In The Loop

In a world overflowing with sermons, reels, and leadership resources, it's never been easier to deliver great content—but is that really what moves people? In this episode of In the Loop, I'm inviting pastors and leaders to step back and wrestle with a crucial question: Are we so focused on crafting messages that that fall short of connecting with the people?

Confrontation is one of the most challenging aspects of leadership, yet it's an unavoidable and necessary part of growth. Welcome to today's episode of Lead with Integrity. I'm your host, Tom Durrance, and today we're diving into The Art of Confrontation—when, how, and why leaders must have difficult conversations. Whether you're addressing performance issues, navigating team conflicts, or standing firm on organizational values, knowing how to confront effectively can make all the difference. In this episode, we'll explore practical strategies to help you approach tough conversations with clarity, confidence, and care.

Leadership is frequently associated with authority, power, and control. In this episode of Leading with Care: The Power of a Compassionate Leader, we explore how compassionate leadership—rooted in empathy, self-awareness, and vulnerability—can create more resilient, motivated teams and elevate leaders themselves. By embracing care and emotional intelligence, leaders can transform their approach and make a lasting, positive impact on those they lead.

In this podcast, we'll dive deep into the hidden corners of our hearts and minds, exploring how we navigate and process our deepest thoughts, secrets, and questions of purity before God and ourselves.

Nothing but the Truth (white lies), is a podcast where we explore how even the smallest, seemingly harmless lies can profoundly affect our lives, relationships, ministry, and the world around us.

Could your personality be impending on your ministry? How would you score yourself in the context of your personality vs the Fruit of the Spirit? In this podcast, we'll change the personality to be more like the Fruit of the Spirit.

God anoints, and Pastors appoint. Have you wondered if they'll ever synchronize? In this podcast, we'll explore the two. Anointed and Appointed. How and when do they sync together? Lean in to, "Don't Hang up the Cape".

In this podcast, we'll discuss leadership and lordship. At what point in your leadership could you start to lord over God's people as if you own them? Lordship is self-serving and has no place in the Kingdom. If you honorably steward God's resources (people), then God will send you more. Let's get back to leading God's wonderful people with love.

Battle scars can be fatal, but battle-tested can be helpful. In this podcast, we'll explore how to turn your scars into badges of honor. As time passes, you become a highly decorated soldier of the cross. Keep leading, keep marching; you are doing well, my friend.

How do you see the people you lead/pastor? Do you have an employee relationship or a customer relationship? This podcast will challenge you to look into the mirror of your leadership/influence and see how you score. Leadership is being honest with ourselves and making adjustments along the way. 

Have you ever felt like no one notices you? You work hard, give your best, and wonder if you're making a difference. In this podcast, we'll explore that very thought and feeling. But the simple answer is, yes, you are making a difference.

Have you ever wondered why churches are different sizes? We all believe and preach the same doctrine and subscribe to the same biblical truths, but we are all different when it comes to attendance/membership. In this podcast, we'll discuss some potential reasons why.

In this podcast, we'll define the pitfalls of complaining and help you create a communication culture. Complaining is toxic, divisive, and demoralizing. How do you move the volunteers from complaining to communicating? Lean in and take notes.

Have you ever thought... it's hard to grow a church with our UPCI standards and beliefs? In this podcast, we'll debunk that and prove you can grow an Apostolic church in the 21st century, preaching and teaching our distinctives.

Sometimes, the boundaries (fences) in our lives may seem restrictive. But what if those lines in the sand are here for our protection? In this podcast, we'll explore how to process those fences positively and learn the secret of freedom within the fences.

Good leaders are committed to quality and completion. This is where you start to move away from the pack. Master these, and you'll be unstoppable for the Kingdom. In this podcast, we unpack these principles and set you up for success.

We are happy to have a special guest, Tim Zuniga, with us. He pastors a growing Apostolic church in the greater metro Nashville area. His energy and passion is contagious. Let's lean in as he inspires us to lead our teams.

What makes a good sermon? What should you look for when creating a sermon, and how should you lay it out for results? In this podcast, we'll explore some key elements to help improve sermons.

Amidst the desolate landscape of fallen great leaders/minister, you may wonder: How do the mighty fall? In this podcast, we'll discuss some guardrails to help prevent a fall and see it far enough in advance.

Are you always the smartest in the room? If so, learn how the change rooms to get better. In this podcast, we'll explore the path to the next room.

As generations come and go, we must ensure we have leaders ready to step up. Who is going to take the place of the current leaders when their time ends? You, my friend. Keep investing in yourself.

Some leaders are high-capacity leaders but may not lead at their God-given level. In this podcast, we'll deep dive into both vital aspects of a leader... their capacity and capability. Where do you rank in Matt 25 with your talents?

Ever wonder how some people do it, and others seem to flounder? In this podcast, we'll explore the answer to that question. Be the one that rises above and finishes strong.

In sports, there's always a wave of up-and-coming players to replace the current superstars. These young players are in the batting cages daily, working on their technique and honing their skills to play in the big leagues someday. So what about in ministry? Who will replace the aging heroes in our movement? It's the young leader that is staying focused and ready to be called up. In this podcast, we'll explore what that means to you as you wait for your number to be called.

A simple plan to rise up and lead. In this podcast, we'll explore four key steps to help young leaders lead. If you master these areas, you're heading to greatness and value as a leader.

The Sunday after Easter is usually not the same attendance as Easter. In this podcast, we'll explore eight tips on the guest follow-up—focusing on that guest card and how to get them to turn it in. Data is king, so that card is valuable to church growth. Be strategic and intentional.

Preparing for growth requires us to prepare for guests. No guest, no growth. So, how do you frame the guest experience at your church? In this podcast, I would suggest you are intentional and strategic. Do you're best, and God will deliver.

How do you balance life? Juggling work, home, and church. All three demand our best and our time, but how can one properly balance life and be a winner in each area? This podcast will explore how to focus on balance and be fulfilled in life strategically.

When you violate Act 15:28, you're setting yourself up for regrets. Let's do this together to help find YOU, the will of God.

How do pastors and ministers process rejection? People leave the church, reject your Godly counsel and accuse you of things you never did. Navigating the journey as a minister can, at times, be overwhelming. In this podcast, Danielle helps guide us from a biblical and clinical angle to stay healthy.

What would you come up with if you could boil leadership down to four things? In this podcast, Tim Zuniga brings four things to cultivate in your leaders.

Why is it that when others have a time of harvest, we often conclude they're letting down on the gospel and standards? Is that just a critical spirit to justify why you're not growing? Check out this podcast for my thoughts.

There is balance in everything. Too often, we can prioritize what an Apostolic church is all about and overlook some simple priorities in growing a church. So, how do you balance holiness, the new birth, and the oneness to friendliness?

Who do you allow to ask you the hard questions about YOU? Who helps manage YOU from the inside out? In this podcast, we'll discover ten hard questions someone needs to be able to ask us anytime.

Did you ever wonder why people follow you? I've narrowed it down to three reasons. In this podcast, we'll explore how to move to the best reason people follow.

The return of the church in a post-pandemic era has been rocky. So after 15 months of streaming, how do we get the church to return? In this episode, we'll explore what they can't get at home.

This podcast will explore the ongoing structure in a leaders life.

Bill Hybels has always said, "when the leader wins, everyone wins." In this podcast, we'll explore how you can consistently win. How do we coach ourselves for long-term wins?

You get better as a leader when you invest in yourself. Excellent and growing leaders are always self-improving. Join us in this podcast as we explore ways to self improve.

In this podcast, we'll explore a concise plan and strategy to maximize your Easter through Mother's Day. It's all about getting the guests to return.

What's in your playbook to keep the Great Commission alive. How many TD's have you scored for the Kingdom? Join this podcast and get a new perspective on the Great Commission.

As the haze from the pandemic begins to lift, make sure you're on course for 2021 with plans to restart the church.

Time is a precious commodity. We all have the same amount. It's how you structure your team tasks and communication that helps make up time. This podcast will give you a new look at team communication.

Church growth starts with one key element. Once mastered, you'll see immediate growth. Listen in for the silver bullet to church growth.

This episode explores the lessons I learned from a FBI Hostage Negotiator at a leadership conference I attended.

Are you bring your "A Game" every week, or are there some weeks you're leading with your "B or C Game?" In this session, you're learn how to deliver service at the highest level possible during the pandemic.

Are you delegating or empowering your leaders? What's the difference and how do I implement a culture of empowerment?

After you cast your vision, who in your organization helps connect the dots so you can keep dreaming?

Staying connected with youth during COVID-19. Connecting points from Student Pastor Nolan Graham.

How to create a temporary shelter in place budget to forecast your monthly expenses during COVID-19.

The closer you get to a leader, the more you see their inadequacies and shortcomings. Do you protect and help or expose and exploit?