaids and you're leading all types of people from all over the world on these trips and you're dealing with a lot of personalities. I would love to know more about how you made that shift from the magazine into leading your safaris. [00:35:55] Eli: Yeah, it was, so I started the magazine, in 2003. I didn't know anything about publishing. I didn't know anything about photography. I didn't know. Anybody in the business. And I had never really written anything outside of my journals before. [00:36:14] Danielle: So it was just like, I am, I'm so excited by this. [00:36:16] You're like, I am gonna build a rocket ship, but I don't have an engineering degree. I don't understand the mechanics. and I've never flown on a plane, but I'm gonna build a rocket ship. [00:36:25] Eli: what I did. Yeah. So I just, I went all in. I've always had a love affair with magazines as far as, any sport that I was into. [00:36:34] Had a magazine dedicated to it with mountain biking, surfing, rock climbing, scuba diving. but there was nothing dedicated to shark diving. And that's the area that I fell in love with. And I said, here's my, and I really was trying to find. A vehicle. And a way to get into the industry, to make a name for myself, coming from Landlock, Texas. [00:36:54] there was, this was my way in. This was an opportunity. And this is all pre-social media, so it was all from scratch and trying to create this business. And, yeah, we did it for eight years. I published 25 issues and it was a lot of fun. And it was, a lot of laying in bed going, what the hell did I do? [00:37:14] Why did I do this to myself? And, this is crazy. And it was fueled by also, I, the first pub, the first magazine I came out with, a family friend. I overheard him in the distance, say I wonder if it's gonna be around in a year. And that, so I wrote those words down and I put it in my office. [00:37:36] and that, inspired me to make it to the first year it was a, and then after that, I made it to the second and the third. it was just this labor of love. This, chance for me to tell stories, chance for me to share this world with people. [00:37:50] because, when I first started and when I was looking through the books, it really felt like, , a, a club. And it really felt more like a researcher's club more than anything else. It was like, the guys who had access to all these amazing places were usually the scientists, the shark scientists, the shark researchers. [00:38:06] And it really didn't feel like it was open to guys like me. And so this is the world that I wanted to create. I wanted to create a world where it was open to. Sharks were accessible to the world. And that's what I wanted to do with this magazine. and what I wanted to do with my storytelling is invite everybody who was really interested in sharks like myself and help them find places where they could dive with these animals and read stories from fellow people like myself that were not all scientists, we're not all research. [00:38:36] yeah. So that was the idea. That was what I really wanted to do when I started the magazine. And then, trying to get advertisers to be interested in us when we had zero subscribers and no real history, and it was just like, mm-hmm. That was an impossible feat. So I don't know where I came up with the idea. [00:38:54] Somebody either shared that idea with me or I was doing my research. I just decided to try to organize, oh, I know what it was. It was one of my potential sponsors asking me to organize a trip. And that's what started the opportunities is it's a great way to raise money. [00:39:12] If I can get people to travel with us, we can use that money to help publish the magazine. Yeah. And that's what the first trips were. So May I ran our first expedition to North Carolina for Sand Tiger Sharks in May of 2003. So that first year coming out of the box, we, we brought some people and we just started doing that. [00:39:32] So from the first year we organized those trips, and then we just, it just kept going. and it was, and it ended up being the way I funded the magazine for the first eight years. I didn't, after that I really didn't chase sponsors very much because I just didn't like, I'd go to a travel show. [00:39:48] And then we, and. It would be, I would end up being that magazine guy that's just trying to get money from me. Yeah. And I didn't like that feeling at all. So I just said, you know what, I don't need to do this. this is what the trips are about. It's reader sponsored, and I can do whatever I want with a magazine. [00:40:04] I can tell the stories the way I want to tell 'em. and so that's what I did. [00:40:08] Danielle: I think because we've all been sold so many different times through so many different channels, it's like you can feel it when it's coming at you. [00:40:15] And nobody likes that. So it's just so much this is what it is, this is what we're doing, this is what I like. gosh, having come from different sales backgrounds and have family and my husband who's in sales, it's like when a sale happens, you're really just offering information. [00:40:31] It's I don't, my guess is you're not selling people ongoing on your trips, right? People are already interested. You're giving them the information and then that's when they say yes. But you're not going out selling people on doing it. I feel like I'm trying to do that for you. 'cause I just think more people need to do it. [00:40:46] You are very intentionally not doing that. I want to acknowledge the predator myth, I found it really interesting that you were passionate about dispelling the predator myth. I wanna understand that better because obviously we all know how sharks are portrayed. [00:41:01] we've seen all those things. but I think the ocean, deep ocean and what we fear in the ocean, it correlates to emotions, big, uncomfortable feelings. I don't think it's called a therapy myth, but there has to be something terribly wrong to seek that type of help or seek that type of guidance. [00:41:20] and I wanna know more in your world, in your space, what is the predator myth and what do you want people to know? [00:41:28] Eli: Oh, for me its exactly what I was brought up believing about sharks is just that, sharks are mindless monsters and they're just out to get you. [00:41:37] And the moment you step in the ocean, there's gonna be a shark down there. And, I've heard this. My entire life that, oh, I'll never jump off a boat into the ocean because there's just sharks waiting. [00:41:47] Danielle: [00:41:47] Eli: me, and it's completely opposite. I really wish that if I just went out into the ocean, jumped off a boat and there'd be a bunch of sharks there, it's just not the reality. [00:41:58] It takes so much work to find these animals. It takes a lot of effort and usually the people That get lucky and say, oh look, there's a great white under my boat. they're the ones who don't wanna see sharks. the people that wanna see sharks like a great white under their boat, never get to see a great white under their boat. [00:42:15] that's just the way nature works. But, yeah, for me it was more about, trying to help people pass this prejudice, pass this belief system that is ingrained in us, that's actually probably ingrained in our DNA [00:42:27] So it's very much ingrained in all of us from the beginning. And the more I understood sharks, the more I wanted to get rid of that stigma as best I could. Yeah. I started doing a lot of, Talks at schools and helping kids with, sharing, what I know about sharks, and I've through the years, really figured out what works and what doesn't. [00:42:48] And I used to show pictures of sharks and try to get people to dispel their fear with just a picture of shark, but in their mind, it's still a shark. [00:42:57] But when I started sharing videos of myself with a shark in my arms and giving a back rub and rolling them upside down and just, like a shark sticking his face between my knees so I could scratch his back. [00:43:10] and showing these kids these images and showing these kids that, this other side, and you could see it, you see it in the teachers. they're just like, wait. Mm-hmm. Wait, what? Wait, what? It's like you wake them up, you wake up something primal in them and say, wait, that's possible. [00:43:24] Danielle: yes. That you just said it, 'cause I think that you don't have to prove to someone what you're saying is true, but what you're showing them is it's possible. I think it's when you don't believe it's possible, that's when people freeze or shut down or wanna give up or stop. [00:43:39] And it's when we're afraid we want control, we want contracts, we want guarantees, we want promises, we need something ironclad. But, there is no guarantee. But knowing that, there's something possible that's really, yeah. I feel that really deeply. Yeah. you're igniting possibility in people. [00:43:58] It, you also just reminded me too, I love Leopard Sharks. I've never swam with them, but, I love leopard Sharks and I feel like that. That shark more than any other, you see them almost act like little dogs, like just anyone listening, just Google videos of like leopard shark pups. And they swear, they just act like dogs. [00:44:14] So cute down. They're beautiful. What is the, what do you think is the biggest gap in our understanding of not just predators, but marine life, wildlife? what's our biggest gap in understanding? [00:44:29] Eli: I think it's disconnect. like you said earlier, it's, oh, I'm glad somebody out there is doing it. [00:44:34] that kind of thing. It's it's not for me. I got too many things I'm doing in my life, my life is a mess, Lack of empathy for something. and that has to do with disconnect because it's more of, it's talking about the shark, [00:44:46] it's one thing to talk about, it's another thing for people to see it. And, in them, me, roll the tiger. just like open that up in your mind, the fascination in your mind of oh wow, like I didn't even know this was a thing. Or if it's even possible. And that's what I've tried to do [00:45:01] predators and with crocodiles and anacondas and all the other animals that I dive with is just showing the other side of these animals and, their place in the world And how important they are. And it's not just, when we jump in the water with an anaconda and if, people are so surprised to know that it's. [00:45:18] the Anaconda is terrified and all he's trying to do is hide from us. So you're looking at a 18 foot, 20 foot long snake. the moment I jump in the water and he's just like, where do I hide? it's like he's completely terrified of my presence. [00:45:32] [00:45:32] Danielle: the crocodile, those images just, everyone should visit Eli's, social media channels as soon as you, you stop listening to this episode, just go scroll through and look. But the crocodile one, those, late night scrolling, when I see one of those images that stops me in my tracks, and I thought I was pretty open-minded with nature, but man, that, that makes the hairs on the back of my neck stand up. [00:45:54] That's wild. [00:45:56] Eli: I used to say Crocs of the new Sharks. Okay, sure. I feel that makes sense. So yeah, because for years, right? when I started the magazine in 2003, it was still Steve Irwin. Mm-hmm. The late great Steve Irwin was still diving with Tiger Sharks in a cage. [00:46:11] on his show, he was showing, that diving with them in a cage. so for years they're like,it's impossible to dive with tigers outside of a cage. Then, in The Bahamas and Fiji, they're diving with tigers outside the cage and they're like, you can do it during the day, but you can't do it at night. [00:46:27] So we started diving with tigers at night, and then they're like, you can do that with a tiger, but you can't do it with a great white. Yeah, we're diving outside the cage with great whites. And so, I mean, it was just like, well, you could do it with sharks, but you can't do it with crocodiles. [00:46:39] Danielle: You're right. You're right. It's the same prejudice, just moving into a different face. [00:46:44] Eli: Right. Oh, interesting. The same thing with orcas too. Like you can, when they're like, you can't swim with an orca. we started swimming with orcas and then, you can do it with these, but you can't do it with the pelagic orcas because, they're a lot more aggressive and they eat sea lions. [00:46:56] And so we're diving with those species too. it's just they're always trying to find, and it's usually people who don't swim with these animals that are creating the ideas that people believe, [00:47:07] Danielle: you know? Mm-hmm. Yeah. So it's like the people that aren't the mechanics or the one trying to pump the brakes. [00:47:12] Um, I, so I saw on your social media just this morning that you said the duck bill platypus is your unicorn. Yes. That was, it wasn't intended to be a question, but I have to ask, why is the Depa plat picture your unicorn [00:47:24] Eli: as a kid? I, that was one of the first most exotic animals I had ever seen. [00:47:31] Danielle: Yeah. [00:47:31] Eli: This book in second grade, that I read about the platypus and it was, the fact that it lays eggs and that it's got a duck bill and it looks like a beaver, but it's not. and it was just a fascination was born in that moment. And it was something that like, I have to see this animal. [00:47:50] Like I just have to, so it's always been, it's been my unicorn. I have, I'm ashamed to say I've never been to Australia. [00:47:57] But as soon as I do, that is like task number one. I gotta see a platypus like this. Okay. [00:48:03] Danielle: that was gonna be my follow up question because I embarrassingly don't know where the poses live. So I was gonna ask you where would one, find one. Okay. So Australia. Perfect. I actually think there's a couple of Australian listeners. I don't know where in Australia. I just see this map and wherever it's highlighted that shows where people have downloaded episodes. [00:48:20] So anyone in Australia don't miss your opportunity to catch a platypus because Eli's gonna come snap some photos. Okay. So we're nearing the end and I'm really excited to lay out the don't cut your own bangs moment with you. 'cause I have a feeling you probably have too many that could just fill up its own episode. [00:48:41] But I would love to know what a don't cut your own bang moment is for you. [00:48:45] Eli: I spent a big part of my youth trying to become a professional bull writer growing up in Texas. What. [00:48:57] Danielle: Okay. Okay. This is good. This is already, this is already one of the top two. Okay. Go on. [00:49:01] Eli: So I wanted to be a world champion bull rider. [00:49:04] I ate, drank, dream, slept, dreamed bull riding. I was in love with the sport. [00:49:09] And it was during, I was working on my pro permit when I cracked my hip at a show and I gave myself three months to heal. And it was during that time, one of my best friends got a scuba diving certification and he was telling me about it. [00:49:25] So I had three months off. So I took the time to get my scuba certification. [00:49:30] Danielle: After I got scuba certified, I went, I just wanna, I just wanna put a brief pause. So your time off was actually you healing a fractured hip. You weren't. Oh, okay. So in your off time with a fractured hip, you got your scuba certification? [00:49:45] Eli: Yes, exactly. Okay. Okay. Cool. Okay, go on, go on. [00:49:51] So it was on that, on that bowl that I, when I cracked my hip, I got, I got scuba certified. I went to Kmel, I saw a shark. I came back from that adventure. I was, I went to my next rodeo and I was behind the chutes. And I fell off my bowl and all I had, I usually would throw a fit. When I would buck off, I would just, so angry at myself. [00:50:15] But off, after that ride, I was behind the chutes and I had Caribbean music, blue water, white sand sharks floating through my mind. I was like, I'm done. I'm going shark diving. And, so not becoming a professional bull rider was the best thing that never happened to me. [00:50:34] Danielle: Oh, that is so, that is good. [00:50:39] And I feel like those, those moments, that perspective is unfortunately earned in hindsight. It's so hard to trust in those moments when you're down with a fractured hip or saying goodbye to an old dream, feeling like you're starting over. That is hard. I mean, in your magazine was that too? But you can even see now in the full expression of what your business is, how learning to tell stories, learning to create a narrative, learning to take images and then not just take images that are clear and focus, but that are also telling a visual story. [00:51:18] And you've passed that on to your daughter who, she's a wildlife photographer in the making. I mean she is and is continuing to be, but it's like all of those steps. But it's, all of those things led to the next thing, but I think it only could have, because you followed the curiosity as opposed to maybe drowning in what you were losing. [00:51:41] You allowed yourself to become curious about where you wanted to go. And I think that's a really remarkable quality. That's a good, that's a great emotionally resilient quality. [00:51:52] Eli: Yeah. Mm-hmm. Well, thanks. I just, uh, yeah. It was, it was, that was a huge chunk of my life that I just I gave up, but it felt right. [00:52:02] It felt right. And it was just like, that's why I think maybe that. Let's see if he's still around in a year. Doing that came from just because I was like, okay, he is gonna be a bull rider now. He is gonna be a shark diver. [00:52:15] Danielle: Yes. my background was on ballroom dance. I taught, before that I did commercial acting. [00:52:20] my plan was to move to la I had a very similar, about face, very big pivot and started teaching ballroom dance. Did that for about seven years. And I just felt that pressure where I'm about to grow outta my shell. I knew it was not this, but I wasn't crystal clear on what that was. [00:52:38] I just knew not this. And so little step by little step, I found my way in grad school and I was, about 11 years older than every other person in that particular class when I decided to switch careers and do what I'm doing now. But yeah, I always appreciate when people can share those moments like that. [00:52:58] 'cause I think what I'm doing is trying to build up a bank of stories that would've comforted those versions of me that was just so terrified about to do something new. . [00:53:08] This was so exciting. Thank you for being here. I'm excited for everybody to, check out your account, look at all your images, sign up for a trip, just take the leap, put a deposit down on an adventure. [00:53:22] Just scroll through. Pick an animal that terrifies you and just say yes to that one. I can't wait for everybody to hear this. Awesome. Thank you so much. [00:53:30] Thank you so much for tuning into this week's episode of Don't Cut Your Own Bangs. I hope that you enjoyed it as much as I did recording it, because this in so many ways was a dream come true if you couldn't tell by the episode itself. I wanna leave you with , a quote that I pulled from Eli that was said in the episode, but really is the heart of what this episode is, as well as what I hope to bring to every episode. [00:53:55] When people experience the wild, they understand and when they understand they care If you replace the wild with the self. When people experience the self, they understand and when they understand they care. The more I understand my own emotional landscape, the more equipped and empowered I feel to navigate it. [00:54:22] The more empathetic, the more compassionate, the more connected I feel with the people in my life. The people who I believe have wronged me with my past. I feel more hopeful for my future. That connection to the self, our essential self or nature, the natural world around us is I think what makes us unique in the experience we get to have on this planet. [00:54:47] So if you haven't already decided you're gonna book your adventure, this might be your call. Whether that adventure is outside your window looking at a sunset, [00:54:58] but I want that for you. I want that for me, and I think we all deserve to have that kind of magic. We can make it if we want it. Thank you for tuning in this week. I look forward to catching you next time, and as always, I hope you continue to have a wonderful day. [00:55:11]  

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text!How many many women wished they could have dated young under parental supervision? In this episode, we discuss raising teenagers especially young women. We tend to have a long leash on our young men but yet a shock collar on our young women. We expect them to choose wisely when they become adults but their emotional state haven't even been developed yet. All the things they could have went through as a teenager and would have been taught through they are now learning in their twenties either in college or out in the world with no life jacket and no supervision. How are young women supposed to navigate relationships without crashing out when we don't have the tools to do so? Well tune in and share. Support the show

I want to hear your thoughts about the show and this episode. Text us here...In this raw and deeply personal episode, I share a story that stopped me in my tracks... being called an anti-Semite for standing up for what I believe in and for speaking up against Alligator Alcatraz. But instead of backing down, I want to lean into truth, integrity, and my own values.This is a reflection on the legacy of a woman who embodied true confidence: the unforgettable Hat Lady. From personal heartbreak to profound life lessons about generosity, resilience, and living in alignment with your values, this episode is a timely reminder that confidence isn't about being understood; it's about knowing who you are.As a life coach for women, I don't always get it right. I want to let others know it is okay to stand for what they believe. You will always have people who criticize you, attack you for your beliefs, and write you off as a crazy woman. Will it be easy? No... in the end, attacks say more about the other person than it does about you.That is their choice. Your choice is to stay true to your values. This is an invitation to join a supportive community of purpose-driven entrepreneurs who are creating an impact in the world.A mastermind is a community of peers who exchange ideas, provide support, and offer sound advice for running a successful business.Join the Confident YOU Mastermind now at https://goconfidentlyservices.myflodesk.com/confidentyoumastermindSupport the showOther helpful resources for you: For more about me and what I do, check out my website. Are you ready to get some help with:Podcast launch/re-launchPodcast growth, to increase your authority and position yourself as the thought leader you are. Or Leveraging your podcast to build your online biz and get more clientsSign up for a FREE 30 minute Confident Podcast Potential Discovery Call In this session I will: Identify the pain point that is holding you back. Suggest a next step strategy for solving the pain point.https://calendly.com/goconfidentlycoaching/30-minutes-free-coaching-sessioin Then we will talk about working together to accelerate the process. Do you want a podcast audit? Check out this link If you're looking for support to grow your business faster, be positioned as an authority in your industry, and impact the masses, schedule a call to explore if you'd be a good fit for one of my coaching programs. Thank you for listening to our podcast. Please Subscribe! ...

Navigating New Hires: Excitement, Hesitation, or Worry?In this episode of the Emotional Intelligence Podcast, hosts Ismail and Sameer dive into the complexities of emotional intelligence in leadership, particularly when it comes to setting boundaries and navigating workplace dynamics. They engage in a thought experiment titled "Excited, Hesitant, or Worried," where they explore various scenarios that leaders may encounter with new hires and interview candidates.From the overprepared interviewee to the unapologetic boundary setterKEY TAKEAWAYSSetting boundaries is essential for maintaining work-life balance, but the way you communicate them matters.Over-prepared candidates can evoke hesitation; authenticity is key in interviews.Cultural fit can outweigh technical skills, but leaders must assess the potential for growth.New employees should balance enthusiasm with respect for established team dynamics.Observing before acting can be more effective than jumping in with suggestions on day one.Hesitation can arise when new hires are overly quiet; communication is crucial for team cohesion.Proactive communication about concerns can foster trust and openness in the workplace.Tactful boundary-setting can enhance professional relationships and career growth.Vulnerability in asking for help is a strength, especially for new employees.Emotional intelligence is vital for navigating complex workplace scenarios and fostering a positive team environment.Feel free to send us an email at info@emotionalintelligents.com and share your thoughts or visit us at https://linktr.ee/emotionalintelligents Send us a text

Happiness Solved with Sandee Sgarlata. In this episode, Sandee interviews Jodi Geline. In this conversation, Sandee Sgarlata and Jodi Geline explore the profound connection between emotional healing and physical health. They discuss Jodi's personal journey of overcoming bloating and IBS, the impact of emotional trauma on physical symptoms, and the importance of self-awareness and accountability in the healing process. The conversation delves into how stress management, emotional trauma, and mindset shifts can lead to better health outcomes and improved relationships. They emphasize the significance of recognizing one's own patterns and the role of resonance in attracting abundance and positive experiences in life.Guest Bio:Jodi is a Health Expert known for helping people age healthier, banish bloat and IBS for good and reclaim their health permanently.  Jodi suffered for years with chronic health issues that no doctor could ever fix and with a belly so bloated she always looked 9 months pregnant. Through discovering her own methodology, she went from looking very pregnant to a flat stomach, lost the weight and tapped into the secrets of getting healthier as you age. Jodi figured out how to master her own health and she now teaches others to do the same. Takeaways: Emotional healing is crucial for physical health.Stress management can significantly impact gut health.Self-awareness and accountability are transformative.Recognizing emotional triggers can aid in healing.Emotional trauma can affect weight management.Healing inner wounds leads to better relationships.Shifting from a lack mentality to abundance is essential.Resonance and vibration influence our experiences.Life's challenges are opportunities for growth.Feeling good in your own skin is a journey.Connect with Jodi:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JodiGeline/videosInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jodigeline/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greathealthmasteryTake my quiz to Solve The Real Root Cause Of Your Chronic Health Issue:  https://peaceofmyheart.net/quizConnect with Sandee: Website: www.sandeesgarlata.comPodcast: www.happinesssolved.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/coachsandeesgarlataTwitter: www.twitter.com/sandeesgarlataInstagram: www.instagram.com/coachsandeesgarlata

In this powerful episode, I sit down with EMDR therapist, trauma specialist, and creator of the Embodied Rise Method, Cassandra Quick, to explore how true healing begins with understanding our inner world. Together, we unpack the emotional layers of trauma, the impact of attachment styles, and the healing power of reconnecting with the inner child. Cassandra shares how modalities like EMDR therapy, EFT tapping, and trauma-conscious yoga can help rewire the nervous system and create a sense of safety in the body. Key Topics Covered: What “parts work” really means—and how our protective parts are trying to help Why so many women were conditioned to suppress anger, and how that shows up today How EMDR works and why it's so effective for trauma recovery Big T vs Little t trauma—and why all trauma is valid Navigating attachment styles and emotional safety in relationships Tools for emotional regulation, energy shifts, and intuition The 3-step Illuminate Blueprint and the Embodied Rise Method for holistic healing A personal story about being triggered after a big life moment—and how to move through it with grace Whether you're new to trauma work or deep in the healing process, this episode is a reminder that your triggers are treasures, your body is a messenger, and healing happens when you learn to connect with yourself, with others, and with your story. Connect With Us: Follow Cassandra on Instagram @cassandraquick Follow Tami on Instagram @TamiSchiltz  Show Notes:  00:00 – Introduction & Connection 02:38 – Life's Curveballs & Surrender 05:29 – Inner Child & Understanding “Parts” 12:57 – What Are Protective Parts? 17:47 – Complex PTSD & Performance-Based Identity 19:00 – Why Women Struggle to Express Anger 21:52 – How EMDR Works 22:53 – Big T vs Little t Trauma 24:34 – Healing in Relationship 29:07 – Self-Care & Inner Child Reparenting 32:31 – Attachment Styles & Their Influence 32:40 – Letting My Daughter Express Anger Safely 34:49 – Attachment & Relationship Dynamics 35:21 – Communication & Emotional Awareness 39:44 – That Time I Accidentally Played Matchmaker 42:34 – The Power of Vulnerability 45:52 – Feeling Safe in Relationships 46:26 – Reading & Validating Energy Shifts 49:01 – Intuition vs Trauma Responses 51:12 – What Is Trauma-Conscious Yoga? 53:41 – The 3-Step Illuminate Blueprint 56:22 – Healing as a Path of Illumination 1:00:55 – EFT Tapping & Cortisol Reduction 1:04:22 – Listening to the Body as a Messenger 1:07:05 – You Don't Have to Clear Your Mind to Meditate 1:11:18 – When Therapy Isn't the Answer & The Embodied Rise Course 1:15:51 – Embodied Rise Method Overview 1:17:15 – Getting Triggered After Announcing the New Gym

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What does success really mean when you've checked all the boxes but still feel empty inside? Randy Lyman's journey from physicist and multi-millionaire entrepreneur to emotional intelligence advocate challenges everything we think we know about leadership. Despite achieving multiple patents, thriving businesses, and academic accolades, Randy opens up about the profound emptiness he felt—until he discovered what he calls “the third element,” the missing link between intellect, effort, and emotional awareness. This insight transformed his personal fulfillment and completely redefined how he leads.In our conversation, Randy shares how unprocessed emotions silently shape team dynamics and decision-making. Leaders who suppress their feelings, he explains, often create environments where their teams instinctively protect themselves rather than collaborate openly. “The moment I walk into that room,” Randy says, “people feel what I'm feeling.” His leadership shifted when he began prioritizing emotional transparency, embracing practices like journaling and carving out generous time for genuine, emotionally honest conversations with his team.Most powerfully, Randy highlights three human needs that go beyond a paycheck: to be seen as a unique individual, to contribute meaningfully, and to belong. When leaders meet these needs with emotional intelligence, people show up fully—engaged, committed, and authentic. Ready to discover your own third element? Tune in and explore how integrating emotional awareness into your leadership could be the missing key to meaningful success.

Welcome back to Part 2 of our transformative conversation with April Mason on "Women of Impact." In this half, Lisa and April dive into the essential traits every woman needs to master her self-worth, set boundaries, and stop settling for less—from respecting your own time to building individuality, authenticity, and uncompromising standards in relationships. April breaks down her 24 core traits for feminine self-mastery, illustrating how deep self-respect not only influences the dating world but ripples out into parenting, career, and personal fulfillment. April unpacks the often-overlooked superpowers of sensitivity, warmth, and charisma, guiding listeners to reconnect with their bodies and heal deep-rooted trauma. There's an honest look at the struggle of putting your own name on the "building," literally and figuratively, and the ongoing work that real change requires. April and Lisa share actionable ideas for cultivating self-ownership and internal validation, putting the power back in your own hands for love, business, and life itself. If you're ready to take practical steps toward your next level, this is your blueprint. SHOWNOTES 24:05 April's 3-Step Approach to Triggers (Recap) 28:14 Respect: The #1 Trait and Why Women Struggle to Own It 29:33 Respecting Your Own Time, Commitments, and Boundaries 34:01 Individuality as the Root of Confidence and Relationship Success 35:23 Why Women Lose Their Uniqueness and How to Reclaim It 37:05 Navigating Criticism, People-Pleasing, and Staying True to Yourself 40:02 The “Dripping Effect”: Why Early Red Flags Escalate Over Time 41:53 How to Cultivate a ‘Husband-Quality' Pool—and Weed Out the Wrong Ones 43:32 The Four Pillars of Womanhood: Femininity, Spirituality, Sensuality, Wisdom 44:03 The Power and Purpose of Sensitivity (Not Unbotheredness) 46:44 Recognizing and Healing Nervous System Trauma 47:27 Daily Self-Check-Ins for Emotional Awareness 47:47 The Value of Charisma and Why Women Need It 48:43 April's Story: Putting Her Name on the Building and Overcoming Fear 54:01 The Ongoing Work of Healing and Self-Ownership 59:32 Compassion, Boundaries, and Avoiding Over-Giving 1:00:41 Where to Learn More: All Things Feminine Social Club FOLLOW APRIL MASON: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealaprilmason/ Website: https://allthingsfeminine.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ BIOptimizers: Head to⁠ https://bioptimizers.com/impact ⁠and use code IMPACT for 10% off.  OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to The Spiritual Cupcake Podcast!Today's episode is a little story with a big message. Candace reflects on a moment with her son that turned into a metaphor for life, growth, and the quiet bravery of stepping into the unfamiliar.Inside:A funny-but-true tale about a haircut gone wrong—againWhy we cling to comfort zones (even when they let us down)How small steps outside the familiar can lead to sweet surprisesA reminder that you don't have to leap—you just have to lookIf you've been feeling stuck, stagnant, or unsure how to shift… this episode is for you.

I want to hear your thoughts about the show and this episode. Text us here...This episode is a power-packed conversation with the incredible Dr. Abena Berry—psychologist, therapist, and passionate advocate for human wellness. If you've ever felt stuck, misunderstood, or overwhelmed by your emotions, this episode is your permission slip to get curious, get real, and get growing.Dr. Berry and Julie dove deep into the heart of personal development, emotional intelligence, and the journey to self-discovery. They unpacked everything from impostor syndrome and cognitive dissonance to generational trauma and the power of community. This episode breaks down each insight and tip with actionable advice, expert context, and a sprinkle of girlfriend-to-girlfriend encouragement.Dr. Berry's Approach:Dr. Berry's work begins with helping clients peel back the layers of conditioning and trauma to rediscover their authentic selves. Many of us, she explains, have internalized beliefs and behaviors from our families, cultures, and society that don't truly reflect who we are.Actionable Steps:Create a Safe Space for Self-Exploration:Whether in therapy, journaling, or quiet reflection, give yourself permission to question your beliefs. Ask: Is this truly mine, or was it handed to me?Identify Conditioned Beliefs:Make a list of “shoulds” you live by. For each, ask yourself: Where did thThis is an invitation to join a supportive community of purpose-driven entrepreneurs who are creating an impact in the world.A mastermind is a community of peers who exchange ideas, provide support, and offer sound advice for running a successful business.Join the Confident YOU Mastermind now at https://goconfidentlyservices.myflodesk.com/confidentyoumastermindBuzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showOther helpful resources for you: For more about me and what I do, check out my website. Are you ready to get some help with:Podcast launch/re-launchPodcast growth, to increase your authority and position yourself as the thought leader you are. Or Leveraging your podcast to build your online biz and get more clientsSign up for a FREE 30 minute Confident Podcast Potential Discovery Call In this session I will: Identify the pain point that is holding you back. Suggest a next step strategy for solving the pain point.https://calendly.com/goconfidentlycoaching/30-minutes-free-coaching-sessioin Then we will talk about working together to accelerate the process. Do you want a podcast audit? Check out this link If you're looking for support to grow your business faster, be positioned as an authority in your industry, and impact the masses, schedule a call to explore if you'd be a good fit for one of my coaching programs. Thank you for listening to our podcast. Please Subscribe! ...

In this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, I have an insightful conversation with activist and author Dean Spade about his extensive work in movements for queer and trans liberation, anti-militarism, and the abolition of police and prisons.  Dean and I discuss his new book titled 'Love in a Fucked Up World: How to Build Relationships, Hook Up, and Raise Hell Together,' covering topics such as mindful practices for managing stress, the evolution of his book over nine years, and personal growth in relationships.  We also delve into the romance myth, decentralizing romantic relationships, and the importance of community support. Dean shares valuable insights and practices for generating internal safety and the importance of collective care in social movements.  This episode is an enriching dialogue aimed at anyone interested in social justice, personal growth, and transformative community practices.   Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction and Course Announcement 00:55 Introducing Dean Spade 02:01 Dean Spade's Book Journey 02:28 Healing Modalities and Personal Growth 03:05 Non-Monogamous Relationships 03:34 Challenges in Writing the Book 05:15 Self-Help Literature Critique 06:45 Emotional Awareness in Movements 15:27 Decentralizing Romantic Relationships 23:49 Self-Generated Safety and Belonging 31:40 Therapy Misconceptions and Realities 32:38 The Overuse of Pathologizing Language 33:23 Forgiveness and Self-Inquiry in Relationships 36:05 The Impact of Alcoholism on Relationships 37:28 The Process of Forgiveness and Healing 41:34 Sexual Trauma and Cultural Narratives 44:18 Transformative Justice and Community Response 49:52 Decentralizing Romantic Relationships You can watch this episode on my YouTube channel, just search LaidOPEN. Plus, I have free guided visualizations and a host of other tools and resources available to you there and on my website at CharnaCassell.com.

In this episode, we explore how emotional avoidance and self-abandonment often disguise themselves as being “helpful,” “productive,” or “strong.” Whether it's saying yes too quickly, fixing others' emotions, or numbing out with distractions, these patterns are not bad habits - they're survival strategies we picked up when it wasn't safe to feel or express ourselves. We look at where these behaviors come from, why they served a purpose, and what they're costing us now. We discuss gentle, practical ways to begin recognizing and shifting these patterns. You'll walk away with a deeper understanding of why it's hard to stay with yourself emotionally and how beginning to do so—even for a few seconds at a time—is a powerful act of healing.     We don't always notice when we're abandoning ourselves – it can look like overdoing, over giving, or overcommitting.   Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here! If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!   Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:   https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words     Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out: https://findyourvoicecourse.com/   Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey!  https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour     Resources: Join the private Facebook group! It's a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143   Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don't forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don't miss a thing!  

Schedule a Meeting with Joshua TODAY!Outdoor living pros—what if your biggest sales problem isn't your pricing, marketing, or even your leads… but your emotional wiring?In this powerful episode, Joshua Gillow dives into how emotional responses shaped by your past are influencing your behavior in the present—especially during high-stakes client interactions. Using the lens of cognitive appraisal theory, he shows how self-awareness and intentional mindset shifts can unlock better sales, stronger relationships, and a more fulfilling business.You will:Learn how landscapers and hardscapers can transform subconscious limitations into growth-focused mindsetsDiscover the emotional patterns that silently sabotage sales—and how to stop themGain real-world strategies for showing up with confidence, clarity, and purpose on every projectIf you're an outdoor living pro ready to break free from reactive habits and lead your business with intentional power, hit play now—this mindset shift could change everything.Connect with Joshua at:The WebsiteThe Facebook GroupSales Master ClassesHow to work with Joshua -  www.yes.express/applyTune into this podcast where a seasoned craftsman shares expert communication skills, strategies for overcoming stress and overwhelm, and insights on building a profitable business in landscaping and hardscaping, with tips on how to sell, close more deals, and achieve financial freedom to retire early as a successful business owner in the design

Da er det 2. juni, og tradisjon tro (i og med at vi gjorde det i fjor) markerer SinnSyn den såkalte Emotional Awareness day. SinnSyn lar altså ikke 2. juni forbigå i stillhet. Jeg markerer dagen med et foredrag om det jeg mener er det aller viktigste å vite om menneskets følelsesliv. Kort sagt skal jeg snakk om krig i menneskesinnet, og nettopp her spiller følelsene våre en helt sentral rolle. Hypotesen er at undertrykte følelser blir til borgerkrig i menneskesjelen, mens avviste følelser blir til krig med omverdenen.Vi tror kanskje vi har full oversikt over det vi tenker og føler, men der tar vi feil. Over 95 % av alt som skjer i psyken foregår utenfor vår bevissthet, og kanskje er de nettopp de følelsene vi ikke merker, eller påstår at vi ikke har, som kan skape mest indre uro og «mental krig». Det viser seg for eksempel at de som påstår at de ikke er styrt av følelser, i realiteten er mer styrt av følelser enn de som faktisk anerkjenner at følelser er med på å styre dem. De som nekter for dette er fortsatt påvirket av følelser, men uten at de er klar over det, og nettopp det setter dem i følelsenes vold på en mer kronglete og uoversiktlig måte.Derfor er det på sin plass med litt mer oppmerksomhet på egne følelser, og kanskje bør vi ha litt fokus på følelser hele året, men det er likevel fint at 2. juni har blitt den offisielle dagen for affektbevissthet. I anledning «emotional awareness day» er du herved velkommen til et dypdykk i de ubevisste avkrokene i mennesket åndsliv for å konfrontere en del av de følelsene vi kanskje helst vil unngå.Vil du ha mer psykologi og flere dypdykk i menneskets sjelsliv? Bli medlem på vårt Mentale Helsestudio.Last ned SinSyn-appen på www.sinnsyn.no/download/ Eller meld deg inn via www.patron.com/sinsyn Få tilgang til ALT ekstramateriale som medlem på SinnSyns Mentale Helsestudio via SinnSyn-appen her: https://www.webpsykologen.no/et-mentalt-helsestudio-i-lomma/ eller som Patreon-Medlem her: https://www.patreon.com/sinnsyn. For reklamefri pod og bonus-episoder kan du bli SinnSyn Pluss abonnent her https://plus.acast.com/s/sinnsyn. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For the longest time, I told myself they were just being disrespectful.That ignoring me was their way of being petty.But eventually, the truth hit me:They were only reflecting back what I unknowingly taught them.I didn't know how to deal with conflict—so I used sarcasm. Snarky jabs. Silence.I thought I was defending myself… but I was modeling passive aggression.Now I see:This child who won't speak to me learned that silence… from me.This isn't about blame.This is about owning our part in the story—so we can rewrite the ending.Healing starts when we stop pointing fingers… and start looking in the mirror.

This week we're diving into something every family longs for...Joy. I'm joined by Tauren Wells, and we're talking about how to create a home filled with lasting joy, not just fleeting happiness. We unpack what it looks like to live out the beatitudes, how our identity shapes our parenting, and why emotional health matters so much in our homes.Here are four key takeaways from this episode:Joy > Happiness, Tauren reminds us that true joy is rooted in Jesus—not in perfect circumstances.Knowing who we are in Christ helps us parent from a place of peace, not pressure.Creating a peaceful home means modeling grace and leading with humility—even in conflict.We talk about the importance of letting our kids (and ourselves) feel emotions and grow from them.Tauren Wells is a Grammy-nominated Christian artist, pastor, and speaker known for blending powerful music with deep biblical truth. He's passionate about helping people find purpose, identity, and joy in Christ and that passion shines through in both his music and his message to families.This episode will leave you feeling encouraged, equipped, and ready to build a home full of the kind of joy that lasts. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.(02:57) Understanding Joy and Happiness(05:51) The Beatitudes: A Path to True Happiness(08:45) Identity vs. Activity in Parenting(12:03) The Role of Peacemaking in Families(14:59) Navigating Emotions with Children(18:06) Creating a Peaceful Home Environment(21:02) The Importance of Emotional Awareness(24:01) Encouragement for Parents Seeking JoyConnect with TaurenTauren's websiteTauren's podcastsInstagramResources mentionedJoy Bomb bookMarriage SimplifiedChristian Parenting resourcesThe Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.orgOur Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code CPPODCAST for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out Marianne and the Maker: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.comPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Send us a textIn this episode, Richard Fleek and Farrer welcome Chief Joshua Mackey, who shares his extensive journey in the Navy, including impactful experiences, leadership lessons, and the importance of emotional awareness in communication. The conversation also touches on honoring veterans through initiatives like providing NFL tickets to those who have served, upcoming events, and the significance of the Navy's Drug and Alcohol Counselor Program. The camaraderie and challenges faced in military life are explored, along with personal reflections on family and career choices. In this engaging conversation, Josh Mackey shares his extensive experiences in the medical field and the military, emphasizing the importance of mental health and community support for veterans. He reflects on his personal journey, including humorous anecdotes about his time in the Navy and his love for cruising as a way to unwind. The discussion also touches on the significance of feedback and personal growth, highlighting the camaraderie among veterans and the lessons learned throughout their service.Support the show

When was the last time you included your health in your top five life priorities?Snippet of wisdom 77.In this series, I select my favourite, most insightful moments from previous episodes of the podcast.Today, my guest Evette Rose talks about how we've been conditioned to avoid our emotions, and why reconnecting with them is essential for healing and true self-awareness.Press play to learn why your emotions are the "GPS" of your soul, and how avoidance sabotages your health and intuition.˚VALUABLE RESOURCES:Listen to the full conversation with Evette Rose in episode #402:https://personaldevelopmentmasterypodcast.com/402Mastery Seekers Tribe: https://masteryseekerstribe.com˚

In this episode, I sit down with the legendary Gabby Reece—former pro beach volleyball player, NYT bestselling author, fitness icon, and entrepreneur. From breaking records at Florida State to co-creating XPT and HIGHX with her husband, big-wave surfer Laird Hamilton, Gabby has continually pushed the boundaries of performance and wellness. We talk about identity beyond achievement, how she's navigated motherhood and ambition, and what it really means to live with strength and grace.Leave Us A Voice Message! | https://telbee.io/channel/4_b9zzx58wdkuwirqkcxwa/Topics Discussed: How did Gabby Reece transition from professional sports to becoming a leader in the wellness industry?What inspired Gabby Reece to co-create XPT and HIGHX with Laird Hamilton?What are Gabby Reece's top tips for balancing motherhood, career, and personal health?How does Gabby Reece define strength and resilience in today's world?What are Gabby Reece's daily wellness habits for staying fit, focused, and energized?Sponsored By:Be Well By Kelly Protein Powder & Essentials | Get $10 off your order with PODCAST10 at bewellbykelly.com.LMNT | Go to DrinkLMNT.com/Kelly to receive a free Sample Pack with any LMNT drink mix purchase!Kosterina | Use code KELLY for 15% OFF your first order at kosterina.com/bewell Not sure where to start? Shop all my Kosterina favorites at kosterina.com/bewellMinnow | Go to shopminnow.com and enter code SHOPMINNOW15 at checkout to receive 15% off your first order. Timestamps:00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:30 – Life Lessons from Pro Volleyball00:04:33 – How to Build Mental Resilience00:07:15 – Managing Highs and Lows in Life00:09:52 – Emotional Awareness & Self-Honesty00:13:50 – Getting Back Into Your Body00:17:31 – The Power of Self Check-Ins00:21:06 – Can Women Really “Have It All”?00:21:45 – Flywheel vs. Bucket: Energy Management00:26:53 – Entrepreneurship While Raising Kids00:31:37 – How to Set Career Boundaries00:34:53 – Quality Time with Children: What Matters00:38:34 – Gabby's Keys to a Strong Marriage00:43:22 – Love Languages, Habits & Humor00:47:39 – Entrepreneurship as a Personal Growth Tool00:50:23 – Growing a Wellness Brand00:51:50 – Starting a Business from Scratch00:57:05 – Learning to Say No with Confidence00:58:56 – Shifting Your Mindset After Mistakes01:01:35 – Staying Positive Through Challenges01:05:26 – Breaking the Victim Mentality01:09:16 – Mentorship & Controlling What You Can01:11:58 – How to Know When to Let Go01:13:30 – Gentle Parenting Explained01:16:05 – Parenting Wins & Learning Moments01:20:27 – Birth Order, Learning Styles & Kids01:24:26 – Stop Caring What People ThinkFurther Listening How to Reignite Intimacy, Communicate Better & Fix Relationship Burnout | Dr. Morgan CutlipCheck Out...

Emotions are foundational in our overall well-being. They shape our relationships, affect our careers, and influence countless other areas where our clients seek support. Yet, for many of us and our clients, sometimes emotions can feel vague or ambiguous. Why? We were never taught to clearly identify our emotions and still may not have the language to articulate them. Understanding and accurately labeling the feelings we experience is crucial for mental health. If most people are unable to do this, that means we've got some work to do. But here's the great news: Emotional capacity and intelligence are measurable and learnable–we can build them just like we build muscles. This is the essential skill we'll focus on in today's podcast episode. The truth is, we are all going to face setbacks. But your emotional world–your skills, awareness, and connectedness surrounding your emotions–is one of the most vital components of your stability. To help you understand how significant our emotions are, I'll share insights from the largest study on emotional intelligence and explore the current "emotional recession" impacting us and our clients. I'll also take you through a relevant analogy to help you understand how emotions act as stabilizers and how to expand our emotional capacity—practically and powerfully.When we develop our knowledge around the power and importance of emotions–and understand what it means to truly connect with them–we can expand our capacity to navigate life. Building your emotional intelligence muscles as a coach not only allows you to show up powerfully for your clients and cultivate lasting change in their lives, but it also means you are increasing their awareness of the muscles that they need to strengthen. When we do this work—individually and collectively—we have more meaningful life experiences filled with purpose, gratitude, connection, and empathy. I can't wait to show you how this is possible in today's episode.What you'll learn:Key summary points from the State of the Heart 2024 report on emotional intelligenceThe definition of “emotional recession” and how one is currently affecting all of usWhy many people lack the awareness to understand and label their emotions accuratelyA personal story that highlights the importance of emotional skills as a stabilization toolWhat it really means to be with our emotions and how skilled coaches guide clients through this processRead the full show notes here.Connect with Molly ClaireMolly's Website: MollyClaire.ComMaster Coach Training 2026 Application Open Have a question or thoughts about the podcast? Don't hesitate to contact Molly at:Instagram | Molly Claire Coaching IGmolly@mollyclaire.comFacebookMolly's book: The Happy Mom Mindset:

If you're curious as to whether you have any stored emotions or trauma that might be causing your illness, preventing you from achieving your best, or even just showing up as the best, authentic version of yourself, I invite you to take my free Stored Emotions and Trauma Quiz.Your subconscious is always listening—what is it hearing from you?In this episode of Quantum Rx, Stephanie breaks down the science—and the myths—around how your mind actually works. You'll learn why outdated beliefs about the brain and body are holding you back, and how to start rewriting those internal scripts for good. From the real difference between the conscious and subconscious mind to why most affirmations fail (and how to make them work), this episode is a crash course in reprogramming your inner world for better health, more energy, and deeper alignment. Packed with personal stories, grounded science, and no-BS insights, it's the mindset reset you didn't know you needed.You'll Learn:How breathwork activates the parasympathetic nervous system for calm and healingWhy positive affirmations fail without emotional embodimentWhat subconscious “eavesdropping” reveals about thought patterns and physical healthHow to rewire your brain using micro-shifts in language and attentionWhy most people misunderstand the role of manifestation in real changeHow trauma seeds are planted through emotional charge and judgmentHow mindset shapes recovery speed in physical injury and painWhy subconscious suggestion is more powerful than direct commandsHow reframing your inner dialogue impacts energy, clarity, and resilienceTimestamps:[00:00] Introduction[00:18] Common myths we were taught growing up[01:00] Outdated science we used to believe[02:00] Misconceptions about the nervous system[02:30] How breath can influence the nervous system[03:00] Overview of conscious vs subconscious mind[03:50] Why the subconscious matters for healing and change[04:40] The conscious mind explained through everyday examples[05:30] Funny story about being seen in pajamas[06:40] How our thoughts react in real-time[07:10] Using emojis to understand the conscious mind[08:10] The subconscious mind explained as a monk[08:50] Why the subconscious doesn't judge[09:40] How to influence the subconscious with thought[10:30] How trauma forms from reactions[11:20] The subconscious as a background program[12:00] How much data your subconscious processes[12:40] How to use this to your advantage[13:10] Why breathwork impacts the subconscious[13:50] Why positive affirmations alone don't work[14:40] Feeling what you want is key to change[15:30] Why manifestation can be misleading[16:10] Energetics and subconscious connection[16:40] Maintaining a positive mindset, realistically[17:30] Example of staying calm during setbacks[18:20] How your reactions shape your subconscious[19:00] Rewiring your brain through daily responses[19:40] Using mindset to manage pain[21:00] Breaking the pain signal with mindset[22:00] Mind-body techniques for healing[23:00] How self-talk helped reduce pain[24:00] Healing timeline comparison[24:40] Real-time healing experiment[25:30] Mental feedback loop in healing[26:10] Other physical symptoms that respond to this work[26:50] Importance of honesty about emotions[27:30] Encouragement to shift negative thoughts[28:00] Examples of changing internal dialogueFind More From Dr. Stephanie Davis:Dr. Stephanie Davis | WebsiteQuantum Rx | InstagramQuantum Rx | Skool

In this episode, Haley and Dustin talk with Jennie Allen, founder of IF: Gathering and New York Times bestselling author of Untangle Your Emotions, Get Out of Your Head, and the upcoming children's book What to Do with Your Whirly, Swirly Thoughts.   For her hope story, Jennie shares why she's more hopeful than ever about reaching the next generation with the gospel, including the powerful ministry she's leading on college campuses. She also opens up about her personal journey related to mental and emotional health, why these themes are central to her writing, and what the Bible says about our mental and emotional well-being. Together, they explore the importance of naming and processing emotions, the freedom that comes with emotional honesty, and how parents can help their kids navigate difficult thoughts and emotions.   Subscribe to the podcast and tune in each week as Haley and Dustin share with you what the Bible says about real-life issues with compassion, warmth, and wit.   So you have every reason for hope, for every challenge in life. Because hope means everything.   Hope Talks is a podcast of the ministry of Hope for the Heart.   Listen in to learn more  (06:55) - Saying Yes to God's Plans (12:46) - Navigating Mental Health and Faith (27:09) - Embracing Educated Hope and Emotional Awareness (36:54) - Navigating Desperation With Jenny Allen (44:06) - Educated Hope and Trust in God   --------------   Resources from Jennie Allen Learn more about Jennie Allen and her ministry at https://www.jennieallen.com/  Get a copy of Jennie's book, Untangle Your Emotions: https://tinyurl.com/4hxjc9sy  Get a copy of Jennie's new children's book, What to Do with Your Whirly, Swirly Thoughts – https://tinyurl.com/43xdxvud    Hope for the Heart resources Connect with Hope for the Heart on social!    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopefortheheart   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopefortheheart    Learn more about the ministry and resources of Hope for the Heart: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/    Learn more about Hope Talks and catch up on past episodes: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/hopetalks/    Want to talk with June Hunt on Hope in the Night about a difficult life issue? Schedule a time here: https://resource.hopefortheheart.org/talk-with-june-hope-in-the-night   God's plan for you: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/gods-plan-for-you/   Give to the ministry of Hope for the Heart: https://raisedonors.com/hopefortheheart/givehope?sc=HTPDON    Learn about our summer event on Mental Health and the Church: https://resource.hopefortheheart.org/mental-health-and-the-church   Sign up for our fall Hope Together conference: https://hopetogether.com/ 

In this episode of the Spirit and Soul podcast, host Tiffany Cohen interviews Margo Harris, co-founder of Ground and Center and founder of Calm Cookie Kids Yoga. Margo shares her journey from being a traditional educator to embracing yoga for children, emphasizing the importance of emotional support and mindfulness in early childhood education. The conversation highlights the transformative power of yoga and mindfulness practices for both kids and parents, showcasing real-life stories of change and growth. Margo advocates for teaching emotional awareness from infancy, aiming to equip children with tools to navigate their feelings and foster self-regulation. In this conversation, Tiffany and Margo discuss the importance of mindfulness, emotional regulation, and play in children's education and development. They explore how anxiety affects children and the need for adults to model healthy behaviors. Margo shares insights about her work at Ground and Center, a community resource for mindfulness and movement, and emphasizes the importance of advocating for mindfulness practices in schools. The conversation highlights the role of play in learning and the significance of creating a supportive environment for children and families. Check out Margo here! IG: @calmcookie_kidsyoga Check out our Instagram and Tiktok: @spiritandsoulstudio Tiffany's instagram: @heyimtiffanymarie Shop and sign up for classes here: www.spiritandsoulstudio.com Download our Intention Meditation App here https://www.spiritandsoulstudio.com/intention

In this episode, you'll learn how to feel your emotions without becoming them—so you can stay grounded, clear, and empowered no matter what life brings. Discover simple yet powerful tools to shift from emotional overwhelm to emotional mastery, and turn your feelings into allies instead of identities. Things Mentioned: MAY MAGIC (Personalized Coaching Special) Free Resources: The Digital Nomad Playbook Guaranteed Abundance Morning Journal Prompts Reflect, Reset & Radiate Journal Prompts Monthly Intention Setting Workbook FREE Inspirational Emails If you enjoyed this episode please rate & review it on Spotify & Apple Podcasts. More from Zoey: Website | Instagram YouTube - Main Channel | Vlog Channel

Welcome back to the show! Today, I'm sitting down with Rachel Mooers, a brilliant psychotherapist who specializes in mindbody pain, chronic symptoms, anxiety, depression, and trauma. Rachel is the Clinical Director at the Better Mind Center and runs her own private practice, Mojave Wellness Counseling, in Nevada. She brings deep expertise in Pain Reprocessing Therapy and Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy—and, more importantly, a deeply compassionate approach to healing.In this conversation, we explore a counterintuitive but essential truth: when it comes to healing—whether from chronic symptoms, emotional pain, or life's biggest struggles—the answer isn't to work harder or fix ourselves. Instead, it's about self-acceptance, ease, and moving toward what actually feels good. Rachel shares insights from her own healing journey, the tools she's found most transformative, and how this mindset shift applies to everything from relationships to career growth.If you've ever felt stuck in the cycle of trying to “fix” yourself, this episode is for you. Let's dive in.You can find Rachel at:www.mojavewellness.com/www.bettermindcenter.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelmooerslmft/And you can find me at:Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@anna_holtzman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Email: anna@annaholtzman.comWebsite: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.annaholtzman.com⁠

In this check-in episode of The Conscious Collaboration Podcast, Lisa and Emily reconnect for a heartfelt (and hilariously honest) exploration of how life's energetic tides are impacting creativity, leadership, and emotional balance.

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In this conversation, Sathiya Sam & Dr. Glover discussed the pervasive issue of Nice Guy Syndrome and its correlation with pornography addiction and sexual compulsion. Dr. Robert Glover explores the cultural shifts that have influenced masculinity, the importance of emotional awareness, and the critical role of community in supporting men's mental health. Connect with Dr. Robert Glover Integration Nation Website Find Out More About My DeepClean Recovery Program Here Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Nice Guy Syndrome and Its Impact 10:01 Cultural Shifts and Masculinity 19:57 Emotional Awareness and Balance in Men 29:58 The Role of Community in Overcoming Loneliness 36:24 Embracing Loneliness and Connection 39:30 The Impact of Convenience on Relationships 40:52 The Value of Challenge and Inconvenience 46:58 Understanding Nice Guy Syndrome and Porn Addiction 52:15 The Role of Shame in Sexuality 01:00:22 Healing Through Vulnerability and Community

In this engaging podcast conversation, Ryan Kassim and Farshad Sarrafi, delve into personal journeys of growth, fitness, and the exploration of human behavior. They discuss the importance of identity, values, and the impact of personal experiences on one's development.The conversation also touches on the significance of emotional responsibility and the various avenues for inner work, emphasizing the need for self-awareness and understanding in navigating life's challenges. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the importance of emotional awareness, radical accountability, and the role of curiosity in fostering meaningful connections. They explore cultural identity and personal growth, discussing how these experiences shape their perspectives. The dialogue also touches on navigating family dynamics and emotional maturity, emphasizing acceptance and understanding. Finally, they reflect on pivotal moments that catalyze change and the significance of emotional resilience in overcoming life's challenges.Podcast Links:Please leave a 5 star review wherever you listen to this podcast :)If you are interested in 1:1 online coaching, you can apply here: https://bodybyryan.com/coaching/Use my FREE Calorie Calculator: bodybyryan.com/calculatorFat Loss Made Easy Facebook Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/1701659280174513/Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bodybyryanfitness/Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ryankassim?lang=engFollow me on X: https://x.com/Ryan_KassimSubscribe to my YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/ryankassimlifeisgood20% off Legion Supplements - Use code: BodyByRyanhttps://legionathletics.rfrl.co/542mpChapters00:00 Introduction and Podcast Dynamics03:05 Journey into Fitness and Personal Growth06:01 Understanding Human Behavior and Identity09:05 The Impact of Personal Experiences on Growth11:57 Values, Morals, and Personal Evolution14:56 Exploring Inner Work and Emotional Responsibility25:02 Emotional Awareness and Radical Accountability30:00 Curiosity as a Tool for Connection36:04 Cultural Identity and Personal Growth40:01 Navigating Family Dynamics and Emotional Maturity44:54 Catalysts for Change and Emotional Resilience