Podcasts about emotional awareness

What if your greatest tool for healing and leadership isn't something you do — but the presence you bring to every moment? In this episode of The Thrive State Podcast, Dr. Kien Vuu sits down with John Pais, transformational coach and expert in conscious leadership, to explore how emotional awareness, regulation, and authenticity shape both our biology and our impact. Together, they dive into the science of presence, the importance of inner stillness, and how understanding your emotional state can elevate not only your health — but also the way you lead, love, and live. You'll learn: How emotions shape your biology and energy state Why awareness is the foundation of true connection The link between authenticity, leadership, and longevity Simple tools to regulate your emotional and physiological state Follow Dr. V @doctorvmd Get your free Longevity & Performance Guide at thrivestatestarter.com Order the #1 bestselling book Thrive State (2nd Edition) at thrivestatebook.com Episode Highlights: The Power of Presence John Pais on Emotional Awareness and the Human Condition The Science of Regulation: Emotions, Energy, and Health Conscious Leadership: Leading from Awareness, Not Reaction Building Authentic Connection and Trust Practical Tools for Emotional Mastery and Presence

In this episode, Dr. Tina Boogren invites educators to slow down and practice a two word check in. By pausing to name how you're really feeling in just two words, you build self-awareness, calm your nervous system, and make space for empathy and connection. It's a small habit with a big impact on your well-being. For episode resources, see SelfCareForEducators.com. Music: Happy Clappy Ukulele by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com. 

Our REAL TIME HEALS are some of the most powerful episodes to date. Getting into the messy middle with someone and helping them sort through the mindset shifts necessary to thrive in this work is a privilege and a joy. Today I bring you Karen. Karen is a nurse and a mother of twins. For over ten years she has suffered with Plantar Fasciitis in different degrees of intensity, and on a fateful day not long ago she was opened to this work which changed everything. From crawling down the hall to her daughters' room to enduring excruciating shots in her feet that provided little to no relief, Karen has been through it. But today she has a new lease on life. Join us for a clear and powerful look at this work in action! XOOX n. Learn how to JournalSpeak ➡️ LEARN HOW: https://bit.ly/3IsmzN4 For the month of OCTOBER, if you'd like a free 20 minute call with one of our coaches to see if coaching is a fit for you, click here! 1:1 COACHING WITH TRAINED COACHES SUPERVISED DIRECTLY BY NICOLE PLEASE RATE AND REVIEW THE PODCAST HERE TO HELP OTHERS FIND IT! Producer: Lisa Eisenpresser ~~~~~ SUPPORT:

In this deeply personal episode, I open up about my journey as an Inner Child Healer—and how I help people recognize and mend the emotional wounds that often begin in childhood but quietly shape our adult lives.I've learned that when pain isn't healed, the wounded child within us grows into a hurting adult—and sometimes, without realizing it, we project that pain onto others, continuing patterns of generational trauma.In this conversation, I share: • How unhealed childhood wounds show up in our behavior and relationships • Why denial can keep us stuck in unspoken pain • The role of a safe, nurturing home in emotional healing • How awareness and compassion can break generational cycles • Simple steps you can take to start reconnecting with your inner child todayMy message is simple yet profound: Healing yourself isn't selfish—it's how we stop passing pain forward.Join me in this episode to understand your inner child, heal your past, and begin creating a kinder, more conscious future. You can also connect with me on Instagram for healing sessions and daily reflections.Support the showStay Connected with Vandana Light Healing :✨ Website: vandanalighthealing.com YouTube: @VandanaLightHealing Facebook: VandanaLightHealing Podcast: Hope & Healing LinkedIn: Vandana Atara Noorah Instagram: @vandana_light_healing Amazon Author: Vandana Atara Noorah

Can we truly heal without facing our shadows? In this episode, Dr. Shahrzad Jalali dives deep into trauma, Jungian psychology, emotional awareness, and the critical role of personal experience in therapy. Her book The Fire That Makes Us explores how trauma shapes identity, and how shadow work can lead to meaningful healing and growth. We also explore how language, mindfulness, and connection can transform how we process pain and reclaim emotional presence. This conversation is a must-watch for anyone navigating mental health, personal development, or the philosophy of healing. 00:00 Introduction to Dr. Jalali and Her Work   02:44 The Fire That Makes Us: Themes and Insights   05:47 Personal Experience and Its Influence on Clinical Work   08:42 Exploring Jungian Psychology   11:38 The Intersection of Buddhism and Psychology   14:25 The Role of Language in Therapy   17:32 Understanding Trauma and Somatic Awareness   25:59 The Defense Mechanism of Grieving   27:47 The Aftermath of Trauma   30:07 Historical Context of Human Suffering   32:49 Understanding Human Nature and Anger   33:53 Jungian Archetypes and Our Dark Side   40:30 Shadow Work and Emotional Education   45:01 Finding Your Path and Seeking Help   Disclaimer Professional medical care and psychotherapeutic services are not offered on this Youtube channel. It is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine, nursing or other professional health care services, including the giving of medical advice, and no doctor/patient relationship is formed. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user's own risk. The content of this podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their health care professionals for any such condition Seeking professional support is encouraged if you think you have an issue and that you want help. #JungianPsychology #TraumaHealing #ShadowWork #EmotionalAwareness #MentalHealthPodcast #DrJalali #TherapyTalk #SelfHelpJourney #EmotionalEducation #StartsWithMePodcast

Today I have an incredible interview with Justine Stull. Justine is one of the admins on my Heal with Nicole and Nicole Sachs Support Circle communities. She's been with us for a few years, and she's just so wise. There's nothing like sitting with someone who has really walked through the work herself and now takes other people through with her beautiful guidance and caring comments on our pages. Today, Justine and I are going to be talking about her own chronic pain journey and all of the impactful practices she's gathered along the way - with a focus on self-compassion and self-regulation. One of my favorite things she says in the beginning is, "The first thing to leave was the fear." That's a great place to start! Enjoy this conversation filled with so many gold nuggets! XOXO n. Learn how to JournalSpeak: ➡️ LEARN HOW: https://bit.ly/3IsmzN4 For the month of OCTOBER, if you'd like a free 20 minute call with one of our coaches to see if coaching is a fit for you, click here! 1:1 COACHING WITH TRAINED COACHES SUPERVISED DIRECTLY BY NICOLE PLEASE RATE AND REVIEW THE PODCAST HERE TO HELP OTHERS FIND IT! Producer: Lisa Eisenpresser Learn more about Justine www.JustineMindBodyOT.com ~~~~~ SUPPORT:

Author and experience designer Caitlin Krause joins Coffey & Code to unpack digital wellbeing beyond buzzwords: agency over algorithms, the “presence pyramid,” culture cornerstones (dignity, freedom, invention, agency), and practical ways to design for authentic connection in an age of AI, agents, and XR. The conversation spans data ownership, interoperable “internet of agents” ideas like Project NANDA, the loneliness epidemic, and responsible product choices that reduce harm and increase belongingEpisode At A Glance:Define “digital wellbeing” without the hype: aligning intention and attention; context over one-size-fits-all rulesAgency over algorithms: opting into platforms and practices that honor user choice, not just engagement metricsPresence Pyramid & somatic awareness: embodied practices that translate across 2D, XR, and spatial environmentsCulture Cornerstones: dignity → freedom → invention → agency as a repeatable loop for teams and communitiesFrom silos to interoperability: why open protocols for AI agents matter (e.g., Project NANDA)Designing for belonging: move beyond performative social to ambient, low-stakes co-presence that reduces lonelinessSafety first: name harms clearly; pair AI with human support paths and mood check-ins after useResources Mentioned:Digital Well-being (book) by Caitlin Krause; also: Designing Wonder, Mindful by DesignPresence Pyramid (framework)Project NANDA: Networked AI Agents and Decentralized ArchitectureStanford HAI; MIT Media Lab; AR in ActionResearch/voices referenced: Esther Perel, Sherry Turkle, Brené Brown, Fei-Fei Li, Ramesh Raskar, David EaglemanOn anthropomorphism of AI (NPR segment)988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (US)  EPISODE CREDITS:Produced and edited by Ashley Coffey. Cover art designed by Ashley Coffey.Headshot by Brandlink MediaIntroduction music composed and produced by Ashley Coffey LINKSFollow Coffey & Code on Instagram, Facebook, Linkedin, and YouTube for the latest emerging tech updates! Subscribe to the Coffey & Code Podcast wherever you get your podcasts to be notified when new episodes go live. © 2025 Coffey & Code Podcast. All rights reserved. The content of this podcast, including but not limited to text, graphics, audio, and images, is the property of Ashley Coffey and may not be reproduced, redistributed, or used in any manner without the express written consent of the owner. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2764: Alysha Jeney explores how “preventative counseling” empowers couples to strengthen their connection before problems escalate. By embracing vulnerability and authenticity, partners can deepen their emotional intimacy and avoid the isolating patterns that often lead to separation. Her approach reframes counseling as a proactive act of love and growth rather than a last resort. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/preventative-counseling-what-is-it/ Quotes to ponder: "Couples aren't wanting to come to counseling to serve as an outlet to get out of their relationship, in fact, they are coming to me to get better at being in it." "We live in a society that fears vulnerability and we struggle (especially as a generation) with letting our guards down and really be seen by other people." "STOP BEING AFRAID OF BEING YOU." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2764: Alysha Jeney explores how “preventative counseling” empowers couples to strengthen their connection before problems escalate. By embracing vulnerability and authenticity, partners can deepen their emotional intimacy and avoid the isolating patterns that often lead to separation. Her approach reframes counseling as a proactive act of love and growth rather than a last resort. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/preventative-counseling-what-is-it/ Quotes to ponder: "Couples aren't wanting to come to counseling to serve as an outlet to get out of their relationship, in fact, they are coming to me to get better at being in it." "We live in a society that fears vulnerability and we struggle (especially as a generation) with letting our guards down and really be seen by other people." "STOP BEING AFRAID OF BEING YOU." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this insightful episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives deep into the journey of transcending the ego. With her signature blend of humor and vulnerability, Brianne explores the importance of self-awareness, mindfulness, and humility as essential tools for personal growth. She candidly shares her own experiences and the transformative power of embracing vulnerability and selflessness.Throughout the episode, Brianne outlines practical strategies for breaking free from ego-driven behaviors. She emphasizes the significance of being present in the moment, observing thoughts without judgment, and learning from mistakes. By fostering a mindset of continuous evolution and gratitude, listeners are encouraged to shift their focus from self-importance to connection with the world around them.Brianne also discusses the value of empathy, the dangers of comparison, and the need for self-reflection in overcoming ego. By engaging in selfless acts and practicing emotional awareness, individuals can foster deeper connections and cultivate a healthier relationship with themselves and others. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that true strength lies in humility and the willingness to grow beyond our self-imposed limitations.

In this episode, Marsha discusses the concept of Unbothered and its importance in building resilience as an entrepreneur, where you will inevitably face rejection, setbacks, and criticism. It's essential to recognize that these challenges are part of the journey. Instead of allowing our armour to block us from feeling and experiencing life, we should focus on building a supportive armour that empowers us. This includes utilizing tools such as hypnosis, meditation, journaling, and exercise to create a strong foundation for resilience. Being unbothered does not mean being indifferent or numb; instead, it means holding your vision and emotions without attaching negative stories to them. I encourage listeners to reflect on the armour they wear daily and to consider how they can shift from a heavy, blocking armour to a light, supportive one. This transformation is vital for amplifying your voice and message as an entrepreneur. HIGHLIGHTS 00:01:00 - The Consequences of Armour 00:02:00 - Entrepreneurship and Rejection 00:03:00 - Building Supportive Armour 00:04:00 - Resilience and Emotional Awareness 00:05:00 - The Power of Sharing Your Voice 00:06:00 - Identifying Your Armour 00:07:00 - Building Your Toolbox 00:08:00 - Recognizing Signs of Imbalance 00:09:00 - The Importance of Self-Care 00:10:00 - New vs. Old Armour Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Meet me at the Heart-Wired CEO LIVE Event on November 7th & 8th. Grab your tickets HERE and save $260!! Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE  Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HERE The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE.  Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG, click HERESubscribe on YouTube, click HERE

Send us a textMost people think weight loss is about calories, macros, and workouts — but the truth is, it's your emotions that make or break your progress.In this solo episode, I open up about the emotional side of weight loss and why managing guilt, frustration, and self-criticism is just as important as managing your nutrition or training plan.I share real stories from my clients: 

In this conversation, Justina shares her personal weight loss journey, detailing the lifestyle changes and mindset shifts that helped her lose 30 pounds. She emphasizes the importance of tracking daily actions rather than just focusing on the scale, the significance of enjoying the process, and the role of emotional awareness in making healthier choices. Justina also discusses the necessity of self-compassion and resilience in overcoming setbacks and achieving long-term goals.TakeawaysI lost 30 pounds since January.Focus on daily actions, not just the overall weight.Make daily actions enjoyable to stay motivated.Surround yourself with supportive environments.Sign up for events that hold you accountable.Be kind to yourself during the journey.Resilience is key to bouncing back from setbacks.Focus on how food makes you feel after eating.Do one thing at a time to avoid overwhelm.Emotional awareness helps in making better choices.Chapters00:00 Justina's Weight Loss Journey11:27 Mindset and Daily Actions for Success23:12 Emotional Awareness and Self-CompassionWATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBEhttps://youtube.com/@justinawashington?si=bxA4qvK0MizLesvl  Join the next monthly embodiment session:https://www.raindropmovement.com/feminine-embodiment-online-weekly-classesCONNECT WITH JUSTINA:On Instagram for more insights: https://www.instagram.com/justinabwashington/ ✉️Receive weekly letters of hope: https://justina.myflodesk.com/eb5svn6o52Share your thoughts and experiences with us!⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Leave a podcast review on Apple ⁠⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-girl-free-woman-healing-codependency-toxic-relationships/id1541749752⁠⁠⁠ ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Leave a podcast review on Spotify⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/4Gfn08oYk6rjcJ168fdRoH?si=eb4e0dc584bd4a28⁠⁠

What kind of partner do you want to be someday? Do you think privacy is important in a relationship? What do you think pornography leaves out about real relationships? These are just a few of the unusual yet important questions boys are rarely asked. In this episode, Dr. Delaney Ruston continues her conversation with educator Christopher Pepper and journalist Joanna Schroeder, co-authors of the new book Talk To Your Boys. Together, they discuss how to help boys navigate gaming, romantic relationships, and pornography. They explore online sports betting (“the house always wins”), share ways to bring up sensitive topics like pornography, and highlight the particular role dads can play in guiding these conversations.   Featured Experts Christopher Pepper Joanna Schroeder‍ ‍ Book Talk To Your Boys: 16 Conversations to Help Tweens and Teens Grow Into Confident, Caring Young Men, by Christopher Pepper and Joanna Schroeder   Additional Resources Stan Tatkin Screenagers Website Bring Screenagers to your community   Time Code 00:00 Breaking Stereotypes: The Importance of Talking to Boys 00:37 The Influence of Online Algorithms on Teenage Boys 01:22 The Allure and Risks of Sports Betting 04:16 Navigating Relationships and Sexuality 07:35 The Impact of Media on Perceptions of Sex 16:03 Addressing Pornography and Sexual Content 26:24 Encouraging Open Conversations and Emotional Awareness 28:06 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Tammy drops a truth bomb right from the start: Our emotions, not our thoughts, motivate us. This episode is a quick, hard-hitting guide on how your emotions can either drive you forward or keep you and your team stuck in a pattern of limiting beliefs. Tammy provides a four-point framework to help you master self-awareness, manage your emotional triggers, and turn your emotional intelligence into the "entry ticket" for every successful conversation.   Key Takeaways for Leaders Emotions Win: We move in the direction of the dominant emotion. If you don't own your emotions, they own you and will hijack your team's success. The Power Pause: When emotions start to rise, push the pause button, take a breath, and ask the next best question to slow down the spin. The Real Raw Material: Emotions are not the enemy; they are the raw material of trust, connection, and performance. Words Create Pictures: The language you use creates a visual in your mind, and you attach emotions to that picture, which directly creates your performance. Change the words, change the outcome.   The 4 Points for Emotional Mastery Awareness is Your Entry Ticket: Your self-awareness is the entry ticket to every conversation and problem-solving at every level. If you are dysregulated, you cannot be situationally aware of others. Vacancy is as Dangerous as Volatility: Retreating, sitting silent, and vacating a difficult moment is just as damaging to trust as blowing up. It communicates a "No Vacancy" sign that pushes people away. Self-Efficacy Fuels Collective Efficacy: If key players on your team lose the belief that they can succeed (self-efficacy), it bleeds into the whole team's belief (collective efficacy). Words Create Pictures, Pictures Create Performance: Be intentional about the words you and your team use, as the visualizations attached to them pre-determine your results.   Actionable Tools & Quotes Quote: "Your emotional awareness and ability to handle feelings will actually determine your success and happiness." — John Gottman Quote: "If you don't own your emotions, they own you." The 24/72 Rule: When hijacked by emotions, utilize the 24-hour push-pause option (or 24/24/24) to process, go back to the conversation, and check in again. Your Challenge: Master self-awareness by tuning into your physical and mental triggers (heart rate, gut feeling) before you engage.   Leadership is not a solo sport—it requires self-awareness and emotional awareness. Head on over and subscribe to the Leadership Sandbox channel on YouTube, drop your emoji in the comments, and share this episode with someone who needs an emotional regulator right now.  

What if the key to deeper spiritual growth isn't more knowledge, but better emotional awareness? Scott Mittelstadt, a former law enforcement officer turned emotional intelligence consultant, reveals how understanding your emotions transforms every relationship—including your relationship with God.Ever sit down to read scripture only to realize minutes later you can't remember what you just read? You're not alone. Scott shares how journaling revolutionized his Bible study, creating "a night and day difference" in his comprehension and retention. This simple practice helped him "dig deeper to look for meaning" rather than merely checking off a spiritual discipline.The science is clear: our brains are constantly being rewired by our thoughts. With negative stimuli overwhelming positive ones in our daily lives, intentional practices like gratitude journaling become essential for maintaining emotional health. Scott explains how writing down three good things daily helped him maintain a positive outlook even after years in a profession saturated with society's darker elements.Perhaps most surprising is the revelation that only 7% of communication meaning comes from our actual words—the remaining 93% derives from body language, tone, and inflection. This explains why text messages and emails so frequently lead to misunderstandings. For Christians seeking to love others well, developing face-to-face communication skills grounded in emotional intelligence becomes a spiritual necessity.Whether you're struggling with distractibility during prayer, finding it difficult to have tough conversations with loved ones, or simply wanting to experience more meaningful connections, this episode offers practical strategies to increase your emotional awareness. From active listening techniques to mindfulness practices, discover tools that will deepen both your human relationships and your walk with God.Join us for an illuminating conversation that bridges psychology and faith, revealing how emotional intelligence might be the missing piece in your spiritual journey.The Balance of GrayFaith That Challenges. Conversations that Matter. Laughs included. Subscribe Now!Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showThe ministry of Christian Life Resources promotes the sanctity of life and reaches hearts with the Gospel. We invite you to learn more about the work we're doing: https://christianliferesources.com/

In this week's episode of the LDS Mission Podcast, Episode 222: Trading Out the Tough Stuff, I'm sharing a concept that has been on my mind as I've worked with missionaries, returned missionaries, and missionary moms. Life on the mission—and after—can feel really tough. Whether it's stress, overwhelm, loneliness, or self-doubt, it's easy for our brains to shut down and say, “this is just too hard.” But what I've learned, and what I want to share with you, is that most of the time we're not escaping the tough stuff—we're simply trading one set of hard emotions for another. In this episode, I'll walk you through how to notice this pattern, how to stop resisting the difficulty, and how to choose which “hard” is worth it. You'll hear real-life examples from missionaries, service missions, jobs, relationships, and even my own family. Together, we'll explore why confidence is less about capability and more about being willing to feel discomfort, and how emotional resilience comes from making peace with the fact that life is always 50/50—half good and half hard. My hope is that Trading Out the Tough Stuff will help you recognize the power you have in deciding where to put your energy. You get to choose the tough emotions that move you closer to the person you want to become. Instead of trying to avoid the hard, you can lean into it with intention, faith, and confidence—and find freedom in the process. As always, if you found this episode helpful, I want to invite you to subscribe if you aren't already, share this episode with your friends and missionaries you know, and write a review. I know this work will help LDS missionaries around the world and it would mean so much to me if you did. Until next week my friends.     Website | Instagram | Facebook   Get the Full Show Notes and Text/PDF Transcripts: HERE   Free PDF Download:  Podcast Roadmap   Free PDF Download:  Preparing Missionary Cheat Sheet   Free Training for Preparing Missionaries:  Change Your Mission with this One Tool   RM Transition Free Video Series:  3 Tools to Help RMs in Their Transition Home   Free Guide:  5 Tips to Help Any Returning Missionary   Schedule a Free Strategy Call:   Click Here

Key Takeaways: Money power keeps shifting: History shows financial centers moved from the British pound to the US dollar, and now toward digital currencies. Look at markets like natural cycles: Seeing financial systems through cycles and patterns gives deeper insight than just following headlines. Bitcoin-backed stablecoins may reshape banking: They could challenge traditional banks by offering a stronger and more stable foundation. Use the generator-battery-utility model: This approach can help people manage savings more effectively in a changing economy. Governments may take over more companies: During tough times, nations often protect themselves by nationalizing businesses as part of a repeating cycle. Chapters: Timestamp Summary 0:00 Rethinking Money and Financial Systems in the Digital Era 9:05 Investing with Emotional Awareness and Market Flow 12:54 Bitcoin-Based Credit Systems and Their Impact on Traditional Banking 19:39 Building Wealth with the Generator Battery Utility Model 25:43 The Cyclical Nature of Nationalization and Economic Reconstruction Powered by Stone Hill Wealth Management Social Media Handles    Follow Phillip Washington, Jr. on Instagram (@askphillip) Subscribe to Wealth Building Made Simple newsletter https://www.wealthbuildingmadesimple.us/   Ready to turn your investing dreams into reality? Our "Wealth Building Made Simple" premium newsletter is your secret weapon. We break down investing in a way that's easy to understand, even if you're just starting out. Learn the tricks the wealthy use, discover exciting opportunities, and start building the future YOU want. Sign up now, and let's make those dreams happen!   WBMS Premium Subscription   Phillip Washington, Jr. is a registered investment adviser. Information presented is for educational purposes only and does not intend to make an offer or solicitation for the sale or purchase of any specific securities, investments, or investment strategies. Investments involve risk and, unless otherwise stated, are not guaranteed. Be sure to first consult with a qualified financial adviser and/or tax professional before implementing any strategy discussed herein. Past performance is not indicative of future performance.

OFFENSE KILLS: A Conversation with Dr. Charlotte BedasseIn this episode of the Healthy Reasonings Podcast, Dr. Andre is joined by a highly anticipated guest, Dr. Charlotte Bedasse. Discover Dr. Bedasse's unique journey into medicine, her dual expertise in medical practice and Christian counseling psychology, and the profound insights she shares about the connection between emotional well-being and physical health. Get an in-depth look at her new book, 'Offense Kills,' and learn why forgiveness is crucial for protecting your health. Join the conversation and be inspired to make positive changes in your life. Don't forget to join the Healthy Reasonings community at www.healthyreasonings.com.00:00 Introduction to the Healthy Reasonings Podcast00:46 Meet Dr. Charlotte Bedasse03:00 Dr. B's Journey to Medicine07:15 The Intersection of Emotions and Physical Health09:47 Introducing Dr. B's Book: Offense Skills15:33 Understanding the Different Types of Death17:05 Promoting Dr. B's Book and Services17:49 Impact of COVID-19 on Emotional and Physical Health18:41 The Rise of Emotional Awareness and Social Media Influence22:15 Weird and Wonderful Segment28:06 Final Thoughts and Key Takeaways

FREE RESOURCE:  Take our QUIZ and see if the SHED METABOLIC RESET PROGRAM is a good fit for you!  In this conversation, Dr. Tara Rawana and Dr. Michelle Peris discuss the intricate relationship between metabolic health, willpower, and the systems necessary for achieving long-term health goals.  They emphasize the limitations of willpower alone and the importance of structured eating, mindset, and community support in fostering sustainable health transformations.  The discussion highlights the significance of emotional awareness and body literacy in overcoming challenges and achieving lasting success in health and wellness.   Takeaways Willpower can only take you so far in health. Building systems is crucial for long-term success. Body weight is not a reliable indicator of health. Community support enhances individual health journeys. Mindset plays a key role in health transformations. Emotional challenges must be addressed for healing. Food choices should align with body needs. Sustainable health requires education and awareness. Maintenance is as important as the initial reset. Empowerment comes from understanding one's body.  Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Resets and Metabolic Health 02:47 The Role of Willpower in Health Journeys 05:43 Understanding Metabolic Health and Its Importance 08:25 Systems Over Willpower: A New Approach 11:15 Building Confidence Through Nutrition Education 14:11 Mindset and Emotional Awareness in Health 16:52 The Power of Community Support 19:38 Navigating Emotional Challenges in Health Journeys 22:37 The Importance of Maintenance in Health Programs 25:17 Real-Life Success Stories and Transformations 27:55 Conclusion: Aligning with Systems for Long-Term Health   Stay Wild.   Connect with Dr. Tara on INSTAGRAM Connect with Dr. Michelle on INSTAGRAM This episode is brought to you by: www.the-wild-collective.com Ready to reclaim your Wild? JOIN THE WAITLIST Learn more about The Poppy Clinic: www.poppyclinic.com Is Naturopathic Medicine for you: LEARN MORE HERE Take our HORMONE QUIZ Are you a clinician looking for more impact? START HERE

In this week's episode,  #220 - A Day in the Life, I'm getting real with you. Instead of a polished outline or a carefully planned topic, I wanted to give you an honest window into my day—the ups, the lows, the emotions I've been feeling, and the lessons I've been learning in real time. My hope is that by sharing my own experience, you'll see pieces of your own life and mission journey reflected back at you. We talk about what it means to normalize bad days, to stop trying to “fix” ourselves, and to create a peaceful space to simply be human. Whether you're preparing to serve, out on your mission, recently returned, or supporting a missionary, this conversation is a reminder that you don't have to be chipper and strong all the time to show up in meaningful ways. You'll hear me share my thoughts about surrendering to the hard days, allowing emotions instead of fighting them, and trusting that even in the midst of heartbreak, overwhelm, or low motivation, you're still doing exactly what you're meant to do. This is real life—and we were made for all of it. As always, if you found this episode helpful, I want to invite you to subscribe if you aren't already, share this episode with your friends and missionaries you know, and write a review. I know this work will help LDS missionaries around the world and it would mean so much to me if you did. Until next week my friends.     Website | Instagram | Facebook   Get the Full Show Notes and Text/PDF Transcripts: HERE   Free PDF Download:  Podcast Roadmap   Free PDF Download:  Preparing Missionary Cheat Sheet   Free Training for Preparing Missionaries:  Change Your Mission with this One Tool   RM Transition Free Video Series:  3 Tools to Help RMs in Their Transition Home   Free Guide:  5 Tips to Help Any Returning Missionary   Schedule a Free Strategy Call:   Click Here

In this episode of the Pet Care Report Podcast by Pet Summits, host Melissa Viera is joined by Max Seifert, a certified dog behavior consultant. Max shares his expertise on managing and reframing challenging dog behaviors, particularly aggression and reactivity, through emotionally-aware, relationship-based training. The discussion covers practical management strategies, the importance of addressing both human and animal emotional wellbeing, and how pet owners can prioritize their own mental health while working through their dog's behavioral issues. Max also provides insights into his methods for ensuring client safety and support and offers advice for both pet owners and fellow trainers on maintaining resilience and empathy. (02:08) The Importance of Emotional Awareness in Dog Training(03:36) Preparing for Training Sessions(06:00) Managing Stress and Safety During Training(10:40) Prioritizing Emotional Wellbeing for Dog Owners(17:05) When to Seek Professional Help(19:07) Recognizing Subtle Dog Behaviors(20:12) The Misuse of E-Collars(22:07) Cooperative Care for Dogs(24:53) Self-Care for Dog Trainers(32:43) Final Thoughts and ResourcesFollow Max Seifert at: https://rosiestailtraining.comhttps://www.instagram.com/maxseifertdt/Follow our Host, Melissa Viera, at https://mjspettrainingacademy.comWant to see more from Pet Summits? Subscribe to the PetSummits YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@PetSummitsCheck out the latest free events here: https://petsummits.com/events/

Keywordspodcast, mindset, self-improvement, gratitude, emotional awareness, feel good challenge, choose again method, personal growthSummaryIn this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla discuss the transition from summer to fall, introduce their Feel Good Five Challenge aimed at promoting mindfulness and positivity, and explore the Choose Again method for shifting negative mindsets. They emphasize the importance of gratitude and emotional awareness in navigating daily challenges and maintaining a positive outlook.TakeawaysIt's important to shift from a chaotic summer to a structured routine.The Feel Good Five Challenge encourages small, positive habits.Mindset shifts can help us navigate through tough times.The Choose Again method allows for quick recovery from negative thoughts.Forgiving ourselves for negative thoughts is crucial for mental health.Gratitude can transform our perspective on daily challenges.Emotional awareness helps in recognizing and managing our feelings.We can choose better thoughts to improve our mood.Having tools like the Feel Good Five can aid in emotional regulation.Personal growth involves recognizing our power to choose our thoughts.TitlesEmbracing Change: The Transition from Summer to FallThe Feel Good Five Challenge: A Path to PositivitySound Bites"Stop asking yourself why.""We all spiral down sometimes.""You have to get through the mud."Chapters00:00 Welcome to the Ask Yourself Why Not Podcast02:55 Introducing the Feel Good Five Challenge05:16 Mindset Shifts: The Choose Again Method10:50 Gratitude and Emotional Awareness

Keywordspodcast, mindset, self-improvement, gratitude, emotional awareness, feel good challenge, choose again method, personal growthSummaryIn this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla discuss the transition from summer to fall, introduce their Feel Good Five Challenge aimed at promoting mindfulness and positivity, and explore the Choose Again method for shifting negative mindsets. They emphasize the importance of gratitude and emotional awareness in navigating daily challenges and maintaining a positive outlook.TakeawaysIt's important to shift from a chaotic summer to a structured routine.The Feel Good Five Challenge encourages small, positive habits.Mindset shifts can help us navigate through tough times.The Choose Again method allows for quick recovery from negative thoughts.Forgiving ourselves for negative thoughts is crucial for mental health.Gratitude can transform our perspective on daily challenges.Emotional awareness helps in recognizing and managing our feelings.We can choose better thoughts to improve our mood.Having tools like the Feel Good Five can aid in emotional regulation.Personal growth involves recognizing our power to choose our thoughts.TitlesEmbracing Change: The Transition from Summer to FallThe Feel Good Five Challenge: A Path to PositivitySound Bites"Stop asking yourself why.""We all spiral down sometimes.""You have to get through the mud."Chapters00:00 Welcome to the Ask Yourself Why Not Podcast02:55 Introducing the Feel Good Five Challenge05:16 Mindset Shifts: The Choose Again Method10:50 Gratitude and Emotional Awareness

In this conversation, Sathiya and Drew discuss the journey of healing from pornography addiction, emphasizing the importance of outgrowing porn rather than simply quitting. They explore the impact of purity culture on men's sexuality, the significance of vulnerability and connection in recovery, and the role of curiosity in understanding triggers. Drew shares insights from his book 'Outgrow Porn' and highlights the necessity of taking redemptive risks in the healing process. The discussion culminates in the importance of community support and celebrating every step of the journey toward freedom.   SIGN UP FOR OUR FREE MASTERCLASS   Know more about Drew's Work:  Get Drew's New Book: Outgrow Porn Discount code: DEEPCLEAN Access Husband Material Website   Know more about Sathiya's work: JOIN DEEP CLEAN INNER CIRCLE Submit A Question (Anonymously) Through This Form Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:  (00:00) Introduction and Background (02:52) The Philosophy of Outgrowing Porn (05:47) The Impact of Purity Culture (08:50) Healing from Purity Culture (12:09) Vulnerability and Connection (15:05) Navigating Temptation and Relapse (17:58) Curiosity and Sexual Development (20:51) The Process of Urge Surfing (31:56) Mindfulness and Emotional Awareness (34:42) Understanding Triggers: Pain vs. Pleasure (39:35) The Role of Implicit Memories (41:27) Rigidity and Disengagement in Addiction (47:29) Redemptive Risks in Recovery

Join Christie Uipi, LCSW, and Brandon Yarns, MD, MS, as they explore why Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy (EAET) is gaining recognition as one of the most effective emerging treatments for chronic pain. Together, they unpack how stress, past experiences, and unprocessed emotions can shape chronic neuroplastic conditions—and share strategies for untangling this complex web for yourself with evidence-based techniques.

Send us a textIn this episode of Light Up Your Worth, Debbie talks with Jessica Smith Dolce Santos, a dynamic love coach and author of 'Shit They Don't Tell You in Nursing School.' Jessica shares her journey from a 17-year nursing career to becoming a business mentor, public speaker, and coach. She discusses the sacrifices, challenges, and growth that come from listening to your 'soul whisper' and breaking free from the comfort zone. They delve into the emotional landscapes of pursuing dreams, the importance of feeling and expressing emotions, and strategies to maintain balance amidst life's ebbs and flows. Tune in to explore how to connect with your true desires, overcome internal and external judgments, and live a life full out. 00:00 Introduction to Jessica Smith Dolce Santos00:31 Jessica's Journey from Nursing to Coaching02:18 The Comfort Zone and Soul Whispers04:39 Facing Judgments and Embracing Change12:10 The Pursuit of Dreams and Letting Go29:11 Emotional Awareness and Expression45:46 Conclusion and Contact InformationConnect with  Jessica :Free Give Aways: Free 30 minute physical, mental, and financial explore call:https://form.jotform.com/221784987670472Facebook: @jessica.InspireTLCLinkedIn: @jessica-smith-dos-santosInstagram:@badass_love_coach Thank you for tuning into another illuminating episode of Light Up Your Worth. Your presence here is a testament to your commitment to healing, personal growth, and self discovery. As we conclude, remember, your worth is innate, your light is powerful beyond words, and your potential is limitless.Remember, when you own your worth, your light shines with abundance. Until next time, let your inner light shine. Sending sunshine.Support the showI'd be honored to walk beside you in this intimate space through my monthly Light Up Your Worth Society soul circle. Come home to yourself and join our heart-centered community. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lightupyourworth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/Lightupyourworthpodcast Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/LightUpYourWorthwithDebbieMcAllister From my heart to yours, I'd love to invite you to support our podcast journey! If you've found value in our conversations and would like to share some love, you can treat me to a virtual coffee for just $5. It's a beautiful way to contribute whenever you feel called - no pressure, no commitments, just pure appreciation flowing both ways. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lightupyrworth Spread your light with our soul family across 35 countries and beyond!

In this special anniversary episode, Parenting with Impact celebrates four years of podcasting and 14 years since the launch of ImpactParents.com. We will reflect on how the coaching model has grown, what core truths continue to guide us, and why emotional regulation and collaborative parenting matter now more than ever. From tech challenges to teen transitions, the conversation offers timeless guidance for today's families. Celebrate with us and see why this journey is only just beginning.What to expect in this episode:Why emotional regulation remains the foundation of effective parentingHow collaborative parenting evolves from toddlerhood to young adulthoodWhat buy-in and motivation look like at different agesWhy focusing on the process, not just the outcome, builds resilienceHow tech has changed the parenting landscape but not the core tools we need Related Links:Welcome To Parenting With Impacthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-001-welcome-to-parenting-with-impact/id1565976964?i=1000530940488International Conference on ADHD 2022 Part 1: Emotional Awareness and Insights about ADHDhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-088-internl-conf-on-adhd-2022-part-1-emotional-awareness/id1565976964?i=1000590113067Pushing the Reset Button to Solve Problems Collaborativelyhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-092-pushing-the-reset-button-to-solve-problems/id1565976964?i=1000593625796Motivation Myths and the Magic of P.I.N.C.H. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-126-motivation-myths-and-the-magic-of-p-i-n-c-h/id1565976964?i=1000626897834 Shifting from Nagging to Collaborative Solutionshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-147-shifting-from-nagging-to-collaborative-solutions/id1565976964?i=1000643612846 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/key-lessons-from-14-years-of-parent-coaching Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

Most chronic pain care ignores one of the most powerful drivers of symptoms: our emotions.In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Mark Lumley, a leading researcher in Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy (EAET), to explore how unprocessed emotions, trauma, and life stressors can directly influence pain — and what to do about it.We break down:-The differences and overlaps between EAET and Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT)-How to help patients shift from body-focused to brain-focused views of pain-Cultural and healthcare system barriers to addressing emotions in           pain care-Practical, evidence-based strategies for clinicians and patients-Where the research is heading — and what it means for the future of pain treatmentResources Mentioned: • Dr. Mark Lumley's University Page • Howard Schubiner's Unlearn Your Pain • Association for the Treatment of Neuroplastic Symptoms (ATNS)

In this episode, Roane and Ben sit down for an honest update on Ben's recent health challenges. Ben shares the journey from his 1997 cancer diagnosis to the long-term effects he's facing today, including the discovery that most of his pancreas has shut down and the upcoming surgery to address it. They discuss how faith, community, and emotional awareness are shaping the way he navigates this season, and why honesty in the midst of hardship matters. It's a candid conversation about fear, trust, control, and living with purpose when the future is uncertain. To learn more about the Sex, God, & Chaos team, click the link below: www.sexgodchaos.com Looking for help? Book an appointment with LifeWorks Counseling today: www.lifeworks.ms You can purchase your copy of Sex, God, & Chaos here: www.amazon.com

Host Randy Goruk's guest on this episode is Randy Lyman, an entrepreneur, emotional mastery expert and author. Mr. Lyman discusses his journey from a left-brain, business-focused background to incorporating emotional intelligence into his leadership style. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, emotional regulation, and building long-term relationships. He highlights the need for leaders to be vulnerable, ask for input, and create a respectful, cohesive team environment. He shares practical tips, such as using body language awareness and encouraging team members to express their ideas. Lyman also stresses the significance of values and morals in business, which can provide a competitive advantage and foster a positive company culture. In this episode you will learn: How emotional intelligence has changed the way leaders approach their teams and their business. The role of self-awareness in building long-term customer relationships. How leaders can improve their ability to read non-verbal cues from their teams. The biggest mistakes leaders of sales teams make. What gives a sales team the edge in a competitive distribution landscape. Advice for a new sales manager trying to develop a high-performing team. What it looks like when an emotionally intelligent sales culture is thriving within a company. The trends that will shape the future of sales in distribution over the next 5 years. The value in investing in listening and coaching. Website: https://randylyman.com/

This week on the Do Good to Lead Well podcast I am joined by Martin Dubin, a seasoned clinical psychologist and business coach. We discuss his recently released book, "Blindspotting: How to See What's Holding You Back as a Leader." Martin's rich experience with 360-degree feedback highlights how a leader's strengths can sometimes inadvertently become weaknesses and why a heightened self-awareness is key in maintaining a balanced approach.We also tackle the complex web of unconscious biases and leadership blind spots, identifying six specific types that can impact our effectiveness. This engaging discussion anchors itself in a psychological model focused on the core motives driving behavior, with special attention to the needs for power, affiliation, and achievement. Martin touches on identity blind spots, where a disconnect between one's role and self-perception can create challenges, especially during transitions from individual contributor roles to managerial positions. He emphasizes the necessity of adapting one's identity to align with evolving roles and responsibilities.Finally, we tackle the emotional aspects of leadership, addressing the significance of emotional awareness for leadership success. A key skill is learning how to accurately identify and label a wide range of emotions. Martin and I also discuss the SBI (Situation, Behavior, Impact) framework, a powerful approach for promoting a culture of feedback and personal growth. The episode wraps up with an important discussion on the importance of authenticity and storytelling in leadership, providing valuable reflections and insights for leaders seeking to foster connections and drive positive change.What You'll Learn- The delicate balance of strengths and weaknesses- Unconscious biases and six types of leadership blind spots- Identity transitions and redefining roles- Raising our emotional awareness and regulation- The interplay between imposter syndrome and authenticity- The power of the SBI frameworkPodcast Timestamps(00:00) – A Deep Exploration of Leadership Blind Spots(10:36) – The Six Types of Leadership Blind Spots(22:04) - Recognizing and Regulating Emotions in Leadership(29:00) - Navigating Imposter Syndrome and Authenticity(35:18) – The Importance of Identity Alignment(45:22) – Entrepreneurial Blind SpotsKEYWORDSPositive Leadership, Blind Spots, Self-Awareness, Leveraging Strengths, Managing Weaknesses, Unconscious Bias, Emotional Intelligence, Identity, Imposter Syndrome, Authenticity, Emotional Awareness, Culture of Feedback, Instilling Trust, Entrepreneurship, The Power of Storytelling, CEO Success

Ever feel your thoughts getting hijacked by tension in a tough conversation? In this transformative episode of the Leadership Sandbox, Tammy J. Bond explores the profound impact of simply taking a moment to pause in communication. Discover how this seemingly simple action can unlock clarity, deepen understanding, and lead to significantly more effective conversations, even in high-stakes situations. Tammy delves into how emotional awareness allows you to apply the power of pause to avoid being reactive and move toward solutions. Learn how a well-timed pause gives you the space to regulate your brain, reevaluate your perspective, and ensure you're leading with intent, not just impulse. This episode emphasizes that you are responsible for your behavior, even when triggered, and that slowing things down prevents others from feeling "confused, bruised, and misused." Equip yourself with this essential tool for navigating team meetings, bold conversations, and tense moments with newfound ease and grace. Key Takeaways for Leaders: Clarity & Focus: Learn how pausing provides crucial moments to gain clarity and focus amidst tension. Improved Understanding & Empathy: Discover how well-timed pauses enhance understanding and foster empathy in difficult discussions. Regulate Your Brain: Understand that a pause gives you vital time to take a breath and regulate your brain when emotions are high, preventing reactivity. Reevaluate Perspective: Utilize pauses to step back, ask questions, and reevaluate your perspective, often finding common ground. Responsible Behavior: Recognize your responsibility for your behavior even when triggered, ensuring your interactions are constructive, not destructive. Avoid Hijacked Thinking: Apply emotional awareness through pausing to prevent your thinking from being hijacked by frustration or irritation. Impact on Others: Realize how rushing can leave others feeling confused or misused, while slowing down promotes healthier interactions. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Practical tips for implementing the power of pause in various communication scenarios, including negotiation and conflict resolution. How simple actions, like a pause, can be the most powerful tools in your leadership toolkit. The direct correlation between emotional awareness and effective application of communication strategies. Strategies to move toward solutions by using pauses to ask insightful questions. How slowing down leads to more productive and respectful bold conversations. Resources: Visit bondgroupenterprises.com/podcast for your action plan and additional resources for this episode. Download the exclusive "pause button card" to use as a visual reminder in meetings. Call to Action: Ready to transform your communication and lead with greater intention? Share this episode with your team and start implementing the power of pause in your daily interactions! Have questions on how to effectively use the pause in your specific leadership challenges? DM Tammy! She's here to help you refine your communication and elevate your leadership. #Leadership #CommunicationSkills #PowerOfPause #EmotionalAwareness #ConflictResolution #SelfRegulation #TeamMeetings #BoldConversations #CommunicationStrategies #Clarity #Empathy #TammyJBond #LeadershipSandbox  

Raising Resilient Kids: Parenting with Emotional AwarenessHow do we raise emotionally strong, resilient kids? It starts with us.In this episode, Kevin McNulty sits down with clinical psychologist and author Dr. Kahlila Robinson to explore the heart of emotional awareness in parenting. From tantrums to teen tension, we unpack how parents can regulate themselves first — and why that's the real game-changer.Topics include:✅What co-regulation is (why it matters more than calm-down strategies)✅How your emotional habits shape your child's nervous system✅Repairing after you lose it and how that models emotional accountability✅Tools for staying calm when your kid isn't✅Why it's never too late to change your parenting styleThis is not a lecture — it's a raw, real talk about parenting with intention, self-awareness, and grace.Watch on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTH1LKivyk0

On today's episode, Tim speaks with psychologists Liz Hall (Ph.D.) and Erin Smith (Ph.D.) on how emotions shape perspectives on science, including new scientific technologies. Hall and Smith point to research that indicates emotions are some of the main features causing problems in dialogues between science and religious beliefs and values, and gaining understanding around emotions might help to address some of the uneasy tensions Christian experience between faith and controversial scientific topics. They also suggest practices to cultivate healthy and appropriate emotions when engaging in scientific technologies. Show notes and a full transcript are available.

Send us a text“Remember that your feelings aren't facts. That should give you some solace when they feel so strong. Say to yourself, “Oh wait, maybe this isn't right. It's a prediction of my brain based on the past, not the written future.” “ ~ Kim KorteEpisode Overview:In this powerful episode of The Remarkable People Podcast, host David Pasqualone sits down with Kim Korte to delve into her incredible life story. From her traumatic childhood experiences with molestation and growing up with alcoholic parents to overcoming a devastating marriage and finding real self-love, Kim's journey is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. Despite battling through significant emotional turmoil, Kim discovered the transformational power of self-awareness and emotional understanding. She shares her insights on building a balanced life, the importance of interoception, and offers practical steps for listeners to connect more deeply with themselves. Don't miss this compelling episode as Kim reveals the strategies that helped her reclaim her life and how these concepts can empower you too.• 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview• 01:57 Meet Kim Korte• 04:22 Kim's Early Life and Challenges• 05:49 The Impact of Childhood Trauma• 07:14 Journey to Self-Awareness• 08:12 Understanding Emotions and Interoception• 17:46 Steps to Overcoming Trauma• 21:27 The Importance of Interoceptive Awareness• 37:51 Reflecting on Life and Relationships• 38:47 Meeting the First Husband• 42:01 Struggles and Realizations• 45:17 The Turning Point• 48:09 Steps to Healing and Self-Care• 52:39 Emotional Awareness and Growth• 01:08:02 Current State and Future Plans• 01:14:04 Closing Thoughts and Advice REMARKABLE SPECIAL OFFER(S):REMARKABLE OFFER 1: Save 30% to 80% on EVERYTHING you order at MyPillow.com with Free Promo Code, “REMARKABLE“. Yes, that's right! Use the best My Pillow promo code out there to save a TON of money on all 200+ quality, comfortable, cozy home goods at MyPillow.com/Remarkable, or by calling 1-800-644-6612. From sheets, to blankets, to pillows, to mattress toppers, be ready to sleep better and live more comfortably than you ever have before!REMARKABLE OFFER 2: Enjoy 20% off coaching with Kim when you mention you heard her on the Remarkable People Podcast between now and December 31, Support the showWant Even More?

What does the superyachting industry have to do with your leadership style?  Turns out, a whole lot. In this episode, I'm joined by Karine Rayson, an expert in leadership and mental health within the superyacht industry – where teams are required to live and work together 24/7 out at sea. And in that intense environment… leadership matters. And it's no different for your business. These leadership and communication skills are foundational for any business, even if you're on dry land. Here's What You'll Discover in This Episode:  The metric that sets high-performing teams apart from the rest, and why authoritative leadership is a recipe for ego issues and disengagement. The parallels between life on a superyacht and running a small business – and why it all boils down to leadership and strong team communication. The (so often overlooked!) layers of communication that build trust. How to spot the small, physical signs that signal something's wrong before it's too late. Why slipping work, a lack of eye contact, or mismatched energy might actually be a silent plea for support from your team (and what you can do to turn things around). Karine's psychology-backed tips to make your team feel seen and valued – and why success all starts at onboarding. What emotional literacy really means (and what it DOESN'T!), and why self-awareness is the foundation of leading others well. The most uncomfortable, but essential, thing you can do as a leader to grow your emotional intelligence and improve your team's ability to work well together. Why shifting from an authoritative leader to a facilitator actually creates a more connected, motivated, and purpose-driven team. Karine's leadership non-negotiables to create a psychologically safe space, lead people in the same direction towards your ultimate goal, And so, so much more… Mentioned in This Episode: The HerBusiness Network Flung Ceramics with Michelle Cox Michelle Cox's Podcast - One Question

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If you're curious as to if you have any stored emotions or trauma that might be causing your illness, preventing you from achieving your goals, or even just showing up as the best, authentic version of yourself, I invite you to take my free Stored Emotions and Trauma Quiz.In this episode, I talk about how losing a “perfect” client exposed something much deeper.Scarcity has shown up in my life in so many ways, and in this conversation, I share exactly how I've worked through it and how I help my clients do the same. I get into the beliefs that quietly block abundance, like not wanting to seem salesy or charging “too much.” I walk through how your energy can attract the wrong people, how trauma wires us to play small, and what it actually takes to shift into clarity and alignment. If you've ever felt stuck, this episode will help you figure out why.Timestamps:[00:00] Introduction[04:14] Why unpacking your baggage attracts your ideal clients[07:27] Don't let fear narratives control your mindset[14:43] Shifting from “I'm not good enough” to abundance[19:45] Stop pouring into fear and start choosing safety[23:01] Why challenges are really opportunities to grow[25:59] Time abundance starts with intentionalityFind More From Dr. Stephanie Davis:Dr. Stephanie Davis | WebsiteQuantum Rx | InstagramQuantum Rx | Skool

We are running it back to this fun conversation from 2023....We all know social media sparks a lot of conversations these days. So Codie, Ashley, and Melanie are giving their opinions about a post shared on Instagram that listed 5 things parents should do if they want to have a secure relationship with their children. The Mamas also talk about holding space for their children's emotions and reflect on their relationships with their own mothers.Mama's Den Village, do you agree with the 5 steps of having a secure relationship with your child? Do you have another step you would add to the conversation? Let us know your point of view over at podcasts@blacklove.com. PLUS you can always hit us up over on Instagram at @themamasdenpodcastMake sure you connect with our Mamas:Ashley - @watermeloneggrollsCodie - @codiecoMelanie - @melaniefiona

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In this episode of 'Don't Cut Your Own Bangs,' Danielle Ireland interviews adventurer and SDM Diving owner Eli Martinez. They discuss his unique career leading land and ocean safaris, dispelling myths about predators, and the connection between exploring the wild and self-discovery. Eli shares his journey from aspiring bull rider to renowned wildlife guide and photographer, emphasizing the therapeutic and transformative power of nature. Together, they explore how experiencing the wild fosters understanding, empathy, and personal growth. RATE, REVIEW, SUBSCRIBE TO “DON'T CUT YOUR OWN BANGS”  Like your favorite recipe or song, the best things in life are shared. When you rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast, your engagement helps me connect  with other listeners just like you. Plus, subscriptions just make life easier for everybody. It's one less thing for you to think about and you can easily keep up to date on everything that's new. So, please rate, review, and subscribe today. DANIELLE IRELAND, LCSW I greatly appreciate your support and engagement as part of the Don't Cut Your Own Bangs community. Feel free to reach out with questions, comments, or anything you'd like to share. You can connect with me at any of the links below. Connect with Eli: Book an adventure HERE - https://sdmdiving.com/ Instagram Connect with Danielle: Watch the show on YouTube Instagram The Treasured Journal Wrestling a Walrus 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest 00:13 Eli Martinez: The Adventurer's Journey 01:21 Connecting with Nature and Overcoming Fear 02:18 Building a Dream Career 05:59 Diving into the World of Sharks 12:16 The Power of Social Media and Storytelling 17:59 The Importance of Conservation and Ecotourism 21:40 Personal Growth Through Wildlife Experiences 28:40 Connecting with Nature and Self 29:07 The Lion Tracker's Guide to Life 29:38 Struggles with Anxiety and Self-Doubt 31:04 Emotional Awareness and Growth 32:00 Transformative Experiences in the Wild 35:03 Launching Shark Diver Magazine 35:55 Shifting from Magazine to Excursions 40:49 Dispelling the Predator Myth 48:28 Curiosity and Career Pivots 53:30 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Transcript Eli Martinez Podcast Interview [00:00:00] Danielle: Hello. Hello. This is Danielle Ireland and you are listening to Don't Cut Your Own Banks and Today's Guest. this has been a long time coming for me. I am so excited beyond excited to introduce Eli Martinez. Eli is an adventurer. [00:00:14] He's an explorer, he's an operator and owner of SDM Adventures. It's a group that leads land and ocean safaris. If you have ever seen these wild otherworldly images of people swimming with humpback whales, swimming with orca whales, swimming with crocodiles, swimming with anacondas. There's a good chance that you've stumbled across his images because he is one of the few, right? [00:00:42] It's a pretty small pool of people who make a living doing what he does, Images, they grab your attention, they hook your imagination. But it being on a screen, it's easy to think, well, that's so far removed from my life. what value is there in that for me? Like that's a cool image. But the internet has lots of cool images. [00:01:00] There's a couple of important distinctions and what I think makes this episode so special. What we talk about is dispelling the predator myth and my work as a therapist and his work as a safari guide. They don't seem too related, but there was one common thread that came out of this episode that it's gonna stick with me for a long time. [00:01:21] He's guiding people into the natural world to feel connected to the natural world in a deep and profound way. And when anybody sits with their emotional space. With their feelings. Feelings of discomfort, fear, terror, trauma. That's really hard to do and hard to hold. But when you do and access curiosity, you begin to tap into your true nature. [00:01:49] Your intuition, and so Eli might be talking about sharks and the deep ocean, and I might be talking about feelings, but there is a common thread in language here that makes this episode already one of my favorites. I can't wait for you to hear his story because not only is the work itself that we spent a lot of time talking about, fascinating. [00:02:10] He leads people on wildlife safaris in the ocean, on land. I mean, it's just. What a cool, amazing job. But he built that job. There wasn't an application for him to fill out. He built this from the ground up and there were stumbling blocks, missteps and pivots along the way, and he shares those with us. [00:02:30] So not only can we learn about how could I build a dream that I didn't know was possible, you also have the benefit of. Really getting a sense of what is it like, what is the value, what is the purpose? And I would argue where is the healing in connecting with the natural world, whether that's through a hike or through looking out your window. [00:02:53] And as he states a couple of times, just watch a sunset. Really watch a sunset. So I'm gonna save that. I'm gonna leave that for you there. Thank you for being here. You're gonna love this episode. Welcome, Eli Martinez. [00:03:08] [00:04:18] Danielle: Eli Martinez, thank you so much for being here with Don't cut your own bangs. [00:04:23] This is not the first time we've met, but this is the first time we've done a podcast together and I am like the little kid in me who wanted to be a marine biologist when she first knew what dolphins were. [00:04:34] This feels like just she feels so greedy with excitement to talk to someone who has made a living, being an adventure traveler and swimming with animals and interacting with animals all over the world. So I'm very excited to talk to you. [00:04:47] Eli: Actually, I was a little self-conscious about it because of, because of your background in psychology. [00:04:52] I'm like, okay, all right. where do I start? [00:04:55] Danielle: You know what? Yes. your family actually told me to schedule this podcast interview so that we could really get into what makes Eli tick. No, no, no, no, no., This is a celebration what I'm curious about personally, not just professionally working as a therapist, but I love understanding what leads people down, whatever path they end on. [00:05:16] And probably a lot of that is because I mistakenly thought during my twenties that you went through the school system. You graduate with a degree, you start working in that career, and you follow all of the steps to be a good. Citizen and that was not my path, and it was a lot more twisty and turny and there were a lot of pivots and I can see that now as of value. [00:05:43] But, in those moments where I thought I knew what I was going to be doing and life took me in a different direction, it. Knocked me down pretty hard I think there were a lot of moments where I felt like I was failing or wasn't doing it right, using air quotes of whatever it is. [00:05:59] And so someone like you who, are a storyteller, explorer, wildlife photographer, and have spent your life chasing the wild. you lead ocean and land wildlife, safaris. I love that distinction. Ocean and land, wildlife safaris. [00:06:15] There is not, you can't go to high school and then college and then just start doing what you're doing. There's no Reddit, there's no LinkedIn interview that you can fulfill to make that a career. You had to chisel that together. And so I really wanna understand that more. how you built this dream. [00:06:36] What seems from afar, like a dream life? And I'm sure it is many days, but I wanna know how you did it. [00:06:43] Eli: animals have always been like my first love, as a child, I can remember my first toys were animals. my dream as a child was to become a wildlife veterinarian. that was the only way I knew that I could actually physically be around animals that, 'cause I had no idea about wildlife guiding or photography or storytelling [00:07:05] So veterinarian was the only way I could get close to a zebra or a giraffe. And I said, that's what I want to do. So as a child, that was like that one dream that I had. And of course, life gets in the way and I went to a completely different route. I actually went to school to be a motorcycle mechanic. [00:07:23] So what? [00:07:24] Danielle: Yeah. [00:07:24] Eli: That's [00:07:25] Danielle: definitely a different route. [00:07:26] Eli: Yeah. No, it was, I fell in love with race bikes and I wanted to travel the world. look, me being a mechanic for race teams, that was my thing. I love motorcycles, but I like wrenching them. I like working on them more than I like writing them for, it's just my DNA, just how I like to be. [00:07:43] Fast forward a bunch of years, I fell in love with shark diving. I went scuba diving and on my very first. Dive. I saw a shark and it terrified me. It excited me. filled me with everything that I enjoyed about wildlife to begin with. [00:08:00] And it was coming out of the water that I realized I knew absolutely nothing about sharks. Everything I thought I knew was wrong. [00:08:09] Mm-hmm. , [00:08:10] So I, came outta the water that day and I was just completely fascinated, really obsessed with learning more about sharks. So I, I bought every book I could find. [00:08:20] I read as much as I could about them, and I just was like, I gotta get in the water with them some more. And it was on my very first, travel. I went to The Bahamas and it was on that experience is. What got me on this path that I'm on today was just like, I want to dive with sharks. I want to travel to exotic places. [00:08:41] I want to meet amazing people, [00:08:43] Danielle: How do you wait? Do okay? I, okay, so we're gonna get to the how. So you fell in love, and now it's the how, but I wanna go back. Do you remember the first shark, like in your, can you access that memory and do you know the shark? [00:08:55] I can. What was it? It was a bull shark. Oh, whoa. Okay. Yeah. that's gnarly. Yeah, that is. okay. The first shark you ever swam with was a bull shark. I don't know why that's like the one that scares me. I, I can relate. So not to put on the therapy hat for, for anything other than just, I find this so interesting that the things that scared me, I wanted to learn more about, I found endlessly interesting. [00:09:21] And when I was young it was the ocean, the deep ocean, And I really became, in the way that a suburban kid could really curious about sharks and very interested in sharks. And I would always talk about them and just rattle off a bunch of shark facts. [00:09:36] And I, as you were talking, you reminded me of the fork in the road moment where I thought. What I thought was I wanted to work with animals. What I realized was, oh, I just kinda like you love turning wrenches more than you love racing. I love learning about animals more than I want to. I'll just tell the story. [00:09:57] When I was, 13 or 14, I applied for a summer job at our Indianapolis Zoo. that really burst my bubble of what that was gonna mean. I wanted to work with animals. But I realized, I just wanted to play with the elephants. I didn't wanna do the dipping dots concession stand. [00:10:14] So there's this sense of you, you were afraid you shared that. I dove with sharks. I swam with a bull shark. I came outta the water. I was afraid and then fascinated. is that something there, is that like a theme for you that you feel a jolt or a rush and then you wanna understand that rush more? [00:10:31] Possibly, [00:10:32] Eli: it was just more of like, when I saw the shark, I had two primal instincts, which was, one was to follow it. And the other was to get outta the water. That was just like those two conflicting feelings that was going through me. [00:10:46] And the, when I was, I ran out of air really quick 'cause it was actually my very first ocean dive. [00:10:51] Okay. So I was sitting on the surface, the dive master sent me up to the surface by myself, which is crazy. And when I think about it, man, I didn't know anything I was doing. I'm just looking down. [00:11:01] I'm just like, really worried the shark is gonna come up and get me 'cause I'm on the surface. And that's all I knew. I always knew. I knew the jaw story. I knew a little, just very small snippets of information on sharks and Yeah. And it was completely opposite of what was happening. the shark wanted nothing to do with us. [00:11:17] It tried to avoid us completely. [00:11:18] Danielle: Yeah. [00:11:19] Eli: Got out of the water and then the whole way back to port, I was just like, okay. He didn't come after us. He didn't want anything to do with this. [00:11:28] Like, why? and it was that moment that was just like, after that I got out of the water, I'm like, okay. I gotta know. I gotta know. yeah. [00:11:36] Danielle: what you thought you knew, conflicted with what you experienced, and you were trying to understand that more. [00:11:42] Eli: Right. [00:11:43] Danielle: That's really interesting. I can relate to that. I honestly think that's a big thread of what led me to therapy. I wanted to understand my internal experience more. And I think there's, steps of you're introduced to a concept and then you embody the concept. [00:11:57] you're no longer having to consciously think about it, but really mastery when you're able to teach. And so I think in many ways I wanted to understand that enough to help others, but it began through my own experience and my own curiosity. so I feel like I should mention, How I got connected with you. [00:12:16] I think social media gets a bad rap. it gets a lot of bad press, but thank God for social media. it was in 2012 or 13 and I was watching Shark Week because you always gotta be watching Shark Week. [00:12:27] I was watching Shark Week and the whole episode I was watching was, they were trying to see could large species sharks experience the same temporary paralysis as smaller or baby sharks when they're flipped upside down for study? And I was, of course they're doing all of these great cuts, is it gonna work? [00:12:43] Who knows? Is it gonna work? And of course, they're gonna end it with it working, you're on the edge of your seat. what are they gonna do? What are they gonna do? And they showed a clip of you with a tiger shark in The Bahamas and you were like hand feeding it. And then you stimulated the and you correct me with all the science terms, but you were like stimulating the sout and it just put it in this little trance and then you just tipped it upright. [00:13:06] You just, it stood vertical and you held it just, a shark, a tiger shark. Yeah. I don't know. Was like 16 feet, 15 feet, something like that. [00:13:15] Eli: Possibly. yeah. Anyway, it [00:13:17] Danielle: blew my mind and I think I just made a post about it. I took a picture of my tv. I was like, my mind is blown. [00:13:24] And then some weeks later you commented, thanks so much for the shout out. And that was one of those first moments. That really connected with oh, you can actually connect with the people who were doing things that you think is cool. it just, it really bridged this gap. And then once, of course, I found out what you and your family, 'cause it's a family band, it's like a whole, it's the whole family involved on these excursions. [00:13:46] But as soon as I made that connection, my husband and I signed up to, swim with Whale Sharks with you and your wife, and your son and your daughter. So that's just, I feel like I gotta give credit to, the algorithm and the innerwebs for making that possible. 'cause I don't know if I would've even thought that was a possibility. [00:14:05] Eli: Oh, that's, thanks for sharing that. I, man, that story just,, [00:14:09] Danielle: mm-hmm. [00:14:10] Eli: Wow. Just flooded with memory with that little piece. [00:14:13] Danielle: Yeah, it was, [00:14:14] When I set out to write a book, I only knew two things. One was I wanted to make big feelings, feel less scary and more approachable, and I wanted to bring some lightness to the feelings themselves. What I know to be true as a therapist is that emotions are energy in motion. They have information to tell you to inform the next right step to take and self-doubt, fear, anxiety, live in that space between knowing and not knowing. [00:14:38] The second thing I knew was that I wanted to have fun in the process of making. This thing. The result is this wrestling a walrus for little people with big feelings, beautifully illustrated children's book that has a glossary at the end for some of the bigger feeling words. What this story does in a light and loving way is create context for those relationships. [00:14:58] You can't change those people that you wish would treat you different. The things in life that we cannot control and yet we face that are hard. This book, it's a conversation starter for any littles in your life. Who want to create more safety and love and patience for some of those experiences. So hop one over to the show notes. [00:15:16] You can pick it up@amazon.com, barge de noble.com or my website. I hope that you do because I believe in this little book. I freaking love this little book, and I cannot wait to hear your experience with it. Thanks so much for listening and get back to the episode. [00:15:29] Eli: those are fun, fun shows to do. and there's definitely a lot of benefits to social media, I think. I think it's a great tool. It's a great servant, A terrible master. [00:15:41] That's the best way I can describe it. said. yeah, it is just, there's so many benefits to, connecting with people on the other side of the world to learning about unique places, to learning unique things. it's been one of my most important tools when finding new places for wildlife. [00:15:58] but on the flip side, there's sometimes there's just too much information out there and too much because of it. it's made life difficult for wildlife, difficult for kids, difficult for, it's just. It can be too much. And that's the only downside [00:16:14] Danielle: it's like, how we engage with it. It's an extension of how we are showing up with it, what we're looking for, what interests us. [00:16:21] what I love about how you show up there and how your family shows up there with images is it really, I think, highlights How we operate. we look first and then we listen second. And so you'll capture these images or these videos that seem other worldly and it catches your attention enough. [00:16:43] And if you can hold that attention enough, and it probably helps that your message is consistent of conservation, understanding, connecting with nature. when you can capture someone's attention with an image, just what happened with me? [00:16:56] And then you can maybe engage in a dialogue . And it actually leads me to something, that you mentioned. Something I caught from your website that I really liked this language, that when people experience the wild, they understand and when they understand they care. [00:17:12] And that sounds much like the experience you had swimming with the bull shark. But I wanna know more about that because you, not only through, your media outlets and the content you put out, but you are handholding, you're guiding people into the water or in, ocean and land safaris. [00:17:31] And I wanna understand more about this concept 'cause I think it's true of emotions too. If you can't articulate what you're feeling, then when people don't have language for what they're experiencing, they usually shut down and collapse or they explode with rage. it's gotta go somewhere. [00:17:46] And so when you can create context and language, you also create safety. it seems like with what you're guiding people through, you want them to understand and so that they care. yeah, tell me more. [00:17:59] Eli: Yeah, that has a lot to do with just experiences being out in nature. [00:18:04] I think nature is probably one of the best doctors on the planet. first and foremost, I think that people being around wildlife, people being in the ocean, people being in the wilderness, it replenishes your soul. It recharges your batteries. I think it just makes you a better person. [00:18:21] it's through these connections and meeting wildlife and having people go out there in the wild and see these places and see these animals and they come back and they tell stories, they tell their friends. [00:18:31] And hopefully it's through those kind of connections that, [00:18:36] Conservation comes out of, like at the end of the day, the animals win. That's what you're hoping for is for the animals to win because these are voiceless souls on our planet that share this world with us. and without these people, without these experiences, they're completely vulnerable for lack of better words, to bigger business, to sadly going away, for lack of better words. [00:18:56] Danielle: I think one of the biggest problems that animals have is that they are second class citizens on our planet that we share. And unfortunately, we're seeing our wild places disappear. alarmingly fast, and it's, I think that conservation ecotourism are probably the only tools left that are going to save, what's left of our wild places, what's left of our wildlife, Let's try to get some people on your wildlife safaris. What would be, so if someone's listening who has maybe like me, just from a television screen or from a social media account, wondered, that would be cool, but that could never work for me. I could never do something like that. [00:19:40] That it just, when you're. Physical reality or even your mental reality feels so removed from the wild world. we live in boxed rooms and we're so connected with screens and, my wildlife outside my window is squirrels, cardinals. [00:19:58] Eli: That's perfect. [00:19:58] Danielle: So how would you speak life into someone saying yes to an adventure and where do they begin? [00:20:07] Eli: Oh man. I think it really, first and foremost, it all comes down to your comfort level. I think that there's so many ways for people to reconnect with nature, whether it's hiking, whether it's biking, whether it's going to the beach for the day, watching a sunset. [00:20:23] Just watching a sunset is so powerful. I think it's so important. I don't think we do it enough. I think that is probably the simplest way to remember that you are a part of something bigger and as simple as it sounds, it is so important. now watching a sunset in an amazing place is even 10 times better. [00:20:42] It's that much more powerful. just, trying to reconnect with nature, I think the important part to remind people that yes. The earth is here. She is alive and she breathes and she's got a heartbeat every day. And I think that sunset is her heartbeat. [00:20:55] and it's a great way to see it. [00:20:57] Danielle: I just saw, I think it was nasa, release some footage of a particular, some type of lens on a satellite that was able to actually detect a pulse on the earth. [00:21:08] Like the earth has a heartbeat, but I'm sure the more sciencey people have another way of explaining it. but that it caught my attention. And that feels just right on par with what you're saying when the heart space and the head space connect, I think that's where magic happens. [00:21:22] Like when you can believe it in your mind, but then you experience it in your body, that is, powerful. I think everybody needs to have an experience like getting into the deep ocean or going out into the wild nature. I really think everybody should have that in their life at least once. [00:21:40] But I wanna share a little bit about what my experience was like , with, um, you and your wife swimming with winter parks, because it was there was so much momentum for me built up into what I thought that experience was gonna be because from the time I understood. Little mermaid, Disney to the time I, could name the dolphin body parts and thought that's what I wanted to be like this, there was so much emotional charge and I'm gonna go in the water and I'm gonna swim and it's gonna be great. [00:22:11] And I just had this idea that I'm gonna connect with this shark. We're gonna make eye contact and it's gonna, we're gonna just be on the same vibe. so many expectations that I never expressed, but they were all there. I was, probably trying to keep it cool. But, no,the reality it, the i'll, I will just to skip to the end, the reality far exceeds whatever I imagine. [00:22:31] the first day was me reconciling what I thought it would be and what it really was. Getting on a little charter boat going way out in the middle of the gulf and. Then, I think sturgeon were spawning and that was what was drawing the sharks. And so it made visibility like all of these little eggs were refracting light. [00:22:51] So it was this very sparkly, but also sometimes visibility was funky. And the thing that I couldn't wrap my head around was from the boat. You could look out at the water and see, I don't know, a dozen whale sharks at any given time, but then you get in the water and adrenaline hits and I don't know where they are. [00:23:13] I can't see them. It's just having very little to no experience in the deep water. That was such a jolt and a shock to my system. and then being in the water with an animal, 20 feet, 25 feet, 30 feet long, My nervous system just didn't know how to compute. it was so much, I don't think I'd ever been that tired, ever. [00:23:37] Just, it took so much outta me. And then, day 2, 3, 4, each day got a little easier 'cause I had a better idea of what to expect. And also I didn't, you're covered in fish eggs, you're culvert in fish eggs. So the, the imagination that I would become this mermaid this other worldly creature and have this like soul bond with a whale shark, it wasn't that. [00:23:59] But the real life experience was incredible too. But I just, I don't, and I guess I don't really know where I'm leading with the question, but how do you see when having guided so many people through these moments? Like for somebody who's thinking about. Possibly planning an experience like that? [00:24:20] Like what, how do you prepare what would be good for someone to prepare for what that is like? [00:24:26] Eli: Wow, man. it's so different for everybody. it's just, valid. [00:24:30] Danielle: Valid. Then everybody maybe wants to be [00:24:32] Eli: Yeah. there's a few that want to be mermaids for sure on our trips. I'm not gonna lie. [00:24:38] but yeah, it's just really these animals the whale shark is a great, I call 'em, they're like gateway animals into a bigger world because, when it comes to seeing orcas and whales and of all different species and sharks, a whale shark is possibly, [00:24:55] It's a great ambassador for the species because they're a harmless species. They're just like big giant catfish floating on the surface. and it's a wonderful animal for someone of all ages to experience. it really is, [00:25:10] the whale shark, and I don't know if you had man rays on your trip as well, because Sometimes they show up every other year. The man ray is another, ocean angel. they're just, they're just, the perfect animal for people, for if you wanna. [00:25:24] Experience the ocean. If you wanna experience what life is like in the ocean, in a Disney way, that is the perfect animal to do it with. It's just very safe. it's a phenomenal, way to decide if, you know what? I would like to do more of things like this, or, this was perfect, this was enough. [00:25:43] You know, [00:25:45] Danielle: I wanna go back to something, something that you wrote that I really liked. that reminded me. [00:25:50] Even though we are talking about safari, we're talking about adventure, we're talking about animals, I think the more specific we become in a way, the more universal it becomes. And this quote made me think about a lot of the stuff that you write, it's a Mark Twain quote that travel is fatal to prejudice. [00:26:09] once you see something, you can't unsee something. I wanna speak to the, Why beyond conservation? if I'm not connected to nature, if I'm not connected to animals and I've got enough going on in my life, that conservation, cool, I'm glad someone's taking care of it, but that's not my focus. [00:26:29] What would be a personal selfish reason that would be maybe a call to action that you like? What would be the invitation for somebody individually, not globally, not, for any other reason, like why it could change your life to jump into the deep or get in a Jeep with no top and go drive out to a pride of lions. [00:26:55] what is the reason that you could articulate why somebody should do that? [00:27:00] Eli: I think the wildlife is, they're reminders of where we all came from. we were all of us in our DNA, if you look at the generations of people that have lived on this planet, at some point we were all part of that. We were all out there. [00:27:18] there wasn't this separation between us and our wild places. whether it was the ocean, whether it was a jungle. some of our ancestors had to deal with bears in their front porch. some of our ancestors had to deal with lions walking through camp. [00:27:34] that's something that we have either. Blocked out or forgotten. Obviously we've forgotten just because of generations of separation from it. But we are all part of that. We are all part of this world. beyond our cars and our homes and our clothes, we are part of nature a hundred percent. [00:27:55] We've forgotten this. And I think these are great reminders to remind us, Hey, this is where we all come from. This is, we're not separated from these things. we are very much a part of these things. And if anything, there are so many species that, although they're no longer, relevant in our world, they're so important for our world, not only as reminders, but as part of this giant balance, because we're all connected in some way, in some form. [00:28:23] we're all for lack of better, we're all one. And I think it's important. To remind people that, like we, we need to stay connected. We need to protect these animals because, they're much a part of this earth as we are. and we have to remind people that they're there yeah, that, that's, [00:28:44] This is our home. This is their home. This is our home. [00:28:47] Danielle: And I also, what I'm hearing too, it's they, when you're in communion with nature, you become more in touch with, or in tune with your own natural rhythm, your own self. There's, you might actually, know him or, 'cause I would imagine the community, like the pool you're in terms of career is probably small, I'm just guessing. [00:29:07] But, Boyd Verdi, he's from South Africa, he wrote The Lion Tracker's Guide to Life He has a property in South Africa called Alose. It was a game preserved. Okay. Yeah. Yes, I, and but his work in that book is basically teaching people to track wild animals, helps them become more in touch with the rhythms of nature. [00:29:29] And by, not by default, but through becoming more in tune with tracking nature, you, your track, like your path. So I think so many of the clients I attract are struggling with anxiety, depression, and burnout. And I think a lot of the confusion and self doubt and, head trash is also rooted in, I don't know what I'm supposed to do. [00:29:54] It's that maybe they don't articulate it like that, but it's experienced that way of just, I don't know what I'm supposed to do. As opposed to, I wanna know what I'm called to do. I wanna know what I'm meant to do or what I want to do. my dog never questions when she's hungry, when she's tired, like she is completely embodied because she doesn't have this giant brain getting in her way of everything. [00:30:19] And I love hearing you talk about the more in tune you are with nature, you are reminded that you are nature too. [00:30:27] Eli: it's it's so important for people to stay connected to nature and it's getting worse. I think it's just part of I. [00:30:35] Part of what I feel is that they're completely pulling us away from it. I think that unhealthy feeling, I remember having it as a growing up. I remember there was many times where I didn't know what I wanted to do. I didn't know, what my calling was but I always just, I remember standing there and just looking around saying, something's wrong. [00:31:00] I don't belong here. [00:31:01] Danielle: that's something's wrong. the language I like to use. with clients is, that's usually what gets people into an appointment with me first. It's when I say it's like your smoke detector's going off. 'cause your smoke detector can't tell the difference between burning toast or bacon and a fire in some part of your house, but it's just beeping 'cause it senses smoke, something's wrong. [00:31:20] And so I think a lot of times getting that emotional awareness or that clarity starts with something's wrong and then you sit with that. But then the discomfort, it's like I think about that story with you and the bull shark the first time it's, I either need to chase it and funnel down with it or I need to run away from it. [00:31:40] And I think that tension is what happens every time we hit a big emotion or a fork in the road or we're at a growth edge, we're about to change. but I think that is the. Following the path of curiosity is almost always what leads you down to some new sense of understanding, about yourself or the world. [00:32:00] I wanna, do you have, of all of the experiences you've led other people through, do you have It could be one, it could be more than one, it might even be with a member of your family, but have you seen, like shifts happen in people that just observed? 'cause I have over the years seen many powerful shifts happen in sessions, but it's such an intimate thing, but where you're out in the wild with someone, are there any moments that stand out to you of just being like, whoa, this person is different, or this person is really having an experience here? [00:32:35] Eli: Yeah. I have this one gentleman who. would do adventures. he would do travel on his own, and then he went on one of our trips a very successful, businessman. and I could see that this was just something he was doing for like, and that's interesting. [00:32:54] [00:32:54] Danielle: on [00:32:54] Eli: That's so interesting. Yeah. He was, he was on the trip And he was there to experience the animal, but it was almost like a science project, it wasn't like it was super into the animal. Like he was intellectualizing it. he was, it was like, it wasn't like [00:33:11] a bucket list. It was like, okay, I'm on this journey of I'm gonna photograph wildlife. Now, I've been photographing these other things and I'm gonna photograph wildlife now. we went out there, he had the experience and it was almost like this. [00:33:25] Yeah. You could feel the shift of just now I get it. oh, I got a goosebump thinking about it. Yeah. it was like now. Okay, okay. You know, it was, it was, [00:33:35] Danielle: it was like his body, like it kicked on. [00:33:38] Eli: Yeah. something inside him came alive [00:33:41] And it was just like more. And it was a completely different, more than when he first started and it was something [00:33:47] Danielle: beside him came alive. That gave me chills. I almost wonder if it's the distinction of when you were describing a sunset, like the difference between driving in your car and you're getting somewhere as the sun happens to be going down and you're doing a million other things versus watching a sunset and taking it in. [00:34:08] So not being just a passive observer, but being a present participant in the moment. [00:34:14] Eli: Yeah. Purposely trying to watch, I'm going to this spot because I want to see the sunset, or I'm gonna, I'm gonna stop to put my phone down and I'm gonna watch the sunset. Even if you take your phone, you know you're watching it through your phone as you wanna record it, because that's what we do now. [00:34:31] just that act alone of purposely trying to do that is significant. It is life changing to sometimes for some people. [00:34:38] Danielle: That's awesome. that was a really good answer. I wanna hear a little bit more. So I was circling back, you were starting to connect how that first dive, you were scuba diving, you saw the bull shark, you were swimming up to the surface, and then you almost started to shift to how that led you down this path. [00:34:57] I wanna go back to that and maybe if I could jump forward a little bit more in your story. You created Shark Diver Magazine in 2003, and you said you had 25 publications and then it really, the business model really shifted to your excursions. I wanna know more about, deciding to launch a magazine that sounds so ambitious, 25. [00:35:21] me trying to put a blog out sometimes feels like a real effort. but 25 publications is no small thing. And then you shifted it to excursions. it's one thing to do something yourself as a hobbyist or as an enthusiast, but you're leading people with all varying degrees of experience. [00:35:40] Some people that wanna be, mermaids and you're leading all types of people from all over the world on these trips and you're dealing with a lot of personalities. I would love to know more about how you made that shift from the magazine into leading your safaris. [00:35:55] Eli: Yeah, it was, so I started the magazine, in 2003. I didn't know anything about publishing. I didn't know anything about photography. I didn't know. Anybody in the business. And I had never really written anything outside of my journals before. [00:36:14] Danielle: So it was just like, I am, I'm so excited by this. [00:36:16] You're like, I am gonna build a rocket ship, but I don't have an engineering degree. I don't understand the mechanics. and I've never flown on a plane, but I'm gonna build a rocket ship. [00:36:25] Eli: what I did. Yeah. So I just, I went all in. I've always had a love affair with magazines as far as, any sport that I was into. [00:36:34] Had a magazine dedicated to it with mountain biking, surfing, rock climbing, scuba diving. but there was nothing dedicated to shark diving. And that's the area that I fell in love with. And I said, here's my, and I really was trying to find. A vehicle. And a way to get into the industry, to make a name for myself, coming from Landlock, Texas. [00:36:54] there was, this was my way in. This was an opportunity. And this is all pre-social media, so it was all from scratch and trying to create this business. And, yeah, we did it for eight years. I published 25 issues and it was a lot of fun. And it was, a lot of laying in bed going, what the hell did I do? [00:37:14] Why did I do this to myself? And, this is crazy. And it was fueled by also, I, the first pub, the first magazine I came out with, a family friend. I overheard him in the distance, say I wonder if it's gonna be around in a year. And that, so I wrote those words down and I put it in my office. [00:37:36] and that, inspired me to make it to the first year it was a, and then after that, I made it to the second and the third. it was just this labor of love. This, chance for me to tell stories, chance for me to share this world with people. [00:37:50] because, when I first started and when I was looking through the books, it really felt like, , a, a club. And it really felt more like a researcher's club more than anything else. It was like, the guys who had access to all these amazing places were usually the scientists, the shark scientists, the shark researchers. [00:38:06] And it really didn't feel like it was open to guys like me. And so this is the world that I wanted to create. I wanted to create a world where it was open to. Sharks were accessible to the world. And that's what I wanted to do with this magazine. and what I wanted to do with my storytelling is invite everybody who was really interested in sharks like myself and help them find places where they could dive with these animals and read stories from fellow people like myself that were not all scientists, we're not all research. [00:38:36] yeah. So that was the idea. That was what I really wanted to do when I started the magazine. And then, trying to get advertisers to be interested in us when we had zero subscribers and no real history, and it was just like, mm-hmm. That was an impossible feat. So I don't know where I came up with the idea. [00:38:54] Somebody either shared that idea with me or I was doing my research. I just decided to try to organize, oh, I know what it was. It was one of my potential sponsors asking me to organize a trip. And that's what started the opportunities is it's a great way to raise money. [00:39:12] If I can get people to travel with us, we can use that money to help publish the magazine. Yeah. And that's what the first trips were. So May I ran our first expedition to North Carolina for Sand Tiger Sharks in May of 2003. So that first year coming out of the box, we, we brought some people and we just started doing that. [00:39:32] So from the first year we organized those trips, and then we just, it just kept going. and it was, and it ended up being the way I funded the magazine for the first eight years. I didn't, after that I really didn't chase sponsors very much because I just didn't like, I'd go to a travel show. [00:39:48] And then we, and. It would be, I would end up being that magazine guy that's just trying to get money from me. Yeah. And I didn't like that feeling at all. So I just said, you know what, I don't need to do this. this is what the trips are about. It's reader sponsored, and I can do whatever I want with a magazine. [00:40:04] I can tell the stories the way I want to tell 'em. and so that's what I did. [00:40:08] Danielle: I think because we've all been sold so many different times through so many different channels, it's like you can feel it when it's coming at you. [00:40:15] And nobody likes that. So it's just so much this is what it is, this is what we're doing, this is what I like. gosh, having come from different sales backgrounds and have family and my husband who's in sales, it's like when a sale happens, you're really just offering information. [00:40:31] It's I don't, my guess is you're not selling people ongoing on your trips, right? People are already interested. You're giving them the information and then that's when they say yes. But you're not going out selling people on doing it. I feel like I'm trying to do that for you. 'cause I just think more people need to do it. [00:40:46] You are very intentionally not doing that. I want to acknowledge the predator myth, I found it really interesting that you were passionate about dispelling the predator myth. I wanna understand that better because obviously we all know how sharks are portrayed. [00:41:01] we've seen all those things. but I think the ocean, deep ocean and what we fear in the ocean, it correlates to emotions, big, uncomfortable feelings. I don't think it's called a therapy myth, but there has to be something terribly wrong to seek that type of help or seek that type of guidance. [00:41:20] and I wanna know more in your world, in your space, what is the predator myth and what do you want people to know? [00:41:28] Eli: Oh, for me its exactly what I was brought up believing about sharks is just that, sharks are mindless monsters and they're just out to get you. [00:41:37] And the moment you step in the ocean, there's gonna be a shark down there. And, I've heard this. My entire life that, oh, I'll never jump off a boat into the ocean because there's just sharks waiting. [00:41:47] Danielle: [00:41:47] Eli: me, and it's completely opposite. I really wish that if I just went out into the ocean, jumped off a boat and there'd be a bunch of sharks there, it's just not the reality. [00:41:58] It takes so much work to find these animals. It takes a lot of effort and usually the people That get lucky and say, oh look, there's a great white under my boat. they're the ones who don't wanna see sharks. the people that wanna see sharks like a great white under their boat, never get to see a great white under their boat. [00:42:15] that's just the way nature works. But, yeah, for me it was more about, trying to help people pass this prejudice, pass this belief system that is ingrained in us, that's actually probably ingrained in our DNA [00:42:27] So it's very much ingrained in all of us from the beginning. And the more I understood sharks, the more I wanted to get rid of that stigma as best I could. Yeah. I started doing a lot of, Talks at schools and helping kids with, sharing, what I know about sharks, and I've through the years, really figured out what works and what doesn't. [00:42:48] And I used to show pictures of sharks and try to get people to dispel their fear with just a picture of shark, but in their mind, it's still a shark. [00:42:57] But when I started sharing videos of myself with a shark in my arms and giving a back rub and rolling them upside down and just, like a shark sticking his face between my knees so I could scratch his back. [00:43:10] and showing these kids these images and showing these kids that, this other side, and you could see it, you see it in the teachers. they're just like, wait. Mm-hmm. Wait, what? Wait, what? It's like you wake them up, you wake up something primal in them and say, wait, that's possible. [00:43:24] Danielle: yes. That you just said it, 'cause I think that you don't have to prove to someone what you're saying is true, but what you're showing them is it's possible. I think it's when you don't believe it's possible, that's when people freeze or shut down or wanna give up or stop. [00:43:39] And it's when we're afraid we want control, we want contracts, we want guarantees, we want promises, we need something ironclad. But, there is no guarantee. But knowing that, there's something possible that's really, yeah. I feel that really deeply. Yeah. you're igniting possibility in people. [00:43:58] It, you also just reminded me too, I love Leopard Sharks. I've never swam with them, but, I love leopard Sharks and I feel like that. That shark more than any other, you see them almost act like little dogs, like just anyone listening, just Google videos of like leopard shark pups. And they swear, they just act like dogs. [00:44:14] So cute down. They're beautiful. What is the, what do you think is the biggest gap in our understanding of not just predators, but marine life, wildlife? what's our biggest gap in understanding? [00:44:29] Eli: I think it's disconnect. like you said earlier, it's, oh, I'm glad somebody out there is doing it. [00:44:34] that kind of thing. It's it's not for me. I got too many things I'm doing in my life, my life is a mess, Lack of empathy for something. and that has to do with disconnect because it's more of, it's talking about the shark, [00:44:46] it's one thing to talk about, it's another thing for people to see it. And, in them, me, roll the tiger. just like open that up in your mind, the fascination in your mind of oh wow, like I didn't even know this was a thing. Or if it's even possible. And that's what I've tried to do [00:45:01] predators and with crocodiles and anacondas and all the other animals that I dive with is just showing the other side of these animals and, their place in the world And how important they are. And it's not just, when we jump in the water with an anaconda and if, people are so surprised to know that it's. [00:45:18] the Anaconda is terrified and all he's trying to do is hide from us. So you're looking at a 18 foot, 20 foot long snake. the moment I jump in the water and he's just like, where do I hide? it's like he's completely terrified of my presence. [00:45:32] [00:45:32] Danielle: the crocodile, those images just, everyone should visit Eli's, social media channels as soon as you, you stop listening to this episode, just go scroll through and look. But the crocodile one, those, late night scrolling, when I see one of those images that stops me in my tracks, and I thought I was pretty open-minded with nature, but man, that, that makes the hairs on the back of my neck stand up. [00:45:54] That's wild. [00:45:56] Eli: I used to say Crocs of the new Sharks. Okay, sure. I feel that makes sense. So yeah, because for years, right? when I started the magazine in 2003, it was still Steve Irwin. Mm-hmm. The late great Steve Irwin was still diving with Tiger Sharks in a cage. [00:46:11] on his show, he was showing, that diving with them in a cage. so for years they're like,it's impossible to dive with tigers outside of a cage. Then, in The Bahamas and Fiji, they're diving with tigers outside the cage and they're like, you can do it during the day, but you can't do it at night. [00:46:27] So we started diving with tigers at night, and then they're like, you can do that with a tiger, but you can't do it with a great white. Yeah, we're diving outside the cage with great whites. And so, I mean, it was just like, well, you could do it with sharks, but you can't do it with crocodiles. [00:46:39] Danielle: You're right. You're right. It's the same prejudice, just moving into a different face. [00:46:44] Eli: Right. Oh, interesting. The same thing with orcas too. Like you can, when they're like, you can't swim with an orca. we started swimming with orcas and then, you can do it with these, but you can't do it with the pelagic orcas because, they're a lot more aggressive and they eat sea lions. [00:46:56] And so we're diving with those species too. it's just they're always trying to find, and it's usually people who don't swim with these animals that are creating the ideas that people believe, [00:47:07] Danielle: you know? Mm-hmm. Yeah. So it's like the people that aren't the mechanics or the one trying to pump the brakes. [00:47:12] Um, I, so I saw on your social media just this morning that you said the duck bill platypus is your unicorn. Yes. That was, it wasn't intended to be a question, but I have to ask, why is the Depa plat picture your unicorn [00:47:24] Eli: as a kid? I, that was one of the first most exotic animals I had ever seen. [00:47:31] Danielle: Yeah. [00:47:31] Eli: This book in second grade, that I read about the platypus and it was, the fact that it lays eggs and that it's got a duck bill and it looks like a beaver, but it's not. and it was just a fascination was born in that moment. And it was something that like, I have to see this animal. [00:47:50] Like I just have to, so it's always been, it's been my unicorn. I have, I'm ashamed to say I've never been to Australia. [00:47:57] But as soon as I do, that is like task number one. I gotta see a platypus like this. Okay. [00:48:03] Danielle: that was gonna be my follow up question because I embarrassingly don't know where the poses live. So I was gonna ask you where would one, find one. Okay. So Australia. Perfect. I actually think there's a couple of Australian listeners. I don't know where in Australia. I just see this map and wherever it's highlighted that shows where people have downloaded episodes. [00:48:20] So anyone in Australia don't miss your opportunity to catch a platypus because Eli's gonna come snap some photos. Okay. So we're nearing the end and I'm really excited to lay out the don't cut your own bangs moment with you. 'cause I have a feeling you probably have too many that could just fill up its own episode. [00:48:41] But I would love to know what a don't cut your own bang moment is for you. [00:48:45] Eli: I spent a big part of my youth trying to become a professional bull writer growing up in Texas. What. [00:48:57] Danielle: Okay. Okay. This is good. This is already, this is already one of the top two. Okay. Go on. [00:49:01] Eli: So I wanted to be a world champion bull rider. [00:49:04] I ate, drank, dream, slept, dreamed bull riding. I was in love with the sport. [00:49:09] And it was during, I was working on my pro permit when I cracked my hip at a show and I gave myself three months to heal. And it was during that time, one of my best friends got a scuba diving certification and he was telling me about it. [00:49:25] So I had three months off. So I took the time to get my scuba certification. [00:49:30] Danielle: After I got scuba certified, I went, I just wanna, I just wanna put a brief pause. So your time off was actually you healing a fractured hip. You weren't. Oh, okay. So in your off time with a fractured hip, you got your scuba certification? [00:49:45] Eli: Yes, exactly. Okay. Okay. Cool. Okay, go on, go on. [00:49:51] So it was on that, on that bowl that I, when I cracked my hip, I got, I got scuba certified. I went to Kmel, I saw a shark. I came back from that adventure. I was, I went to my next rodeo and I was behind the chutes. And I fell off my bowl and all I had, I usually would throw a fit. When I would buck off, I would just, so angry at myself. [00:50:15] But off, after that ride, I was behind the chutes and I had Caribbean music, blue water, white sand sharks floating through my mind. I was like, I'm done. I'm going shark diving. And, so not becoming a professional bull rider was the best thing that never happened to me. [00:50:34] Danielle: Oh, that is so, that is good. [00:50:39] And I feel like those, those moments, that perspective is unfortunately earned in hindsight. It's so hard to trust in those moments when you're down with a fractured hip or saying goodbye to an old dream, feeling like you're starting over. That is hard. I mean, in your magazine was that too? But you can even see now in the full expression of what your business is, how learning to tell stories, learning to create a narrative, learning to take images and then not just take images that are clear and focus, but that are also telling a visual story. [00:51:18] And you've passed that on to your daughter who, she's a wildlife photographer in the making. I mean she is and is continuing to be, but it's like all of those steps. But it's, all of those things led to the next thing, but I think it only could have, because you followed the curiosity as opposed to maybe drowning in what you were losing. [00:51:41] You allowed yourself to become curious about where you wanted to go. And I think that's a really remarkable quality. That's a good, that's a great emotionally resilient quality. [00:51:52] Eli: Yeah. Mm-hmm. Well, thanks. I just, uh, yeah. It was, it was, that was a huge chunk of my life that I just I gave up, but it felt right. [00:52:02] It felt right. And it was just like, that's why I think maybe that. Let's see if he's still around in a year. Doing that came from just because I was like, okay, he is gonna be a bull rider now. He is gonna be a shark diver. [00:52:15] Danielle: Yes. my background was on ballroom dance. I taught, before that I did commercial acting. [00:52:20] my plan was to move to la I had a very similar, about face, very big pivot and started teaching ballroom dance. Did that for about seven years. And I just felt that pressure where I'm about to grow outta my shell. I knew it was not this, but I wasn't crystal clear on what that was. [00:52:38] I just knew not this. And so little step by little step, I found my way in grad school and I was, about 11 years older than every other person in that particular class when I decided to switch careers and do what I'm doing now. But yeah, I always appreciate when people can share those moments like that. [00:52:58] 'cause I think what I'm doing is trying to build up a bank of stories that would've comforted those versions of me that was just so terrified about to do something new. . [00:53:08] This was so exciting. Thank you for being here. I'm excited for everybody to, check out your account, look at all your images, sign up for a trip, just take the leap, put a deposit down on an adventure. [00:53:22] Just scroll through. Pick an animal that terrifies you and just say yes to that one. I can't wait for everybody to hear this. Awesome. Thank you so much. [00:53:30] Thank you so much for tuning into this week's episode of Don't Cut Your Own Bangs. I hope that you enjoyed it as much as I did recording it, because this in so many ways was a dream come true if you couldn't tell by the episode itself. I wanna leave you with , a quote that I pulled from Eli that was said in the episode, but really is the heart of what this episode is, as well as what I hope to bring to every episode. [00:53:55] When people experience the wild, they understand and when they understand they care If you replace the wild with the self. When people experience the self, they understand and when they understand they care. The more I understand my own emotional landscape, the more equipped and empowered I feel to navigate it. [00:54:22] The more empathetic, the more compassionate, the more connected I feel with the people in my life. The people who I believe have wronged me with my past. I feel more hopeful for my future. That connection to the self, our essential self or nature, the natural world around us is I think what makes us unique in the experience we get to have on this planet. [00:54:47] So if you haven't already decided you're gonna book your adventure, this might be your call. Whether that adventure is outside your window looking at a sunset, [00:54:58] but I want that for you. I want that for me, and I think we all deserve to have that kind of magic. We can make it if we want it. Thank you for tuning in this week. I look forward to catching you next time, and as always, I hope you continue to have a wonderful day. [00:55:11]  

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I want to hear your thoughts about the show and this episode. Text us here...In this raw and deeply personal episode, I share a story that stopped me in my tracks... being called an anti-Semite for standing up for what I believe in and for speaking up against Alligator Alcatraz. But instead of backing down, I want to lean into truth, integrity, and my own values.This is a reflection on the legacy of a woman who embodied true confidence: the unforgettable Hat Lady. From personal heartbreak to profound life lessons about generosity, resilience, and living in alignment with your values, this episode is a timely reminder that confidence isn't about being understood; it's about knowing who you are.As a life coach for women, I don't always get it right. I want to let others know it is okay to stand for what they believe. You will always have people who criticize you, attack you for your beliefs, and write you off as a crazy woman. Will it be easy? No... in the end, attacks say more about the other person than it does about you.That is their choice. Your choice is to stay true to your values. This is an invitation to join a supportive community of purpose-driven entrepreneurs who are creating an impact in the world.A mastermind is a community of peers who exchange ideas, provide support, and offer sound advice for running a successful business.Join the Confident YOU Mastermind now at https://goconfidentlyservices.myflodesk.com/confidentyoumastermindSupport the showOther helpful resources for you: For more about me and what I do, check out my website. Are you ready to get some help with:Podcast launch/re-launchPodcast growth, to increase your authority and position yourself as the thought leader you are. Or Leveraging your podcast to build your online biz and get more clientsSign up for a FREE 30 minute Confident Podcast Potential Discovery Call In this session I will: Identify the pain point that is holding you back. Suggest a next step strategy for solving the pain point.https://calendly.com/goconfidentlycoaching/30-minutes-free-coaching-sessioin Then we will talk about working together to accelerate the process. Do you want a podcast audit? Check out this link If you're looking for support to grow your business faster, be positioned as an authority in your industry, and impact the masses, schedule a call to explore if you'd be a good fit for one of my coaching programs. Thank you for listening to our podcast. Please Subscribe! ...

Navigating New Hires: Excitement, Hesitation, or Worry?In this episode of the Emotional Intelligence Podcast, hosts Ismail and Sameer dive into the complexities of emotional intelligence in leadership, particularly when it comes to setting boundaries and navigating workplace dynamics. They engage in a thought experiment titled "Excited, Hesitant, or Worried," where they explore various scenarios that leaders may encounter with new hires and interview candidates.From the overprepared interviewee to the unapologetic boundary setterKEY TAKEAWAYSSetting boundaries is essential for maintaining work-life balance, but the way you communicate them matters.Over-prepared candidates can evoke hesitation; authenticity is key in interviews.Cultural fit can outweigh technical skills, but leaders must assess the potential for growth.New employees should balance enthusiasm with respect for established team dynamics.Observing before acting can be more effective than jumping in with suggestions on day one.Hesitation can arise when new hires are overly quiet; communication is crucial for team cohesion.Proactive communication about concerns can foster trust and openness in the workplace.Tactful boundary-setting can enhance professional relationships and career growth.Vulnerability in asking for help is a strength, especially for new employees.Emotional intelligence is vital for navigating complex workplace scenarios and fostering a positive team environment.Feel free to send us an email at info@emotionalintelligents.com and share your thoughts or visit us at https://linktr.ee/emotionalintelligents Send us a text

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Welcome back to Part 2 of our transformative conversation with April Mason on "Women of Impact." In this half, Lisa and April dive into the essential traits every woman needs to master her self-worth, set boundaries, and stop settling for less—from respecting your own time to building individuality, authenticity, and uncompromising standards in relationships. April breaks down her 24 core traits for feminine self-mastery, illustrating how deep self-respect not only influences the dating world but ripples out into parenting, career, and personal fulfillment. April unpacks the often-overlooked superpowers of sensitivity, warmth, and charisma, guiding listeners to reconnect with their bodies and heal deep-rooted trauma. There's an honest look at the struggle of putting your own name on the "building," literally and figuratively, and the ongoing work that real change requires. April and Lisa share actionable ideas for cultivating self-ownership and internal validation, putting the power back in your own hands for love, business, and life itself. If you're ready to take practical steps toward your next level, this is your blueprint. SHOWNOTES 24:05 April's 3-Step Approach to Triggers (Recap) 28:14 Respect: The #1 Trait and Why Women Struggle to Own It 29:33 Respecting Your Own Time, Commitments, and Boundaries 34:01 Individuality as the Root of Confidence and Relationship Success 35:23 Why Women Lose Their Uniqueness and How to Reclaim It 37:05 Navigating Criticism, People-Pleasing, and Staying True to Yourself 40:02 The “Dripping Effect”: Why Early Red Flags Escalate Over Time 41:53 How to Cultivate a ‘Husband-Quality' Pool—and Weed Out the Wrong Ones 43:32 The Four Pillars of Womanhood: Femininity, Spirituality, Sensuality, Wisdom 44:03 The Power and Purpose of Sensitivity (Not Unbotheredness) 46:44 Recognizing and Healing Nervous System Trauma 47:27 Daily Self-Check-Ins for Emotional Awareness 47:47 The Value of Charisma and Why Women Need It 48:43 April's Story: Putting Her Name on the Building and Overcoming Fear 54:01 The Ongoing Work of Healing and Self-Ownership 59:32 Compassion, Boundaries, and Avoiding Over-Giving 1:00:41 Where to Learn More: All Things Feminine Social Club FOLLOW APRIL MASON: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealaprilmason/ Website: https://allthingsfeminine.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ BIOptimizers: Head to⁠ https://bioptimizers.com/impact ⁠and use code IMPACT for 10% off.  OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I want to hear your thoughts about the show and this episode. Text us here...This episode is a power-packed conversation with the incredible Dr. Abena Berry—psychologist, therapist, and passionate advocate for human wellness. If you've ever felt stuck, misunderstood, or overwhelmed by your emotions, this episode is your permission slip to get curious, get real, and get growing.Dr. Berry and Julie dove deep into the heart of personal development, emotional intelligence, and the journey to self-discovery. They unpacked everything from impostor syndrome and cognitive dissonance to generational trauma and the power of community. This episode breaks down each insight and tip with actionable advice, expert context, and a sprinkle of girlfriend-to-girlfriend encouragement.Dr. Berry's Approach:Dr. Berry's work begins with helping clients peel back the layers of conditioning and trauma to rediscover their authentic selves. Many of us, she explains, have internalized beliefs and behaviors from our families, cultures, and society that don't truly reflect who we are.Actionable Steps:Create a Safe Space for Self-Exploration:Whether in therapy, journaling, or quiet reflection, give yourself permission to question your beliefs. Ask: Is this truly mine, or was it handed to me?Identify Conditioned Beliefs:Make a list of “shoulds” you live by. For each, ask yourself: Where did thThis is an invitation to join a supportive community of purpose-driven entrepreneurs who are creating an impact in the world.A mastermind is a community of peers who exchange ideas, provide support, and offer sound advice for running a successful business.Join the Confident YOU Mastermind now at https://goconfidentlyservices.myflodesk.com/confidentyoumastermindBuzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showOther helpful resources for you: For more about me and what I do, check out my website. Are you ready to get some help with:Podcast launch/re-launchPodcast growth, to increase your authority and position yourself as the thought leader you are. Or Leveraging your podcast to build your online biz and get more clientsSign up for a FREE 30 minute Confident Podcast Potential Discovery Call In this session I will: Identify the pain point that is holding you back. Suggest a next step strategy for solving the pain point.https://calendly.com/goconfidentlycoaching/30-minutes-free-coaching-sessioin Then we will talk about working together to accelerate the process. Do you want a podcast audit? Check out this link If you're looking for support to grow your business faster, be positioned as an authority in your industry, and impact the masses, schedule a call to explore if you'd be a good fit for one of my coaching programs. Thank you for listening to our podcast. Please Subscribe! ...

In this episode, I sit down with the legendary Gabby Reece—former pro beach volleyball player, NYT bestselling author, fitness icon, and entrepreneur. From breaking records at Florida State to co-creating XPT and HIGHX with her husband, big-wave surfer Laird Hamilton, Gabby has continually pushed the boundaries of performance and wellness. We talk about identity beyond achievement, how she's navigated motherhood and ambition, and what it really means to live with strength and grace.Leave Us A Voice Message! | https://telbee.io/channel/4_b9zzx58wdkuwirqkcxwa/Topics Discussed: How did Gabby Reece transition from professional sports to becoming a leader in the wellness industry?What inspired Gabby Reece to co-create XPT and HIGHX with Laird Hamilton?What are Gabby Reece's top tips for balancing motherhood, career, and personal health?How does Gabby Reece define strength and resilience in today's world?What are Gabby Reece's daily wellness habits for staying fit, focused, and energized?Sponsored By:Be Well By Kelly Protein Powder & Essentials | Get $10 off your order with PODCAST10 at bewellbykelly.com.LMNT | Go to DrinkLMNT.com/Kelly to receive a free Sample Pack with any LMNT drink mix purchase!Kosterina | Use code KELLY for 15% OFF your first order at kosterina.com/bewell Not sure where to start? Shop all my Kosterina favorites at kosterina.com/bewellMinnow | Go to shopminnow.com and enter code SHOPMINNOW15 at checkout to receive 15% off your first order. Timestamps:00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:30 – Life Lessons from Pro Volleyball00:04:33 – How to Build Mental Resilience00:07:15 – Managing Highs and Lows in Life00:09:52 – Emotional Awareness & Self-Honesty00:13:50 – Getting Back Into Your Body00:17:31 – The Power of Self Check-Ins00:21:06 – Can Women Really “Have It All”?00:21:45 – Flywheel vs. Bucket: Energy Management00:26:53 – Entrepreneurship While Raising Kids00:31:37 – How to Set Career Boundaries00:34:53 – Quality Time with Children: What Matters00:38:34 – Gabby's Keys to a Strong Marriage00:43:22 – Love Languages, Habits & Humor00:47:39 – Entrepreneurship as a Personal Growth Tool00:50:23 – Growing a Wellness Brand00:51:50 – Starting a Business from Scratch00:57:05 – Learning to Say No with Confidence00:58:56 – Shifting Your Mindset After Mistakes01:01:35 – Staying Positive Through Challenges01:05:26 – Breaking the Victim Mentality01:09:16 – Mentorship & Controlling What You Can01:11:58 – How to Know When to Let Go01:13:30 – Gentle Parenting Explained01:16:05 – Parenting Wins & Learning Moments01:20:27 – Birth Order, Learning Styles & Kids01:24:26 – Stop Caring What People ThinkFurther Listening How to Reignite Intimacy, Communicate Better & Fix Relationship Burnout | Dr. Morgan CutlipCheck Out...