Other People’s Lives

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Other People's Lives is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Check out https://www.squarespace.com/OPL to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code OPL. This week Joe and Greg speak with a man who is a registered sex offender and spent time in jail for being in possession of illegal materials. He claims that he has been completely rehabilitated, and Joe and Greg challenge whether this is true or not. The man also explains what he thinks if the best path for sex offenders and pedophiles to be provided resources for the best chance at rehabilitation. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

New customers visit https://Huel.com/OPL today and use code OPL to get 15% off your first order plus a Free Gift. Head to https://www.squarespace.com/opl to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code OPL. Go to https://brooklynbedding.com and use code OPL at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions at https://RocketMoney.com/OPL This week we speak with a woman who chooses to be a domestic slave/sub. She is in a relationship with a man who controls every aspect of her life. She must ask permission for everything and he decides what she can and can't do, who she can communicate with, and what happens if she breaks the rules. She even had to ask permission to be on this podcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Head to https://www.squarespace.com/opl to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code OPL. Shop SKIMS Mens at https://SKIMS.com and SKIMS stores, select "podcast" in the survey and select “Other People's Lives” in the dropdown menu that follows. This week we are speaking to man who is addicted to role-play and romantically speaking with Ai chatbots. He has a girlfriend, but she has no idea about his addiction. He explains why he gets more pleasure and satisfaction from Ai than he does his real life partner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Go to https://brooklynbedding.com and use code OPL at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions at https://RocketMoney.com/OPL This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self New customers visit https://Huel.com/OPL today and use code OPL to get 15% off your first order plus a Free Gift. This week we speak to a man who is in six-figure debt with the Italian mafia. He talks about how he got involved with the mob, what it's like to be in debt, the threats they have made and what happens when you don't pay. For obvious reasons he has chosen to remain anonymous and his voice has been altered. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by https://BetterHelp.com Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Shop SKIMS Mens at https://SKIMS.com and select podcast and Other People's Lives in the survey after you place your order. Visit https://Huel.com/OPL today and use code OPL to get 15% off your first order plus a Free Gift. This week, Joe Santagato and Greg Dybec speak with a man who has herpes and purposely does not disclose the info to women. They talk about his actions, why they are wrong, and whether or not he thinks he will ever change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Go to https://AquaTru.com and enter code OPL at checkout for 20% off. This episode is sponsored by https://BetterHelp.com Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. This week, Joe Santagato and Greg Dybec speak with a woman who knows her husband is actively cheating on her with prostitutes. Her husband denies it even though she has proof. She explains why she hasn't left her husband and remains by her side. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Head to https://prizepicks.onelink.me/LME0/OPL to download the PrizePicks app and get $50 instantly after you play your first $5 lineup. This week Joe Santagato and Greg Dybec speak with a woman who talks about her traumatic childhood as the daughter of a meth dealer who trafficked her children out to strangers. She discusses her earliest memories and the moment she was taken from her family. She also discusses how she was able to escape going down a similar path and why she was the only sibling to avoid death or prison as an adult. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Got to https://alphaprogression.com/OPL to get 20% off your first payment. Shop SKIMS Mens at https://SKIMS.com and select podcast and Other People's Lives in the survey after you place your order. Receive 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier at https://AquaTru.com when you enter code “OPL“ at checkout. This episode is sponsored by https://BetterHelp.com Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. This week we speak to a man who is an active Jehovah's Witness but also a closeted gay man. He's struggling between the choice to live life as an openly gay man or stay celibate and part of his religious community. He knows he can only choose one lifestyle. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Go to https://cookunity.com/OPL or enter code OPL before checkout for 50% off your first week. Head over to https://Manscaped.com and use code OPL for 20% off + free shipping. For the season finale we speak with a woman who has a virginity kink. She talks about why body count matters so much to her and she has a preference for men with little to no experience. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Go to https://zbiotics.com/OPL to learn more and get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. This week we speak with a professional Dom named Mistress Scarrlett who specializes in trampling and degrading men. She talks about the business and how she learned her particular set of skills. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Get 20% off + free shipping with the code OPL at https://Manscaped.com This week we speak to a woman attended a controversial fat camp and weight loss school for children. She talks about why isn't wasn't effective and sheds light on the abusive behavior and rules of the camp. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Go to https://zbiotics.com/OPL to learn more and get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. Go to https://cookunity.com/OPL or enter code OPL before checkout for 50% off your first week. This week we speak with a woman who is in a relationship but hasn't told her partner that she is actually a trans woman. She explains why she fears telling the truth. She also talks about her decision to transition and why she lives a stealth lifestyle and doesn't even talk to her family anymore. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we speak with a man who is part of the Bator Bro community. This is a community of men who openly m*sturbate with each other but many identify as straight. They claim it's about bonding and transparency and male friendship Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Go to https://zbiotics.com/OPL to learn more and get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to https://RocketMoney.com/OPL Today we speak with Jeff Frazier. Jeff is a decorated Army veteran and has served as a founder or leader within several Haiti based NGOs that have driven measurable progress in Haiti. Jeff has experience working within Haiti to fight child trafficking, and assist in projects in reforestation, water and food security, education and infrastructure deployment aimed at improving the quality of life for the neediest Haitian communities. During a food distribution mission, Jeff was kidnapped by a Haitian gang and held for 43 torturous days. This experience served to further his resolve to help Haitians rescue themselves from the ruthless gangs holding them captive and provide them with the tools to maintain their freedoms. Check out Jeff's work and his own podcast at https://stimpack.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Go to https://cookunity.com/OPL or enter code OPL before checkout for 50% off your first week. This week we speak with a minister who claims that he regularly casts out demons from possessed people and performs miracles such as removing people's cancer, giving people the ability to walk and more. We dive into his work and experiences and discuss the perception of evangelical megachurches. We talk about how much money he makes and why he believes ministers deserve to live comfortable, luxurious lives, too. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Go to https://cookunity.com/OPL or enter code OPL before checkout for 50% off your first week. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to https://RocketMoney.com/OPL This week we speak with a man known as a bull. A bull is someone who sleeps with other men's wives. Sometimes this involves the husbands and sometimes it doesn't. The guest talks about how he got into this lifestyle, how it works, why he likes it so much, and why boundaries and rules are so important. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we speak to a woman who, as a child, decided to speak up about her own grandpa molesting her and other family members. Her actions landed her grandfather in prison. She also talks about why she decided to forgive him while he was on his deathbed. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Download the PrizePicks app today at https://prizepicks.onelink.me/LME0/OPLand use code OPL to get $50 instantly after you play your first $5 lineup! This week we speak with a woman who believes her Grandmother killed her parents when she was young. She talks about all the evidence she has compiled and how she has worked with authorities to try to close the cold case. She is hoping to bring awareness to the case to eventually get it solved. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Go to https://zbiotics.com/OPL to learn more and get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. Go to https://cookunity.com/OPL or enter code OPL before checkout for 50% off your first week. To kick off the new season we speak with a woman whose song went viral on TikTok. She talks about how her life changed, the money she made, how she navigated record labels and business sharks, and her plans for the future. Check out Limbo and her music at: https://www.instagram.com/youknowlimbo/ If you'd like to be on our show, we'd love to have you! Send an email to oplpodcast@gmail.com or visit www.oplshow.com we'll be in touch if your story is a fit for the show. • Join Our Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/oplshow • OPL Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/oplpodcast Follow Joe & Greg: Joe Santagato (@joesantagato) Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/joesantagato/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/joesantagato Greg Dybec (@gregdybec) Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gregdybec Twitter - https://twitter.com/gregdybec Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For this season's finale we speak with a man who encourages his wife to sleep with other men. He talks about the rules and boundaries, how it affected his previous marriage, and why he's trying not again with his new partner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Experience chef-quality meals every week delivered right to your door. Go to https://cookunity.com/OPL or enter code OPL before checkout for 50% off your first week. This week we speak with Jeff Xavier, a man who survived the deadly pulse nightclub shooting in 2016 that claimed the lives of 49 people and injured 53. Jeff talks about that night, how he survived, and the friends he lost. He also talks about how he has dealt with the trauma since the shooting. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Go to https://zbiotics.com/OPL to get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. ZBiotics is backed with 100% money back guarantee. This week we speak to a woman who was in a loving six year relationship with a man, until the night everything changed. She shares the story of how she found out he was a cannibal when she woke and he was trying to eat her. It's a wild story. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today Greg and Joe speak with a woman who was sex trafficked. She explains how she got a job as a massage worker from a man she thought wanted to be her boyfriend. Things turned dark quickly, and she talks about some of the horrible things she experienced before finding a way to escape and start a new life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Go to https://zbiotics.com/OPL to get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. ZBiotics is backed with 100% money back guarantee. This week we speak with a woman who describes herself as a female incel. She explains why she has these feelings and talks about her involvement in online forums and the female incel community. Sponsor Other People's Lives: https://public.liveread.io/media-kit/opl Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Experience chef-quality meals every week delivered right to your door. Go to https://cookunity.com/OPL or enter code OPL before checkout for 50% off your first week. This week we speak to a woman who is addicted to parasocial relationships. She explains how these relationships began, the lengths she has gone to convince herself that she knows these people, and how she has tried to stop. We talk about the dangers of parasocial relationships, how the internet fuels them, and talk about Joe and Greg's own experiences with it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Go to https://zbiotics.com/OPL to get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. ZBiotics is backed with 100% money back guarantee. This week we speak to a woman who is in the middle of an affair with her bosses husband. Her boss doesn't know and neither does her partner or kids. She talks about why she made this decision, the weight of guilt, and figuring out how to move forward knowing it could blow up her entire family and career. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Try BlueChew FREE when you use our promo code OPL at checkout at https://bluechew.com - just pay $5 shipping. This week we speak to a man who went through Mormon gay conversion therapy. He talks about the process he went through to “become straight,” why he eventually left therapy, and how he has decided to live his life since. Sponsor Other People's Lives: https://public.liveread.io/media-kit/opl Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Try BlueChew FREE when you use our promo code OPL at checkout at https://bluechew.com - just pay $5 shipping This week we spoke with a woman who is afraid that her newborn son will grow up to be a bad person. She talks about how suffering at the hands of men and experience trauma has caused her to feel this way. She also talks about how she is working through her fear and trauma. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Go to https://zbiotics.com/OPL to get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. ZBiotics is backed with 100% money back guarantee. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Experience chef-quality meals every week delivered right to your door. Go to https://cookunity.com/OPL or enter code OPL before checkout for 50% off your first week. This week we speak with a man who is a traveling erotic massage therapist. He shares how he got into the business and grew it to be a profitable venture. He also shares some of the most memorable and strange moments and what he learned traveling the country and meeting strangers. This guest's voice has been altered to preserve anonymity. If you'd like to be on our show, we'd love to have you! Send an email to oplpodcast@gmail.com or visit www.oplshow.com we'll be in touch if your story is a fit for the show. • Join Our Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/oplshow • OPL Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/oplpodcast Follow Joe & Greg: Joe Santagato (@joesantagato) Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/joesantagato/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/joesantagato Greg Dybec (@gregdybec) Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gregdybec Twitter - https://twitter.com/gregdybec Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Go to https://zbiotics.com/OPL to get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. ZBiotics is backed with 100% money back guarantee.  Visit https://BlueChew.com and use promo code OPL to receive your first month FREE. This week, for our season finale, we speak with a woman who admits to having uncontrollable incest fantasies. She explains how this affects her daily life and she is working to combat it through therapy and other measures. This is the first time she's spoken in depth about this. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we speak with a woman who has a severe case of misophonia. Misophonia is self-diagnosed chronic condition in which a person experiences autonomic arousal to certain innocuous or repetitive sounds. This can include chewing, clicking, and more. Our guests talks about how severely it affects her daily life. Many people may experience misophonia but not realize there's a name for it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Experience chef-quality meals every week delivered right to your door. Go to https://cookunity.com/OPL or enter code OPL before checkout for 50% off your first week. This week we speak with a man who needs to get a secret off his chest. He tells the story of how he slept with his best friend's wife years ago and never told anyone. He discusses how it happened, why he did it, and how it still affects him to this day. He hopes talking about it on the show can help lift a weight off his shoulders. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we speak with someone with objectophilia - which involves romantic and sexual attraction to specific objects. Also known as objectum-sexuality. He explains how he first devleoped these feelings and what objects he is most attracted to. Go to https://zbiotics.com/OPL to get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. ZBiotics is backed with 100% money back guarantee. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we speak with a woman about her severe porn addiction. She reached out because porn addiction is rarely discussed from the female perspective. She discussed how her addiction began, how it has affected her everyday life and relationship, and how she working to overcome it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Other People's Lives is sponsored by Better Help. Visit https://BetterHelp.com/opl today to get 10% off your first month. This week we have the honor of speaking with Madison Baloy, a terminal cancer patient who is determined to get the most out of her remaining time. Madison shares her story of being diagnosed as well as her bucket list video that viral and had led to an incredible series of events and support from strangers and celebrities around the world. This is one of the most inspiring conversations we've had on the show and we're excited for you to hear it. You can find Madison(@fruitsnackmaddy) here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fruitsnackmaddy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fruitsnackmaddy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Other People's Lives is sponsored by Better Help. Visit https://BetterHelp.com/opl today to get 10% off your first month. This week we speak with a woman who is actively being stalked by two men! She talks about when it started, how it's progressed, and how she continues to live her life despite constantly being in fear of these men. She also provides protection tips for anyone who may be having a similar experience. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we speak with a young paramedic about the reality and trauma of her job. She talks about the unimaginable situation of having to choose who to save and who to ignore and discusses why she ultimately loves the job.  Head to https://airdoctorpro.com and use promo code OPL you'll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers!  Go to https://zbiotics.com/OPL to get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. ZBiotics is backed with 100% money back guarantee s Experience chef-quality meals delivered right to your door by going to https://cookunity.com/OPL or enter code OPL before checkout for 50% off your first week. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we speak with a gay man who intentionally seeks out and seduces straight men who have wives or girlfriends with the hopes of ruining their relationships. He explains why he started doing this, how it became an obsession for him, and why he feels no remorse for his actions.  OPL listeners receive 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to https://AquaTru.com and enter code “OPL” at checkout. This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To start our new season, we speak with a woman with synesthesia - specifically Lexical Gustatory Synesthesia - a condition that allows her to actually taste words. She explains how different words have different tastes and when she began to notice this condition was not the norm for most people.Head to https://ZBiotics.com/OPL and use the code OPL at checkout for 15% off.Get started with EveryPlate starting at just $1.49 per meal PLUS $1 steaks for life by going to https://EveryPlate.com/podcast and entering code 49OPL Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For the season finale we speak with a woman who is turned on by her husband sleeping with other women. She refers to it as "hot husbanding," since she's not even present for it. She just likes to hear about it after and sometimes re-enact it. Head to https://factormeals.com/opl50 and use code opl50 to get 50% off. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/OPL and get on your way to being your best self. Head to https://airdoctorpro.com and use promo code OPL and receive UP TO $300 off This week we speak to a man who talks openly about his childhood and how his parents and family members groomed him to be racist. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Go to https://zbiotics.com/OPL to get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. To get 15% off your next gift, go to https://uncommongoods.com/OPL. Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal PLUS $1 steaks for life by going to https://EveryPlate.com/podcast and entering code 49OPL This week we speak to a woman who was once part of the dangerous online pro-anorexia community. She talks about how she was first introduced to the community, how she fell victim to it and how she was able to move on. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we speak with a man who identifies as straight, but has had sex with thousands of men behind his wife's back. Buckle up for this convo and let us know what you think in the comments. Go to https://zbiotics.com/OPL to get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. To get 15% off your next gift, go to https://uncommongoods.com/OPL.  Head to https://factormeals.comopl50 and use code opl50 to get 50% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/OPL and get on your way to being your best self. Head to https://aquatru.com and use code OPL to grab 20% off your purifier. We spoke to a woman who is into Age Play with her partners. She is also a mother and age plays at the same age as her daughter. We talk all about that and other kinks. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We speak with a woman who has severe androphobia - the fear of men. she explains how her phobia was developed, how it impacts her daily life, and why she has so much anxiety and fear of all men she comes across. Head to https://airdoctorpro.com and use promo code OPL and receive UP TO $300 off To get 15% off your next gift, go to https://uncommongoods.com/opl Get a meal for $1.49 PLUS $1 steaks by going to https://EveryPlate.com/podcast and entering code 49OPL Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We spoke with a woman about her extreme domestic abuse. She talks about red flags, how the relationship changed, and how she was ultimately kidnapped and held hostage at gun point. She also explains how she was able to escape and why the justice system has failed her. Go to zbiotics.com/OPL to get 15% off your first order when you use OPL at checkout. ZBiotics is backed with 100% money back guarantee. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Other People's Lives is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit https://BetterHelp.com/OPL today to get 10% off your first month. This week we speak to a woman who shares her honest feelings about motherhood. She talks about why she hates being a mom and why it's such a taboo topic to talk about Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we get a sneak peek inside a secret NYC s*x club. We speak with a woman who works there about how these secret clubs operate, what really goes down, and why most of us don't even know they exist. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we speak with Jon Romano. When Jon was 16 years old he walked into his high school with a shotgun and ended up shooting a teacher. He served 17 years in prison and now speaks out about his past to help raise awareness for gun violence in schools. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we speak with a man who left his wife of 7 years for her sister, who happens to be married to his best friend. Talk about a wild dynamic around the Thanksgiving table. Our guest walks us through this crazy story and how it all happened and how it has worked out for everyone involved. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices